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My argument is most of the men here think they are not abusive and think they are good people. But the reality is that they are vindictive, bitter, cruel, vicious, snarky, hypergamous, excessively picky, and angry people. They believe that because they are timid and meek in public, not super convention attractive, and possibly are on the spectrum that this somehow translates into goodness. The reality is that they are just a different flavor of abuse. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZtklUsMvir/ …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:16 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaQr47GN547/ Most of the guys here are like this. They just are quieter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:09 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaQr47GN547/ Most of the men here behave like this guy. They are toxic, but less overtly toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:08 AM
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Most of the men here think they aren’t bad guys but are truly terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:05 AM
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https://youtu.be/i4VMM7Cc42w Most of the men here are some version of this guy and shit on women and are a pain to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:05 AM
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Most of the men here aren’t moral at all. They think “I am a good man, why don’t women like me?” But the reality is that they aren’t good men. They are vindictive and bitter men. They are cruel men, and they paint their own gender as sociopaths. They only think they are good because they are timid and don’t hit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:00 AM
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They literally said that women don’t let people grow and they are Australian. They aren’t Indonesian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:06 PM
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There’s a spectrum between aloof and showering with attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:18 PM
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This sounds like men are sociopaths and give and withdraw attention rather than just standing to the side. Men always like to paint themselves in a horrible light.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:24 PM
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Yes in real life most women don’t pursue a man who is showing no interest. The exceptionally handsome man is exceptionally handsome. Most men are not uniquely handsome outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:21 PM
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Thank you!!! Men don’t like accountability!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:15 PM
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Boy Scouts isn’t removed. It exists. It’s just called “scouts”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:26 PM
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And my claim is that you’re making excuses for bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:26 PM
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Whataboutism. This is a group of “alpha males” who have an “alpha male bootcamp” which is cringe in it of itself. Then they are running around saying women stop growth. There is no meme of “femcel bootcamp”. Women aren’t gathering to shit on women. If this was like a “men’s retreat” with no mention of how bad women are, no one would care. And the article is based on reddit comments. Not IRL interviews. The guy doesn’t even confirm that all the users who wrote the comments in the thread are women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:23 PM
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Only in the male imagination. In real life, if a woman thinks a man isn’t interested or that he doesn’t notice her, she either won’t notice him at all or will assume he’s disinterested and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:20 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:18 PM
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“Scouts” exist because Girl Scouts usually doesn’t have a major emphasis on outdoor survival skills or camping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:15 PM
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Your question was “and this is not true because?” It’s not true. Women are not stopping people from growing. Thats a vicious claim to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:14 PM
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There are plenty of male spaces. Op posted a space where men shat on women and wanted to be alpha males.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:21 AM
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Stop your silly lies. It’s bigotry to say that an entire gender doesn’t allow for personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:19 AM
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Stop self victimizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:18 AM
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You replied to me on my comment. Perhaps reply to them instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:00 AM
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Where did I talk about rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:48 AM
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See? So the issue isn’t that women are mad about a men’s only space. The issue is that men shat on women and women responded. And men called it misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:27 AM
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> cherry picked These are how men talk every day. Men are not into women. Men are cruel to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:25 AM
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https://www.scouting.org We do still have it. It just includes girls now because girls wanted to go camping too. Men are always looking to self-victimize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:41 AM
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And I am focusing on both my topic and OP’s post. OP’s article is also based on women’s Reddit comments and not any irl interviews of women. Furthermore, ON A COMPLETELY UNRELATED TOPI, it is hard to see men as human when men go online and: passionately defend stringing a woman along for sexual access under the guise of “well she never asked me if this relationship was serious or not”, Make posts about how sugar babies charge too much money and are too picky (when they are sex workers and can ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:15 AM
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Changing the subject. OP’s post was bad faith and the men there were attacking women. It wasn’t like a men’s prayer group or a men’s hiking club.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:30 AM
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Did you even read the article? These men say women don’t let people grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:12 AM
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<image> Because they are posting shit like this and claiming to be alpha only. They straight up say women don’t let people grow. There are tons of mens groups. Women don’t care if you have a mens group. It’s bad faith to play victim when a group of men collectively shit on women and women respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:44 AM
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Oh that’s because it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:02 PM
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It’s true though. Men like variety. Men would love to have a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:02 PM
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I am saying that it isn’t projection to say men want threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:54 PM
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I don’t see where I said it’s selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:53 PM
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No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:02 PM
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Proof that men are less lazy? Because they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:58 PM
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It’s the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:55 PM
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No. Men discriminate against women over 25 and women who are fat and women who are western all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:52 PM
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I can’t link here because linking is not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:43 PM
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It’s not progressive to enter relationships with a bisexual person with the hopes of having threesomes but I am glad men admit that this is the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:25 PM
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They would be willing because they want threesomes and aren’t threatened by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:24 PM
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Because men want threesomes and don’t view other women as a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:19 PM
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Not having sex is not terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:36 AM
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Yeah but a starving dog is a distressing and terrible outcome no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:21 PM
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Instead of starvation, compare it to a dog sleeping on the bed. Some dogs sleep on the bed next to their owners. Other dogs aren’t even allowed in the owner’s bedroom. Many dogs may want to sleep next to their owners in bed. But they have to sleep in a dog bed in the hallway instead. The dog may be kind of sad/ disappointed. But the dog isn’t going to suffer greatly as a result. Capiche?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:21 PM
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I think most men generally dislike most women and hold them to contempt. Most men know not to say this out loud in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:08 AM
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<image> Here’s how your fellow man describes women. Using his words, there are no good apples, jimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:30 PM
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Do you truly think humanity will die out? Like we will always have humans unless there is some sort of end times/ apocalyptic event or series of events.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:05 AM
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Most men don’t. Men freely give their attention to young and beautiful women. They don’t freely give their attention to anyone else. Tinder swipes and being used as a hole by strangers on the internet isn’t validation nor love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:04 AM
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No personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:03 AM
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What an odd answer. You can just not date the women who make you wait instead of playing games and waiting to seemingly punish them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:05 PM
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😂 how are you supposed to know if the guy is just pretending to be disinterested or if he actually is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:13 PM
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Most of the time, if he isn’t showing interest he isn’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:33 PM
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You literally say he’s consistent, checking in regularly, spending time with her, and listening. That is how you act when you’re into someone. Meanwhile you didn’t talk to her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:26 PM
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By would I want to talk to a guy who is not indicating interest in me? Usually he simply isn’t interested. Why push it? Because he mays secretly have a crush? There is another guy right there who obviously is into me and takes me seriously. I choose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:17 PM
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No it doesn’t. Showing effort isn’t showing casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:42 PM
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Showing that you care, being present, and being consistent are basic relationship requirements and values. Aloofness looks like disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:34 PM
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Men choose women who don’t like them very much based on appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:33 PM
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What a bizarre answer. He showed that he liked her. He showed that he cared. Shyness and reservation look like disinterest. Consistently showing up shows you care because you consistently see them. Checking in shows that you care. Spending time with someone is a basic requirement. Gradually becoming a part of their life is a basic relationship flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:33 PM
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College isn’t the only place that exists in the world. If op wanted to exclusively focus on college campuses and people ages 18-25, then he should have said so. The average age is pushing 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:50 PM
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These guys weren’t college students. One was like 50, one was like 30 and obese, and one was maybe 25 and schizophrenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:48 AM
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Because these guys were like bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:13 AM
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Most men are adequately attractive to have a relationship and marriage with. Just because we aren’t willing to sleep with complete strangers doesn’t mean those men don’t pass the acceptable threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:32 AM
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Multiple men have said that men don’t owe women commitment. I have an entire thread where men insisted that it’s entitled and demanding to say “I am looking for marriage” on the first date. One guy said that good men find women who say “I am looking for a man to one day marry” creepy and entitled. Another man said that it’s transactional and said women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:46 AM
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It a woman approaches, then men will hold her to contempt. And “men don’t owe women commitment”, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:15 AM
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It doesn’t matter if the sex worker is unreasonable. She can charge whatever she wants. The market will decide if she gets paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:14 AM
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See? Women should not approach men. And no, women don’t think that these men think this way about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:37 AM
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It’s only common knowledge between men. Women are not as picky as men are. Men project their own pickiness onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:36 AM
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You made an entire post on it. Bro. And it’s not harassment. If you don’t like that I say it, then don’t answer. Replying indicates a wish to continue the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:35 AM
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They are unattractive and they still have major egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:59 PM
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Ok so then women shouldn’t approach. Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:57 PM
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Sexual assault isn’t just grabbing a woman behind the bush and raping her. He could have slapped her butt or tried to kiss her or something without her consent. Thats still assault even though it isn’t highly traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:57 PM
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Men will blame you and say that these men are probably incredibly hot which is why all that shitty stuff happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:54 PM
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You get offended that sugar babies charge a price that is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:53 PM
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Nope. I have seen some of the men who post here with that mindset and they are not attractive. Furthermore, thank you for proving women shouldn’t approach. Men will shame her for not picking an unattractive man to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:53 PM
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No I have seen some of the guys who post here about being approached and holding the women to contempt and they are not chads at all. They are quite unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:52 PM
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We had an entire post yesterday about a guy who said that men should use “Uggos” for casual sex so that they have an abundance mentality and can get their sexual urges met. A self-proclaimed 7/10 said he uses women who are a 4-6 for casual sex because he believes these women are beneath him. The overall sentiment of these men was “we don’t owe women honesty. We don’t need to tell them we think they are uggos”. Another guy was a passport bro who claimed that he would go to SEA and women would thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:46 PM
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<image> Example 1. “Only a small portion of men do this”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:23 PM
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She would likely not want sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:22 PM
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Sugar baby is a sex worker. A sugar baby is not an opportunistic romantic partner or a romance scammer. He’s literally going to sugar baby apps and paying for sex, attention, or companionship. That is sex work. They both know it’s a sugar baby partnership. The third world person trying to get a green card isn’t a sugar baby. They are opportunists/ romance scammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:24 PM
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That sounds like a shitty sense of humor. I wonder why men insist most of them are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:07 AM
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All sex work is dangerous and a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:05 AM
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Most men expect their wives to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:28 PM
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Yikes. That sounds depraved. Good thing we women have internet and know men think this way without even leaving our homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:28 PM
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Op claims to be a 7 and he is bragging about smashing and dashing “uggo” women who are a 4-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:27 PM
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Lying by omission is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:23 PM
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I think she would want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:23 PM
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It constantly happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:36 PM
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Based on what men say to women CONSTANTLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:36 PM
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No that’s just a summary of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:27 PM
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Using “Uggos” for sex and coercing them by lying about your intentions is sociopath and cold and calculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:27 PM
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It isn’t a current prostitution exchange either because they have intermingled multiple other aspects of life together and cohabitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:26 PM
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Do these women know you think this way about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:20 PM
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Men consider the bottom 80% of women to be uggos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:18 PM
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See? Men are sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:18 PM
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See? Men describe men as delusional sociopaths. Why should a mediocre looking woman be easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:17 PM
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You describe men as cold and calculating sociopaths then get mad when I say men are cold and calculating sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:16 PM
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You go to sex workers and recently made a post complaining that the prices are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:12 PM
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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/sexual-coercion Lying is sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:11 PM
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Why do women need to give a reason for rejecting a man???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:11 PM
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Didn’t you write a bunch of comments to me saying that women shouldn’t expect commitment or communicate a desire for it on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:09 PM
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You literally have an entire post saying men should use “uggos” for casual sex. Do these women know men call them “Uggos”? Your post proves me correct. Men are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:07 PM
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Does she know he calls her an uggo?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:05 PM
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And yet when I say this, I get called a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:05 PM
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If women say that they offer this, men will put them down and say it’s worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:03 PM
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Yes. You describe them as uptight and overly anxious about basic communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:55 PM
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No it isn’t. He’s auditioning. She can choose to reject him and say he’s not a good fit for the role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:48 PM
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That’s exactly how you portray men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:47 PM
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She isn’t saying she wants to the guy. At all. She is saying she’s looking for a husband. If he’s a shitty husband or loser or whatever, then obviously won’t want to see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:44 PM
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No it’s not. At all. It’s not 2004. People talk about what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:32 PM
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Men do think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:31 PM
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It’s only okay if you’re both on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:30 PM
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How you portray men: Woman: “I sure am happy in this relationship with this guy! I love him and hope to marry him one day!!!” Man: “how dare that stupid bitch think this way 😡 😡 😡 I just am going to keep her around for sex and attention. I have no intention of marrying her and I refuse to say anything. 😡 😡 😡”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:26 PM
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How you portray men and their thinking process: Man: “what are you looking for during this date” Woman: “I am looking for a long term relationship that leads to marriage” Man: “she must be planning to marry me, stupid bitch!!! 😡 😡 😡”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:22 PM
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Nope. I agree that men think this way and since men created this market, men need to respect how women navigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:20 PM
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It’s not sociopathic nor inane. They are paying a sex worker. Even if she doesn’t have sex or send pornography, there is a sexual context. She is not a charity, a food pantry, or church. She isn’t obligated to charge prices based on wholesome values. The Johns she is seeing aren’t innocent, pure, lonely men just trying to get a woman to love. Usually they are also shitty and opportunistic. If she charges a certain price, her customers will dictate if the price is too high. If she has customers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:17 PM
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I didn’t say she shouldn’t have asked. I am saying he was being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:13 PM
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Not without getting married. Without an intention of getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:13 PM
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Yikes on bikes. I would rather lose men then have a relationship that goes nowhere with a man who doesn’t intend to marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:12 PM
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Yes. You literally have sit there and think: Would this man make a good husband? Would he make a good father? Is he responsible? Will he help me if I get sick? Will he treat me well? Does he have a temper? Is he respectful or not? Does he have any mental health issues? Is he bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:11 PM
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It’s not desperate. If her prices are too high, she simply won’t get customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:37 PM
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It’s a fantasy because only a tiny portion of sex workers aren’t actually engaging in sex (intercourse, oral, etc). Most of them have to do sexual stuff to get the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:24 PM
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In the beginning, yes. The person is a stranger or a friend who you’re trying to evaluate as a potential life partner. Self sacrifice and major life decisions and forgiving things only comes once after marriage or a serious LTR is established.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:17 PM
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Thank you I thought you were jumping in to put down women sorry 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:12 PM
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Those are normal and sensible questions to ask yourself when looking for a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:27 PM
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These are normal and sensible questions to ask yourself when trying to select a potential life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:26 PM
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We have to think of ourselves, especially in the beginning stages of dating. Dating isn’t friendship where we can do acts of charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:26 PM
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It’s a fantasy to assume most sex workers aren’t having sex or that these men are being strung along. If sex doesn’t happen within a certain time frame, these women usually get dropped and the John will look for someone else. Some Johns may just want a girlfriend experience and validation, and may be okay with no intercourse. That isn’t manipulation either. They both agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:24 PM
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It’s not scamming people to charge an extremely high price for sex work. The price is there. Yes, it is sex work even if they don’t have sex or it’s dressed up a certain way. The market will determine if she is going to get paid that much or not. That isn’t “self centered and narcissistic”. She is literally prostituting herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:22 PM
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Even if the price is extremely high, these are sex workers. Sex workers can charge whatever they want. The John Market will determine if they will get paid that much or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:21 PM
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You’re delusional. Most men are happy with communication. I have had zero issues finding a relationship despite your essay denying that I would. If a woman has to dance around the topic of marriage and hide what she wants, then the guy is a major waste of time. Saying you’re looking for a husband isn’t pressuring anyone to get married. You have to realize these men are auditioning to be my husband and trying to prove they would make good husbands. No one is coercing them into marriage. Many men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:48 PM
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Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:47 PM
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No I am saying you describe a chubby woman as a glutton on the verge of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:47 PM
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Except for this guy was writing about how he was cruel and didn’t care and even portrayed himself as a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:46 PM
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Women do. Sex devalues us in the eyes of men. Any new partner should be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:45 PM
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Except for all they talk about is women and how bad they think women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:43 PM
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Why do you call chubby women “terminal food addicts”????
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:04 PM
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Yes MGTOW is also revenge and it’s mainstream. Women know men hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:53 AM
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Many men here expressed a desire for revenge. Even you express revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:27 AM
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Your post is bitter and mean spirited. Just because a relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean these women were reveling in your heartbreak. It also doesn’t justify your cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:26 AM
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You’re confusing a relationship where a woman is economically dependent on a man with one where she’s a prostitute. In your SAHM example, the husband is financially supporting a household, his spouse, and their shared children as part of an ongoing marriage. The money is not ordinarily calculated or conditioned on individual sex acts. She may fear losing her home, lifestyle, family structure, or financial security if the marriage ends, but that does not retroactively turn the entire marital arra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:24 AM
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If I go on a first date, I immediately tell the guy “I am looking for marriage.” If he isn’t, he can leave. It’s unbelievable how much rationalization men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:22 AM
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Was he truly unaware or was he just not willing to lose access to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:50 PM
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Why? I don’t have a definition. You make it very clear that the price is way too high for you, so that is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:49 PM
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You are equating “sex and money exist in a relationship” with “every relationship is a form of sex work”. Unfortunately most men make this mistake, and have a hard time differentiating between a SAHM and a SW. the SAHM is not being paid a salary for sex. They have a partnership that extends into shared finances, household and familial duties, and other shared obligations. The family has organized itself so that the man supports the family financially. He isn’t purchasing a sexual encounter. Her …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:49 PM
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That doesn’t mean it isn’t sexual for the guy. Clearly he’s paying attractive women to be with him, even if they aren’t having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:43 PM
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Yes he was taking advantage of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:43 PM
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The CIA used to do this to men in brothels. It’s called operation midnight climax.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:31 PM
3

