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I believe my original comment was accountability for both sexes. It’s unfortunate that you can’t read.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 11:30 PM
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Who’s committing the majority of violent crime….not women, the call is coming from inside the house. Clean up your own house first
/r/MensRights27/04/24 11:29 PM
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And their would be no abortions if men kept it in their pants
/r/MensRights27/04/24 11:26 PM
1

There would be no whores if men put their wallets away
/r/MensRights27/04/24 11:25 PM
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feminism is not responsible for circumcision, what a complete and total load of crap. In the bible, in Genesis, God told Abraham to circumcise himself, his household, and his slaves as an everlasting covenant in their flesh, see the Abrahamic Covenant. you can read the whole bible for free on project gutenberg website. Wow, you could not be more uninformed, just wow!
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:26 PM
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what do men actually do for kids other than child support? there are billions of dollars in unpaid child support. the child support laws have not changed in decades, men keep it in your pants and you won't have to spend a dime. It's time for personal accountability for both sexes!
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:02 PM
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Well, it was on security cam and that guy was arrested and arraigned. You can deny reality all day, but that’s what happened
/r/MensRights07/04/24 02:24 PM
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They have made several arrests in nyc of the guys doing it. I’m not on social media, my family is law enforcement. Perhaps you don’t really know what is going on, but simply googling the guys that were arrested and now appear in court would enlighten you
/r/MensRights07/04/24 05:54 AM
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Men are getting punched by other men, not women. The call is coming from inside the house dude.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 04:33 PM
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Women are getting punched in the face in New York by men at random…for fun. We just need to stay away from men we don’t know. To some men, saying hi back to them and making eye contact, they take that as an invitation. Check out the whenwomenrefuse subreddit. Two women recently were murdered for refusing to give men their phone number. Interactions with men are not consequence free for women, we try to avoid strange men for this reason and to not invite unwanted attention
/r/MensRights06/04/24 08:04 AM
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The problem is the few bad men, the creeps. That’s why women don’t say anything back and don’t make eye contact
/r/MensRights06/04/24 06:57 AM
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Please do, mgtow! I am all for the 4b movement, why pretend anymore that men and women like each other? We don’t
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:36 AM
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I answered with source on this thread to another person. You don’t really want sources, you want to gaslight. It’s obvious by one google search that men are raping, assaulting, and murdering women at an alarming rate. It’s in every statistics bank and in every news article
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:15 AM
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By other men, not women. You’re talking about men on men crime. When we talk gendered crime. I answered with source on this thread to another person. You don’t really want sources, you want to gaslight. It’s obvious by one google search that men are raping, assaulting, and murdering women at an alarming rate. It’s in every statistics bank and in every news article
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:15 AM
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I answered with source on this thread to another person. You don’t really want sources, you want to gaslight. It’s obvious by one google search that men are raping, assaulting, and murdering women at an alarming rate. It’s in every statistics bank and in every news article
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:14 AM
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Nope
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:12 AM
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There are various statistical sources depending on your areas. John gottman stated this statistic recently on a podcast called “diary of a ceo”. But all statistics bank all over the world show women are assaulted by men much more than the other way around. Perhaps the obvious isn’t the obvious to some people or you’re just gaslighting women. https://www.statista.com/statistics/642458/rape-and-sexual-assault-victims-in-the-us-by-gender/#:~:text=This%20statistic%20shows%20the%20annual,number%20for…
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:12 AM
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Crime from other men, not women. The call is coming from inside the house
/r/MensRights02/04/24 07:07 AM
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40 percent of women will be physically assaulted in some capacity in their lifetime, whereas only 9 percent of men will be.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 03:31 AM
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Read “why does he do that?” By Lundy Bancroft. You can find the book free online by googling. Essentially, he doesn’t really love you, he loves abusing you. The red pill ideology is attractive to abusive men because they can then justify why that you deserve to be abused. It’s there twisted logic. Understand something, he gets off on being mean to you. That is his joy
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 09:24 PM
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Grandpa had more sex because he financially supported grandma’s entire lifestyle. That, and grandma didn’t have equal rights
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 01:41 PM
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Y’all just obsessing about women, it’s not mentally healthy
/r/MensRights25/03/24 04:31 AM
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Dude, get a hobby and stop worrying about women.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 06:26 AM
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Welp, apparently people are settling for less than basic human decency
/r/MensRights23/03/24 06:04 PM
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Welp, I think this story is more complicated than this. Court transcript is open to the public. The issue is a superior officer should not have had sex with a subordinate (her). Obviously not all men were superior officers, but just realize why she got paid.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 05:45 PM
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Being decent as a man or a woman is the bare minimum. But why do I see men bragging about doing the absolute minimum?
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:49 PM
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I feel like you lead with your wallet. Dress like a pauper, take dates on cheap dates, don't let them know what you make, etc. Hide the fact that you have money and try to just date average gals.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/24 09:35 PM
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Welp, I have been in HR for 2 decades and men don’t apply for HR jobs. I can’t hire any men if they don’t apply
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:09 AM
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Welp, my brother hit every branch on the ugly tree and he’s over 50 now and he was more successful with women than our older brother because he charmed and chatted up women and he asked them out. My very ugly brother just kept trucking and he never went without a date to a dance or otherwise. I’m 48 female and I’ve seen him in action countless times, just let it rip, so what if you embarrass yourself. You’ll live, trust me
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 04:26 AM
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Huh?
/r/MensRights12/03/24 11:28 PM
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Do you ask girls out?
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 03:40 AM
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Real men don’t compete with women. Move on and just ignore them. Make guy friends
/r/MensRights12/03/24 03:19 AM
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Well, are you?
/r/MensRights12/03/24 03:14 AM
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No one is entitled to anything and you could very well charge for electrical and whatnot, but also realize your woman will lose attraction for you if you come across as lazy and useless. Women aren’t allowed to be lazy, fat or useless, why should men be allowed to be without the same scorn
/r/MensRights15/02/24 08:21 PM
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well the mother and son dynamic makes it rather freudian for sure. the rest of your comments seem like virtue signaling and I'm just not a social justice warrior. If everyone is a consenting adult, then I don't care to police something like this. in terms of crime, we have bigger fish to fry.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 09:12 PM
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a lot of incels end up absolutely hating women and remaining virgins long into their 30s and 40s. they are interviewed on youtube by that healthy gamer guy. they call it the world's oldest profession. I actually don't care as long as the young man is over 18, men that age often go off to war and die. I imagine the majority of the young men want it and are not being forced. And as long as the lady isn't trafficked or coerced, then so be it.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 07:12 PM
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well, I have no idea of the psychology of it all. But this is not unheard of. Seems like it use to be dads that took their sons to do this. I don't know if it's the sex component, maybe the dating component is really where the help comes in.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:16 PM
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Well it’s not the way I would go about it. But incels are about to be a real problem for society
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:41 AM
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Well, I read the article and their is one comment about being for 21st birthday. As long as the son is over 18 and wants this, I see no problem. Moms don’t want their sons to become incels. I don’t know if this is the way. But incels would do anything not to be incels. I don’t think we should act like a 21 year old incel doesn’t want sex.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 03:01 AM
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and why are you calling her a plate and saying you are stringing her along and the last paragraph says "I don't even think they grasp that a relationship..." Dude, you are the one who does not fully grasp that you are the plate and you don't have a relationship. Why would she listen to a thing you say when you have not locked her down? You already had the LTR conversation and you took a pass. So, she is not doing anything wrong to you. You are acting like a BPer It seems like you are in delulu l…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 08:30 PM
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If she's a plate, she is one of many. You are not exclusive to be establishing rules of conduct for her and your rules of conduct apparently don't apply to you? Is this upside down clown world?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 08:21 PM
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Is it normal for grown ass men to share nudes of the gal they are sleeping with their friends? Creepy as F to me
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 05:05 AM
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48f and I’d have a serious problem if my man showed any nude pics of me to anyone. That stuff was for his eyes only, how dare he show my pics like a frat boy. How old are you OP? She should have cut you loose when she found out what you did. And you want to bring this dude around her now and rub it in her face?! Wtf. Adding insult to injury. This would be unforgivable, severe violation. Why on earth didn’t she just dump you right when she knew you shared her pic with another guy. Yuck! ick
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 03:54 AM
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I'm a Gen X female, but nice try. Move along kiddo.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:25 PM
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This gives me the deepest ick, but hopefully men like OP won’t procreate and have more offspring like this. I guess I’m glad incels will have an outlet and leave women alone.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 03:57 AM
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yikes!
/r/ExRedPill24/01/24 08:48 PM
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Also, viral tweet of men openly hating their girlfriends went viral on twitter “that phase where you slowly start hating your girlfriend”. Millions of views and millions of likes and replies. Total dog pile. Yes, I’m sure you can name misandry examples. But the hatred and violence against women comes out in real life with say Elliott rodgers and the like with a whole manifesto and actually shooting spree. Several incidents like this that are undeniably misogynistic manifestos and video uploads o…
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:25 PM
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And men kill men and men kill women, that’s why so many men are killed and not by women, men are largely killing each other
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:20 PM
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In some ways, some women do have it easier than men. However, globally, women are raped and murdered and tortured by men. Many women die in child birth and our bodies and plumbing are complicated and needing of more medical attention and care. I don’t think any man wants to have a period once a month. Women suffer a lot of pain just being a woman and that’s even if no crime is committed against us. Many men think it’s completely okay to hit a woman and they are not shy about saying that out loud…
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:19 PM
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Check out the porn is misogyny subreddit for a good dose of pornographers quotes
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:15 PM
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How can most women just stay in a house and not work? Majority of men and women are poor and have to work. Unless they want to be homeless with no house. The girl’s parents won’t live forever either and really it’s not like there is a rich man for every woman to marry
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:38 AM
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Men don’t just gift women a car or anything and not expect something (Kitty time) in return. Typically, men are not gifting women anything out of the kindness of their hearts. They are expecting quid pro quo. They are buying sex
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:36 AM
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In some ways, some women do have it easier than men. However, globally, women are raped and murdered and tortured by men. Many women die in child birth and our bodies and plumbing are complicated and needing of more medical attention and care. I don’t think any man wants to have a period once a month. Women suffer a lot of pain just being a woman and that’s even if no crime is committed against us. Many men think it’s completely okay to hit a woman and they are not shy about saying that out loud…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:34 AM
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Well spreading hate is not harmless. Elliott rodgers and other incels and mass shooters are actually killing people
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 03:47 PM
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Kindness and then everything else falls into place because they care to begin with. You can't make a man actually care about you and when they show you through their actions that they don't care about you, believe them! Edit: Also doing what you say you are going to do. Women are not dumb, we pay attention to false promises and the con job. It only shows us that we cannot depend on you for anything and breaks any trust we have in you.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 07:52 PM
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Don’t men go for looks? Like aren’t both men and women shallow?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:41 PM
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oh, you got time. a word of caution. be careful who you take advice from. a lot of these men and women are con artist and grifters, having money doesn't mean they are high value. pearly things is not a virgin, she's pushing 30, with no husband and kids. the tate brothers have kids out of wedlock and are pimping their baby mamas on only fans. fresh and fit, where's pictures of their beautiful wife and kids. it's a free country, you can do what you want, but think about who you're taking advice fr…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 06:16 PM
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OP, are you married with a wife and kids now?
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 04:14 AM
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Well it takes a lot to admit it finally. Even if it’s to a rando on the internet
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 05:49 PM
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Most women don’t break up for other men. Men usually do something so rude, crude, or disrespectful that is the final effing straw of what we will tolerate and you leave us no choice but to cut you. Men will step on your toes one too many times with their peak audacity of disrespect and pathological lying that we cannot stand to see your face another effing second and the we hit our breaking point and you must go.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 02:02 AM
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well that's surprising, so you have one woman in your life that you don't think should suck you off.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 11:53 PM
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I think porn rots your brain and there are studies to support this. Watch the Andrew Huberman podcast on YouTube about dopamine. If you’re playing video games, that ups your tachykinens and makes you angry and depressed. I think you need professional help and I think you should see a male therapist.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 10:02 PM
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I mean this sincerely, but I feel you need to see a male therapist. I say male therapist because when women speak it pisses you off and also because you see women as sex objects and not humans and please step away from the porn.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 09:52 PM
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Gfs? I’m not sure where you life, but some parts of the country have an opioid epidemic
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:29 AM
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Addiction. addiction to video games, porn, opioids, etc. Incels are a victim of the internet algorithm that places the blame on women instead of real self-improvement. Aggrieved entitlement - thinking the world owes you something. That random women owe you their time and attention and access to their body while you are a lazy bum with zero value or achievements. Mommy told you that you are wonderful and it's okay to not work and spend over 2000 hours a year playing video games instead of being a…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 02:12 PM
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Only OP knows whether he is beyond repair or not. I don’t know him. But that women hating mindset has led to incel violence and mass shooting. People are dying because of that. And there are plenty of people on here to help and support him and suggest therapy strategies and everything else, OP likely knows what he needs to do. But I do think sometimes, you have to be harsh to be kind. My parents were strict and the punishment was severe at times, but you know what? I suffer from a condition call…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 08:44 PM
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Yeah, going to a support group is great. But if they all just pat you on the back and tell you everything you do is just A-okay, I don’t think that’s helpful. Every other program makes you admit your faults from the start
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:48 PM
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You’re a victim of the algorithm. I get it. But the rest of us can’t lie to you to make you feel good about yourself. What’s the first step of AA? You have to stand up and admit you’re an alcoholic. If you have incel beliefs, like extreme hatred of women, then you have to “get right with the truth”. Not expect people to lie to you
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:40 PM
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Well Reddit isn’t it, he likely needs to see a therapist and sounds like you do too. Stop telling me and the older generation to lie to you to make you feel better about yourself. That ain’t right
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:26 PM
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Well I didn’t say anything about you, I only answered ops question. But you’re making this about you because I now deduce that you hate women too. I don’t know anything about the various color pills, I just scroll reddit
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:24 PM
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What question? You’re going around in circles and you just need to move along and go away. Me and the other gal/guy have a difference of opinion. We don’t think that ops extreme hate of women is acceptable and thus we answered his question with a yes. And that’s apparently not the answer you wanted to hear because you’re triggered. And I can only think you hate women too and want a woman to validate you and tell you that’s okay to hate women and now you won’t leave me alone. I don’t owe you shit…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:22 PM
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Well if he was serious and honest and says “Extreme hate” of women, then he deserved a “yes” to his question. Because extreme hate of women isn’t acceptable.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:19 PM
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You’re not gen x, so you are the generation after me. You and OP think we should coddle you and you’re dead wrong. We should answer your questions with the truth at the very least. The world doesn’t owe you and OP the answer you want because you’re entitled
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:17 PM
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I can do whatever I want. Agreeing with OP and not telling him the truth isn’t doing him any favors. He’s a 22 year old man, why baby him?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:15 PM
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Apparently you think “extreme hatred” of females and incels going on mass shooting sprees is just fine. Stop coddling extreme hate
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:14 PM
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I’m a 47 year old female and the younger generation seems entitled as F and y’all need to cut that out
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:13 PM
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Op asked a yes or no question and we answered it with a yes, so what is your Friggin problem?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:07 PM
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He asked a yes or no question and we answered his question. Go away pickmeisha
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:06 PM
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Look here pickmeisha, we need to stop coddling grown men. If he said “extreme hatred” of black people, he would expect and receive backlash. Simply answering his question with a “yes” is mild in comparison, don’t you think? Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. You softening the blow for him and defending someone who is a self admitted incel should in fact be embarrassing for you, yet here you are.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:04 PM
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Coddling these young men is the problem
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:20 PM
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I agree with her. The world doesn’t owe him a woman.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:19 PM
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Aggrieved entitlement. Here’s the thing, women don’t owe you shit. You already know that men and the world don’t owe you shit. Are people giving you jobs? Or are you having to earn what you get? Did your parents coddle you and tell you you’re special? I’m not trying to be mean, but when you say you hate women and you resent them it’s based on a mindset that you think they owe you something and are not giving you your due. Women can sense men who hate them and they steer clear. Do you feel like y…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:17 PM
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Are you equally mad at your male friends if they are promiscuous?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 08:26 PM
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I don't think this is hard to understand. Women are scared of strange men. We are always hearing the news about women getting assaulted and murdered. I know if a 200-pound man approached me on the sidewalk, I'd be a little apprehensive. I have some muscle and self-defense skills, but I'm only 130 pounds so I'm not looking for trouble and I know someone that outweighs me by that much can wipe the floor with me. men are not harmless and women know this. Women have either experienced close calls or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:24 PM
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yep, in recent surveys (see chris williamson podcast on youtube), men do not approach and ask women out. This is the main reason men are single, because they don't ask women out. If you wanted a job, wouldn't you submit an application. You wouldn't expect a job to just land in your lap, would you? Men that approach and ask women out, eventually persist and get a girlfriend or at least dates. this is not rocket science. This is the number one reason men are single now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:16 PM
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agree. lazy and smelly men, it's an epidemic!
