Active_Round8048 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? Yes, we men are in full control, we are the rational ones, but we have to set our boundries and act upon them, also love ourselves unconditionally. If anything we men are to be blamed, i blame myself for sticking around 12 year in a very shitty marriage. Only me could prevented wasting 12 years of my life.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 01:58 PM
11	Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? I have been divorced for a year now, and honestly only now i see all the red flags, my inner issues that i struggled with, the fact i did not love myself, had family values in mind that were not realistic with this woman. My whole relationship with my ex was based on the initial sex which was fantastic, everything you see on the internet in real life, great, soon after we expected our first kid, what you expect if your whole reason to be together is plowing..... 12 years and 3 kids later, she wa…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 01:50 PM
3	Tell her you are broke My ex never really wanted anything from me, she blocked me on all levels of being able to show affection. It sounds great on paper, but if you cannot hug/kiss, she never make time available for you, never get a change to take her out, nor buy anything nice for her to show appreciation that is the flipside. With my new girlfriend, i buy her stuff because i want her to wear stuff i buy for her, i don't own her, i am not dominant, but i like to purchase stuff for her that makes her feel happy, sexy…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 01:35 PM
1	New life NGL you need to start acting and stop drowning yourself in selfpity in the hope oneday someone will come to the rescue...	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 12:02 PM
2	Two Years Later. That`s it part of the healing, we use our kids as our motivation but the ex, system, goverment, lawyers etc make them into a ankle weight, you need to find a middle ground, its ok to be a bit more selfish.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 08:42 AM
1	Post Divorce Most family and friends never reached out to me or checked on me. My mother brothers, and sister, but now that my grandma is about to die, one of them reached out to me and made it into a thing where "oh because you dont want contact with us" that gaslighting she got from our mother, so fuck them. I told my sister politely to fuck off. I ditched them out of my life. I am 41 and cannot be arsed anymore. If they ever get into the same situation they do not have to bother to contact me. I am at pea…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 08:30 AM
2	Now wife works out and loses weight Thats why the take away is to NEVER EVER let yourself slip again, always work actively on yourself, focus on you. Gym, Finances, self improvements, self reliance.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 08:05 AM
3	1 Year and 8 Months Later and Still Can’t Be Happy You need to drown yourself in active selfimprovement. Your life should be all about elevating yourself going forward, do it for you. Do not think you are only valid/important or relevant if you are in a active relationship, if you cannot love yourself and get comfortable being on your own first, you cannot move on, because you keep living in a past.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 07:22 AM
2	1 Year and 8 Months Later and Still Can’t Be Happy Yes focus on self improvement NOT Gaming its a dopemine escape.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 07:15 AM
2	1 Year and 8 Months Later and Still Can’t Be Happy I have been divorced for over a year now. Financially stripped, cheated on, left to rot in shitty flat that had nothing in it, i had no clothes nothing, no car, all gone. I now have 1 very good friend, a girlfriend that i recently met and have a mega good connection with, my flat start to look decent. I work out consistently 4x per week 2 hours per time for the past 9~ months and made alot of mental and physical improvements. I am religious and practice this, it helped me to find purpose and mea…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 07:15 AM