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I didn't mean it please
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:03 PM
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I DIDN'T MEAN IT PLEASE
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:02 PM
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I'm really desperate to know I'm sorry okay ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:02 PM
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Please
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:02 PM
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I'm sorry for doing a strawman, I was just really trying to guess in advance to show I'm interested in knowing your opinion that's all. Terribly sorry. Please tell me what you mean though, don't leave me hanging when you seem to have an intelligent opinion about this :(
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:00 PM
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To make it better would there need to just be no marriage and maybe polygyny as a thing (I heard men were biologically built for polygyny which is why they're not satisfied sexually is it true) ? In France there exists a marriage option that can keep both the husband's and wife's belongings separate in any and all circumstances no negociating, does it make anything better ? If the mother is aware of the custody problem and actively advocates for the father's rights to his kids in court, will he …
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:57 PM
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I don't really understand what you're referring to, I'm sorry for being stupid
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:59 PM
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So it's carrier or love ? In order to be able to marry I should force a man to work even though he doesn't want to and I'm perfectly capable of handling the load ? I'm sorry if I'm not understanding this correctly, but it seems like you're saying I should be grateful for working at all ? If that is your view, could you please explain it so I can get perspective, please ? I'm not trying to be provocative, even if I sound like it, I'm just trying to learn more. I could see how there could be an ar…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:57 PM
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Does this mean you don't know ? ^^'
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:27 PM
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Sorry for being dumb once again, but in order to fix that wouldn't we need to fix custody biases first ? It seems to me like whichever parent doesn't directly do childcare, the law makes them pay child support. I know women who pay child support, even though it's not nearly as "obligatory" if THEY're the ones away from the kids (that should be addressed). So theoretically if custody is made more equal shouldn't child support also ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:26 PM
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So this social issue too, okay... That's gonna need a whole society change, but in the meantime while the society change is being fought for what can a mother do for example ? Since the mother's voice will be largely listened to can she simply advocate for the father's rights and it'd work ? Or will the court even then ignore the mother's voice ONLY in order to not give a father his children ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:46 PM
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So can you give a "reality" vs "ideally" example ? Sorry for being annoying I'm frankly just stupid
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:43 PM
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I am trying to know how can things be fixed in the US. Here in France you can kinda just choose between four main marriage options and one of them keeps belongings separate between wife and husband by default so he doesn't risk anything. They'll just look at which option you married with and court won't give you shit for divorcing somebody. Could you elaborate on how prenups protect, how the protection is limited, and what issues still need to be addressed with a prenup ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:37 PM
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As I said in exchange you give literally ultimate power to women by getting them built-in birth control with a procedure.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:35 PM
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Going back to how things were before universal voting, before women could open bank accounts etc
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:22 PM
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Re-establish traditional society and shut up feminism by giving it what it really wants : a surgery, and NOTHING else.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:07 PM
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The only way to do anything is to get rid of feminism altogether. The only reason why women need feminism to function is because they don't have built in birth control. I say, develop a procedure/surgery/anything that modifies women's bodies to have built-in birth control but in exchange the world becomes traditional again with women as minors and such. Everybody would be happy with that. I've learned most women don't actually care what they are socially, they only use society as a way to cope w…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:01 PM
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All feminists are misandrists and all MRAs are mysoginists, the world has intented for men and women to fight against each other to the death. Everybody will become gay/lesbian and there will be all male countries/all female countries that will wage war against each other until only one sex remains and humanity dies off.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 07:57 PM
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That part was just I guess me feeling like I had to give context... As I said thank you a lot for providing a solution. What I'm also asking in my post is something completely unrelated, I'm asking more generally what makes marriage suck for men (like for example in a divorce wife takes half his belongings) and how marriages could be made better instead in the future/what could be done in today's world to make a marriage closer to the ideal etc...
/r/MensRights27/05/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah it is a good solution you offered, sorry if I sounded weird saying it, thanks a lot. But what do you think would make marriages a bit less bad for men also ? Anything that comes to mind would help, from solutions you could think of to just problems you notice
/r/MensRights27/05/25 03:22 PM
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Alright, thanks. First of I do know it's your personal opinion but I greatly value it. Second of, for the main topic, what makes marriages bad for men generally (other than the obvious waging half your belongings problem) and what do you think would it make it better ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 03:17 PM
