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| 1 | How to deal with a friend who is more handsome and tall[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 08:48 AM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Eeew why would you think thats, I think you are projecting something pal, you should go to a psychologist to get that looked at | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:16 AM |
| 3 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”I had an italian friend that used to say "la prima e la fruta más divina" what translates to something like, the cousin is the most divine fruit. I think this post prooves It, your cousins success IS clearly derived from his status as cousin. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 05:24 PM |
| 57 | What to do if she says "You're lucky"?"youd be surprised". Or "ive always been very Lucky'". | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 10:18 PM |
| 3 | How do I keep her attention after opening with a compliment?Time to get swifty Shit on the flooor | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 09:03 PM |
| 18 | What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man?My collection of anime fanserviced waifu figurines My Roxy sensei figurines that resembles the animes actual Roxy figurine IS quite popular, also my asuka from Evangelion on her tight Eva 2 pilot suit | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you subtly move forward after repeated eye contact without coming across as creepy, take the game forward?The point is. You aint a medium. If you dont interact and launch a probé you wont collect the data needed to make the right decisión. Stop being weird and just enjoy talking to another human, if she is not into It then we can always play visual novels and datesims We might not win at Life, but we can win the ship wars | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 10:25 AM |
| 4 | How do you subtly move forward after repeated eye contact without coming across as creepy, take the game forward?Hi. Sexualizing and seduction is actually very similar to space travel. You start with small tests of low Risk (what they call a probe) to see if you can move to bigger, high Risk, high rewards tests (bigger probes, and eventually the rocket in your pants). Lets say you been looking at each other for a while? A conservative follow Up would be smiling and waving from the distance , react possitively? You can aproach And tell her you likes x,y,z that took your attention. She reacts positively to t… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Game > Looksmaxxing?IS It better to know how to shoot and pass the ball, or to have an amazing cardio? | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 08:32 PM |
| 21 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?This people have no clue. She said the thing about the Guy to tell you to push for It and get your shit together. Stop acting like a Teddy bear and give her the d. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I date casually without coming across like a douchebag?The way I did It: 1st date: "what are you looking for" ? Answer: "something serious, but not with whoever appears first. Im in no hurry to be serious with the first woman that IS interested. In that sense, let me tell you in advance that for me I take around 4-8 dates (you can adjust the number to your standards**) to decide if I feel we are compatible enough for an exclusive relationship. If this its important for you i dont mind not having sex until then". Some point between 4-8date, if she is… | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | 100% serious: should I give up?Yes. Give Up. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:02 PM |
| 25 | do you think men enjoy giving head or they fake it?I enjoy It when she explodes. Feeling a womens mental barriers break completely and get totally owned by a good orgasm Ready to give herself and let you do whatever you want as a reward. Man im getting turned on just thinking about It. Oral is great. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | What made you better/more natural?Average 10 per day and you got It in 3.2 years | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 09:20 PM |
| 4 | How can I tell if eye contact means interest or is just random?By asking | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 06:27 PM |
| -1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?I had a mentor (not a dating coach) that once have me pretty solid Career advice. I think It applies here. You are going to learn everything you can learn of a specific skill in this order: 70% by doing 10% by reading literature and courses 20% by mentors (in this case, dating coaches) If you práctice enough, you can definitely compensate the lack of mentorship , if you follow a scientific aproach. Trial and error, avoid reinventing the wheel, etc. A good mentor Will help you grasp the básics so… | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 06:58 AM |
| 1 | I am looking for pick up coachI agree with the others. If possible. Avoid coach alltogether. But if you need to pick one. Pick this one, (he is the real deal, trust me bro) https://egolandseduccion.com/ | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you cold approach if dating apps were working out for you?Yes. Aproaching is fun and natural for me. It makes me feel Alive. I miss It so much since im in a relationship, more than the hookups. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 03:58 PM |
| 1 | be honest with me....is it over?Yes. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 09:03 AM |
| 7 | Beginner: how to introduce a situationship smoothly?Getting laid without honesty Or honor is Easy. Doing it while being honest and a gentleman? That takes true skills. You know what you gotta do. If you are a real men you Will find another hottie to bang that is actually a good match. Move on like a King or live lying like a beggar and a thief. | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 06:59 AM |
| -10 | is it just me or is malevolence way more rewarding for a guyThis a 100%. Sick of this crybaby posts. | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Stimulating a women mindYou aint seducing a girl that doesnt want to be seduced. Its pretty much the same thing. You aint "converting" anyone into Anything. You just push the buttons that were already there. | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 07:02 AM |
