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I acted very exclusive around my oneitis, but I could never visit her parents for the obvious reasons. everybody else knew we were dating ever her friends. kissing i think comes naturally even without commitment or expectation of it right?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:05 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me oneitis before she left me to go get married to a guy her parents choice. I was in the same boat as OP, innocent and BP'd a motherfucker could be. I was told everything I wanted to hear, everything fucking thing, both in person and over text. The minute her parents wanted her to get engaged, she forgot all about it. All the fake 'love' disappeared in a split second. She played me like an instrument bro, and OP will get played too if he doesn't maintain frame..…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:04 AM
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Personally, I do not believe for a split second she’s a virgin and never kissed, yet loves you so much she would kiss on second date and assume exclusivity on third. Sounds to me she’s preying on your innocence and projecting the image that she believes you will like, and is now enforcing her views on you. I fucked my oneitis (muslim) on the second date in the park at 2 AM. She claimed to have no boyfriends before but 2 months in I found out she had two in the past, and she got suicidal after th…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:56 AM
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okay.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:43 AM
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That's why we say she's not yours, it's just your turn. My oneitis literally told me, "I was never yours to begin with" before she got married.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:43 PM
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holy shit lmao
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:40 PM
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I never found out about her past until into a good chunk of the relationship
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:01 PM
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I might read it. What’s the summary?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:21 AM
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ok. Don't fall victim to oneitis. I don't think love is real. as mentioned here, woman definition of love is different than a males definition.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:30 AM
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Ok, so I was in a relationship for the last four months, with a girl where I felt probably the same oneitis feeling you are feeling now, until my girl (20 years old) decided to get culturally engaged to her cousin on her parents whim (rich parents, rich 'fiance'), she wanted a rich lifestyle and blamed me for being irresponsible and financially incompetent to take care of her. The irresponsibility comes from the fact that I acted quite childish around her, I acted like a girl at times, reflectin…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:53 AM
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Just out of curiosity, have you proposed the "idea" of an LTR to your GF? What was her reaction to it? I lost my LTR by being beta and too clingy. I was too open with my LTR about my life, the "charm" she thought of me went away. I can't offer any advice, but please proceed with caution
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:42 AM
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I meant continuing gaming her while she got married, not necessarily to me
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:35 AM
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Rest of the dates When I got my car, things started to get more personal. We would end up having more sex, twice a week, and could go to more places around the city. We traveled to many spots, and we always ended up eating food. It was very enjoyable for me, because I found someone I connected with, whom I thought was different. After every date After every date I would be told how much I was loved, how much fun she had, and how much she loved spending time with me. The first dates these seemed …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 07:55 PM
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BPD girls are like a toxic vortex that keeps sucking you back in. I urge anyone to seriously consider it before entering a relationship NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOU THINK THE GIRL IS
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 07:11 PM
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Here is my experience dating BPD girl according to your specifications. I will be posting a field report soon. I got fucked... Longterm friends. How many, if any. How long. How their relationship looks like. Girls? Boys? Only girls? Only boys? If no longterm friends, be warned. If only boys, be warned. No friends, only one close friend, most friends were online, not IRL, and male. Relationship with her family. Toxic? How toxic? Split parents? Parents together? If split parents, toxic and especia…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 07:07 PM
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My BPD girl had the following traits: Dad hanged himself in front of her, because her mom ran out with another guy, leaving her in foster care Constantly tortured with boiling water, and rarely fed by prev foster parents Molested by uncle Lost only sister due to a disease First boyfriend fucking got CANCER Second boyfriend she left because he wanted to take her off and marry her Lots and lots of physical abuse, cuts her arms, periodic sinusodal type mood swings, and constant lies The natural abi…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 07:00 PM
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BPD girls are awful. There is no way out once you get in. I;m trying to claw my way out and keep getting sucked back.... please avoid these girls for the love of god guys...........
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 06:57 PM
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I got ruined by a BPD chick... i'm going to post a field report thread soon once I get enough karma but BPD girls will destroy your inside...
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 06:56 PM
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I dated a BPD and she left me to get married. She would constantly feed me lies of love and passion only to forget she ever said it the very next day. BPD girls are the definition of manipulative liars. please proceed with caution
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 06:55 PM
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I dated a BPD and I got crushed. I am crushed and I feel like I have been stabbed multiple times. Never date a BPD girl , the gaslighting and doublethink isn't worth loosing your sanity for
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 06:54 PM
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We'll I'm fucked now anyways....
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 11:13 PM
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Need some advice. Dating a bipolar/psycho girl for around five months now. I to be pretty BP’d back then, but I turned my life around, joined a gym, started eating healthy on a meal plan, dressing better, and am striving to learn more about lifting in general. I channed my oneitis for this girl into making a consistent 6 day a week workout schedule and healthier eating habits. I never felt this better. Girls father hanged himself when she was young because her mother left her for another guy. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 07:08 PM
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