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I mean if I do that might as well hypheniate my husband's name with my own, and my own name is already hypheniated so it's just gonna be 2 pages of name xD No but yeah that's a good solution. I was just more focused on the marriage part now, like why are they bad for men and how to make it less bad
/r/MensRights27/05/25 03:14 PM
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I'm also trying to get a hypothetical answer not just for me because that's between me and my husband yes, but also for other women who may be in the same boat and what that would mean on a more general scale etc... If it were just because of traditions then it wouldn't be such a general consensus
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:49 PM
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I am under the impression that not changing your name is a form of misandry
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:40 PM
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^Maybe there would be most steps needed, maybe not, either way this worry stems more from insecurity about the past than anything else
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:26 PM
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You have textual proof that's basically a confession. Yes your chances are slim. Yes you should pursue. No you won't get accused of rape instead, legal system is dumb but not THAT dumb. Go for it.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:20 PM
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I've heard it happen a lot in the medical field though, a woman gets a rep, changes her name after marriage, and suddenly her carrier goes downhill because she can't reconciliate the two names correctly
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:17 PM
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Okay fair point I was asking this less on a traditional lens and more on a "not changing names infringes on men's rights ?" lens
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:13 PM
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There exists marriage deals that keep belongings separate if stealing is what you're worried about... Why would I fuck up say my medical carrier by changing identities ? And be able to support my husband less as a result ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:03 PM
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Well, to be fair, the women react how they do because in their perception a traditional view holds a lot more weight than 50 feminist-like views, so they get scared that the more women with your views speak, the closer we'd get to legalizing women being forbidden from having bank accounts again They're scared for their own freedom. If women's logic is inherently skewed, then surely no rational woman exists and all scientific fields should ban women for example : no more Mary Curie. Things like t…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:34 AM
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I think a feminist woman wants to marry and take care of a househusband, yes ? I thought that's exactly what was deemed bad about feminism ? Creating "weak househusbands" to go with the "evil working feminists" ? To me it always seemed feminism was hated because men don't want to be taken care of. It never occured to me that men thought the "taking care" part was a lie.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 05:53 AM
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Look I don't understand, even under feminist logic, why forced "representation" is a good thing. Equality isn't about having 50/50 of each group, it's about not letting someone's identity undermine their actual capability. Seeing somebody for what they can do rather than what you think of them. That's all it is and all it should be.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 05:49 AM
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You can have : Mom : Moms name Father : Fathers name Kids : Fathers name Or if you really want hyphens you can have : Mom : Grandpa1+Grandma1 Dad : Grandpa2+Grandma2 Kids : Grandpa1+Grandpa2
/r/MensRights26/05/25 05:38 AM
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No, I'd agree with him. And why the use of the word "major" ? I never said the kids wouldn't have his name, just me. So his name is still carried on, so why is it a major issue if I keep my name ? Genuinely confused. I'd just not have the same name as my kids, which isn't an issue since the mother is recognized way more than the father anyway, even if she doesn't have the same name. If anything it would make things equal for him.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 05:05 AM
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I'm not someone to care about names generally, but I want to keep my own because my name is my father's name. Between a father and lover, I choose a father. So yeah I keep my name, sorry mensrights for this one :(
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:15 PM
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So you wouldn't be against something like the weird thing I said ?
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:22 AM
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The ability to say "hey I don't wanna be a dad" when she decides to keep a baby when she's pregnant ? yeah. I'm scared about it being like he pretends he wants the kid so she keeps it only for him because otherwise she wouldn't have kept it, and then he turns his vest around at 7 months and leaves. At the same time trying to do a sort of system where he legally recognizes his child or not before abortion delay seems a bit weird to do
/r/MensRights24/05/25 11:43 PM
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You realize this would only make abortion more prevalent, though, no ? Because every woman has a child with the thought that "he can leave any moment" therefore she goes in there with the idea that the child is solely her problem to deal with, so the father will be even less listened to.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 11:19 PM
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But then, in a pre-first wave feminism world, if it happens that a woman is reasonable and looks after the world despite what biology says, will she have to surgically make herself a man in order to contribute to society ?
/r/MensRights24/05/25 10:06 PM
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Oh you meant "gender reversed" as in *I* become a man ? Well then how the fuck do I know what men are okay with or not ? No ok I guess I could simulate it in my head but I have mental issues with that kinda stuff so I like to avoid it and stay stuck in my girl head. Which is why I need a list instead of just trying to figure shit out myself. Shit that girls do that make men's day just worse. Preferably something a single person can change so no societal-level stuff.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 08:26 PM
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At first I thought mensrights didn't give a shit about abortion yes. It's somebody on here who told me it was a big deal for you all...
/r/MensRights24/05/25 08:22 PM
