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Depends who's telling me. My loved ones, the women and those whom I respect in my life, who have told me to "Man Up", have only used it on rare occasion, and at those times I honestly needed it, a further encouragement and appeal to my pride to accomplish whatever task was ahead. When rarely used by those who love and respect me, it's a good thing to hear and has a productive, positive effect on me. Anyone else, man or woman, outside of my circle who attempts such an appeal I scoff at.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 11:11 AM
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Always a big fan of your posts. Where did that "75% violin" number come from? Not doubting it, but you do a wonderful job of citing your sources in your posts, and I didn't notice one for that. Keep up with the posts, mate.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 11:05 AM
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Thanks for the share. Discussing the nuance of such terrible situations is important. I'm sorry she did that to you, mate.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:32 PM
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Had this happen to a shipmate of mine awhile back: started dating this girl he really liked, who was allegedly very "modern and liberal" in her views, didn't want children. Next thing you know, they have sex, she gets pregnant and tells him he wants to keep it. We kinda all laughed about it at the time (cuz he was a dumb-ass), but, looking back, I realize how messed up the whole thing was. He did the honorable thing and married her (im old-school, feel free to downvote), and they had kids, but i…
/r/MensRights14/03/23 03:23 PM
2

Thanks for sharing that article, it was well-written and thoroughly sourced. The fact that women in more "gender-equal" countries face higher gaps of anxiety and depression than men is fascinating (and yet, I'm somehow not surprised).
/r/MensRights11/03/23 06:40 PM
24

I'm not sure, but they don't seem eager to take the mantle of basic infrastructure, as we have. A whole lotta bold talk considering their entire way of life would collapse within days of us not being there.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 11:59 AM
1

Pointing out the elephant in the room: Modern feminism and globalization were both propagated and pushed by the same group of people.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 01:47 AM
0

And which group of people heavily pushed modern feminism into the mainstream, politically and academically?
/r/MensRights30/12/22 05:10 AM
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Dude had it coming. Megan didn't even press the charges against him (she didn't want anymore to do with him, nor did she want to snitch), the state of California did. He shot someone and made himself a danger to those around him, nuff said.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:52 PM
12

Feminists: "Sexual assault is a major issue." Fair enough, here's an awkward-but-viable solution. Feminists: "Eww, gross, won't sign, creep."
/r/MensRights27/12/22 05:31 PM
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Not underneath the gaze and patronizing encouragement of feminism: I love a good musical. My favorites are Hairspray and Fiddler On The Roof. Also, those tiny saucers and cups they serve espresso in. I don't drink coffee and that family of drinks, but I'll odder espresso shots just to hold that lil cup and saucer. Friggin' adorable.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 12:06 AM
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Damn, I just realized that, had to take a look at it a second time. No soldiers. That's insane. Has to be intentional.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 05:20 PM
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He makes a good point about physical attraction being the first, key necessity. I guess my question is, if we're being totally honest, does it go both ways? Me personally, if a woman fits my "list" of what I'm looking for, she's good for me; physical attraction is part of that, but it's secondary to what she brings to the relationship. But I think a lot of men (and I could be wrong, just speaking anecdotally) need that physical attraction as a prerequisite.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:47 AM
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Godspeed, internet warrior.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 02:11 PM
1

"Gas lighting" is the verbal equivalent of a "red herring", and it's a legitimate logical fallacy. People do throw it around too much, you're right. Whenever someone's gas lighting me, I stop them and bring the conversation back to the topic at hand before it's derailed in their favor, and if I'm ever accused of it, I ask the person to elaborate where and how I pivoted in the conversation. It's a tactic people (women in particular) use a lot as a way to draw comparisons to other situations in th…
/r/MensRights06/11/22 11:53 AM
4