| 6 | Stimulating a women mindLearn from people that make a living stimulating the mind sexually Who are those you ask? Search for hypno domination and joi porn videos, femdom porn actresses that make a living by selling gooner, findom and joi content in first person and turning weak minded men into addicted paypigs. They are pros of the mindfuck and inducing submission. Proffesional hipnotists and the such. I found while consuming that type of content that their confidence, breathing tecniques, mental strategies, mannerisms… | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Is cold approach basically a numbers game like sales? Thinking of doing 100 approaches.And your product (yourself as a person) and market (the type of girl you are targeting) fit also increase It. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 9 | Okay 100 approaches to learn is cool. But how do you guys deal with the fear of being labelled as creepy or guy who tries to hit on every girl?Just as you become more atractive when you aproach successfully and other Girls know It, you become less atractive when you fail, I call it zone Burnout. Lets say you are clubbing, there IS a disconwith three environments and in this imaginary disco music IS low enough to aproach. If you fail a lot in a specific zone you should move to another and alternate them so they get "refreshed" with new people. In day Game you can just walk around different city parts and alternate. In college where ther… | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:04 AM |
| 1 | What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?Anticucking? | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 02:29 PM |
| -4 | Does this stuff really work?No. Give Up now. You wont get any and be miserable, but at least you Will feel intelligent because you did not dedicate time to something that could have helped but probably wouldnt. You Will have so much time saved, you can use It to play Pacman, Or Pokemon. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Is face card the most important?Your society IS probably a statistical anomaly in terms of the advice that can be given in the sense of how fucked Up It seems to be. Women are just treated too poorly there and that Will influence the ways they aproach relationships . Think about It, if you treat women like cattle and dont respect their independence, and put excessive value in certain cultural things, thats going to totally alter their mindset when dating. I mean this with total respect. The videos and reports we get from here … | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 10:02 AM |
| -1 | What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?In Europe It kinda is | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 05:18 AM |
| 12 | What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?Jim carrie when he can turn It off. Hugh Grant in heretic. Bo burnham. | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 09:53 PM |
| 23 | What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?ABS Meaning, an automated Breaking system. If he has a car thats a pretty cool flex ;) | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?Thats true. Foreign Girls on traveling and/ Or adventure mode are usually usually easier. Absolutely correct. In my opinión you still need some level of Game to pull them in. Has nothing to do with Spain, Or nationality for that Matter. The " I dont need Game because Girls are literally throwing themselves at any man With a pulse" thing? Not true. And thats how It sounded. People live and date here as anywhere else. , and there are people that are not traveling, for example. If you just want a r… | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 08:22 AM |
| 3 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?Women are straightforward and make a move anywhere, when you are atractive enough. But ok. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?I think some of the coaches are bilingual but the program no. | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 11:24 PM |
| 17 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?What really transformed me was not so much the session with the dating coach ( although It was a philosophical gamechanger) but, rather the 5 day bootcamp where we received specialized training and classes in múltiple diverse áreas of seduction* with múltiple different coaches ( all of them professional psychologist and sexologists that práctice the profession, besides being dating coaches) and then, spending the evenings and nights and part of the days, during those 5 days, aproaching women and… | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The BEST Ways To Get Back Into/ Start Cold Approach!You dont need to worry about what she thinks if you are just, truly competent. Which you should strive to be. Competence IS atractive. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The BEST Ways To Get Back Into/ Start Cold Approach!Tips on what? | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 3 | The BEST Ways To Get Back Into/ Start Cold Approach!Sexualizing the conversation IS the skill to máster. For me, It clicked when I understood It as an escalator, you start small and innocent, like probing and testing how she reacts with small stuff (an example of hownthe escalator looks like: a compliment on her psyche, then a compliment on her general appearance, some intimate eye Contact, then some permission to touch her skin, then a hug, then a kiss on the check, then a full blown kiss so on... ) if she reacts positively, you can escalate in … | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Need your opinion on this.I disagree with everyone here. It was a qualifier, and could be considered an opener. An ineffective one, pretty pretty bad one. The reason? You are not differentiating yourself at all Or emphathising at all with the mental state of her when receiving It. You are showing no interest on her as a person, and are sexualizing too much too fast, giving rapey vibes in the first second. Not good. The fact that you cant imagine why she would not like that, Or find atractive someone that aproaches with t… | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Drunk or sober for night game?Pros do It sober. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | 28 virgin. Is it too late for me?Its not. Im not going to dive deeper into why, because its a waste of time. Just like this question. I would argue that the answer, IS actually irrelevant even. You dont really have any option anyways but to try right? I have stuck around this sub long enough to know that people that go around asking that feeling sorry for themselves are not worth my time, if you are convinced its imposible no one here IS going to change your mind and you are going to proove yourself right (congratulations! You … | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 09:51 PM |
