AcrobaticRhubarb2147 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Are men massively walking away out of the plantation? I believe my original comment was accountability for both sexes. It’s unfortunate that you can’t read.	/r/MensRights	27/04/24 11:30 PM
1	Are men massively walking away out of the plantation? And their would be no abortions if men kept it in their pants	/r/MensRights	27/04/24 11:26 PM
0	Another way feminism is responsible for circumcision feminism is not responsible for circumcision, what a complete and total load of crap. In the bible, in Genesis, God told Abraham to circumcise himself, his household, and his slaves as an everlasting covenant in their flesh, see the Abrahamic Covenant. you can read the whole bible for free on project gutenberg website. Wow, you could not be more uninformed, just wow!	/r/MensRights	26/04/24 07:26 PM
-3	Are men massively walking away out of the plantation? what do men actually do for kids other than child support? there are billions of dollars in unpaid child support. the child support laws have not changed in decades, men keep it in your pants and you won't have to spend a dime. It's time for personal accountability for both sexes!	/r/MensRights	26/04/24 07:02 PM
1	Women in their biological prime seem too entitled to return basic courtesy Well, it was on security cam and that guy was arrested and arraigned. You can deny reality all day, but that’s what happened	/r/MensRights	07/04/24 02:24 PM
1	Women in their biological prime seem too entitled to return basic courtesy They have made several arrests in nyc of the guys doing it. I’m not on social media, my family is law enforcement. Perhaps you don’t really know what is going on, but simply googling the guys that were arrested and now appear in court would enlighten you	/r/MensRights	07/04/24 05:54 AM
-2	Women in their biological prime seem too entitled to return basic courtesy Men are getting punched by other men, not women. The call is coming from inside the house dude.	/r/MensRights	06/04/24 04:33 PM
-16	Women in their biological prime seem too entitled to return basic courtesy Women are getting punched in the face in New York by men at random…for fun. We just need to stay away from men we don’t know. To some men, saying hi back to them and making eye contact, they take that as an invitation. Check out the whenwomenrefuse subreddit. Two women recently were murdered for refusing to give men their phone number. Interactions with men are not consequence free for women, we try to avoid strange men for this reason and to not invite unwanted attention	/r/MensRights	06/04/24 08:04 AM
-13	Women in their biological prime seem too entitled to return basic courtesy The problem is the few bad men, the creeps. That’s why women don’t say anything back and don’t make eye contact	/r/MensRights	06/04/24 06:57 AM
1	Feminists are starting a gender war by not having children or marrying, so why cant we as well? Please do, mgtow! I am all for the 4b movement, why pretend anymore that men and women like each other? We don’t	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:36 AM
-1	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? I answered with source on this thread to another person. You don’t really want sources, you want to gaslight. It’s obvious by one google search that men are raping, assaulting, and murdering women at an alarming rate. It’s in every statistics bank and in every news article	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:15 AM
-1	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? By other men, not women. You’re talking about men on men crime. When we talk gendered crime. I answered with source on this thread to another person. You don’t really want sources, you want to gaslight. It’s obvious by one google search that men are raping, assaulting, and murdering women at an alarming rate. It’s in every statistics bank and in every news article	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:15 AM
0	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? I answered with source on this thread to another person. You don’t really want sources, you want to gaslight. It’s obvious by one google search that men are raping, assaulting, and murdering women at an alarming rate. It’s in every statistics bank and in every news article	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:14 AM
-1	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? Nope	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:12 AM
0	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? There are various statistical sources depending on your areas. John gottman stated this statistic recently on a podcast called “diary of a ceo”. But all statistics bank all over the world show women are assaulted by men much more than the other way around. Perhaps the obvious isn’t the obvious to some people or you’re just gaslighting women. https://www.statista.com/statistics/642458/rape-and-sexual-assault-victims-in-the-us-by-gender/#:~:text=This%20statistic%20shows%20the%20annual,number%20for…	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:12 AM
0	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? Crime from other men, not women. The call is coming from inside the house	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 07:07 AM
-16	Why do women get annoyed with the topic of male victims of female perpetrators? 40 percent of women will be physically assaulted in some capacity in their lifetime, whereas only 9 percent of men will be.	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 03:31 AM
51	Is there a community for women who dated a normal guy, and then their normal bf turns hxc redpill and now having to deal with leaving them and the long lasting abuse the guy put them thru cause of the toxic red pill community? Read “why does he do that?” By Lundy Bancroft. You can find the book free online by googling. Essentially, he doesn’t really love you, he loves abusing you. The red pill ideology is attractive to abusive men because they can then justify why that you deserve to be abused. It’s there twisted logic. Understand something, he gets off on being mean to you. That is his joy	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/24 09:24 PM
3	My thoughts. Let's discuss somethings we should discuss for men as a group. Grandpa had more sex because he financially supported grandma’s entire lifestyle. That, and grandma didn’t have equal rights	/r/TheRedPill	31/03/24 01:41 PM
0	Why are men forbidden to vent about how awful dating has gotten? Y’all just obsessing about women, it’s not mentally healthy	/r/MensRights	25/03/24 04:31 AM
-1	Why so many decent single men are single Welp, apparently people are settling for less than basic human decency	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 06:04 PM
1	Cop-gone-wild, 28, will get $500,000 PAYDAY after suing city claiming she was sexually groomed by her 'predator' superiors - after she was fired for sex romps with seven officers Welp, I think this story is more complicated than this. Court transcript is open to the public. The issue is a superior officer should not have had sex with a subordinate (her). Obviously not all men were superior officers, but just realize why she got paid.	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 05:45 PM
-13	Why so many decent single men are single Being decent as a man or a woman is the bare minimum. But why do I see men bragging about doing the absolute minimum?	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 03:49 PM
3	What's the point? I feel like you lead with your wallet. Dress like a pauper, take dates on cheap dates, don't let them know what you make, etc. Hide the fact that you have money and try to just date average gals.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/24 09:35 PM
2	According to HR ladies the fact that HR is 84% female is OK the important thin g is to get more female executives Welp, I have been in HR for 2 decades and men don’t apply for HR jobs. I can’t hire any men if they don’t apply	/r/MensRights	17/03/24 06:09 AM
0	Can men live a happy life without female contact? Huh?	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 11:28 PM
2	Will I ever get a girlfriend? Do you ask girls out?	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 03:40 AM
3	How do I win an argument against dumb feminists? Real men don’t compete with women. Move on and just ignore them. Make guy friends	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 03:19 AM
-2	Can men live a happy life without female contact? Well, are you?	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 03:14 AM
-7	Losing your physical strength & capability shows you how women truly value you No one is entitled to anything and you could very well charge for electrical and whatnot, but also realize your woman will lose attraction for you if you come across as lazy and useless. Women aren’t allowed to be lazy, fat or useless, why should men be allowed to be without the same scorn	/r/MensRights	15/02/24 08:21 PM
1	Buckle up, it's time to play... REVERSE THE GENDERS! NY Post headline: "I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sons" well the mother and son dynamic makes it rather freudian for sure. the rest of your comments seem like virtue signaling and I'm just not a social justice warrior. If everyone is a consenting adult, then I don't care to police something like this. in terms of crime, we have bigger fish to fry.	/r/MensRights	12/02/24 09:12 PM
1	Buckle up, it's time to play... REVERSE THE GENDERS! NY Post headline: "I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sons" a lot of incels end up absolutely hating women and remaining virgins long into their 30s and 40s. they are interviewed on youtube by that healthy gamer guy. they call it the world's oldest profession. I actually don't care as long as the young man is over 18, men that age often go off to war and die. I imagine the majority of the young men want it and are not being forced. And as long as the lady isn't trafficked or coerced, then so be it.	/r/MensRights	12/02/24 07:12 PM
2	Buckle up, it's time to play... REVERSE THE GENDERS! NY Post headline: "I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sons" well, I have no idea of the psychology of it all. But this is not unheard of. Seems like it use to be dads that took their sons to do this. I don't know if it's the sex component, maybe the dating component is really where the help comes in.	/r/MensRights	12/02/24 04:16 PM
1	Buckle up, it's time to play... REVERSE THE GENDERS! NY Post headline: "I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sons" Well it’s not the way I would go about it. But incels are about to be a real problem for society	/r/MensRights	12/02/24 05:41 AM
3	Buckle up, it's time to play... REVERSE THE GENDERS! NY Post headline: "I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sons" Well, I read the article and their is one comment about being for 21st birthday. As long as the son is over 18 and wants this, I see no problem. Moms don’t want their sons to become incels. I don’t know if this is the way. But incels would do anything not to be incels. I don’t think we should act like a 21 year old incel doesn’t want sex.	/r/MensRights	11/02/24 03:01 AM
7	Plate asks why going on a weekend trip with a bunch of guys is a red flag and why are you calling her a plate and saying you are stringing her along and the last paragraph says "I don't even think they grasp that a relationship..." Dude, you are the one who does not fully grasp that you are the plate and you don't have a relationship. Why would she listen to a thing you say when you have not locked her down? You already had the LTR conversation and you took a pass. So, she is not doing anything wrong to you. You are acting like a BPer It seems like you are in delulu l…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/24 08:30 PM
6	Plate asks why going on a weekend trip with a bunch of guys is a red flag If she's a plate, she is one of many. You are not exclusive to be establishing rules of conduct for her and your rules of conduct apparently don't apply to you? Is this upside down clown world?	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/24 08:21 PM
6	GF wants to leave because a friend has seen a sexual pic of her and the friend is visiting town Is it normal for grown ass men to share nudes of the gal they are sleeping with their friends? Creepy as F to me	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/24 05:05 AM
3	GF wants to leave because a friend has seen a sexual pic of her and the friend is visiting town 48f and I’d have a serious problem if my man showed any nude pics of me to anyone. That stuff was for his eyes only, how dare he show my pics like a frat boy. How old are you OP? She should have cut you loose when she found out what you did. And you want to bring this dude around her now and rub it in her face?! Wtf. Adding insult to injury. This would be unforgivable, severe violation. Why on earth didn’t she just dump you right when she knew you shared her pic with another guy. Yuck! ick	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/24 03:54 AM
1	It's coming... the end of women's thirst monopoly. I'm a Gen X female, but nice try. Move along kiddo.	/r/MensRights	29/01/24 04:25 PM
1	RP damage/ life advice? yikes!	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/24 08:48 PM
1	Misandry annoys misogyny kills Also, viral tweet of men openly hating their girlfriends went viral on twitter “that phase where you slowly start hating your girlfriend”. Millions of views and millions of likes and replies. Total dog pile. Yes, I’m sure you can name misandry examples. But the hatred and violence against women comes out in real life with say Elliott rodgers and the like with a whole manifesto and actually shooting spree. Several incidents like this that are undeniably misogynistic manifestos and video uploads o…	/r/MensRights	22/01/24 12:25 PM
-2	Misandry annoys misogyny kills And men kill men and men kill women, that’s why so many men are killed and not by women, men are largely killing each other	/r/MensRights	22/01/24 12:20 PM
2	Misandry annoys misogyny kills In some ways, some women do have it easier than men. However, globally, women are raped and murdered and tortured by men. Many women die in child birth and our bodies and plumbing are complicated and needing of more medical attention and care. I don’t think any man wants to have a period once a month. Women suffer a lot of pain just being a woman and that’s even if no crime is committed against us. Many men think it’s completely okay to hit a woman and they are not shy about saying that out loud…	/r/MensRights	22/01/24 12:19 PM
-1	Misandry annoys misogyny kills Check out the porn is misogyny subreddit for a good dose of pornographers quotes	/r/MensRights	22/01/24 12:15 PM
7	Woman's have a easier life? How can most women just stay in a house and not work? Majority of men and women are poor and have to work. Unless they want to be homeless with no house. The girl’s parents won’t live forever either and really it’s not like there is a rich man for every woman to marry	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 08:38 AM
20	Woman's have a easier life? Men don’t just gift women a car or anything and not expect something (Kitty time) in return. Typically, men are not gifting women anything out of the kindness of their hearts. They are expecting quid pro quo. They are buying sex	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 08:36 AM