A lucky man.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 06:23 PM
6

I don't identify exactly as an MRA (too many differences in ideology), but I like this subreddit and hear what folks gotta say. Yes, I'm a risk-taker: sometimes it's gotten me jail, and other times it's given me Life, Liberty and The Pursuit of Happiness.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:04 PM
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You seem like a decent guy. Remember that about yourself, know your worth and best of luck, mate. 🤙
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:31 PM
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Abso-fahkin'-lutely, mate. Mutual respect and communication are key; my woman knows what's acceptable and what isn't in our relationship, because we talk a whole lot (she's my best friend, too), and she makes clear what she isn't comfortable with as well. We love each other, talk together and respect one another. If you find yourself with a partner whom you either don't feel comfortable bringing up boundaries with, or they reject them, you gotta get outta there.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:27 PM
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Hold yourself well and get a misanthropic woman. My girl hates people, period.; she gets hit on a good amount when out on her own, but she hates it, she just wants to be left alone. Get a gal whose the opposite of gregarious. If you hold yourself well and exhume confidence and conviction, most women will respect it and not look for others.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:18 PM
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Her supervisors shouldn't be telling her this, and her co-workers shouldn't be distracted, but it's not harassment.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 05:22 PM
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I think you read a bit too much into the pilot episode of Living Single; it's actually a great show (what "Friends" ripped off of) and the two main male characters are well-written.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:09 PM
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I agree, homophobia has no place here. Their struggles are our struggles. I would note, however, that a good amount of gay men are supported and accepted by feminists with open arms, which tends to make them fall back on it, causing derision.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:28 PM
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I know I'm in the minority 'round here, but yeah, I think it's a thing. Is it the omnipotent social structure feminism claims it to be? No, but it has had adverse effects on men - to an extent - on a social and personal level. It isn't the explanation for all our problems, though. Same thing with toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:57 AM
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Ah, yes, because I accidentally have sex with people.
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 09:28 PM
22

I do like how this video shows women who have more realistic and appreciative standards; it's not just editing them out to push a narrative. Also, shout-out to the woman who called herself a "gold-digger" I respect blatant honesty.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 08:44 PM
21

Well, time to go jizz on a wall, I guess.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 06:14 PM
8

...sooooo close.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 05:48 PM
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Wait until she hears the numbers regarding protesters locked up or killed in Iran by gender. For a feminist cause.
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/22 11:34 AM
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I wouldn't post on there. Like many a sub, they aren't as liberal with free-speech as this one, so if you post anything "in bad faith" or to debate, just a whiff of that will get you banned. Why start a conversation somewhere it'll never be allowed to finish?
/r/MensRights08/10/22 10:20 AM
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Oh, and stop pursuing the "Manic Pixie Dream Girl", it ain't worth it.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 10:47 PM
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I don't lnow a solution on a sociological level, but on a personal one, what's really helped me is having a standard of self-dignity and being open to women outside of one's race. I've seen a lot of young men not carry themselves right, and end up with partners who treat them wrong. This in turn makes them more resentful and suspicious of future partners. If a man has principles and absolute do and do nots coming into a relationship, it shows self-respect which is very attractive. Don't tolerate…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 10:42 PM
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Stats. And when they blame men, call them out on victim-shaming.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 04:38 PM
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sees post can't accept a common notion because she thinks it's an attack on feminism, twists the spirit of said post to make it about herself. Typical. Also, username checks out.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:59 AM
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Didn't know that subreddit was a thing, thanks for the exposure. Good job doing what you did, and I hope the sub takes off.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 01:10 PM
4

