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The OP is 19, not you. No I'm just sick of people saying as I am a man I have it easier and crap like this post. Honestly, I don't know why this one has actually rattled me so much. I can normally browse PPD and not get this pissed off with the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:51 AM
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I'm normally fine with it tbh. I get it, it's the card I was dealt. For whatever reason I'm always the one looked to for things and I have had it all my life. As when I was in a nightclub and some guy pulled a knife, if people run to me instead of running to security, it's just something I have to deal with. In honest answer to your question on why do I not magically change my whole personality. I know I can take care of myself. I've had my fair share of beatings, I know I'm not going to break l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:42 AM
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I am not a feminine mam. Never have been. I have no reason to alter my whole life and personality for no real reason. But you know something. I do wish people would stop looking at me for direction and expecting me to be able to take charge You know, I do wish in certain events that have happened, I wasn't the one girls and women ran to and expected me to protect them. This wasn't even when I worked in nightclubs,I was just a punter. I do wish when things go south, I didn't have to keep my calm …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:57 AM
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OK then we can fight and beat the crap our of each other all the time due to lots of testisterone and clashing all the time. That sounds so much better. Then when you cry about it I can shout "Shut the fuck up and woman up". Is this the masculine testosterone fuelled experience you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:33 AM
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Yes you should be more masculine. You should get on the hormones and grow chest and facial hair. Then you can bang your fists on your chest and shout out how masculine you are. <image> Also remember, part of masculinity is shutting the fuck up and suppressing your emotions. So PLEASE do that as well. For some peace and fucking quiet. I wish women were more masculine in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:22 AM
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Good to hear. Glad he is OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:38 AM
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The real question is, would anyone care if you did that. Why do you care what some unhinged guy on the internet says so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:33 AM
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"The Ideal Lover" archetype was described as below: Charismatic: The Ideal Lover exudes charm and charisma, and is able to captivate others with their presence. Sensual: They are in tune with their senses and attuned to the pleasures of the world, and are able to create a sensuous and pleasurable experience for themselves and others. Attentive: The Ideal Lover is attentive to the needs and desires of others, and is able to create a sense of intimacy and connection through their attentiveness. Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:17 AM
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This is a why I don't do dating apps thing. I know, that if I meet someone online, no, let me rephrase that, if I speak to someone online before actually meeting them, I build a fantasy image in my head. The reality of the person never meets that fantasy. Now, the only 2 times this did not happen with dating apps, was when I did not give a fuck and only met them as I was bored. As I had no real image in my head and no attachment to outcome, I had no predetermined views, so I just saw them as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:10 AM
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I don't know "why should they". That is a good question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:00 AM
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Well the planet has been around 5.543 Billion years (plus minus 50 million years). So as far as natural selection, evolution and survival of the fittest goes. Yes, the Medieval times were quite recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:58 AM
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Do you really want to bring the Bible into this? OK lets go down that rabbit hole 1 Timothy 2:11-15 Look it up But then again, we also have 1 Peter 3:7: Theres more to it than just quoting one verse to be fair. There is a lot of context that needs the whole damn thing reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:56 AM
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If that is an issue and you have gotten all the way to marriage, I would use that energy for something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:44 AM
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I mean the movements. PUA --> REDPILL --> BLACKPILL --> Whats next?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:36 AM
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RemindMe! seven years "What followed the Blackpill"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:21 AM
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The question is what follows the blackpill. Nothing stays static, everything evolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:18 AM
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We cook our faggots as well as smoking fags. <image> Sorry, I'm British, those words are fine over here (depending on context).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:06 AM
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Thats why guys like to "Pimp their Game" Guys used to pay money to learn to be a "Pimp" as you put it. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:03 AM
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Why the fire, why not just fall out. I would rather fall without being on fire if I was going to endex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:21 PM
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Well if someone didn't value that, would it still be a benefit, Yes stupid question I know ( I am sure there is a blackpilled guy on here who will say there is no value to that though in their life due to their height or something) but if someone did not value that, would it still be a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:19 PM
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Well yes, I guess it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:55 PM
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OK, well I am all out of pop tarts. Give this woman a penis bone necklace: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:49 PM
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At the end of last year, I totally burned my standing in social group to the ground due to this. But luckily life goes on and the show ain't over till the fat lady sings. (No offence if you are a fat lady that sings)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:47 PM
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What do you define as "a relationship"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:40 PM
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Regardless, you kind of got my point, but have failed to explain how something they do not value is a benefit for them. Still, someone reward this woman with a condom. (Is there a particular flavour you prefer, think about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:25 PM
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I did not misinterpret anything. If I am talking to a woman, like I would, any woman, And I get accused of leading them on, because "I was the one flirting". How am I misinterpreting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:18 PM
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"I don't need the house to be that clean, tidy and presentable" is a classic example. This man gets it, someone give him a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:16 PM
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Tell me something you value about yourself, other than your looks or something sexual which you believe is why you would make a great partner. If you don't want to be honest, make something up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:12 PM
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Q4A: If you get a benefit from a relationship but see no value in it, thus do not value said thing. Is it still a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:07 PM
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But do they value them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:06 PM
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Yes and I am sure his status as an actor had nothing to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:41 PM
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In 1910, less than 2% of the USA had electricity. Whats next, the human species did not exist till then? I recently spent a week living in the woods. With no electricity. Yet here I am. The world did not end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:37 PM
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If I don’t have indoor AC I will roast in hell. Willing to bet you are not an Australian. Yes, because before AC was invented, there were no Australians in Australia. It all makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:36 PM
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So why does he owe it to you, to not make you uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:32 PM
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I think the ironic thing about this is that men who ask this are blue pilled. Nah there are guys who believe they can negotiate attraction. No wait thats a RP thing. Maybe these dudes are just "Being themselves", apparently it garuntees dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:31 PM
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So when you reject a man, it isn't because in your mind something is wrong with him. You view him as perfect and thats why you reject him Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:29 PM
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Ask them what size they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:26 PM
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also it's been a while since i watched presidential debates. is it normal for the person to ask a question and the debater to just go off on their own tangent and ignore the question completely? The question is why do you not understand frame control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:17 PM
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That debate is a good lesson in Frame Control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:15 PM
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Why is he not working?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:14 PM
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I asked women what they would do if they found out their husband was on Married Red Pill, not one said they would recognize the behaviour. Its as though they would only know a Red Pilled husband if they found evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:14 PM
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Whatever a person believes, reality tends to wrap around that belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:12 PM
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Nah nature always finds a way. Even if humans are wiped out, nature will carry on. It will probably thrive tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:11 PM
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Yes, totally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:10 PM
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In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn't fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it. This isn't because the universe is cruel. It's because the universe is smart. It has its own cat-string theory and knows we don't appreciate things that fall into our laps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:09 PM
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Green Tea time - habit I have maintained on and off since my Kickboxing days. I got dragged aside and told I was too in my head. So I was given my first ever meditation class and told to drink green tea. Calming helps the clear the mind. Then off to bed to read the next chapter of Psycho-Cybernetics before hitting the land of nod.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:06 PM
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Be the skittles man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:56 PM
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I would say the closest is going to the gym and earning your right to be treated as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:55 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:44 PM
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Thank you. Much appreciate the compliment, xxx
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:42 PM
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Exactly just as I thought. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:38 PM
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Your defo on the correct sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:18 PM
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You don't sound very adventurous, he you ever done anything exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:15 PM
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He was a dealer not a punter. I'm not talking about going full on Heisenberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:33 PM
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Do you hink Hugh Heffner (bless his soul) cared about his age when he partied. Just get some blue pills,then the people who are past it have no need to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:32 PM
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And don't forget a guest list. Don't want the hired muscle denying entry to invited guests. Also, a dealer on speed dial, in case someone wants a different chemically induced high. Then probably some sort of madame that is connected, in case someone has unique tastes. Personally, I think it would be an unforgettable part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:38 PM
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Hookers, Escorts, Coke, Cigars, Some hired muscle in case things get out of hand. If you want status, behave like you already have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:32 PM
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But expecting a woman to jump that wouldn't "Be Nice" now would it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:30 PM
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Were you on here when the_marble_slab was, I think that was her username.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:27 PM
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<image> Now thats what I call Simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:26 PM
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QFM: If you are dating someone, and you find out they are using FDS, what do you do? Also, is "the marble slab" or whatever she is called still on here, her posts used to make me chuckle for all the wrong reasons. I'm sure she became a moderator on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:22 PM
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Either cut him off. Or forgive yourself for feeling that way about him (yes this sounds backwards, but its something a meditation teacher taught me for dealing with negitive thoughts about people). Then set a clear boundry (I don't mean voice it, just something you promise yourself you will not let him cross), if he crosses it, be assertive and discuss it with him "You doing _______, makes me feel ________" If he crosses it again, cut him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:19 PM
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Either cut him off. Or forgive yourself for feeling that way about him (yes this sounds backwards, but its something a meditation teacher taught me for dealing with negitive thoughts about people). Then set a clear boundry (I don't mean voice it, just something you promise yourself you will not let him cross), if he crosses it, be assertive and discuss it with him "You doing _______, makes me feel ________" If he crosses it again, cut him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:19 PM
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How dare men talk and laugh. They should know their place in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:34 PM
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Q4W: If you are married and find out your husband has been posting updates on MarriedRedPills "Own your shit weekly", do you read it out of morbid curiosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:24 PM
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Whats wrong with living the life the Bloops promote. Lets look at what RP suggests: Lift weights Gain confidence Don't be a doormat Have a backbone Don't take shit from a woman Do none of those things and just "Be Yourself", well what the hell do you think will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:12 PM
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Just hope its not some guy playing a trick on a mate. Guy thinks his mate will get an angry woman on the phone and be clueless as to whats happening. Instead SWAT team break down his mates door and give him some extra breathing holes for writing a note and leaving it on a car. Tbf, some women once left a note on my car about something. Maybe I should of called the police. Point noted. This note leaving behaviour is a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:02 PM
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Frame Control lessons 101
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:56 PM
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How does that put women on a pedestal. Like even for PPD, that is the most backwards logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:28 PM
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Tell him welcome to the world of being a man and that rejection is part of the game. Then take him somewhere to celebrate him taking action and actually asking someone out. Rejected or not. He took action, why focus on the bad, when you can focus on the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:27 PM