20	Woman's have a easier life? In some ways, some women do have it easier than men. However, globally, women are raped and murdered and tortured by men. Many women die in child birth and our bodies and plumbing are complicated and needing of more medical attention and care. I don’t think any man wants to have a period once a month. Women suffer a lot of pain just being a woman and that’s even if no crime is committed against us. Many men think it’s completely okay to hit a woman and they are not shy about saying that out loud…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 08:34 AM
1	Are they harmless? Well spreading hate is not harmless. Elliott rodgers and other incels and mass shooters are actually killing people	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/23 03:47 PM
3	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? Kindness and then everything else falls into place because they care to begin with. You can't make a man actually care about you and when they show you through their actions that they don't care about you, believe them! Edit: Also doing what you say you are going to do. Women are not dumb, we pay attention to false promises and the con job. It only shows us that we cannot depend on you for anything and breaks any trust we have in you.	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/23 07:52 PM
1	The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship? Don’t men go for looks? Like aren’t both men and women shallow?	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/23 09:41 PM
4	Have been consuming redpill content for over 6 years now. oh, you got time. a word of caution. be careful who you take advice from. a lot of these men and women are con artist and grifters, having money doesn't mean they are high value. pearly things is not a virgin, she's pushing 30, with no husband and kids. the tate brothers have kids out of wedlock and are pimping their baby mamas on only fans. fresh and fit, where's pictures of their beautiful wife and kids. it's a free country, you can do what you want, but think about who you're taking advice fr…	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/23 06:16 PM
11	Have been consuming redpill content for over 6 years now. OP, are you married with a wife and kids now?	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/23 04:14 AM
3	Do women really have more options in dating then men and do they really start planning to be with a different guy weeks before the breakup? Well it takes a lot to admit it finally. Even if it’s to a rando on the internet	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/23 05:49 PM
6	Do women really have more options in dating then men and do they really start planning to be with a different guy weeks before the breakup? Most women don’t break up for other men. Men usually do something so rude, crude, or disrespectful that is the final effing straw of what we will tolerate and you leave us no choice but to cut you. Men will step on your toes one too many times with their peak audacity of disrespect and pathological lying that we cannot stand to see your face another effing second and the we hit our breaking point and you must go.	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/23 02:02 AM
6	Why do I think that talking to women is giving them attention?(Disclaimer what I will say might be offensive) well that's surprising, so you have one woman in your life that you don't think should suck you off.	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/23 11:53 PM
9	Why do I think that talking to women is giving them attention?(Disclaimer what I will say might be offensive) I think porn rots your brain and there are studies to support this. Watch the Andrew Huberman podcast on YouTube about dopamine. If you’re playing video games, that ups your tachykinens and makes you angry and depressed. I think you need professional help and I think you should see a male therapist.	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/23 10:02 PM
8	Why do I think that talking to women is giving them attention?(Disclaimer what I will say might be offensive) I mean this sincerely, but I feel you need to see a male therapist. I say male therapist because when women speak it pisses you off and also because you see women as sex objects and not humans and please step away from the porn.	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/23 09:52 PM
1	Lonely Single Men Gfs? I’m not sure where you life, but some parts of the country have an opioid epidemic	/r/ExRedPill	02/11/23 01:29 AM
4	Lonely Single Men Addiction. addiction to video games, porn, opioids, etc. Incels are a victim of the internet algorithm that places the blame on women instead of real self-improvement. Aggrieved entitlement - thinking the world owes you something. That random women owe you their time and attention and access to their body while you are a lazy bum with zero value or achievements. Mommy told you that you are wonderful and it's okay to not work and spend over 2000 hours a year playing video games instead of being a…	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/23 02:12 PM
0	Are some of us broken beyond repair? I can do whatever I want. Agreeing with OP and not telling him the truth isn’t doing him any favors. He’s a 22 year old man, why baby him?	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 07:15 PM
1	Are some of us broken beyond repair? Apparently you think “extreme hatred” of females and incels going on mass shooting sprees is just fine. Stop coddling extreme hate	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 07:14 PM
2	Are some of us broken beyond repair? I’m a 47 year old female and the younger generation seems entitled as F and y’all need to cut that out	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 07:13 PM
1	Are some of us broken beyond repair? Op asked a yes or no question and we answered it with a yes, so what is your Friggin problem?	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 07:07 PM
1	Are some of us broken beyond repair? He asked a yes or no question and we answered his question. Go away pickmeisha	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 07:06 PM
0	Are some of us broken beyond repair? Look here pickmeisha, we need to stop coddling grown men. If he said “extreme hatred” of black people, he would expect and receive backlash. Simply answering his question with a “yes” is mild in comparison, don’t you think? Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. You softening the blow for him and defending someone who is a self admitted incel should in fact be embarrassing for you, yet here you are.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 07:04 PM
-1	Are some of us broken beyond repair? Coddling these young men is the problem	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 12:20 PM
-1	Are some of us broken beyond repair? I agree with her. The world doesn’t owe him a woman.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 12:19 PM
0	Are some of us broken beyond repair? Aggrieved entitlement. Here’s the thing, women don’t owe you shit. You already know that men and the world don’t owe you shit. Are people giving you jobs? Or are you having to earn what you get? Did your parents coddle you and tell you you’re special? I’m not trying to be mean, but when you say you hate women and you resent them it’s based on a mindset that you think they owe you something and are not giving you your due. Women can sense men who hate them and they steer clear. Do you feel like y…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 12:17 PM
17	How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women? Are you equally mad at your male friends if they are promiscuous?	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/23 08:26 PM
1	Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward men I don't think this is hard to understand. Women are scared of strange men. We are always hearing the news about women getting assaulted and murdered. I know if a 200-pound man approached me on the sidewalk, I'd be a little apprehensive. I have some muscle and self-defense skills, but I'm only 130 pounds so I'm not looking for trouble and I know someone that outweighs me by that much can wipe the floor with me. men are not harmless and women know this. Women have either experienced close calls or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 03:24 PM
2	What is the main reason men are single 2023 yep, in recent surveys (see chris williamson podcast on youtube), men do not approach and ask women out. This is the main reason men are single, because they don't ask women out. If you wanted a job, wouldn't you submit an application. You wouldn't expect a job to just land in your lap, would you? Men that approach and ask women out, eventually persist and get a girlfriend or at least dates. this is not rocket science. This is the number one reason men are single now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 03:16 PM
0	This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them. agree. lazy and smelly men, it's an epidemic!	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/23 05:02 PM
1	I wonder how many people in real life think the guys who believed in the red pill are incels? Agree	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/23 01:07 AM
1	I wonder how many people in real life think the guys who believed in the red pill are incels? Agree completely	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/23 01:06 AM
2	Should I just pay for sex? Yeah, I’m not going to be negged by an incel on Reddit and I don’t want to be told women are useless because obviously he mom gave birth to him and protected him from this harsh world as a baby. I’m not putting up with the gender war nonsense. Not after going out of my way to praise and acknowledge the good parts of men and how we are not equal biologically. I honestly hate the gender war nonsense. It’s cringe and it’s old and most people are so black and white on both sides. And even after I ma…	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 09:16 PM
3	Should I just pay for sex? Oh I’m so sorry. It’s best to cultivate other hobbies	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 08:57 PM
3	Should I just pay for sex? The last guy I dated. My 2nd boyfriend from my 20s, then I married my 3rd boyfriend and was married for over 20 years. I got divorced and started talking to and seeing my 2nd boyfriend again and well he turned very violent last year and I broke up with him in October. So no, I don’t date men anymore. I like being alive and not being punched in the face. But sure, there has been guys talk to me at the gym…not sure if they are flirting or not. But yeah, I’m tiny and I am scared of men. I weigh 130…	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 08:48 PM
1	Should I just pay for sex? The dude said all the gender war nonsense and then lastly said women are useless…clear incel talking points	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 08:43 PM
1	Should I just pay for sex? Women are slut shamed constantly. By men as well with all the body count nonsense. We can’t approach men or we come off as easy.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 08:34 PM
1	Should I just pay for sex? Get involved in volunteering. Harvesters. Jimmy carter did habitat for humanity, hud. Evening classes at the community college, yoga classes. Eventbrite has events in your area. There use to be a meetup app, speed dating events etc. just get around women and get comfortable just talking to women	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 08:26 PM
2	Should I just pay for sex? Your half women, hence XY, hence your nipples. Women are the mold, you start out as a woman in the womb, I’m not a male basher, just a lover of biology and science and degreed and practicing in that area. Men do have their areas where they shine and I would never take that away from men.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 07:43 PM
2	Should I just pay for sex? Equal pay for equal work, etc. but men and women are not equal, we are biologically different. And I am a feminist, but I wish they called the equal rights movement for women, the equity movement because unfortunately men are very black and white thinkers and the nuances of the equal rights movement is immediately lost on men by the very word equal. The spirt and intent gets lost completely on some men. We are not biologically equal. I am very thankful for all the feminists before me. My husband…	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 07:29 PM
2	Should I just pay for sex? Lol. Some men seem to think women are just going to fall in their laps. Not going to happen or at least highly unlikely. Men are unfortunately going to have to ask women out and risk being seen as creepy. Most women have never asked a man out and most women do not do online dating. With all the recent news stories of the women murdered doing online dating, it’s too scary and unsafe. I’ve never done online dating and I’ve never asked a guy out and sure I’ve been single for long periods of time be…	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 07:06 PM
-1	Should I just pay for sex? I agree, men seem to think women will just fall in their laps. Lol. I’ve never asked a guy out	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 07:02 PM
–	Are women financially better off not being with men? Anytime my husband was unemployed, sadly he did less chores around the house. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 05:28 PM
4	Are women financially better off not being with men? Yes, having a man is unpaid labor and time you could work on yourself and on your career	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 11:54 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I hope so, for the sake of the next generation of women. I'm Gen X, so I was married over 20 years, together for 4 years before we got married. we separated early 2022 and I filed for divorce. To be fair, my husband wasn't only drinking the red pill koolaid, he was a hoarder/spender, porn addict, and then drunk and drug addict (for the last 3 years of our marriage. the red pill nonsense was just icing on the shit cake. So I'm just on my own from now on. If I did online dating, I would only do it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 03:13 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. His name is Louis Enrique Colon. I worked with his fiancée, Stacy Brocker	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:25 PM
8	Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily lives Yep, it’s all men until it’s no men. I stopped playing Russian roulette because eventually you eff around and catch the bullet. I want to live so I’ve stopped dating men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:17 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. There’s a reason Andrew Tate was arrested and fresh and fit were demonetized and the FBI is trolling the red pill forums looking for domestic terrorists. These were the 2 men I knew. But I know lots of women who have been through the same shit and I talk to men in every day life that say the same ideology. Incel 2.0 (red pill) has gone mainstream. Read the proud boy manifesto. Sound like incel red pill to me. A gal I worked with, her fiancé is a proud boy facing charges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:15 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I’m not doing unpaid labor for you. You can google things and look things up on your own. Good bye	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:10 PM