Because sex work is a shady industry. The CIA used to use brothels to drug men and experiment on them using LSD and mind control tactics. It’s called operation midnight brothel. This is how SW works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:29 PM
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These women aren’t regular women who are paid for just existing. They are sex workers. Men are paying for their time, beauty, flattery, validation, attention etc if sex is off the table (in most cases, sex is involved).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:27 PM
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They are genuine sugar babies. They just cost too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:25 PM
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Not ending in marriage doesn’t mean that marriage ou weren’t searching for a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:00 PM
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So your point is irrelevant and you’re just shouting into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:53 PM
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All it takes is a young, hot coworker to flirt with him and he will be willing to ditch his family for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:42 PM
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Yes I am saying he should have communicated that she was just a casual girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:41 PM
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Most people are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:41 PM
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Nothing I said contradicts itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:40 PM
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Usually they are expected to do sexual stuff. And even if the sugar baby isn’t having sex, there is still a sexual element. The John/ Jane is paying for the time of a person they find sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:38 PM
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They are sex workers. It’s just sex work but it isn’t exactly direct prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:33 PM
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I mean that’s a pretty good way to get money without having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:26 PM
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They are sex workers. They can have whatever random standard they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:20 PM
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I didn’t say a relationship means commitment to marriage. But if you know you don’t want to marry that person, you should leave instead of wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:19 PM
1

That doesn’t provide a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:18 PM
1

Why do you think that affects anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:17 PM
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It doesn’t imply that at all. It just implies that you are looking for someone to marry. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:16 PM
1

He called her his girlfriend, not friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:13 PM
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It’s still shitty to not say anything. I didn’t say she should have not brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:12 PM
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🙄 you’re missing the point. If we are going to do it, we don’t gain anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:07 PM
1

Yes it’s the same vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:03 PM
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That sounds like you used them for sex and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:02 PM
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“You don’t owe people anything” applied to sex and men coercing women into sex because they believed that if they paid for a date, or went on a certain number of dates a woman has to open her pussy. It doesn’t mean you should be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:00 PM
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He doesn’t need to look for another woman. He just needs to have an opportunity that he finds attractive enough to monkey branch for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:48 PM
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It also rips off the woman. As op stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:47 PM
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You can just say “I’m hoping to find a wife” or “I just want a casual relationship for now” and check in every so often to make sure she is on the same page. But no, that may mean reducing sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:47 PM
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To certain men here, the relationship isn’t serious at all. And no, you can’t assume anything, but it’s a dick move if you don’t intend to marry and let someone assume that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:43 PM
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Nope. You asked about 2 entirely different situations. In my post, the guy was talking about his current relationship and how he mistreated and strung along his ex girlfriend so that he could have access to pussy. In your example, the woman isn’t mistreating and stringing along her boyfriend. She just isn’t disclosing past mistreatment. Men deeply envy women who were mistreated in past relationships because they want to be the ones who do the mistreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:18 PM
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Yes. Lying by omission. I am not saying she shouldn’t have asked. She is accountable. She left as soon as she figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:16 PM
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Condoms aren’t perfect We live in a world where sex devalues us. Sure in a completely different universe, things would be different. But we live on earth in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:16 PM
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What a strange and accusatory answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:11 PM
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Yikes. I hope she finds someone who isn’t stringing her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:10 PM
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If he wasn’t neurodivergent, then he should have known to at least talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:10 PM
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What is the first rule of this forum!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:08 PM
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Yes so you agree men are diabolical and your reason is because they want revenge on women for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:07 PM
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He didn’t talk about being uncertain. He was fairly certain that he didn’t want to be with her from the start. It’s important that women realize that men have this power, and abuse it because they are jealous we can go on tinder and get matches with randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:51 AM
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Which men call “beta bux” and a manipulation tactic. Also many men will still monkey branch and leave/ cheat on their wives if they are simply limited by what options are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:49 AM
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Interesting that you admit men hate the women they don’t commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:48 AM
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Exactly. You can hem and haw all you want about transactions and try to be self righteous, but the reality is that there are certain transactions that you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:47 AM
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I guarantee if sex was out of the picture, you would be whistling a different tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:08 AM
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It means being careful and yes, being suspicious. Suspicious doesn’t have to be cruel or rude or mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:04 AM
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Yes. And men get extremely jealous even though she likely didn’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:04 AM
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Yes because you’re a man you benefit from the uncommitted state with lots of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:02 AM
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Considering how nasty men can get and how powerful retroactive jealousy is, she should keep it a secret. Men will be jealous and want to hurt her the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:01 AM
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If he’s a psychopath, why do most men here say he’s good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:56 AM
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Men view relationships as prostitution. You said foul and disgusting things about women then repeated what I said. A serious relationship is one that is leading to marriage and a lifetime commitment. You even proved me correct by saying that is what you do with your wife. A marriage. A marriage or lifetime commitment. Aka a serious relationship led to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:56 AM
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I didn’t say she didn’t have agency. I simply said the guy is a bad guy and it’s eye opening how many men passionately defend him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:55 AM
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It’s a disgusting equivalence to make since sex devalues and degrades women (according to men) and is a risk for pregnancy, while friendship is neutral for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:49 AM
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Everyone is entitled to honesty and less nefariousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:01 AM
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So you agree that men are inferior in the sense that they don’t commit and are not loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:00 AM
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It’s sad that you view being a life partner in such a disparaging light.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:17 AM
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I think it’s more that you get benefits like consistent sex, and it’s against your favor to bring this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:16 AM
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Yes women are more committed and loyal than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:00 AM
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Considering that most men here are siding with the man, I think it’s a good idea for women to generalize and proceed accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:00 AM
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Anyone who isn’t neurodivergent will understand that taking her to meet your family generally communicates that you take her seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:59 PM
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It is. The woman is called ran through and considered chads leftovers by any future man she dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:49 PM
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They were each others main partners and they had permission to do kink stuff with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:48 PM
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You can communicate if you’re looking for a life partner or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:48 PM
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Why wouldn’t you bring it up without asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:47 PM
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I know. I am saying that he isn’t a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:43 PM
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Sex from men devalues us. We can get sex from anywhere. Why sleep with a guy who is stringing us along when we can just pick one who isn’t? Any man she sleeps with in the future will be jealous that he isn’t getting the same sex she gave the guy who strung her along. Now any future men will resent that a man who treated her worse got better treatment. Thats a curse unto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:42 PM
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It’s diabolical because the guy gained a lot: consistent sex and validation for a year, and a woman who cooked and did stuff around the house for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:38 PM
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Yes just because she didn’t ask doesn’t mean he is a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:31 PM
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Nope. A serious relationship is one that is leading to marriage/ lifetime commitment. He betrayed her by refusing to admit to her that he didn’t want her around for that long. Her not asking doesn’t make him innocent. A good person will tell the person who they are in a relationship with “hey I don’t plan to marry you” and other relevant information. Even if it means the other person will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:30 PM
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No most men are reasonably attractive to most women. Most women just are not getting horny for random men and men get angry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:29 PM
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Women provide sex, increased SMV/ RMV, validation, and housework to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:28 PM
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Except for he was doing serious things like taking her to meet his parents, cooking together, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:28 PM
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He lied by omission. She was content because she thought the relationship was serious when it wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:34 PM
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Yes it would be genuinely better because he didn’t spend a year misleading her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:33 PM
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This thread is proof. Most of the comments from men are making excuses and defending the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:33 PM
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Most men are reasonably attractive to most women. This doesn’t mean we walk around getting wet and flicking our beans to the thought of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:32 PM
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“She didn’t ask” isn’t an excuse to mislead someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:31 PM
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“She didn’t bring it up” isn’t an excuse. If there is relevant information, then they should share relevant information.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:52 PM
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If he wasn’t a bad person, he would want to make sure she isn’t being led on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:41 PM
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So you wouldn’t string her along like the guy in OOP did and expect her to bring it up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:39 PM
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I believe it too. Men have drilled into me that my value is my youth, beauty, and fertility. I can’t change how men think. I can protect myself from my value being wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:36 PM
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“She didn’t bring it up” isn’t an excuse to string someone along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:32 PM
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Women should know that men have zero moral issues with stringing them along and wasting their time. Because “she didn’t ask” is an excuse men make for lying by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:32 PM
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It’s not cheating but it’s wasting her time. “She should have brought it up” is not an excuse to be a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:31 PM
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Why not be honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:29 PM
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Sex is a gift women give to men. Because it decreases our value and is a risk for pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:28 PM
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I think it’s callous disregard. Not asking is not an excuse to leave out important information about the relationship. Even if she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:27 PM
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It is. That is what men say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:27 PM
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I agree. If it’s relevant, just say it. Even if it means they will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:26 PM
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I didn’t say this is against her will. A woman can get those benefits from another guy who is serious about her. I stated my intention to three women in a row. All three early relationships ended within a week of me stating my intentions. From now on, I'm not stating shit. That’s the point of stating your intentions. So you don’t hurt them and waste their time. It’s not so you can get pussy more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:24 PM
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I don’t think men and women are the same. I think men lack the same moral integrity and natural affections and empathy that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:23 PM
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This isn’t my friend, it’s a Redditor. And it’s not majorly her fault. It’s mostly his. This is like those relationships in high school where one person cheats on their boyfriend and justifies it by saying “well they never asked me to be exclusive”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:21 PM
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Why not just break up or communicate that you’re delaying marriage and questioning the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:17 PM
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Yeah because they are superficial and overlook his goodness and honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:17 PM
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Yes I agree he was using her and wasn’t a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:12 PM
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Yes I always thought they would be on top of communicating considering that their relationship is so unconventional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:12 PM
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It’s a year that she could have spent either with someone better or looking for someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:10 PM
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There is no problem to that. Women know they aren’t entitled to commitment or honesty. Women know men are nefarious and cruel. Women try to protect themselves and men accuse them of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:07 PM
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Even if she is formerly promiscuous, she should still wait. Regardless of what the guy thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:06 PM
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It’s diabolical to let someone spend an entire year under the impression that things are more serious than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:06 PM
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I am repeating what men say. I think women should read this and navigate life accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:05 PM
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Men are transactional first. I’m pointing out what she provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:05 PM
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I didn’t say anyone owes me anything. Not owing someone anything doesn’t justify being a sociopath and wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:04 PM
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Yes I think that is the right thing to do. My acquaintance had a FWB and he caught feelings for her. She told him she doesn’t want a relationship and she doesn’t want to hurt him. They amicably split up. While he was sad, he respected that she didn’t drag it on and hurt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:02 PM
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I think deep down, he knew if he told her that he isn’t serious and that the relationship is just for fun, she would leave and he would lose access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:00 PM
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You don’t have to intentionally hurt someone to do something really hurtful and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:00 PM
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No this is what men say a woman’s worth is based on. The other person who replied summed it up very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:59 PM
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You don’t need to specify every single woman on earth to generalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:16 PM
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I think there was a degree of intentionality there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:47 PM
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I didn’t say she was not responsible. I think that he was a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:47 PM
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That’s our value as women. We are called ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:47 PM
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They were boyfriend/ girlfriend not FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:46 PM
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Because men aren’t entitled to sex. It isn’t some nefarious rhetoric. Sex is an extremely vulnerable situation to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:45 PM
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They were in an exclusive kink/ open relationship. He just didn’t intend for it to be longer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:43 PM
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Me neither. But a bunch of men are insisting that it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:40 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:31 PM
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It’s not justified. It’s good men are honest though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:30 PM
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You were defending that guy. Time can go by fast, but communication is easy. It’s wrong to absolve yourself from any responsibility because “she didnt ask and time passes quickly”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
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It’s a waste of her youth, beauty, and fertility. It also decreases her value because her n count goes up and men have expectations around the n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:28 PM
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Lots of men were arguing that it’s her fault for not asking and that he did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:25 PM
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It was a relationship, but he didn’t intend for it to lead to marriage. It was just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:23 PM
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The guy wrote about how he was heartbroken that he wasn’t getting sex easily and that he would flirt with women and it would go nowhere. Furthermore, it’s misogynistic to claim that women don’t like honest good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:22 PM
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Women already know they aren’t entitled to a decent man. Most women understand that most men aren’t decent. Furthermore, men jump through hoops every day to remind us how worthless we are of decency (unless we are young and hot!). OP isn’t a decent man (in the context of the relationship he described. Maybe in other aspects of life he is decent). He presents himself as opportunistic and cruel (in the context of the relationship presented, not him as a person). Women need to navigate the world ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:26 PM
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Even if she didn’t make men wait in the past, look at the most recent post where a guy strung along his girlfriend for a year for casual sex. It benefits her to make any man wait in the future. Women aren’t free use just because they didn’t wait before and got burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:23 PM
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Yes. Contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:22 PM
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He introduced her to his family and he spent a year with her. I didn’t infantilize her. I think she shouldn’t have had sex in the first place and made it clear that she wants marriage. But he isn’t absolved from accountability. He isn’t a good person because he strung her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:28 PM
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Nobody is entitled to anything. But any decent man will communicate his intentions, especially if the signals he is sending are that he is more serious than he actually is. It’s amazing how many men are jumping to defend cruel behavior. The same sorts of men who claim most men are good. He may be neurodivergent and not understand this sort of stuff, and while that doesn’t magically make him excused, it does make him less of a bad person. But if he was stringing her along for sexual access, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:23 PM
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He’s accountable for misleading her. The only way this wasn’t willful is if he’s neurodivergent. He didn’t say “I wanted to marry her until I realized I didn’t”. He says that he never intended for their relationship to be serious and that he felt that she was entitled when she thought it was serious. Furthermore, if he originally thought he wanted to marry her then decided he didn’t (which isn’t the case in this situation), he should have broken up with her when he realized it instead of continu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:21 PM
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And his. Stop trying to absolve men from accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:05 PM
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That’s orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:54 PM
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You’re changing the subject. The fact is that men are resentful about doing extra chores around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:54 PM
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Look at all the mental gymnastics they do about picking up extra groceries, scrubbing the toilet after pooping and wiping it down, and wiping down the dinner table with a Lysol wipe and running the vacuum for like 5 minutes after dinner every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:01 AM
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This wasn’t a woman be flirted with or went on a couple dates with. This is a woman he spent a year with and introduced to his family. It isn’t psychotic to have a conversation at that point about where the relationship is going. And it’s also not psychotic to say on the first few dates if you are looking for marriage or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:00 AM
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I didn’t say the situation is entirely on your end. But you are communicating about yourself on a public forum. She should have demanded an explanation early on and also not had sex until these standards were established. A lot of men call that manipulation though and “withholding sex” when it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:58 AM
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Most people would interpret a year together, meeting your family, etc. as “this is a serious relationship”. He’s old enough to have a basic understanding of how relationships flow, although he may be neurodivergent. He also is posting his story publicly on a public forum, meaning he is asking for people to comment and give their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:57 AM
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Then you should have told her at some point that you have no idea where this is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:34 AM
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It sounds like you misled her and strung her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:14 AM
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This sounds quite sociopathic and cruel. You behaved as if she was a serious girlfriend, but in reality, she was in the fuckzone. This is how men tread women they don’t find quite attractive enough to be a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:34 AM
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Yes. Coercion. Threats. For the greater good of increasing sexual access to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:27 AM
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Why are you seemingly deliberately leading these ex girlfriends on? It didn’t occur to you to have a single conversation with any of them where you tell them that you don’t want marriage and children with them? And you feel that you’re equally victimized because you don’t get a bunch of sex with a variety of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:31 AM
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Don’t make things personal. It violates the rules and indicates that you don’t have a good rebuttal. He isn’t a good person because he’s a pervert. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:32 AM
1