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Another "Happily" married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:23 PM
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Mate, if you have something actually wrong with you, and it could be overtraining, you are only going to make yourself worst. Seriously, have a break,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:17 PM
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What if I told you insane was working 50 hours a week in some office for 50 years at the end of which they tell you to piss off, ending up in some retirement village hoping to die before suffering the indignity of trying to make it to the toilet on time? Wouldn’t you consider that to be insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:13 PM
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Thats the thing, I am not saying everyone who goes to the Manosphere can achieve that lifestyle. But what exactly are the Bloopers even peddling. Like I am open to suggestions, sell it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:49 PM
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I was dating someone who got jelous of one of my co-workers. It got annoying, it was one of the key things that led to me ending the relationship. Theres just no need for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:40 PM
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Same here. But thats there choice. I leave em to it. Their body, their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:37 PM
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Dunno, even when I worked 12 hour shifts with an hours travel each side, I still found time for the gym. If you care about yourself, you will find a way, otherwise its just an excuse. Not sure about American food culture. I am in the UK, but I mostly eat clean and make great use of a slowcooker. Cannot comment on the USA as have heard varying things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:33 PM
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Take some rest days bro, drink some Lucazade and get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:29 PM
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Is he OK, no infections from it or anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:28 PM
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Its not worth losing sleep over, just goto the gym, and let everyone else slowly kill themselves off. Yeah its not nice, but sometimes even if you drag the horse to water, it will still choose to drink toxic infected sludge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:27 PM
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What like the wide acceptance of a movement started by a person with a feeder fetish? And a socity that constantly tells everyone they are fine the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:25 PM
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Ahhh, you going out on the pull? Good luck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:21 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/h3h25426yb9d1.png?width=506&format=png&auto=webp&s=a0b48245c11a1ad8f76fc9bf11d4d9b822a4b5e0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:21 PM
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Why do you want to talk about the lunatic fringe Followed by What does it have to do with this sub? This sub is the lunatic fringe. Sorry, i just found that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:54 PM
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Document everything, including the police fobbing you off. Also, CCTV security systems are cheap these days and small, if he is prowling around and stalking your house or your GF's, you will have video evidence. Again, if the police fob you off, document that as well. Finally, on a less orthodox note, do you have any friends who will be willing to have a "chat" with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:46 PM
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Do you have life insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:44 PM
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FIrstly you are no longer looking for someone, so you are less desperare, I think this is what bloops mean when they say "Thou should be thyself" as you are actually being yourself not some guy on a desperate hunt. Secondly pre-selection (hardly a new concept, in pill spaces)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:42 PM
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Get your face tattoed as well bro. It will show you are confident in yourself. Cute Chubby girls will dig it (note: If you actually follow this advice and it dosn't work well "I was only joking bro")
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:39 PM
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I am not one of the men saying that, why would I care what some random man on the internet says. I say this to everyone, man or woman "If you cannot attract a partner, its a you issue not a them issue" I will happily say it to guys as well. "Attraction isn't an option. Being attractive is a choice" - David De Angelo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:28 PM
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OK, well who cares what some random man says and does online. Whats next, you will be telling me I should care what feminists online say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:26 PM
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Saying "I sometimes get ghosted" or "sometimes have a bad date" is different to "All women are evil, we should have a socialised sex welfare system RANT RANT RANT".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:20 PM
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Don't forget the average man is overweight, gets the same boring haircut every month, goes out to drink with his friends every weekend but stands in the corner wishing he was confident enough to approach any of the club thotties shaking ass on the dancefloor. This, the average guy does not take action. Just wear decent clothes that fit and colour match properly and you are probably better than the average guy, that does not wear clothes that fit him. Once I looked into how to dress properly, I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:18 PM
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For me it’s the textbook definition: Flirting often involves more personalized attention, subtle physical gestures, and a tone of conversation that goes beyond casual. If their behavior is consistent with everyone, it's more likely to be friendliness. I think the main thing is if its unintentional flirting or intentional flirting. I have been accused of leading women on by flirting with them, when I was talking to them like I would any other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:52 PM
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I know its not. Like I say, its an emotional thing, not a logical one. If I date someone and enjoy though. I don't feel like I have "wasted my time", I enjoyed it so, how is it a waste of my time? That said, although I am not totally against marriage, it is not a specific goal for me. So I guess I have a totally different concept of dating. Yeah if someone is super special, thats one thing. But they need to make me feel they are super special whilst dating. Like I need to feel like I would actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:43 PM
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I remember some post (not on here) some feminist guy ranting about how he is concerned that there are still guys with Testosterone in their bodies who are not actively trying to diminish it. Yes it got turned into a laughing stock. However, firstly, I am not saying this is a mainstream goal of feminism, I honestly do not know. But its shit like this, that is giving feminism a bad name, if it is not one of their goals. But if it came to offending people or fucking my body hormones up, I will happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:34 PM
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At least she has more than one life.... female privalage. When a man dies, its game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:20 PM
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I've had that in bars/clubs, when I shaved my head, at least women asked my permission to lick it (obviously its rude to say no). I've had women walk up, bend over and start grinding their ass against me. However, 2 points: a) To me, its a bar/club, it happens, I actually have no complaints. IF this were a thing when say I was walking down the street, yeah I may start to get a bit annoyed. Although there was some random girl who wanted to take photos of her friend making out with me, when day wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:06 PM
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Until I felt like (not saying I actually did, but it felt like it), I just saw no reason to change. We aren't as fixed as the doom loop would have blackpilled folks believe. That actually was the other part for me, I had to have a reason to believe I could change. I'm glad you found some change. And I hope you keep changing. Honestly I think the most helpful thing we can do sometimes is be an example to others. Thanks, I take a slightly different approach these days. I used to view it as, I am b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:39 AM
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I'm the same, this just seems a more interesting thread than some of the crazy stuff that gets posted on here. And its more interesting than the normal "woe is me" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:36 AM
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I used to think a person would change if they hit rock bottom. I think people are more open to change if they hit rock bottom. Hitting rock bottom you normally realise you need to change. But I am no longer sure if that is the case, or if guys have not yet hit rock bottom. Silly as it sounds, constant rejection was enough for me to feel like I had hit rock bottom and realise I needed to change. But it is what it is. Like you say "We can't make people change if they don't want to" and I totally a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:26 AM
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Nah I am not offended. I am just too used to PPD shitflinging, You seem sincere in what you say, it makes a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:19 AM
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But they go out and DO THAT. not just sit on a computer complaining about women. I am in total agreement, but part of me does want the guys who do what you mentioned to actually better their lives. I know I can be just as harsh towards some of the guys on here as anyone else, but deep down, I want my fellow men to do better for themselves. They owe it to themselves to be better (IMO). The guys that are already bonding and doing stuff... great. They don't need help or support. As for the guys tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:18 AM
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No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:12 AM
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I'm actually in agreement with you. But for culture and society to change, we need to take baby steps. Please bear in mind, this is all my personal views only. Firstly we need to encourage and ALLOW male spaces, so men can learn to like just socialise with men again. However, this needs to not be "whine fests". Yes these groups do exist, but at the minute due to phenonema like inkwells and blackpill, even redpill to an extent, they are not exactly public facing or mainstream. And things like pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:07 AM
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Mate, if you want to cuddle other men and hold their hands. Nothing is stopping you but yourself, just get consent first OK. Like even if you wanna go round to your mates house and spend the day cuddling, why not? Are people watching and commenting? Nothing is actually stopping you but yourself. But, make sure the other guy wants to be cuddled first. As for peoples views on it, why does it matter. The only reason, people will comment is if you make a big deal out of this. Are you doing it for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:53 AM
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The post workout endorphins pumping through your body is great. Also liking what you see in the mirror great. I do agree with the person you quoted that other things are good. I hit the weights, but I also do meditation and other things. I don't see why it has to be either/or like they imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:49 AM
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Because apparently bodybuilding is fashionable, but not actually investing in the body - that's for women, and unfortunately the world is still too misogynistic to accept anything else. I'm in agreement, with the first part. Even Dr Robert Glover first wrote No More Mr Nice Guy, the publishers first denied it because "Men don't do self help". Like I used to be stupid enough, to think that lack of male self help books was a feminist conspiracy, where as the truth is, there just isn't a market for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:41 AM
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First of all, why don't men just get in touch with their own bodies more? Meditation, body-scan, yoga. Also working out and calisthenics can be good. I actually have "The Science Of Enlightenment" by Shinzen Young arriving today. Its too easy to dwell on mistakes and bad shit then continualy repeat them as that is how you train your subconcious. This is also following advice from a men only group. So why you think Men don't do this, is beyond me. Maybe stop viewing men as a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:29 AM
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They want excuses not solutions. Its easier to point the finger and blame everyone else than to take action and responsibility for your own life. Its what the mediocre person does, make everything someone elses fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:21 AM
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I think its this place. I'm automatically on guard, last time I was on here, post anything, and the response was always "But Chad dosn't have to do that". That seems to have stopped now at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:06 AM
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I've done speed dating before. Would do it again. If I have an evening where I have no plans, would attends just for something to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:03 AM
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The real question is why wouldn't a guy follow social trends in this day and age? Not a fan of Tate, but he is good at marketting from what I can tell, so why is it surprising good marketting = a lot of followers. Also, this is the problem with stereotyping Andrew Tate fans. You meet one that dosn't match your stereotype and you seem clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:01 AM
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I know its not the intent of what your saying, but women who always say that stuff to me, I just interpret as "I want to marry you, I am not interested in you, hell I don't even know you already, all that matters is getting married". I know dating with intent, isn't that, at least on a logical level. But on an emotional level it gives me the icks. I want to get to know someone, before I even think of making it exclusive, never mind proposing, never mind even marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:51 AM
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Its a thread. I advise taking acid before reading it, may as well make it even more trippy than it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:45 AM
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Its true. I was at a bar one night with the Managing Director and some other management from a firm I worked for, I am not even sure why I was there. When they saw me talking to someone who was hot, I was suddenly part of the click and invited to functions that as someone making my way into the industry and at the time being on lowest rung of the ladder in the company, had no business being invited to or whatever. Then due to this, my overall status improved within the company and the way people…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:41 AM
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For the record, you put "His point is that when a dude is hot, he just has to have a modicum of personal appeal to make it happen. Get it?" I am in agreement I am just shit at carrying on conversations in Reddit, this is not RL. No offence was meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:30 AM
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Really when someone is super attractive, he easily attracts women,. Well who wudda guessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:20 AM
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Why are you basing yourself worth off what random people on the internet think of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:16 AM
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The real question is, what exactly is a "Good Man"? And why is he entitled to women? Like even as a guy, I don't believe I am just entitled to women on base of "being good", "being nice", or whatever. There are certain things women respond to and certain things they don't. That is all. Yes cocky arrogant twats will get more attention, but that is normally because they are willing to put themselves out there, live in their own reality and unapologetically go for what they want in life. If you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:16 AM
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If you can't make a man feel like he wants a relationship with you, thats a you issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:07 AM
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They don't "approach" but they sure as hell make themselves known and get noticed. I think this thread is on about Direct Approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:05 AM
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Have you thought of not basing your self worth on what the men of 4chan say. Like its your life at end of day I guess, if thats what you want to do, then all the more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:03 AM
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If we were still cavemen and being clubbed to death was part of daily life for men. How would being a "good man" help you survive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:44 AM
1