–	Which situation is worse? Desperately getting in an abusive relationship, or being unable to even get an abusive relationship? what did i just read? i got nothing lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:56 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. in addition to listening to all the podcast bros like fresh and fit, he also had a porn addiction and I realized the last 2 years, not just a pot, but a cocaine addiction. so he went very far down the rabbit hole. My husband was married before me and I recently talked to her and she said she thought he had a porn addiction back then. I guess he did a good job of hiding it from me for many years. I do admit I am somewhat guilty of the "boys will be boys" mindset, but now I'm a lot more aware.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:40 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. he listened to all the red pill podcast bros, fresh and fit etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:36 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. dude, 3 comments from you in my notifications at once?! what the fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:35 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. and crime and violence against women are only going up, not down. As well as kidnapping, rape, and human trafficking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:34 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. triggered much? I have like 3 notification comments at the same time in my inbox from you. like dude, you are definitely proving my point. Why are you so triggered by my comments? sounds like a you issue, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:33 PM
–	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you well I met all my boyfriends and my husband at work lol I only had 2 boyfriends before meeting my husband of over 20 years and the I dated my 2nd boyfriend again last year. In fact, I haven't dated anyone I haven't met at work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:05 PM
–	Average Men Have Trouble Attracting and Keeping Women Because They Lack the Skills to Show that they Can be Capable Fathers 100 percent agree. I wanted kids but I was married to a man-child for over 20 years and gave up hope of ever having kids. Because I was already the mother to my grown husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:02 PM
7	Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily lives I didn't say all single men are lonely. there always has to be one man scream "not all men!" lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:56 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I've already had 2 red pill men in my life (my ex husband of 20 years) and I reconnected with my 2nd boyfriend and he was beyond red pill abusive and so we only lasted 6 months out of last year and I had to break up with him because I was constantly scared and afraid. This was a guy who I loved before I met my husband and both him and my husband were brainwashed on red pill forums online and red pill to me just sounds like Incel 2.0 and my family served in the military before and after 9/11, No …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:12 PM
0	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. obviously you do, otherwise why are you engaging me? bizarre	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:11 PM
-1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. well, would you play russian roulette. place a round in the chamber and keep spinning the revolver and placing it up to your temple and pulling the trigger. But a lot of these red pill taliban MFers are dangerous and some are very abusive. I'm not playing with a loaded gun, I'm not pulling the trigger. You keep effing around with these tater taliban MFers, and that's how you lose your life. I've already had 2 red pill men in my life (my ex husband of 20 years) and I reconnected with my 2nd boyfr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:08 PM
0	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I'm in Kansas. it's social media. incel culture, andrew tate, red pill (it's all the same)....it's gone mainstream and I'm gen x. my ex husband will be 53 this year and my ex boyfriend, is 51, both identify as redpill Men's rights (incel-ish) I had near constant gender war nonsense in my house nonstop the last 3 years of my 20 year marriage and the crude things my husband would say to random women in public, calling them hoes, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:05 PM
-5	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. well, would you play russian roulette. place a round in the chamber and keep spinning the revolver and placing it up to your temple and pulling the trigger. I don't know anything about FDS, so I can't say whether they are the equivalent or not. But a lot of these red pill taliban MFers are dangerous and some are very abusive. I'm not playing with a loaded gun, I'm not pulling the trigger. You keep effing around with these tater taliban MFers, and that's how you lose your life. I've already had 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:56 PM
-1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. nope, this is what happens when these men spend too much time online. I'm only here to "know thy enemy" and what to avoid and these men have been super helpful in teaching me to avoid all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:36 PM
0	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I've met way way too many Tater tots, red pill, incel taliban MFers. I don't want to kiss 100 frogs, nope. I'm out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:35 PM
2	Toxic pill not purple pill?! 100 percent, they don't value women or our opinions and spout their bro science B.S. never back up their opinions with any actual facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:25 PM
-2	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I don't date men anymore. I don't like the Andrew Tate, red pill, incel taliban. I don't like all the garbage coming out of their mouths. I don't understand why a man has to spew all this nonsense 24/7. it's not romantic and definitely does not get me in the mood. it's turned me off of men all together. I guess it's better for them to be out and proud misogynists instead of investing time and energy into closeted misogynists. So in a way, I'm glad they are telling on themselves. I'm a plain jane…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:22 PM
15	Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily lives same. the incel taliban is insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:17 PM
–	How important is comfort vs value when it comes to a man's quality as a dating option? What balance of value and comfort would you feel you personally want in a man you're with and why? Yeah, I like a little bit more of a bear physique. I like my cuddle time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:16 PM
–	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you I can't say never. I fell in love with an "ugly" guy at work. He calls himself ugly, not me. But truthfully, he is not a "chad." But it had to be something about his personality that attracted me to him over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 06:48 PM
–	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you yes, there is the price of admission. but you can still get bounced from the club after you get in for being an A-hole	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 06:36 PM
40	Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily lives single lonely men want us and can't have us and don't want us to have any fun or be happy because they are alone and miserable. Men don't want to be baby trapped, but they want the authority to trap a woman if they see fit, power and control and ownership of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 06:34 PM
1	Women, which of these four relationship choices would you make if you had to choose? Option C. (and I was married to a man for over 20 years and together for 4 years before that) I started dating my husband when I was only 22 and I was a late bloomer and had my first boyfriend at 19. Then I would say option B. I make my own money. Then likely no on option D. Hell no on option A -- I don't share well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 06:05 PM
–	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you ugh. why do men keep pushing this narrative that their personalities don't matter? of course, physical attraction is likely more important, but personality still very much matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 05:48 PM
2	Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense. Hey, Stephen Hawking had not one, but two wives. Intelligence is attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 05:06 AM
0	Do you think that the "Mating Crisis" will actually lead to anything significant? I think men will get more addicted to porn and video games and women will do more girl trips and more girl only social outings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 02:54 AM
1	Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive? It’s for their safety	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 02:29 AM
0	The men who say 'Don't chase Women' are actually the ones chasing women. True or false. True	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 11:55 PM
2	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) I guess women could say the same thing about men who rely on ED medication or have premature ejaculation, women could say these men aren’t worth dating. Especially if the man can’t get hard and stay hard without meds or if he’s a 2 pump chump. OP must not be aware, but both conditions are rampant in the male population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 11:27 PM
5	Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to dating Yep, you heard it directly from the horse’s mouth. Some men cannot be trusted because they feel it’s completely acceptable to lie and since women can’t tell the difference between the liars and the non liars, it’s just best we avoid all men Because otherwise we get gaslit and told we should have chose better and we don’t take accountability. Hmmm, can someone hold these male liars accountable? Perhaps that’s the real conversation we need to have	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 11:17 PM
11	Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to dating so is it okay for women to lie too? I mean it must be, right? Because to quote your post "it is completely acceptable for men to lie..." People hate liars. Women hate liars. Men hate liars. Condoning lying is doing more to make people hate you than anyone else. OP, take some accountability!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 09:26 PM
–	The “low libido” argument. Some of my thoughts are men stop doing the things that initially attracted the lady (dating and courting). Hygiene slips, etiquette slips (I've heard of men literally sh*tting with the door open). Men being lazy or acting like they don't know how to do something, shirking their responsibilities, acting like a baby (women don't want to eff their sons). Of course, it could be a medical problem like endometriosis or hormonal issue or the newness of the relationship wears off, relationship is boring…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 09:22 PM
13	Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to dating well, it's not feminists in this instance. It's actually your post telling men it's okay to lie that women on this thread are hating. Edit: OP, take some accountability for telling men it's okay to lie. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 08:56 PM
18	Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to dating lol. Men: "It's okay to lie to women!" Women: "Take accountability and choose better!" (I don't care if he lied or conned you.) Women: Stay single and far away from all men and you will never be conned. Got it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 08:19 PM
2	Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to dating it's never acceptable to lie. and the truth will always out and then you'll have egg on your face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 08:16 PM
–	Do you sometimes wish you weren't attracted to women? Dude, I think you need to go to a therapist and honestly, a male therapist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 05:51 PM
9	Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women? same, let's body count shame men too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 05:40 PM
4	Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense. the men who cure cancer will be seriously attractive to a lot of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 05:33 PM
14	Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense. lol, you're not entitled to anything. No one owes you sh*t. As Jordan Peterson says, the cost of mating is more burdensome on women and to quote Peterson "she's right if she doesn't pick you." Just because I want to purchase a dozen eggs at the grocery store for what I paid a few years ago, doesn't mean I get to. I either shop around for a lower price at say costco, or I pay the asking price, or I don't eat eggs. It's that simple, you are not entitled to someone else. You're not entitled to mate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 05:28 PM
4	Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship? Yes, but don’t lie. Also though, I don’t think you should spill everything on the first date either, don’t vomit up your past unless asked and then be truthful at that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 12:14 PM
2	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? An addict is an addict is an addict. Some addictions aren’t as bad as others but I still don’t want to be with an addict. Because the guy is really addicted to his video games and you’re just not a priority at all. Let him marry his video games. The average gamer is playing 2000 hours a year or more, that’s a full time job	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:18 AM
2	I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are needed Oh 100 percent. It’s an echo chamber though and it’s only contributing more to the rise of single lonely men. That’s why women keep telling them to get off the internet, go touch grass, get outside in nature and get hobbies that don’t involve computers or the internet. These men are mentally wrecking themselves. They call it red pill, but notice they hold the same misogynistic views of women that the incels do. Red pill to me and every woman I know, is incel 2.0. If a guy says he’s red pill, we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 05:17 PM
1	Discussion : Do you still believe you’re going to find a partner you’re attracted to without any effort to change or improve? Curious, do women ever have lasting relationships with guys that are addicted to video games or porn? I can’t see it, but maybe it exists?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 04:55 PM