Yes he is. He’s a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:28 AM
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Yeah the offput guy isn’t a victim saint because he isn’t getting the pussy he wants fast enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:59 PM
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That’s literally what both he’s and you described. Thats not a straw man. I didn’t say it’s a logical leap. I said repeatedly guilt tripping women on the internet to put out fast as well as threatening them that their boyfriends will leave is sexual coercion. Motivated by increasing access to sex overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:50 PM
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Imagine comparing casual sex to a healthy hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:40 PM
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You’re putting your hypothetical wife down for having different tastes than you and you’re outraged at the prospect of doing a little extra labor by picking up a few extra things at the grocery store. Imagine: she wants additional things from the grocery store that don’t fit into your diet and don’t affect you and you: Blame her for the family collapse Accuse her of rejecting me Accuse her of being the type of woman who goes to a sperm bank All this because you’re unwilling to get the additional…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:57 PM
-2

Yeah because that’s a wholesome moment. Not empty like casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:44 PM
1

Yeah but since you’re all angry that she may want different things then maybe you should just make things simpler
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:41 PM
1

Those are the occasional chores. It’s disgusting that you compare yard work with childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:38 PM
1

Mowing the lawn isn’t gardening. It’s yard work. Furthermore occasional chores don’t exempt you from daily chores. You just don’t have to do the daily chores when the occasional chores pop up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:06 PM
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No you literally described men as diabolical. Having a standard doesn’t exempt him from being criticized for that standard. Men criticize women all the time for any standard that women have. For example, you criticize a woman who has had casual sex in the past but wants to wait in the future as wanting Chads and being hypocritical with their desires. Most women know men don’t owe them relationships. Most women know men just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:05 PM
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I am arguing that men are diabolical. Men think a history of casual sex means she must open her legs fast for any future relationship. Men go so far as to coerce random women online to have sex with random men via guilt trips and fear mongering/ threatening that the good man will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:44 PM
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There isn’t much more to casual sex. Besides orgasm. There is a male moderator who identifies as “blue pill” here saying that any time a woman has casual sex, future “good men” feel ripped off, unattractive, and worthless if she doesn’t donate her pussy to them freely. This moderator is just one example out of many. If men devalue and degrade women who have had casual sex and argue that these women are now beholden to be “fast” for life or any other man will resent her, then of course a woman wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:31 PM
1

Why do you act like changing tires, re grouting the floors, and installing light switches are chores that happen even monthly? And my family always changed tires at the mechanic, and hired an electrician to install light switches. How can you compare these things to daily and weekly chores? And gardening has always been stereotypically a woman’s hobby and chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:20 PM
5

Rollo wasn’t exactly a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:15 PM
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Yes yes women who have had casual sex must be free use and open their legs for every “good” guy they meet or else she doesn’t find him attractive and she’s a bitchy prude. Coercing strangers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:14 PM
2

Well men made it sound like landwhales would be getting casual sex from Liam Hemsworth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:11 PM
2

Oh well. I guess op should just be free use now and open her legs for any “good man” who comes along or else his feelings will be hurt. Sexually coercing random women on the internet to put out too soon via guilt trips and accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:10 PM
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Okay? So you are willing to have sex with women you don’t like kissing? How does this change what op said? Most women want a guy who is a decent kisser. Are you trying to say women are picky because they want a good kisser when they risk pregnancy via casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:04 PM
1

Then date someone who is okay with each of you eating and cooking your own separate meals since you seem to deeply resent that she may want to eat different foods from you and mess up your meal planning and junk food.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:02 PM
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I didn’t talk about moral superiority. I talked about male laziness and excuses. And even you sit there and dig your heels in and justify. I don’t care if you call me a misandrist. You prove OP’s post is bogus. Men are just lazier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:35 PM
1

“Women may feel compelled to compensate for violating traditional gender roles as a breadwinner by redoubling their contributions at home,” she continues. “But what couples should keep in mind is that feelings of discomfort can lead to some very irrational household decisions, such as women opting to earn less or leaving paid work entirely (which takes away from the financial security of the household), or taking on more than their fair share of household work (which leads to unhappiness).” She …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:50 PM
1

The quote you provided isn’t from a study. It’s a professor speculating for the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:50 PM
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Men already do. It doesn’t matter if they can. They do. Men are arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:49 PM
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Again, in the eyes of the law, no matter what your moral views are, you will be viewed as a singular unit and asked to spilt everything earned within the marriage 50:50. If you morally don’t like that, either don’t get married or marry a woman who has a more substantial income/ career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:49 PM
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The Raina Brynes quote that you posted wasn’t a study. It was her giving her opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:48 PM
1

It’s also used to describe a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:46 PM
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Men expect that anyway, so I am not sure what your point is. Pregnant women often work until the baby is born and do housework at home after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:46 PM
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Morally correct would be to only marry a woman who you feel comfortable with combining finances with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:45 PM
3

Her job doesn’t change that she is stating a theory. Not a proven fact. Thar is why they use the word MAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:44 PM
4

If either one of us is there, we should handle it right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:43 PM
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In the eyes of the law, you’re a singular unit. Don’t marry a woman who you don’t want to combine finances with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:42 PM
3

Then make a list and check it twice. If Santa can do it, so can you. Sometimes the wrong brand of food has a different flavor or texture that makes it unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:38 PM
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The difference in the expectations of cleanliness argument is just male laziness. We had a thread about this earlier. I said that every time you poop, you should wipe the toilet down with a Lysol wipe and use a scrubber to scrub the bowl down. Obviously this doesn’t apply if you’re sick or using the bathroom in a rush before work or an appointment. This takes no more than a minute or two. Some guy argued that I must have disgusting poops, that i am abusive and dumping extra labor onto men, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:35 PM
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By that source it’s the authors assumption. Not a stated fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:18 PM
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Because the house gets messy and she’s left with a bigger job at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:16 PM
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If you’re married, money is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:14 PM
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Women already realize that. Men make it their mission to humble and humiliate women constantly. I think men are the ones who a far out of their leagues and women are the ones who settle. Most married couples are evidence of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:46 AM
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Asking someone out once again after months or years have passed (not weeks, that is too short) is not harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:51 PM
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Yes!!! I would get offended and leave!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:32 PM
1

Ok I am saying instead of fixating on lost sexual opportunities, worry more about respecting her no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:32 PM
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Imagine having sex with a guy and mid sex he says “how much do you weigh”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:11 PM
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No lies are acceptable. What kind of trap is op trying to set up? > weight Why do you need to know a woman’s weight, unless there’s a medical reason? Shes right there. You can visually look at her and determine if she’s too fat for your tastes by looking at her body. It isn’t lying to say “I don’t want to tell you how much I weigh”. > body count If I didn’t feel comfortable with sharing my body count number (I am fine with it), I would just say “I don’t want to discuss it” and “it’s none of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:10 PM
1

Insulting random fat people on the internet is not a way to make them accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:56 PM
1

Ok then if it’s a random, completely unrelated point to your post and our comments, then how is it relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:55 PM
1

What???? Of course a woman may desire a man over time… why are you acting like that is some sort of “gotcha”???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:34 PM
2

So hypergamy is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:33 PM
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Why don’t you ask back “you said no. Why do you expect me to keep pursuing you?” Don’t use feminist buzzwords or try to make it a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:05 PM
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A woman changing her mind months later doesn’t invalidate her original “no”. So many men worry about the risks of losing a sexual opportunity over the harm that harassing a woman can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:57 PM
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That’s what men say men do unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:45 PM
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Yes. That doesn’t mean we are flicking our bean to them, wondering what they look like naked, or trying to see their body parts. It just means that most men pass the looks threshold if we were to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:43 PM
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That isn’t what you asked. You literally asked “how many men turn you on”. You didn’t say “how many guys do you find reasonably attractive?” Because unlike men who have sexual fantasies about every reasonable attractive woman who they see, women don’t walk around having sex fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:41 PM
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That’s also what the red pill says. And even blue pill men say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:37 PM
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Incels claim men like women more than women like men. I am stating otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:24 AM
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It isn’t. I am pointing out that women like men more. Thats the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:08 AM
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I knew that question was a trap. Men confuse women not getting horny at random as “they don’t think about us at all or want us at all”. No, we just don’t get horny at random. And it’s nefarious to ask “how often does a man turn you on” as a way to claim women don’t find men attractive. A better question would be “how often do you find a man reasonably attractive?” Because almost all men are reasonably attractive (below age like 50). This doesn’t mean we walk around getting wet and having sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:56 AM
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But how do you know that the family isn’t being hypergamous? Maybe the girl is average looking and can’t get a umc doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:24 AM
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Desire to be pumped, dumped, and discarded or used as a placeholder unless she’s exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:54 AM
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Man said he wants to kill women who want “foodie calls” and Reddit doesn’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:53 AM
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It’s against the rules of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:36 AM
2

If they do it’s against the rules. Men threatened violence in another subreddit due to “foodie calls”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:21 PM
2

I don’t see how being married to someone who is bitter and weird makes school and work easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:12 PM
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That’s how I framed it and you victimized men as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:11 PM
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Then you should clarify instead of being defensive and perhaps edit your og comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:01 PM
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I didn’t say who you are. Sarcastic is a way of speech. Not an identity. Especially in this context. We had an entire thread where men straight up claimed women abuse them if they have a higher level of cleanliness. I said a married couple should maintain the higher level of cleanliness as long as it is within reason and a guy spent like 20 comments debating about the definition of reason. When I said that the toilet should get a quick wipe down and scrub after every poop, he accused me of not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:56 PM
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Do you not read how they speak and what they say and their attitudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:55 PM
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Women understand that it’s wrong to harass strangers. Men don’t. Men harass women who are fat on social media by saying “you’re fat lose weight eat less” when aol they are doing is posting a photo of themselves. Like the plus size park hoppers. Men degrade the hell out of them just for existing. Men also do the same on posts where women escape abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:54 PM
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Yes that is the initial comment I called out. I very clearly said that you sounded like you wanted to attack random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:51 PM
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You don’t have to reply if you don’t want to engage. No rules were violated. At this point, you just want to have the last word. My point still stands. You said you use fat women for sex out of pity and boredom. Women read this. Men say stuff like you say constantly. Men drive women away. It isn’t “tiktok and algorithm brainwashing”’like you claim. It’s men. Men reap what they sow. Replying indicates you want to continue the conversation. Just don’t reply. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:49 PM
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This was AFTER I CALLED YOU OUT, not before. You led with defending attacking random People.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:30 PM
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Yeah AFTER I called you out. Not before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:30 PM
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You are sarcastic. I pointed out what women stress about and you dismiss it. Men aren’t domestic heroes. We had a thread the other day where multiple men were arguing about how women’s standards of cleanliness are too high and it’s selfish for women to expect men to accommodate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:30 PM
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You do. I can pull up receipts. Don’t engage if you don’t like it. Men brah about hurting women online then get offended when women are repulsed by men and stay away. We women have internet. We read what men say about how they treat us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:28 PM
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Most of the men of ppd and spaces like psyche or sike are incredibly verbally abusive and yet don’t think of themselves as abusive or as bad people. If they can’t see their own problems, why do you expect the women they date to sense it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:23 PM
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🥱 I don’t see you talking about them genuinely asking for advice like you claimed you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:20 PM
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See? Nowhere do you mention them genuinely asking you for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:19 PM
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No there wasnt. It wasn’t a cultural movement it was some women on tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:17 PM
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Why do you think she’s swiping right only on chads? Most women swipe on who they think they would be compatible with. Not chads. Men swipe right on everyone. Most men also aren’t setting their age ranges to 37.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:14 PM
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You openly gloat about using women you don’t find attractive for sex. Women read these things and stay away. It’s men brainwashing women with their own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:12 PM
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Why do men get so butthurt about a Miley Cyrus song. She was singing about a breakup and how she can love herself. Most men don’t buy their girlfriend’s flowers on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:10 PM
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It’s not much more of a burden to bear if you have loving parents who support you. Stressing about cooking for, cleaning for, sexually satisfying, and preventing pregnancy with a man makes school and career that much more difficult. Most men require energy, time, and labor even if they are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:08 PM
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Swiping right on women isn’t desire. Men swipe on everyone then pick who they like from their matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:04 PM
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Art can be critiqued. Men hypergamously draw unrealistic women then get mad when women say it’s unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:58 PM
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That is what it was. Men insisted the movement was women telling them that they have to be sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:57 PM
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It’s how men talk to women who open up about abuse on social media. Or fat women on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:42 PM
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Women weren’t acting the way the short men are. Women were just posting photos of themselves fat and saying it was offensive when men insulted them. For example, it’s offensive to call a random woman a pig on instagram, even if she doesn’t meet your physical preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:37 PM
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Only if they ask and want your advice. You randomly telling fat people that they should have eaten less is just bullying and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:33 PM
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Most of the men of PPD would make miserable, passive aggressive, bitter, and hateful partners but seem to be under the impression that they would be loving and attentive. When they say “pick better men” they mean “pick better men [like me]” when in reality they have a bunch of character defects and cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:30 PM
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Yes it was. Men just got pissy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:28 PM
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Most know. Most are insecure about how they look already and don’t need a Redditor coming in and telling them they should have eaten less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:27 PM
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Never. Men constantly tell us to lower our standards. There is a post from like an hour ago telling women to lower their standards. When women listen to men and lower their standards, they get into bad situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:24 PM
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What if the family is just being hypergamous and superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:22 PM
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Most fat people already know they eat too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:21 PM
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You’re intentionally twisting my words. You can meet women without blindly hitting on all of them. You can get to know women and pick one or two to ask out that you feel you are compatible with. It’s not about desperate or pathetic. If a man asks out every woman at a social event, he comes off as a cheating womanizer who will use them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:18 PM
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No there wasn’t. There was just the fat acceptance movement and men interpreted it as women insisting that men need to find them hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:14 PM
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Your comment is incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:49 PM
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Never. Men will frame that we don’t walk around getting wet and having sex fantasies as “women aren’t into men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:16 AM
1