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 05:02 PM
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Agree
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 01:07 AM
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Agree completely
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 01:06 AM
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I’m in conservative Kansas, so long before the red pill Taliban came on the scene…..it’s very unusual for a woman to ask a man out here. Also I’m not looking. If I decide to start looking, I may go on the dating apps to find a woman.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 12:04 AM
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Sounds like pseudo science mumbo jumbo. There are a few people though that are actual scientists that publish interesting things on heterosexual mating dynamics. Like David Buss. But most of the red pill stuff doesn’t actually quote any studies
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 11:57 PM
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Yeah. I think looking up jimmy carter and how he spent the rest of his life building homes for the less fortunate. Look up some documentaries on him. Not that you have to do that. But it’s interesting for you to pick something that gets you out of the house and feeling useful to the world. And who knows. Maybe you’ll volunteer alongside your future wife and mom of your kids
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:19 PM
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Yeah, I’m not going to be negged by an incel on Reddit and I don’t want to be told women are useless because obviously he mom gave birth to him and protected him from this harsh world as a baby. I’m not putting up with the gender war nonsense. Not after going out of my way to praise and acknowledge the good parts of men and how we are not equal biologically. I honestly hate the gender war nonsense. It’s cringe and it’s old and most people are so black and white on both sides. And even after I ma…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:16 PM
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There’s no reward for being the one woman out of hundreds to ask guys out. It’s a recipe for getting treated like shit by the guy you asked out….because other women would never ask him out…so in his mind I must be a slut. So whether we like it on not, I still have to adhere to traditional gender roles to a point, or be punished for it. And the red pill guys are like the Taliban slut shaming women constantly about body counts etc.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:00 PM
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Oh I’m so sorry. It’s best to cultivate other hobbies
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:57 PM
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Yeah, ,men may like women asking them out in theory. But it’s one thing he’s going to think you are easy or have a high body count later. Because other women don’t do that. They don’t
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:56 PM
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How to I know what men think, because they say it. On not how girls work subreddit, posted yesterday “a girl who lost her shyness, lost her soul”. Men don’t want us to act like “Masculine” men and they say they everyday. We only get penalized if we approach and ask them out. We set ourselves up to be mistreated by being perceived as easy, etc.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:53 PM
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The last guy I dated. My 2nd boyfriend from my 20s, then I married my 3rd boyfriend and was married for over 20 years. I got divorced and started talking to and seeing my 2nd boyfriend again and well he turned very violent last year and I broke up with him in October. So no, I don’t date men anymore. I like being alive and not being punched in the face. But sure, there has been guys talk to me at the gym…not sure if they are flirting or not. But yeah, I’m tiny and I am scared of men. I weigh 130…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:48 PM
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The dude said all the gender war nonsense and then lastly said women are useless…clear incel talking points
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:43 PM
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There was a guy who would talk to men on occasion at my gym and I’d smile. But he never asked me out. I guess he wasn’t all that interested. A guy friend who works there as a trainer asked me why I didn’t ask him out. I said the relationship would start off on the wrong foot because he’d think I’m easy. My male friend agreed. My brothers agree. Women have to be careful about how they are perceived. Should we be slutshamed? Of course not. But I’m not going to change how men think. Also, they don’…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:42 PM
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Women are slut shamed constantly. By men as well with all the body count nonsense. We can’t approach men or we come off as easy.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:34 PM
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You’re crazy making now. Putting words in my mouth. I didn’t say women are the prize.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:33 PM
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Get involved in volunteering. Harvesters. Jimmy carter did habitat for humanity, hud. Evening classes at the community college, yoga classes. Eventbrite has events in your area. There use to be a meetup app, speed dating events etc. just get around women and get comfortable just talking to women
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:26 PM
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Good bye incel
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:58 PM
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So you’re post is women are useless. I need to block you now. Good bye. I don’t have time to be negged on Reddit by an incel. Bye
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:56 PM
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So cringe. why are you stuck on gender war, incel talking points. That’s so overplayed and old as F. I’d stop that silly gender war nonsense if I were you.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:51 PM
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Also, why are you stuck on gender war, incel talking points. That’s so overplayed and old as F. I’d stop that silly gender war nonsense if I were you.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:50 PM
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Well true, I have a family of cops and a lot of male cops that provide security, protect and serve. So that’s true. But your mom protected you when you were a baby, in her womb and outside her womb.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:49 PM
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Your half women, hence XY, hence your nipples. Women are the mold, you start out as a woman in the womb, I’m not a male basher, just a lover of biology and science and degreed and practicing in that area. Men do have their areas where they shine and I would never take that away from men.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:43 PM
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Equal pay for equal work, etc. but men and women are not equal, we are biologically different. And I am a feminist, but I wish they called the equal rights movement for women, the equity movement because unfortunately men are very black and white thinkers and the nuances of the equal rights movement is immediately lost on men by the very word equal. The spirt and intent gets lost completely on some men. We are not biologically equal. I am very thankful for all the feminists before me. My husband…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:29 PM
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Lol. Some men seem to think women are just going to fall in their laps. Not going to happen or at least highly unlikely. Men are unfortunately going to have to ask women out and risk being seen as creepy. Most women have never asked a man out and most women do not do online dating. With all the recent news stories of the women murdered doing online dating, it’s too scary and unsafe. I’ve never done online dating and I’ve never asked a guy out and sure I’ve been single for long periods of time be…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:06 PM
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I agree, men seem to think women will just fall in their laps. Lol. I’ve never asked a guy out
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:02 PM
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I think you should stay of online dating altogether. I know no women of any age actually using online dating. I think you are going to have to approach women IRL
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:40 PM
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Strange and bizarre comment? Did I say it was your fault? Weirdo. Please go away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:37 PM
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Anytime my husband was unemployed, sadly he did less chores around the house. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:28 PM
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Yes, having a man is unpaid labor and time you could work on yourself and on your career
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:54 PM
1

that's probably true.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:04 PM
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Honestly, if someone willingly wants to sell sex, then it's not my business. If that's what the woman truly wants to do and wasn't forced or coerced.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:01 PM
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No offense, but you seem like a social justice warrior and if the man pays for an item or service, then he isn't owed that, he purchased it. Assuming he had to earn the money to purchase it. No one is owed anything. I get that you believe in the just world phenomenon, but unfortunately, these red pillers are actively abusing their women in LTRs due to watching andrew tate and fresh and fit. Is it an ideal situation (prostitution)? obviously no. Is it better than letting these abusive men loose o…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:49 PM
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I hope so, for the sake of the next generation of women. I'm Gen X, so I was married over 20 years, together for 4 years before we got married. we separated early 2022 and I filed for divorce. To be fair, my husband wasn't only drinking the red pill koolaid, he was a hoarder/spender, porn addict, and then drunk and drug addict (for the last 3 years of our marriage. the red pill nonsense was just icing on the shit cake. So I'm just on my own from now on. If I did online dating, I would only do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:13 PM
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Go away
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:30 PM
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His name is Louis Enrique Colon. I worked with his fiancée, Stacy Brocker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:25 PM
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Yep, it’s all men until it’s no men. I stopped playing Russian roulette because eventually you eff around and catch the bullet. I want to live so I’ve stopped dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:17 PM
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There’s a reason Andrew Tate was arrested and fresh and fit were demonetized and the FBI is trolling the red pill forums looking for domestic terrorists. These were the 2 men I knew. But I know lots of women who have been through the same shit and I talk to men in every day life that say the same ideology. Incel 2.0 (red pill) has gone mainstream. Read the proud boy manifesto. Sound like incel red pill to me. A gal I worked with, her fiancé is a proud boy facing charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:15 PM
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I’m not doing unpaid labor for you. You can google things and look things up on your own. Good bye
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:10 PM
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what did i just read? i got nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:56 PM
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in addition to listening to all the podcast bros like fresh and fit, he also had a porn addiction and I realized the last 2 years, not just a pot, but a cocaine addiction. so he went very far down the rabbit hole. My husband was married before me and I recently talked to her and she said she thought he had a porn addiction back then. I guess he did a good job of hiding it from me for many years. I do admit I am somewhat guilty of the "boys will be boys" mindset, but now I'm a lot more aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:40 PM
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he listened to all the red pill podcast bros, fresh and fit etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:36 PM
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dude, 3 comments from you in my notifications at once?! what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:35 PM
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and crime and violence against women are only going up, not down. As well as kidnapping, rape, and human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:34 PM
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triggered much? I have like 3 notification comments at the same time in my inbox from you. like dude, you are definitely proving my point. Why are you so triggered by my comments? sounds like a you issue, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:33 PM
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well I met all my boyfriends and my husband at work lol I only had 2 boyfriends before meeting my husband of over 20 years and the I dated my 2nd boyfriend again last year. In fact, I haven't dated anyone I haven't met at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:05 PM
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100 percent agree. I wanted kids but I was married to a man-child for over 20 years and gave up hope of ever having kids. Because I was already the mother to my grown husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:02 PM
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I didn't say all single men are lonely. there always has to be one man scream "not all men!" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:56 PM
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I've already had 2 red pill men in my life (my ex husband of 20 years) and I reconnected with my 2nd boyfriend and he was beyond red pill abusive and so we only lasted 6 months out of last year and I had to break up with him because I was constantly scared and afraid. This was a guy who I loved before I met my husband and both him and my husband were brainwashed on red pill forums online and red pill to me just sounds like Incel 2.0 and my family served in the military before and after 9/11, No …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:12 PM
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obviously you do, otherwise why are you engaging me? bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:11 PM
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well, would you play russian roulette. place a round in the chamber and keep spinning the revolver and placing it up to your temple and pulling the trigger. But a lot of these red pill taliban MFers are dangerous and some are very abusive. I'm not playing with a loaded gun, I'm not pulling the trigger. You keep effing around with these tater taliban MFers, and that's how you lose your life. I've already had 2 red pill men in my life (my ex husband of 20 years) and I reconnected with my 2nd boyfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:08 PM
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I am, I haven't dated since october of last year. I'm chilling and just learning how men really are, now just for entertainment at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:06 PM
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I'm in Kansas. it's social media. incel culture, andrew tate, red pill (it's all the same)....it's gone mainstream and I'm gen x. my ex husband will be 53 this year and my ex boyfriend, is 51, both identify as redpill Men's rights (incel-ish) I had near constant gender war nonsense in my house nonstop the last 3 years of my 20 year marriage and the crude things my husband would say to random women in public, calling them hoes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:05 PM
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well, would you play russian roulette. place a round in the chamber and keep spinning the revolver and placing it up to your temple and pulling the trigger. I don't know anything about FDS, so I can't say whether they are the equivalent or not. But a lot of these red pill taliban MFers are dangerous and some are very abusive. I'm not playing with a loaded gun, I'm not pulling the trigger. You keep effing around with these tater taliban MFers, and that's how you lose your life. I've already had 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:56 PM
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nope, this is what happens when these men spend too much time online. I'm only here to "know thy enemy" and what to avoid and these men have been super helpful in teaching me to avoid all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:36 PM
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I've met way way too many Tater tots, red pill, incel taliban MFers. I don't want to kiss 100 frogs, nope. I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:35 PM
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100 percent, they don't value women or our opinions and spout their bro science B.S. never back up their opinions with any actual facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:25 PM
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I don't date men anymore. I don't like the Andrew Tate, red pill, incel taliban. I don't like all the garbage coming out of their mouths. I don't understand why a man has to spew all this nonsense 24/7. it's not romantic and definitely does not get me in the mood. it's turned me off of men all together. I guess it's better for them to be out and proud misogynists instead of investing time and energy into closeted misogynists. So in a way, I'm glad they are telling on themselves. I'm a plain jane…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:22 PM
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same. the incel taliban is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I like a little bit more of a bear physique. I like my cuddle time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:16 PM
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I can't say never. I fell in love with an "ugly" guy at work. He calls himself ugly, not me. But truthfully, he is not a "chad." But it had to be something about his personality that attracted me to him over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:48 PM
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yes, there is the price of admission. but you can still get bounced from the club after you get in for being an A-hole
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:36 PM
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single lonely men want us and can't have us and don't want us to have any fun or be happy because they are alone and miserable. Men don't want to be baby trapped, but they want the authority to trap a woman if they see fit, power and control and ownership of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:34 PM
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Option C. (and I was married to a man for over 20 years and together for 4 years before that) I started dating my husband when I was only 22 and I was a late bloomer and had my first boyfriend at 19. Then I would say option B. I make my own money. Then likely no on option D. Hell no on option A -- I don't share well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:05 PM
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yep, it's lonely single men projecting their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:50 PM
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ugh. why do men keep pushing this narrative that their personalities don't matter? of course, physical attraction is likely more important, but personality still very much matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:48 PM
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well, you do you. you have to look at yourself in the mirror, you have to suffer the consequences of your actions. I'm just continually disappointed about how many people try to sell "2 wrongs make it right"...but it's not my business...just glad to not know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:17 PM
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because women are sometimes bad, I'm going to be "all bad" lol, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:51 PM
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Hey, Stephen Hawking had not one, but two wives. Intelligence is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:06 AM
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I think men will get more addicted to porn and video games and women will do more girl trips and more girl only social outings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:54 AM
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It’s for their safety
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:29 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:55 PM
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I guess women could say the same thing about men who rely on ED medication or have premature ejaculation, women could say these men aren’t worth dating. Especially if the man can’t get hard and stay hard without meds or if he’s a 2 pump chump. OP must not be aware, but both conditions are rampant in the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:27 PM
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Well, if the man can get the job done on his own…a round of applause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:23 PM
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Yep, you heard it directly from the horse’s mouth. Some men cannot be trusted because they feel it’s completely acceptable to lie and since women can’t tell the difference between the liars and the non liars, it’s just best we avoid all men Because otherwise we get gaslit and told we should have chose better and we don’t take accountability. Hmmm, can someone hold these male liars accountable? Perhaps that’s the real conversation we need to have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:17 PM
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so is it okay for women to lie too? I mean it must be, right? Because to quote your post "it is completely acceptable for men to lie..." People hate liars. Women hate liars. Men hate liars. Condoning lying is doing more to make people hate you than anyone else. OP, take some accountability!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:26 PM
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Some of my thoughts are men stop doing the things that initially attracted the lady (dating and courting). Hygiene slips, etiquette slips (I've heard of men literally sh*tting with the door open). Men being lazy or acting like they don't know how to do something, shirking their responsibilities, acting like a baby (women don't want to eff their sons). Of course, it could be a medical problem like endometriosis or hormonal issue or the newness of the relationship wears off, relationship is boring…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:22 PM
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well, it's not feminists in this instance. It's actually your post telling men it's okay to lie that women on this thread are hating. Edit: OP, take some accountability for telling men it's okay to lie. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:56 PM
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lol. Men: "It's okay to lie to women!" Women: "Take accountability and choose better!" (I don't care if he lied or conned you.) Women: Stay single and far away from all men and you will never be conned. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:19 PM