A tad bit truculent, but I agree.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 04:44 PM
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I'm glad it's equal, but wouldn't it be more of a victory if they lessened the retirement age of men to the same as women? Just seems like more of a win for government and business than for us.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 04:02 PM
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Troll.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:58 AM
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Funny title but a good read.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 12:19 PM
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See, I agree with all this, but I always feel posts like these are fronts to weaken men. These traits do need to be instilled in boys and men, but also traits like confidence, accountability, responsibility, self-control and bravery. There is still a place for traditional masculinity in this world, perhaps now more than ever.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 12:36 PM
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Ah, yes, the ancient nemesis: Accountability For One's Actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/22 10:33 AM
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You already know which sub this gem came outta.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/22 09:41 AM
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It's because they want to create a safe space, which, while commendable, their way of curating them tends to lead to over-protective echo chambers. With this sub, it's more of a forum; your opinion may be challenged, your opinion may be downvoted to Kingdom Come, but all are welcome, as long as we're respectful to one another. We even tolerate trolls and brigadiers. We welcome discussion and push-back, which is a very light form of confrontation. These other subs do not want any such "confrontat…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:49 PM
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This. As a guy from New England, it's mostly white liberal women who prop up this sorta casual misandry. Living down South now, interacting more with Black women (one of whom is my girlfriend), there's a lot less of that nonsense.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:00 PM
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Almost all my girlfriends I've had have been older women (I'm attracted to them), and I haven't seen much of a tie between the older-woman+younger-man relationship and feminism. I don't think feminism has anything to do with that combo. What I will say is that older woman tend to leave politics and their political views outside of the household. They're either exhausted from it and don't want to deal with it at home (which, regardless of gender, most folks don't) or they realize it has nothing t…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:15 PM
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And just outta curiosity, how many men are currently incarcerated?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/22 11:42 AM
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It definitely seemed like a bit of a jump to conclusions. If they got off at the same stop, then I'd be concerned, but the video doesn't say whether or not that happened (or, whether or not the guy filming even walked the woman home altogether). Still, shout-out for them him having Jelly Roll in the background, one of my favorite artists.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:16 PM
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I especially liked that line about how "women are just more compassionate and empathetic" than men.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:26 AM
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Read some of the responses. The leap of logic that "Hey, I just want peace of mind, make sure everything's good to go %100 before I commit to raising a child, because that's what any responsible parent should want to do" equals "I don't trust you, you totally cheated on me, I'm trying to sabotage this relationship" is astounding.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:47 PM
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You made some good points, but... calm down, dude. Also, ad hominem attacks aren't the way to go, that's their tactic.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:16 PM
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Well, we got 4chan, but it's... not pretty.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 02:46 AM
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I've noticed that, too: women almost magically being able to beat guys much bigger than them up. In reality, the average woman physically is at a significant physical disadvantage to the average man. Even if they're some super martial artist and the guy isn't, chances are, the guy will still win. It works for super-heroines (because, super-powers), but not for most action movies set in the real world. It's repetitive, not set in reality and could give younger women the dangerous idea that they c…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 08:56 PM
9

Haters gonna hate 😎
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:00 PM
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"It's called "The Red Pill", and it's available for free on Amazon Prime. Good documentary.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 03:39 PM
1

Basically, he gave an argument about how men need help with porn addiction, and women tell them to suck it up. Then, he gave an argument about how women need help after rape, and that men tell them to suck it up, as if to equate the two issues (struggles with porn for men = struggles to getting raped as a woman). It was... not well thought out.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 02:47 AM
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... ok, there are some double-standards, but I think it's a bit extreme to compare porn-viewing to rape.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 02:37 AM
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It's cuz we don't need to cope
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:22 PM
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I really enjoyed it: it was a unique concept, beautifully shot and Predator's more primitive design was refreshing. Plus, awesome action sequences. I wouldn't say it was that woke: historically, French fur trappers and Native folks had a rocky relationship and it even shows some of the Native guys being douchebags. This movie just so happens to take the perspective of one of the sides. It's absolutely unrealistic what the girl-protagonist was doing, and I think it sends a potentially dangerous m…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:03 PM
3

Are we in AHS's sights yet?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 12:58 PM
1

Meh, ain't no point in proving facts that both sides already know.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 04:55 AM
3

Isn't violence agressive-agressive??
/r/MensRights01/08/22 04:46 AM
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On feminist subreddits, you can get an autoban just from following certain subreddits, without having ever even commented on a post. There are also ones that forbid men from posting and/or commenting. On this subreddit, you can get downvoted and dogpiled to Kingdom Come (as I have, and will continue to do), but you don't get banned. Open forum. That's the difference.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 06:18 PM
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Ionno; I've been downvoted and dogpiled on this sub, but never banned. However, I've been banned on feminist subs without even commenting on them, just autobanned for joining other subs. It's a wild west on this sub, but at least it's allowed to be so.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:04 PM
3

