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| 121 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ? | General | Actual-Comment1575 | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 01:48 PM |
| 53 | What can I do in day to day life to mitigate men's issues ? | Progress | Actual-Comment1575 | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 05:51 AM |
| 6 | How to make marriage okay ? | Marriage/Children | Actual-Comment1575 | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ? | General | Actual-Comment1575 | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | AITA If I want to keep my maiden name ? | General | Actual-Comment1575 | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 10:44 AM |
| 0 | How to make abortion morally okay ? | General | Actual-Comment1575 | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 12:20 PM |
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| 1 | AITA If I want to keep my maiden name ?Okay fair point I was asking this less on a traditional lens and more on a "not changing names infringes on men's rights ?" lens | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | AITA If I want to keep my maiden name ?There exists marriage deals that keep belongings separate if stealing is what you're worried about... Why would I fuck up say my medical carrier by changing identities ? And be able to support my husband less as a result ? | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Crazy to think of how the first feminists created a great society for men and women alike…but modern feminism destroyed it allBut then, in a pre-first wave feminism world, if it happens that a woman is reasonable and looks after the world despite what biology says, will she have to surgically make herself a man in order to contribute to society ? | /r/MensRights | 24/05/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?Oh you meant "gender reversed" as in *I* become a man ? Well then how the fuck do I know what men are okay with or not ? No ok I guess I could simulate it in my head but I have mental issues with that kinda stuff so I like to avoid it and stay stuck in my girl head. Which is why I need a list instead of just trying to figure shit out myself. Shit that girls do that make men's day just worse. Preferably something a single person can change so no societal-level stuff. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?It's not really about complaint or a sort of "hIdDeN cUlT" and more about things some people say like "women hate each other while men help each other we make friends in 3 minutes 45" etc... there's a sort of mystical idea around the male friendship that we just end up drawing the conclusion every guy is biologically wired to be best friends with every other guy | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Looking for opinions on resolving Men's Rights issues (Misandry, Misogyny, and the role of Feminism)If you're a woman don't post here, just like if you were a man don't post in feminism. Or, if you do post, pretend to be a teenage boy just learning about the stuff. This way people won't think you're being confrontational. Our identities are a big burden in life, that's the whole point of egalitarianism. The only thing we can really strive to do as women is to transcend that identity. Become something more... or less. As long as that something doesn't have labels and can't be influenced as much… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?Asking "if genders were reversed would I be okay with this" doesn't really work because I'm okay with most of everything except being deemed evil which I've never deemed men evil so... | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?As a man, you never did ? We women always assume that behind the scenes (the masks men put in front of women) men have that solidarity. Do they not ? | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?I don't know. I remember getting bashed pretty hard for not siding with my sisters in christ even before I had very high hormone levels so I can't tell you which it was. Was it learned or was it my estrogen. Eh. I do think there's a natural component of "this could be me" though if we're talking about practical stuff. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?(Ig I didn't wanna seem like I was harrassing you by DMing first so since you didn't do it I thought oh he doesn't want to go in dms alright it's fine ;w;) But yeah definitely idk what else to say except that I agree with that, there's definitely a pull towards siding with your own | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Can I get some people to DM with about not being a dick as a woman ?It's not that simple. Misandry is learned subconsciously because of the society we live in, one could be a dick without knowing. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 02:00 PM |
| -2 | How to make abortion morally okay ?So humanity is defined when gender is defined, basically equating humanity to gender ? Hah. Gonna go kill myself brb. Made more sense when somebody said all of your human genes are in there so it's a human. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the Male Loneliness Epidemic could be fixed and if so how?Not really. Many women just like being by themselves, they don't feel lonely nor intimacy-starved. And no they don't wh0re around to "compensate" on something : because they don't need it ! Women can be content with as little as just themselves, and having a sort of second dad can be suffocating. I guess the only times where it's not suffocating is when your man also doubles as your best friend, but when you indulge in the "dating market" you often end up with a parent instead of a partner, yes. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 11:48 AM |
| -9 | Do you think the Male Loneliness Epidemic could be fixed and if so how?For a woman getting out of a relationship is like freedom. It's not that she didn't love her guy, it's just that life had started to become unbearable. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 10:29 PM |
| -5 | I AM FOR GENDER EQUALITY IN RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONSYou have a PhD in women so please can you tell me where this logic stems from ? Psychologically ? If I were a guy I'd say it's biology but since I'm a girl and I don't understand this then it can't be biology else I would understand... So what's the reason if not biology...???? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 03:56 AM |
| -4 | I AM FOR GENDER EQUALITY IN RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONSIt just seems like a highly religious view, but then why are they getting masters degrees ? Why would they want you to be their second father ? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 03:52 AM |