1	I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are needed I’m confused by your message	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 04:49 PM
0	I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are needed Not that it matters, but I’m 135 pounds pretty fit gym rat at 5’5”. But I’m no beauty queen. Not ugly, not pretty. Just average and I know it. I’m what would be considered a plain Jane. Men do ask me out in real life, on occasion…again I’m no beauty queen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 04:34 PM
2	I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are needed Incel ideology has unfortunately infected more and more men and they are lonely and miserable, but instead of trying to be like able, they rage hate. It’s like rejecting random women before they reject them. I honestly think a lot of these women who are allegedly not their preference, they would totally love to be in a relationship with them and at a minimum, they would sleep with these women if they could. But since they know they will never have her, they spew misogyny and slut shaming of rand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 04:27 PM
2	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? Gaslight much? I’m sure women are just threatening you all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 12:39 AM
0	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? Then don’t do the exact same thing you claim to hate. No one cares, move it along instead of proving my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:12 PM
8	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? Of course. But you had to tell me your preference, not once, but twice? Absurd	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:45 PM
7	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? You’re literally proving my point. You went out of your way to tell me your preference twice instead of stfu because literally no one cares	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:39 PM
1	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? And it’s hypocrisy at its finest. Women with a low body count don’t want to date a troll with warts	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:38 PM
8	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? Men just feel overly comfortable screaming this to everyone and no one cares. Move along	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:35 PM
8	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? These dudes are going out of their way to post on social media instead of ignoring. -plus the Same dudes will watch gang bang porn. So obviously it’s not that disgusting. They need to just mind their own business. Also, she’d never go out with any of the men slutshaming her anyways. It’s rage hating, pure and simple. Leave people alone, mind ya business	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:21 PM
11	Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around? Yep, a lot of men hate women and slut shaming is just one of their tools to spew hate at women they don’t even know. These dudes will literally (instead of minding their own business) go completely out of their way to troll and spew hate at women. It’s a total dog piling. If i truly find something disgusting, I avoid it. But it’s not about that for these guys, because we know they watch porn (so how disgusting is it really to them?). Nope, just an excuse to go after a woman and rage hate	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:06 PM
1	Q4Women: is there anything blue pill and left leaning purple pill Men should be doing that we are currently failing at doing? I’m so confused by this question, I guess I don’t speak the language. Good lord, the jargon	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 10:13 PM
1	What is the end game for TRP guys if they don't like the options once they reach their prime? Well I went through one relationship last year and my therapist said it was emotional abuse. I don’t feel like getting into it. Essentially he was brainwashed and angry and admitted he had anger issues. He terrorized me. He was my 2nd boyfriend from my early twenties and we broke up back then and then I met and married my husband and was married over 20 years. Went through a divorced. Started dating my 2nd boyfriend again and quickly realized something wasn’t right. Driving crazy to scare me, sl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 09:52 PM
1	What is the end game for TRP guys if they don't like the options once they reach their prime? I think the majority of the red pill men are going to have a rude awakening, unless they can become rich and have enough plastic surgery. Their ideology is just incel 2.0. And it’s a huge turn off for most women. Tons of women on the internet feel abused and scarred by dating brainwashed red pill guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 04:31 PM
1	Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily single Finally, women are wising up and staying single	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 03:08 PM
1	Older childfree women are rarely miserable Yep. 100 percent	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 02:40 PM
3	Most men here aren't truly Red Pilled even when they say they are Red pill is just men putting on grown mens clothes and pretending to be alpha. It’s putting lipstick on a pig. It’s dress up time. They aren’t fooling anyone. Maintaining frame is a farce. Men who are alpha don’t need to tell anyone they are alpha, people just know. Most men are abject cowards	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 04:32 PM
1	Women are more emotional than men - this shouldn’t have a negative connotation to it. Nope. Google Jordan Peterson. Men rank higher on the disagreeable index. Nope I’m not googling for you, so don’t ask	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 03:09 PM
19	Women are more emotional than men - this shouldn’t have a negative connotation to it. Anger is an emotion and men are angrier and more violent than women	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 02:21 AM
1	CMV : I believe as a man you have two options. Accept and prepare for a life alone or go all in on raising your SMV My recommendation for men, is just be alone. Women don’t want you. As evidenced by them not picking you. Cure cancer or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 02:20 AM
1	You can choose from any of the male physiques presented here, which would you say are the most attractive, which would you prefer your long term partner to have and how would you rank them and why? Bear. Andrew Huberman is yummy. And smart and I love his voice. Jocko, I didn’t think he was attractive at all, I thought he was super ugly….however as I listen to his podcast as see how humble he is and how kind and nice he portrays himself, he’s become more and more attractive. I believe he has a kind heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 02:06 AM
1	There are good reasons why birthrates are falling agree with OP 100 percent	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 03:59 PM
0	Men should just refuse to get married Dude, this just doesn't land on women at all. women make just as much or more money than men nowadays, they are earning the majority of advanced degrees. This isn't the 1950, women do not need to get married. Besides, men are asking women to marry them. Not the other way around. this just doesn't land at all Men can't literally take marriage away from women, because we no longer want to get married either. We don't need to, we work and make our own money. Men bring nothing else to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 03:58 PM
0	Reminder that accountability has to go both ways Politics, how romantic? Be still my heart. Lol. Said no woman ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 01:23 AM
1	Reminder that accountability has to go both ways This OP literally reposts some version of this argument on repeat. That and like 3 premature ejaculation posts on various subreddits a day ago. I think women taking accountability should be the least of OPs concerns	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 01:22 AM
7	I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those men so lets not hold men accountable at all, lets instead put all the accountability on women because "she should have chose better" True, some women are obviously guilty of ignoring red flags, having sex out of wedlock, etc. I do think women should wait for a minimum of 3-6 months before having sex with a man. But women like sex too. women should enforce condom use (STDs, BC, etc.). Women can do better for sure, but why are we giving men a ticket to slide? Aren't men suppose to lead by example, pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 03:44 PM
5	The insults I was giving another example	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 01:19 PM
-2	The insults Don’t be so sensitive. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 02:10 AM
2	Has the pendulum swung to far? Exactly!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 02:12 AM
1	Has the pendulum swung to far? Retiring early= bum	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 02:10 AM
3	What does "putting a woman in her place mean?" I went on girls night where my husband would drop me off and pick me up, so I could drink with my girlfriends and not worry about driving. He was also willing to pick up my girlfriends and take them home too. Sometimes he’d come earlier to pick us up and have one beer at the bar while he watched us dance. But I’d tell him if he comes early, that’s fine, but we don’t want to leave early because he’s bored and doesn’t dance. It meant that he can come early and watch us dance, but we are not leavin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 07:30 PM
1	What does "putting a woman in her place mean?" Lol. If it’s playful and I’m overly flirting and also being a shit and trolling my man too much, well I do like it when he barks a little bit and doesn’t let me run over him. But not abuse me if that makes sense. If I’m giving him shit, and you know how it goes, you can go a little too far and he looks at me and says “cut it out now.” I respect that. I’ll say “sorry baby” and kiss and hug him. But yeah, you can be giving him shit or even you are PMSing and stressed out about work and not meaning…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 07:23 PM
4	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Yeah, don’t pay people to be your friend. My husband did that crap our whole marriage (With my paycheck), always picking up the tab. He would never learn, when the chips were down and he called them for help (Very rarely) but guess what? Your not their friend, just a wallet. Now I treat my friends to dinner or drinks and I pick up the tab from time to time or cook them a four course meal (I love to cook and try out new recipes and I need Guinea pigs), but I feel my friends reciprocate as well. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 07:17 PM
2	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options I agree with OP. I do think it should be legal and normal so that men and women that want to engage in that activity are treated better by society. This could be arguably better for the women if they are not forced into an illegal trafficking situation and beaten and brutalized. And they have the protections under the law if prostitution is made legal. Obviously it’s not an ideal situation for women, but it’s arguably better than the sex trade now. And if women willingly want to sell there servi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 07:08 PM
1	How should we survive the "SIMP Epidemic?" I’d rather date a simp than a red pill incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:07 AM
–	CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa. Read his comment here (he doesn’t do oral). And how is he going to consistently please a woman consistently in 5 minutes. Lol. Say you are a premature ejaculator, without saying you are. https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/N9ZR5xotAi	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 06:12 AM
1	CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa. This post: this is one male that is not willing to sexually please his partner: https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/tZG2wcxVFV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 02:54 AM
2	What if I'm authentically not happy being single? Number 1: I hear so many men don’t want to be friends with women or friend zoned. Well then, be a jerk and tell her you don’t want to be her friend and we’ll later on when she has a single girlfriend looking for a guy, she won’t set you up or introduce you to her single friends. Talk about men shooting themselves in the foot. Realistically, men are not “in love” with every woman that friend zones them. Have plenty of female friends and acquaintances and maybe get introduced to their single girlf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 02:35 AM
1	What if I'm authentically not happy being single? OP, I like a man who can cook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 02:32 AM
1	If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problem Most men want more sex and not less sex. Most men complain about starfish sex (their gf or wife just laying there and wanting it over quickly), so many men complaining about dead bedroom. OP, you want to set up a toxic one-sided relationship where you get off quickly and well, if she doesn’t, that’s her problem. What’s in it for her to have a sexual relationship with you? You come across as selfish and narcissistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 02:22 AM
3	If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problem I think if OP gets blue balls, then it is his problem. Lol. I think if the woman stops sex before OP cums, then it is his problem, lol. I think if the prostitute he pays, gives him an incurable STD, it’s his problem. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 07:19 PM
1	Why Should Men Get Married? No one should get married or have kids. 50/50 is a scam for women. Men eat more groceries and do less chores and child care, women should forego motherhood and marriage or if they really want a child, go to a sperm bank. Most men are useless and will mooch off of women. Women are better off getting a doctorate or an advanced degree and hiring a nanny to help with sperm bank kids. A husband is just another child, one that won’t grow up, do chores, and has zero intention of pulling his own weight	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 05:08 AM
1	The importance of your attention But also I have an unfair advantage. I’m an attractive female. I also have an unfair advantage even with lesbian curious straight women. Because it’s “cool” right now for everyone to be lgbtq, so I get a lot of kisses and flirting etc from straight women…obviously a lot of them just showing off, but a lot of grown straight women wanting to try lesbian sex. So I’m obviously playing the game on easy mode because it’s the hip thing to do now…at least once. Essentially what I’m saying is I don’t hav…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 11:51 PM