| 3 | There is a girl on my train. Tell me what to do or say to her.Im the reencarnation of astaroth, lord and Commander of the capital city in the circle of pride. Join me in a festival of lavish Desire and destruction, Or i shall conquer and Crush the ants in this train with the anger of a thousand damned souls Or maybe , just say hi. Im bored, want to Talk? | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Dilemma of SeductionManipulation definition: the action of manipulating someone in a clever or unscrupulous way. Watching a movie sounds soooo unscrupulous and cold and clever. Totally tricked her right there. | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Dilemma of SeductionSeduction IS the art of having person x do y, by having person x wanting to do It. Seduction can be achieved by: persuasión (communicating honestly ) Or manipulation (communicating dishonestly). I fundamentally disagree that all forms of seduction are a form of manipulation. This is simply false. | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Dilemma of SeductionThere are different schools of seduction. It its not antagonized with honesty in some (in my opinión, the best) schools of thought. Mark mansons literature and spanish egoland authors are all about natural seduction based on your own version of atractiveness and comunication. About being yourself and communicating effectively and honesty. Maybe try reading models from Mark manson. | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Need advice 18MIf you are serious, and this It not a bot. Chill dude. First lets... Chill. Its ok to end the semester a Virgin , the only way to have a 100% control of that outcome IS to pay someone to fuck you. Which, honestly, IS sadder than ending the semester a Virgin. Know from experience. Now, about maximizing our chances, Accepting bad outcomes and detaching yourself from the result Will be the first step. Accept that its ok if you dont score. You cant do the things that are needed (to score) if you are… | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Is she into me romantically?This. People that ask this type of questions are giving too many fucks about rejection. You dont Crush your dreams in Life with that mentality. You want her? Yes Or no. Its a yes? Go give your best shot. | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm devastated and hopelessThere is something that really gives me off vibes in your way you describe cold aproach, the Girls you aproach and how you describe your relationship and your ex. I think you need therapy because you sound like a dick, and a walking red flag. Daproachint woman you consider "below" you, and talking about them like that? The entitlement? And whats worse! Not anyone calling you out on this sub. Like, hotness IS the only thing you can see in a women? You are blind! You are meeting an entire universe… | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 08:12 AM |
| 17 | Bad texting but good in personYou are texting too much. You need to find something better to do. Ideally related to Girls so you arent so insistent for attention when they are not with you. People after a certain age, get busy dude. You are a man , go Crush your dreams, stop crying for attention on the phone. They can smell your needyness, and It makes them dryer than burnt toast. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Want to move a book...Not feeling in the mood to answer, but im sure that googling It is part of your skillset. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Small win today & wanted to share it and to get some adviceIt helps to have a general outline of what in my school called, the basic blocks of meeting someone. Who are you and what are you doing here? What are your plans (Life) in the short, mid and long term What are your hobbies and what you enjoy about Life What do you work on, do with your time to adult You can expand all this essential topics with "why (why do you do It) , how , and how It makes them feel/how they feel about It. Also you can dive deeper and ask specific questions of any details she… | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I flirt at work?Yes. That way you can get sued for harrasment, loose your Career, stop being able to afford internet connection and eventually, never post on reddit again. Effectively, making the world a better place. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 02:10 AM |
| 7 | Want to move a book...Models. From Mark manson. Pair It Up with the art of not giving a f from the same author and you Will be in your Road to winning in Life. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | No wonder most dudes stay stuck - how are you supposed to get better at game without real time feedback?I have talked a lot about It. This IS the school i went to. https://egolandseduccion.com/ The rejection is part of the cold aproach, its inevitable. You never going to land the girl if she IS not atracted to you. You cant convince a person to eat Or fuck Or date a turd. You also wont convince a person to break their morals Or priorities for you. For me the art to be learned IS in how to maximize probability and how to handle rejection, Or renegotiate It like a champ, without crossing the line of… | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it all just bs?There are great legendary seductors, that also coach. I have seen then with my own eyes. They dont do the push and pull bullshit though. And they dont pretend infalible results are guaranteed, Or that its not a statistics Game where you try to maximize probabilities with your communication, inner Game, and Life marketing. There IS a lot of bullshit in the pickup artist space, but because there IS a lot of bullshit everywhere. ai, banking, psychology, healthcare, real estate even freaking food in… | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Men, what do you enjoy as much as or more than women?Excercise, Friends, manga, my Career and building a business, investing, theater, riding a motorcycle. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | When seeking a casual relationship, do you let them know before or after the first time you sleep with them?This. People really doing mental gymnastics to justify leading people on This IS what i did when I was single: on the first date, usually when they ask (and they always ask) "what are you looking for?" I tell them that im looking for something serious, but im in no Hurry, and there IS no guarantee im going to feel that connection with them. It takes 5-8 dates for me to know if It could be interesting to be exclusive for me, if they think sex IS a Big deal, I totally dont mind waiting for It. Som… | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:35 PM |