Thanks, much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:42 AM
1

Time to get the slow cooker going. "Testosterone Stew" on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:09 AM
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The military guy. Maybe its because I am ex military myself but squaddie banter and humour is always noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:55 AM
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Yes you are not grateful for what you have. Lack of gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:01 PM
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OK, you are obsessed with lipstick. Anyway. WTF, this is too much PPD for one male to handle. The lunatics have taken over the asylum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:00 PM
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When we were cavemen, there was not medicine or taxpayer funded welfare. So if a woman got pregnant, assuming she survived child birth, she would need a man to provide resources for her. Now lets say that man had low social standing, what would that mean? Well it would mean that another tribal member may just club him to death. Or maybe he wouldn't be in good standing with the tribal leader and would get exiled from the tribe. So the woman and her child would be doomed. Maybe she would be spared…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:26 PM
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I'm nominating Lift_and_lurk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:50 PM
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Even before going on a date, yeah calm the hell down. Focus on your breathing for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:19 PM
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Also, the other old paradox. Dudes going "I don't it, now I'm in a relationship loads of women give me attention". Like no shit bro, your not "On the prowl" anymore, your just having fun, So there is no creepy vibes being given off. Like desperation is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:06 PM
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Surrender and acceptance. Live in the moment bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:52 PM
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I tried Speed Dating once, now that was savage. Yeah, 2 guys (who I knew) basically got every woman ticking off that it was them, they wanted to meet. Ironically, and I know you are going to cringe, these were 2 of Mysteries students. But that said, afterwards, when the event was done, everyone just chilled together and got to know one another and the results didn't even matter. Hell I had some guy trying to recruit me to work for his firm due to my industry experience. But it all comes back, to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:51 PM
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Yeah but it wasn't as bad as guys here are making out. I remember some cutie in a bar, tagging along with me and a mate, because "Her Tinder date was late and we seemed safe". Maybe I looked like a bear, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:41 PM
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Look mate, I generally respect your comments. But 10 years ago it was 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:17 PM
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Men as a collective absolutely do not have high standards. I mean that could not possibly have anything to do with why women have so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:09 PM
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I had some homeless dude try and attack me, well I am not sure what he was doing, he was chasing me and trying to grab me. Imagine if I hadn't learnt to defend myself, imagine if I didn't have confidence, imagine if I had been told I was a victim. I could be dead, have a gaping butt hole or who knows what. Luckily I was bought up to look after myself and not expect others to sort my shit out for me, so those consequences are coulds not reality. And yeah boxing is good. I generally just do the gy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:41 PM
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When I did get a serious beating, I had a work colleague talk his mate who ran a Mui Thai gym, into giving me free 1 on 1 lessons as well as free general classes for a while. But as we know "MeN dOnT sUpPoRt EaCh OtHeR" Like literally being beaten and dragged around is potentially something that will happen. What matters is after being beaten and dragged around, can you get back on your two feet and keep going. That is what defines character.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:32 PM
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I am in the UK, I have met a few. Its rare though. Yes I had one date where a woman started asking how much I earned and what my promotion prospects were and what pay rise would I get. However, that is a one off and not the norm. Yes these types exist, but its normally obvious and they are easy enough to avoid. Reading this sub, it seems like every woman in the entirety of the USA is like this. Except.... I have worked with Americans and have quite a few on my FB who I stay in touch with, when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:26 PM
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Projectile vomit I'm guessing. Spend a day eating peanuts and drinking vodka. The trajectory can be quite impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:56 PM
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The question is why do you care. If you are unapologetically persuing your purpose in life, unless your purpose is catalogue what women discuss amongst themselves, like who gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:08 PM
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Can't say. I know I have mainly dated is** or es** mostly, but thats as far as it goes. Typing others is something I cannot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:03 PM
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Needing woman's approval on masculinity, sounds very unmasculine. Unapologetically being yourself and perusing your purpose in life without needing woman's validation or approval, on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:52 PM
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Thats a cool story bro. When is the movie released?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:47 PM
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Oh well that makes driving your wife and kids off a cliff perfectly OK then dosn't it. Are you actually supporting attempted murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:45 PM
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Then why are autistic men in here blaming women, Chad, feminism, etc. Instead of just going "I'm autistic" and getting on with life. If these people accepted that autism was there issue, would this sub exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:39 PM
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What happened to dating success revolving totally around your wrist size. Are wristcels a thing of the past now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:25 PM
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Fair. Like don't get me wrong. I put zero effort in on apps. I take a quick selfie, thats it. If I even bother to fill in the profile is another matter. If I can even be bothered to actually go on the app is yet another matter. If I had to rely on them and there was no alternative, yeah I would probably get professional photographs and start taking photo's more when I am out and about in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:16 PM
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I do fine in RL. but crap on OLD. Granted, I put no effort into apps. But I always have RL available, so it dosn'f really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:11 PM
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If the concept of societal messaging on dating and the reality of it being different I have nothing else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:39 PM
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wastemenstime is real. Why are you not moving on. If she wanted to meet you, she would of hinted at it herself. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:25 PM
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And this ladies and gentleman is a prime example of a covert contract. The speciman clearly has a covert contract "If I signal that I am married, a man will not hit on me" This contract exists in their head alone. No one else is aware of it. So when this contract that no-one else agreed to is not fulfilled, it gets fustrating. The easy solution is to be assertive or to communicate clearly. But a "nice person" will not do that. And before someone says "But guys do this all the time", yes they do,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:18 PM
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OK well if doing something that dosn't work is as far as you will go, then good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:12 PM
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Yeah because women never cheat do they? so ever. Some guys will push, due to this fact. And yes if the ring and husband don't send a clear enough signal, then yes "Fuck off" is a pretty good next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:10 PM
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This is where the conversation gets interesting. We have a couple of things 1) Guys concerned about what random peeps on an anonynous forum think about them. 2) Shit guys say to women 3) Shit guys confess to mates, especially when drunk "If no-one ever knew would it really be cheating" 4) Guys who say they would cheat, if they didn't have so much to lose. Now, there is no way to run a survey on this or get the actual truth. So its best to watch what guys do, not listen to what they say. Seeing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:01 PM
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Ahh I get you, I thought you were against the word "orbiter" yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:55 AM
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Tell them to fuck off? just be direct instead of "giving signals"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:50 AM
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Yes we should sweep actually orbitters and simps under the rug, just to make women happy, we cann pretend they don't exist instead of calling loser behaviour out for what it is, as all that matters is womans feelings. Then guys will keep doing this behaviour and wonder why there covert contracts are not fulfilled. Have you ever wondered why TRP exists in the first place. Because of society pushing shit like what your suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:48 AM
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Why does it make a woman look bad. If the guy is orbiting because he has a covert contract, it's him that's the simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:33 AM
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We have a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:36 AM
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I remember my Grandad telling me to walk with my head high and if you get a beating, you take it like a man. Living in fear is not mainstream advice for men. I am not saying that "taking a beating like a man" is good advice in and of itself, but its better to have that mindset, than to choose to live in fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:46 AM
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Yeah she fobbed him off. Like why do I need to interfere. Homesless woman able to fob off pathetic loser dude = needing man to do what? Yes if he had become forceful or violent, someone would of stepped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:41 AM
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You summarised things. I'm in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:52 AM
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Sure, when a woman stands out, the game ends. But if no woman stands out.... well what, just settle to someone for the sake of it? I think sooner or later a woman always stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:23 AM
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I expect a hell lot more from anyone I am involved with. If anything they get less slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:04 AM
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I've seen someone begging a homeless woman for sex before and offering more and more money. She actually stood firm, but the guy looked more and more pathetic. It took simping to a whole new level. I wish I could unsee that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:02 AM
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Look at one of the comments implying that because we have a magical penis, we can just walk into the old mans clubs and just stroll into the freemasons, no problem. Just whip it out lads, thats all you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:00 AM
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No. Many women believe men have it easier in life when it comes to careers for example because it’s easier for them to network as most networking happens at bars, golf courses and within male friend groups like the good old boys club in the police department and political spears as well as in the freemasons; all of which is really difficult for women to break into if they ever do. What and you believe the average guy can break into these really easily just because he has a magical penis. Like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:58 AM
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We could create a pig woman, an actual freak of nature. No wait.. thats been done. And I am quite disgusted at how low some men will sink. "Any hole is a goal" was never meant to be more than banter, it was not meant to be taken literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:53 AM
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I'm a guy. I don't wear my heart on my sleeve. Its not an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:47 AM
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The real question is, why do you not accept this person for who they are. Why are you trying to make them act and be someone they are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:41 AM
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Have you read the responses You’re not showing enough affection = I don't feel [insert state here] She wants to get reassurance that your intentions = I do not feel reassured it means tell me how much you love me = I do not feel oved Its not about the guy being vulnerable at all, its abou the woman not being led into the emotion she desires. The guy does not need to open up, he just needs to invoke that state in her. OK, this is treading into PUA terrirtory, I will shut up now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:38 AM
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Sure dude. As we all know, short Indian dudes are just massive pussy slayers surrounded by lingerie models at all times. That’s what bluepillers are saying all the time Just apply your Bluepill advice, "Just be yourself bro" then you can focus on your "inner beauty", Like show us how this stuff gets you women, like who knows you can convert a few of us, with your superior Blue Pilled Game. No bluepiller is saying that dating is fair, or that what’s inside is the only thing that counts. We’re not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:30 AM
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Well you tried to start the convo with this thread. I ain't no marketting mastermind, but I generally find bad news gets the most attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:26 AM
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Well what is there to debate and shitfling with progress? What is this place, PurplePillCelebration?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:18 AM
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She is not feeling "a connection". It is totally about her feelings and nothing to do with you. Well except you are not leading her into the emotional state she wants. Men have to lead all the time. So just talk about her, how she is feeling, get her to open up, then she will feel "connected".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:17 AM
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So thats a no then, your not up for the challenge. A simple yes or no would have done. The real question is why did you try to reframe the question and not just give a simple yes or no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:15 AM
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Reread what they said, ‘fulfilling and pleasurable Do you think every ONS or hookup is with a guy that wants to please the other person or do they just want to shoot their load? Yes, women can get sex more easily. For women its a choice, for men its a chore. But as far as ‘fulfilling and pleasurable A guy is gonna shoot his load regardless. I am only giving them this one as they clearly stated ‘fulfilling and pleasurable".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:11 AM
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We had an experiment on here the other week, regarding dating apps. Do you want that experiment repeating, to see how many hookups can be arranged in a 7 day period? Then you can happily make your own profile using a pic of a short Indian dude and prove to us that men have it just as easy? You up for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:06 AM
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As a guy, yeah that is true. I can bust a nut whenever I want really. The focus has to be on the other person, I'm going to enjoy it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:03 AM
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I can only give anecdotal evidence But I can also give similar anecdotal evidence with genders flipped. I just find it odd in some cases, that debt seems to be overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:01 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:59 AM
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I'm more interested in their debt levels tbh. Yeah I am in UK so we don't have the American Student Loan system, but some people still live way above their means on debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:53 AM
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Got to give the guy some credit, there is a bit of self awareness going on. But yeah, Also I have a strong feeling that women's libidos get higher when they get cheated on (attraction towards the cheater increases). Unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:50 AM
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What drink did you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:49 AM
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Same with Eliza Dushku. Hot in her prime, now just meh. Theres hotter out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:40 AM
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She is a celebrity, she is sensationalised. There is propaganda at work to make you feel this way. Directors and make up artists are pretty good at their jobs. So are fashion consultants, etc. She probably has all these at her disposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:37 AM
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I was wondering this. Sure she has a lot of status. But looks wise.... yeah not ugly, not by a long shot, but there are women who look the same and better (especially considering she is 39) all over the place. The fact she is a famous celebrity, does not actually make her more or less attractive. That said, she has achieved a hell of a lot, I am not downplaying that. But as far as attraction goes, it is neither here nor there. But... if someone says "Whats your type", its easier to refer to a ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:35 AM
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Dude, I nearly puked up. Please, don't do that shit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:16 AM
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No I am actually in agreement with the chain of events,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:55 AM
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I don't even have thjoughts on passive aggressive profiles when I have used dating apps. Why would I want someone who openly advertises themselves as passive aggressive in my life????? I just ignore em.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:41 AM
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Thats not a woman only thing. You see someone you like, you take a shot. Unless you are over analysing everything in your head.... ahhhh I see the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:38 AM