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it's never acceptable to lie. and the truth will always out and then you'll have egg on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:16 PM
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Dude, I think you need to go to a therapist and honestly, a male therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:51 PM
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same, let's body count shame men too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:40 PM
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the men who cure cancer will be seriously attractive to a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:33 PM
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lol, you're not entitled to anything. No one owes you sh*t. As Jordan Peterson says, the cost of mating is more burdensome on women and to quote Peterson "she's right if she doesn't pick you." Just because I want to purchase a dozen eggs at the grocery store for what I paid a few years ago, doesn't mean I get to. I either shop around for a lower price at say costco, or I pay the asking price, or I don't eat eggs. It's that simple, you are not entitled to someone else. You're not entitled to mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:28 PM
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Yes, but don’t lie. Also though, I don’t think you should spill everything on the first date either, don’t vomit up your past unless asked and then be truthful at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:14 PM
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An addict is an addict is an addict. Some addictions aren’t as bad as others but I still don’t want to be with an addict. Because the guy is really addicted to his video games and you’re just not a priority at all. Let him marry his video games. The average gamer is playing 2000 hours a year or more, that’s a full time job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:18 AM
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Oh 100 percent. It’s an echo chamber though and it’s only contributing more to the rise of single lonely men. That’s why women keep telling them to get off the internet, go touch grass, get outside in nature and get hobbies that don’t involve computers or the internet. These men are mentally wrecking themselves. They call it red pill, but notice they hold the same misogynistic views of women that the incels do. Red pill to me and every woman I know, is incel 2.0. If a guy says he’s red pill, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:17 PM
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Curious, do women ever have lasting relationships with guys that are addicted to video games or porn? I can’t see it, but maybe it exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:55 PM
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I’m confused by your message
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:49 PM
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Not that it matters, but I’m 135 pounds pretty fit gym rat at 5’5”. But I’m no beauty queen. Not ugly, not pretty. Just average and I know it. I’m what would be considered a plain Jane. Men do ask me out in real life, on occasion…again I’m no beauty queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:34 PM
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Incel ideology has unfortunately infected more and more men and they are lonely and miserable, but instead of trying to be like able, they rage hate. It’s like rejecting random women before they reject them. I honestly think a lot of these women who are allegedly not their preference, they would totally love to be in a relationship with them and at a minimum, they would sleep with these women if they could. But since they know they will never have her, they spew misogyny and slut shaming of rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:27 PM
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Gaslight much? I’m sure women are just threatening you all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:39 AM
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Then don’t do the exact same thing you claim to hate. No one cares, move it along instead of proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:12 PM
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That’s fine. But you keep proving my point another 5 times with your ongoing posts. It’s fine to have whatever preference you want. But no one cares. And telling me one time was sufficient, don’t you think? Why precede to tell me now 5-6 times after I told you I don’t care as my very first comment. Don’t you think screaming your preference once was enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:50 PM
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Of course. But you had to tell me your preference, not once, but twice? Absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:45 PM
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Yeah don’t be a garbage pail and expect the woman to not find you disgusting too. But guess what these women aren’t all over the internet shouting their preferences because….no one cares. I don’t want a garbage man with stds because I was married for over 20 years and together 5 years before that and I was a late bloomer so my body count is very low for my age. Of course I don’t want to date a man who is a garbage dumpster. But I don’t go off screaming my preference. Because no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:42 PM
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You’re literally proving my point. You went out of your way to tell me your preference twice instead of stfu because literally no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:39 PM
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And it’s hypocrisy at its finest. Women with a low body count don’t want to date a troll with warts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:38 PM
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Men just feel overly comfortable screaming this to everyone and no one cares. Move along
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:35 PM
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These dudes are going out of their way to post on social media instead of ignoring. -plus the Same dudes will watch gang bang porn. So obviously it’s not that disgusting. They need to just mind their own business. Also, she’d never go out with any of the men slutshaming her anyways. It’s rage hating, pure and simple. Leave people alone, mind ya business
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:21 PM
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Yep, a lot of men hate women and slut shaming is just one of their tools to spew hate at women they don’t even know. These dudes will literally (instead of minding their own business) go completely out of their way to troll and spew hate at women. It’s a total dog piling. If i truly find something disgusting, I avoid it. But it’s not about that for these guys, because we know they watch porn (so how disgusting is it really to them?). Nope, just an excuse to go after a woman and rage hate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:06 PM
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I’m so confused by this question, I guess I don’t speak the language. Good lord, the jargon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:13 PM
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Well I went through one relationship last year and my therapist said it was emotional abuse. I don’t feel like getting into it. Essentially he was brainwashed and angry and admitted he had anger issues. He terrorized me. He was my 2nd boyfriend from my early twenties and we broke up back then and then I met and married my husband and was married over 20 years. Went through a divorced. Started dating my 2nd boyfriend again and quickly realized something wasn’t right. Driving crazy to scare me, sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:52 PM
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Lol. I meant I agreed with OP completely. You’re weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:44 PM
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I think the majority of the red pill men are going to have a rude awakening, unless they can become rich and have enough plastic surgery. Their ideology is just incel 2.0. And it’s a huge turn off for most women. Tons of women on the internet feel abused and scarred by dating brainwashed red pill guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:31 PM
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Finally, women are wising up and staying single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:08 PM
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Yep. 100 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:40 PM
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Well my husband was always making faces or something. And my social media, well I’m locally known and I need to present a polished image. I can’t have a lot out there for people to pick apart. Like why can’t he just sit still and look pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:36 AM
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Red pill is just men putting on grown mens clothes and pretending to be alpha. It’s putting lipstick on a pig. It’s dress up time. They aren’t fooling anyone. Maintaining frame is a farce. Men who are alpha don’t need to tell anyone they are alpha, people just know. Most men are abject cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:32 PM
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Nope. Google Jordan Peterson. Men rank higher on the disagreeable index. Nope I’m not googling for you, so don’t ask
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:09 PM
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Anger is an emotion and men are angrier and more violent than women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:21 AM
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My recommendation for men, is just be alone. Women don’t want you. As evidenced by them not picking you. Cure cancer or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:20 AM
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Bear. Andrew Huberman is yummy. And smart and I love his voice. Jocko, I didn’t think he was attractive at all, I thought he was super ugly….however as I listen to his podcast as see how humble he is and how kind and nice he portrays himself, he’s become more and more attractive. I believe he has a kind heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:06 AM
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agree with OP 100 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:59 PM
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Dude, this just doesn't land on women at all. women make just as much or more money than men nowadays, they are earning the majority of advanced degrees. This isn't the 1950, women do not need to get married. Besides, men are asking women to marry them. Not the other way around. this just doesn't land at all Men can't literally take marriage away from women, because we no longer want to get married either. We don't need to, we work and make our own money. Men bring nothing else to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:58 PM
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Dude, did you catch the part where he says he’s a sociopath and not capable of loving children or his wife and essentially said he bought her. Specifically, did you miss the part where he said he was a sociopath and then goes on to say she’s there for what he provides. He’s not disputing it, he is acknowledging that he bought her and apparently she’s fine with it too. Like melania and trump, to each their own, not our business
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:07 AM
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Yep and he has an obsession with serial killers too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:32 AM
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So you bought a wife. Hey, if she’s getting something out of it, so be it. I’m just hoping you don’t have her chained up in the basement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:06 AM
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Having a woman is so important to you? Or you’d kill yourself without one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:00 AM
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But how can you love your wife if you’re a sociopath? Doesn’t that apply here too? What if your wife wants children? What did you do to get an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:58 AM
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So you don’t want children because you’re a sociopath, but you generally think women should be punished for not having children. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:56 AM
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What is your interest? Other than owning a woman as property
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:48 AM
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Wow! Dude saying the quiet part out loud. If it was legal, you’d force a woman to be with you. And that’s your goal? And kids? How many?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:47 AM
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Why punish at all, but incentivize. And your other comment was “Whatever works is fine by me” when it came to punishing women for being single and childless. Why do you care so much about these women being single and childless? How is it affecting you? Why does it matter? Let people be free to do what they want to do. Women know that motherhood has zero community support, women know they are on their own. Even married women, do everything while the husband does nothing. If you were a woman, woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:45 AM
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Yikes dude! Whatever works? Is fine by you? To punish single women for what? For being single? Or for not having children? Or both? Why can’t single childless women just be left alone? Are you suggesting they be forced into mating with men? Forced into marriage? Forced into motherhood? Or all 3? I’m so confused by this statement. Do you really want to be with a woman that was forced to be with you? Whatever works? Really dude? Do you identify as an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:40 AM
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Are you really suggesting we punish single childless women? For what? For being responsible enough not to risk being a single mom and needing state assistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:35 AM
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Politics, how romantic? Be still my heart. Lol. Said no woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:23 AM
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This OP literally reposts some version of this argument on repeat. That and like 3 premature ejaculation posts on various subreddits a day ago. I think women taking accountability should be the least of OPs concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:22 AM
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It does. It’s his confidence. Women are attracted to balls, confidence. Which is an aspect of personality. But really it’s a tiny minority of women that are serial killer groupies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:54 AM
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Oh that’s true, there are serial killer groupies. But clearly that is a small percentage of women. The exception doesn’t prove the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:45 AM
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Welp, if serial killers just came out and said they were going to kill us, I’m sure we would avoid them. But obviously they con and deceive their prey enough to snare them. Incels could probably learn a thing or two from serial killers, at least fake it…act like you are charming and have a good personality. Act like you don’t hate women, and you’ll probably do a lot better. Serial killers obviously have “game.” That is not news to anyone. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:33 AM
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Same! I wanted kids too, married for a long time, just remember the stigma about being a single mom, so never risked it either. Just got an advanced degree and career making good money. I wanted kids, but with no paid maternity leave, lack of quality health insurance, lack of daycare options etc. i just couldn’t risk it either. And oh I remember Ronald Reagan coining the term “Welfare queen”. My older sister by 10 years never had kids either for same reason, and she is literally still with the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:30 AM
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Well a lot of serial killers can actually turn on the charm to lure their prey, but unfortunately incels cannot hide their hatred of women, it oozes out constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:21 AM
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Your talking about single mothers that fall below the poverty line or disabled women. I don’t know any women, single mothers or not getting assistance. So this is really a class thing. Meaning poor people (men included) not to receive assistance? Honestly, they should enforce child support laws so that poor single moms can support their kids without the need for government assistance. We have billions of dollars in unpaid child support and deadbeat dads But women got the message, hence the birth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:02 AM
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Your talking about single mothers that fall below the poverty line or disabled women. I don’t know any women, single mothers or not getting assistance. So this is really a class thing. Meaning poor people (men included) not to receive assistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:54 PM
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How do make women being single unattractive in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:45 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:48 PM
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so lets not hold men accountable at all, lets instead put all the accountability on women because "she should have chose better" True, some women are obviously guilty of ignoring red flags, having sex out of wedlock, etc. I do think women should wait for a minimum of 3-6 months before having sex with a man. But women like sex too. women should enforce condom use (STDs, BC, etc.). Women can do better for sure, but why are we giving men a ticket to slide? Aren't men suppose to lead by example, pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:44 PM
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I was giving another example
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:19 PM
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Don’t be so sensitive. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:10 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:12 AM
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Retiring early= bum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:10 AM
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I went on girls night where my husband would drop me off and pick me up, so I could drink with my girlfriends and not worry about driving. He was also willing to pick up my girlfriends and take them home too. Sometimes he’d come earlier to pick us up and have one beer at the bar while he watched us dance. But I’d tell him if he comes early, that’s fine, but we don’t want to leave early because he’s bored and doesn’t dance. It meant that he can come early and watch us dance, but we are not leavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:30 PM
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Lol. If it’s playful and I’m overly flirting and also being a shit and trolling my man too much, well I do like it when he barks a little bit and doesn’t let me run over him. But not abuse me if that makes sense. If I’m giving him shit, and you know how it goes, you can go a little too far and he looks at me and says “cut it out now.” I respect that. I’ll say “sorry baby” and kiss and hug him. But yeah, you can be giving him shit or even you are PMSing and stressed out about work and not meaning…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah, don’t pay people to be your friend. My husband did that crap our whole marriage (With my paycheck), always picking up the tab. He would never learn, when the chips were down and he called them for help (Very rarely) but guess what? Your not their friend, just a wallet. Now I treat my friends to dinner or drinks and I pick up the tab from time to time or cook them a four course meal (I love to cook and try out new recipes and I need Guinea pigs), but I feel my friends reciprocate as well. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:17 PM
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I agree with OP. I do think it should be legal and normal so that men and women that want to engage in that activity are treated better by society. This could be arguably better for the women if they are not forced into an illegal trafficking situation and beaten and brutalized. And they have the protections under the law if prostitution is made legal. Obviously it’s not an ideal situation for women, but it’s arguably better than the sex trade now. And if women willingly want to sell there servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:08 PM
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I’d rather date a simp than a red pill incel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:07 AM
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Post a picture. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:34 PM
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So you suffer from premature ejaculation? You can’t go longer than 5 minutes? Or are you obese and out of shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:32 PM
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Say you are a premature ejaculator?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:13 AM
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Read his comment here (he doesn’t do oral). And how is he going to consistently please a woman consistently in 5 minutes. Lol. Say you are a premature ejaculator, without saying you are. https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/N9ZR5xotAi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:12 AM
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Awe, so you don’t want a LTR. Good luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:11 AM
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This post: this is one male that is not willing to sexually please his partner: https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/tZG2wcxVFV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:54 AM
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This post: this is one male that is not willing to sexually please his partner: https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/tZG2wcxVFV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:53 AM
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And your standards are to last 5 minutes in bed? Because you don’t enjoy sex enough to go for 20 minutes? And your standards are not to be concerned about your woman’s “Problems”. So F her and her “problems” and her sexual desires
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:47 AM
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You said if she doesn’t orgasm in 5 minutes, that’s her problem, where’s the straw man in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:45 AM
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Number 1: I hear so many men don’t want to be friends with women or friend zoned. Well then, be a jerk and tell her you don’t want to be her friend and we’ll later on when she has a single girlfriend looking for a guy, she won’t set you up or introduce you to her single friends. Talk about men shooting themselves in the foot. Realistically, men are not “in love” with every woman that friend zones them. Have plenty of female friends and acquaintances and maybe get introduced to their single girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:35 AM
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OP, I like a man who can cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:32 AM
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Most men want more sex and not less sex. Most men complain about starfish sex (their gf or wife just laying there and wanting it over quickly), so many men complaining about dead bedroom. OP, you want to set up a toxic one-sided relationship where you get off quickly and well, if she doesn’t, that’s her problem. What’s in it for her to have a sexual relationship with you? You come across as selfish and narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:22 AM