| 3 | No wonder most dudes stay stuck - how are you supposed to get better at game without real time feedback?You have coaches that actually wingman with you and teach you stuff, and you can see them in action. I have learned from them, i have also coache and taught people myself. You just have to be willing to pay them, and know where to find them. Without that, then its like any other art, you can only learn with a lot of trial and error. You experiment stuff, as you get bigger and bigger sample sizes you get more accurate and trustworthy conclusions. Básic statistics. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a “type” and how often do you go for your “type”?She also has Two arms! And can count to 37 if needed. Quite the catch. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 08:32 AM |
| 8 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?So much drama, first, dont call It "confession" dude, like, this IS not a Shoujo anime. How about you remove the confession and the feelings and whatever stuff and tell her, something like ""im enjoying our time together, and I can see myself catching feelings for this, what do you think of being sexually exclusive"? She Will like It, Or she Will not, and you can just adapt. If you become exclusive you are already Logistically speaking monogamous, and its usually understood that feelings are eve… | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsEmpathy , so much work. Lol. No wonder you are having trouble my dude. In my case getting a teacher ,reading books and cold aproaching did wonders. Learning comedy and theater also helped. Just try to have fun while you constantly improve and you Will try to do It more often, you Will eventually get there. Make self improvement a fun activity, Without haste but without pause. Its all learnable. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:15 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsWomen want to feel things. They sometimes want to feel challenged, they sometimes want to feel supported, they sometimes want to feel adventure and trespass of the forbidden. They sometimes want to feel emotionally connected, they sometimes want to get pounded hard and be treated like a slut, and sometimes They want a shoulder to cry on or feel respected and admired. Sometimes they want to feel safe and better than others by being with the coolest toughest guy in the room. They most of the time … | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | I almost paid for sex, but I'm glad I didn't in the end. How do you cope with a woman who ditched you twice in a more healthy way?You pay every single experience on your Life with time. Does not make paying a girl with both coin AND time (when she IS not paying you on the same token) any less pathethic. Yes. You always pay, but you dont always pay the same price for the same perks. Paying a girl for attention , a posible std, pretending she doesnt find you disgusting and your time IS not the same thing as paying with your time only (while also being paid in the same token and with actual interest and atraction). The people… | /r/seduction | 06/11/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with anxiety and lack of experience with this girl?Stop wasting time fighting with random people on reddit. Go to therapy. If you fear most of them are hacks (they are), write a post Or message me how to find a good one. Its an iterative process but Life changing. If its a money issue, then you have something critical to Focus on. Its normal to feel inadequate if you cant even afford the help you need. Seduction wont improve until you fix the economical issue and the anxiety caused by It. You cant be feeling like you feel, Talk like you Talk, an… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 10:42 AM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Agreed. If op is really so insecure about aproaching and women and has so litle experience I would really recommend not cold aproaching there if at all posible until that learning curve IS settled. Try social circle strategy first Or really go learn in a safer place for aproaching. Seems like the kind of place where aproaching can really screw your Life if you dont know what you are doing, this Will add unnecesary stress to the process and make op form negative neural connections to the process,… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 10:02 AM |
| 0 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?The thing about india its that IS famous for women harrasing. Even tourists have been raped in front of their partners and made the news. That would make women specially specially intimidated. So i would have to take precautions and do things to maximize probability: 1) smile and wave from afar before aproaching. Try to inspire sensibility and even a litle femininity in your expression, like, help the person know that you could cry with a sad movie if you watched It. 2) start the aproach stating… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with anxiety and lack of experience with this girl?You need therapy dude, you need to chill a litle bit and maybe disconnect from the whole thing for a while. You are creating tons of unnecesary pressure on yourself. Im not feeling like that, at all. You are making tons of assumptions about people and women, that are simple not true. Tons of women stay with sexually incompetente dudes for a good while, and learning to please a woman IS really not so difficult. You are victimizing yourself, and you are assuming stuff about people. You are probabl… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s The Point of Seduction?I had one teacher that had a definition I really really liked. Seduction IS the art of learning to observe what you love about something, and having the emotional intelligence to communicate It effectively to the person that cares the most. This broad definition I really like, because, you see, you can seduce many things. Not only the person you are atracted to. You can learn to seduce yourself, you can seduce your part time job, your responsabilities, you can seduce your afternoon, you can sedu… | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Are American women or European women easier?No | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Are American women or European women easier?In the states money IS more important. Survival and the abilty to pay medical surprises IS tied to It. Also date logístics depend exclusively on your ownership of a car. Culture is also weird enough to have the gay frat House and slut sorority fenomenon at college, which also costs al lot of money to get in (making expectations on social class inflated, i personally know many americans that spends money they dont have to pretend they look richer than they are, just being in a fraternity costs an… | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 08:35 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with anxiety and lack of experience with this girl?Confidence comes with competence. Flow and fun comes with detachment from the result. You need both. Let go man, its ok if you dont landnthis chick, you can meet others like her. Relax, you are lovable and atractive, you are just inexperienced. Crashing and burning a relationship by flirting and Game mistakes does not define Who you are Or if you are any less masculine. What truly defines you as a person IS how disciplined and intelligent are you in pursuing your goals. Being with a girl like th… | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 06:40 AM |
