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| 1 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?When you’ve done enough you don’t even care or remember. Yeah sometimes it’s awkward like yesterday at the beach where two back packers kind of ignored me and kept walking but I always feel better knowing I did it rather than the What If…you also know regardless of outcome that you’re doing what most men can’t which is a reward in and of itself | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 12:07 AM |
| 5 | How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspectiveYeah I get what you’re saying…and I usually just leave them with a compliment and go on. Every situation and person is different but I usually don’t approach a person alone at night for that reason. I don’t want to freak them out lol | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:52 AM |
| 6 | How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspectiveI usually call out the awkwardness of the situation to acknowledge their concerns if I feel like they’re uncomfortable. It shows you have some sort of social awareness | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 12:01 AM |
| 0 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?From personal experience my brother is 6 ft 2 and relatively jacked when he’s consistent with his bulk. He’s got like a swimmers build Atleast when he’s wearing a shirt. He’s 26 and reasonably good looking. We do heaps of cold approaches and although he’s confident something seems to be off. I’m sure it helps but from the amount of cold approaches he’s done people are always surprised he doesn’t have a girlfriend or getting laid often. So I can’t say how much of an impact it does or doesn’t make… | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?Similar situation to brother. I’m 32 and when I broke up with ex of 5-7 years I went out day gaming again. Nearly 10 months of nothing…went to Europe and in 3 weeks of semi cold approaching got laid. Maybe society has changed some what due to online dating (I’m from Australia) | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Need Advice on Moving Forward with a Flaky 10Why waste your time with all that texting and phone calls. Just get straight to the point and re schedule. If they’re not down on to the next | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Fell for my summer fling but she doesn’t want long distance.Depends on the girl bro…I met a girl from Germany and we ended up dating for 5 years. Half the time was long distance but half the time we travelled and lived together. If she’s alright banging other dudes it shows she’s not attached to you and honestly if you want a proper girlfriend material that’s not the type of chick you want. You want them to be obsessed over you and not wanting to lose you. The quicker you stop texting her you can let go and get other girls. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | How many failed cold approaches do you guys go through before shit works100s not for the faint hearted | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Trip to Poland. Any advice?Personally I didn’t like krakow…way too touristy and it felt like because of this most locals had their defences up for cold approaches. Some were receptive some weren’t. The main square was full of club promoters etc and drunk loud foreigners. You definitely have a better reception in the non touristy towns. Polish people in general seen slightly cold but I guess that’s a Slav thing. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 07:25 PM |
| 0 | How is it possible ?What I Can say is this…I’m not a pro but 7 years ago I got into cold approaching hard. Got a few hook ups and ended up with a LTR for 5 years. Once we broke up I dedicated weekends etc to cold approaching and no results in a year im Australia where in from. Went to Europe and within 3 weeks I got laid from a cold approach on a bus. Not sure if it has to do with society now days but with online dating etc it might have some affect on it. | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Watch people like Deepak Wayne. He’s Indian and lived in Europe. He’s bald has an Indian accent but what I like about him is he’s an average looking guy but pushes interactions hard. Most of his videos now of him coaching students but his old videos you can see how always goes for same day lays. A number is a last resort. Even the sets that burn down he will show you. I always watch the ugly PUA’s because their skills have to compensate for their lack of looks. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Wingman in sofia (bulgaria)Hey bro me and my brother are flying to Europe today from Australia. We will be in Sophia probably close to October for a week. Happy to link up and game…our euro trip is basically to conquer and pillage haha (slightly joking). | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueMost people won’t understand the numbers thing unless they’ve truly done the numbers. Your success rate sounds spot on in my experience to | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | It's okay for a man to cry?When I found out my dog died (was living with the ex gf in Germany at the time) got out of bed, went to the basement and sobbed. Punched a few things down there, came back up stairs. Sure I was sad and depressed but I never cried in-front of her. Even when we broke up after 5 years I never cried…maybe teary eyed but that’s just me. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How much action is needed to get results in daygameWith the results you claim you have you should be ranked the best dating coach in the world. You should show some proof of the numbers you claim you achieve especially because you are a dating coach. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How much action is needed to get results in daygameHow can you call yourself a dating coach if talking to 80 woman a month sounds like torture. I can tell you’re not a real coach because the numbers you’re throwing out are not based on reality and maybe if you were an out outlier but if you’re actually a coach you would know that cold approaching is harder than any other form of pick up | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How much action is needed to get results in daygameBS…let assume you’re approaching attractive girls. Half probably have a boyfriend and the others have some orbiters around etc. I’d assume some won’t like you regardless. The numbers I’ve read are 1% conversion rate maybe a bit more. It corroborates with my personal experience also | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.I ended up dating my ideal girl for 5 years because of the mindset. It only Takes one win to make the experience worth it. The other option is to become a victim of circumstance. I also enjoy the interactions and when I feel burnt out I take a week or two off. Mind you I’ve been lucky enough to convince my friends and brothers to approach also so I feed off their energy. | /r/seduction | 21/06/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.Honestly I don’t care about IOIs. I’ve had girls constantly look my way at bars or in public only to go up to them and get bd reactions. Then I’ve approached random girls who I thought would be up themselves only For them to be really down to earth. Cold approaching is really hard, Atleast for me you only get only a few W over 100s of Approaches. Mind you I only approach attractive woman and looks wise I’m just average. I’ve been approaching consistently for the past 6 months with no conversion … | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.Honestly bro I’ve had times at bars where girls kept making eye contact and you approach only to find they’re completely defensive and have no interest. Other times you think the girl will be totally stuck up only to find the opposite. If I have a natural urge of attraction Towards them I go for it. Obviously iois help but waiting for iois is just an excuse in my opinion to avoid approaching. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.The ratios are definitely important. Most people will give up cold approaching because they have an unrealistic expectation. The reality is it’s difficult and the constant rejections means you either except rejections are nothing personal or you take it to heart and give up. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.You must be some crazy outlier. Approach to lay rate might be 1-3%. Saying your rejection rate is lower than your success rate means more than 1 out of 2 approaches is a lay. Obviously there’s things to do to improve the odds but “rejection” is the norm. I don’t even look at a girl saying no a rejection it’s just part of the process. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:55 AM |
| 0 | Assessing the fall of James Marshall's The Natural Lifestyles and the State of The PUA industryRead it, good article | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesMy bad…out of curiosity what did they charge you? Also do you approach all types of girls are only the attractive ones? Most of my approaches are focused on hot girls so I expect mostly rejections anyway | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesI recognise your voice from James Marshall’s video. Props to you bro. I’m Aussie but my ex gf was German so I lived in Bavaria for 1.5 years. She was relatively attractive and I got her through pua. My experience is also that it takes a lot of effort to get laid from approaching but I think it’s worth it. Watch some of Deepak Wayne’s stuff…I think escalating sexually even during the day will move things forward or I feel the conversation stays platonic. You seem like a very serious guy but that’… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 02:33 AM |
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