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I think if OP gets blue balls, then it is his problem. Lol. I think if the woman stops sex before OP cums, then it is his problem, lol. I think if the prostitute he pays, gives him an incurable STD, it’s his problem. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:19 PM
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he obviously had some crazy fixation on you. like dude, relax...chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:50 PM
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he knows, he's just gaslighting. you'll get quicker at spotting a troll and gaslighter. that's what he was doing, he was trolling you. here's your sign, when a dude keeps asking for more and more examples, he gets joy out of getting you to do the work to prove your point while he does not work to prove his point, just denies denies denies and you think he's being honest when really he's a troll and being completely dishonest and getting joy of getting you to provide more and more examples. you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:17 PM
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yep, i'm ignoring him too .... that little bit of interaction was enough for me to say no more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:10 PM
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dude cannot take the hint and go the eff away. he's clearly got mental health issues and would be exhausting to be around in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:56 PM
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i read it. like I said, I'm out. there are obviously some men who do not care, and you are choosing to say all men care and they just dont I cant engage with you anymore. I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:48 PM
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Myron said exactly that and a guy on this thread called another guy a simp for wanting to please his woman. dude, I'm out. you are choosing to be willfully ignorant. I have to disengage now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:46 PM
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she's not making up stuff, she provided plenty of links, on this thread as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:43 PM
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where did she say this thread. maybe she did, but I thought she said this subreddit. and she did provide examples on this thread and on this subreddit. one of the examples was one guy calling the other guy a simp. she gave tons of examples where I would have given you zero examples because you are not worth the time to give examples to. you're not arguing in good faith and just wasting your time and everyone elses time on your dumb argument, she should have just left you to argue with yourself b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:30 PM
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She made her argument with plenty of examples. You couldn’t accept the examples and did a red herring of “that’s not from this thread”. Fresh and fit (the leaders of red pill) said women’s orgasms are not important (essentially saying they don’t care) and plenty of men in the comments on that video on YouTube on fresh an fit channel agreeing with Myron. They have a huge following and the subsequent video where Myron doubles down, plenty of men still agreeing with Myron. Alpha male strategies (AM…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:09 PM
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No one should get married or have kids. 50/50 is a scam for women. Men eat more groceries and do less chores and child care, women should forego motherhood and marriage or if they really want a child, go to a sperm bank. Most men are useless and will mooch off of women. Women are better off getting a doctorate or an advanced degree and hiring a nanny to help with sperm bank kids. A husband is just another child, one that won’t grow up, do chores, and has zero intention of pulling his own weight
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:08 AM
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the freeze out - silent treatment, punishment, ghosting (extreme silent treatment)...especially as a manipulation if you rejected s*x
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 06:55 PM
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But also I have an unfair advantage. I’m an attractive female. I also have an unfair advantage even with lesbian curious straight women. Because it’s “cool” right now for everyone to be lgbtq, so I get a lot of kisses and flirting etc from straight women…obviously a lot of them just showing off, but a lot of grown straight women wanting to try lesbian sex. So I’m obviously playing the game on easy mode because it’s the hip thing to do now…at least once. Essentially what I’m saying is I don’t hav…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 11:51 PM
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Yeah, I just think it’s immature for a grown man to be too gamey. It’s not that I disagree with your current post, it’s just feels to calculated to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 11:45 PM
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I largely agree with everything you just said. But number 2 seems too contrive and gamey. Number 2 is not a big deal but seems immature for a grown man to worry about that and micromanage his dating like he’s counting calories.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 11:43 PM
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here is a good link of Andrew Huberman interviewing David Buss. This guy is the real deal. There are time stamps for short term mating strategies etc. David Buss's book "Evolution of desire" is must read. https://youtu.be/HXzTbCEqCJc
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 09:19 PM
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you again? lol look I have 2 older brothers, 2 older half brothers and 5 male cousins. the average joe has zero game because most men can't act or fake things. my sister and I were decent actresses and played my dad like a fiddle. I don't think the ignore her game will work because she will find out he is ignoring her on purpose as part of a game. Now, if he has really purpose and he's on his grind, then of course that is attractive. but if he's faking, the truth will out and he will come across…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 08:58 PM
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another OP groupie simp. fabulous. seriously have some pride, have just a tiny bit of self-respect. stop simping. ...sheeple
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:56 PM
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the other thing is, women are like natural award winning level actresses and most men, have zero acting ability. So they really have to be on their purpose, because most men cannot act and it will truly come across as ignoring on purpose. I know, I have 2 older brothers, 2 older step brothers, and 5 close male cousins. Myself and my sister played my dad like a fiddle, we are emmy award winning actresses compared to my brothers. Obviously I'm exaggerating, but to highlight a point. the average jo…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 06:43 PM
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the straight gal that I'm seeing now actually dated a red piller. You do know a lot of bisexual and lesbian read this thread to learn what not to do to pull straight women. And straight women tell on you red pill men all the time. Especially if you are into Andrew Tate and she overhears you listening to him. I really think red-pill men could learn from lesbians
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 06:29 PM
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okay, I can agree with most of what you are saying above.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 06:20 PM
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well stop acting like a big baby, seriously dude, read Ops article about holding frame, passing shit tests, not simping, etc. some of the advice is actually good advice if you sheeple would actually follow it.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:54 PM
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I call a spade a spade, or a simp a simp lol ...or sheeple, sheep. "I will agree with what I agree with and there's nothing you can do about it." --man child much? need a pacifier? do I need to call the whambulance? exactly, it is okay for me to disagree with OP without you and him getting so butthurt. I have accepted it, you are the one who engaged me and now you apparently will not go away. follow your own advice simp, and please go away and move on.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:48 PM
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the kind and persistent is directly from the David Buss research on gender dynamics, not my take at all. Just that I read his book and his research and have seen him on several podcast and I agree with him and the science. The nice guy trope is really not a nice guy at all, a nice guy puts coins in the slot machine hoping the slot machine pays out. so it's a fake nice guy and women know and sense this right away. you cannot manufacture attraction with game, she is either attracted to you or she …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:37 PM
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the kind and persistent is directly from the David Buss research on gender dynamics, not my take at all. Just that I read his book and his research and have seen him on several podcast and I agree with him and the science. The nice guy trope is really not a nice guy at all, a nice guy puts coins in the slot machine hoping the slot machine pays out. so it's a fake nice guy and women know and sense this right away. you cannot manufacture attraction with game, she is either attracted to you or she …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:33 PM
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He's the one that lost frame when I mentioned the research from David Buss doesn't support his view. Stop simping for OP, you look like sheep. Here's the deal, women like me and my girlfriends all like masculine men. I am hot for one guy now, who wants to call me his girlfriend (and I'm keeping him at arms length because dude is super jealous angry and possessive) and I'm not going to lie. some of that stuff is sexy as hell. boss me around, slap my bottom, pull my hair, let me sit on your lap da…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:13 PM
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he has no picture of him anywhere, no picture of him woman, no bio, no credentials, he's a nobody. He's not the Gottman's or David Buss, but we have all these sheep like you simping so hard for OP. He's probably 300 pound obese troll for all you know.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 04:27 PM
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again with the simping, get his D*ck outcha mouth.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:59 PM
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that is the research from David Buss, an evolutionary psychologist. he also published a book called the evolution of desire. David Buss compared to OP. OP is an absolute nobody. Dude, I get more P than you and OP combined. Again, stop simping for OP. You look like a sheep.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:57 PM
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I'm bi,so I do pick up women, and yes, even straight women.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:54 PM
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dude, seriously, stop simping for OP, stop sucking his c*ck. I didn't say I know more than OP, I stated that scientific studies prove OP wrong and I listed the scientific studies like David Buss and the still face experiment and the Gottmans 4 horseman (silent treatment etc.) I listed actually credentialled people that prove OP wrong. Stop simping! Gawd, dude, disgusting. get his C*ck out of your mouth, seriously
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:53 PM
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dude you are simping way too hard for OP. You're obviously lying. I am bi and I have and still do hookup with straight women. I have more game than you and OP, please. But David Buss is an actual evolutionary psychologist and OP is a nobody. Notice how he doesn't have a picture of himself and his lady on his website, no bio, no credentials. and you are simping hard for his bro science. it's so pathetic
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:16 PM
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the joke is on you, I'm bi and I guarantee I get more P than you. lol ​ Stop simping for OP, get ahold of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:12 PM
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and dude, you are simping hard for OP! remove your nose from his behind please. You are embarrassing yourself!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:11 PM
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Op losing his sh*t on every thread where someone disagrees with him. The epidemy of fragile. It's beyond pathetic. That's this man child's calling card. he has a post on his website telling me how to maintain frame, yet he has fallen apart instantly on this thread and most every other thread on this subreddit. What are Op's credentials? He has none. Notice no pic of him and his woman on his webpage, notice no bio. he's an obvious loser. David Buss however is not a loser.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:09 PM
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Dude, you really feel the need to boast and lie on the internet, friggin pathetic. Even if it was true (which it's not), it so friggin cringe and pathetic as F
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:05 PM
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well David Buss is actually a world renown evolutionary psychologist. With those published findings on gender dynamics and OP is a nobody on the internet spouting nonsense, but sure believe OP that has no picture of himself or his lady on his webpage and no credentials listed at all.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 02:57 PM
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Can’t make this stuff up. Giving these guys “game” but can’t act right with 2 women online. Likely the only women on this thread and A) he can’t tell that we are women and B) demonstrating in real time that he has zero frame or game
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 04:00 AM
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Fragile male ego? You lose your shit anytime anyone disagrees with you, you’re the exact opposite of red pill. On multiple threads, you instantly get butthurt, lose frame and result to personal attacks. You’re the biggest baby on this subreddit. Quick go delete all your butthurt comments. Call your mommy OP!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:53 AM
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I honestly don’t get why any guy would listen to OP, you challenge or disagree with him a tiny bit and he completely loses frame
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:51 AM
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The audacity of this douche
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:48 AM
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You think you’re shit doesn’t stink, you probably look like a troll
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:48 AM
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Exactly, you got it. OP needs to study your point.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:07 AM
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Exactly! Op isn’t considering your obvious point. Even below average overweight women get D and attention thrown at them all day long. Is she really going to miss the one D that’s not paying her attention? No, not unless he’s the highest value male. Then she’ll notice him ignoring her. But women have low self esteem and sensitive to rejection. The sad reality to preserve their ego, they will settle for beta, mr right now. She will quietly go away or pretend she doesn’t want him. It’s a stalemate…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 02:58 AM
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They love their bro science. And also bragging about getting laid and it works for them. Yeah right, hanging out on Reddit. They are really getting laid by a hottie, not
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:57 AM
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Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:42 AM
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Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:37 AM
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Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:36 AM
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Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:36 AM
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OP and delusional males. I’m just trying to shoot them straight. Look up David buss, the evolution of desire. Look up the still face experiment. There is bro science and then there is real science. Ignoring a high quality woman and she’ll lose your number. She will interpret the ignoring as rejection and women are not used to rejection like men. To spare her ego, she’ll seek and get validation and attention elsewhere. Now, low self esteem women, they might stick around and “beg” for a man’s atte…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:28 AM
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Look up David buss, the evolution of desire. Look up the still face experiment. There is bro science and then there is real science. Ignoring a high quality woman and she’ll lose your number. She will interpret the ignoring as rejection and women are not used to rejection like men. To spare her ego, she’ll seek and get validation and attention elsewhere. Now, low self esteem women, they might stick around and “beg” for a man’s attention. But a high value woman will move on and quickly. She’s got…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:27 AM
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it is a self fulfilling prophecy, is she not attracted or were your behaviors unattractive (meaning she assumed you rejected her and she left). women are not used to rejection or men "playing hard to get" most women will just assume they are not your type and leave you alone.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 10:03 PM
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I'm not saying this doesn't work for top tier wealthy gigachad with shortterm hookups, but for a long term relationship for an average joe. First of all, the average joe has zero game. You can't teach calculus to a person still learning how to add and subtract. You have to have game to pull the ignore her and she will chase you game. this is why men complain about women ghosting. you ignored her and she ghosted you, duh? that ain't rocket science. dude, don't get butthurt and lose frame because …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 09:41 PM
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dude, you are losing frame. Hey, a broken clock can be right twice a day. Same with Red pill. But actually look at the science. David buss and other scientific studies like the still face experiment actually prove a lot of what you are saying as wrong. I get what you are trying to say now, but you really overemphasized ignoring and really you should remove the word ignoring because you are not ignoring her if you are truly busy. ignoring implied play a game. a game the average joe will lose, hen…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 08:27 PM
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this! Op doesn't understand women. this game can't work for the average joe. David Buss has scientific studies. If the woman feels rejected or paranoid that your courting other women, she will opt out (unless she has low self-esteem). Women want to be wanted, just like men. Women aren't used to rejection at all, men don't understand this. ignoring or withholding attention feels like rejection to women (especially if you don't communicate that you are busy with work). But yes, women want you to b…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 08:21 PM
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nailed it. hence the "still face experiment" i mentioned above. Yes, women want men who are not lazy, that are ambitious, etc. But if he's ignoring her, then that's not her man. He's sharing his life with other women and she will check out very soon. What you say above is spot on. and the ignoring part has to be natural, to your point and also has to be kind. Check out David Buss, 2 things women want, Kindness and persistence. Also, very important, women don't handle rejection well at all, and t…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 07:55 PM
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I did read that, but you really overemphasized the ignoring part. women are the masters of the "hard to get game" and well you're advice might work if there wasn't for a lot of blue pill simps. The kind of women you want will smell your game a mile a way, you really will need to be a celebrity or a very wealthy gigachad to follow this advice, not an average joe. However, women want a man who has a purpose and a direction and is a hard worker. I would remove the word ignore. ignoring won't work f…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 07:26 PM
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This advice is toxic as F. Withhold your attention too long and too often and she moves on (as would a man if the woman did the same thing to him). Check out the "still face experiment" ...which has been replicated in romantic relationships. The woman will eventually withdraw permanently and leave you for a guy who will give her attention. The gottman's call the silent treatment one of the 4 horsemen of the apocalypse, it will ruin any chance of a successful long term relationship. The only woma…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 06:22 PM
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oh, so funny. these stories are so typical RP
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 06:13 PM
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love this!
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 04:57 PM
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perhaps I don't know what I don't know, if there are any scientific studies supporting these red pill gurus like Rollo, Fresh and Fit, Pearly or others, I'm not aware of them. The "still face experiment" disproves the act indifferent and aloof red pill ideology. The still face experiment has been replicated over and over again on adult romantic relationships. The Gottman's call the silent treatment one of the 4 horseman. Andrew Huberman has a podcast on love and attachment where he actually quot…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 04:54 PM
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sad, it's like Qanon, believing in conspiracies with no scientific empirical evidence. I "feel" it's true, so it must be true. hogwash, bunk. not the common stuff like generally accepted advice like workout, lift weights, work on yourself (no one is disputing that), but the other controversial red pill stuff has no empirical evidence to support it or they would link and quote scientific studies....and well they don't ...so that should tell you all you need to know.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 03:42 PM
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What ever the intent, no matter, the result is the same. Winner take none. One thing that Rollo said was reciprocate by 1/3. Meaning she does 3 nice things for you, you do one nice thing for her in return. It’s just a game and a scam, a grift. And red pillers have literally checked their integrity, honesty, honor, and values at the door to enact this game on women. If you can walk away knowing you scammed anyone and feel happy about it, that you conned someone, I don’t know. It’s a raise to the …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 05:42 AM
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You really think i actually suggested homicide, poisoning with cyanide? First off, easy for the coroner to know he was poisoned with cherry pits. Obviously it’s satire because that piece of shit isn’t worth a murder wrap. Pull your panty wad out of you bum and move on. Butthurt much?