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Imagine, you had spent 20 years studying something and society told you it was the path you needed to follow to get some job. Then when you apply for the job following the 20 years of study, they laugh at you, tell you your not suitable and employ some bum off the streets instead and you actually realised because you spent 20 years studying, you were not employable anywhere. Would you not feel any rage at having lived your life based on lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:06 AM
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The last post in TRP was 3 days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:02 AM
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Singles events and speed dating are basically cold approach. You go there and talk to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:53 PM
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So are you against dating apps as well then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:49 PM
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Look when an inkwell is lonely and bored and got no-one to whine at. They are going to search for inkwell (spelt properly), to find another community to infect. So inkwell or in5el, whilst not being a complete solution to keeping them away, at least maybe will not help make this sub light up any more than it already does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:46 PM
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No one said it was easy. The path of least resistance is never a good choice. Resistance is what creates character and personality,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:39 PM
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Look at human history, we are at a new place that has never really been experienced. Sure we had Iraq and Afghan, but they are nothing compared to the wars that used to happen more reguarly. As it was mostly men who fought these wars and there were casualties, guess what, the male population was very much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:32 PM
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Actually fair point. Living online, was not an option then, so they would of evolved differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:30 PM
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Well no that guy will like to explore his options. Hence she has to settle for "Mr Reliable". AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:27 PM
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If a guy can get a woman to bed in 5 minutes, I am confident if he is discarded in 5 minutes, he can easily get another woman to bed. Now, if a man can get a woman to bed in 5 minutes without being Rockstar, that is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:26 PM
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It is not promoted. I asked when is it promoted. Or recommended. Anyway, please provide OG material where Marraige is actually recommened as a good choice or STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:20 PM
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Look mate. The Red Pill is supposedly "Seeing the Matrix for what it is". Yeah. Well Bloops peddle shit like "Be yourself", "Be nice", they class being assertive as being an asshole. Never mind peddling shit like happy wife, happy life. Apparently every women should be treated like a princess, And also there is somebody for everybody. We don't need the gym, because we are all beautiful on the inside and inner beauty is what counts. Please feel free, to mention any other great Bloop advice. Now i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:18 PM
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Any one who disagrees with the guy you disagreed with. Redpiller = anyone who disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:48 PM
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Your missing the point. We are still talking about him, thats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:47 PM
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Mandatory Drugs testing takes the piss. However, as far as drinking goes, the British Army at least, does have a very strong bar culture. There maybe no rank in the bar, but the rank comes back the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:46 PM
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I can actually understand your reason quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:37 PM
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Like you just said, this conversation is over. Good luck on finding your wife and I actually mean that sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:34 PM
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I am thinking the same thing. A couple of pints of courage and this analysis paralysis will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:32 PM
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"Come down" not hang over. Hang overs are easy compared to a come down. I've not touched MDMA or pills for a long time though now. Spending time in the Army and having to do Mandatory Drug Testing, well it just stopped being a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:30 PM
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We havn't had a good war for a hundred years or so. So the male population hasn't had one of its historical reductions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:28 PM
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Do you think he is on reddit telling tales of your exploits to the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:27 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOfZLb33uCg The PPD dream
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:21 PM
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Still at least they never have to deal with a come down. Sadly what goes up, must come down,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:20 PM
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TBF, not every drug dealer is scarface, some drug dealers just want to make people happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:16 PM
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I respect their scruples but I also think going to a party and drinking a Cutwater with friends would go a long way toward their goals of sparking up connections and existing as less neurotic and anti-sociable. I personally think this is half the issue on this place. Not Chad, not the pareto principle not god knows what. Just this basically. Most the times I have met women has involved social lubricant, be it drinking it, or being at a place that serves it. Granted if I am driving, its just soda…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:15 PM
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Not who your replying too. I used to go to Creamfields and various other festivals when on leave in the Army. Due to mandatory drugs testing, I could no longer pop pills and be happy. However, I could still goto those places and just have a laugh and enjoy the music and the overall atmosphere. In fact, watching people stoned out of there faces was quite funny. Have you ever watched someone running around a table shouting "I am an orange, unpeel me" for 10 minutes solid. Its free comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:13 PM
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Ecactly, he got your attention and you remember him. If someone boring, bland and forgettable, do you think people remember them and tell tales of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:09 PM
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Its comical, but really its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:04 PM
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Why all the men keep saying they don't smoke/drink/use drugs, like they deserve a Nobel peace prize for it? I know, why have a couple of pints of courage when you can over analyse instead. Christ, if I never drank, I would never of met half the women I have met. Also a lot of guys on here are "Nice Guys". Why is smoking/drink/drugs a total dealbreaker for dating all the women? Just the crowd this sub attracts. The ones that arn't against it, probably say nothing and see no reason to broadcast th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:03 PM
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Wrong answer try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:58 PM
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OK, did every woman have Prince Harry as an option, or was it just Megan Markle. Marrying a prince and becoming a dutchess, is hypergamy at its finest. This is neither good nor bad, its just how the female perogative works, If every woman honestly had these sorts of options, for a start, there would be no married working class men. Working class men would not be fathers. So yes women will go for "The best option they have", but what are "those options".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:58 PM
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Your the one who said spinning plates and game is not RP. The guy who is regarded as the Granddaddy of RO wrote books about game and spinning plates. He also said "Marriage is hard mode". He did not exactly promote it or endorse it. Look if you want to play this game, I will happily copy and paste "The Rationale Male" onto here for exactly what was said about marraige. Correct, its not fully anti marriage, however, it is not Pro-Marraige,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:46 PM
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You just said, "Some women that responded to me in a separate post told me they rather be a side chick to a hot guy", so what can you do with that knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:40 PM
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What is "The Red Pill" to you. How does MGTOW, MRA and Game (as in Rollo's Red Pill guide to Game not classical PUA) not come under Redpill? In regards to marraige, no it is not against it. It states it is "Hardmode" and does not endorse it. We allow it but don't promote it kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:39 PM
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I will let someone else say it: https://youtu.be/qZrIxg6nKns?si=OlLRFLubAaA6BfIe&t=2850
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:33 PM
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OK, so become physically hot, highly charismatic, wealthy or crazy social status and have side chicks. What other options are there for YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:28 PM
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There is only one day that dosn't end in "Y"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:26 PM
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The guys who sit in and are anti social would of been anti social then and not even been at the clubs. Nothing will have been different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:19 PM
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Does your cousin join in or something? Is your cousin into Voyeurism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:15 PM
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"Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" should be required reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:13 PM
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Yes, rejection is part and parcel of cold approach. https://youtu.be/T-agas7CPAk?si=I3h64AqgSkvPgpIf&t=113
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:10 PM
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Why does a woman care if you are forced to "gas up a mid"? What does a woman have to benefit from this? We know why men will benefit, but I see no reason for women to want this change to happen. And if you want women to change, they need to WANT to change. Basics of persuasion. I recommend you read up on persuasion a bit and alter your strategy,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:58 PM
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So which part of "She is not yours, its just your turn" do you disagree with if you do not expect captivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:51 PM
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So you disagree with "She is not yours, its just your turn" If I get in a relationship, is the woman now mine and never allowed to leave me, is she chained to me for life, no matter what. Look getting dumped or rejected sucks, but once you accept she is not yours it was just your turn, its much easier to deal with Regarding the "Just your turn" bit, I am not deluded enough to think that if a woman dates me and it ends she will never date ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:44 PM
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Yes so how do we achieve scarcity? By reducing male thirst and instilling better standards in men. If men did not acknowledge women that were not a perfect 8 or above, things would change. However the fact we have 20 times more testosterone in our bodies and a pro-active not reactive sex drive, means that male thirst will always be a thing. Why do you think women have so much abundance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:42 PM
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Firstly, I am attracted to some women regardless. Secondly, it just is what it is. Better to know than not know. They only person making it super negative is you. Once you just accept this shit, like it is neither good nor bad, it just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:37 PM
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Because so many men are judgemental as fuck about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:31 PM
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So how does it go when you ask a woman her n-count. Does it end well? Does it not come off as like being judgmental as fuck? "Ahh a man who is judgmental as fuck, just what I always dreamed of" said no woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:30 PM
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Regarding point 1. Why would I want to date someone that takes everything seriously. Like if I am dating someone, I want them to be fun to be around. If they can't laugh and have a joke, what am I even doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:29 PM
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Hey stay off my man Lurk. Look some of his comments are a bit odd, but he's an round sound guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:27 PM
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Yeah... bear in mind I am only speaking for myself here. It is TRP that led me to that path. Power of Now, Vipassana Meditation, Mindfulness, Selflove, body scans, circle of excellence, various NLP exercises etc, pscho-cybernetics, I could go on. Yeah the answers were out there, but until I realised I was a failure with women, I saw no issues with my life. Roof over head, check. Job, check. Friends, check. Hobbies, check. It was only the relationship part, well no, the "attracting" part I had is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:21 PM
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I actually wish they would put the anger phase dudes into a soundless box and release them when they were over it. I guess I hated myself not women, so I would just suffer in silence despising myself. Like don't get me wrong, I am happy its in the past, but I think I had to go through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:16 PM
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I do want it to cool down, is it hot where you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:12 PM
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Turns out, not enough men actually wanted either to put in the effort, or were satisfied with the result (ie, short term, transactional relationships) I honestly thought, the community was going to evolve into "What to do next" PUA was guys giving instructions and methods on how to get "The women you desire into bed", it never said what to do next. TRP at least at the start, seemed to focus on creating some sort of lifestyle that attracted women instead of following some sort of method (be it MM…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:46 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:35 PM
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YES. Fake it till you become it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:35 PM
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So you don't know if you find someone attractive. If I ask you "Is so and so attractive". Do you think I am asking what you think, ie are you attracted to them. Or what everyone else thinks? No I give up. I want to talk to a person, not a monolith. Nvm, forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:29 PM
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At last, you have finally taken control of the frame back. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:24 PM
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A lot of things are written, have you ever written anything and had it published?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:17 PM
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I am asking why you need to point out they are "objectively attractive". Why not just say, "nah, they don't do it for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:16 PM
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Yes I am a giant shit flinger. The biggest turd you have ever seen, I don't even fit in the toilet. Now what pearls do you have to offer? Are they large, or are they just mid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:15 PM
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The real question is why does this bother you so much? Who hurt you for you to want to come to a sub full of stuff like this? Besides, I was inspired by the rants of the crazy ginger haired man. I miss those days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:13 PM
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The real question is, if you are helping so many people, what are you doing on a shit flinging train wreck of a sub instead of actually helping people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:12 PM
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If I'm talking to you, I don't care what other people or the majority think. If I were talking to you, I would be asking what YOU as an individual thought. Now what the hivemind thinks. Why do I GAF what other people think, if I am asking you, No I am not asking you, there is nothing to ask, you have already said they do nothing for you, Do you view talking to a person as an individual thing or is that person LEGION?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:06 PM
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Ive never really explored the MGTOW or MRA spaces. As for blackpill incels, they are just a cancer that spreads and spreads and spreads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:54 PM
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I would say the risks are higher in social game, much higher. I practice poor game in a bar, wow some woman rejects me, big deal, life goes on. Fuck up in a social circle, yeah, it can have consequences. I'm not saying social circle game is a no no, but its hard mode. Bars are the Dojo, social circle is where it matters,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:50 PM
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Just go GFTOW, the then tell me if your still frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:46 PM
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I'm not sure about your MRA comment. I would say more MRF, Mens Rights Fantasists, Look if someone is out there, actually taking action regarding laws deemed unfair, this does not apply to them. If someone is campaigning, trying to get funding, holding rallies, pushing out actual effective propaganda and media campaigns, I am not referring to you. But if someone is just complaining "Its unfairz", then there is no activism. Activist = someone who TAKES ACTION.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:41 PM
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So who have you bought peace to? Have you bought peace to anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:35 PM
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Why do you care what a women says she wants, thinks she wants or feels she wants. All that matters is what she responds to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:33 PM
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I think the better question is what are you going to do about Israel and Hamas as you care so much about civilisation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:28 PM
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The real question is why are you too insecure to date a short guy? Do they intimidate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:24 PM
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The real question is why do you GAF about feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:23 PM
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The real question is why do you believe there actually is a simple solution if you are lacking in social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:23 PM