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Ah, you don't understand, I don't care about legality of medical treatments, I live in France for God's sake. I mean control as in biologically be able to control it as muscle, even though it's supposed to be "impossible", because to not be able to is too big of a disability.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 08:19 PM
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I command you for your integrity. Yeah, if being upfront about where you come from is a priority, then just don't listen to me lol ^^'
/r/MensRights23/05/25 10:07 PM
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Well, you taught me something... I'm sorry to hear that...
/r/MensRights23/05/25 08:12 PM
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I don't control my uterus enough to be able to get invested yet so I'm just in the "trolling and learning" phase. When I can trigger my own period so my own main issue is resolved I'll actually be able to dedicate my time to doing shit about that irl.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 07:47 PM
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It's not really about complaint or a sort of "hIdDeN cUlT" and more about things some people say like "women hate each other while men help each other we make friends in 3 minutes 45" etc... there's a sort of mystical idea around the male friendship that we just end up drawing the conclusion every guy is biologically wired to be best friends with every other guy
/r/MensRights23/05/25 07:40 PM
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If you're a woman don't post here, just like if you were a man don't post in feminism. Or, if you do post, pretend to be a teenage boy just learning about the stuff. This way people won't think you're being confrontational. Our identities are a big burden in life, that's the whole point of egalitarianism. The only thing we can really strive to do as women is to transcend that identity. Become something more... or less. As long as that something doesn't have labels and can't be influenced as much…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 07:32 PM
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Asking "if genders were reversed would I be okay with this" doesn't really work because I'm okay with most of everything except being deemed evil which I've never deemed men evil so...
/r/MensRights23/05/25 07:28 PM
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As a man, you never did ? We women always assume that behind the scenes (the masks men put in front of women) men have that solidarity. Do they not ?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 07:26 PM
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I don't know. I remember getting bashed pretty hard for not siding with my sisters in christ even before I had very high hormone levels so I can't tell you which it was. Was it learned or was it my estrogen. Eh. I do think there's a natural component of "this could be me" though if we're talking about practical stuff.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 02:34 PM
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Do you think they should ?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 02:26 PM
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Yeah. It would be ideal. At first though I won't lie, I was kind of scared of the possibility of some dick pretending he wanted a kid and then turning his vest around summoning this right past the point of legal abortion and leaving the single mother (who served as surrogate for him) to fend for herself, but I think there's ways for it to work ? Then again if he's that much of a dick maybe he'll just illegally refuse child support without the "right to not be a father" law so what I'm saying is …
/r/MensRights23/05/25 02:23 PM
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(Ig I didn't wanna seem like I was harrassing you by DMing first so since you didn't do it I thought oh he doesn't want to go in dms alright it's fine ;w;) But yeah definitely idk what else to say except that I agree with that, there's definitely a pull towards siding with your own
/r/MensRights23/05/25 02:18 PM
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It's not that simple. Misandry is learned subconsciously because of the society we live in, one could be a dick without knowing.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 02:00 PM
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I've straight up given up on the idea of abortion, in case I was being ambiguous. I'm just worried about the potential cruelty of giving birth to a child and giving it up because you weren't actually ready to be a mother and the father doesn't want it either.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:52 PM
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I guess I already accepted that now, but thanks for really detailing it. I'm concerned about something else now, mainly the baby's bond to the mother. Let's say she doesn't want to be a mom but lets the pregnancy do its thing because she doesn't want to kill the baby. How can she then give it away without affecting the baby's health ? Would it help to have the foster parents speak to it when it's in the womb ?? Is she obligated to be a mother now ????
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:41 PM
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I'm not against all these options, it's actually just me being worried about men only accepting PIV because if I deny them that then I'm gonna be a mad feminist contributing male loneliness and such and I don't want that
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:35 PM
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So humanity is defined when gender is defined, basically equating humanity to gender ? Hah. Gonna go kill myself brb. Made more sense when somebody said all of your human genes are in there so it's a human.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:31 PM
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So equating men with pro lifers isn't a bold assumption to make ? Was kinda scared of doing that since assuming things is generally bad.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:29 PM
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Okay I guess I see the logic, like serve as a tool to support the baby's life and that's it, but unfortunately the baby gets really attached to the mother even before birth so oftentimes you don't "tolerate for the baby's survival" you're straight up accepting to be his/her mother because else if you give birth and give it away it'll be very bad for it. What can we do about that ? Genuinely asking, once again, I know I sound like a mad feminist but I'm just a weird ass teen who doesn't know how …
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:27 PM
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Acceptable to men in this sub ? ;w;
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:12 PM
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I literally didn't think it was a concern for men in rpe cases ;w; does the rapist want the kid I can give it. Genuinely. Also are you against surrogacy...??? And also I literally asked for your opinions... I don't understand why I'm evil. Genuinely. You seem like you're very engaged in this cause though so can I dm you to get your opinion ? I'm always scared of being evil on accident it'd be nice if you could correct me on a few things ;w; I know I sound mad, but I'm not I'm just mostly shaken …