/r/ExRedPill12/08/23 02:27 PM
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I don’t see any ideological difference between a red piller and an incel, the talking points seem the same. Incel is involuntarily celibate, meaning they can’t get laid. Red pillers (Seems like these are OG incels who followed game, pick up artist methods, maybe got laid…who really knows, because this is often lied about. Anyways, what kind of relationship are they really going to have with the opposite sex…there talking points are “we hate women,” “it’s unfair that we can’t get P from the women…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/23 02:12 PM
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I used to believe in nonviolence too, I think that's great and idealistic. But I now believe in corporal punishment. I'm all for the electric chair, hook em up. terrorists? Waterboard them. people have to be taught consequences, plain and simple and a bully will only correct course, if he gets a good taste of that whip. Otherwise, a bully will just keep moving on to his next victim. Hard for him to victimize the next victim after I permanently and oopsie, accidentally cripple him. He'd be headed…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 03:29 PM
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Oh they are definitely real. I’m tiny, but lift weights. Strong for a woman, decent defense skills, jujitsu. Family of cops, I’m lucky and typically look stronger than I actually am, 135 pounds, 5’6. I say I look stronger than I actually am because definitely dudes out lift me at the gym. I do alright for a lady. But I look stronger than I actually am because my arms are defined and I’m decently quick for a woman. Abusive men definitely are real and it’s because women are kind and caring and als…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 03:07 AM
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Nah, hard pass. Consequences are my therapy. A bully doesn’t change unless they get a taste of their own medicine.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 03:00 AM
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I think some of these red pill tater simp tots are so over the line at this point with there over the top disrespect, they deserve some consequences at this point, they have stoked an unnecessary gender war. Most women are kind and caring to the core and already put up with way to much abuse and now their abusive men have learned new ways to abuse them 100 times over. It is time to turn the tide. There has to be consequences. Most men wouldn’t put up with this nonsense off another dude and they …
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:55 AM
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If a guy got out of pocket with you, man to man, would you just take it? Would you tell your guy friend to just take it?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:43 AM
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I always think it’s funny that “alpha” men say that “I’d never let another dude talk to me like that,” but these same “alpha” dudes think a woman should just take it and do nothing. Nah, that’s a hard pass. Most men wouldn’t just take shit off of anyone, don’t expect women to
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:42 AM
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I know the case very well, but I don’t and can’t find where she used the same “defense” I used. I was asking you to prove your point. She was a former escort that tried to hire a hit man to kill her husband for life ins and it was an uncover cop, the supposed hit man. I’m not “dumb” because I don’t know that her “defense” was the same as mine. How is it an “accident” when she’s clearly on tape trying to hire a hit man saying she wants her husband dead. Apples and oranges. Unless you have a link …
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:32 AM
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OPs boyfriend is a bully, from where I come from. You have to stand up to bullies, not back down. But unfortunately women are weaker than men, so we can’t go toe to toe, but there are other ways to level the playing field. Sure, if we were both men, you’d just duke it out. But he’s a coward, going after her. Because again, he wouldn’t insult another dude. Why? Because a dude would escalate to a physical altercation
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:27 AM
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It’s not like these people don’t deserve consequences, who threw the first punch? Think it through. You can’t just let people walk all over you.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:24 AM
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You said someone got 16 years. I’m not the dumb one here. Obviously I don’t know who you’re talking about
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:17 AM
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Wrong about one thing, I had a great father. My parents whooped me as a child, and as a result I suffer from a psychological condition called “respect for others”. I would never be in the situation that OP is in, because I would teach that MFer to show some respect. Respect isn’t given to an abusive man, OPs boyfriend that calls her an Old slut. But yes, people respect consequences. People like OPs boyfriend is being a disrespectful punk because he knows he can get away with it. You have to show…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 01:15 AM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about. You have to prove things. I don’t even have a boyfriend, so there is literally no potential victim. No need to white knight for someone who doesn’t exist. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 12:55 AM
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There has to be consequences. Men don’t care if they hurt our feelings. A lot of them are sadistic and actually feel pleasure at our pain. Just sharing the pain
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 12:53 AM
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This one is part satire of course. I’m gen x, we love satire, sarcasm …you know comedy, jokes…before butthurt millennials came along.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 12:38 AM
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There are lots of “accidents” that aren’t lawsuits. Drive through Starbucks latte in his car that slips from your hands, but you go to “save” it. Hot frying pan taking from stove top to sink but you didn’t see him standing in the way and splashed hot grease on him. Oopsie. Baby, I’m so sorry, let me kiss and make it better, I’ll get a bandage. Lots of stuff you could accidentally do to teach that disrespectful punk calling you and old slut a lesson. I’d burn him for real, accidentally of course.…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 12:35 AM
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Well I was lucky, my red pill man was more subtle and would apologize for insults, so I never felt forced to give him a dose of his own medicine because he would realize on his own that he just put his foot in his mouth. Also, even though I’m tiny, 135 pounds at 5’6”. I do weight lifting, so I’m fairly strong for a woman and I’m amateur level jiujitsu, he was 160 pound, peloton cyclist. Decent frame, but never a weight lifter. I think my body language. I just automatically “square up” when being…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 09:43 PM
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I used to believe in the high road and not stoop to their level and sure, I can let a lot roll off my back and move on. But I guess it just depends the level of disrespect. Some of these punks need to be treated like the Btch that he is. He wouldn’t insult a buddy like that, why? Hmmm. Because he might meet the man’s fist. These little btch ass men will specifically go after women and call us names and stuff because their is often no consequences at all. They don’t care if they crush our feeling…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 07:35 PM
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oh geez, no one understands sarcasm and satire. friggin millennials take everything literally. and have killed comedy for the rest of us with their political correctness. I'm gen x, we used to tell jokes and be sarcastic and everything without the millennials getting their panties in a friggin wad. must you children take everything literally, for fucks sake. gawd.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 04:44 PM
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sometimes when a grown boy acts like a punk, you have to punk him out. give him a good dose of his own medicine and then dump him. I'd wreck him and everything he owns, ooopsie. I accidentally bleached your clothes, etc. The disrespect of this punk if way over the line. I'd put him through the wringer and act real blonde and dumb. I'd be super apologetic, but I would dread the eff out of him.. A punk deserves to be punked out.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 04:37 PM
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Ultimately I would dump him, but the constant calling you an old slut…. I don’t know, but that level of disrespect deserves an equal response and some serious passive aggressive fuckery…bleaching his clothes, sugar in his gas tank, laxative in his dinner, eye drops in his drink, ground cherry pits in his cookies. Man, revenge is a dish best served cold. After I wrecked him and oopsy, everything he owns, I’d dump him
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 01:43 AM
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Run dread game on him. Lol
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 01:40 AM
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I feel like you are talking about my last relationship with a crazy redpiller too. it's basically an manual of how to emotionally abuse your partner. I think you can google it, the redpill bible, it's crazy making. I couldn't figure out what was going on, I didn't know whether he was a sociopath or what and I kept forgiving him. and then he left his computer open and I found out what he was up to.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 07:27 PM
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I’ve asked a guy out and paid and I’ve asked a guy out and asked to go Dutch (Sadie Hawkins dance, every year in school). I wrote it in my note I put in his locker. So yes, even a female kid can ask to go Dutch, because it’s really not as difficult as you make it out to be. It’s easy to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:07 AM
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Why do you guys bitch about male-only spaces if you don't care? quoting you from above. You are literally trying to justify lying. Are you afraid that if you ask a woman to go dutch upfront, she'll reject you? is that why you're okay with lying by omission?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:37 PM
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like i said, you are obsessed with me. just keep engaging. Just don't ask women out, problem solved. then no dinner to pay for. Don't ask women out if you are going to lie by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:27 PM
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you just can't resist, still at me. like a dog with a bone. just can't go your own way, can you? lol Where does it say this is a sub for men only?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:23 PM
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I honestly feel sorry for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:08 PM
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Hilarious, he outs himself in his comment history big time. Everyone knows who and what he is simply by his comments. He hates women and feminism because women don't want him, so he's on the internet trolling and showing his hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:07 PM
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oh please, we want you to go away and leave us alone, truly. But you just can't leave women alone, can you? You engage me on almost every thread. It's almost like you are obsessed with me. You hate us, but you can't leave us alone. We are all waiting for you to really "go your own way"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:56 PM
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Viva la Incel revolucion!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:54 PM
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women like me, I'm just a plain jane working stiff. when ever I ask friends out, I either say "my treat" or I let them know how much the venue is right when I ask them out or I send them the link to the restaurant menu with prices so they know. Men just want to be dishonest and lie by omission. It is lying by omission when you ask a woman out and you let her assume you are paying and then you wait for the check to come and want to split the bill versus being honest upfront. I know I have had fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:51 PM
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i've got a solution, how about just stay away from women altogether and not ask them out for dinner or anything else? see, I'm a problem solver.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:36 PM
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I know, those pesky feminists. How dare they want to work and earn a paycheck and have a home with heat and money to buy food to eat. Why don't those awful feminists just starve to death or beg a man to support her? How dare they want their own job and their own bank account and their ability to own their own property? They should be at the feet of men, begging him not to desert her and leave her and their children destitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:34 PM
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women have girlfriends, family, and kids because we build relationships. read the article, "the rise of lonely men"....men die old and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:22 PM
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True, but being a lazy bum that doesn't pull his weight makes you unattractive and once she has to do everything like your mommy, well mommies don't want to F their sons and being lazy and slovenly will dry her V up like the sierra desert. Men don't understand the anger and resentment we feel when they don't pull their weight. they don't understand the added stress that is unnecessarily heaped on us. We start looking at our men as a heavy burden and hello dead bedroom and divorce. We don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:17 PM
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I can speak for your culture, I know nothing about it. I'm in the midwest and even when I invite my friends, I'm clear about whether it's "my treat" or I let them know the cost of the venue or restaurant up front. Even with friends, I make it clear when I invite whether I'm paying or they need to pay. I either say "my treat" or I let them know the estimated cost or send them a link to the restaurant menu (with prices) up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:11 PM
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lol. the red pill men are the first group of incels that "grew up" learned "game" from pick up artists and still, deep inside, are incels. Red pill is incel 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:07 PM
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I don't know, but at least my dad taught my brothers what it means to be a man. Men nowadays, don't want to lead, don't want to communicate their expectations and yet are upset when women (who are strangers to them) can't read their mind. And men say women five mixed signals. Naw, she's just confused by you and following your lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:06 PM
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If the man is already asking, shouldn't he communicate completely his "ask?" why is it on the lady who hasn't gotten a chance to get to know him (presumably this is the first date), why does she have to "own" his role. Men want to lead, but leaders communicate clearly. They don't look for the woman to then lead and ask for clarification. Hence, taking the lead is taking the whole lead, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:03 PM
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The kind of man that makes me feel lust doesn’t say “Female women”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:43 AM
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If he asked her on a date, isn’t he inviting her to dinner? If he doesn’t intend to pay, then he should be clear so there is no misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:31 AM
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True. But go Dutch then. She pays for her own dinner (ask her before the date, don’t spring the surprise check on her at the end of the date)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:50 AM
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My point was OP was saying money for dinner is on the same level as access and “use” of her body. You can make more money, you can’t make another body. Or arguably the average person can’t clone their body
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:49 AM
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Well OP’s statement that men feel used for paying for dinner (and not getting sex). Well then go pay an actual sex worker for sex or don’t pay for dinner. When asking the woman out and she says yes, then the next question should be “do you mind going Dutch?’ Problem solved. Op didn’t pay for her dinner and thus can’t feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:46 AM
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Being honest is good because you don’t waste her time and she can reject you before ever going out on a date with you. She knows you’re a creep upfront instead of later on. Being honest about who you are is good because she can take a hard pass and you can end up with your own kind… or your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:30 PM
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100 percent and they never self reflect that by being a total douchebag asshole, they drove the good people in their lives away
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:00 PM
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Any self respecting woman will see you as a creep for propositioning them like a prostitute, but at least you’re an honest creep and they don’t find that out later. Again. Not hard to be honest. There’s no pass on being dishonest. If I bought you a Christmas gift. I buy you a gift, not expecting one in return. I don’t have a covert contract and then look at you and say “what, you didn’t get me anything?” You’re going to say “I didn’t know we were exchanging gifts”. A normal woman who was asked o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:57 PM
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It’s better to be open and honest up front. Even propositioning a woman by saying, “if I buy you dinner, will you F me?’ It crude, but at least it’s honest instead of a covert contract. Don’t pay for her dinner AT ALL. Don’t if you’re going to feel used. It’s really very easy to be HONEST
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:48 PM
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It’s not hard, ask the woman to go Dutch. If you’re trying to buy sex, go to a prostitute. It’s dishonest to ask a woman out, not be upfront on going Dutch and then willingly pay for dinner, but in OPs mind think of a covert contract that buys him sex. Go to a prostitute or ask to go Dutch and she buys her own dinner. No dishonesty. No covert contract. It’s not hard to be open and honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:43 PM
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Why not go to an actual prostitute and buy sex then? If the man feels he gets nothing, then ask to go Dutch on a date.I guess if what OP is after is P only and he has no interest in a relationship or having a nice date and the pleasure of her company, but I just don’t get how someone who presumably asks a woman out on a date and doesn’t ask to go Dutch and willingly pays for the date has a covert contract expecting sex from a regular woman who is not a sex worker. I treat my friends to a meal fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:36 PM
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These red pill men will be the old men who yell at kids to get off their lawn. They will literally rage at everyone and secretly feel desperate and alone and too stubborn to admit they did it to themselves. And they will never apologize because they were “Right”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:29 PM
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They don’t see women as human beings. Some men really should just go to a prostitute and have the transaction they want to have. It’s more honest that way. But no, they want to prey on regular women and expect a “transaction,” when the woman is wanting a real human relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:20 PM
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Are you equating a material possession, such as money to buy a dinner, to a non material possession? And you are saying you feel the same level of used after you give the gift of a material possession versus the woman that is giving of herself, the only body she will “Own” for the rest of her life. Women put themselves at risk, arguably more risk when they choose to have sex with a man, personal safety, risk of pregnancy, etc. you’re literally risking only money and you can easily estimate what …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:16 PM
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Are you equating a material possession, such as money to buy a dinner, to a non material possession? And you are saying you feel the same level of used after you give the gift of a material possession versus the woman that is giving of herself, the only body she will “Own” for the rest of her life. Women put themselves at risk, arguably more risk when they choose to have sex with a man, personal safety, risk of pregnancy, etc. you’re literally risking only money and you can easily estimate what …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:15 PM
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Yuck. Not equivalent at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:10 PM
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I believe women's standards are not high enough. So many girlfriends and women I have known over the years have put up with so much nonsense off of boyfriends and husbands and excused away atrocious behavior only for him to do it again and again. Finally, a lot of them divorced or left him, but they should have cut him off the first time he lied, cheated, etc. I think women are much too forgiving and will literally turn themselves into complete doormats and not enforce their standards (if they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:08 PM
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Gender war nonsense…In a romantic heterosexual relationship…so many arguments picked for no reason. Debate with your male friends only. …ditto for women. Why does your romantic partner have to be accosted constantly. It gets old. If you really want to be a mens rights activist, take that sht outside. …march, protest, petition….but whining to your girlfriend (aka mommy), that “life isn’t fair”, “men have it worse”…..do something if it’s that important to you, but leave your romantic partner alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:09 PM
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Hey, I'm sure you can find women who like your man bun, look how popular Fabio is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:47 PM
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I don't get where you obtained your perception on me. I have long hair to the middle of my back, zero tattoos, my ears are pierced only once. I am gen x, my ex husband preferred long hair. I had a bob once and he didn't like it. I didn't like it because it wouldn't all fit in a ponytail, so I grew it back out. You're entitled to your preference as to what you find attractive. ditto for me. I'm hetero and I find a man who doesn't look like a woman (to me) attractive. my ex husband looked like koj…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:43 PM
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I recommend not using the dating apps at all. Problem solved. Ask women out in real life. None of my girlfriends use dating apps anymore. I’ve never used them. Perhaps it’s a class thing, but I don’t hear good reports about dating apps, yet some people still insist on using them. But aren’t their better apps that try to really match people like eharmony. Isn’t the swipe app the hookup app? Perhaps I don’t know what I don’t know. But I thought some of these apps are for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:41 AM
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But getting morning sunlight is useful, check out Andrew Huberman’s morning routine. I do think the people on this subreddit would benefit from getting outside every morning and getting 20 minutes of sunlight in your eyes without sunglasses. It might make you hate women less