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The real question is why do you care so much what other men are doing, does it make you feel insecure that they lifting, making bank and improving their game?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:22 PM
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The real question is why are you so bothered what other people think about The Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:21 PM
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I also want to add, things like the MSM and FSM don't pop up either. If someone dosn't know what I am talking about, then why are you on a RP debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:01 PM
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Yes there is no law stopping women from competing in the NBA as opposed to the WNBA, ie Louisa Harris. However, women just can't seem to make the cut I guess or do not want to play with men. So yeah, WNBA is a special league for people who are not banned from the NBA but are not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:48 PM
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Feminism, is about women being strong and independent and not needing no man. If men are required in achieving this, its already failed. Priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:38 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:23 PM
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I actually mentioned this earlier and got told that Game and MGTOW are not anything to do with the Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:11 PM
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Only speaking for myself, Yeah repeatedly going out and drinking works. The problem is when you recover from your hangover, because you need to get drunk to get over your anxieties, the anxieties come back. Yes, social skills do improve as opposed to doing nothing. But for me, having the MM as a framework to work with and forcing myself to approach whilst sober, really skyrocketed my social skills. And tbh the Group Theory stuff Mystery states, I shouldn't of needed to even read in a book, lets …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:10 PM
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It never originally said they were "undatable" just they lost a lot of their power of youth and their options reduced. BUT.... there were still options and a hell lot more options than even an "Alpha Male" or "High Beta" would ever have in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:52 PM
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Thanks for replying. As I imagined its stuff which well..... is not really what I am into. But I suppose if thats what guys are into these days, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:49 PM
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OK, I am guessing you are viewing the entirety of PUA as the original Mystery Method Canned routines which were not meant to be relied on. I am talking about other stuff, fractionation, mirroring, pacing and leading (in sets of 3), breaking rapport, weasel words, embedded commands, etc, etc. Yes I do believe a lot of the stuff Mystery said, in regards to group theory, bouncing locations, false time constraints, indirect openers etc. But not necessarily the canned stuff. Anyway thankyou for havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:45 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:30 PM
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now just has people who defend it that often aren’t from the USA, And... whats your point. Stuff written by American dudes for club game works in UK clubs and bars. What do you need to an American to use this stuff or something. Look I get your point regarding OLD, like yeah its funny. But if it works elsewhere, it works elsewhere. I have also used the same stuff in The Dam, so it works in the Netherlands as well, so what about it? Sorry don't get your point with that part of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:15 PM
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Also, women don't like to feel like they are being judged by men. How better a way to give off a non judgemental vibe than by literally NGAF about anything she says. Like its just noise. Why GAF? Then she dosn't feel judged, and things will be smoother. Sure pay attention and listen, but don't GAF one way or the other. Its hard to explain this mindset in words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:58 PM
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When was the RP pro marraige, please provide OG sources. Not some dude on YT who gives you an erection when he rejects an evil womanz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:28 PM
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Just sounds like the old PUAHATE[.]com forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:24 PM
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Look, once I adopted these beliefs, my dating life improved. It is what it is. Do I actually care what some women I am not attracted to thinks, no not really. I couldn't give 2 bucks. But if I am interacting with a woman I am attracted to, yes my frame will come from those beliefs. If it works, it works. If someone comes along with a more effective model of reality, then cool I will happily replace my current internal model.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:04 PM
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I dunno, if you wanna live life on "Hardmode" and accept that, then its still pretty RP. If some guys are hitting 30, then suddenly having women attracted to them, due to their "epiphiny", I would personally agree with Rollo's advice and at least spin plates for a while. Then at least you can get an inkling of if a woman is genuinely attracted or just using you, based on actual reference points from experiences. Like wow, at worst, as your not instantly committing, you become a challenge and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:01 PM
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ll that shit still know nothing and have almost used reading some books as a covert contract, while bitching about covert contracts. Please can you send me a link to this. I am not doubting you, I just want to see this with my own eyes and laugh. This sounds too funny to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:55 PM
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In agreement. Its why my flair is Purple, not Red. If you want to go straight to various RP beliefs, Hypergamy, AWALT, etc. Yeah I will most likely agree. However I don't see it as doom and gloom. Just a framework to base life around, as these beliefs produce better results than Bloop BS. That said, there is more to it than just RP beliefs, like learning to accept yourself, learning to be happy by yourself (as opposed to relying on someone else), just being positive in general. But luckily we li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:22 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:17 PM
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Does GAF change these things? Could that energy not be put elsewhere instead? If the answer is no, it does not change anything, then why GAF as opposed to DGAF. If you are also facing an issue and taking action, then cool, you are taking action, so why GAF about the problem once you have a plan in place and are taking massive action.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:14 PM
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Men think about sex more than they will ever let women, or even each other, know. Teachers think about f***ing their students, fathers think about f***ing their daughter’s friends, doctors think about f***ing their patients. And right now, for every woman with even an iota of sex appeal, there’s probably a man somewhere in the world who’s touching himself and thinking about what it would be like to f*** her. She may not even know him: He may be that businessman who walked past her in the street …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:03 PM
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Look people on this sub keep shouting life is unfair because "women don't have to do that". I am dropping my own pill on how the world works. Do with that info as you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:54 AM
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Its just Blackpilled inkwells and tradcucks on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:53 AM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:47 AM
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Evolution always finds a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:45 AM
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Are you saying Rollo is not Red Pill? He has literally written books on Spinning Plates and why it is better than marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:37 AM
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Rollo and other OG people actually gave value on how to improve your odds in life. What is the value in "FreshnFit" or whatever the latest karma farmer is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:33 AM
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What is the hypocrisy. Women didn't enjoy something, so they did something about it. Men don't mind, so they enable and allow it. Where is the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:27 AM
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Classic PUA and RedPill Game theory are two different things. I should of said Redpill Game theory not PUA. My bad. The original alt.seduction.fast archives that most PUA theory based on, is not the same as Redpill Game theory. Redpill Game falls under the redpill category as its based on Redpill beliefs PUA had no backing theory it was just stuff that worked or didn't work. Then guys started asking questions on why it worked, despite being counter intuitive to bloop BS and The Red Pill emerged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:11 AM
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PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:47 AM
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PUA and RP game are two different things. PUA was not based on RP beliefs. As a Redpill man of the world such as yourself, I would of thought you would of known your origins. And no, the manosphere is more than RP. Game (not PUA) - Take RP beliefs and use them to get with women. MRA - Take RP beliefs and try and change the law. MGTOW - Take RP beliefs and create your own life whilst checking out as its not worth it. Blackpill/Inkwell - Cry like little bitch at best screaming "Its not fair", off …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:40 AM
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If something dosn't bother men as a whole, then no action is going to be taken against it. Men groping women, however bothers women, so women took action, to try and stop it. This sub astounds me. Like if some men don't like women feeling their muscles, then well, maybe don't goto places, where women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:32 AM
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So, start a movement and make it illegal if it bothers you. However, I will not be backing you, I enjoy being groped by women, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:30 AM
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Why is it crazy that male thirst means women don't need to do much? Water is shaped by the container that holds it? Until men have higher standards, women won't need to adhere to any
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:29 AM
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OK, well go enjouy your harem of supermodels from dating apps then. Look for me, dating apps do not work at all. Cold approach, yeah its probably a 20% success rate. But for me at least, that is higher than dating apps. I probably get one match per thirty swipes. Then one message per 5 matches, then one date per 5 women I message. I cannot be arsed working out the success percentage for that. But its much lower than cold approach. At least with Cold Approach, I can chat to people regardless who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:27 AM
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You mean communities that come under the Redpill Umbrella, however you did miss off MRA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:15 AM
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Yeah this is a sub full of inkwells, they give me the ick. Are you saying I should become a sociopathic emotionless robot and suppress my emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:08 AM
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I agree, becoming a person that respects themselves and that other people are not repulsed by is the reward. And nowhere in TRP does it say "Women will make your life easier", in fact it says things like "Marraige is hardmode".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:05 AM
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Some guys will go blackpill and either give up, or take drastic measures (surgeries, etc.) to try and make it into the tinier and tinier minority of elite men that way. Cool, then STFU and get on with it. Look the RP only focuses on SMP and RMP. Here is a pill that is not related to dating or the SMP. If you are a whiney little blackpill loser, not even men are going to respect you, nevermind women. Sure your mommy wll give you a pat on your head and tell you "You are fine as you are" but so wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:02 AM
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Agreed. Your one of the few red flairs who actually seem to have read the sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:48 AM
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If your having to take a pill to respect yourself, you’ve a lot more problems than getting woman. Yeah, and getting women is the motivation to work on these problems. You can be a functioning member of society without addressing any of these issues, as in developed countries, people live life on easy mode compared to probably just 100 years ago. Due to this, rites of passage no longer exist. Until a man attempts to attract a woman, he may not know he is a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:27 AM
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That is a really good question. I do not recognise the Redpill of today at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:41 AM
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OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:22 AM
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"When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression." - Sheila Jeffreys (professor of Political Science) "I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig." - Andrea Dworkin "I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honorable and viable political act" - Robin Morgan "The more famous and powerful I get, the more power I have to hurt men" - Sharon Stone "The proporti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:19 AM
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Your right it dosnt. Later on tonight I will find some actual feminists quotes and cite sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:10 AM
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Become super clingy and obsessive. The art of manipulating a person is making them believe it was their idea. So make him think he needs to stay the hell away from you. Maybe tell him you have missed him, you reallly really love him, you have booked the wedding for next week, now all he needs to do is ask your dad for permission to marry you, Obviously you need to facetime him, every 10 minutes and ask him what he is doing and tell him you love him. If he dosn't facetime you on the 5 minites inb…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:49 AM
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I would wonder what was wrong with me yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:44 AM
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Probably not go down well in the Middle East, they will be quite protective of their property.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:43 AM
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Its 1:30 in the morning where I am. Most people are alseep, shall I go knock on doors and wake them up. Hell I know shall I get a ladder and bang on their bedroom window and demand attention. Yeah that will go down great. I love PPD advice. In all honesty though, come the weekend, I will be elsewhere, not here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:41 AM
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Do you not believe women can be average. If every woman is a 10, then 10 is just the norm, the average. With the absence of ugliness there can be no beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:31 AM
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You can date who you want, but if they look like Quasimodo, the fact your dating them won't change that. Do you take anything that is not nice as some sort of instruction???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:26 AM
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Congrats on changing your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:22 AM
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Have you actually read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:04 AM
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No idea how to do it on App. On web browser, just click on "User Flair" to the right of the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:00 AM
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Harsh .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:58 PM
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Old feminist propaganda. "All men are rapists". Like were these feminists raped by their sons? Are male feminists just projecting their actions onto all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:55 PM
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I do wonder if women who say all men were actually raped by their fathers and brothers. I mean, it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:54 PM
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So if collecting garbage paid more than starring in a new Game Of Thrones spin off, you would collect garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:53 PM
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I both agree with you, and also cannot answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:51 PM
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Why is admiring living masterpieces of art a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:46 PM
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Good stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:44 PM
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Why have you got a red flair. You understand flair colours right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:39 PM
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Are you me? I only recently read NMMNG, but I saw it mentioned on TRP several times, it just sat in a drawer for 4 years until I finally read it (I have the audible as well to listen to in the background, I really want that stuff to sink in). TRP also pointed me towards the Gym, towards meditation, towards a few other things. And same, if it wern't for TRP, I dread to think where I would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:39 PM
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Why does it matter if some women think these guys are mid. Do you base your self esteem on what people think of Ben Barnes or Chris Hemsworth. Nah wait bro... I got it.... you ARE Chris Hemsworth, and being Chris Hemsworth you hang around on PPD and are so insecure, the views of women on PPD affect your self worth. Soz bro, I dunno what too say, some women think your just mid. Yeah shockin innit. Seriously who gives a f**k. I would of thought a Red Pill man of the world such as yourself would of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:33 PM
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They are celebrities, everyne has seen them, that is why everyone agrees. Now some women equally as attractive, at my local cocktail lounge, is not a celebrity, so there will not be as many opinions. No-one will know who I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:23 PM
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Maybe like once or twice a week I come across some ladies talking about men getting with girls they dislike or hate, but they don't seem to realize that men don't exactly have that much agency in what type of woman they get in the first place. Desperation has never been attractive. This is hardly a new thing, surely especially for a Red Pilled Man of the world such as yourself. "But then just don't date her" Alot of these guys don't exactly have that much options. Some chubby girl shows up, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:14 PM
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I used to be a full on social retard. Trust me, the first several years of my life were harsh. But luckily life wasn't set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:39 PM
2