| 3 | There are 5 types of women when it comes to first datesHi, I think its a pretty good framework to classify girls that one might consider dating. I can perfectly assign every girl i have dated in one of this categories. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Brothers, I failed and fall for the trap.. now I’m angry and want revengeTell me you are a Virgin without telling me you are a Virgin. Like, this IS a joke, right? This whole post is a teenager prank. No mature man old enough to drink tequila actually talks like this, right? ....right? | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 08:03 AM |
| 10 | What will happen if I start approaching daily?The common opinion in this sub seems to be that It is good to aproach daily. I mainly agree, but with some conditions: You need to have other cool stuff going on in your Life. Cool hobbies , study, work, a passion, excercise/Sports. You need to have a life, one that you enjoy and are Happy about, beyond trying to get laid. Mainly for Two reasons: 1) you need to have something to Talk about when aproaching women. They Will want to tale a peek inside your soul during the interaction, and no Game W… | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | During your seduction journey cold approaching did you go from 0 results to finally getting laid?Yes. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 12:07 PM |
| 3 | I have a good lifestyle and look, but zero romantic experience with the opposite sex. Is the society so bad or it’s also me?Its never productive to blame others for what we dont like about our lives. Its also you anyhow, so might as well Focus on that. About escorts. Check my answer history on this community. In summary, you Will see its not worth It champ. But if you feel that desperate, you do you. You can have a wife (Or a girlfriend/Life partner, why do you want to get married anyways? ) by spending much less. You should not be renting, you should be having a place owned by you according to your means and what yo… | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 08:24 AM |
| 12 | Correct way to text girls after getting their number? Double text or chalk it upHey my man, you did not do Anything wrong. You can insist but, the truth, if you were top of mind It really wouldnt be necesary. Here IS the thing my dude, you cant control whats on her top of mind on a given moment. For one, The dating market has too much offer. There IS no way you could have stopped a famous emotionally intelligent love of her Life type of individual to aproach her (Or match her on Tinder) randomly between the last time you Saw her and now and her prefering that person. If she… | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Can Asians be good at game?This. What you are fighting is your culture, specially if you are japanese. Thats quite an enclosetted society. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best city in the "world" to date and does weather matter?Valencia Spain, full of tourists and expats if you want casual dating, aproachable culture, city enough to go clubbing with awsome nightgame spot buts nature gifted and safe enough to have great spots for romantic daygaming too. I have had cold aproaches turn into sightseeing dates instabnty. Daygaming in the beach in summer is awsome. Best hispanic speaking school of seduction and seduction community is here also, probably the best spanish speaking seductors of the planet. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | The aggressive bitch of the group just acted a role playCool story bro | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | I am not feeling the high for some reasonYou were bored, because you are a boring dude. And i dont mean that in a charisma, entertainment sense. I mean spiritually. How bout instead of worrying about how many sets you open and how much you escalate, you try go make some Friends? Get yourself a good laugh. Embarrass yourself and then tell your Friends about how you screwed It Up. Maybe you Will get laid, maybe you wont. But make sure to have fun , and if you arent having fun you arent doing It right. Sense of humor, I firmly believe IS … | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Would going to a strip club help with building confidence and sexual confidence ?Not like going out and talking to Girls in a real unscripted paid scenario. If you want to go play with strippers and shit be my guest dude, idgaf, but It wont provide you with any Edge you could get better served just going out and failing at cold aproach. I used to consume prostitution , i started at 18 precisely with this mindset. I was a Virgin, 0 experience with women, and i romanticized the idea of having a profesional teach me how to treat a lady. I also had a midly fucked Up childhood an… | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 07:05 AM |
| 3 | How do you make a girl feel that you are not only after her looks?This is a great answer. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 10:31 PM |
| 32 | Where to look for a sex casual friend?This answer is actually pretty good. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 02:56 PM |
| 19 | What was the most key mentality change that helped you the most to flirt?Its about having healthy fun. If you aint having fun yourself with the interaction, what can you expect her to feel? Its better to blow It but have a memorable story to tell of how you blew It, than getting in bed with a person you dont enjoy hanging out with. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 10:26 PM |
| 9 | I don’t think I’ll ever get a girlfriend and I don’t know what to do about itUsually when someone posts something dumb like this, its usually a person full of shitty excuses. They usually know what to do about It (go out and aproach, learn Game and social skills, therapy, the gym, the works) but they Will always give you shitty excuses of why they are the special piece of work that is really really different and screwed. If you are not mentally limited, Or physically disabled, you are as perfectly capable of getting a girlfriend as anyone else. You just need to put in TH… | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:02 AM |