Yes passport bros view us as old hags and don’t find us attractive. It’s not about “genuine desire” that the woman has for the man. It’s about how the women look.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:20 PM
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I did answer the question. Most attractive, charming, wealthy guys are getting into relationships other attractive, charming wealthy women. He’s going to St Tropez with a woman who is able to afford it. It’s incredibly rare that a man who owns a $5 million penthouse is going to live with a regular plain Jane who struggles to pay her bills. It’s incredibly naive to assume that broke normie women commonly date multimillionaires. Contrary to what the men here think, wealthy men get with wealthy wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:17 PM
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Most men date and marry within their socioeconomic status, regardless of the virtue signaling they do about how they would fuck a hot barista.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:18 PM
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If you’ve ever spent a few minutes in passport bro spaces (especially since you moderate a passport bro forum), you would see that most of them find western women fat, old, “harpy”, loud, opinionated, and evil. Western men have western women who like them, but western men find these women to be subhuman and fat and yucky. Passport bros are very loud and vocal about how inferior and unattractive they find western women to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:16 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers of relationships and are selective about who they allow to be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 PM
1

What a bizarre answer. Men will classify women they find unattractive as “casual sex only” or “recreational use only”. Men will discard the unattractive woman after having sex a number of times because he finds her unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:12 PM
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For casual sex. Not for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:54 AM
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Yes men can’t stand child support and financially supporting their own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:52 AM
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Yeah because they know Stacy won’t like them and normal women are too yucky and fat to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:48 AM
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Maybe they need to be more realistic about who they pursue instead of being Stacy only.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:40 AM
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I am not sure what the “gotcha” is here. I have been saying men hate women for ages and called a misandrist for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:32 AM
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Can we use AI to produce images of people without using real people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:22 PM
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Surely you can be specific. Does it include food?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:54 PM
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I think you arguing about semantics makes men look lazy and mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:53 PM
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It’s necessary for hygiene. Why are you so defensive about male laziness???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:53 PM
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It’s a 1-3 minute task that makes a world of difference. Why do men get so defensive about this? Do they feel bullied and subjugated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:50 PM
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Again, tidiness is a form of hygiene. Why are men so ridiculously defensive about this topic? Is being nice to one’s wife so difficult to men that they have to sit on reddit and argue about it? Do men truly feel that they are being forced into servitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:49 PM
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Yes. Since you are very analytical about definitions, what specifically consists of “dry trash”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:47 PM
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If it doesn’t matter to you, then don’t ask. You’ve spent countless comments on this thread being defensive about cleanliness. Asking what the definition of hygiene vs tidy is, asking to analyze how long crumbs need to be left on the floor to attract vermin, and differentiating between “wet” and “dry” trash. It’s okay to just admit that men have a lower standard of cleanliness and are too lazy to accommodate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:46 PM
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Maybe don’t demand your partner conduct a study of how long she can leave crumbs on the floor before bugs come because you don’t want to push a vacuum around for 5 minutes once a day or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:38 PM
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Imagine being this defensive and analytical about keeping a house comfortable and clean for your partner. These same sorts of men tell us that men are generally good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:36 PM
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You literally asked her to do an analysis of how long it takes for vermin to come when there are crumbs on the floor and said it’s okay to leave “dry trash” in the bin for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:35 PM
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If you go to an activity and hit on a bunch of women, most of the women will feel uncomfortable and think you are either there to womanize or be a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:29 PM
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You leave poop stains there?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:29 PM
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Tidiness IS a form of hygiene. And an untidy man will kill his marital sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:28 PM
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Because when you clean you aren’t trying to insert stuff in you or insert your parts into someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:28 PM
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Most women lose sexual attraction if a guy leaves shit stains on the toilet. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:12 PM
1

So then men should STFU about human wallets because they expect women to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:57 AM
1

But men not only view women as sex objects, but as atms (earning an income) and laborers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:50 AM
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No I haven’t. You are probably twisting something I said to match your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:33 AM
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No it isn’t. You guys overthink everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:48 PM
1

Most of the women in these circles are looking for a LTR and won’t put out too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:39 PM
4

I mean once a 14 year old girl made a meme about how only One Direction can date her. A bunch of grown men ridiculed her, calling her ugly and fat and a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:21 PM
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The men who don’t hit on a bunch of women arent the men most women feel uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:19 PM
3

So you were just randomly saying it for no reason at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:17 PM
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Because it’s uncomfortable if the guy is hitting on a bunch of women instead of getting to know them as friends and picking one or two with intention to ask out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:12 PM
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That is the premise of this thread. The original Post and what the lady is responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:12 PM
1

How is it changing your morals and ethics to join a running club??????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:05 PM
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Not really. It’s just women saying “don’t blindly hit on every woman there” and men getting defensive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:04 PM
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There’s a difference between blindly hitting on women and making friends with and getting to know various women and men and picking one or two women to ask out intentionally after getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:01 PM
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From ppd, most men do. If they don’t get it, they don’t think the woman is experiencing “raw animal attraction” which is a core value for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:59 PM
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Women don’t criticize men for joining run clubs, dance classes, or volunteer programs to find a date. It’s 2026, not 2016. Most people are at these activities to socialize, either to date or to find platonic friends. Some are there for true passion as well, but they join activities to socialize. The caveat is that most of the romance seeking participants are also looking for a serious relationship. They aren’t as likely to have sex on the first date like so many men demand. Also, since you build…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:37 PM
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Explain an example of surgically sterilized that a large number of women expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:26 PM
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I don't care about whatever grievances you have about whatever stinky slob you dated that you're bitter about. My point stands. This is a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:03 PM
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Because many of the men here are claiming women have toxic and unreasonable expectations for cleanliness and hygiene. Many are claiming women are overly clean and overly demanding about what constitutes a clean house and the expectations that women impose on them for maintaining a clean house. Many men think women are unreasonable and picky about cleanliness. Knowing this, maybe women simply lower their standards because men tell them to stop bitch ing and stop being demanding and picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:54 PM
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Then list our specific unreasonable requests that a good and supportive man would struggle to meet and that only a controlling bitch would expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:52 PM
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See? Personal attacks. Your point doesn’t stand. Sexual coercion because you don’t want to clean up after yourself is a one way ticket to a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:49 PM
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What a weird answer. Op and you compare cleanliness to sex. I am explaining that if a man isn’t clean, he shouldn’t expect women to find him sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:48 PM
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It’s very easy to lose attraction to someone with poor hygiene. Imagine dating a guy. You go to his house and have to use the bathroom. In the bathroom, you see dried pee on the toilet seat and a smudge of dried up poop in the bowl 🤮. You go to wash your hands and you see a glob of dried up toothpaste in the sink and little beard hairs everywhere from shaving and a tub that has soap scum around it🤮. You go to his kitchen, and see a stack of dirty dishes in the sink and crumbs on the floor🤮 you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:47 PM
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Then you shouldn’t have immediately responded to me describing that level of housework by saying “maybe she is just a controlling bitch”. Not very respectful or supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:46 PM
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Doing little cleaning tasks throughout the day and helping with major housework weekly and annually isn’t “controlling bitch”. It’s respectful and supportive. Which you falsely claimed men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:41 PM
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<image> See?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:35 PM
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Why do you exist someone to do sexual things when they are grossed out by poor hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:31 PM
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Why would we want to put our mouth on the dick of a guy who can’t even scrub the toilet and wipe it down after he poops? If he struggles with basic cleaning why would I think his dick is clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:31 PM
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It’s very easy to lose attraction to someone with poor hygiene. Imagine dating a guy. You go to his house and have to use the bathroom. In the bathroom, you see dried pee on the toilet seat and a smudge of dried up poop in the bowl 🤮. You go to wash your hands and you see a glob of dried up toothpaste in the sink and little beard hairs everywhere from shaving and a tub that has soap scum around it🤮. You go to his kitchen, and see a stack of dirty dishes in the sink and crumbs on the floor🤮 you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:29 PM
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A man who expects a woman to get horny and experience “raw animal attraction” after he has smelly sheets on an unmade bed, leaves shit stains on the toilet, leaves crumbs on the floor and dinner table, leaves dirty dishes in the sink, leaves a layer of dust coating the floor and the bookshelf, and has neglected hygiene, is delusional as f.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:25 PM
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Sexual coercion. You don’t use neglecting hygiene and cleanliness as a coercion tactic and punishment for sex. Men truly prove that picking a good man is not an actual possibility, considering that they get sexually coercive when asked to pick up after themselves and wipe down the toilet. Imagine a man expecting a woman to get horny after he left shit stains in the bathroom and crumbs all over the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:24 PM
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See? Men claim women want bad men, and admonish women for picking bad men. Yet when it comes to hygiene, men prove that men are bad. You can’t pick a good man when all of them are having a hissy fit about keeping the house clean and doing moderately more housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:21 PM
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Coercion is common in a lot of marriages. Using sex as a coercion tactic and reason to whine about basic cleanliness is a form of sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:20 PM
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Kind of like how men bitch and throw tantrums about cleaning the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:18 PM
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Yes like cleaning instead of calling your wife a bitch and degrading her and calling her names and being antagonistic when she wants you to wipe things down with a wipe after eating and clean the toilet after pooping.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:17 PM
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If it’s not a big deal, then you can surely step it up and contribute to cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:11 PM
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She does. But a good husband will split it up as fairly as possible. It’s good women see how antagonistic men are about doing stuff around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:11 PM
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So you’re shitposting and agree that your comment was made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:08 PM
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Yes!!! And when I say the division and requirements should be reasonable, they fixate on what the definition of reasonable is. Yes, reasonable is subjective. But we all agree it means doable without major disabilities or barriers. Obviously someone with cognitive issues or a physical disability will have less ability and can do less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:06 PM
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The men here have a very naive and childish view of women and dating. Poor hygiene and cleanliness absolutely kills sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:03 PM
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See? The arrogance I mentioned. You do do as your told in a marriage for things like cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:02 PM
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It is arrogant to get petulant when ones wife asks you to clean up after yourself and do hygiene tasks and to throw a tantrum. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:02 PM
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They do. They literally describe it as ruining their marriages and sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:52 PM
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<image> Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:51 PM
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If they are efficient, then you wouldn’t be making like a dozen comments saying women should clean more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:50 PM
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That sounds childish, petty, arrogant, and unpleasant to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:50 PM
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Sounds childish and petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:50 PM
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So you’re describing them as childish, argumentative, and lazy. Misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:49 PM
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Yeah no one else did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:47 PM
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Because men get coercive about the desire for more frequent sex. They use threats and pressure the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:47 PM
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So that means cleanliness has a lot to do with attraction. Women post every day that they lose attraction when a man isnt clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:46 PM
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So you’re describing men as gross and lazy. Men are always the misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:44 PM
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So all these big strong men who have built society should be able to use this technology with zero issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:44 PM
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If it’s so easy, why don’t men do it? You’re the gender that rubs in women’s faces that you built society and whatnot. Surely men are strong enough to handle vacuuming and wiping things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:43 PM
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I mean you are also here arguing about how women’s standards are too high about cleanliness instead of just cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:42 PM
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That’s what your message sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:36 PM
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Yes!!!! Not keeping things generally clean means bugs will come 🪳 and maybe mice 🐁.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:36 PM
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Why do you compare general cleanliness and tidiness to deep cleaning for 4 hours every day? If you keep things clean overall, it doesn’t take 4 hours every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:34 PM
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Why are men so quick to defend being lazy about keeping the home tidy and clean? So much for how strong you guys are and how you supposedly constructed society. It doesn’t take a great effort to wipe the toilet down with wipes after you poop, do general dusting throughout the day, wipe down surfaces after eating, and run the vacuum through the dining area every day for 3-5 minutes. Why are men so pressed about stuff like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:33 PM
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What the f? Why wouldn’t someone want to clean their own natural grime?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:29 PM
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This just sounds plain lazy. You don’t have to be a housekeeper or spend hours on domestic labor to have a decent level of cleanliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:29 PM
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Why do you compare cleaning when you don’t want to marital rape? Why are men so dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:28 PM
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What? Tons and tons of women complain about how men don’t do enough housework. It’s a point of contention in a lot of marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:27 PM
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Libido isn’t a good comparison because doing a little extra cleaning isn’t as draining or terrible as having sex that you’re uncomfortable with or don’t want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:27 PM
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If a couple loves each other, they accommodate to the person with a higher standard for cleanliness and hygiene instead of being lazy and throwing a tantrum. Obviously, this is within reason and ability. But if you’re both able and the request is doable and reasonable, then you should accommodate without throwing a fit. For example, I quickly run the Dyson and wipe down the dinner table with a Lysol wipe after I eat dinner every day. It’s about 5 minutes of labor max. I also wipe the toilet down…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:44 PM
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Men consider everything to be taunting and they get vengeful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:38 PM
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Women don’t like to be cold approached. Men take this as a deep and personal insult. Meanwhile men taunt women about how repulsive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:26 PM
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That’s the language MEN use to describe women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:18 PM
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Generally yes. That is what men say. Not women. Men like to taunt women about this topic. The men also find women over 30 to be “post wall old hags”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:09 PM
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“Potentially losing on a sexual opportunity is a problem to me over potentially sexually assaulting them and potentially having to deal with the law” If you care about yourself and love yourself, only go with women who are enthusiastic about being with you. Not the women who say no!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:42 PM
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I didn’t say men are bad. I simply said they don’t view women as anything beyond holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:49 AM
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Multiple men have said I am wrong. Now you’re agreeing with me. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:49 AM
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I don’t know what this has to do with men not wanting women as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:45 AM
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It’s not just this reddit. It’s all over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:03 PM
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Why are you doing ad homenim personal attacks? I am literally repearinf what men say about how they view women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:46 PM
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Behavior and character go hand in hand. And you were the one who kept bringing up that there may be some surprise chance that she actually wants to be approached when she says she doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:35 PM
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Because men don’t like women. Men don’t like spending time with women. Men don’t view women as anything beyond a hole. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:32 PM
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If a guy is on the margin, he isn’t a good guy. Also, missing out on a sexual opportunity isn’t as bad at all as assaulting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:48 PM
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This is what men tell women. Not themselves. And have been saying for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:47 PM
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No they aren’t. Women tend to just look for men they are compatible with, not models.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:01 PM
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You call them 4-5 range despite them risking pregnancy and their health for you to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:00 PM
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This is what men tell women constantly. That men will avenge themselves for lack of dating app attention in their 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:00 PM
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It’s coercion if you threaten the guy. If you just leave, it isn’t coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:00 PM
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Why are you so worried about “good actors” losing sexual opportunities over women potentially being assaulted or raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:34 PM
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Why are you so concerned about decent guys losing sexual opportunities and not women potentially getting assaulted or raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:32 PM
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- I’m going to hint, make eye contact but you must ask me out or I’ll lose interest. I won’t ask you. - I will offer to pay for my own food on the date but if you do, I will not see you again. - Take me someone expensive or no date - I will hint that I want you to go for a kiss/make a move and if you don’t, I’ll reject you. - propose to me or our relationship is over - Read my mind or I’ll be upset with you. None of these are sexual coercion. In none of them she is threatening the guy. You’re de…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:29 PM
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Oh man those poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:22 PM
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Men in their 30’s constantly taunt women and tell women that after 30, they are going to be desperate and men will pump and dump them recreationally to punish them for rejections in their 20’s. 30’s is the time when men become vengeful players and women beg for men’s forgiveness for not swiping right as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:21 PM
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Women aren’t picking pretty boys and jocks. I only swipe right on like 1% of men because I look for men who look like they would be compatible with me. Aka ugly and nerdy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:12 PM
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Nike held “Nike after dark” runs where women could run a half marathon at night. The plan was for the event to be safe for women. A bunch of men got offended and felt that it was misandrist for the event to be for women only. Men decided to sign up and join the runs to punish women for attending a women only event. Many men also signed up because they wanted to take slots away from women. These weren’t trans women btw. Some men also used this as an opportunity to threaten women who are running a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:06 PM
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No you can’t. You can’t pre give consent. He can simply ask “hey is there a chance we will be hooking up tonight?” Instead of making an ultimatum. He was being coercive and making an ultimatum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:40 PM
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See??? You say women don’t have sympathy then you write a post saying women who are abused are at fault because they don’t pick ugly and poor men. Plus you said before that dating apps are only for casual sex. That means these poor little ugly/ poor men are looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:38 PM
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Because these men say disgusting stuff about women. They don’t say “oh I am upset that this woman was mean to me”. They say “modern women are all fat and ugly!! I want to be an abusive Chad!!! Women love abuse!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:37 PM
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Women adjust their standards. Men don’t. Women are happy with their age and looksmatch. Men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:12 AM
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Women do lower their standards. We enjoy our looks and agematch. The issue is that men get so deeply offended. Men don’t adjust their standards with age. Old men want the top 12% of women (ages 18-26) and refuse to adapt. Old men see women their own age as placeholders, sex objects, and trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:11 AM
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It isn’t a duty to their husbands. Obviously if your sex life is a deadbedroom, then something is wrong. As someone who has snooped through the profiles of the men on the dead bedrooms subreddit, most of the men there are deranged and likely have that leak into their sex lives. They often post their dick online and solicit sex with women other than their wives via personal ads. This sort of depravity usually shows it self in relationships with behavior such as expecting degrading and humiliating…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:42 AM
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I didn’t say she is less likely to consent in person. I said she’s allowed to change her mind in person. But the voice memo can now be used against her in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:52 AM
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The text messages and voice memos would be an additional piece of evidence to use against her. The safest option is to just not have sex for a while and put it in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:51 AM
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I am describing the issue with his voice memo. One of the main issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:50 AM
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I agree but then he could rape her and use her messages in court against her to say she’s “falsely accusing” him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:50 AM
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You can remove consent at any time. Why do men struggle so much to understand this? Then you have men in the other thread saying that most men are good. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:49 AM
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Because with his text messages and voice memos, he can use her replies in court against her. Thats one of the many issues with his voice memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:49 AM
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If he was dissatisfied with the first date, he should have just ghosted her or told her that he isn’t interested anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:21 AM
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If she makes out with him and then changes her mind mid makeout, he can rape her and use those text messages in court to argue that she is lying about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:20 AM
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You cannot get “pre consent”. She could text him “yes daddy I would love to fuck you”. She could go all the way to making out in bed with her shirt off. Then she can push him off and say “no. I am not ready for this”. And he could continue and it would be rape. Now let’s say he does rape her. And she calls the cops and gets law enforcement involved and goes to court. He 1000% percent is going to use those text messages against her and say that she wanted it. And he’s going to tell everyone he’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:18 AM
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See? Men hate women. It’s not misandry to say so. Men say it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:14 AM
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See? Men hate women. It’s not misandry to say so. Men say it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:14 AM
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So you describe men as diabolical liars then cry about misandry when women repeat what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:13 AM
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So you not only describe men as bullies and harsh. But as liars. Men are always the biggest misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:13 AM
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> it’s harsh yes Ok if it’s harsh why are you making an entire post about how women don’t have the right to be upset by a guy being harsh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:12 AM
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Your “gotcha” is weak because everyone is expected to make sacrifices and put in work in any marriage or LTR. Men expect women to be homemakers, at least contribute income, and to provide children and have sex regularly. Aka “human doings”. But yet you act like women are the only ones who need a guy to make sacrifices and do work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:10 AM
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You cannot pre-give consent. If she says “oh absolutely I will totally hookup with you, sexy” then changes her mind as they are making out, he can rape her. If she calls the cops, he will show that message and use it against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:05 AM
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You can find serious stuff on Tinder as long as you’re selective (which men heavily discourage women from doing).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:04 AM
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Tons of people date and have LTR’s and marry from dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:04 AM
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Not all dating apps are built the same, and the way you navigate dating apps will also impact your experience. Men moan and groan about how women swipe less on tinder but then condemn women who use dating apps carefully to seek a relationship. Plus it’s 2026 and I know plenty of people who are married or in serious relationships thanks to dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:03 AM
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People can say they are interested only in sex. That wasn’t the issue. The issue was that you think being disgusted by his voice memo was “not handling rejection”. You can be upfront about what you want without being callous and making ultimatums via voice memo. Someone can accept rejection and think the voice memo was rude. The two don’t contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:56 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZKyMI6M6dQ/ Last example of what men call misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:45 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYD8HmTsg2O/ More of what men call misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:41 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZcRJm5v7n-/ This is what men consider to be misandry btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:39 AM
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Nothing there is vile. It’s literally just women reacting to men doing diarrhea on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:31 AM
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Nope. Men are not into women is filled with countless examples of men degrading women in comments sections of posts. Men enjoy saying the meanest stuff imaginable to women. All non abusive women deserve good treatment, even if they are super fat and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:20 PM
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The average woman is 5’4” and 174 ish lbs. The average woman is chubby and this is deeply upsetting to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:18 PM
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How women treated him means he had some shitty dates and only got unattractive matches on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:17 PM
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Men have social backing. Men support each other like crazy when it comes to putting women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:16 PM
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Men make it their mission to insult and degrade how women look all over social media, and with great passion. And god forbid a woman post that she likes how she looks. Men cannot stand that because they feel that a woman having confidence means she will raise her standards too high and be will lose a potential sex option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:29 AM
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No they aren’t. Men make it their mission to insult and degrade how women look all over social media, and with great passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:28 AM
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Because he’s supposedly average and the average American woman is chubby. Why are the men here so deeply repulsed by chubby women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:27 AM
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Most men do have a problem with her weight, age, and appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:52 AM
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Oh no I don’t reserve my judgement for just unattractive men. But the focus of this post is “if unattractive men get money and status as they get older what happens?” Op didn’t ask about handsome men Op focused on the unattractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:16 AM
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Both guys would post screenshots of messages and whatnot as proof. And even if it was all an elaborate fantasy, the fact so many men have this sort of fantasy means they will act on it when they are able.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:13 AM
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At work, there is a guy who tries so hard to be funny, prances around like a deer, it is almost painful to watch him. He tries so hard. He has fallen in love with my coworker who is a beautiful young woman and she has saved him in her contacts as "shortlet." I told her this is not cool because, after all, he's still a human being. This guy is relatively successful and makes more money than the rest of us, but he is still viewed as undesirable. He also does something with his face, like a facial …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:21 AM
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The average woman is 37 and 5’4” and 174 lbs. She is a post wall hag that men call fat and old and ugly. Men don’t like the average woman. They like the average slim 21 year old woman then get butthurt that she wants an above average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:46 AM
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No. They just want Stacies versus the plain Janes who like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:37 AM
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It’s not because of vigilant efforts by feminists. It’s just the statistical average. Be grateful that thanks to modern medicine, people live longer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:41 PM
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I didn’t say that she is entitled to him. I am merely pointing out male hypergamy. You prove my point. 🐸 ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:39 PM
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I have never heard a woman say “I’ll take any man”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:20 PM
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The OKCupid study literally showed that 66% of all male messages went to the top 33% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:14 PM
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It’s a high standard because most women don’t meet it. What’s so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:13 PM
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The short nerdy guy who works as an accountant will turn his nose up at the chubby hairstylist who is not too attractive and is a Disney adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:07 PM
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That is the statistically average woman passport bros scream that they want. Minus “who doesn’t want him”. These women truly love these men. The reality is passport bros turn their noses up at statistically average women and want an exceptional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:06 PM
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These guys feel that these girlfriends are unattractive and repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:02 PM
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You could just date the women who want you instead of turning your nose up at them and wanting a “statistically average” 21 year old slim woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:54 PM
3