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:30 AM
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My ex kept saying he was ugly and I thought he was very handsome, but then I found out he was ugly inside and he said he struggled and was lonely most of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:22 AM
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there's no point for a man or a woman to get married in our society. it's a scam for women too. it's better for a woman to complete her education and get a higher paying job and to have a boyfriend who lives in his own place so she doesn't have to be his mommy and clean up after him. marriage is the biggest scam ever played on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:02 PM
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to each their own, some people like man buns, I don't ...you do you boo, men are looking like women more and more everyday, not my business, nor my concern. everyone is entitled to do whatever they want to do, it's a free country. Your question was what do I envision the average male PPD user to look like and honestly you want to police what I envision they look like. Like I can control what I envision they look like. It's not shaming, it's what I think they might look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:31 PM
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Why would you want a woman that only likes ass clowns. At the end of the day, you can only be yourself. I see a lot of assholes go down in flames, they do something bad to a woman and she lets his boss and mom know what he did and tries to get him fired. Being an asshole is playing with fire, these women will come for you eventually
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 03:05 AM
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I don’t know. I assume PPD men have man buns, wear skinny jeans, voice hasn’t drop yet, can’t grow a full beard. Just a lot of meninist meni-nazi, red pill incel 2.0, women have it easy, men have or hard butthurt low T whiny crybaby b.s. worried they are going to be drafted into a war that men start and women are just getting off Scott free for our “crimes”. Even though no one has been drafted since Vietnam, worried about women stealing your money from your minimum wage job while you’re 40 and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:33 AM
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100 percent correct
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 11:46 PM
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I'm not sure if you are trying to make a point telling women to get married or what and forgo an advanced degree and career. but you can argue the percentages of the various studies, but the end result is the same...(women who were not in poverty before divorce, suddenly fall below the poverty line after divorce) Per the social security administration: "divorced women have the highest poverty rates among all aged women in the united states." (whether you want to quote other studies, doesn't matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:31 PM
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how would 75% of all women qualify for welfare after divorce if they were not falling into poverty. You have to be near or below the poverty line to qualify for welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:34 PM
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divorce causes the majority of women (who divorce) to fall below the poverty line. before separation or divorce, they were above the poverty line. and then it more than doubles the title of the article. Women’s probability of being in poverty more than doubles after separation" - and this is just one study and one article, but this replicates the world over. " Almost half of American families experience poverty following a divorce,1) and 75 percent of all women who apply for welfare benefits do …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:53 PM
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not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:32 PM
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"Women’s probability of being in poverty more than doubles after separation" - https://findanexpert.unimelb.edu.au/news/46393-women%E2%80%99s-probability-of-being-in-poverty-more-than-doubles-after-separation https://melbourneinstitute.unimelb.edu.au/news/news/report-shows-womens-probability-of-being-in-poverty-more-than-doubles-after-separation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:07 PM
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I'm not saying women can't be predators, sure some are. But the majority of people that are in prison and fit the definition of a predator, are in fact, men. I guess women do have some privileges in certain societies, but your point is that men gave women these privileges (or else we would be treated just like cattle). So, how is it a natural privilege when your first point was that it is a manmade privilege? And I do believe there is pretty privilege that men extend to pretty women, but I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:53 PM
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" Men have greater physical power, so it makes sense for some of them to abuse it. On the flip side, the utopia men created for women is what allow them to talk about rights and shit like that. If men did not give women rights, they would be treated as another type of cattle as for most of history." How lovely, but didn't you just say the real predator is the woman. And then your point now is women are not predators and men have the real power. And if men did not give women rights, we would be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:29 PM
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there's always one...Meninist, meni-nazi, incel, men's rights activist, red pill cult member chiming in with the not all men thing. Protecting women isn't oppressing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:20 PM
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unfortunately, the majority of women fall below the poverty line after separation and divorce. Statistically, I am describing the majority. I am lucky to be making a great income and thus I am in the minority. Most women are not as lucky as me; the statistics bear this out. If my advice can help any of these younger ladies, that's what I'm here for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:18 PM
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Whatever incel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:48 AM
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It makes me think, how many street corner ratchet hos are they asking out for real, who in the hell is going out with a man they don’t like for a cheap dinner?! Nah, normal gals are not doing that. I think they are trying to make it a thing for women to feel sorry for them. If it is a thing, then stop choosing broke homeless women. These men are making shit up or telling on themselves. If this is really happening, then it’s a class thing. They are bottom of the barrel low class and choosing low …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:41 AM
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The tongue is mightier than the sword. Read the book “she comes first”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:30 AM
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Yep, but thank god I’m the breadwinner with zero debt. But I married young and I was incredibly naïve and trusting. Hard lesson to learn, but I’m employed and still get a paycheck that can pay all our bills and his share of the bills he won’t pay. Sometimes people become addicts and they drain you dry if you let them. Protect yourself. No joint accounts. Not worth it. Can’t imagine if I was a stay at home mom or if he was the breadwinner, I would have been effed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:23 AM
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Too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:38 PM
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I hear men on the internet say this but I literally know no one (man or woman) say this in real life. It’s not a thing. A few butt hurt men have created a false narrative or they are dating very broke low quality women and if they are, then those men should choose better. Sure a homeless woman or a broke woman, maybe. I’m not buying it for any woman of money and means, not happening. No woman I know would suffer through a date with a guy they aren’t interested for a plate of food. My girlfriends…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:21 PM
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Women, don’t depend on men. It’s too risky. After 20 years of marriage, he will empty your joint accounts and leave you for a younger woman. You better be working and have a paycheck coming in when or if this happens or you’ll be homeless. The divorce process takes forever before you see a dime of alimony or child support. Many men work under the table or won’t work, so there is no support to collect. Don’t learn the hard way. Don’t have joint accounts. Protect yourself. Maybe you will be the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:14 PM
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I hear the “free meal” thing all the time, what kind of street corner girls are ya’ll men asking out. I don’t know one woman that would go on a date with a guy she doesn’t like for a free meal. We all cook, have careers, jobs, and money to burn. Are ya’ll men asking homeless women out? Free meals, gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:01 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:48 PM
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And you engaged with me, I didn’t engage with you. And you name called me, a harpy spinster. Just like a man baby, can dish it but loses it when you dish it back. My dude, you need to nut up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:47 PM
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You’re comment above said “unless you’re in a Muslim society”. Basically saying it’s better to be a man there. I didn’t disagree with you, I just said “have at it hoss!” You do you boo. Again survival of the fittest. You’re an incel for a reason, whether that’s your whiny man baby stuff or your low T. Women aren’t picking you for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:46 PM
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Lol. So you changed your mind real quick about becoming a Muslim? Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:35 PM
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Well convert to Islam and move there. Easy, I’m a problem solver. Be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:05 PM
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Triggered much? You must identify as a low effort man or that wouldn’t have triggered you into personal attacks. Awe yes, the fragile male ego, take zero accountability. Wanting things to just be given too you and you make zero effort and are lazy and just play video games. It’s evolution, women don’t like lazy losers. It is what it is. Jordan Peterson says it best “she’s right, you’re wrong”. The price for sex is so much more for women, so if she doesn’t pick you, that’s why. You’re lazy and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:01 PM
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This!
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 04:48 PM
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Then it’s best for those men to give up, survival of the fittest. The weak genes die off as they should
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:37 PM
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Well, if you’re paying for the pleasure of her company and you’re a true gentleman, then count yourself a rare breed on the purple pill red pill forums
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:47 AM
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I don’t get how I contradicted myself. I simply said men pay for P and used only fans and strip clubs as an example where men go and pay for p. I only have one point, men pay for P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:08 AM
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You’re trying to change overnight and that is obviously not working.
/r/askMRP30/07/23 12:06 AM
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Dude, she’s done and is going to divorce you.
/r/askMRP30/07/23 12:04 AM
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100 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:25 PM
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Unless she robs you, burglarizes your home, literally picks your wallet and commits a crime….you men are paying for sex willingly. Hate yourself for being weak and not abstaining. p is your crack and you keep blaming the drug dealer, but the drug dealer ain’t coming to your house and giving you crack for free, you are going block by block, searching and hunting for the drug dealer so you can buy some crack or flying to Thailand to buy some P. You’re literally spending money and hunting the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:24 PM
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Exactly, poor table turning and gas lighting. He is baiting and putting his line in to fish. He’s the pursuer, the predator in his own analogy. Warped logic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:19 PM
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“Only gets sex”. Lol, the top 3 things that are trafficked, women, guns, drugs. Men literally kill for some P. Andrew Tate literally preyed on younger girls. The number one cause of death for pregnant women is homicide (baby’s father kills her). She is more likely to get murdered by him, then die in childbirth. Men go nuts for sex. 15 teenage boys in Morocco contracted rabies because they gang raped a donkey….a donkey. 4 men in India gang raped a monitor lizard and filmed it with their cell phon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:11 PM
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Kindness, manners, chivalry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:22 PM
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I know so many good women, but unfortunately no so many good men. But may just be the area I live in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:57 PM
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Yep, women don’t want low effort men, best to go your own way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:54 PM
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Entitled much? Our dads, or at least my dad earned it. Seems like you want it handed to you or you’ll suck your thumb and pout, I do hear that testosterone levels have been steadily declining since the 80s, maybe that’s why men are not putting in any effort. Testosterone makes effort feel good as Andrew Huberman says. Men that have “given up” probably need to get their testosterone checked, I’m being serious. Or stop listening to red pill manosphere, the world doesn’t owe you a beautiful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:53 PM
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Yep, he’s if the f*ck around and find out stage of his life. You can’t continue to tell a child (man child in this case) to not touch the stove because it’s hot and you’ll burn yourself. If you’ve told them until your blue in the face, then just stand back and let them burn. That’s the only way some people learn life’s lessons. They can’t be reasoned with. They can’t just look over the fence and tell by looking that it’s not any greener. Let them hop over the fence, but never let them come back.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:37 PM
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I don’t dispute that is the case sometimes. I only know “barb the builder” type women though. None of their men had 2 pennies to rub together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:31 PM
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100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:28 PM
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I guess that’s just how it is. Funny how he defined leveling up (getting a trophy wife) and then he did end up with someone younger than me. And she does have pretty features. But it at least 250 pounds, to each their own. He’s tried numerous times to come back to me. I can’t because he’ll just be unhappy again because I’m not a model and do this stuff over and over again if I let him. I was rejected, but now I’m the one repeatedly rejecting him. Strange
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:56 PM
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I’m a plain Jane and was married 20 years. He was a computer nerd, albeit close to 6 foot tall. Bald, glasses, average joe. Once his business started thriving, he thought he could do better than me, someone younger and prettier. She’s younger, but outweighs me by over 100 pounds. I’m 135 pounds and she’s easily 250. Not that it matters to me, but at one time it mattered to him. Hey, the heart wants what the heart wants, I guess. Good luck to him. It’s interesting that after he started to make mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:13 PM
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Don’t get married, have a long term boyfriend gate lives separate. And when you cook or do something for him, it’s a treat. A gift, not your everyday job to wipe his bottom. I was married 20 years and my workload gots so much lighter the day he moved out. Women tend to do everything while the man does very little. Not worth it. Make him live separately and take you on dates, you cleaning his skid marks will kill your attraction to him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:26 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:59 AM
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Yep, I’m not dating because of this. I dated a red pill man and that turned me off of dating altogether
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 04:08 AM
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Nope, never again. Plenty of fish in the sea, no need to date a toxic redpill cult member.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:26 AM
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This only works on women with low self esteem
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 08:27 PM
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100 percent. If it’s the IDGAF stoic red pill way, why would a woman be attracted to that?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 01:50 AM
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On number 3, why didn’t you invite her to your place?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 12:21 AM
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Moral of the story, if you’re an average man and you get with an average woman who is into you and consistently wants to have sex with you, maybe you should treat her like gold, because on the open market, welp OP said it. Guys, if you get a decent average woman that is hot for you, don’t be an A-hole and keep her, otherwise looks like it could be a dry spell out there in the open market.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:21 PM
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100 percent agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:23 PM
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Like Steve Harvey says, if a man can’t pay for a plate of food, how is he going to support a family? Let that register young ladies, even if you work and make equal pay to what you’re husband makes, you will be off work unpaid for maternity leave, off work for kids sickness, if you run out of sick time at your company, it will be unpaid. What kind of father and husband is this guy going to be if he can’t (or won’t) buy you a plate of food. Even if you are the breadwinner and your husband doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:32 AM
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Perhaps I watch too much news, but I’ve never done online dating or been on a blind date. Not worth the risk IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:10 AM
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B, I could close my eyes or put a bag over his face
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:36 AM
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yep, he met her and then he tried to change her.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 07:32 PM
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well, you've been playing her and she played you back. no harm no foul. just ignore and move on, just realize you kinda deserved it. Of course she is into you and wanted to be exclusive and if you want the same, but came off aloof, then that's a hard to get game you played on her. And well, you started the game and she just finished it. Essentially, she called you out. she called your bluff.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 04:44 PM
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Sadly your comments history says otherwise, unless you recently mgtow.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 01:51 AM
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I think their could be a healthy version of mgtow that isn’t women bashing and women obsessed. Nothing wrong with taking time off from dating or permanently deciding to be single and celibate (catholic priests, nuns, monks, etc.). To each their own. But often mgtow is a bitter and full of rage existence. They don’t go quietly and practice stoicism or some other peaceful or productive endeavor. A lot of them make it known constantly that they hate women, so really they are toxic incel culture 2.0…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/23 10:07 PM
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Most men I know would have zero respect for a woman that has sex with them too soon and doesn’t make them wait. I guess it has to do with where you live and you’re culture. But it’s a catch 22 for women and well I always tell women “you can’t regret the sex you don’t have.” And if you have sex too soon, men tend to think you do that with every guy you date. Women of course don’t do this unless they really are promiscuous which is a tiny percentage of women. But men admit to thinking this. It’s b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:11 PM
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Classic abuse.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 06:14 AM
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I thought you men where going your own way? but you can't can you? you are so obsessed with us women and your gender war nonsense. Don't you need to write Paul Elam a love letter, be a meninist, a men's right's activist. write your incel manifesto. why are mgtow men so obsessed with us women and what we think. the reason you can't get any is because you'd rather argue with women than have any amount of charm and romance. women don't like abusive argumentative men who argue for no apparent reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:24 PM
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I have no idea what your babbling on again now, incoherent nonsense. I thought you men where "going your own way" ...seems like your obsessed with us women because you clearly won't peace out an leave me alone. good lord, triggered much? don't you need to go write a love letter to paul elam or join the meninist men's right movement and tell everyone your opinion on why feminism is bad and slavery was actually good for the slaves? I don't understand how men you are going their own way won't leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:16 PM
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A lot of women end up being “hospice care” wives because the husband didn’t take care of his health and he ends up being a burden to her in the last 10 years of marriage before he dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:17 PM
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Not anymore. 7 million men between the ages of 25-54 are not working and spend the day doing leisure activities according to the bureau of labor statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:16 PM
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Dude, you just told on yourself…you said the only way you can get sex is by going to a prostitute or manipulating women. An incel is one that can’t voluntarily get sex. If you have to manipulate women to get sex, what does that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:14 PM
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My brother says any guy using the word misandrist is an incel and he has to pay for sex. Lol. Winner winner chicken dinner. Meninists. Mens rights activists. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:36 AM
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Omg, you’re too much, too many incels on this subreddit. What do you hope to gain by this? Do women a favor and just stay away from them. You clearly are nuts and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:30 AM
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You engaged me on this thread, not the other way around. You clearly were triggered and just had to “put the little lady in her place” because men like you never go after other men, nope never…. Because that would require B*lls….cowards attack little women. Lol. Incel much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:25 AM