| 35 | How to deal with Extrovert Guys in mixed setsBecome his friend, eventually turn into eachothers wingman. Invite him to your wedding Stop being a dick | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | How to get your ex back.The true ass is the (girl) friends you made along the way. | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How to get your ex back.Go to the store and demand a resale, Or pay the new price the store owner set. Oh.. wait , you meant your ex? It thought It was your ax. Check Matthew husey on how to move on, become a better partner and a better person that can atrac Girls like her easily. Once you get there you wont care for her returning. Its sadly true what they said here already. The only foollproof way to get someone back IS to move on and becoming a bad ass. Not doing so, IS turning you into a stalker. | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?Your definition of mind fucking is unclear, and you are assuming its the same for me, while being an anxious dramatic poster about It. "Im going to mindfuck you now, pretend you enjoy It, but dont worry , ill.make sure to not push you anywhere you might feel something new,, the rules of play are..." sounds like an excelent way to kill the mood and appear like a nerd. Sounds like you never dirty talked anyone in your Life. You ask (and deduce) a persons boundaries, before the play, and then durin… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?A bit dramatic dont you think? You can play kink and BDSM in a consensual, healthy manner, although mind blowing sex usually comes when we are surprised enjoying something we did not know we could enjoy. Balancing both i Guess is part of the process of experimentation and fine tuning our empathy. The brain is the most erotic part of the body. You can make people hand free orgasm by dirty talking and mental stimulation. Why you wouldnt want to give that gift to your partner, is something for you … | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 10:38 AM |
| 4 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This Part 2…..Overcomplicating , and oversymplifying are the Two main challenges humans make in any field of study. Women (and men, too) kind of know if you are fuck , lover, partner material. they can figure pretty fast if they are atracted and at what level. And when they are, its usually not that complicated to make It happen. You can get away with very poor Game and logístics. Generalizing and saying each and every one Will figure It out in 1,2,x dates IS treating them like they are not a statistical dist… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Men of Reddit, how do you feel when women ask “What are you looking for?” on dating apps?Why? are you scared of the question? Do you not like the answer? Its ok for them to be in a Hurry. Its a dating market and she should pick the offer that best adjusts her interests. No one guarantees we Will live to see tomorrow, and they have a biological clock with a shorter date. This IS the answer I give when they ask: "something special and long term, but not with anyone (not necesarilly with you), and im not in a Hurry Or need to find It". I usually add when they are very insistent on this… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 07:22 AM |
| -1 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?You cant force or convince a person into enjoying sucking someone elses genitals. You need to have the Desire come from within. There are Two ways, and one requirement. Requirement: have her value the relationship and you. Dont act like she IS the hottest girl you Will ever atract. You deserve a woman that wants to become your litle sex toy forever and please you. Be the kind of man that can get a woman to feel that way by being great (emotionally , physically and rationally), communicate with y… | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce and build a great relationship with you, dear menGood luck! We are rooting for you | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce and build a great relationship with you, dear menMen are very different into what they want. However, women are not very different in the mistakes they tend to make looking for a long term relationship with a man they consider worth It according to her standards. I can tell you things that Will definitely help you and things you definitely should avoid. Helpfull: aproaching and showing clear interest. Specially if its at work. We cant aproach and flirt on the workspace as we do on the normal day to day. Taking initiative as a men can appear pr… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 11:24 AM |
| 0 | Mindset shift: She is not saying yes to you, she is saying yes to herself and she is not rejecting you, she is rejecting herself.Im sorry. I find this really dumb. People can reject other people. And thats ok. Some people deserve to be rejected because they suck, and thats ok too. Having a healthy self esteem (and skills) is knowing the difference between when you did something right, and wrong. When being rejected was to be expected and and when It wasnt. Im not always a sex god super empathetic seduction jedi máster for every girl i meet. sometimes Im just not good enough for what they want, And sometimes a girl can wan… | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do you guys keep using Dating Apps?Once you optimize It and beat the algo in your zone, its a great way to meet people. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What are your seduction unpopular opinions and hot takes? Things you truly believe, but would get downvted?No. You dont understand. Hard means that effort can handle that. That iS false. Those filters are binary. Basically you are dateable Or you are not. If you are, then its not hard. If you arent dateable, you dont manage that with effort , You were just not her type and thats It. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 07:16 PM |
| 13 | I can't get it through my head that a girl actually likes me.Confidence comes with competence. Dont worry my dude, you Will blow It soon enough. It is rational for you to feel surprised with how low experience you have talking to women. That IS the reason some of US here decided to take ownership of that experience by specifically learning how to aproach, meet (and then, seduce) women. Mentalize yourself to keep learning and improving if It doesnt work out well. Learn from It. You are dateable, you are not Broken, just inexperienced. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What are your seduction unpopular opinions and hot takes? Things you truly believe, but would get downvted?I think they are for a specific set of them. The Nines and 10s that are really really tall or really really professionally succesfull and filter out many men because they are less succesfull Or tall than them. This makes those Girls have virtually very litle options by definition, because the great filter is applied too early, causing them to have to make It easy to the dudes that pass that great filter. If you naturally Or circumstancially pass the filter for whatever reason, after that its Eas… | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal?More power to you. You never know how superficial a women that decides to Ghost you or CUT It off suddenly is. It is a dating market and as any market, its reigned by opportunity cost. You might think you are pretty awsome but if what you offer IS easily replaceable, It Will be easily devalued Or upgraded by the competition. Men can be pretty superficial too eh? | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 02:39 PM |