You literally compare sex to buying flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:21 PM
3

I posted the definition of sexual coercion multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:18 PM
3

You literally are defending sexual corrcion to tne ends of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:11 PM
3

If you’re ignoring pink pill women, then ignore me instead of trolling and shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:10 PM
2

Trolling violates the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:01 PM
4

You’re passionately defending sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:01 PM
5

Men reap what they sow. He’s passionately defending sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:00 PM
3

I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:22 PM
3

This doesn’t change anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:22 PM
3

Except for once or twice a week is healthy and not a sign of trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:40 AM
3

You literally keep asking “well what’s the difference” as if sex once or twice a week is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:40 AM
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Because being a toxic piece of shit isn’t okay. Sex once a week is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:40 AM
3

Your quote was that if a woman isn’t super sexual she may need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:26 AM
3

A woman isn’t sexually traumatized because she only wants sex once or twice a week. A man who coerces a woman into sex is a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:26 AM
5

It’s not just Reddit. It’s almost any social media platform. And it’s the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:10 AM
5

These men aren’t unhappy customers. Many are happily married or in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:09 AM
3

<image> Right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:09 AM
5

Because therapy for being a dick isn’t the same thing as therapy because you “only” want to have sex once or twice a week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:08 AM
2

You literally said the woman with a lower libido should go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:32 AM
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You’re out there saying how wrong op is for generalizing, yet you are doing what she said men do. Why should a woman go to therapy for only wanting sex once or twice a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:31 AM
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It’s a shit ton of them. Any time these sorts of conversations happen, a shit ton of men come out of the woodworks and express this mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:29 AM
1

It’s perversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:34 PM
3

They do. This forum is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:31 PM
1

Because you can love someone, but leave them for being a pervert who wants multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:25 PM
1

You can still love them and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:54 PM
4

Why are you defending a guy who says women view the bare minimum as slavery without as slavery without being specific about what this bare minimum is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:53 PM
3

I didn’t say I am great. I asked you what specific course of action is the bare minimum that women don’t do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:53 PM
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Women are constantly blamed by men. What are you on about? If we get abused or mistreated, men accuse us of picking Chad. We have so many men constantly telling us that we owe them sex if we had sex fast in the past because “you’re not attracted to us if you don’t put out as fast as you did with the last guy”. Men also taunt and degrade single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:13 PM
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See? No accountability. You have nothing to defend your argument. You’re simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:11 PM
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You didn’t specify what is unreasonable. You just leapt at the opportunity to insult women. “Blue pill” men hate women too. Men simply hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:00 PM
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Men don’t hate women. Men just think that women are so incredibly lazy that women view the bare minimum as a form of slavery. Never mind an explanation of what the bare minimum that they expect from women is that women find so unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:53 PM
1

Women value loyalty way more than men do. Women have more integrity due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:27 AM
1

But women inherently value loyalty and have a biological inclination to loyalty. Men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:37 PM
1

You can love someone, acknowledge that they are a pervert, and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:34 PM
1

I understand. We don’t exist in a vacuum where we get cheated on and forgive the guy because he has shitty biology. Life is moral. And you described men as diabolical and morally inferior. I don’t know why men say a bunch of disturbing, distressful, and depressing stuff about their own gender and then expect women to grovel and pander to them in response. We know men are like this. We are grateful men are honest about their gender and how bad their gender is. We women can protect our assets, fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:51 PM
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I am saying that what you are saying is misandry, even if it’s true. >My point is that men are attracted to many women, This describes men as disloyal, biologically unnecessary for fatherhood besides sperm (because after impregnating a certain number of women, you cannot be there for all your life), and they are often* *still attracted to their wives even after they no longer look optimal. Not usually. Not almost always. Just often. Still. What a great gesture! They are often still attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:15 PM
0

Leave it to men to say Hygeine and cleanliness are unimportant and behave as if it requires great effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:06 PM
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Yes it is. And men seem to think that vowing to abandon their unborn child is the same thing as getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:22 AM
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Oh yes it does. Their pursuit of sec makes them bad. You can doll it up all you want but the reality is that it’s sociopathic and sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:40 AM
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Go on any thread about child support and financial abortion and men’s views are clear. They view abandoning their kids as a human rights issue and view it as the same thing as killing an unborn fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:38 AM
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It’s not a strawman. Men have made it clear that they don’t want to take care of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:21 PM
1

Again, you’re just making excuses for male laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:18 PM
1

It’s not complicated. Men are just kind of lazy about splitting housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:59 PM
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It’s on every social media platform. Anytime a woman posts on Instagram, men dogpile her and call her ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:54 PM
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The red pill, aka hating women, is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:53 PM
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“Bad boy” and it’s just a guy she found attractive. Also, maybe she was used and she doesn’t want to be used anymore. I understand that men think a woman who was used and doesn’t want to be used but has been used before should be free use. Men are really something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:53 PM
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Most women don’t. I simply repeat what men say about men in men’s spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:29 PM
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If they are both working 40 hours a week then they should split the housework as evenly as possible, even if one makes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:27 PM
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> even sometimes when they are Men describe men as sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:27 PM
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This sounds like a humiliation ritual. Women value integrity, loyalty, and monogamy and yet men want to throw it out the window, and even subjugate their wives to recruiting women to cuck herself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:25 PM
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Every day men on reddit complain about how fat western women are and how women over 30 have hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:22 PM
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So you’re describing men as lazy, unhygienic, and messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:21 PM
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“Women are more neurotic” is just an excuse men make to be lazy and incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:20 PM
2