1	The importance of your attention Yeah, I just think it’s immature for a grown man to be too gamey. It’s not that I disagree with your current post, it’s just feels to calculated to me.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 11:45 PM
1	The importance of your attention here is a good link of Andrew Huberman interviewing David Buss. This guy is the real deal. There are time stamps for short term mating strategies etc. David Buss's book "Evolution of desire" is must read. https://youtu.be/HXzTbCEqCJc	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 09:19 PM
1	The importance of your attention you again? lol look I have 2 older brothers, 2 older half brothers and 5 male cousins. the average joe has zero game because most men can't act or fake things. my sister and I were decent actresses and played my dad like a fiddle. I don't think the ignore her game will work because she will find out he is ignoring her on purpose as part of a game. Now, if he has really purpose and he's on his grind, then of course that is attractive. but if he's faking, the truth will out and he will come across…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 08:58 PM
1	The importance of your attention another OP groupie simp. fabulous. seriously have some pride, have just a tiny bit of self-respect. stop simping. ...sheeple	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 07:56 PM
1	The importance of your attention the other thing is, women are like natural award winning level actresses and most men, have zero acting ability. So they really have to be on their purpose, because most men cannot act and it will truly come across as ignoring on purpose. I know, I have 2 older brothers, 2 older step brothers, and 5 close male cousins. Myself and my sister played my dad like a fiddle, we are emmy award winning actresses compared to my brothers. Obviously I'm exaggerating, but to highlight a point. the average jo…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 06:43 PM
1	The importance of your attention the straight gal that I'm seeing now actually dated a red piller. You do know a lot of bisexual and lesbian read this thread to learn what not to do to pull straight women. And straight women tell on you red pill men all the time. Especially if you are into Andrew Tate and she overhears you listening to him. I really think red-pill men could learn from lesbians	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 06:29 PM
1	The importance of your attention okay, I can agree with most of what you are saying above.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 06:20 PM
1	The importance of your attention the kind and persistent is directly from the David Buss research on gender dynamics, not my take at all. Just that I read his book and his research and have seen him on several podcast and I agree with him and the science. The nice guy trope is really not a nice guy at all, a nice guy puts coins in the slot machine hoping the slot machine pays out. so it's a fake nice guy and women know and sense this right away. you cannot manufacture attraction with game, she is either attracted to you or she …	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 05:37 PM
0	The importance of your attention he has no picture of him anywhere, no picture of him woman, no bio, no credentials, he's a nobody. He's not the Gottman's or David Buss, but we have all these sheep like you simping so hard for OP. He's probably 300 pound obese troll for all you know.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 04:27 PM
1	The importance of your attention and dude, you are simping hard for OP! remove your nose from his behind please. You are embarrassing yourself!	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:11 PM
1	The importance of your attention Op losing his sh*t on every thread where someone disagrees with him. The epidemy of fragile. It's beyond pathetic. That's this man child's calling card. he has a post on his website telling me how to maintain frame, yet he has fallen apart instantly on this thread and most every other thread on this subreddit. What are Op's credentials? He has none. Notice no pic of him and his woman on his webpage, notice no bio. he's an obvious loser. David Buss however is not a loser.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:09 PM
0	The importance of your attention well David Buss is actually a world renown evolutionary psychologist. With those published findings on gender dynamics and OP is a nobody on the internet spouting nonsense, but sure believe OP that has no picture of himself or his lady on his webpage and no credentials listed at all.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 02:57 PM
-1	The importance of your attention Fragile male ego? You lose your shit anytime anyone disagrees with you, you’re the exact opposite of red pill. On multiple threads, you instantly get butthurt, lose frame and result to personal attacks. You’re the biggest baby on this subreddit. Quick go delete all your butthurt comments. Call your mommy OP!	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:53 AM
1	The importance of your attention I honestly don’t get why any guy would listen to OP, you challenge or disagree with him a tiny bit and he completely loses frame	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:51 AM
1	The importance of your attention The audacity of this douche	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:48 AM
1	The importance of your attention You think you’re shit doesn’t stink, you probably look like a troll	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:48 AM
1	The importance of your attention Exactly, you got it. OP needs to study your point.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 03:07 AM
1	The importance of your attention Exactly! Op isn’t considering your obvious point. Even below average overweight women get D and attention thrown at them all day long. Is she really going to miss the one D that’s not paying her attention? No, not unless he’s the highest value male. Then she’ll notice him ignoring her. But women have low self esteem and sensitive to rejection. The sad reality to preserve their ego, they will settle for beta, mr right now. She will quietly go away or pretend she doesn’t want him. It’s a stalemate…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 02:58 AM
1	The importance of your attention They love their bro science. And also bragging about getting laid and it works for them. Yeah right, hanging out on Reddit. They are really getting laid by a hottie, not	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:57 AM
-1	The importance of your attention Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:42 AM
1	The importance of your attention Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:37 AM
1	The importance of your attention Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:36 AM
2	The importance of your attention Op and the rest act like hot women don’t have options. Hot women never have to go on online dating at all, their instagram is lit up, if they get on a dating app, Everyman is swiping on them. If she had zero options like she was a 1 or 2, but even below average and overweight women get tons more matches than above average men. Literally op is telling play hard to get female dating strategy games, ignore and she will chase.. you can’t give men, female dating advice. It’s silly. Everyone knows wom…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:36 AM
2	The importance of your attention OP and delusional males. I’m just trying to shoot them straight. Look up David buss, the evolution of desire. Look up the still face experiment. There is bro science and then there is real science. Ignoring a high quality woman and she’ll lose your number. She will interpret the ignoring as rejection and women are not used to rejection like men. To spare her ego, she’ll seek and get validation and attention elsewhere. Now, low self esteem women, they might stick around and “beg” for a man’s atte…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:28 AM
1	The importance of your attention Look up David buss, the evolution of desire. Look up the still face experiment. There is bro science and then there is real science. Ignoring a high quality woman and she’ll lose your number. She will interpret the ignoring as rejection and women are not used to rejection like men. To spare her ego, she’ll seek and get validation and attention elsewhere. Now, low self esteem women, they might stick around and “beg” for a man’s attention. But a high value woman will move on and quickly. She’s got…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 01:27 AM
2	The importance of your attention it is a self fulfilling prophecy, is she not attracted or were your behaviors unattractive (meaning she assumed you rejected her and she left). women are not used to rejection or men "playing hard to get" most women will just assume they are not your type and leave you alone.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 10:03 PM
1	The importance of your attention I'm not saying this doesn't work for top tier wealthy gigachad with shortterm hookups, but for a long term relationship for an average joe. First of all, the average joe has zero game. You can't teach calculus to a person still learning how to add and subtract. You have to have game to pull the ignore her and she will chase you game. this is why men complain about women ghosting. you ignored her and she ghosted you, duh? that ain't rocket science. dude, don't get butthurt and lose frame because …	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 09:41 PM
-2	The importance of your attention dude, you are losing frame. Hey, a broken clock can be right twice a day. Same with Red pill. But actually look at the science. David buss and other scientific studies like the still face experiment actually prove a lot of what you are saying as wrong. I get what you are trying to say now, but you really overemphasized ignoring and really you should remove the word ignoring because you are not ignoring her if you are truly busy. ignoring implied play a game. a game the average joe will lose, hen…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 08:27 PM
-2	The importance of your attention this! Op doesn't understand women. this game can't work for the average joe. David Buss has scientific studies. If the woman feels rejected or paranoid that your courting other women, she will opt out (unless she has low self-esteem). Women want to be wanted, just like men. Women aren't used to rejection at all, men don't understand this. ignoring or withholding attention feels like rejection to women (especially if you don't communicate that you are busy with work). But yes, women want you to b…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 08:21 PM
6	The importance of your attention nailed it. hence the "still face experiment" i mentioned above. Yes, women want men who are not lazy, that are ambitious, etc. But if he's ignoring her, then that's not her man. He's sharing his life with other women and she will check out very soon. What you say above is spot on. and the ignoring part has to be natural, to your point and also has to be kind. Check out David Buss, 2 things women want, Kindness and persistence. Also, very important, women don't handle rejection well at all, and t…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 07:55 PM
11	The importance of your attention I did read that, but you really overemphasized the ignoring part. women are the masters of the "hard to get game" and well you're advice might work if there wasn't for a lot of blue pill simps. The kind of women you want will smell your game a mile a way, you really will need to be a celebrity or a very wealthy gigachad to follow this advice, not an average joe. However, women want a man who has a purpose and a direction and is a hard worker. I would remove the word ignore. ignoring won't work f…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 07:26 PM
-11	The importance of your attention This advice is toxic as F. Withhold your attention too long and too often and she moves on (as would a man if the woman did the same thing to him). Check out the "still face experiment" ...which has been replicated in romantic relationships. The woman will eventually withdraw permanently and leave you for a guy who will give her attention. The gottman's call the silent treatment one of the 4 horsemen of the apocalypse, it will ruin any chance of a successful long term relationship. The only woma…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/23 06:22 PM
2	I'm still red pilled perhaps I don't know what I don't know, if there are any scientific studies supporting these red pill gurus like Rollo, Fresh and Fit, Pearly or others, I'm not aware of them. The "still face experiment" disproves the act indifferent and aloof red pill ideology. The still face experiment has been replicated over and over again on adult romantic relationships. The Gottman's call the silent treatment one of the 4 horseman. Andrew Huberman has a podcast on love and attachment where he actually quot…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 04:54 PM
2	I'm still red pilled sad, it's like Qanon, believing in conspiracies with no scientific empirical evidence. I "feel" it's true, so it must be true. hogwash, bunk. not the common stuff like generally accepted advice like workout, lift weights, work on yourself (no one is disputing that), but the other controversial red pill stuff has no empirical evidence to support it or they would link and quote scientific studies....and well they don't ...so that should tell you all you need to know.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 03:42 PM
0	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do You really think i actually suggested homicide, poisoning with cyanide? First off, easy for the coroner to know he was poisoned with cherry pits. Obviously it’s satire because that piece of shit isn’t worth a murder wrap. Pull your panty wad out of you bum and move on. Butthurt much?	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/23 02:27 PM
9	At what point is a redpiller considered an incel? I don’t see any ideological difference between a red piller and an incel, the talking points seem the same. Incel is involuntarily celibate, meaning they can’t get laid. Red pillers (Seems like these are OG incels who followed game, pick up artist methods, maybe got laid…who really knows, because this is often lied about. Anyways, what kind of relationship are they really going to have with the opposite sex…there talking points are “we hate women,” “it’s unfair that we can’t get P from the women…	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/23 02:12 PM
4	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do Nah, hard pass. Consequences are my therapy. A bully doesn’t change unless they get a taste of their own medicine.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 03:00 AM
2	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do You said someone got 16 years. I’m not the dumb one here. Obviously I don’t know who you’re talking about	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 01:17 AM