| 11 | Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal?It is true. Thats why pros date at least 3 at a time. Until exclusivity. There IS also the fact that even if you are perfect, you cant control if perfect +1 ( perfect + a litle extra height or blue eyes or more ABS or whatever bullshit)b goes for her at the same time as you. Girls Will drop perfect candidates with no remorse just because another better option IS lined Up. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Tons of matches but very few actual datesThats right, season her nice with boring Deep conversation she would have with her harem of friendzoned lover boys so that Chad can properly stimulate her reptilian brain afterwards, after he fucks her brains out im sure Chad IS going to laugh his ass out at how boring and uncreative you were lol while she shows him the harem chats complaining how there arent any good men nowadays. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 08:21 AM |
| 11 | Where do you meet the most older women? (late 30s to early 50s)The bar at the pool or lobby specifically. Both day and nightgame. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 10:59 PM |
| 9 | Where do you meet the most older women? (late 30s to early 50s)Luxury hotels | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How can I become attractive for a friend who rejected you in the past?You should actively search activies and groups that promote that type of personality traits you are idealizing. We are all statistics. And its all about having money to pay a plane ticket to those activities in the worst case, if they are scarce. You like Deep Creative funny Girls? Go to theater Or art clases. Like nerdy Girls? Go to coding and tech conventions. Like business bossy Girls? Go to startup and business networks. Etc etc. | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | how to get girls you've known for a long timeOk. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 07:27 PM |
| 4 | how to get girls you've known for a long timeThis is the way. The only way. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 06:48 PM |
| 2 | How can I become attractive for a friend who rejected you in the past?Matthew husey IS the Guy you need. Specifically his video about how to move on when someone rejects you. You want to become atractive? Remove the potential stalker dna you obviously have. The best way to inspire atraction for a woman IS to beat her level, beating her level IS finding her type of attention, having women like her available for romantic partnership to you on an abundant basis. Its pure statistics. If you have a good probability of atracting Girls like her, there IS a good chance yo… | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 01:37 AM |
| -3 | Pursuing MilfsPro tip: get a moustache. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:41 AM |
| 96 | What I have learned from some of my player buddiesHe is describing classic Alpha bros. There are many many orher types of seductors. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 02:00 PM |
| -2 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?I'm really sorry to burst all your bubbles. One man, and x+1000 women could repopulate earth, but one woman and x+1000 men could not. Women are more necesarry for species survival. Its a purely biological argument. I actually don't consider myself either a feminist, or a female supremacist advocate, but I do think having some biology and selfish gene knowledge does help with how you aproach seduction. https://www.quora.com/If-there-was-only-one-man-on-Earth-and-3million-women-repopulation-wise-w… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Best Resources for Beginners?Models, how to seduce women with honesty. By Mark manson. i would read neils strauss books, and read also the truth. There IS knowledge tonbe found understanding how toxic people can be and how pickup artists with no ethics exploit them. And also understand why you should not use those strategies. It Will be sobering to understand that you, as a romantic partner are in part a product. And framing your live and your brand Will improve your success accordingly. tarabans the value of others might b… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 10:44 AM |
| -6 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Because most men, and women, and people, in general, are people that should be romantically invisible to others. In terms of, they actually suck, as people. Women are just more Picky , as they should be. They are the superior gender capable of Anything the masculine one can, but also give birth. (WoW, men are stronger in Sports, such an awsome evolutionary trait in the 21st century 🙄) This IS scientifical fact and translates to economic dynamics of demand and offer in the dating marketplace wher… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | (First post was removed) Men (18-21) how do I build a good IG profile never used it for putting my personal self out there but feel like its hindering my preselection (read text as well)Its simple my friend. Tried and true 5step simple process: Step 1) become Hot. Like workout, and eat healthy, get your calories in check Step 2) learn how to make sick photos with a camera Or smartphone if you are lazy. (Camera IS way better and It shows) Step 3) make Friends that are into taking awsome photos for dating purposes for their insta and dating profiles Step 4) go out do fun shit and take photos with them. Be the photographer at first of awsome angles and then after having the camera… | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | i'm an OG pua. this is d problem with approachHi, im not an og pua Or whatever, but, I can say that he is not wrong. Observation is an important skill and through body language you can estimate chances of success and how much energy you Will provide to the person you aproach. Some people really want to be left alone and they Scream It through their body language. There IS a small chance of being wrong though, so if you have the mental fortitude to not care about result, and that girl IS truly someone you feel you need to aproach, you should… | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Why is it so hard to find a solid wingman?Its only helpfull in night Game really. As you get older, nightgame gets kind of old. When you are younger guys are shier so they dont have the balls Or experience to Talk to women properly if they are not part of the seduction community. Something something | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 06:08 AM |
