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| 10 | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue? | Question For Men | Acrobatic_Mention677 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:05 PM |
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| 1 | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeWell yes , that’s how humans work . Women aren’t an exception. From early on, i realized men had other ways of gaining social status. For example, remember in middle school when a new guy transferred and he got a lot of attention due to him being conventionally attractive. At the same time, boys could gain similar attention or respect by their personality. The class clowns were majority men and they did not have to meet a certain beauty standard. Girls didn’t have that same flexibility. Most gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 09:42 PM |
| -11 | "We call for women and girls to be placed at the center of rescue efforts", UN Women saysI want to give a first hand experience…kinda. I’m Haitian. After the earthquake, they noticed women , children and elderly weren’t being fed and given aid at the same rate as men. A middle aged man is more stronger than all of the three people i mentioned. So … because these men were starving..they’d push and shove their way through leaving scraps for the rest. However, women (especially in developing countries) are seen as the first caretakers. Whenever a women was given food rations, she’d be … | /r/MensRights | 28/06/26 06:03 AM |
| 6 | Some women are avoiding relationships because of social anxietyI’m clinically diagnosed with anxiety. Doctor gave me lexapro . It helped my social anxiety but killed my libido and sexual attraction to men😭 tmi. But if she can’t answer a simple phone call, i think this might be something deeper. Have tried talking to a professional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Some women are avoiding relationships because of social anxietyOk now goal post has been moved. I agree. I also saw a bunch of women calling this out. Yes, we’ve made a ton of progress since the 60’s but ppl often forget that patriarchy is ingrained in us, our parents and grandparents. Let’s say she’s actually depressed. Clinically diagnosed..hoping another human being that can leave at any moment will cure her is self sabotage and manipulative. This can end badly. Now if she meant it as a “I’m sad ..I wanna kiss someone hehe” way then 🤷♀️. I think you’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Some women are avoiding relationships because of social anxiety“ A lot of the discourse I read online talks about how single women are decentreing men. The funny thing is I’ve spent most my life in women spaces and women algorithms and all the single women ever do is talk about men.” Well duh lol that’s why they’re de entering men. “not just threats to physical safety but nervousness about being seen, intimacy.” Teachers are reporting that most students no matter the gender are antisocial post covid. Especially if they were on lockdown during their preteen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:28 AM |
| 0 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.“Men crying=good” is such an overly simplistic statement. Being emotionally available is more of a better point imo. And I kind of lose hope..feminism doesn’t have the best PR. From my experience, men listen to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Chivalry is a submissive act.Right. Historically , chivalry is sexist because men assumed women weren’t capable of simple acts. It was also classist .. .. knights were only chivalrous to royal women. Poor men couldn’t be chivalrous and poor women weren’t shown chivalry . So yeah it just depends on the mindset behind it. It’s also extremely contradictory because those same men in the 50’s who were extremely “chivalrous “ thought women weren’t capable of holding a door but were capable of getting beat so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Those men can’t (not even for a second) view women as human beings. So their reaction is “damn she bad” …ignoring her character , personality and ability to be a bad person. Another example, remember the J.P. Morgan incident…. Yeah ew. It’s just dih dih dih dih dih with these guys 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Ok great, a worker in a sweat shop is -reduced to a role - Not treated like a human being with autonomy - not given basic human rights - not seen as an individual I’m not saying objectification is the ONLY reason for this .. I’m saying it has a role to play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Exactly! It’s placing another human beings into a box..then label certain traits onto said box, limiting them. Society places women into a certain box. This is something I see mostly men say..but when a female teacher gets caught for being a pred..the comments are “I wish she was my teacher “ or calling the boy “lucky” they don’t view her as a predatory, manipulative or a harmful human. Female predators are often seen as acting outside of what people expect a woman “should” be. Because of that, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?How’d you get to that conclusion. It sounds like your bringing up irrational beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Would you agree that men are more physical than women. And would you agree that women prioritize other traits over looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?It sounds like you have a very narrow understanding of what objectification is. The definition: the act of treating a person, group, or even a concept as a mere object or thing. It strips away a person's humanity, agency, and feelings, reducing them to an instrument, a commodity, or a tool. So it’s not simple as comparing them to an “object”. That’s just a metaphor. A pencil is an object, a pencil has no soul , it can’t speak , it can’t eat. It has no say or autonomy. I can