1	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do Wrong about one thing, I had a great father. My parents whooped me as a child, and as a result I suffer from a psychological condition called “respect for others”. I would never be in the situation that OP is in, because I would teach that MFer to show some respect. Respect isn’t given to an abusive man, OPs boyfriend that calls her an Old slut. But yes, people respect consequences. People like OPs boyfriend is being a disrespectful punk because he knows he can get away with it. You have to show…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 01:15 AM
2	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do I have no idea what you’re talking about. You have to prove things. I don’t even have a boyfriend, so there is literally no potential victim. No need to white knight for someone who doesn’t exist. Lol.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 12:55 AM
2	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do There has to be consequences. Men don’t care if they hurt our feelings. A lot of them are sadistic and actually feel pleasure at our pain. Just sharing the pain	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 12:53 AM
2	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do This one is part satire of course. I’m gen x, we love satire, sarcasm …you know comedy, jokes…before butthurt millennials came along.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 12:38 AM
2	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do There are lots of “accidents” that aren’t lawsuits. Drive through Starbucks latte in his car that slips from your hands, but you go to “save” it. Hot frying pan taking from stove top to sink but you didn’t see him standing in the way and splashed hot grease on him. Oopsie. Baby, I’m so sorry, let me kiss and make it better, I’ll get a bandage. Lots of stuff you could accidentally do to teach that disrespectful punk calling you and old slut a lesson. I’d burn him for real, accidentally of course.…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 12:35 AM
8	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do I used to believe in the high road and not stoop to their level and sure, I can let a lot roll off my back and move on. But I guess it just depends the level of disrespect. Some of these punks need to be treated like the Btch that he is. He wouldn’t insult a buddy like that, why? Hmmm. Because he might meet the man’s fist. These little btch ass men will specifically go after women and call us names and stuff because their is often no consequences at all. They don’t care if they crush our feeling…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/23 07:35 PM
-2	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do oh geez, no one understands sarcasm and satire. friggin millennials take everything literally. and have killed comedy for the rest of us with their political correctness. I'm gen x, we used to tell jokes and be sarcastic and everything without the millennials getting their panties in a friggin wad. must you children take everything literally, for fucks sake. gawd.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/23 04:44 PM
8	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do sometimes when a grown boy acts like a punk, you have to punk him out. give him a good dose of his own medicine and then dump him. I'd wreck him and everything he owns, ooopsie. I accidentally bleached your clothes, etc. The disrespect of this punk if way over the line. I'd put him through the wringer and act real blonde and dumb. I'd be super apologetic, but I would dread the eff out of him.. A punk deserves to be punked out.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/23 04:37 PM
-13	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do Ultimately I would dump him, but the constant calling you an old slut…. I don’t know, but that level of disrespect deserves an equal response and some serious passive aggressive fuckery…bleaching his clothes, sugar in his gas tank, laxative in his dinner, eye drops in his drink, ground cherry pits in his cookies. Man, revenge is a dish best served cold. After I wrecked him and oopsy, everything he owns, I’d dump him	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/23 01:43 AM
20	My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to do Run dread game on him. Lol	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/23 01:40 AM
12	What does redpill say about punishments? I feel like you are talking about my last relationship with a crazy redpiller too. it's basically an manual of how to emotionally abuse your partner. I think you can google it, the redpill bible, it's crazy making. I couldn't figure out what was going on, I didn't know whether he was a sociopath or what and I kept forgiving him. and then he left his computer open and I found out what he was up to.	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/23 07:27 PM
4	Doing household chores do not make men sexually attractive, but they're still important for a relationship True, but being a lazy bum that doesn't pull his weight makes you unattractive and once she has to do everything like your mommy, well mommies don't want to F their sons and being lazy and slovenly will dry her V up like the sierra desert. Men don't understand the anger and resentment we feel when they don't pull their weight. they don't understand the added stress that is unnecessarily heaped on us. We start looking at our men as a heavy burden and hello dead bedroom and divorce. We don't want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:17 PM
–	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex I can speak for your culture, I know nothing about it. I'm in the midwest and even when I invite my friends, I'm clear about whether it's "my treat" or I let them know the cost of the venue or restaurant up front. Even with friends, I make it clear when I invite whether I'm paying or they need to pay. I either say "my treat" or I let them know the estimated cost or send them a link to the restaurant menu (with prices) up front.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:11 PM
6	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? The kind of man that makes me feel lust doesn’t say “Female women”	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:43 AM
2	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex If he asked her on a date, isn’t he inviting her to dinner? If he doesn’t intend to pay, then he should be clear so there is no misunderstanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:31 AM
2	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex True. But go Dutch then. She pays for her own dinner (ask her before the date, don’t spring the surprise check on her at the end of the date)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:50 AM
3	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex My point was OP was saying money for dinner is on the same level as access and “use” of her body. You can make more money, you can’t make another body. Or arguably the average person can’t clone their body	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:49 AM
2	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex Well OP’s statement that men feel used for paying for dinner (and not getting sex). Well then go pay an actual sex worker for sex or don’t pay for dinner. When asking the woman out and she says yes, then the next question should be “do you mind going Dutch?’ Problem solved. Op didn’t pay for her dinner and thus can’t feel used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:46 AM
2	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex Any self respecting woman will see you as a creep for propositioning them like a prostitute, but at least you’re an honest creep and they don’t find that out later. Again. Not hard to be honest. There’s no pass on being dishonest. If I bought you a Christmas gift. I buy you a gift, not expecting one in return. I don’t have a covert contract and then look at you and say “what, you didn’t get me anything?” You’re going to say “I didn’t know we were exchanging gifts”. A normal woman who was asked o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:57 PM
2	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex It’s better to be open and honest up front. Even propositioning a woman by saying, “if I buy you dinner, will you F me?’ It crude, but at least it’s honest instead of a covert contract. Don’t pay for her dinner AT ALL. Don’t if you’re going to feel used. It’s really very easy to be HONEST	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:48 PM
2	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex It’s not hard, ask the woman to go Dutch. If you’re trying to buy sex, go to a prostitute. It’s dishonest to ask a woman out, not be upfront on going Dutch and then willingly pay for dinner, but in OPs mind think of a covert contract that buys him sex. Go to a prostitute or ask to go Dutch and she buys her own dinner. No dishonesty. No covert contract. It’s not hard to be open and honest	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:43 PM
5	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex Why not go to an actual prostitute and buy sex then? If the man feels he gets nothing, then ask to go Dutch on a date.I guess if what OP is after is P only and he has no interest in a relationship or having a nice date and the pleasure of her company, but I just don’t get how someone who presumably asks a woman out on a date and doesn’t ask to go Dutch and willingly pays for the date has a covert contract expecting sex from a regular woman who is not a sex worker. I treat my friends to a meal fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:36 PM
–	What do you hope to gain from the red pill? These red pill men will be the old men who yell at kids to get off their lawn. They will literally rage at everyone and secretly feel desperate and alone and too stubborn to admit they did it to themselves. And they will never apologize because they were “Right”	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:29 PM
0	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex They don’t see women as human beings. Some men really should just go to a prostitute and have the transaction they want to have. It’s more honest that way. But no, they want to prey on regular women and expect a “transaction,” when the woman is wanting a real human relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:20 PM
3	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex Are you equating a material possession, such as money to buy a dinner, to a non material possession? And you are saying you feel the same level of used after you give the gift of a material possession versus the woman that is giving of herself, the only body she will “Own” for the rest of her life. Women put themselves at risk, arguably more risk when they choose to have sex with a man, personal safety, risk of pregnancy, etc. you’re literally risking only money and you can easily estimate what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:16 PM
5	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex Are you equating a material possession, such as money to buy a dinner, to a non material possession? And you are saying you feel the same level of used after you give the gift of a material possession versus the woman that is giving of herself, the only body she will “Own” for the rest of her life. Women put themselves at risk, arguably more risk when they choose to have sex with a man, personal safety, risk of pregnancy, etc. you’re literally risking only money and you can easily estimate what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:15 PM
18	The equivalent of a man being ghosted after paying for a fancy dinner and outing for a woman is a woman being ghosted after sex Yuck. Not equivalent at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 06:10 PM
2	Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men? I believe women's standards are not high enough. So many girlfriends and women I have known over the years have put up with so much nonsense off of boyfriends and husbands and excused away atrocious behavior only for him to do it again and again. Finally, a lot of them divorced or left him, but they should have cut him off the first time he lied, cheated, etc. I think women are much too forgiving and will literally turn themselves into complete doormats and not enforce their standards (if they h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 05:08 PM
1	You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change? Gender war nonsense…In a romantic heterosexual relationship…so many arguments picked for no reason. Debate with your male friends only. …ditto for women. Why does your romantic partner have to be accosted constantly. It gets old. If you really want to be a mens rights activist, take that sht outside. …march, protest, petition….but whining to your girlfriend (aka mommy), that “life isn’t fair”, “men have it worse”…..do something if it’s that important to you, but leave your romantic partner alone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 04:09 PM
–	[Q4F] What do you envision the average male PPD user to look like? Hey, I'm sure you can find women who like your man bun, look how popular Fabio is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:47 PM
–	[Q4F] What do you envision the average male PPD user to look like? I don't get where you obtained your perception on me. I have long hair to the middle of my back, zero tattoos, my ears are pierced only once. I am gen x, my ex husband preferred long hair. I had a bob once and he didn't like it. I didn't like it because it wouldn't all fit in a ponytail, so I grew it back out. You're entitled to your preference as to what you find attractive. ditto for me. I'm hetero and I find a man who doesn't look like a woman (to me) attractive. my ex husband looked like koj…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:43 PM
–	I don’t see the appeal of marriage Don’t get married, have a long term boyfriend gate lives separate. And when you cook or do something for him, it’s a treat. A gift, not your everyday job to wipe his bottom. I was married 20 years and my workload gots so much lighter the day he moved out. Women tend to do everything while the man does very little. Not worth it. Make him live separately and take you on dates, you cleaning his skid marks will kill your attraction to him	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 05:26 AM
1	Redpill and Relationship OCD Yep, I’m not dating because of this. I dated a red pill man and that turned me off of dating altogether	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/23 04:08 AM
5	Is being stoic in a modern relationship a good strategy? 100 percent. If it’s the IDGAF stoic red pill way, why would a woman be attracted to that?	/r/ExRedPill	28/07/23 01:50 AM
0	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" Moral of the story, if you’re an average man and you get with an average woman who is into you and consistently wants to have sex with you, maybe you should treat her like gold, because on the open market, welp OP said it. Guys, if you get a decent average woman that is hot for you, don’t be an A-hole and keep her, otherwise looks like it could be a dry spell out there in the open market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 11:21 PM