| 5 | How to approach women as an introvert?I cant emphasize enough how important fun IS on this process. The more fun you have doing It, the more you Will want to aproach, and the more It Will become second nature muscle memory. The more pleasant experiences you asociate with the process, the less the brain Will generate cortisol and stress beforehand, making It easier to flow, in a self en forcing loop of improvement. Detach yourself from the result. You are not the opinion that girl Will have about you, and you are not a bad person if … | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 01:23 PM |
| 4 | How to approach women as an introvert?Go to improv theater clases. Learn to flow and have fun in your own skin. Learn how to make yourself laugh. Then you can go do that but with a girl. Just go and have fun, its not so difficult. Its only difficult if you dont know how to have fun, so maybe thats where you should start. Warming Up helps a lot. You Will always feel nervous when aproaching, but thats natural. Standup comedians with thousands of shows get nervous beforehand late into their careers. The best way to stop worrying IS to … | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I need helpWoW did not know this at all. Ops chances are even better. Stop crying op, go get to work. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 10:57 AM |
| 2 | I need helpThe answer IS in statistics. The harsher studies indicate that 80% of women would not date a shorter Guy than them. That means that you need to aproach and meet 5x more women than the tallest dude, assuming you are shorter than every single girl you meet, to make the 20% that dont care equivalent to the 100% the tallest meets regularly. The answer IS not panicking, and putting 5x the effort in the worst case. If the dice IS loaded against you, this IS the type of Game where there are no penaltie… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain what “dating inflation” even is?Ill give you what you want. Youll be an unhappy ashole anyways. Sorry for bothering you. Everything you said IS correct and Life is unfair. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain what “dating inflation” even is?If It doesnt get meaningfull results, its because you are not doing meaningfull work. Tell me something how many times a day do you go out and try to aproach women? How many times do you take note on whst you think It went wrong and try to improve? How many books about social skills and flirting have you read? How many dating coaches have you payed to give you feedback? How many hours in the gym following an intelligent workout plan? How many days have you counted your calories? How many days ha… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain what “dating inflation” even is?All of those things can be improved, as a neurodivergent ex antisocial ocd depressed shy ugly fat dude. Stop crying and put in the work. Its not like you have any other Road out anyways. You Will be happier, and the world Will be a better place. Its a good thing that the standard of what we consider atractive and good is rising, that is the definition of progress. Its happening the other way around too, men standards of what a good chick is is also starting to move beyond looks (for those Who ha… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 06:49 AM |
| 1 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know ThemWhere IS Jessica hyde? | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I wanna get a girl obsessed with me in a good way. Cuz I love her.Porn is a terrible terrible habit. However, there IS something you can learn from It, if you know where to look. Femdom and gooner content, jois, are videos created by women where they mindfuck the viewer with verbal instructions and neurological programming, hipnosis, etc into addiction. Some people really get lost in the subspace and end up paying thousands of dollars to buy this female dominatrixs content. This women are essentially, profesional mindfuckers and dirtytalkers. One great way to … | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Who do you think is the best PUA and who is the best teacher?You Will never meet him, because you would have to go to Spain. His name is egoland. In english? I think Mark manson. He promotes a style based on honesty and finding yourself. He is also the most succesfull of them all outside of dating world with a real grown Up job, and has a long term succesfull marriage. Basically a masculine figure you can actually base your morals and values on while also obtaining great results. Egoland is a similar honesty driven philosophy, but he has very specific tec… | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | What age is everyone here? Curious to know if new youngsters are still into seduction.31 | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?Indistractable, by nir eyal. The Easy peasy method for quitting porn. Atómic habits. Read those three. You Will be fine. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Solo game reportGuys might like It less, they are less into drama and gossip than Girls. Girls LOVE gossip so It works great with them, specially if you are atractive and they are bored.. It can world with guys too if they are more extroverted, might even get Lucky and find wingmans lol. | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 09:04 PM |
| 4 | What helped get you over your approach anxiety?Three tricks: I call this one the psychological anchor. Its a joke, a random comment , a question Anything that you can always use when you feel you are star struck. Its purpose IS to remind you of a specific traits of your personality (in my case its my absurd humor or my emotional intelligence) while you also move the conversation forward. It brings you back to that part of your psyche, like an anchor. be vulnerable and communicate how you feel. Like judo, you can transform everything that mak… | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Solo game reportThere is a tecnique you can use in this types of situations, its called a nest set strategy. You aproach a group of Friends and tell them something like: "hey! My Friends bailed out on me, but im on a search to meet the love of my Life tonight, Or at least a friend to play bowling with. Could i totally hang out with you while i aproach random people , that way it wont suck as much if It goes bad"? They Will be so weirded out they might say ok, you hang out, meet them become their Friends and the… | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 08:14 PM |
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