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:01 PM
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Yeah ig a really really early miscarriage I was just not worried over technical terms sorry for being sloppy But yeah apparently that miscarriage can happen where the body doesn't lock up after impregnation. Idk just saying things I heard about and asking hypotheticals.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 12:57 PM
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I'm not against a sort of surrogacy thing where if only the father wants the kid then she can keep it for him. I'm mostly talking about abortion for rpe cases where it's clearly only her problem to deal with.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 12:40 PM
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We should also ban some anti-gestational pills that prevent implantation too ? genuinely asking
/r/MensRights23/05/25 12:39 PM
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But sometimes periods happen even after conception, and the fertilized egg is released as waste, effectively killed...? This seems scary. Make periods illegal ? Lol. I know you said you're pro choice so it doesn't apply, but I'm talking in a pro-life perspective.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 12:31 PM
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Not really. Many women just like being by themselves, they don't feel lonely nor intimacy-starved. And no they don't wh0re around to "compensate" on something : because they don't need it ! Women can be content with as little as just themselves, and having a sort of second dad can be suffocating. I guess the only times where it's not suffocating is when your man also doubles as your best friend, but when you indulge in the "dating market" you often end up with a parent instead of a partner, yes.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 11:48 AM
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Why do you want to ban it for when it's not proven rpe ? Having it just be available doesn't harm anybody, if you set a time limit to how much time into development the embryo can be maximum before you can't do it anymore. I heard somewhere that the firrst nerves develop on the 5th week, we can just set a 4 week/a month time limit for getting an abortion without strings attached. I'm saying that if a woman or girl got rped then she can bypass getting justice involved, bypass talking about the gu…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 11:44 AM
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Then what, as a woman you should earn your rights by hitting the gym ?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:50 AM
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OP said abstinence should suffice for women therefore why abortion needed
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:32 AM
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I am talking about actual rpe by fact, not when people lie. Things like psychopatic uncle doing it to her underage niece but since she has a period well it's enough to make her pregnant. As a purely practical concern, when you've been actually rped you don't want to know that "oh I have a child this is my life now" I guess from the downvotes men just don't like abortion at all. I get that. I'm trying to make my body able to do it by itself naturally, but it's hard.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:31 AM
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I'm serious when I say this, it seems like men are straight up scared to speak honestly with me. They put on a mask to protect themselves and now I know I'm talking to a strawman and there's no point in continuing. I wanna prevent that.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:12 AM
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For a woman getting out of a relationship is like freedom. It's not that she didn't love her guy, it's just that life had started to become unbearable.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 10:29 PM
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You have a PhD in women so please can you tell me where this logic stems from ? Psychologically ? If I were a guy I'd say it's biology but since I'm a girl and I don't understand this then it can't be biology else I would understand... So what's the reason if not biology...????
/r/MensRights22/05/25 03:56 AM
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It just seems like a highly religious view, but then why are they getting masters degrees ? Why would they want you to be their second father ?
/r/MensRights22/05/25 03:52 AM
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If you're a woman and trying to reason truly what can you say ? I've talked with way too many men who seemed scared to truly speak their minds with me, I assume because if I as a woman don't like what they're saying it's too big of a risk. Because of this I try to judge nothing and take everything that's said from the best possible angle, but I don't know how to reassure a man that I won't delete him the moment he opens his mouth. I miss having actual discussions. If you got advice on that, even…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 07:23 PM
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Abortion rights I feel mostly exist because of r@pe. Where a woman wants to abstain but she is impregnated by force or even without her knowledge. There are sometimes where you gotta have a way to fix the damage that was already done. I also think pregnancy concerns are one of the reasons why men can't have s3x. I mean, women should abstain, right ? So that means they shouldn't have intimacy with men. So that means men can't have women do intimacy with them. The world in this sort of limbo betwe…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 12:46 AM
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I realize this is the one thing I've been wanting to know about in my life, so thanks for making me realize that with your previous comments. That's all. As a kid I got pretty much bullied into supression and all justified by this "male nature female nature" shit so I have grown to hate it with every fiber of my being. I'm not sure how to accept myself now that I realize it may be real. But thank you.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:34 PM
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I'm not a bot I'm just deeply obsessed with the topic of intersexual dynamics and reddit's the only place where I can talk about it TvT I genuinely think women don't exist.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:20 PM
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Feminism is a collection of experiences, it's women sharing their lives to other women and being just a tad bit paranoid over what caused the bad events in their lives. "Real" feminism is always punished and moderated, you often get called a false feminist or a pick me if you humanize a single man.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:11 PM
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She can get her tubes tied, or if she fears that, she can get an IUD hormonal or not and be done with it...
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:05 PM