So how often do you cook and pack lunch for your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:19 PM
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So you are saying that men truly despise women. Men think women enjoy nagging them and view housework as a power play rather than something to split fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:19 PM
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Men don’t want to take care of their kids. Evidence is their rage about child support and their plight to have financial abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:17 PM
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Then don’t imply women are manipulating men by waiting an extensive period until after a relationship is established to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:15 PM
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We have a negative view of men because men say sociopathic stuff about themselves and women online. Constantly. When men describe women as greedy, money hungry, undeserving of commitment overly demanding, and worthless beyond sex, it’s no wonder we done want to grovel and beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:00 PM
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It’s deception and cruelty if you’re stringing her along and giving her false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:59 PM
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That’s the way you put it. I am merely summarizing it. You proceed to describe them as such perverts that they are willing to compromise integrity and morals and use a woman as a placeholder for sex. It’s a monstrous way of viewing the world. Then you proceed to demoralize women for being horny for exceptionally attractive men. It’s much much much worse to string some woman along and lie to her and give her false hope than to have casual sex with an exceptionally attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:58 PM
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See? Even you decide to make a jab at women and claim women don’t hold their gender accountable. Meanwhile, these guys aren’t critiquing anything. They take pride in deception because “it doesn’t matter. I had sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:15 PM
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Lots of men say it, especially on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:14 PM
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Why do you speak with such contempt? Clearly she isn’t going for an intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:51 PM
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Yes. This is a good strategy. Mass swipe on everyone, then make the men compete for your interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:50 PM
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“I don’t hate women and I am not mad at them. I just think that society is gynocentric and women are selfish because they don’t marry young”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:49 PM
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Why would we feel sorry for men when they describe themselves as so evil and terrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:47 PM
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Yes. Men describe men as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:47 PM
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See??? It’s common sense to wait to have sex. Even you (a man) describe men as disgusting monsters who string women along to get sex. Waiting to have sex is a simple method to filter those guys out. But then you have the audacity to accuse women who wait of being manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:46 PM
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Men are the ones who describe men as sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:45 PM
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Men straight up accuse us of manipulating them if we wait until a relationship to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:45 PM
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Men truly and utterly despise women. This comment is proof. You describe. Women as greedy, money hungry, undeserving of commitment, overly demanding, and worthless beyond sex. This is how men view women. It’s important that women read this and understand this and navigate life accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:44 PM
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Men straight up say they don’t want commitment and that they view commitment as a barrier to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:42 PM
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Yes. Thats what you were talking about too. Men love to fantasize about getting a divorce and screwing their ex wife over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:31 AM
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So why do you self identify as someone with a desd bedroom!??!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:36 AM
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Yes most women are too fat for most men and men resent providing for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:21 PM
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Yes I understand that men want to leave a long suffering SAHM destitute and homeless after she’s done raising the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:20 PM
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Alimony and child support and being able to get a divorce for any reason is not an excuse to be a pervert
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:30 PM
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Why do you think that the only two body parts are ankles and dicks???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:43 PM
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Yet those are the only two options you provide
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:42 PM
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Guys will justify it by saying “oh well his wife doesn’t want him so she deserves to be cheated on with escorts”. But even if she doesn’t know, his dysfunctional behavior and attitude most likely presents itself in a way that makes sleeping with him a major pain in the ass. Maybe he gets pouty and resentful if she doesn’t want anal sex. Maybe he gets offended if she doesn’t spontaneously call in sick from work to spend the day fucking him. Maybe he constantly tries to sext and send lewd texts an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:42 PM
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Why do men so passionately defend the dick pick crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:42 PM
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If they are exchanging dick pics, then yes. You’re describing men as bad. That isn’t about sexuality. It’s about dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:41 PM
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Not being a pervert is not asexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:41 PM
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But these guys are weird and perverts and cheaters. They sound like a pain in the ass to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:40 PM
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I didn’t post stats. I gave an estimate. You’re free to go on there and use a website which shows post histories for the private profiles. You’ll see dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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Yes but I am saying the main issues with the men on the dead bedrooms subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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You’re not even married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:30 PM
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I understand that’s why I don’t say all. I say at least half.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:29 PM
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Pornsickness and degeneracy are pretty simple and don’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:08 PM
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This isn’t from ppd. This is from the dead bedrooms subreddit. And you don’t know what a sample is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:07 PM
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Nope. It’s not “kink” to post dick pics on the internet. I didn’t say it is illegal. I do say it’s weird and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:01 PM
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They probably have alt accounts where they post dick pics and solicit sex via personal ads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:46 PM
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An easy solution is for these guys to not be degen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:45 PM
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Yes? Imagine thinking it’s not perverted and gross to post dick pics on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:45 PM
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By going on there and looking at their post histories. There are also archive websites for hidden post histories. They aren’t innocent these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:44 PM
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It’s not exceptional characters. It’s at least half of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:06 PM
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Usually the men there aren’t victims of selfish prudes who don’t have a “matching libido”. Usually they are perverted and there’s a good reason why their wives don’t want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:05 PM
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Why do men constantly bring up dead bedrooms? As if they are all innocent victims to selfish prude wives? At least half of the men on that forum have a post history of dick pics and ads soliciting sex. If they are willing to embarrass themselves in such a fashion, imagine how they treat their girlfriends and wives. Sex with them sounds like an unpleasant time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:52 PM
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10000 men versus accountability. It’s perverted and gross. It shows that they have pornography brain rot and that sex with them is dehumanizing, degrading, and painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:47 PM
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The dead bedrooms subreddit is filled with weird perverted men who actively post on forums looking to cheat and dick pics. They aren’t little victim saints. Edit: I just went on there right now and the most recent poster has a history of posting dick pics. I didn’t even need to use a Reddit archive website to see them. Edit: the second most recent guy, you guessed it, more dick pics!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:21 PM
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It’s not hysterical. Everything is based on what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:13 AM
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What men like is such a tiny population of women, that it isn’t worth trying. Only 12% of women are 26 or younger. https://www.keeper.ai/calc Already most women have aged out of men’s preferences. Never mind bmi. Most women are too fat to be attractive. Most men see most women and think “yuck! They are fat!” https://mybodygallery.com If we are financially independent, men shit on us for being career women. https://x.com/useuroaesthetic/status/2072740647639932931 But if we want a man to provide, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:51 AM
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💔 I hope you’re okay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:59 AM
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Such a weird answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:57 AM
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I am so sorry to hear 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:34 AM
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Yes. It’s just better to be careful. Especially when the kids are minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:33 AM
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My best friend in high school had a single mom of two daughters. She told her daughters that she refuses to date or remarry until they are adult and moved out because there is just way too high a risk for predators. I also had a former coworker who was a single mom and she was always super careful. She was dating a guy and he made an off-putting remark about her daughter, who was a child at the time. She ghosted him. Both had enough income to support their kids, although they were by no means ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:23 AM
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Your point isn’t very clear. Single moms usually are cautious to cohabitate because a shit ton of men are predators who will want to diddle their kids. Not because they are so undesirable that no man wants to cohabitate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:13 PM
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It’s called “male being a sociopath”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:09 PM
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We understand. Men hate us. Men have been saying they hate us for ages. Thank you op for reminding us that we need to raise our standards and be less desperate. “Pick better men” as men like to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:50 PM
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She can leave, choose better men, refuse to have sex, refuse to have children, demand princess treatment, etc. An easy example is paying for dates. Men who are stingy about paying for dates are also much more likely to be “pump and dump” types.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:49 PM
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No they don’t. Calling someone your girlfriend is a zero effort task. They just use the woman as a placeholder. Which is sociopathic but it’s important women know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:39 PM
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Women understand this. You can be a whole ass girlfriend or even a wife but actually a pump and dump because he’s using you for convenient sex, companionship, and labor. This is why when men virtue signal about how they find most women attractive, it’s a load of stinky bullshit. Men use the women they find unattractive for sex and as placeholders. It’s a sociopathic way to navigate the world, but this is straight from mens mouths. Op is a man and he’s saying it. Men need to stop gaslighting wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:37 PM
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No. Most of us just aren’t highly sexual and it’s a relief when a man isn’t sending us dick pics and groping us constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:30 PM
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Yes. A lot of men are deeply insecure that they aren’t giga chads that go out to the club or something and get laid with the hottest women. Or go on tinder and get multiple casual encounters. A lot of men get validation from mistreating women, so they feel hot and sexy when they string a woman along and make her feel confused about where the relationship is going, if he’s using her for sex, etc. It’s a massive ego boost. A lot of men feel powerful when they mistreat and string along women, becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:30 PM
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Yes. TRP has opened my eyes to how hateful men are towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:48 PM
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How do you know? Especially in court, how do you propose to prove this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:32 AM
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Because she didn’t know. She truly believed it was her husband/ boyfriend/ whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:18 PM
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I spell out what the bigotry is. You’re wrong for expecting women to grovel in order to get you to stop being a bigot against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:16 PM
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You’re generalizing women as flaky, superficial, and opportunistic bad friends. Maybe it’s not all women, but it’s enough women for you to justify a generalization. It’s still bigoted even if you just mean the general population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:03 PM
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Men absolutely do not give a shit about character before looks. <image> From your fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:01 PM
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Most men aren’t. Most men cannot afford to have a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:58 PM
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That doesn’t change that you are bigoted against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:57 PM
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2X doesn’t even have a fraction of the level of hate for men that PPD and the manosphere have for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:53 PM
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You moved the goalposts a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:50 PM
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Potentially is the key word here. Potentially isn’t fraud. Maybe she truly thought that the man was the kids father due to her menstrual cycle, condom use, the other guy claiming to have a vasectomy, etc. That isn’t fraud, it’s adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:49 PM
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In Panama, the law is only for knowingly committing paternity fraud. If she doesn’t know, it isn’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:43 PM
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Men don’t hate women. Men just think women are flaky, superficial, and opportunistic bad friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:36 PM
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This isn’t an extreme assumption. This is based on what men say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:30 PM
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Because the man will say yes to almost any woman who approaches him even if he doesn’t find her attractive just to have a potential sexual opportunity. Men are more selective in who they approach because they would rather risk rejection and hurt from a hot woman who they truly like and want to build a relationship with versus a random unattractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:35 PM
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It’s not accurate at all. Yes. Men only like all attractive women. Most women are not attractive to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:55 PM
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No they don’t. The men here who are partnered are walking proof that women don’t operate that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:41 PM
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Being able to be succinct is a sign of good and clear communication skills. Rambling does not equaled unintelligence. Would you like me to find the men claiming that women only want 20% of men and men want all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:34 PM
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Yes. Married men are walking examples that women standards are not as high as they claim. I guess you get offended on behalf of the poor victim men who only have fat women liking them. The worse fate imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:33 PM
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Men constantly tell women that they have options that they don’t want. “Check your friendzone” is a daily reminder that men tell lonely women. Furthermore, you said unattractive and fat women pursue you. Also race baiting is against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:32 PM
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You don’t have to write an essay. The summary is that men are extremely superficial. Men lie and virtue signal that they find most women attractive. That is the biggest lie men tell. Only a small percentage of women are attractive to men. Even on dating apps, men are competing for a tiny percentage of all women, because they fixate on younger age women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:28 PM
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As I said: You have options. Just not options you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:27 PM
1