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I’m not mad, but clearly you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:22 AM
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You probably shouldn’t date women, I agree go the honest route and just pay a prostitute, do women a favor and go your own way,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:21 AM
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Calling me a misandrist is what an incel would do. Lol. You use a ton of incel language. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:19 AM
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I’m sure there are lazy women. But women do the bulk of the caregiving, raising the children, cooking, cleaning, errands, grocery shopping, doctors appointments, school volunteering, car pool the kids, take elderly parents to doctors, ….women do the bulk of the unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:18 AM
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Well, good for them if they can afford to retire early. A lot of widows qualify for their husbands social security. A lot of women in their later years have to stay home and be a full time nurse to their husbands who are 5 to 10 years older than them. They don’t want to put their husbands in a nursing home and continue to work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:16 AM
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She was wooing you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:10 AM
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This subreddit is just crawling with incels and internet tough guys attacking women instead of going out and becoming real men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:49 PM
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I divorced him. Lol. But you’re right, my brothers can lift more. Obvious biology. I thought I wouldn’t have to state the obvious for you. What good is my husband’s muscles if he just lays on the couch? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:45 PM
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It’s a severe data trend that shows a deep rise in employed and lazy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:43 PM
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Women live longer so need to work longer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:42 PM
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How do men want to be wooed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:27 PM
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What worker (male or female) doesn’t complain about work? Everyone complains about work. That’s why they call it work and not “fun”. Silliness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:59 PM
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The facts are men are dropping out of the workforce in alarming rates, it’s really simple. It’s true that during COVID that women had to leave their jobs because schools and daycares closed down and women are by and large the primary caregivers of children and their elderly parents. You can twist all you want, but the articles highlight an alarming trend amongst men, dropping out of the workforce. Women only started going to work in my lifetime. They started really working outside of the home in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:58 PM
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What’s msm? Well women haven’t been in the workforce that long, started going in droves to work in 1980s. And well during COVID, women had to leave jobs to stay home with kids. And women do have the brunt of caregiving responsibilities in most families
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:27 PM
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Still more unemployed men than women and that’s alarming since women are usually the primary caregivers and take time off work for care giving. During COVID when schools and daycares Closed, women had to leave work to stay home with their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:25 PM
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The seasonally adjusted national unemployment rate of the female workforce in the United States stood at 3.6 percent in May 2023. Seasonal adjustment is a statistical method for removing the seasonal component of a time series that is used when analyzing non-seasonal trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:23 PM
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I agree. Men need to be more involved in their sons lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:21 PM
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Why would women sign up to fight wars that men start? Why can’t we just sit back, eat the popcorn and watch you men kill each other? Isn’t that what you men do? Why do women have to get involved in the shit mess men make? Can’t y’all clean up after yourselves. Why do women have to get involved in men’s wars? We should just let y’all kill each other why we vacate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:26 AM
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Why would women sign up to fight wars that men start? Why can’t we just sit back, eat the popcorn and watch you men kill each other? Isn’t that what you men do? Why do women have to get involved in the shit mess men make? Can’t y’all clean up after yourselves. Why do women have to get involved in men’s wars? We should just let y’all kill each other why we vacate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:26 AM
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Again men built and created this world. Take it up with your fellow man. You all got yourself in this pickle. You only have yourself to blame. Your own words. You men built the world. You just allow us women to live in it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:26 AM
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Well isn’t that you’re whole message. Why not just by a pocket P*ssy or sex robot or pay prostitutes. Why bang your head against a brick wall for nothing. Just “go your own way” and be done with women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:24 AM
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Number 4. Most women don’t orgasm from hookups. I’d rather fast and hold out for a nice restaurant than go through McDonald’s. Hookups are McDonalds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:22 AM
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Men wrote the tax code and the legislative law, all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:09 AM
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Men put a value on women. Y’all cause your own pain and suffering. To quote you, “men built the world”. Thus it is men’s fault you are paying women to just exist. You can’t see the obvious when it smacks you in the face. You need to blame men for the world men created (your own words). Look the top 3 things that are trafficked are women, guns, and drugs. Men put a bounty, a price, a value on us “Useless” beings. Because heaven forbid you look at us as human beings instead of life support for a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:08 AM
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Where did you comment about taxes? I meant what you’re essentially saying is you hate women and the world would be better without us? Isn’t that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:59 AM
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nada, you have video games (fake war) and porn (fake sex) and you if you have money, you can hire out anything a traditional woman might do for you. a maid once a week (140-200) bucks, eat out every meal, drop off your laundry to have it wash and fold, get a surrogate mom, etc. you have the money and means you dont need a woman. but women who make enough money at work can hire a handy-man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:49 PM
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well i'm not disputing the facts of what you said at all. I know history and I know what you mentioned is correct? But why can't we stop all the gender war nonsense. yes women enjoy a lot of comforts that men created, true. but the 3 top things that are trafficked are women (sexual slavery), guns, and drugs. you men put a value and a price on women. you're doing this to yourselves, some of you value the P way too much. that's on men, 100 percent. you put less value on it, trafficking of women st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:46 PM
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oh I'm old, and I'm in rural midwest, so I may not understand what the kids are into nowadays, I'm gen x and married 20+ years and together over 4 years befor that. never did any online dating, never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:11 PM
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if you live in a culture or area of the country that's different. but it is all over the news about men dropping out of the labor force in mass numbers: https://www.fool.com/the-ascent/personal-finance/articles/this-is-why-7-million-men-refuse-to-work-according-to-dave-ramsey/ https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/most-chilling-metric-mike-rowe-150000193.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAAtqRLqDdS0wSXk57A1VtULI2Bb6NDNQPCo3dCpzVf8qNVB6r8EskYv-CI1FquF…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:59 PM
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" In May 2023, the seasonally adjusted unemployment rate among male adults stood at 3.7 percent. " " In May 2023, the unadjusted unemployment rate of women in the United States stood at 3.4 percent. This was an increase from the previous month, when it stood at 2.9 percent. " ​ https://www.statista.com/statistics/193298/unadjusted-unemployment-rate-of-women-in-the-us/#:~:text=In%20May%202023%2C%20the%20unadjusted,it%20stood%20at%202.9%20percent https://www.statista.com/statistics/193935/seasonal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:51 PM
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yep, because if caregiving wasn't work, more men would do it as a profession as well. everyone knows caregiving and raising kids is stressful and hard work. they can't gaslight women into thinking it's easy. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:49 PM
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I'm sure those relationships may exist in certain pockets of the country, but those traditional relationship are becoming more and more rare. I was also curious what OP considered work and what responsibilities shifted from the woman to him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:46 PM
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I never said men must accept it, wtf? just because I explain why some women might have their guard up, be jaded, etc. no one should treat anyone like a POS. you are reading way way too much into things, whatever it is has you triggered big time. Dude, I'm a rando on the internet, calm the eff down. geez. no need to go to war and put a MFer in the ground. you need a xanax. Threatening much? you must be a real charmer with the ladies. wow men are more likely to be attacked....drumroll please...by …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:32 PM
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well, I will admit, construction crews, cars, etc. so very true. Women stayed home for most of history and primarily raised children because no birth control so they really couldn't do much else because they were having tons of babies. of course, there are some exceptions to this rule like Marie Curie, etc. So you are right. But most women work a job now and then pay a plumber, electrician, etc. My husband of 20 years was only a computer guy, not handy at all. I have some basic carpentry and til…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:17 PM
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Yikes, where are you meeting these effing useless women, just curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:04 PM
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Weird comment. I was talking about “work” in a relationship. OP stated that men “Work” for women and take on their responsibilities in a relationship. I wanted to point out relationships and families are work for both people, don’t you think? But women don’t say they “Babysit” their own kids, but some men have definitely been guilty of saying that. Well, babysitters usually get paid, so those men know childcare is work. Caregivers in general are hard workers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:18 PM
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I get that, but really no specifics other than being a provider. And the flat tire scenario and I’ve had 2-3 flat tires in a year. I didn’t marry my husband of 20 years because I was planning on having a flat tire every day. Lol. He says they (Men) do work for women (Not sure what else) and men take on women’s responsibilities (Still lost there)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:15 PM
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OP is concerned about doing work for her and taking on her responsibilities. And being “used”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:01 AM
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“Younger women are more likely to be primary income earners than in previous generations”. Among those earning over $100,000, nearly 1 in 3 millennial and Gen X women report being the primary income earner or contributing the largest share of the household finances. Only about 20% of women in previous generations carried their families financially. https://www.cnbc.com/2021/03/09/younger-women-more-likely-to-be-primary-income-earners.html. And the boyfriend I dated in my early twenties before I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:25 AM
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But I guess norm’s depend on location, culture and generation. If you’re a boomer, then it wouldn’t be the norm, but I’m gen x
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:19 AM
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I live in fly over country. The bread basket. The heart of America
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:18 AM
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https://www.brookings.edu/articles/where-are-the-nonworking-prime-age-men/. Fascinating. “Where are the nonworking prime-age men?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:17 AM
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In may 2023, unemployment rate for men was 3.7 and women 3.4 previous month was even lower at 2.9 Thats quite a bit. https://www.statista.com/statistics/193298/unadjusted-unemployment-rate-of-women-in-the-us/#:~:text=In%20May%202023%2C%20the%20unadjusted,it%20stood%20at%202.9%20percent. https://www.statista.com/statistics/193935/seasonally-adjusted-monthly-unemployment-rate-of-men-in-the-us/#:~:text=In%20May%202023%2C%20the%20seasonally,adults%20stood%20at%203.7%20percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:11 AM
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And most of my girlfriends have degrees and their husbands do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:01 AM
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I don’t care if he has a degree, just that he has a hard skill, like diesel mechanic or plumber or carpenter or electrician is fine. I’m a farm girl, so it’s not like he needs a degree to earn a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:00 AM
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Nope. Not the same number for women https://www.statista.com/statistics/193264/unadjusted-monthly-number-of-unemployed-women-in-the-us/ As of May 2023, approximately 2.63 million women in the United States were unemployed. This is an increase from the previous month when the number of unemployed women was 2.24 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:52 AM
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Oh I could name lots of examples. But I agree construction pays well, and better than teachers. True
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:49 AM
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I don’t think men need to worry about being a provider anymore, unless they live in a pretty conservative area or date a conservative. I’m sure women would like to get a man better then them, but most women know that won’t happen. 7 million men not working and that number is only growing at an alarming rate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:41 AM
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My girlfriend is in hr earning over 6 figures. Her husband is an ase mechanic and earns half what she earns
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:38 AM
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Welp, most women are closing the gap, more women are graduating college now than men, so I think the days of men being the provider will be over soon enough. I’m gen x and it was over for me. I never looked to my husband to provide. I’m degreed, he’s not. Same with my sister and her husband. In fact I know several girlfriends that have the same relationship. They are the breadwinners and degreed and husband is not. However, maybe we need to pay more for these blue collar jobs. I kinda think we d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:27 AM
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As of May 2023, approximately 2.63 million women in the United States were unemployed. https://www.statista.com/statistics/193264/unadjusted-monthly-number-of-unemployed-women-in-the-us/ “'The most chilling metric of all': Mike Rowe warns that 7 million American men are 'done' looking for work and have 'punched out' — why that's a serious problem” https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/most-chilling-metric-mike-rowe-150000193.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:22 AM
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https://www.irs.gov/faqs/interest-dividends-other-types-of-income/alimony-child-support-court-awards-damages/alimony-child-support-court-awards-damages-1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:18 AM
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The person receiving the alimony does not have to report the alimony received as taxable income. https://turbotax.intuit.com/tax-tips/marriage/filing-taxes-after-a-divorce-is-alimony-taxable/L3RVrBfu7#:~:text=Alimony%20taxation,-The%20taxation%20of&text=The%20person%20receiving%20the%20alimony,alimony%20received%20as%20taxable%20income.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:16 AM
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That’s only the small pew research. The bureau of labor statistics link I added has 30 percent as breadwinners. The pew research study was smaller
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:15 AM
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IRS classifies alimony as unearned income. I have table f 22 up, what column did you see alimony and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:12 AM
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“Child support payments are neither deductible by the payer nor taxable income to the recipient.” https://www.irs.gov/faqs/filing-requirements-status-dependents/dependents/dependents-6#:~:text=Child%20support%20payments%20are%20neither,for%20federal%20income%20tax%20purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:08 AM
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Idk, I always earned more than my husband and outworked him in the home. But I was raised to not sit while others were working and make myself useful, some folks are just lazy, what can you do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:06 AM
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So 29 plus 16, 35 percent in the pew research (smaller study) husband is not the provider. In fact 7 million men of prime working age 25-54 in the United States are unemployed. 7 million men in prime working age are unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:02 AM
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The pew research was a smaller survey than the u.s bureau of labor statistics but 29 percent of opposite sex earn the same amount plus 16 percent where the wife outearn.. in the 29 percent of opposite sex earned the same, the husband is not the provider because they earned the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:00 AM
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Nearly 30% of American wives in heterosexual dual-income marriages earn more than their husbands, according to 2018 data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. https://www.npr.org/local/305/2020/02/18/807050015/more-couples-are-embracing-female-breadwinners-despite-decades-old-stigma Table f 22 https://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/income-poverty/historical-income-families.html
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:56 AM
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Well I think a lot of couples do things for each other and ask each other for things, lean on each other. But if OP is in a one sided relationship, idk what to tell him, but choose better. But my husband was always laying on the couch while I did the bulk of everything. So I guess it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:52 AM
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Also this year, updated data. https://blog.gitnux.com/female-breadwinner-statistics/. “The Most Surprising Female Breadwinner Statistics And Trends in 2023”. I don’t know why men still complain about being the provider. They are only the provider in 55 percent of households and the rest married women and single moms. We are closing the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:50 AM
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This year https://www.cnbc.com/2023/04/20/more-women-are-out-earning-their-husbands-in-the-us.html. “Women are now out-earning or making the same as their husbands in nearly half of marriages”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:45 AM
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Here it is: https://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/income-poverty/historical-income-families.html. Link in the npr article https://www.npr.org/local/305/2020/02/18/807050015/more-couples-are-embracing-female-breadwinners-despite-decades-old-stigma. “Nearly 30% of American wives in heterosexual dual-income marriages earn more than their husbands, according to 2018 data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:39 AM
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I’m not offended, just matching your energy. If you really wanted an education, you seek it out on your own instead of asking people to spoon feed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:35 AM
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https://eccalifornian.com/women-are-increasingly-becoming-the-primary-breadwinners/. 30 percent outearn their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:34 AM
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30 percent are married breadwinners. https://eccalifornian.com/women-are-increasingly-becoming-the-primary-breadwinners/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:32 AM
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The survey indicated that 54 percent of women are the primary breadwinners in their family, while 30 percent are married breadwinners who are producing more than half of their household income. https://eccalifornian.com/women-are-increasingly-becoming-the-primary-breadwinners/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:32 AM
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https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2013/05/29/187019187/moms-are-now-primary-breadwinners-in-40-percent-of-homes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:29 AM
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Two-thirds of working mothers were breadwinners before the pandemic. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/breadwinning-mothers-critical-familys-economic-security/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:27 AM
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https://fortune.com/2023/04/13/more-american-women-becoming-breadwinners/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:26 AM
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Now is there anything you want a girlfriend or wife to do for you? Would you be comfortable asking them to do something after you told them no to say taking out the trash? I’d think if she loves you, she’d probably show her affection in certain ways, cooking your favorite meal. Is the type of relationship you want where you do nothing for her and she does nothing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:24 AM
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If she asked you to do something, say no. See, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:17 AM
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Most men in the USA now are not providers or expected to provide unless in conservative areas like Utah, etc. 29 percent of households, the wife is the breadwinner. Date a woman that can provide for herself. Problem solved. What else are you thinking you’ll be expected to do? What work? What responsibilities are you going to take on that should be her responsibilities to own?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:14 AM