5	How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels? Like Steve Harvey says, if a man can’t pay for a plate of food, how is he going to support a family? Let that register young ladies, even if you work and make equal pay to what you’re husband makes, you will be off work unpaid for maternity leave, off work for kids sickness, if you run out of sick time at your company, it will be unpaid. What kind of father and husband is this guy going to be if he can’t (or won’t) buy you a plate of food. Even if you are the breadwinner and your husband doesn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 01:32 AM
3	the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in dating Perhaps I watch too much news, but I’ve never done online dating or been on a blind date. Not worth the risk IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 12:10 AM
1	Q4A What partner would you prefer to marry B, I could close my eyes or put a bag over his face	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 03:36 AM
6	What Jonah Hill did wrong yep, he met her and then he tried to change her.	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/23 07:32 PM
1	She used dread game against me well, you've been playing her and she played you back. no harm no foul. just ignore and move on, just realize you kinda deserved it. Of course she is into you and wanted to be exclusive and if you want the same, but came off aloof, then that's a hard to get game you played on her. And well, you started the game and she just finished it. Essentially, she called you out. she called your bluff.	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/23 04:44 PM
2	MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest. Sadly your comments history says otherwise, unless you recently mgtow.	/r/ExRedPill	09/07/23 01:51 AM
36	MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest. I think their could be a healthy version of mgtow that isn’t women bashing and women obsessed. Nothing wrong with taking time off from dating or permanently deciding to be single and celibate (catholic priests, nuns, monks, etc.). To each their own. But often mgtow is a bitter and full of rage existence. They don’t go quietly and practice stoicism or some other peaceful or productive endeavor. A lot of them make it known constantly that they hate women, so really they are toxic incel culture 2.0…	/r/ExRedPill	08/07/23 10:07 PM
0	Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it Most men I know would have zero respect for a woman that has sex with them too soon and doesn’t make them wait. I guess it has to do with where you live and you’re culture. But it’s a catch 22 for women and well I always tell women “you can’t regret the sex you don’t have.” And if you have sex too soon, men tend to think you do that with every guy you date. Women of course don’t do this unless they really are promiscuous which is a tiny percentage of women. But men admit to thinking this. It’s b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 08:11 PM
1	Women have an hard problem knowing what they should put effort into to be more attractive as a long term partner. She was wooing you	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 12:10 AM
3	Women have an hard problem knowing what they should put effort into to be more attractive as a long term partner. How do men want to be wooed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:27 PM
2	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". I agree. Men need to be more involved in their sons lives	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 02:21 PM
5	Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilege Number 4. Most women don’t orgasm from hookups. I’d rather fast and hold out for a nice restaurant than go through McDonald’s. Hookups are McDonalds	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 02:22 AM
2	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Where did you comment about taxes? I meant what you’re essentially saying is you hate women and the world would be better without us? Isn’t that what you’re saying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 01:59 AM
3	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". nada, you have video games (fake war) and porn (fake sex) and you if you have money, you can hire out anything a traditional woman might do for you. a maid once a week (140-200) bucks, eat out every meal, drop off your laundry to have it wash and fold, get a surrogate mom, etc. you have the money and means you dont need a woman. but women who make enough money at work can hire a handy-man too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 11:49 PM
5	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". well i'm not disputing the facts of what you said at all. I know history and I know what you mentioned is correct? But why can't we stop all the gender war nonsense. yes women enjoy a lot of comforts that men created, true. but the 3 top things that are trafficked are women (sexual slavery), guns, and drugs. you men put a value and a price on women. you're doing this to yourselves, some of you value the P way too much. that's on men, 100 percent. you put less value on it, trafficking of women st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 11:46 PM
2	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". yep, because if caregiving wasn't work, more men would do it as a profession as well. everyone knows caregiving and raising kids is stressful and hard work. they can't gaslight women into thinking it's easy. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 10:49 PM
5	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". well, I will admit, construction crews, cars, etc. so very true. Women stayed home for most of history and primarily raised children because no birth control so they really couldn't do much else because they were having tons of babies. of course, there are some exceptions to this rule like Marie Curie, etc. So you are right. But most women work a job now and then pay a plumber, electrician, etc. My husband of 20 years was only a computer guy, not handy at all. I have some basic carpentry and til…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 10:17 PM
3	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Yikes, where are you meeting these effing useless women, just curious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 10:04 PM
4	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Weird comment. I was talking about “work” in a relationship. OP stated that men “Work” for women and take on their responsibilities in a relationship. I wanted to point out relationships and families are work for both people, don’t you think? But women don’t say they “Babysit” their own kids, but some men have definitely been guilty of saying that. Well, babysitters usually get paid, so those men know childcare is work. Caregivers in general are hard workers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:18 PM
6	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Idk, I always earned more than my husband and outworked him in the home. But I was raised to not sit while others were working and make myself useful, some folks are just lazy, what can you do	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 08:06 AM
11	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Well I think a lot of couples do things for each other and ask each other for things, lean on each other. But if OP is in a one sided relationship, idk what to tell him, but choose better. But my husband was always laying on the couch while I did the bulk of everything. So I guess it goes both ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 07:52 AM
2	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" I’m not offended, just matching your energy. If you really wanted an education, you seek it out on your own instead of asking people to spoon feed you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 07:35 AM
3	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". What work are men doing for women other than changing a flat tire?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 07:02 AM
3	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". I haven’t seen it, but not saying it doesn’t exists. Typically the mom does the bulk of the child rearing, the cooking, cleaning, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 06:57 AM
8	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". I wonder if day care workers or school teachers would say it’s not really work	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 06:53 AM
5	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Do men spend an equal amount of time raising their own kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 06:51 AM
5	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". So women spend the most time raising who’s kids? Is raising kids a form of work? Hmmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 06:48 AM
16	Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity". Other than changing a flat tire, what other work do men do for their wife or girlfriend? What responsibilities do men take on for their wives/girlfriends? I was married for over 20 years, got a flat only once and I had a Toyota celica and changed it myself. Almost everyone I know has roadside assistance now. How hard is a flat to change? First how many flats are you getting, I’ve maybe had 2-3 in my life and I’m gen x. I don’t get it, what work does your woman have you do? And what should be her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 06:41 AM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Why do you think a white tank top on a man is called a wife beater? Just look at the news, Chad Doerman shot his wife through the hand and then killed their 3 boys before Father’s Day this year. One son ran away and he hunted him down and brought him back and killed him and laid him down next to the other 2. His dad said he snapped, but the evidence is showing he planned it. Google “family annihilators”. Steven crowder is on video verbally abusing his very pregnant wife, Steven crowder also admi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 06:31 AM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" And also you really have no idea who you are even talking to, but crime statistics alone address this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 04:47 AM
0	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" The law of the jungle applies. All women are prey and some men are predators. It’s better for women to be guarded for their own safety. I don’t get what is so hard to understand about this. Men are statistically more likely to be predators by far, more so than women. My family is cops, I know the system. Women, all women are prey. It’s not bigotry to just tell the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 04:45 AM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" I don’t follow, who is telling you that you “must” accept x, y, z? I’m lost. All I said is if women had poor encounters with some men, their guard might be up. I have no idea what you’re getting at but let me give you the law of the jungle because even though we are human, we are still animals. And you have to get right with the truth. All women are prey and some men are predators. Again all women are prey. All, period full stop. I’m sure the women Ted bundy killed thought he was a fine young ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 04:36 AM
1	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break True, there are still some gold diggers in the world or girls with daddy issues, etc. but a lot of old men aren’t hiding they are looking for very young women	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:13 PM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Hmm. A lot of the mass shooters are incels like Elliot rodgers. So I don’t follow your point	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:10 PM
2	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Hmmm. Sure their are toxic women too. No argument there and I think women should wait 3-6 months before having sex if they are looking for a relationship. But 2 wrongs don’t make it right. My original message was for both women and men to do better and not “use” each other. What you describe is a race to the bottom	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:07 PM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Huh? I’m confused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 06:35 PM
2	It’s obscene that in 2023 there’s still a pervasive stigma that people who are single king term must be lacking in social skills or something major Did you ever play truth or dare? I think their comments were like a dare….pushing you to keep talking to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:29 PM
2	It’s obscene that in 2023 there’s still a pervasive stigma that people who are single king term must be lacking in social skills or something major They probably don’t like seeing you alone, especially if you admitted you were looking for a mate. Now if they were being hateful and said very nasty things like you’re not relationship material, or you’ll always be along, or dude you should just give up. That’s different because they are submarining you. But a little friendly ribbing is encouragement. Friends give other friends shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:27 PM
6	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Nailed it, they would rather be a tater-Tot and belong to a cult and simp for other men who offer them nothing in return than to build a lasting lifelong relationship with a woman, a legacy, a family and grandchildren. They have drank the red pill koolaid	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:24 PM
2	It’s obscene that in 2023 there’s still a pervasive stigma that people who are single king term must be lacking in social skills or something major I think you’re reading too much into it, they were busting your b*lls a little bit for fun. Don’t take it seriously. They probably thought they were helping you to have the courage to ask women out. Friendly pressure because you made it known you were looking. Like I have a friend studying to take the cpa exam and sometimes I tell her, shouldn’t you be studying. Friendly banter but as her friend, I’m saying her goals are my goals and I want that for her. Offered to make her index cards and drill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:18 PM
4	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Yikes! What if it was your son? At least these men are saying the quiet part out loud and telling on themselves. I think you just proved the opposite of what OP was saying. You proved at least some men are “socially inept,” lack emotional intelligence, immature, childish, selfish, lacking in emotional intimacy skills. Proving the opposite of OPs argument. Truly horrible and uncaring thing to say. You know the young men that you don’t invest in in your community are the school shooters, the car j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 04:39 PM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Well, I do feel bad for the truly good men that are still out there, caring considerate respectful and hardworking. Unfortunately they didn’t get the shaft from women, albeit I know they feel that way and blame women. Really you need to blame other men who behaved so badly to the women you want to date. Hence, that’s why our guard is up with you, that’s why we are jaded, and irritated and short fused. In the same vein, women need to stop lowering their standards and accepting bad behavior and th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 04:14 PM