Ok so you do blame women for “this mess” (women you don’t find attractive matching with you: the horror)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:26 PM
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You identify as red pilled, which is a highly bigoted and hateful movement towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:19 PM
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Seen men have options. Men are just vicious to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:19 PM
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See? Men are superficial. You have women who like you. You just don’t like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:18 PM
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I repeatedly don’t argue that the average woman is fit. I repeatedly say that most men find most women unattractive. I understand that you believe that this is justified because these women are so fat and gross and unattractive. Most men find it justified. I just am tired of men lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:46 PM
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It doesn’t matter. Old men compete with younger men instead of sticking with their age match. Old men consider their age match to be unattractive, fat, and with too much baggage. Old men hold their age match to great contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:44 PM
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<image> Men always prefer women in their early 20’s. I was generous and put the age range as 18-26, includes married, and any bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:02 PM
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Men don’t stay in their same age range. Even elderly men prefer women in their early 20’s. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:59 PM
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Yes it’s called the cost per nut. Men calculate it. I’m serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:01 AM
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Yes so when men are so hostile, don’t expect women to grovel and beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:39 AM
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But men are generally as hateful as op is in his post. It’s a tale as old as time to describe women as bums, boring, nagging, and unambitious. Men also deeply devalue the role of a SAHM: look how spiteful they are alimony and child support. They view the money they earn while married as “my money”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:24 AM
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Yes. I understand. Most women are too fat for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:15 AM
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88% of women are older than 26. 88% of women aren’t attractive to most men or meet most men’s preferences. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:13 AM
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Men constantly shit on women for being older than 25, when only 12% of women are 26 or younger. <image> When men constantly shit on 88% of women for how repulsive they are, most women aren’t going to have a very positive reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:12 AM
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u/Teflon08191 Nope, no bmi exclusions. Most American women are too old for most American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:01 AM
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As I said repeatedly: Men find most women too fat to be attractive. Most men don’t find most women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:00 AM
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He started with bigotry and hate. Why would you expect women to grovel when a man is spouting bigotry towards them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:59 AM
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Yeah because op started his whole post on the offensive. He describes women as boring, unambitious, nagging bums. He starts off with bigotry and hate. When a man is a bigot towards women, why do you expect women to grovel and beg for forgiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:59 AM
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See? As I said, anything women say to qualify themselves and what they offer is immediately shot down by men. Men hate us. Men think we are fat, ugly, and resent those of us who don’t have or don’t want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:28 PM
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You sound great but men will still find a way to be hurtful and mean and put you down because they don’t actually care about what we offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:35 PM
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Women: cook, clean, do childcare, work and bring in income, stay relatively attractive and fit Men: 😤😤😤😤 this isn’t good enough you are boring with boring hobbies you b!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:32 PM
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I don’t understand this age gap rage that so many men have. We women know men prefer younger women. We know men are competing for like 12% of women. I don’t know what the gotcha is here. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:23 PM
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lol see men even sit there and calculate how much per hour they are spending of their free time with the women they sleep with. What a diabolical gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:51 PM
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And I get called a misandrist for saying that men don’t give a fuck about women’s personalities. But here is a man saying the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:21 PM
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Men will choose to commit to a sexy 21 year old woman who bullies and degrades them over a fat 35 year old western woman who is kind and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:54 PM
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I will add to your point: A lot of men view regular dating as a cheaper alternative to seeing escorts. It’s disgusting and degrading, but that is how a loooot of men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:30 PM
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Oh yes. Men like the men of ppd radicalize women into rad fems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:42 AM
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🤷 I don’t see you telling men they are contributing negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:38 PM
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No I am arguing men are like that, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:37 PM
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Yes. The reality is that men are much meaner than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:19 PM
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See? Men also like to make personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:12 PM
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No men make sweeping generalizations and demonize women. So I do the same for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:47 PM
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But you do believe women are attracted to cold and stoic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:46 PM
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> men are not attracted to that lol sure. You guys have a lot of stories that indicate otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:46 PM
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Oh I know there is worse out there. You’re fixating on semantics instead of the point. Men get nasty when women open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:45 PM
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<image> Although this man was speaking about women, it applies to men. There arent any good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:47 PM
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Do you rant to them about how women only like 666 men who are stoic and mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:36 PM
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Take your own advice, mate. <image> You dare women who are selfish because that is what you’re attracted to. Every man knows a kind woman, but they don’t like these women because they are often fat, over 30, or western. Men like hot women with lots of options that are able to be cold and selfish. It’s a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:35 PM
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> shitty people have no labels on their forehead Interesting that men are allowed to say that about women, but when a woman says that about men, men dogpile her and tell her she should have picked a less attractive man if she wanted to avoid shitty men. Edit: see? This is the response you would get if you were a woman. ![img](120AC685-1C7D-44F4-B2F7-6A1874DF5E96)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:33 PM
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Wait so now the guy who is with a nice woman who is an “anomaly” is unlucky because she’s older?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:18 PM
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If you were a woman, men would dogpile you and tell you that you should have picked a nicer, less attractive man. Luckily you’re a man so the men are responding with empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:17 PM
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See? When men open up they say the meanest things imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:14 PM
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Imagine sitting around and trying to justify using women for sex after I write that women are afraid of being used for sex if they approach men. You also then call women sociopaths for expecting the guy to be loving to them. Which circles back to my original point: Women shouldn’t approach men. Not only will the man use a woman for sex instead of rejecting her, but if a relationship does happen, he will call her a sociopath for wanting any affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:12 PM
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All women give emotional labor and investment too. You’re delusional if you think that emotional labor and investment is equal to using women for sex. Sex leads to pregnancy and death for women men are the sociopaths for thinking that women are bad for wanting a loving partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:08 PM
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All relationships have emotional labor and investment. A man is a sociopath if he thinks emotional labor and investment is a major sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:21 AM
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As I said. Most men don’t find most women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:39 PM
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No I simply wouldn’t seek sex. I wouldn’t let a lack of sex embitter and sour me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:47 PM
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Not really. I wouldn’t try to ascend to God form or seek a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:25 PM
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Not really. I wouldn’t seek sex or feel entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:24 PM
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I didn’t mean success by women friends. I meant success by not being a bitter and hateful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:13 PM
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Yes. Most men don’t find most women attractive. Most women are too fat for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:33 PM
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I don’t measure success by sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:29 PM
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That is the answer though. Not everything has to be about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:21 PM
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I would be a positive influence on other men to not be bitter, angry, and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:42 PM
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Because most men have these terrible characteristics. I would set myself apart by not being foul. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:27 PM
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If it did, the men of PPD would all be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:24 PM
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Since a lot of men are angry, bitter, hateful, and cruel, I would manage to set myself above most men by being kind, optimistic, friendly, and a decent human being. I would also pick a reasonable career path like accounting, nursing, engineering, medicine, law, teaching, or trade school. I also would not engage in casual sex. By virtue of having a decent job and not being angry at women, being somewhat chaste, and being financially stable with a reasonable career, I would set myself apart from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:11 PM
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How is it devious to not enthusiastically reply to every message. Out of all the things in the world that are devious this is not at all devious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:48 PM
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It’s not bullshit. <image> Yes passport sisters who like younger men exist, but for every woman that does it, there are 10,000 men who do it. Also, there is a world of difference between a 46 year old woman preferring a 38 year old man and a 50 year old man preferring a 22 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:37 PM
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What shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:15 PM
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That sounds like a valid reason to leave though. She would be on sea and in other countries/ destinations for extensive periods of time with very limited phone connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:13 PM
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No but it does prove that women are much less hypergamous than men are. Women stick close to their age in preference. Men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:49 PM
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It isn’t “solipsistic”. Most women, especially conservative women, including center right women (which I am bro) would find it deeply humiliating to be part of a harem where a guy essentially sleeps with them and brags about doing so. And yes. It’s cucking. I guess the appropriate term is cuck queen, but cuck is the shorthand word. I am not speaking about biologically. I am talking about the general definition in popular vernacular. Unless they are also sleeping around. Then it’s just casual sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:55 AM
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No I understand that there is no shortage of volunteers. We established the chadliness aspect. I also didn’t say you were getting paid. I said that usually being “on rotation” is a form of cuckoldry for women, and is deeply humiliating. You made it a point to discuss left wingers, but as a conservative woman, most conservative women aren’t open to casual relationships and being cucked as part of a harem. You also are quick to talk about “love is love” but being cucked isn’t love— it’s a humiliat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:58 AM
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There are wayyyyyyyy more heinous things out there. Look up Junko Furuta.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:55 AM
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None of the stuff you listed sounds like a good tradeoff for essentially being cucked by a guy who is sleeping with multiple women. Most women will find that especially devastating unless they were getting paid enough to not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:50 AM
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Not if he produces proof of lack of paternity in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:47 AM
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It doesn’t solve paternity fraud. If the guy is suspicious, he can privately test the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:04 AM
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Why should this be the states problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:31 AM
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What does “if the chips are down” mean???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:11 PM
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Great. I’ll go live there and be a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:55 PM
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I didn’t say you have a shortage. I understand that you are a chad. I am asking what these women get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:55 PM
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For every female high school teacher that has sex with a male student, there are 10,000 grown adult men who are attracted to teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:56 PM
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Why would we want our survival to be 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:24 PM
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You can go visit elderly men with programs to help the elderly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:23 PM
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<image> Roughly 11% of all women in the USA are aged 18-25. Men pretty much exclusively want this 11% of women, and are settling for the rest. This is why men want age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:21 PM
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Don’t be delusional. For every 32 year old woman who dates an 18 year old boy, there are 10,000 men doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:16 PM
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Yes men get giddy at the prospect of getting revenge on their age match and only want like 10% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:12 PM
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Yeah but none of those women win anything since they are on a roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:08 PM
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Why should the government be involved? How entitled men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:53 PM
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Well in non western countries only the men have affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:53 PM
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These guys can just do it privately with a kit purchased on the internet. They don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:19 PM
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Because these guys don’t want to just privately take a paternity test. They want the USA to make it a standard of medical practice that every baby born gets a paternity test at birth. They want the government to handle this for them because they are afraid the mother of their child will get mad at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:15 PM
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France is unique in the sense that it’s culturally normal for both men and women to have lovers and affairs. You just have to be discrete about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:13 PM
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Not true at all. This is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:34 PM
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Most white collar careers are dominated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:06 PM
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That is what I said from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:33 AM
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See more of the taunting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:33 AM
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Yes you did. <image> You cannot find a woman who is both hot and not promiscuous. Meaning that if you meet a hot woman, usually she is promiscuous. Meaning you believe hot women are promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:25 AM
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You’re also dodging the point. To paint all or most women as cruel is misogyny and which is why women’s don’t feel sympathy towards “unselected men”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:24 AM
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Redditors arguing semantics instead of the big picture. You’re describing women as cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:56 AM
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Because you made a hostile and disgusting claim that women are all sitting there mocking innocent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:50 AM
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That’s because these lonely men are cruel and horrible to women. This forum is overflowing with men who are cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:49 AM
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These men mock us. Even you mock women and claim that women are sitting there mocking you. Most women are just living their lives. Most women do not take too kindly to a guy telling us that we only want the top 5-10% of men and telling us that we are hypergamous and cruel. It’s exhausting and degrading. You aren’t a victim because women aren’t swiping on you or matching with you on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:49 AM
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Wrong. Women just get used for sex. Which is worse than a woman rudely rejecting you. And to make things worse, men taunt you omen who are used for sex and say “it’s your fault you asked him out! He must have been a chad!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:44 PM
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Why do Reddit men focus so much on semantics and not the general point? You said a whole lot of nothing. Women don’t want men to feel that they are entitled to sex or their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:05 PM
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https://www.engram.us/vs/205/ask-vs-demand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:56 PM
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Not really. We understand that being objectified means we can be only fans stars or a free drink from time to time. We just don’t like when men demand casual sex, believe they are entitled to our bodies, treat us like shit, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:38 PM
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Why do men act like it’s some secret gotcha when women enjoy the benefits of something??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:25 PM
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>Way to ASSume a bunch of stuff about my personal life You listed out a bunch of examples about it your personal life. Way to try to make a personal attack with limited plausible deniability. I'll clarify a little, but my point of answering you is made Your point is that men aren’t bending over backwards for women because women aren’t sleeping with men anymore. I explained that the examples you provided are either examples of poor boundaries or are things everyone does (quitting a job). I quit m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:24 PM
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Moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:45 PM
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Mechanic romance novels exist. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:37 PM
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Why are the men here so picky about semantics and always going “well actually”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:32 PM
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You made a post about how women love abuse because dark romance is a thing. Then you claim women hate men????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:28 PM
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That was the explanation you offered for his comment. You’re focusing on semantics instead of the overall point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:22 PM
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It took like 10 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:55 PM
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One thing I refused to do is working a dangerous, labouring profession that is male dominated. That's probably my personal biggest lack of contributions, but the little things are numerous. So you quit your manual labor job, not because it was dangerous or because you weren’t getting paid enough. You quit your manual labor job because women didn’t appreciate you. That’s a foolish reason to quit a job. There are millions of reasons to leave a profession, but you chose to leave simply because of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:54 PM
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What do you mean by “penalized”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:42 PM
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You did. You said men keep bad men in jail and that is how men should watch the world burn due to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:36 PM
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Speaking to someone a few times a year =/= a serious romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:33 AM
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You basically said most hot women are promiscuous. Aka stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:31 AM
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Since you’re so confident that women are very unappreciative, please explain what men are bending over backwards to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:30 AM
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Certain women sleeping with chads a horrible reason to want to end women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:01 AM
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Not really. Talking to an old friend a couple times a year is not the same thing as a romantic relationship where we are intermingling finances, sleeping next to each other, eating meals together, dividing housework and childcare, and taking care of each other as we get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:01 AM
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What if the wayward promiscuous women you insult so rudely also have mental health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:55 AM
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So you admit that men are just choosing “bad girl” stacy over the good ones due to hypergamy, preselection, and superficiality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:51 AM
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I don’t know anyone who does this. I know a few women who slept around in their youth and who were promiscuous but most had boyfriends who they slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:39 AM
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It’s not hypocritical if a woman seeks men who are into casual sex when she wants casual sex then for her to seek men who want a relationship and to ignore and avoid the men who want to have casual sex if she wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:37 AM
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There’s an entire spectrum between “kabuki theater performative” and “only talking once or twice a year”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:36 AM
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Part of approaching is risking humiliation. The end. There is no formula for avoiding humiliation. Being respectful and courteous when you approach is crucial, but it’s not a guarantee that they won’t reject you or be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:31 AM
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First of all, most women haven’t had casual sex, and those who have had casual sex maybe did it a couple times. Second of all, that isn’t a men’s rights issue. Thad is just insecurity. Men who are aging and ugly CANNOT STAND that the women they attract are also aging and ugly (unless they are rich). It feels like a punishment to men that they didn’t have raging wild casual sex in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:25 AM
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Why would we need empathy for a man who wants us to be readily sexually available for more men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:17 AM
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Most women are ignored. The women who get hit on all the time are the super Stacies. When normie women get hit on it’s usually by men who have mental health problems. Since cold approaching isn’t normal. You just live in a fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:15 AM
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Wanting a woman who isn’t interested in sleeping with you to sleep with you is oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:13 AM
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The real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:12 AM
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So it was just hot air
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:12 AM
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So you’re saying that men don’t want to put criminals in jail because they want to punish feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:57 AM
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Normal human interaction isn’t hitting on strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:55 AM
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Surely you can explain since you were so confident about how simple it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:54 AM
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Can you explain??? What exactly are men bending over backwards to do???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:03 AM
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Why would I want to hit on strangers or have strangers hit on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:45 AM
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“Misogyny doesn’t exist anymore”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:33 AM
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“Misogyny doesn’t exist anymore” bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:33 AM
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There are websites where everyone’s post and comment history is archived. Bro. Digital footprints exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:26 AM
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Personally I preech to leave women to their own devices. Stop helping them, leave them Soto solve their own problems. Thankfully men are waking up to this There are a few white knight save a hoes left, but they are getting what we call in the industry a "crash course" Life is better on this side boys. Get a cigar and some whiskey, and chill on wtf is this supposed to mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:24 AM
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Yes it is. What the f is “have their cake and eat it too”?? Having casual sex and then getting married? Thats what upsets you??? How are they taking men’s jobs??? No one is stopping you from pursing a career in medicine or law or engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:09 AM
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My friend you have a misogynistic post history. This entire subreddit is overflowing with misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:03 AM
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See? Shaming women. We don’t want to approach strangers because we don’t feel horny for strangers the way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:44 AM
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You’re trying to frame women as luring in abusers by not approaching strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:15 PM
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We do. But people like OP try to riducule and shame us into approaching and it turns us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:25 PM
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Why do men think that confidence = bullying? This forum (PPD) is filled with insecure men who are horrible and nasty bullies that say the meanest things they can think of but are mostly anonymous. Men are biologically polygynous and women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:03 PM
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The OKCupid study showed that women messaged all men while 66% of male messages only went to the top 33% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:53 PM
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Even if most of the men are unattractive, most women can easily find a random Chad to sleep with. They choose not to because they don’t have poly tendencies like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:31 PM
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Simply true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:15 PM
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>There are plenty of men who are genuinely interested but will never make the first move. They may fear rejection, lack confidence, not want to come across as creepy or intrusive, or simply need more time to feel comfortable around someone. Women feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:09 PM
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Lots of people have stay at home dad dynamics. It’s not common but this isn’t a controversial take. Not every man wants to do it. Just because the woman out earns the man doesn’t mean she can afford a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:57 PM
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Women are more virtuous than men because we don’t care about looks as much as men do, and because we are biologically more loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:52 PM
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This is such a nonsense answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:51 PM
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Yes. Which is why I am a conservative woman who calls out men who despise women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:27 PM
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Why are you bringing in conservative vs liberal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:40 AM
3

I don’t think it’s 100% about looks. But looks are the most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:06 AM
5

Ok so you agree that looks reign supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:39 AM
2

No. I am saying during a financial abortion, the woman can dump the kid onto the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:13 AM
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Literally that’s what men did. Some of them fucked off and became artists. And the wife would just suffer and struggle. Men want to bring that back I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:45 PM
5

Men didn’t historically get custody. Men would historically just leave the wife and kids abandoned and the woman would need to find a new man to depend on or live in the poorhouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:59 PM
5

A plan B isn’t even abandoning anything. Plan B just makes it harder for sperm to reach the egg. Plan b isn’t even terminating a pregnancy, and you have the audacity to compare it to announcing that you would financially cut off your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:58 PM
1

You don’t have to identify as red pilled to say red pilled stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:21 PM
2

Women. And biology isn’t reasonable. It isn’t fair that men can have 2500 kids and women can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:21 PM
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And men can too. Women also get stuck with financial responsibility for their kids. Their responsibility costs more than child support does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:39 PM
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No I don’t like when men lie that they are more lenient about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:33 PM
2

Don’t chime into the conversation if you don’t want a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:27 PM
6

Yes because they are milquetoast to men instead of the hot woman. Yes, men don’t rescue women. Men aren’t really heroes or good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:25 PM
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You have posted about it before. Multiple times. With pride. I didn’t say you ONLY focus on looks. But you heavily prioritize looks above all else. It’s disingenuous for men to claim that they don’t care about looks. Looks are incredibly important. Before anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:18 PM
1

So don’t claim this forum is filled with raving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:15 PM
7

Yes men see their looksmatch as “low payoff”. Apt description
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:12 PM
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Bro you have in your post history that you base whether or not you will use and discard a woman based on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:11 PM
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Biology already equalizes itself. Women carry the baby and can get an abortion, but pregnancy also risks our lives and leads to weight gain and health issues. Women have menopause and cannot have kids after a certain age. Men can produce kids until they die. Women can only have maybe like 25 kids maximum with nonstop pregnancy. Men can have 2500 kids or more. We don’t need armies of men vowing to abandon their unborn children to bring “equality”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:08 PM
1

With your language.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:12 PM
3

I didn’t say women don’t buy junk at all. Women do buy junk, as do men, but the vast majority of the spending that women are doing is things like groceries and household necessities. Women do the household shopping. Women shop for their husbands and kids. Men just shop for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:28 AM
1

And how women treated them is based on tinder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:27 AM
1

See? Men think it’s misandry to say “women don’t like to be abused and men shouldn’t view abusing women as a sexy status symbol”. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:21 AM
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Men call “don’t call women vapid cruel hypergamous bitches who are diamond addicted and love abuse” “anti men” and “misandry”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:19 AM
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It’s based on men hating women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:17 AM
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No I think that men claiming that they find most women attractive is just bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:46 PM
1

Most of the men on the retroactive jealousy subreddit are married or in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:44 PM
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“Criminals have girlfriends therefore women love criminals” Except for the girlfriends are usually a hot mess too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:56 PM
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If you’re deeply jealous of violent criminals getting with women who are drug addicts/ homeless/ prostitutes/ strippers then that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:38 PM
1

So the men of ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:40 PM
1

Ok what are some commonly missed red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:31 PM
1

She asked for commonly missed red flags. Not obvious ones. Surely you can contribute since you’re claiming this is ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:30 PM
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She asked for red flags that women commonly miss. Not common sense red flags. It’s amazing that men tell women to pick better men and claim we love abusers then defend red flag behaviors with a passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:29 PM
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This is like a glaringly obvious red flag. Most women commonly don’t miss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:28 PM
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I used RP points and I am a woman. RP is mainstream. I understand that and I know men are largely anti women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:47 PM
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That’s because women do the household shopping for things like groceries and household necessities. Women aren’t running around buying junk. Maybe you should encourage men to do grocery shopping and make sure to get the right foods that everyone wants. Eg baking soda vs baking powder. I hate grocery shopping. Costco and Trader Joe’s parking lots tend to be a nightmare. Maybe men should step it up and do the grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:26 PM
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See this is what I mean when I say a man doesn’t need to identify as RP to hold RP beliefs. RP is so mainstream that when guys say RP talking points, they don’t think they are saying anything RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:23 PM
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See? Men view abuse as a status symbol. Men think abusing women is masculine and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:22 PM
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The top comment is a cesspool of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:21 PM
2

Diabolical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:19 PM
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Just because they don’t tag themselves as red pill doesn’t mean they don’t say exactly what the red pill says. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:17 PM
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The blue pill mode literally describe men as polygynous and explain that it’s male nature to sleep with a bunch of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:16 PM
0

See? Even Stacie’s aren’t attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:15 PM
2