I think they meant with a knife. Not the sort of "stabbing" a "pegmaster" would be looking for,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:35 PM
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Yeah, "Make the hoe say no" is not a good approach, but there are more subtle methods. Please detail these cold approaches you have done. Or ones you have experienced where these outcomes happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:20 PM
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Correction it dosn't work FOR YOU. Please stop trying to speak for all men. For me, it has worked. So stop the gaslighting BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:18 PM
1

As someone who does it, I find it fun if nothing else. Anything else is just icing on the cake. But yeah, there are highs and there are lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:17 PM
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Half? I think your underestimating here. Props on reading the sidebar, I wish more people would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:15 PM
0

I can only speak for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:10 PM
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Same here. Like I honestly admit, I thought just being nice was enough. I never though "Oh I have to actually make them attracted". I am not blaming anyone for that but myself, But the current grifters, well I honestly don't know what value they bring to anyone. But whatever, its not something I involve myself in. If some guys get some value from what I class as pointless crap, well good for them I suppose. Life goes on regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:09 PM
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They are not talking about OG RP. Its more about blackpill whiners. Its complicated on this sub, do people actually know what TRP is, beyond some grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:04 PM
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How will following the hive mind bring value to my life. Will it fulfill me, will it bring enrichment, will it bring eternal bliss. Look if this were a bar, and I found you attractive, yes I might have given you some validation by now. To make you feel like you had earned it. People place more value on something they have earned. However, this is not a bar, you are just a block of text that appears on my screen, so I have no reason to give you any of the validation you so blatantly crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:59 PM
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I'm actually in agreement, however, these comments in this thread don't exist in a vacuam. OP created it and asked questions. Yeah, bluntly saying shit is one thing. But hey, it was bought up by OP. Or should we all lie, to not hurt someone fee feez.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:47 PM
2

To enjoy the trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:45 PM
2

This is hilarious. Not validating a celebrity = people going losing their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:40 PM
5

OK cool story. Now I am going to get on with being me. You can continue lecturing me on your covert contract all you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:38 PM
1

I miss the days when "STFU and get on with it" was a redpill thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:37 PM
3

God knows, this sub is not representative of RL son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:36 PM
1

https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=nmmng
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:36 PM
1

OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:32 PM
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Christ, why does everything have to be so damned complicated. Look, I find women attractive or unattractive it is binary,. I am not bothered about group think. I AM NOT LEGION.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:23 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:16 PM
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Beautiful to who? I am a man I can only speak for myself. Not who you are responding to. I am A man. Not a monolith, not part of the borg and we are not legion. Christ, whatever happened to individuality and people being different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:11 PM
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Agreed. This is a random internet forum. If I am shooting shit with IRL mates, we all know each other well enough, that this miscommunication isn't an issue. Go onto a sub, especially one like this, well yeah, semantics are probably half the issue here, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:09 PM
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The point I’m making is I think we are blind to the incongruence between the things we say and what we do. I'm actually in total agreement with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:07 PM
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No one is denying she will be found hot by loads of men. Does that mean I am not allowed freedon of feelings. Must I become LEgion with all men or something. I'm not even sure if your responding to me or not. She isn't even ugly. She is just not special as far as looks go. Beauty is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:02 PM
1