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So it's a weird thing where we need masculinity but we don't like masculinity ? I also think the sexual dimorphism is physical and then impacts you psychologically. I imagine a woman with a strong spirit, but then she realizes whatever she does she's not that useful compared to half the population, so her spirit dies out because it's just useless to try to run valorant on an old school laptop. There's also the thing where only one half of humanity has a womb. So while yes I think it's biological…
/r/MensRights18/05/25 05:51 PM
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Idk, I've been identifying myself with feminism a lot and one of the things that really motivated me was being allowed to be useful taking responsibilities and making things easier for our men. Is it not what this is about ? Being allowed to be useful ?
/r/MensRights18/05/25 05:47 PM
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I think it's actually because women look back at earlier years where having your own bank account was illegal and all, and they fear it's still the same today out of paranoïa. Feminism should have been limited to legal concerns, not societal.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 10:11 PM
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Men and women have very different definitions of feminism. For a woman, "feminism" = "egalitarianism" because she only sees herself fighting for equality of all, but for a man "feminism" = "sexism towards men" because what they see from their side is blame after blame after blame after blame towards anything male-related kinda like bullying, and some extreme people only reinforce that view. What I'm saying is a more self-explanatory word should be used like egalitarianism, for what you mean. I'v…
/r/MensRights17/05/25 10:06 PM
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I firmly believe that "feminism" at its core was meant to be a synonym for egalitarianism, but then it was misused and so the meaning of the word changed.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 10:03 PM
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Personally, I've grown up thinking that those virtues are valuable, yes. Not as a consequence of expendability, but just in general, for any sapient or highly intelligent individual, human or not. I myself have strived to meet those values and virtues because I was inspired by them. I don't see them as a symbol of masculinity as much as I see them as a highly respectable thing period.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 09:59 PM
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I absolutely admire guys' combative spirit, and I'm a bit jealous. As a girl I always get thrown against girls (logical), and I get ready to give it my all until I realize the other girls' hearts aren't in it. I don't want to be mean to them, so I drop the fight too. I admit, sometimes I wished I could let it out with anybody. I feel stunted and a bit smothered. A true friend is a rival, I think. Of course, women are too chill for that, and men are too out of my league for that. Just means I hav…
/r/MensRights17/05/25 09:38 PM
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Of course society is based off of biology. What made you think otherwise ? There's a reason it was always mostly the same between countries and ages. Expendability is both a blessing and a curse. If you have a clear use and value, then you cannot have any other use. If you have no real use, then you are free to create your own and become whatever you like. I think in truth, women want to be expendable, but their feminist movement is clumsy, and so they take the freedom but keep the value of a wo…
/r/MensRights17/05/25 09:31 PM
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I think this feminist saying implies one thing though, we obviously view feminity as a useless thing and wonder why tf would men want that. Yet we congratulate women who have become more masculine. Why is that ? Is it because masculinity is simply the better part of humanity ? Or is there something else at play ? I am genuinely confused.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 09:20 PM
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Just searched it up and google wtf do you mean "this was done by SUFFRAGETTES" ??? ;w;
/r/MensRights13/05/25 02:45 AM
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The people who are getting drafted are getting picked at random.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:21 PM
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So I guess since that's cleared uh do you have an idea why women's presence is generally disliked in STEM jobs ? (which tend to be high earning so if a woman wants to make money for multiple people she'll have to go there) My guess is at large it's because women tend to be underqualified/DEIs ? But if it's a qualified woman are there reasons for it to be a bad thing for the workplace ? I've seen men disaprove even if it's a qualified woman but I don't know WHY it's disaproved and that makes me k…
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:18 PM
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Oh yeah, that. I always thought DEI is kinda a dumb system anyway. But I guess they (whoever "they" is) thought it'd be the only enforceable way to combat discrimination despite merit (like let's say those 5 qualified out of 50 women getting thrown out because they're XX). Maybe now it's DEI's place to get out. It succeeded in changing mentalities. It did its time.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:10 PM
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So women won't be hindrances by replacing more capable male peers but they'll still make themselves useful ? Isn't that... exactly what happens normally ? Like women stay back and they provide medical help/make weapons/ etc ? In world wars I know the French did this at least cause I'm French so I studied that, but idk about other countries.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:03 PM
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I guess this person means that "nobody" is unfortunately not an enforceable solution (because other countries are DEFINITELY gonna send people) so they're going with the next best thing "least people possible" which means "let's not add MORE people" which means "let's not add women" thus things stay the same.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:00 PM
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Yeah but see when I see people talking about bearing responsibility as a woman, I often see pushback coming from... men ?! Rather than women ?! So I'm extremely confused. For the draft thing I guess we already talked a lot about it and the main argument is simply : women aren't built for it, that makes for a weak defense. Or something. But for the jobs aspect I don't really know what's evil about it ? I guess people don't want DEIs because DEIs are not qualified but if it's an actually qualified…
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:57 PM
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Oooh nice that's the exact debate I was talking about ! (commenting on your reply cause it's the last one in the thread for now)
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:52 PM
2