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Hmmm. I guess you’re wanting a traditional marriage and her to be a stay at home mom. To each their own. If that’s what you want. I was married over 20 years and the breadwinner and my husband didn’t even know how to use a drill (computer guy). I grew up on a farm and my dad taught me everything, how to use tools, hunt fish etc. but honestly most people live in apartments or suburban homes and not on farms anymore. The vast majority of stuff now, women can do on their own or hire someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:07 AM
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What work are men doing for women other than changing a flat tire?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:02 AM
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I haven’t seen it, but not saying it doesn’t exists. Typically the mom does the bulk of the child rearing, the cooking, cleaning, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:57 AM
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I wonder if day care workers or school teachers would say it’s not really work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:53 AM
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Do men spend an equal amount of time raising their own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:51 AM
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So women spend the most time raising who’s kids? Is raising kids a form of work? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:48 AM
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Other than changing a flat tire, what other work do men do for their wife or girlfriend? What responsibilities do men take on for their wives/girlfriends? I was married for over 20 years, got a flat only once and I had a Toyota celica and changed it myself. Almost everyone I know has roadside assistance now. How hard is a flat to change? First how many flats are you getting, I’ve maybe had 2-3 in my life and I’m gen x. I don’t get it, what work does your woman have you do? And what should be her…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:41 AM
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Why do you think a white tank top on a man is called a wife beater? Just look at the news, Chad Doerman shot his wife through the hand and then killed their 3 boys before Father’s Day this year. One son ran away and he hunted him down and brought him back and killed him and laid him down next to the other 2. His dad said he snapped, but the evidence is showing he planned it. Google “family annihilators”. Steven crowder is on video verbally abusing his very pregnant wife, Steven crowder also admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:31 AM
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And also you really have no idea who you are even talking to, but crime statistics alone address this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:47 AM
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The law of the jungle applies. All women are prey and some men are predators. It’s better for women to be guarded for their own safety. I don’t get what is so hard to understand about this. Men are statistically more likely to be predators by far, more so than women. My family is cops, I know the system. Women, all women are prey. It’s not bigotry to just tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:45 AM
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I don’t follow, who is telling you that you “must” accept x, y, z? I’m lost. All I said is if women had poor encounters with some men, their guard might be up. I have no idea what you’re getting at but let me give you the law of the jungle because even though we are human, we are still animals. And you have to get right with the truth. All women are prey and some men are predators. Again all women are prey. All, period full stop. I’m sure the women Ted bundy killed thought he was a fine young ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:36 AM
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Oh definitely. There are some crazy women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:14 PM
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True, there are still some gold diggers in the world or girls with daddy issues, etc. but a lot of old men aren’t hiding they are looking for very young women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:13 PM
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Hmm. A lot of the mass shooters are incels like Elliot rodgers. So I don’t follow your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:10 PM
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Hmmm. Sure their are toxic women too. No argument there and I think women should wait 3-6 months before having sex if they are looking for a relationship. But 2 wrongs don’t make it right. My original message was for both women and men to do better and not “use” each other. What you describe is a race to the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:07 PM
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Huh? I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:35 PM
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Did you ever play truth or dare? I think their comments were like a dare….pushing you to keep talking to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:29 PM
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They probably don’t like seeing you alone, especially if you admitted you were looking for a mate. Now if they were being hateful and said very nasty things like you’re not relationship material, or you’ll always be along, or dude you should just give up. That’s different because they are submarining you. But a little friendly ribbing is encouragement. Friends give other friends shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:27 PM
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Nailed it, they would rather be a tater-Tot and belong to a cult and simp for other men who offer them nothing in return than to build a lasting lifelong relationship with a woman, a legacy, a family and grandchildren. They have drank the red pill koolaid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:24 PM
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I think you’re reading too much into it, they were busting your b*lls a little bit for fun. Don’t take it seriously. They probably thought they were helping you to have the courage to ask women out. Friendly pressure because you made it known you were looking. Like I have a friend studying to take the cpa exam and sometimes I tell her, shouldn’t you be studying. Friendly banter but as her friend, I’m saying her goals are my goals and I want that for her. Offered to make her index cards and drill…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:18 PM
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Yikes! What if it was your son? At least these men are saying the quiet part out loud and telling on themselves. I think you just proved the opposite of what OP was saying. You proved at least some men are “socially inept,” lack emotional intelligence, immature, childish, selfish, lacking in emotional intimacy skills. Proving the opposite of OPs argument. Truly horrible and uncaring thing to say. You know the young men that you don’t invest in in your community are the school shooters, the car j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:39 PM
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Well, I do feel bad for the truly good men that are still out there, caring considerate respectful and hardworking. Unfortunately they didn’t get the shaft from women, albeit I know they feel that way and blame women. Really you need to blame other men who behaved so badly to the women you want to date. Hence, that’s why our guard is up with you, that’s why we are jaded, and irritated and short fused. In the same vein, women need to stop lowering their standards and accepting bad behavior and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:14 PM
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A real lady killer, I’m sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:44 AM
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Triggered much? Lol. Who’s flexing their salary now? Lol. Flexing it because you know it has value. Look, men don’t want to pay for women and want 50/50 dates. Sir, what money is she paying her half of the dinner date with? Undermine women’s education and career, but they had to have those to get beyond a minimum wage job. Men are just straight up gaslighting women. Sure it doesn’t have to do with our “sexual” market value because men who are just looking for sex are not effing your degree. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:42 AM
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Same, my ex was brainwashed and the abuse escalated so rapidly I had to break up. Tons of red pill games
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 10:50 AM
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Hmmm. Maybe. I don’t know. My biggest pet peeve with my husband of 20 years was he got extremely lazy. But I think women definitely have a wish list, that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:12 AM
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I’d marry Sheldon. But I value intelligence in men because I’m not trying to get one over, coerce and control a dumb man. I need a smart one and if he’s smarter than me, someone I’ll admire. Men want us dumb. That’s why they downgrade education. So the next generation of women don’t go to school. Easier for men to control when she has no education and is trapped and dependent on the man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:01 AM
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Amen, we don’t want those men. Go find a woman that is broke and has a ged. Leave us educated women alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:59 AM
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Well most men don’t want to provide for a woman and they want to do 50/50. So she needs to have an education and career to get money so you don’t have to provide for her because that’s the last thing you want to do, so men downgrade women’s education and career (their ability to make money) and say it has no value. But it comes across as gaslighting because the majority of men don’t want to pay for women and expect her to pay her own way. Sir, with what money is she paying her half of the dinner…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:57 AM
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Yep simple math. If there are 50 young ladies in their twenties and 50 young men and 30 older men dating 40-50 years in age dating 30 young girls, that leaves only 20 young girls for 50 young men to date. Hence, rise of incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:52 AM
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you would think so. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:20 PM
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Welp, I think it’s probably good for you to stay alone. I agree, that you, especially, need to stay alone and leave all women alone. So we agree on that part
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 05:22 PM
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I do feel bad for men when they are young because their dad is trying to date the same girls they are trying to date. But then these young men will grow up and do that to their sons. Old men continually trying to normalize dating girls half their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:12 AM
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I’m female and I don’t want a man that gets around and garbage pails himself
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 08:59 PM
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I do agree with the resentment. I was married for 20 years and became increasingly resentful with the lack of effort from my husband while I did everything. I’ve only dated one man since my divorce and I had to break up with him at the 6 month mark because lack of effort on his part was making me resentful again and I didn’t want a replay of my 20 year marriage with mr weaponized incompetence. Of no, I’m not doing everything and the person does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:22 PM
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Apologize for what, telling the truth about you ? Hey dude, I’m too old. Don’t you have children to sexualize?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:01 AM
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I thought you said you weren’t ever talking to me again. Besides I’m not a child, so why would you talk to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:58 AM
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Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:54 AM
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A red pill guy said that to me “she’s not yours it’s just your turn”. Man I told him “you have a punch able face. Did you just call me a prostitute? WTF?” Disgusting. Needless to say I don’t talk to him anymore. So friggin cringe. I honestly can’t believe what these red pill guys are comfortable saying to a woman’s face. He got out of pocket and my brother was across the room. I pointed at my brother who is quite large and fists like sledgehammers, I said do you want me to tell my brother what y…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 04:47 AM
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Huh? You want to justify dating barely legal females, doesn’t your argument really boil down to that? Seems like that is what you’re getting act. You can act all intellectual, but you want to date barely legal females. And I guess if they will date old men, the so be it. Not my daughters though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:36 AM
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Yuck. If you had an 18 year old daughter in her senior year of high school, you’d be okay with her dating a man old enough to be her dad? Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:33 AM
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You’re trying to justify dating a barely legal female, what am I missing in your argument? I think I got you loud and clear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:31 AM
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Hmmm. I guess, I don’t know any girlfriends my age or younger that are this way. But I’d say the bulk of us have great fathers and well if we compare the men we are married to, none of them measure up to our dads. I’m in the Midwest though, so could be different elsewhere. My sister and I both married the only men we ever dated. My sister still doesn’t have her ears pierced and she’s 10 years older than me. Different strokes for different folks I guess. Honestly most of my girlfriends didn’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:29 AM
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What wasn’t civil? I didn’t cuss, I just stated a plain opinion of his post. It’s civil to disagree or make an assessment of his post and him for that manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:02 PM
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Also one thing about my dad was when he was done with his chores outside. He didn’t come in and sit. My mom was an ER nurse and she had a hard, physically demanding job. He’d help her in the kitchen and of course us kids had our chores. But he didn’t mind doing “womens work.” Because he always said he wasn’t going to sit while she was working. He’d help her finish up so they could sit together. And he taught us kids to “don’t just stand there, be of use”. We weren’t allowed to sit either while s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:50 PM
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I guess this is possible, but I think it’s pretty rare nowadays. However, I always compare men to my father and how he treated my mom and well most men sadly don’t measure up. I however am Martha Stewart (grew up on a farm, next to Amish folk). I know how to do everything homemade and from scratch. Getting a man half the man my dad was would be impossible. They don’t make them like that anymore. I workout lift weights, weigh 135 pounds at 5’6”. Have 2 older brothers, so hunt and fish etc. plus c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:29 PM
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All women are prey and some men are predators. Women are hard wired to protect our daughters against predators
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:11 PM
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It’s their choice, it’s a free country. No amount of money is worth it though. Now if she genuinely falls in love with an older gentleman, then that’s different. The heart wants what the heart wants. But let’s be honest. Men are grooming and predators for going after women their daughters age and young women are seeing dollar signs (or being groomed). So it’s not love, and that’s just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:13 PM
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It’s the opposite of mercenary. A woman going with an older man because he has money is mercenary. A woman dating a guy her own age that offers no money is the opposite of mercenary. A mercenary is primarily concerned with making money at the expense of ethics. Dude is likely a person that complains about gold diggers, but is on here arguing he wants a young woman and the only reason she’ll want you is for financial security (I.e. a gold digger). Or you preyed upon her and groomed her and she’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:07 PM
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Groomer. Predator
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:02 PM
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Oh course a consenting adult can do whatever she wants. An 18 year old is likely a senior in high school and still living at home with her parents. Wouldn’t you feel weird meeting her dad and her dad being close to your age? What do you think her dad and mom will think about you? Would you honestly want your daughter or sister dating a much older man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:01 PM
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I believe last I heard, women outlive men by 11 years. So take an age gap of 10 years, she’ll be here without him for 21 years after he is gone. Sounds lonely to me. Plus when she retires at 67, he’ll be 77 and if he’s in failing health, she’ll be a hospice care wife and will not be enjoying a romantic retirement taking cruises with her husband. Oh no, she’ll be taking care of him and changing his diapers. I say this because I’m from the Midwest and this is what I see all around me. Women not en…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:57 PM
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I think older women are just protective of their daughters and children in general and don’t want them groomed by older man. What kind of life is she going to have with a geriatric man that can’t even play catch with the kids and when she’s retirement age, he’ll be dead and she’ll be alone. Of course, we prefer to see our daughters build a family with someone their own age and would love if the elderly men didn’t pray upon them. They shouldn’t be changing their husbands diapers at the same time …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:26 AM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:36 PM
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And men will do anything to get out of wearing a condom, anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:32 PM
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I’m okay with it…I know so so many men who abandoned and ghosted not just their wives but their children and are way behind on their child support. Even the guys who initially were granted full or 50/50 custody, once they met another woman or had a kid with another woman,, totally gave up and ghosted their kids. Which to me proves they never wanted kids to begin with. They just wanted access to the kids mom and once she was no longer sleeping with him, he only held on to shared custody or full c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:37 PM
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OP just needs to leave women alone. He clearly wants her to provide 50/50 but do 100 percent of the housework while he does nothing at home. He wants a stay at home mom and one that works and makes as much money as him. He wants her to essentially work two jobs while he works one and probably more sinister than that, he wants her to be his mommy. The last few sentences smack of jealousy. He wants to be the stay at home mom but not do any housework. He wants a mommy and is essentially minimizing …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:25 PM
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Chad Doerman shot his 3 sons, but oh men are not emotional. Get out of here with that nonsense. Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:17 PM
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Well don’t a lot of men see women as p*ssy machines? I don’t get your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:15 PM
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How old is the baby? Is it a newborn? Dread game when she’s likely post partum depression and her hormones are out of wack. Dude this is the mother of your child, rethink your strategy. She’s liable to divorce you if you turn into an asshole right now. Her emotions and hormones are too high. So so many women I know divorced their husbands when they had a newborn. Whether it’s true or not, they felt he didn’t love and support them. Women’s bodies do change. If sex is painful for her, you need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 07:03 AM
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Nope. Look at Steve Crowders wife, how did being traditional work out for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:38 AM
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Be careful. Maybe you have a good boyfriend. But so so many girls move in with their boyfriend and split all bills 50/50 and then you end up doing 100 percent of the chores and cooking and cleaning. Your time and effort is worth something. Be careful. Also, it ends up not being 50/50 when you end up buying all the groceries and spend extra money on gas to go get those groceries. I know it’s not all men, but don’t give him wife benefits if he’s not giving you husband benefits and also all this ex…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 03:17 AM
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I can see you point, but I won’t be with a man that repeatedly tells me no on everything. However, it’s super hot a lot of the times when my man says no. Yum, foreplay. But I make more money than him and I can not only provide for myself, but I’m a weightlifter (135 pounds 5’6” power house) and into powerlifting and jujitsu. I don’t look to me man to do anything for me, provide or protect. I’m good with home projects and tools, and generally I’m just faster and can work circles around him. But s…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 03:00 AM
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I read this thread and completely (initially) agreed with you. Except for the ghosting. Ghosting is never emotionally mature. Just be a man and state that unfortunately, I can not be your friend at all. It hurts to much, I have to cut all contact with you to limit the hurt feelings I’m experiencing. Ghosting isn’t socially acceptable and it’s not treating the other person’s feelings with respect. If you wouldn’t do it to a male friend, don’t do it to a woman you are romantically or sexually inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:55 AM
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Um, true if women were looking for D, they can get D all day long. But women are looking for long term relationships and well a lot of there matches are F boys, married men lying about being single etc. or men saying they are looking for a serious long term relationship and they just want a hook up. Sure from your perspective, women have it easy, they have plenty of fish…um, women view it as going through a 100 rotten fish, men with anger issues, criminal records, etc to find a fish that is edib…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:38 PM
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Exactly
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:31 PM
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Damn, did you nail the red pill guy I know to a T. These men are not even aware that they joined a cult and have “group think”. They cannot even form their own separate opinion based on their moms, sisters, cousins. They are totally brainwashed like Scientology and regularly say on repeat, AWALT…all women are like that. If you come across a red pill guy, no matter how cute and initially charming. Do not kid yourself, this is a trained abuser. The abuse will get worse and worse, run ladies run
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:29 PM
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Clearly alpha men, not
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