2	Do women confuse their socioeconomic status with their SMV? A real lady killer, I’m sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 11:44 AM
2	Do women confuse their socioeconomic status with their SMV? Triggered much? Lol. Who’s flexing their salary now? Lol. Flexing it because you know it has value. Look, men don’t want to pay for women and want 50/50 dates. Sir, what money is she paying her half of the dinner date with? Undermine women’s education and career, but they had to have those to get beyond a minimum wage job. Men are just straight up gaslighting women. Sure it doesn’t have to do with our “sexual” market value because men who are just looking for sex are not effing your degree. But …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 11:42 AM
5	I still feel traumatised by my redpill ex Same, my ex was brainwashed and the abuse escalated so rapidly I had to break up. Tons of red pill games	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/23 10:50 AM
1	Do women confuse their socioeconomic status with their SMV? Hmmm. Maybe. I don’t know. My biggest pet peeve with my husband of 20 years was he got extremely lazy. But I think women definitely have a wish list, that’s true	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 02:12 AM
0	Do women confuse their socioeconomic status with their SMV? I’d marry Sheldon. But I value intelligence in men because I’m not trying to get one over, coerce and control a dumb man. I need a smart one and if he’s smarter than me, someone I’ll admire. Men want us dumb. That’s why they downgrade education. So the next generation of women don’t go to school. Easier for men to control when she has no education and is trapped and dependent on the man	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 03:01 AM
8	Do women confuse their socioeconomic status with their SMV? Amen, we don’t want those men. Go find a woman that is broke and has a ged. Leave us educated women alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 02:59 AM
3	Do women confuse their socioeconomic status with their SMV? Well most men don’t want to provide for a woman and they want to do 50/50. So she needs to have an education and career to get money so you don’t have to provide for her because that’s the last thing you want to do, so men downgrade women’s education and career (their ability to make money) and say it has no value. But it comes across as gaslighting because the majority of men don’t want to pay for women and expect her to pay her own way. Sir, with what money is she paying her half of the dinner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 02:57 AM
0	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break Yep simple math. If there are 50 young ladies in their twenties and 50 young men and 30 older men dating 40-50 years in age dating 30 young girls, that leaves only 20 young girls for 50 young men to date. Hence, rise of incels	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 02:52 AM
-1	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break you would think so. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 07:20 PM
-6	Are women leeches? Welp, I think it’s probably good for you to stay alone. I agree, that you, especially, need to stay alone and leave all women alone. So we agree on that part	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/23 05:22 PM
19	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break I do feel bad for men when they are young because their dad is trying to date the same girls they are trying to date. But then these young men will grow up and do that to their sons. Old men continually trying to normalize dating girls half their age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:12 AM
–	Women's putting effort in getting relationships actually are hurting their natural chance I do agree with the resentment. I was married for 20 years and became increasingly resentful with the lack of effort from my husband while I did everything. I’ve only dated one man since my divorce and I had to break up with him at the 6 month mark because lack of effort on his part was making me resentful again and I didn’t want a replay of my 20 year marriage with mr weaponized incompetence. Of no, I’m not doing everything and the person does nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 06:22 PM
-6	Dealing with rejection or oneitis? Take a dose of the Red Pill again and recalibrate your mental point of origin. A red pill guy said that to me “she’s not yours it’s just your turn”. Man I told him “you have a punch able face. Did you just call me a prostitute? WTF?” Disgusting. Needless to say I don’t talk to him anymore. So friggin cringe. I honestly can’t believe what these red pill guys are comfortable saying to a woman’s face. He got out of pocket and my brother was across the room. I pointed at my brother who is quite large and fists like sledgehammers, I said do you want me to tell my brother what y…	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/23 04:47 AM
2	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? Huh? You want to justify dating barely legal females, doesn’t your argument really boil down to that? Seems like that is what you’re getting act. You can act all intellectual, but you want to date barely legal females. And I guess if they will date old men, the so be it. Not my daughters though	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 04:36 AM
1	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? Hmmm. I guess, I don’t know any girlfriends my age or younger that are this way. But I’d say the bulk of us have great fathers and well if we compare the men we are married to, none of them measure up to our dads. I’m in the Midwest though, so could be different elsewhere. My sister and I both married the only men we ever dated. My sister still doesn’t have her ears pierced and she’s 10 years older than me. Different strokes for different folks I guess. Honestly most of my girlfriends didn’t hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 04:29 AM
10	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? Also one thing about my dad was when he was done with his chores outside. He didn’t come in and sit. My mom was an ER nurse and she had a hard, physically demanding job. He’d help her in the kitchen and of course us kids had our chores. But he didn’t mind doing “womens work.” Because he always said he wasn’t going to sit while she was working. He’d help her finish up so they could sit together. And he taught us kids to “don’t just stand there, be of use”. We weren’t allowed to sit either while s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 04:50 PM
5	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? I guess this is possible, but I think it’s pretty rare nowadays. However, I always compare men to my father and how he treated my mom and well most men sadly don’t measure up. I however am Martha Stewart (grew up on a farm, next to Amish folk). I know how to do everything homemade and from scratch. Getting a man half the man my dad was would be impossible. They don’t make them like that anymore. I workout lift weights, weigh 135 pounds at 5’6”. Have 2 older brothers, so hunt and fish etc. plus c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 04:29 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? All women are prey and some men are predators. Women are hard wired to protect our daughters against predators	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 04:11 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? It’s their choice, it’s a free country. No amount of money is worth it though. Now if she genuinely falls in love with an older gentleman, then that’s different. The heart wants what the heart wants. But let’s be honest. Men are grooming and predators for going after women their daughters age and young women are seeing dollar signs (or being groomed). So it’s not love, and that’s just sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 03:13 PM
2	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? It’s the opposite of mercenary. A woman going with an older man because he has money is mercenary. A woman dating a guy her own age that offers no money is the opposite of mercenary. A mercenary is primarily concerned with making money at the expense of ethics. Dude is likely a person that complains about gold diggers, but is on here arguing he wants a young woman and the only reason she’ll want you is for financial security (I.e. a gold digger). Or you preyed upon her and groomed her and she’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 03:07 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? Oh course a consenting adult can do whatever she wants. An 18 year old is likely a senior in high school and still living at home with her parents. Wouldn’t you feel weird meeting her dad and her dad being close to your age? What do you think her dad and mom will think about you? Would you honestly want your daughter or sister dating a much older man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 03:01 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? I believe last I heard, women outlive men by 11 years. So take an age gap of 10 years, she’ll be here without him for 21 years after he is gone. Sounds lonely to me. Plus when she retires at 67, he’ll be 77 and if he’s in failing health, she’ll be a hospice care wife and will not be enjoying a romantic retirement taking cruises with her husband. Oh no, she’ll be taking care of him and changing his diapers. I say this because I’m from the Midwest and this is what I see all around me. Women not en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 02:57 PM
6	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? I think older women are just protective of their daughters and children in general and don’t want them groomed by older man. What kind of life is she going to have with a geriatric man that can’t even play catch with the kids and when she’s retirement age, he’ll be dead and she’ll be alone. Of course, we prefer to see our daughters build a family with someone their own age and would love if the elderly men didn’t pray upon them. They shouldn’t be changing their husbands diapers at the same time …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:26 AM
6	Relationships are based on might makes right. There is no real negotiating power between the sexes. Sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 11:36 PM
–	we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single moms And men will do anything to get out of wearing a condom, anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 09:32 PM
9	Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things. Chad Doerman shot his 3 sons, but oh men are not emotional. Get out of here with that nonsense. Good lord	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 04:17 PM
6	Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things. Well don’t a lot of men see women as p*ssy machines? I don’t get your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 04:15 PM
10	Married sex amounts to her laying there after asking for a massage. She also complains that she knows when I want sex because I initiate that way. How old is the baby? Is it a newborn? Dread game when she’s likely post partum depression and her hormones are out of wack. Dude this is the mother of your child, rethink your strategy. She’s liable to divorce you if you turn into an asshole right now. Her emotions and hormones are too high. So so many women I know divorced their husbands when they had a newborn. Whether it’s true or not, they felt he didn’t love and support them. Women’s bodies do change. If sex is painful for her, you need to …	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/06/23 07:03 AM
2	Is there any benefit to being a traditional woman? Nope. Look at Steve Crowders wife, how did being traditional work out for her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 04:38 AM
1	I’m a 21 yo modern (but semi-traditional) woman. AMA. Be careful. Maybe you have a good boyfriend. But so so many girls move in with their boyfriend and split all bills 50/50 and then you end up doing 100 percent of the chores and cooking and cleaning. Your time and effort is worth something. Be careful. Also, it ends up not being 50/50 when you end up buying all the groceries and spend extra money on gas to go get those groceries. I know it’s not all men, but don’t give him wife benefits if he’s not giving you husband benefits and also all this ex…	/r/AllPillDebate	18/06/23 03:17 AM
1	Women expect to be treated a certain way, men are expected to accept how they are treated. I can see you point, but I won’t be with a man that repeatedly tells me no on everything. However, it’s super hot a lot of the times when my man says no. Yum, foreplay. But I make more money than him and I can not only provide for myself, but I’m a weightlifter (135 pounds 5’6” power house) and into powerlifting and jujitsu. I don’t look to me man to do anything for me, provide or protect. I’m good with home projects and tools, and generally I’m just faster and can work circles around him. But s…	/r/AllPillDebate	18/06/23 03:00 AM
1	Men are showing emotional maturity and skill by leaving friendships with women after expressing unrequited sexual interest I read this thread and completely (initially) agreed with you. Except for the ghosting. Ghosting is never emotionally mature. Just be a man and state that unfortunately, I can not be your friend at all. It hurts to much, I have to cut all contact with you to limit the hurt feelings I’m experiencing. Ghosting isn’t socially acceptable and it’s not treating the other person’s feelings with respect. If you wouldn’t do it to a male friend, don’t do it to a woman you are romantically or sexually inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 12:55 AM
1	I can’t help but envy how easy women have it in the dating scene. Um, true if women were looking for D, they can get D all day long. But women are looking for long term relationships and well a lot of there matches are F boys, married men lying about being single etc. or men saying they are looking for a serious long term relationship and they just want a hook up. Sure from your perspective, women have it easy, they have plenty of fish…um, women view it as going through a 100 rotten fish, men with anger issues, criminal records, etc to find a fish that is edib…	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/23 06:38 PM
1	Things I learned from a year with a “red pilled dude” Exactly	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/23 03:31 PM
1	Things I learned from a year with a “red pilled dude” Damn, did you nail the red pill guy I know to a T. These men are not even aware that they joined a cult and have “group think”. They cannot even form their own separate opinion based on their moms, sisters, cousins. They are totally brainwashed like Scientology and regularly say on repeat, AWALT…all women are like that. If you come across a red pill guy, no matter how cute and initially charming. Do not kid yourself, this is a trained abuser. The abuse will get worse and worse, run ladies run	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/23 03:29 PM
1	Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked Me Clearly alpha men, not	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/23 05:51 AM