Oh yeah I was talking about hiring here. I thought I didn't need to specify, sorry. What do you mean when you say people who fight against averages ? I'm having a hard time picturing a real life example so I'm kinda lost ^^' Just trying to understand better.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:51 PM
1

I think people should fight over baseball as a replacement to war. Troll answer btw.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:48 PM
1

Yeah but if you assume an unqualified individual then the obvious problem is - not being qualified. So you can kinda... work to become qualified. Or maybe just be an outlier who's qualified despite biology. And then boom fixed. If you assume a qualified individual it means there's gotta be something about the very definition of man/woman that's causing a problem so it's not an easy fix. Maybe practically, or socially, idk. Requires more thought, so more discussion towards THAT aspect. Yknow ?
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:31 PM
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I guess even if it's not the woman's fault I mean you have a woman in there it's gotta cause some drama even if it's not the woman causing it. Maybe she'll be desired.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:30 PM
2

This person is saying that skills are ignored right now even in men. The whole drafting concept is flawed if we want people based on skills. Drafting just takes advantage of the statistics (generally you'll find way more qualified people in men vs in women) and that's good enough for the government, even if you take men who aren't fit for it or if you leave out women would be, because that's just A SMALL PERCENTAGE, small enough to not care when you mass select people to go die.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:19 PM
1