A woman isn’t obligated to become kinky just because she is aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:10 PM
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He also had numerous men agreeing with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:21 AM
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No it isn’t. Do you not see the shit men post here???? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:50 AM
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Literally even the “blue pill” male mods here say red pill talking points and are very red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:49 AM
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Yes. They marry men with retroactive jealousy and who are from red pill and incel forums. Those men become abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:29 AM
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Yeah because we are shocked by the disgusting things men say and men double down and lock in and insist on saying said disgusting things!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:28 AM
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Unfortunately it’s mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:26 AM
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But the focus of this conversation is inexperienced men. Inexperienced men don’t want these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:30 AM
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So a ton of men believe they deserve the women I pictured and not like pic related. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:40 AM
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This sub is a red pill echo chamber. It isn’t blue pilled at all. We had an entire thread where a guy claimed women are addicted to dopamine and are spoiled by the opportunities to have casual sex. There are other threads where men keep saying they want to push sexual boundaries with women who may have done stuff in the past but don’t want to because they didn’t like it (mainly anal sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:35 AM
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Yes. Male hypergamy again. https://www.keeper.ai/calc what percentage of all women in the USA meet their stats? Age: 18-25.Exclude obese. 7.3% of women. Most women are older and fatter. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:28 AM
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It’s not an insecurity. It’s just that men on ppd and retroactive jealousy have indicated that they have a vicious streak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:26 AM
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Yes I say it and I don’t tolerate a man asking about my past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:16 AM
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These are the “non Stacy” women men are talking about. From Google. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:15 AM
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My friend is almost 40 and a KHHV. He is fixated on slim women who have the “conventionally attractive but without makeup on ” look. <image> I googled “tri delta 2014” and this is what came up. This sort of look. Thin, pretty, young, conventionally attractive, but not high maintenance and not super made up. He doesn’t understand that these are the top women who every guy ever wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:12 AM
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Nope you’re arguing semantics. I don’t want my partner to fundamentally change who they are just because of what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:04 AM
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It’s not just an ex, but male exes. This thread and the retroactive jealousy subreddit are proof that men get jealous for years over situations that women found hurtful and humiliating. I see so many men express this sentiment and as a woman who cannot control her sexuality, it’s better to say nothing about my past. I stick with “it’s none of your business” but men often don’t take kindly to firmness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:43 AM
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Yeah if they even ask I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:35 AM
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Why do men portray men as these evil caricatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:33 AM
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Framing this as a moral issue is diabolical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:33 AM
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List 10 boundaries that you think are rational to cross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:22 AM
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No. You’re a bad person for expecting them to do that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:14 AM
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Absolutely yes. Again, you’re arguing about semantics. It’s gross to only feel validated if a woman crossed her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:10 AM
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Once again, Redditors argue about semantics instead of the principles behind them. There are certain limits that certain people don’t ever want to cross. Anyone that pressures someone to cross these limits is a diabolical person. These are limits that are not negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:42 AM
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Once again, Redditors argue about semantics instead of the principles behind them. There are certain limits that certain people don’t ever want to cross. Anyone that pressures someone to cross these limits is a diabolical person. These are limits that are not negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:40 AM
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Yes. To me they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:39 AM
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It’s not delusion. It’s love. My pets aren’t the cutest pets on earth, but they are the cutest pets on earth to me because I love them. My family isn’t especially attractive but to me they are especially attractive because I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:33 PM
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I don’t care. OP is describing women as pushovers when they are in love, open for exploitation and abuse. It’s a horrible way to view women and how women love men. Pushing personal boundaries that are reasonable is not a sign of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:32 PM
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As someone else said, as long as the boundaries are reasonable, it would be wrong for me to want my partner to not have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:30 PM
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I think it’s sociopathic to want your partner to push any boundaries at all. It’s not the same thing as making sacrifices or compromises.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:03 PM
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I don’t care about inexperience in men. But after reading the hateful rage men express towards women in incel forums, I am cautious around inexperienced men. A lot of them are holding out for stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:58 PM
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This is why I say men view abusing women as a status symbol. Men view a woman doing things she doesn’t want to do or is uncomfortable doing as a sign of love and attraction. I get called a misandrist for saying it but men say it. And I repeat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:56 PM
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Yes I am saying that it happens too and that it’s sociopathic and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:40 PM
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That was the implication of the question. Meanwhile you pointedly ignore everything I listed that was infinitely worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:19 PM
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Building MORE attraction. Not initial attraction. No wonder you resort to personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:05 PM
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Did you even read what I wrote? Women said they wanted a quick death over a slow one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:05 PM
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You describe your wife as less attractive. Instead of building attraction over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:41 PM
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It does make men monsters. It’s a sociopathic thought process. “Oh I got to have fuckable years that I can jack off to” is such a depressing thought process that men have. At least women can navigate life knowing that men think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:19 PM
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I did. The men responded in a diabolical way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:18 PM
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Yes. Men tend to defend sexual coercion then complain about how women pick bad/ abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:17 PM
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But what you said has nothing to do with OP’s post or the conversation. Op claims that men just have negative talking points about women and that the word “misogynist” isn’t justified. I am explaining that the word “misogynist” is extremely justified. Furthermore, the man vs bear conversation was because most women would rather be eaten by a bear than raped and tortured. The problem wasn’t that every single man is going to rape and torture women. The conversation was about how death is better th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:17 PM
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No. Women love their husbands and find them hotter with age. Not because men age like wine, but because we love them. Men don’t. Men say “oh at least I got 10 fuckable years with her”. Literally what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:56 PM
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Emotional bond changes physical features. Every semi decent parent thinks their baby is the cutest in the world even though they may not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:55 PM
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I didn’t say women aren’t superficial and selfish in any way. But if we love our husband, he will get hotter with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:54 PM
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You’re not detracting from what I said. I will copy and paste both me and someone else’s comments; Comment 1 Men say that women are to blame for everything and they should take womens rights / right to vote away. • ⁠And that women are over the hill at 25 /30. • ⁠That they are run through whores that no one wants. • ⁠Single mothers are to blame for everything. And no one wants them. -They have all these revenge fantasies. Ive seen sooooo many posts with : SOON THERE'S GONNA BE AN EPIDEMIC OF LONE…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:53 PM
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Yes I get that. But these guys also claim that they’re the nice ones who women overlook due to women being too cruel and superficial to appreciate them. If I love a man, he will get hotter to me as he gets older. Not because aging makes you Chadly, but because he is mine and I am bonded to him. Exceptions are like horrible medical situations that are depressing and traumatic. And I would just be sad, not leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:50 PM
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I repeated what you said. You can name call me all you want, but I am not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:47 PM
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Yikes. Men always describe men in diabolical ways. “Oh she’s not as hot as she was 10 years ago. At least I got to experience her in her prime. Now she has to sexually service me and do things that she may not want to do in order to be attractive!” Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:34 PM
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See? I get called a misandrist for saying stuff but this is a male talking about males. If I love someone, it doesn’t matter what they look like (excluding things like giant deformities that weren’t there when we first met showing up or depressing situations like a colonoscopy bag), I will find them even more attractive than when we first met as the years go by. To me, even if they aren’t the “chad of their youth”, all the love and time spent together will reflect to me as someone extremely hot.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:33 PM
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You’re comparing a humiliating and painful sex act that can mess up our rectum (anal sex) to going to a restaurant that you don’t like. I got called a misandrist, but men are the ones who describe their own gender as sociopaths. At the restaurant I don’t like, I can simply not eat. I’ve been to restaurants that I don’t like or where I cannot eat the food with friends. I simply eat before or after on my own and then don’t eat at the place. If I have anal sex, and I hate anal sex, then I simply do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:25 PM
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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/sexual-coercion I get called a misandrist all the time, but so far you’re saying men will guilt trip women and cheat if she doesn’t want to have anal sex. Thats sociopathic. You’re describing men as sexually coercive sociopaths. I am not the one doing it, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:18 PM
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He wants her to let her boyfriend/ husband do it once even though it’s painful and humiliating. Because she let her ex do it. Because men want to be the one who hurts and humiliated. It’s a status symbol. They view being a loving, respectful, and kind partner as being a “beta simp”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:15 PM
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Guilt tripping women who don’t want to have anal sex is sexual coercion. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/sexual-coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:14 PM
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I don’t think women are lying. as I said earlier those women are mentally ill. And the men who agree to it are predators. There is no pleasure center for anal sex in cis Afab women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:12 PM
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I wish I could give you an award!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:10 PM
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Yes, threatening to break up or being pouty or whiny about sexual acts is sexual coercion. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/sexual-coercion “I tried it and didn’t like it” means she didn’t like it. It’s foul to expect her to force herself to do something she doesn’t like because “if crested a wedge in our relationship!!!” And “you don’t find me desirable!!!” Especially for things like anal sex which are degrading, painful, and often traumatic because women have no pleasure center there …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:09 PM
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Yes. I agree that the men on ppd are horrible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:02 PM
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Men do and say a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:21 AM
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That’s also pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:20 AM
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I understand sorry about those issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:19 AM
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And we have just established that multiple men will be jealous if she lets him coerce or pressure her multiple times or doesn’t abruptly end sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:34 AM
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Being succinct and brief is a good communication skill if you want to get a point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:34 AM
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I would think that the woman is mentally ill and the man is a predator if he’s into it. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:29 AM
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Again, sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:28 AM
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If the boyfriend/ husband had retroactive jealousy he should leave. That sort of resentment and bitterness turns into abuse over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:26 AM
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So many men are into sexual coercion but then I get a called a misandrist for saying it. You’re literally saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:23 AM
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See? I get called a misandrist but men describe men in the worst ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:22 AM
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This is such a gross response. Men are the biggest misandrists. You’re literally trying to justify men coercing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:22 AM
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Literally you repeated what she said. Like you paralleled her perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:21 AM
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Why do you italicize like half your words unnecessarily. If someone gets jealous over rapey/ coercive situations they are diabolical. It’s better to tell them and filter them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:20 AM
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Any guy that gets jealous over the situation that the lady described is a horrible sociopath monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:19 AM
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Even though you would stop if she feels uncomfortable or in pain that doesn’t mean she is obligated to have anal sex again if she doesn’t want to. All the goodnaturedness in the world doesn’t change that anal is degrading and painful to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:18 AM
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I love how women have to put this stuff because rape/ sa/ coercion is seen as such a status symbol to men that they need to be reminded that even unattractive men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:17 AM
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I am copying and pasting from my other comment: There’s an entire thread from yesterday where a guy described women as dopamine addicted and cruel. He also claimed that masses of women are using men for “foodie calls”. There are also near daily threads where men claim women love abuse and abusers and these same men get mean and verbally abusive when women call them out. Men describe men as sociopaths. Men describe men as polygynous while most women view loyalty and monogamy as a core part of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:25 AM
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There’s an entire thread from yesterday where a guy described women as dopamine addicted and cruel. He also claimed that masses of women are using men for “foodie calls”. There are also near daily threads where men claim women love abuse and abusers and these same men get mean and verbally abusive when women call them out. Men describe men as sociopaths. Men describe men as polygynous while most women view loyalty and monogamy as a core part of their nature and values. Men also view a man who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:31 AM
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Men straight up describe women as cruel sociopaths. That isn’t “negative talking points” it’s just hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:33 AM
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>Yikes. No it isn't. Not everyone is shopping for an M.R.S. and sugar daddy sitch. This is trad wife territory. Lack of interest (not looking for marriage) low agreeableness (calling marriage a sugar daddy sitch and trad wife territory). >Most of us just date because we like men (or women, depending) and want to have fun. Lack of interest (using women for sex) >Maybe that person can turn into something serious, lifelong even and include having children Lack of interest (stringing along a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:29 PM
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He isn’t handing money to people he just met. He’s paying for a meal with a woman who is giving him her time and spending her SMV/ RMV with him. Within an hour, you know if you want to continue seeing someone or not. As me and OOP said, the guys who are weird about paying for the first date will have resentful attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:12 PM
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The point of a first date is to evaluate the guy as a future husband. As OOP said, men who are weird about paying for the first date have further messed up views on women. Such as viewing providing for their wife and kids as being an”cash cow” and labeling his wife who may or may not be a SAHM as “transactional and hypergamous”. I do not want to marry a man who thinks this way. I want a man who is ready for marriage and who doesn’t view being a husband and father as being a “locked down baby dad…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:09 PM
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Yeah but the issue is he frames women as the problem. He describes women as fickle, cruel, and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:03 PM
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Then op should expand his post to include men and be completely gender neutral. He doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:23 PM
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What an odd answer. Most millennials/ Gen Z/ Gen Alpha are addicted to their phones. Regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:57 PM
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No it’s very accurate. Look how many men complain about how fat western women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:44 PM
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That’s literally the point. To make sure he’s financially stable and capable and willing to support her if they have a family. And no. You can just say “because she’s a woman”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:54 PM
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you can do all that and still be polite and friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:15 PM
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Nope. I am not. You think that it’s tough and dominant and a sign of power and leadership to be disagreeable and rude. I am saying it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:11 PM
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Maybe you do, but men love to virtue signal and claim that they don’t care about a woman’s income. Put your money where your mouth is if that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:10 PM
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You’re changing the subject. I am describing first dates. Not an established girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:09 PM
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As op said, not agreeable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:58 PM
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No because you use shocking language and are stingy about an (inexpensive) date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:46 PM
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Part of dating is having failed dates. If you want to reduce expenses, then you simply go on less dates or don’t pick dates that are outside your budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:46 PM
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There you go. Proving op to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:42 PM
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You can “not cave” and still be agreeable about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:42 PM
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It’s offensive, tense, and hostile language.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:51 PM
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If a guy is pressed about losing $50-75 MAXIMUM on a first date that doesn’t work out then he is not financially secure. After a certain age we expect guys to be financially secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:51 PM
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Yes, usually top businessmen are polite and charismatic. You’re confusing timidity with politeness. They are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:50 PM
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You are supporting OP’s post 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:49 PM
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I mean, this is the mindset op is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:32 PM
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>Like thinking they should be paid for because they were born with a vagina? See this sort of language supports OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:30 PM
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Because it’s a topic that a lot of men get super heated and passionate about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:29 PM
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No they don’t. Being charismatic and polite gets most men ahead in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:28 PM
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Don’t make things personal. You described women in a diabolical way. That is a fact. You were hateful towards women. That is a fact. You don’t have any argument left because what I said is fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:17 AM
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Did I say you said anything disgusting? I am speaking in generals. We have men coming here multiple times a day to describe women as sadistic, flippant, cruel, mean, incredibly superficial, etc. When women call these men out, the men whine that women are dismissing their concerns and lacking empathy. They even accuse these women of being misandrist after saying a bunch of diabolical things about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:15 AM
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We aren’t obliged to be sympathetic when men say disgusting things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:01 AM
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The entire premise of your argument is that you view women as dopamine addicted and superficial and cruel. That is hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:00 AM
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Men constantly tell women to pick better and pick someone else. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:59 AM
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Is she smiling and interacting with the camera. And it’s humiliating and embarrassing because he’s saying she’s contradicting her beliefs to serve him food and presumably sexually service him. If his goal was to elevate her, he would say something along the lines of “I love my wife/ girlfriend. She cooks so well for me!” But he doesnt. He speaks with disrespect because disrespect of women is a status symbol between men and respect is called simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:54 AM
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No they didn’t. These guys would just F off and be a painter or something and their moms would have to be sex workers or live in poorhouses while their kids would live like Oliver Twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:19 AM
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https://hinative.com/questions/602878 There’s a difference in common American English.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:18 AM
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Well I am not. I think that late stage abortion is wrong. Unless there’s a medical reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:16 AM
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Yes. I think 18 weeks is sick unless there’s a medical reason. I don’t know why you think this is a “gotcha”. And men describe men as sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:08 AM
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Most men think that their looksmatch is a woman who is far more attractive than their actual looksmatch is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:07 AM
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Nothing motivates or benefits her. The guy posted the video without her consent to humiliate and embarrass her, which is a status symbol amongst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:05 AM
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List 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:42 PM
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No, it’s at about 16-20 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:55 PM
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It’s a baby after a certain point during the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:41 PM
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She doesn’t even seem to know she’s being posted on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:40 PM
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You’re changing the topic to something completely unrelated and 2. Pick mes are women who humiliate other women for their own gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:22 PM
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Not in this way. That guy is just humiliating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:17 PM
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I am. Men say bad stuff about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:14 PM
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Translation; men are sociopaths based on biology
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:10 PM
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Married men get serviced by their wives in multiple different ways. A guy humiliating you on the internet offers zero benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:05 PM
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Translation: men describe men as sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:04 PM
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What 18 weeks looks like btw. It isn’t 8 weeks. Men are sociopaths. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:03 PM
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