| 0 | How many of you feel like we've become the women we wanted to marry?I realize this is the one thing I've been wanting to know about in my life, so thanks for making me realize that with your previous comments. That's all. As a kid I got pretty much bullied into supression and all justified by this "male nature female nature" shit so I have grown to hate it with every fiber of my being. I'm not sure how to accept myself now that I realize it may be real. But thank you. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How many of you feel like we've become the women we wanted to marry?I'm not a bot I'm just deeply obsessed with the topic of intersexual dynamics and reddit's the only place where I can talk about it TvT I genuinely think women don't exist. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Childfree women telling men to get vasectomies are abusive creeps [x-post r/childfree, deleted in under 10 minutes]She can get her tubes tied, or if she fears that, she can get an IUD hormonal or not and be done with it... | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 06:05 PM |
| 0 | How many of you feel like we've become the women we wanted to marry?So it's a weird thing where we need masculinity but we don't like masculinity ? I also think the sexual dimorphism is physical and then impacts you psychologically. I imagine a woman with a strong spirit, but then she realizes whatever she does she's not that useful compared to half the population, so her spirit dies out because it's just useless to try to run valorant on an old school laptop. There's also the thing where only one half of humanity has a womb. So while yes I think it's biological… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Traditional masculinity and the male gender role are demeaning by itselfPersonally, I've grown up thinking that those virtues are valuable, yes. Not as a consequence of expendability, but just in general, for any sapient or highly intelligent individual, human or not. I myself have strived to meet those values and virtues because I was inspired by them. I don't see them as a symbol of masculinity as much as I see them as a highly respectable thing period. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Boys Can FightI absolutely admire guys' combative spirit, and I'm a bit jealous. As a girl I always get thrown against girls (logical), and I get ready to give it my all until I realize the other girls' hearts aren't in it. I don't want to be mean to them, so I drop the fight too. I admit, sometimes I wished I could let it out with anybody. I feel stunted and a bit smothered. A true friend is a rival, I think. Of course, women are too chill for that, and men are too out of my league for that. Just means I hav… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Traditional masculinity and the male gender role are demeaning by itselfOf course society is based off of biology. What made you think otherwise ? There's a reason it was always mostly the same between countries and ages. Expendability is both a blessing and a curse. If you have a clear use and value, then you cannot have any other use. If you have no real use, then you are free to create your own and become whatever you like. I think in truth, women want to be expendable, but their feminist movement is clumsy, and so they take the freedom but keep the value of a wo… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How many of you feel like we've become the women we wanted to marry?I think this feminist saying implies one thing though, we obviously view feminity as a useless thing and wonder why tf would men want that. Yet we congratulate women who have become more masculine. Why is that ? Is it because masculinity is simply the better part of humanity ? Or is there something else at play ? I am genuinely confused. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?So I guess since that's cleared uh do you have an idea why women's presence is generally disliked in STEM jobs ? (which tend to be high earning so if a woman wants to make money for multiple people she'll have to go there) My guess is at large it's because women tend to be underqualified/DEIs ? But if it's a qualified woman are there reasons for it to be a bad thing for the workplace ? I've seen men disaprove even if it's a qualified woman but I don't know WHY it's disaproved and that makes me k… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Oh yeah, that. I always thought DEI is kinda a dumb system anyway. But I guess they (whoever "they" is) thought it'd be the only enforceable way to combat discrimination despite merit (like let's say those 5 qualified out of 50 women getting thrown out because they're XX). Maybe now it's DEI's place to get out. It succeeded in changing mentalities. It did its time. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?I guess this person means that "nobody" is unfortunately not an enforceable solution (because other countries are DEFINITELY gonna send people) so they're going with the next best thing "least people possible" which means "let's not add MORE people" which means "let's not add women" thus things stay the same. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Yeah but see when I see people talking about bearing responsibility as a woman, I often see pushback coming from... men ?! Rather than women ?! So I'm extremely confused. For the draft thing I guess we already talked a lot about it and the main argument is simply : women aren't built for it, that makes for a weak defense. Or something. But for the jobs aspect I don't really know what's evil about it ? I guess people don't want DEIs because DEIs are not qualified but if it's an actually qualified… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Oooh nice that's the exact debate I was talking about ! (commenting on your reply cause it's the last one in the thread for now) | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Oh yeah I was talking about hiring here. I thought I didn't need to specify, sorry. What do you mean when you say people who fight against averages ? I'm having a hard time picturing a real life example so I'm kinda lost ^^' Just trying to understand better. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?I think people should fight over baseball as a replacement to war. Troll answer btw. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Yeah but if you assume an unqualified individual then the obvious problem is - not being qualified. So you can kinda... work to become qualified. Or maybe just be an outlier who's qualified despite biology. And then boom fixed. If you assume a qualified individual it means there's gotta be something about the very definition of man/woman that's causing a problem so it's not an easy fix. Maybe practically, or socially, idk. Requires more thought, so more discussion towards THAT aspect. Yknow ? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:31 PM |
| -7 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?I guess even if it's not the woman's fault I mean you have a woman in there it's gotta cause some drama even if it's not the woman causing it. Maybe she'll be desired. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Yeah yeah ofc we should stick to our strengths. When I say woman/man I mean strictly the genitals, not what that implies in terms of qualification because I always assume a qualified infividual. Sorry for not clarifying :) | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?So it's more about not liking hypocrisy | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Interesting | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Well yes. But that's apparently not an answer so. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Simple yet effective. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Compulsory birth ? As in having a set amount of children each woman should have ? Kinda like the opposite of the only-one-child policy in china ? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 02:02 PM |