Yeah yeah ofc we should stick to our strengths. When I say woman/man I mean strictly the genitals, not what that implies in terms of qualification because I always assume a qualified infividual. Sorry for not clarifying :)
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:16 PM
2

So it's more about not liking hypocrisy
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:14 PM
1

Interesting
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:14 PM
2

Well yes. But that's apparently not an answer so.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:13 PM
1

I guess not about the relationship but inside the workplace. Being an earner means going to high paying jobs. High paying jobs are more masculine by nature. Therefore a woman working there, I've heard many complaints about how women don't belong there and they're a liability in those jobs too. So ig how to not be a liability ?
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:08 PM
6

Simple yet effective.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:06 PM
5

Compulsory birth ? As in having a set amount of children each woman should have ? Kinda like the opposite of the only-one-child policy in china ?
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:02 PM
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Oh k k so I don't need to worry about the "men are moneybanks" complaints on this sub then ? That's a relief :) I falsely thought men were bothered by the more traditional system. Though I guess I was more worried about the "outside" side of the male opinion (coworkers) rather than the "inside" because between spouses it's a mutual agreement anyway.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:00 PM
1

Oh yeah that of course but I thought that was a given so I didn't say it. To not lower the bar to accomodate certain people. Of course. That's just rational. But that's not drafting.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 01:58 PM
1

I don't want power based on my sex I just wanted to say that men shouldn't even be ostracized for saying what OP said. Idk, I thought "even an evil woman" agreeing would make OP feel less inadequate ig. I understand if the comment is very out of place though, especially my reply which added nothing to the conv. Thanks for reminding me. Also, in general just as advice, if you want to not give someone power, ignore them. Reverse psychology is a form of power someone can use if they see it works. T…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 09:10 AM
1

I have no idea why you had so much backlash tbh
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 09:08 AM
1

Oh, I'll delete then. Thanks for pointing that out. Sorry for the inconvenience.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/25 06:55 PM
2

I'm not blaming women, I'm blaming society and whoever in the world decided that society would think this way.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 06:23 PM
1

I'm in a country where every gender is conscripted in case of war so yeah I could be. Honestly if that means less men die I'd be happy taking some of their places anyway. It's true that the REAL good deal would be banning war altogether lol. Would be better if countries fought over baseball or something. I get what you're saying, basically the whole gender roles inbalance is fucking things up for both men and women, but even if knowing technical terms is great you gotta know what the words actua…
/r/MensRights27/03/25 06:13 PM
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Is it evil if as a woman I go do those things anyway, as long as I don't try to approach men too much ? I can't really imagine living a life limiting myself to only "female-only" hobbies/carreer paths/etc... I'm sure you wouldn't either. It would be a somewhat... mind-numbing life. I already don't take my priviledge to go near those because that's simply not my natural inclinaison. Can I try to integrate myself in those "male things" instead of expecting accomodations for myself or would trying …
/r/MensRights27/03/25 05:18 PM
5

Make them less inclusive. As long as I'm not straight up banned from them idc. I can't live without them.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 05:15 PM
8

Maybe the problem is rule 10. I edited the identification so people would assume I'm a man (they probably won't, by the way I'm writing, but at least I'm not stating it outright). Maybe people feel attacked if it's a woman saying things. Not their fault honestly.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 08:33 PM
13