What does it matter? That sounds like a them problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:59 PM
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Yeah like I said elsewhere, men say shit. These men clearly don't speak for all men. Anyway, cool, we agree. Life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:59 PM
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Look no woman is going to list exactly what she is attracted to, nor is any man. Its an emotional process not a logical one. As for asking fish how to catch fish. Lets cut to the chase: Do men have experience being approached by lots of thirsty guys and know how to vet them? Nope, so why the hell, ask a guy for advice on that? Do women have experience approaching women and dealing with rejection, whilst dealing with insecurities and anxieties. Nope probably not. So why ask them. As for asking wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:58 PM
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I know enough pretentious places, to disagree. I have also known women in the entertainment industry who know how to look and behave seductively. Beauty is common. If you believe otherwise, you are surrounding yourself with low tier looks women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:51 PM
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Thats BS for a start. If I find some Heroine addict who is slim due to malnourishment and spending all their money on gear, I can garuntee, not many men will find them attractive. Newsflash: Men say shit. Pay attention to what we do, not what we say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:48 PM
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OK, so OP knows better than me what I find attractive. OK, yeah its PPD after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:47 PM
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If I am saying if I find someone attractive or not. It's but to remember the implied "To me " before my statements. I forgot that this is not a place of individuality but instead we are all speaking on behalf of our representative monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:38 PM
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Are you on about her looks or status. I am on about her looks. Status wise, yes she has achieved a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:35 PM
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Beauty is common. What makes Scarlett Johanssen so special though? I could goto certain bars in my city and there would be women just as and more attractive. She is nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:12 PM
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Do you not think that submitting to your partner is a "nice thing to do"? Is it mean? Is it Asshole behaviour? He sacrifices himself for me, what an asshole? Sorry, I agree with you, but I can see where the confusion happens. Add in covert contracts, and its a f**king mess. However, its something guys need to find for themselves. Society is no help here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:38 PM
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What women? We don't yet know what OP means by "Nice". It could be, he sent her flowers every day twice a day as it was "a nice thing to do". Maybe he followed her around in different cars, because its a dangerous world out there, so its "a nice thing to do".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:29 PM
3

So what ARE you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:28 PM
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No, butting in here. I would say they don't feel any shame about their sexuality. They are a sexual person and they own it. A nice guy, would be too nice to accept that part of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:14 PM
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Have you never dated someone who you just find forgettable???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:10 PM
5

Yep. Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:02 PM
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Validation seeking behaviour - I didn't realise until I read the book that I was doing this. Spending a few days, noticing my behaviours around people, I amended this. This resulted in people trying to get my attention more. This is probably the biggest. Covert Contracts - Yeah I noticed I had a few. Just got general awareness, and know to be assertive rather than assume some sort of non existant agreement. Boundries - I can't explain, I just feel repulsion at myself for stuff I did in past. Esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:51 PM
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Please remember to State everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:06 PM
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Wdym own it lmao wtf Do you speak English. adf;jkl;lkadfk;l;kfda affajifpjladfjadf sdafhadfhljkhadf afhadfkjhlfadhi asfhiadfljhhladf asfhlladf;joadfg faslhiadf EFGQWYEUBNKFDKN2EF qefjlkljiwrewrg'p
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:52 PM
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666 is just a cop out excuse for not taking action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:49 PM
1

Then don't. Noone is saying being percieved as a creepy serial killer is not a valid lifestyle choice. Only you are in charge of how you are percieved. If you can own creepy serial killer, then good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:47 PM
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I read it not long ago. It felt like a personal attack in places. But I have already felt a shift inside due to certain points where there were entire chapters written about me. However... a person is not going to pay attention to this book unless they are willing to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:36 PM
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Why don't you stop listening to hat they say and start watching their actions. Its easier to wear slippers than to carpet the world. Personally I think you just want to play victim, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:31 PM
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SO what do you want in a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:29 PM
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Also another question. When she "wanted him badly" was he behaving the same way, or did he suddenly "become nice(r)" when they got together?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:29 PM
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Oh I'm in agreement. But changing and sorting yourself out is an individual hing. Sure you can wait for society to change, but how long is a piece of string.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:53 PM
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Nah it just wasn't specified that women want a nice guy that also has a backbone and is assertive. Christ, I want to root for my fellow men on here, but no, just no. This place is insane Like whats next, "But womenz don't specify they want a guy that is literate", "They didn't specify they didn't want a guy that shits himself reguarly". Like I know some people are autistic on here, but there has to be a line drawn in the sand somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:37 PM
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Do you not think those sorts of behaviours should be just part of humanning 101?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:34 PM
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Having a backbone and being assertive, not bending over backwards for others, not being apologetic about existing, not being apologetic for having sexual desires, I would say are "Normal" and should not need to be defined. And I say this is a recovering Nice Guy (Joys of Christian Parents and upbringing, not "Ze evil womenz"),
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:31 PM
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What do you mean by "He had everything working in his favour" and what do you mean by "Nice". When I hear a guy say nice, having read NMMNG, I do not form a positive image in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:28 PM
1

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:20 PM
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Yeah fair... like what is a high count. But then I am just buying into the Frame. Like, women have sex. Its how dating and relationships work. I don't know what else to say on the matter. My outlook on life is non-judgemental on someone having a sexual history. So I just can't buy into the frame that this topic pushes. I am not sure why I am even here commenting on it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:11 PM
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Dosn't this convo just get boring after a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:58 PM
1

Yeah its just creepy. Maybe they just like staring at people, who knows,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:26 PM
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Why don't you just isolate yourself. Someone who does not partake in conversation and just stands there is serial killer creepiness. Its 50 icks in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:21 PM
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What exactly is a "True Redpiller". Some experiences were collected and theories made. People took this in and did what they wanted with this information. What exactly is a True RedPiller or a False RedPiller?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:05 PM
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So depressed people should remove themselves from society? Look I get it, but not everyone is happy and cheerful, personally I still believe they should be allowed to talk. But I guess that would upset you, as it won't give you positive feelz and as we know the world revolves around you and your feels. Don't worry though, men do off themselves, so that will save you from bad feelz. So I guess you can be happy about that. If you ever have children, whats your plan, beat them till they are happy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:01 PM
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So be happy or shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:45 PM
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I know, hpw dare men have insecurities. They should just be emotionless robots right? Meanwhile: Toxic Masculinity is bad, men should be more vulnerable. Yeah we get it, get men to be vulnerable, so you can ridicule them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:28 PM
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Man 30 contacts 5 people Number of people I meet regularly IRL - 10 people (Not including work collegues, they are just that, work collegues) Groups I am in on Facebook - 5 (1.5K members on average)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:48 AM
1

Yeah, I'm a human, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:33 AM
2

Welcome to life, its not a logical thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:18 AM
2

Last night I went full Sarah Connor, dreaming of a nuclear apocalypse is a new one even for me. Just rding the bus, watching the nukes go off. Enjoying the peace afterwards and no more tax to pay, pure bliss. Then I woke up and remembered I had to goto work :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:45 AM
2

Yeah, I believe what happens between two legally consenting adults is their own business. What is hard to understand about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:42 AM
1

I found it helpful. But I was just awkward, not repulsive. Little tweaks like eye contact, not leaning in, talking to a group of women, not just one, etc (basic PUA stuff), made the difference. Don't think it will work for everyone though. Just the guys who really grind at it or who need a tweak here or there. I know PUAHATE came about from guys who got no value from it, I think that was the original Inkwell origin place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:01 AM
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Is it legal? Well none of my f**king business. Are you in a relationship, do you want me to judge that as well. Do relationships need my stamp of approval. Would people who are in a relationship, care what I think regardless. All I am going to say, is if someone is in a relationship with a large age gap, people are probably going to say stuff, be it friends, family, hell random people on the internet. If you can't handle that, then age gap relationships are probably not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:46 AM
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Yeah, I have one woman tell me how she was passed around a football team, I have had multiple women go into quite indepth detail how they were raped. I have had one woman tell me how her BF kicked her down the stairs when she was pregnant, yet she stayed with him. I could go on. I have heard disturbing shit. Women like telling me disturbing shit about their disturbing experiences in their disturbing lives. What can I say. Sadly, RL is not reddit, so I cannot switch off emotions and say something…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:39 AM
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As someone who dosn't actually like being abusive, someone like this would be a bad fit for me, as I cannot mentally or physically give them the abuse they crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:28 AM
1

If you wern't a sucker for hookups, why would you put that. I always read that as "I am easily led on by men" OR its just anti slut defence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:14 AM
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\^
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:12 AM
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People hated the Pick Up Artist guys who spent all day writing long posts on the importance of eye contact as it was hatred of women. So they got what they wanted. The pickup artists went back underground and TRP replaced the void. People hated TRP, I kinda get why and wanted it gone. So it went and was replaced by thr Blackpill. Now people hate the Blackpill and want it gone. I wonder whats next. Hopefully it won't have the word "pill" in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:11 AM
2

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:40 AM
1

No, its never come up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:37 AM
1

No its not, but why would I want to speak to someone who is not inspirational or motivational or even charasmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:34 AM
1

Thankyou for your motivational response. If I ever feel an urge to become suicidal, I will drop you a DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:29 AM
0

My only intent in dating, is to experience the intoxication of a woman. Nothing more, nothing less. The thought of settling with someone and growing to resent them, get bored of them, not have that spark for them anymore, it horrifies me. All beautiful things must end, otherwise they are not beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:27 AM
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The point is, everything about being a male, is a contest. Its just nature. Its not a negotiation. Attraction cannot be negotiated. Life as a man, is the same as the life of a sperm cell. The contest to be the winner, is literally the way our DNA was created.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:21 AM
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They all start with the "I am not looking for anything serious" then they always want more, not sure if its intentional or not. But I am taking persona above me as being legit in what they say. Its all just part of life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:18 AM
4

I have found the mythical unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:09 AM
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A woman telling you openly she will let men treat her like crap. Not sure if its a red flag or not. Its just sad. Regardless Find someone with self respect. Become captain save-a-hoe DGAF and treat her how you were gonna treat her anyway Or relish in the fact, you can treat her like shit and she will probably accept it. Become a psycho and endex all her exes. Your life your choice. I don't see any other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:06 AM
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Purplepill leaning red. A happier life. .What to you feel like you will get out of the the set of ideas you've aligned yourself with? A more accurate internal representation of reality. This leads to less disappointment, frustration, confusion, etc. If someone comes up with a better model, I will happily replace the existing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:01 AM
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I thought they just didn't know how to use the word "assertive" so instead of putting what they wanted, they put what they didn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:48 PM
2