throw it away and I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?I don’t play that game so I’m responding to the overall comment. It’s realistic to say women are more sexually objectified than men. It’s something that everyone just knows so I’m not even sure how to debate this. Women’s values are more about their looks Men’s value are aswell but money and status is deemed more important. That’s why women don’t gaf about a man’s looks if he’s rich. When men get rich they get a stereotypically more attractive girlfriend. Compare rappers girlfriends before and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?I don’t think they will ever speak out of the objectification of women. Patriarchy hurts both genders but not equally. They still have the upper hand here. And even if they do agree with that statement , they’ll just tweak it so it places as much blame on women. And I agree.. it’s entitlement. And easier answer would be to not uphold patriarchal extremes for yourself and others also therapy 🫣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Objectification isn’t only sexual. It’s just what anti feminists blew up because they view this as being anti men. Objectification is removing someone’s personhood. Historically men have been able to be more independent and seen as more human. They weren’t tied to another person. Compared to women and children who were seen as property to their husbands. I don’t see how that’s hard to comprehend. It’s not mean saying men bad women good. It’s history and many people are trying to unlearn these vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Correct. Just because I use feminist buzzwords doesn’t automatically mean it’s incorrect. There are also topics I agree with on “the other side.” Also, objectification of women isn’t only “sexual”. The objectification of women is part of why male victims of assault are often treated differently. Now, I will admit that sexual assault and sexual harassment are not taken as seriously as they should be, and female victims are also frequently mistreated. Sentencing for these crimes is often unusually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:17 PM |
| – | Men going their own way is not the answer against feminism.Ouuuu you chew on deer ankles? Ik you were nasty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:12 PM |
| – | Men going their own way is not the answer against feminism.The way he’s writing as if he’s trying to tame a rabid animal is so funny “Grrr im a feminist grrrrr” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:30 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?So all the men in the comments are delusional ? Regarding offline, there’s a reason why redpill YouTubers are extremely popular. They’ve push this narrative of always blaming women and not holding harassers accountable. Before meeting my boyfriend, I’d check if the men interacted with rp content, majority did and I broke it off. Even divorce lawyers reporting that redpill viewership is an upcoming trend they’ve seen. Let’s not pretend this doesn’t exist irl. Also you criticizing the me too movem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:31 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?checks notes the women are saying to leave them alone and stop being a weirdo. Who said anything about “nice guys”😂 Omg yall just make fanfics up in your head 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:18 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Historically we’ve only been entitled to your wallet. I love the twink sassy side of you 😍 period girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:09 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?So you’re saying even if men understood this issue and made it their mission to voice their concerns..nothing would change? Then how do we explain the change we’ve made from 1926 to 2026? (Educating our youth played a big role) Including every other social issue? Of course I don’t expect this change to happen overnight or the average man to become an sjw. It’s an irrational way of thinking. The more the conversation is about women’s reaction..the more you make women feel uncomfortable and unsafe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:07 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Ok I’ll call the cops and you can call a psychiatric facility . Deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 06:54 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?I don’t go to clubs ..can’t drink yet. I don’t want to make a wild generalization here but I don’t think that’s where you’d want to meet your partner…. Also i wouldn’t want to get bill cosbied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 06:49 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?I’m speaking on men having this view. So you’re saying these men are delusional in their belief? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 06:45 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Everything you stated was valid but still missing my point. Lemme use pictures. Men when other men harass women:🤐 Men when women have a valid response to the constant harassment:🤬 The main reason women reacted this way is because we don’t feel safe..and we don’t know who’s good or bad. So we have to walk on eggshells with everyone. Also, I’d like to point out..even when harassment , rape or murder does happen.. sometimes blame gets placed on the woman. Ive grew up in Sunday school. I thought men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 06:43 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Reread what you said and put your thinking cap on. Reread it slowly. Slowly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeYou’re getting ahead of yourself pal. On paper women don’t need men because we have rights. That’s another conversation that gets all technical and such | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeI made a post about this. And explained