| -1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Oh k k so I don't need to worry about the "men are moneybanks" complaints on this sub then ? That's a relief :) I falsely thought men were bothered by the more traditional system. Though I guess I was more worried about the "outside" side of the male opinion (coworkers) rather than the "inside" because between spouses it's a mutual agreement anyway. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Should women be drafted ? Also should women earn for their husband ?Oh yeah that of course but I thought that was a given so I didn't say it. To not lower the bar to accomodate certain people. Of course. That's just rational. But that's not drafting. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 01:58 PM |
| -2 | Why is it required for men's hobbies to be inclusive to women but the same is not expected.Is it evil if as a woman I go do those things anyway, as long as I don't try to approach men too much ? I can't really imagine living a life limiting myself to only "female-only" hobbies/carreer paths/etc... I'm sure you wouldn't either. It would be a somewhat... mind-numbing life. I already don't take my priviledge to go near those because that's simply not my natural inclinaison. Can I try to integrate myself in those "male things" instead of expecting accomodations for myself or would trying … | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Why is it required for men's hobbies to be inclusive to women but the same is not expected.Make them less inclusive. As long as I'm not straight up banned from them idc. I can't live without them. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 05:15 PM |
| 8 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyMaybe the problem is rule 10. I edited the identification so people would assume I'm a man (they probably won't, by the way I'm writing, but at least I'm not stating it outright). Maybe people feel attacked if it's a woman saying things. Not their fault honestly. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/25 08:33 PM |
| 13 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyWhy is this in r\RedPill ? This is should be in r\Feminism. I always hated how for birth control women are pushed to mess with their own bodies and minds. Then I saw that the sponge is off-market now. Seriously. What ?! Dystopian bulls*t. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | The way misandry is "justified" is disgustingOh, didn't know that, thanks. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 08:02 AM |
| -10 | The way misandry is "justified" is disgustingFeminism means treating both men and women as just humans. I'm not sure if a feminist under that definition would be too fond of sexism towards men. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Hate breeds hateThat can't work because there's ALWAYS going to be hateful people from both sides. We need good examples to counterbalance. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 07:29 PM |
| 15 | American Women Are Giving Up on MarriageIt's true we don't feel that lust or urge to chase men. I never understood why even tho I myself am like that. Maybe it's because men are downplayed so much that we're aware they're just people, whereas woman are hyped a lot more and presented like otherworldly goddesses. Maybe it's because we're scared of relationships because even tho birth control exists it's not a built-in system in our bodies so we still feel like it's not worth it. Idk. I know if I could control my uterus I'd feel more rec… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 07:22 PM |
| -42 | The way misandry is "justified" is disgustingWeirdly enough correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like it also harms women too ? I saw something about how in Spain women were looked down upon for going out to work and being "too much like those pesky men", actively holding themselves back. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 52 | The way misandry is "justified" is disgustingTIktok is full of bullshit, that's why I uninstalled the app. It's for people who don't touch grass, along with Twitter. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What can I do in day to day life to mitigate men's issues ?Yea I guess logic is the most convincing method. And sorry for editing and reediting. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | What can I do in day to day life to mitigate men's issues ?When you say feminists you mean pseudo-feminists, like... misandrists, right ? Or no ? It's impossible for me to really fight against actual feminists, because they're the only reason I wasn't forced to be a teen housewife and can actually aspire to be something... As bad as they are, without them I'm pretty much dead. I can only try to make them less sexist towards men. Unless this whole thing about feminism being needed was a myth to begin with...? I remember seeing a post like that. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 06:44 PM |
| 13 | What can I do in day to day life to mitigate men's issues ?If it can reassure you, I'm not exactly sane. Or socially fit. Might explain why a woman suddenly gets involved in that kind of stuff. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 06:22 AM |
| 5 | What can I do in day to day life to mitigate men's issues ?I mean I've had men explain to me how it feels insulting and emasculating to not treat men like they've "always got it 👍" and instead treat them like us so I always kinda hesitated. I know they feel emotions, but I don't really act accordingly because I also know they got an image to keep up ? It seems important. I don't want to mess that up. Do the men who seem insulted by it actually kinda appreciate it on the inside and therefore I can do it ? | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 06:17 AM |
| 3 | What can I do in day to day life to mitigate men's issues ?How do I go about doing that ? I mean I try to subtly make people around me aware when the situation is right for it, but I don't know how to actually spread the word efficiently if I'm not some sort of content creator ? | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 06:03 AM |
| 5 | March Madness commercials.. Nearly all women playersCompanies do this to make themselves seem morally good. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 05:45 AM |
| 3 | It genuinely seems like 90% of the messaging in current Pop Culture and Media is just "Men Bad, Women Good"As a man you can't say anything against the blatant sexism because then you're "just one of them", and as a woman you can't say anything because then you're "a traitor who wants their approval" as if this were some 39-45 collaboration thing. Seriously. What. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Can a man be raped?It's like saying "if she was wet she consented". Arousal isn't consent, whether you're a man or a woman. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 05:41 AM |
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