I honestly cannot say. Attraction is an emotional thing. I could make a list of preferences, but if I feel strong attraction for someone who does not meet these, it won't matter. But mostly its just someone who gives off a positive vibe, does not take themselves or life too seriously and can hold a conversation easily. I want to say not argumentative, but I think a better way of putting it is someone who is assertive. IE, will not have a covert contract and will not be passive aggressive. After …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:46 PM
1

Then feel free to give another explaination. I am ignored, I have two women with me, I am not ignored and get loads of attention. If that is not pre-selection, please give me a bloop explaination. Was I just being myself, was it my personality, had I finally found "the one". Go on, explain it in blooper terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:25 PM
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It hit me hard, but it was more "What the fuck is going on", I was not used to attention at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:20 PM
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Christ even as a guy who is picky as hell I get where the outrage comes from. If I just date women who are not landwhales, nothing is said. If I were to actually start announcing my standards IRL or start writing wierd 10000 word disserations on how fat people will bring out the end of days, yeah I would get stick. Like, just don't date these women. No need to be so audible on why you won't date them. Hell take a leaf from the book of women, just say something like "I don't feel no chemistry". N…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:14 PM
1

You need a hug bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:48 PM
1

I used to see myself as inferior and a failure. So, it just made sense to me, that I was treated how I was. Instead of pointing hatred at women, I pointed it at myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:47 PM
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Outraged people. Theres no such thing as bad press. Did Tate become popular by marketing or did he just cause enough outrage that everybody wanted to "check out his content". Do you not understand basic marketing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:36 PM
2

harsh but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:33 PM
1

girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:24 PM
1

Why? Is life not better. I was the same, I felt so much better for earning my right to be treated like a human. It was an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:23 PM
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Even when a man shoots his load. Out of the millions of sperm, only one will win. The female egg will just sit there and pick the winner. Complaining and negotiating about fairness is pointless. Evolution does not care about being fair. Why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:21 PM
1

You mean the original original, not the remaster???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:07 PM
1

Some people feel differently. As can be observed by the other responses in here (200+) Well we are not a monolith. If they feel differently, discuss it with them. Myself, if an affluent bachelor is or isn't selfish, I honestly DGAF either way I'm open to having my mind changed if other people can provide a good enough argument I honestly don't care what you think either way. People think different things, otherwise we would be a hive. I am well one of the main goals of feminism was to destroy th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:15 PM
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What is there to debate. Some men are selfish according to you, why debate it.. I don't know your mind, only you do. BTW, are you a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:04 PM
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Wasn't it feminists who said something along the lines of The nuclear family must be destroyed, and people must find better ways of living together. If men are "refusing" to marry, then feminists should be celebrating, right? They got what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:53 PM
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I get it now, OP proposed and faced rejection for the first time. Yeah it stings, I get it. I mean how else can a man refuse to marry?????? If the man proposes, its the woman who chooses to or not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:50 PM
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OK they ae cowards. Anyway, life goes on. Am I meant to care, be offended, off myself, sacrifice a goat, what? What was the purpose of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:36 PM
1

OK bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:29 PM
1

Yes, and so what? Again, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:27 PM
1

Yes I agree, hence I think bloopers are wrong. Nowhere did I suddenly start "Just be yourself bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:27 PM
2

Even as a 6ft guy, I would do it if it became the norm. I would still want to stand out. Gotta make 6ft, the new 5ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:03 PM
2

If its as doom and gloom as blackpillers make out, then whats the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:02 PM
2

Yeah men not agreeing with each other. Its a totally new thing, only encountered from 2024 onwards. Seriously, touch grass and seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:55 PM
1

You don't FALL in love. Its a process you do to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:36 PM
1

Why do you want to follow a script instead of carving your own life? https://youtu.be/U93Hwmi_1zw?si=d1vOkx4L4tximbRX&t=31
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:30 PM
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Why, why is some rando on the internet saying I am selfish and cowardly something I am going to care about either way. Imagine, getting married just to appease some other person. That may not be selfish or cowardly, but it sounds pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:28 PM
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Everyone knows The Script: go to school, get an education, get a job, get married, have kids, eventually retire. Yes people lack direction and like to be told what to do. Being a sheep is easier than facing ambiguity. As a man not interested in marraige, if that makes me a coward, then I am a coward, what is your point. I just don't see any point to it or have any interest. As for financial benefits of marraige, marrying someone just to get more wealth, just does not sit well with me,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:25 PM
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I think the problem with Bloops, is not that they do not want to handle the truth, the truth is, they CANNOT handle the truth. Looking back at some of the women of beauty that I met. I know that it had nothing to do with me. It was all due to the social Matrix. The girl I asked out, after talking to her one night, who rejected me. Why wouldn't she reject me, I had no social proof or pre-selection. The girl who later wanted to be with me, who I went on to date for 2 years, because her friends lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:21 PM
1

I'm on PPD. If you can't beat em, join em.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:10 PM
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Handle what. Hold frame that there is no cockroach and never was. Genuinely believe it. Then carry on with whatever we were doing. The strongest frame always wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:05 PM
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Why would you shame a woman for implants????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:52 PM
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Maybe after 13 years he was sick and tired of it. Its a no brainer really. Also what the hell does "I also have a pretty good job" have to do with if you look like a man or not. Reading this, it does sound like a masculine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:49 PM
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Why would I thankyou for promoting obesity. You are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:57 PM
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OK don't accept that life is unfair. Now what..... You don't accept it, what has changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:40 PM
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Look they want their excuses, so they don't need to put themselves out there. I'm a guy, I talk to strangers (Oh noooooooo) especially in bars. But I don't need to make up excuses not to do it, so I don't have this negitive sh*t floating in my head. If anything I look for reasons TO talk to people. I look for an excuse to talk to them, not an excuse to not have to leave my comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:25 PM
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Noone cares what your individual type is. Look I am a 6 foot guy. When I'm lifting, women IN GENERAL find me more attractive than when I am not. This is clearly evidenced in the way EVERYBODY responds to me in general. Men and women. So when we say, lifting makes you more attractive, this is not about you specifically. But women IN GENERAL. Maybe not the whole planet, but in our lives and experiences. Then when men get together and discuss this, we notice patterns. Hence "Just lift bro". As for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:15 PM
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Like, social skills are just that social skills. Any skill, is something thats gonna be failed at to start with. I'm sure if I decided to become a gamer and purchased Dark Souls, I would do pretty shit at that to start with. Yet, something like that, or driving, or hell learning to walk, or art, or any skill, it seems accepted that you fail at first. Yeah some people quit. But suddenly with Social Skills its viewed differently, Like when I did kickboxing, I didn't expect to walk into a world tou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:05 PM
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Ahh fair. I failed a lot, then got better. I just thought it was normal hence my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:32 PM
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I think thats the point. Talking to another person of the same species, shouldn't require effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:25 PM
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Why don't you just work on being happy with yourself, instead of trying to logic desperation. ATTRACTION CANNOT BE NEGOTIATED. Go read the redpill you freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:15 PM
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I wish the inkwell subs hadn't been banned. Legit. Then those freaks could of stayed in their own place instead of polluting everywhere else.. But nah, its better they infect everywhere else, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:11 PM
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Hope your OK bro. That sounds bloody revolting. There should be laws against this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:10 PM
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(And you know what’s funny? Even those guys fail more than you think) Why is that funny or wierd. Do you honestly think that men don't get rejected and learn to deal with it. Do you honestly think guys are born naturally charasmatic. The only way to get good at anything is by failing. Oh I forgot, this is PPD, leaving the basement probably sounds strange to most of the freaks on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:07 PM
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Pull O clock was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:34 PM
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Who cares, go make a move. You know what they say "The guy who is stuck in his head, will not be getting any head". Stop over analysing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:29 PM
2

Didn't you know, if your good looking, you just stand there and do nothing. Hell you don't even leave the house. I miss the days, when people understood that dating advice was not meant for hideous guys. It was great when anything said did not need to have "Unless your ugly" pointed out. Like no shit bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:27 PM
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Yeah and.... You can do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:03 PM
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Your married right, why do you care your life on these RP guys tell you? I could probably go on a feminist sub, and get told advice like I should neuter myself, kill myself, etc. But you know what, I don't care what some feminist thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:56 AM
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I meant, like single women, looking for STR/LTR/FWBs, are they still going for the same types of dude, or are loveless virgins now the rage. Until that happens.... nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:45 AM
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What is this garbage. How do these videos help anyone do anything. Look attraction, rapport, lust, oral fixation, horniness etc are all states in a persons mind. If they have experienced them before, they can experience them again. Things like "Love" do not happen a person does it to themselves. All my advice is, is stop worrying if "emotions are like water", and learn to induce these states in a woman. Once you can trigger these states, your winning. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:43 AM
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I guess it depends what you use the RP for. Like it states "Take what works, reject what dosn't". I'm not interested in men, mens behaviour, how men behave in relationships. To me at least, its just for navigating the SMP and RMP, so yeah.... what men do and don't do in relationships.... thats a woman problem and for them to find a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:33 AM
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Why are women not shaming these men, instead of sleeping with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:26 AM
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Saying "I want a skinny chick" or "I don't date landwhales" ultimately is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:17 AM
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Are redpill men looking to date and marry men. If I am looking to get with a woman, how does a mans chance of infidelity even apply. Key not TRP is the RED pill, not the RAINBOW pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:16 AM
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Not who you replied to. I don't trust collaborations, sooner or later someone lets you down. Like the saying goes, if you want something doing, do it yourself. Relying on other people instead of being independent and self reliant has always led to dissapointment and resentment in my case. Also, expecting other people to take care of my shit, just sounds like entitlement to me. Its pathetic. If a man can't handle his own shit, well...... we used to chuck those useless sacks off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:08 AM
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What did he fail at. Yeah he is a c**t, but what did he actually fail it. His biological purpose was achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:50 AM
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What does it matter what women do? This is about you getting what you claim to want, not some weird competition. What is this harsh reality you are on about. If I want to get something in life, I have to work at it and it isn't handed to me a silver plate. Soz mate, I wasn't bought up in a rich privileged family with servents, thats just the normal for me. As for giving a f**k about my health and fitness, saving money, wearing clothes and having interests. Well to me thats just normal, regardles…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:31 AM
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