further. I mentioned most men underestimate the amount of harassment women face . It’s not a 1 bad Apple situation bud. It’s a reoccurring problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:54 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?So again, just for my notes, you want us to care more about your feelings being hurt than gender based violence against women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:42 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Wdym by that. Yes statistics matter. Just ask any woman in your life, she has a story. And oop to clarify, sometimes I run away and act like I don’t hear them lol😅 if I feel something is off. Or I’ll pretend I’m on a call. another thing, men don’t take verbal rejection well.. and that can actually set them off more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:40 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?So once again, we should care more about ur hurt feelings over her safety? Is that a yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:27 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Don’t deflect. Stay on topic. Are you attempting to egg on a male vs blk debate. Because we can simply look at history and stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeI don’t know if that’s sarcasm or not. I’m so confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:20 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Dude it’s like I’m talking to 5 year olds one guy legit wants me to care more about women hurting his feelings over the possibility of women dying . I gatta gentle parent these guys 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:18 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Brother. I explained it very clearly. Women face bad bad men. Next day, women face bad bad men again Then again Women scared of bad bad men Women treat good good men like bad bad men on accident:( Women protect self. That’s it, and sorry but I’m not going to prioritize your feelings over my safety. If you really hate this reaction from woman then speak out against bad bad men. I mean if you TRULY hated this you’d see the real issue here and it’s not women being a meanie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:15 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?“Normies” yeah bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:08 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?First off thank you for being kind and understanding. Men are allowed to feel this way, frustrated with finding it difficult. I’m calling out the double standard that only women’s actions and feelings are being critiqued. Again, don’t expect you guys to be Batman. The men who complain usually don’t speak out against the weirdos and that’s what I’ve realized. Maybe you have a different perspective. In general, men don’t really hold other men accountable for their inappropriate behavior before the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:07 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?It’s not a slippery slope. Because history matters…context matters .. I feel like people aren’t seeing the full picture and empathizing. I’ve learned many men underestimate the amount of harassment women face. Also, I value my safety over a man’s ego. Worst case scenario, he’s an actual violent person. Best case scenario, he’s …not. I don’t gamble but that’s a dumb risk to take. If the worst outcome is death..yeah I’m gunna take that more seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:52 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?I mentioned the idea of warm approaches, this was directed to the men who skip over the context and go straight to criticizing women. If you truly understood and emphasized with women then you’d view our reaction EVEN to the warm approaches as less of an issue. I thought we all agreed on how we as humans solve conflicts is to find the main problem. Imagine being me, dealing with all that chaos and seeing multiple guys complain about women being stand offish even if they mean no harm…yet ignoring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:43 PM |
| -2 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeAlso , women don’t owe you their time. No stranger does. Plus you’re in your 30’s bro, most ppl are taken. To add, majority of the times we’re being approached, it’s not a kind and respectful interaction. So maybe start calling guys out for their inappropriate behavior and we won’t have a wall up when a good guy approaches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:57 PM |
| -3 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeIt was easier back then because that’s what was the social norm. Also, women didn’t have rights so we NEEDED men. Now we don’t, and I don’t say it in an insulting manner..we genuinely don’t need men to live a normal life. Now the playing field is even and men’s value has decreased. You guys are also expected of traits you wernt warned about like being a decent normal human with emotions. Men aren’t just work robots with money trees inside their pockets anymore. Emotional intimacy is expected now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:54 PM |
| 4 | If a Straight Men's Attitudes Towards Other Men Were Like Most Women's Attitudes Towards Other Women, People Would Conclude the Man is Gay (or Bisexual)Wow you’re really smart and summed up pretty much everything I was about to say. As a feminist, you sound exactly like one. But it’s genuinely so funny you’re denying it to be misogyny😂. When speaking about these topics, don’t view it as a personal /individual attack (on men). It’s a system and women aren’t immune to this thinking aswell. Men lack physical and emotional intimacy in their relationships with their friends. Those two are viewed as feminine. And you can’t claim men adapted when hist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:33 PM |
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