^ dis here.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:15 PM
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Mansplaining can be a real thing. Best thing to combat it is simply ask the person if they know what it is, then explain it (or not, if they've answered in an affirmative manner).
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:26 AM
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I mean, it's messed up, but at the same time, he coulda fought back, resisted in a peaceful but firm way, and never did. Why is he crying if he could have done more? He's a man; you can say "no", and be firm about it. Unless she's Rhonda Rowsey, none of this would've happened without some consent.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:23 AM
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I just finished watching her documentary "The Red Pill" (streaming for free on Amazon Prime, if you're interested). Incredibly well-done, sensitive, articulate and took both sides into consideration. A well-made documentary.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:55 PM
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Honestly, anyone who says this, my respect for their opinion is so low already I don't even care.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:44 PM
1

"I Think It's Funny How" = I.T.I.F.H = itifh, if you will.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:30 AM
0

So I've heard, but if it's a pleasure I'll never experience anyways, what's the point? To dwell on it? Sex still feels great, I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 09:26 PM
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Nothing; it's healthy, has no down sides and, for me personally, a covenant with God. I'm glad I was given one. NOW COME DOWNVOTE AND DOGPILE ME, YOU BAHSTIDS!!!
/r/MensRights05/07/22 01:37 PM
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Yeah, don't see much of an issue, although it is pretty bad for the dad to try and give the kid back, that ain't right. Still, at least she still had the right to an abortion; she wasn't obligated to give birth, she just went with what he wanted. He wouldn't have such a choice.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 02:07 AM
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The fuck did I just read? How did she go from Roe V. Wade to pedophilia so fast!? The woman should be a Formula 1 driver!
/r/MensRights26/06/22 06:15 PM
0

I've said this same sentiment before and it's true: the only thing a man likes stroked more than his dick is his ego.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 12:00 PM
7

"The Godfather".
/r/MensRights25/06/22 10:39 PM
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Great reference.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:54 AM
2

I've visited them. Oddly enough, they make some good points sometimes I agree with, just for different reasons. Their followers also do a good job posting sources for their takes.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:36 AM
3

The transfolks you meet in real life are different than the ones on the internet. I don't care about the internet folks, it's the real ones who count, and my experience with actual transfolks has been nothing but positive.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 09:54 PM
6

You gotta respond, man up and at least talk to her. You don't know what the situation is, and you'll keep feeling anxious if you don't respond to her. Best of luck, mate.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 09:51 PM
5

I don't care about downvotes, trust me, while this is an inequality, you do not want more women in the military.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 02:58 AM
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Stay for your daughter. You may not want to live for yourself, no judgement, but live for her.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 02:45 AM
7

GIVE US BRUCE CAMPBELL, DAMMIT
/r/MensRights15/06/22 10:52 AM
2

I got one incident that sticks out, to this day. I was a professional mover (pick things up, put them down) 7 years ago. Our company has a job with this ladies clothing company, and they send in someone to logistically guide the installment of that franchise. She was focused, polite and very sweet, and, I'll admit, sometimes I can be flirtatious without even realizing I am. Anywho, we would make little jokes and flirt some, getting along fine, but she soon started to stand a little close to me, …
/r/MensRights21/05/22 04:38 AM
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Ionno if it's possible to pin the comment to a post, but if not, you should make this here a post so that it can. Well done, sir!
/r/MensRights07/05/22 12:05 AM
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Bruh, not all of us are against it.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:57 AM
51