Why is this in r\RedPill ? This is should be in r\Feminism. I always hated how for birth control women are pushed to mess with their own bodies and minds. Then I saw that the sponge is off-market now. Seriously. What ?! Dystopian bulls*t.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 07:58 PM
1

Feminism is an attempt to get back at God. At least that's what my naive stupid-ass thinks. God made it so women don't control whether they get pregnant or not. Women look around "Who controls if I get pregnant then ?", "Men do." So they try to cripple men to the point where even biology cannot act anymore. Truth is they wanna ban intimacy for men, or ban men altogether. Because of that biological weakness, it is impossible for a woman not to be a feminist - feminism is what keeps her alive. Out…
/r/MensRights25/03/25 05:56 PM
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Because of the assumption that women are innocent, because of the assumption that men are monsters by nature. Sexism.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:41 PM
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There's no changing your mind honestly. Conscription is basically saying "men's lives are worthless but oh they're good tools right". That's not how human lives work. But sure.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:39 PM
9

I... did not know that. Damn.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:36 PM
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Misandry can get someone jailed for either their whole life or a permanent stain on their life for having had jailtime, or maybe just an accusation, for something they didn't do. That's pretty much death if you ask me. But maybe I'm spouting bullshit.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:19 PM
1

Oh, didn't know that, thanks.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 08:02 AM
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Feminism means treating both men and women as just humans. I'm not sure if a feminist under that definition would be too fond of sexism towards men.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 05:26 AM
3

That can't work because there's ALWAYS going to be hateful people from both sides. We need good examples to counterbalance.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:29 PM
15

It's true we don't feel that lust or urge to chase men. I never understood why even tho I myself am like that. Maybe it's because men are downplayed so much that we're aware they're just people, whereas woman are hyped a lot more and presented like otherworldly goddesses. Maybe it's because we're scared of relationships because even tho birth control exists it's not a built-in system in our bodies so we still feel like it's not worth it. Idk. I know if I could control my uterus I'd feel more rec…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:22 PM
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Weirdly enough correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like it also harms women too ? I saw something about how in Spain women were looked down upon for going out to work and being "too much like those pesky men", actively holding themselves back.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:12 PM
52

TIktok is full of bullshit, that's why I uninstalled the app. It's for people who don't touch grass, along with Twitter.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:10 PM
1

Yea I guess logic is the most convincing method. And sorry for editing and reediting.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:54 PM
3

When you say feminists you mean pseudo-feminists, like... misandrists, right ? Or no ? It's impossible for me to really fight against actual feminists, because they're the only reason I wasn't forced to be a teen housewife and can actually aspire to be something... As bad as they are, without them I'm pretty much dead. I can only try to make them less sexist towards men. Unless this whole thing about feminism being needed was a myth to begin with...? I remember seeing a post like that.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:44 PM
13

If it can reassure you, I'm not exactly sane. Or socially fit. Might explain why a woman suddenly gets involved in that kind of stuff.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:22 AM
5

I mean I've had men explain to me how it feels insulting and emasculating to not treat men like they've "always got it 👍" and instead treat them like us so I always kinda hesitated. I know they feel emotions, but I don't really act accordingly because I also know they got an image to keep up ? It seems important. I don't want to mess that up. Do the men who seem insulted by it actually kinda appreciate it on the inside and therefore I can do it ?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:17 AM
3

How do I go about doing that ? I mean I try to subtly make people around me aware when the situation is right for it, but I don't know how to actually spread the word efficiently if I'm not some sort of content creator ?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:03 AM
5

Companies do this to make themselves seem morally good.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:45 AM
3

As a man you can't say anything against the blatant sexism because then you're "just one of them", and as a woman you can't say anything because then you're "a traitor who wants their approval" as if this were some 39-45 collaboration thing. Seriously. What.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:43 AM
1

It's like saying "if she was wet she consented". Arousal isn't consent, whether you're a man or a woman.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:41 AM
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