I'm not sure folks should be outright invited to this sub, but if they wanna come, let them come. Discourse and debate should be welcome. If it's trolls, folks should know better than to engage. We are better than other subs that auto-ban based on what subs one follows and those that ban based on slight critique to the hive-mind, and we need to continue to be so.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 07:37 PM
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This. Too many of us are too opportunistic and desperate when it comes to the chance of attraction and sex. A lot of us need standards and dignity.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 10:41 PM
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Same; I ve also been automatically banned, sometimes without even making a comment. I'm glad this sub hasn't given into auto-censorship, and also hope they keep it that way.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:27 AM
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It's social media, so it's gonna be female-dominated and influenced. Moms getting more praise on such sites is the same as any other women: they'll get showered with updoots and compliments for just being in a picture, while a man has to post an accomplishment and will be lucky for a tenth of the likes. Just remember, it's nice, but the validation of others isn't necessary for a man.
/r/MensRights16/04/22 02:16 AM
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"Pro-circumcision" guy here. I don't think that's the best comparison; if finger-tip chopping had thousands of years of tradition and was recommended by proven and reliable health organizations, you could have an argument. But they're not the same (neither are they even similar as body parts). This study does a good job examining how neonatal circumcision doesn't lead to psychological trauma. And this article does a good job relaying the pros and cons from both sides of the argument Plus, for me…
/r/MensRights13/04/22 04:36 PM
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That's a big difference between these subs and this one: bans (automatic or otherwise) and removed comments. The mods of this sub are ok with different opinions, even if they're out of bad faith. Sure, your comment may get downvoted to Hell (mine have, and prolly will in the future), but neither it nor you will be removed. I understand carving out spaces for specific types of people, but refusal to allow critique and question will lead to bad juju down the road.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 04:00 PM
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I mean, not being under the Russian regime is compensation enough, I reckon, but I see your point. I like the idea of giving them some land, it's one of the best ways to accrue wealth, and they earned it.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 02:31 PM
-59

Women can't rape.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 10:08 AM
42

Yeah, when you grow up into a man, people perceive you as a potential threat. Ironically, to combat that, you should smile more.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 12:57 AM
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That'd be fun, although space is being fought over tooth and nail and folks would come after it. If we were to do it, we'd have to have a succinct, simple design and put it up, all of us, at the same time.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:52 AM
-3

I see a lot of guys here who disagree with the notion of "women and children first", and to be honest, it's alien. Maybe I don't understand, maybe I'm just old-school. Not bashing, just curious about this new mindset a lot of yall have: Do we not as a society respect more those men who put others ahead of themselves? Do we not see those who don't as cowardly? Do folks here not hold onto the principles of chivalry, to look out for those who would struggle more to survive or defend themselves (nam…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 03:58 PM
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Son, I understand your frustration and your desire to talk about your beliefs, but a man knows when to play his cards and when to hold them. Sometimes the best thing to do is to simply walk away from a conversation. Keep your composure, especially when others don't; remain cool, calm and collected. Someday you'll be around folks who get it, but you won't find them in school. Give it time.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 10:30 PM
2

Same. I actually respect NPR as a news source (though they can be a bit too mainstream liberal at times), but they let this writer just go off the rails.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 09:53 PM
6

I read the article, which is a horror in and of itself. The further you read it, the worse it gets. WTF, NPR.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:05 PM
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Don't sacrifice your goals and accomplishments just because you might disagree with someone who you got to go through. In life, you gotta put up with folks sometimes in order to achieve what you want. It takes a lot of hard work to get where you are now, and the finish line is in sight; don't let it all be for nothing.
/r/MensRights12/03/22 12:40 AM
0

I agree; I was raised in traditional gender roles, my woman and I practise them, and in the end, each serves their purpose. I'm in favor of them.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 03:35 AM
13

Our accomplishments as men in terms of contribution to civilizations across the world (history, commerce, medicine, religion, etc.) are ubiquitous. A downside to that, however, is that history written by men and society predominantly ruled my men can downplay or ignore the contributions of women and the problems they face today. Women's Day is just a day to say "hey, check this shit out", that's all. Nothing to get worked up about.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:23 PM
0

Aye, maybe each gender has their own roles and duties, because they're all different (not even talking from a binary perspective). Perhaps men need to put themselves on the frontline, so, if need be, it's women who make up the country afterwards.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:39 PM
-5

Veteran here. It sucks, but a draft is necessary for a country to remain strong. Also, please don't send women, they are terrible on deployments.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 01:27 PM
6

...what the FUCK!?!?
/r/MensRights07/02/22 01:36 PM
-17

Aye, but men are the majority of perpetrators, no?? Not trying to get downvoted, just saying, if we as men are to be rational, we got to realize we got some work to do amongst ourselves.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 04:17 AM
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I hate this topic. On a scientific perspective, it is healthy. Simple as. It is a physical covenant with God (and I ain't even Jewish). Stop having a problem with circumcision and/or don't compare it to female genital mutilation, they are not the same.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 04:11 AM
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