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| 3 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed. | Debate | Actual-Tangerine-659 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:32 AM |
| 0 | Big problem: women’s delusional standards are now a flex. | Discussion | Actual-Tangerine-659 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:18 PM |
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| – | As a guy, I also think that a lot of men today (especially younger generations) have very little to make them attractive on the dating market, and I don’t blame the women who don’t want them and consider themselves better off single.How so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:46 AM |
| – | As a guy, I also think that a lot of men today (especially younger generations) have very little to make them attractive on the dating market, and I don’t blame the women who don’t want them and consider themselves better off single.The term looksmatch should be banned from this sub, as it incorrectly informs young, impressionable men that all that matters is a similar BMI. It doesn’t cover values, attitude, behavior, social skills, talent, humor, wit, education, sociopolitical views, religion, habits, hobbies, prejudices, emotional regulation, family dynamics, Umm, pretty sure anybody who can read can understand those concepts are separate because it’s literally in the name, “LOOKSmatch” Whether or not you want to convince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Men and women talk about two completely different things when they refer to "casual sex"Situationships and FWBs are the same thing, women just don’t realize it. Macken Murphy covered this topic and I’d have to dig to find it, but statistically speaking, it’s overwhelmingly the woman in a “situationship” that wants something more, not the man. So it’s just something they tell themselves to cope with the fact this guy doesn’t actually want to date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 08:53 PM |
| – | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.Well yeah, you’re a guy… you’re not allowed to be anything other than pathetically ashamed of your patriarchal privilege… /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 01:34 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?I'm not sure what personality type it takes to hear women say how we feel (I'm definitely not an exception, most of us are very capable of feeling love), and inform us that you, someone who has not ever experienced being a woman, know better than we do about what's in our hearts and minds. Good lord spare me. Women seem to think that being a woman inherently makes you more enlightened in any issue that even slightly includes femininity. A male gynecologist knows your body better than you do—how?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:35 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?I'm certain men get this, they are just arguing because there is no way to game something as subjective as attraction. This feels so disingenuous but I’ll bite. Attraction is subjective to the extent it’s not 100% rigid, that’s it. It however is miles further from “random” than it is from somewhat acute approximation. The people and men specifically with the most likes on dating apps have far more in common with each other than they do a random set of traits… that’s the point of the 80/20 findin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:12 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?It makes sense and I understand what you're saying, but it's not accurate. I'm not in love with love. I mean it’s definitely accurate lol, it’s quantifiable. Setting you aside because I’m SURE you’re an exception… it’s still women who are the consumer backbone of the romance genre. It’s women not men who grow up fantasizing about their wedding day. Even from a psychological perspective it’s been proven men are more interested in “things” whereas women are more interested in people. When I'm in l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:00 AM |
| -2 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Yeah I’m not arguing that all of society is spiraling, I’m just not pretending women are ahead, women are to themselves though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?So do you now understand why women are sick of hearing how much better we have it just because men want to use us for sex? I mean, according to most men, we ought to be THRILLED to be so sexually desired. I actually do think women have it worse in some ways than a lot of RP guys do, but you’re comparing a woman’s tribulation of ONLY being sexually desired to a man’s of NOT BEING DESIRED at all. If women wanted just physical intimacy they can get it, if you wanted a relationship just for the sake… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?No no, men DO get to decide if they’re average or not in many areas with enough work. Whether or not that’s enough for women is a separate issue. Again, for like the fourth time in this thread: If for arguments sake 80% of women considered (let’s say 150k a year to be “poor” that’s not an indication that 150k isn’t a good income—it’s a very good income statistically speaking—it’s that 80% of women don’t understand how averages work. You see this with height, whether or not 5’9 is desirable enoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:22 AM |
| 9 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Oh get your panties out of their bunch and relax. You asked about this idea discussed in red pill about 80/20, it’s simple math. If you rank as a 3 and you think you’re entitled to an 8, you’re delusional and spoiled. What, you genuinely thought red pill would teach this and be like “and that makes sense because women are infallible angels right now” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?This isn’t about what I think Never said it was. It’s about the assertion that 80% of women want the top 20% of men I have no idea why you’re still trying to argue with me about this, this isn’t my assertion Because this is like the third time you’ve just used “average” and “desirable” as if they’re interchangeable. I’m trying to answer and you’re just like “er no I already said women don’t want that” I get that you’re trying to point out how unreasonable women are or whatever, but it’s complete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:08 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?I included attractive men in there dunno if you saw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:59 AM |
| -1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Riiiiight, you’re doing ok so far let’s try to walk through the rest together, stay with me now hun… The 80/20 rule implies the mathematical likelihood that a “3” of a woman thinks a 7 as a man isn’t good enough for her, because she is only swiping on 8s and above—genuinely thinking they can pull one… Good so far? Great. So if we ex-trap-o-late (big word, I know. Take your time to google and come back) that data, we can assume somewhat of a proportionate jump as the woman becomes more attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:57 AM |
| 10 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Smh. Lady, idek what’s not clicking. Nobody can control what the opposite sex is attracted to, yes. This is however a completely separate topic from averages. I’m going to try to simplify this even further: We are at a point of modern womens delusion and spoiled behavior that their equal in a man is no longer just not enough, but repulsive to said women—not because those women have PhDs in evolutionary psychology, or the self awareness to say “I am also a six but men fuck more and that’s cool wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:49 AM |
| 14 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?I don’t think it’s me getting pissy lol. The 80/20 thing is based off the idea modern women are both delusional and spoiled. That’s not even my opinion that’s just what that idea is based off of. Hence my metaphor over hamburger helper, like red pill men already know this idea and why it’s stated that’s why it says to go to the gym, stack money, develop status, etc IF you want relationships with women; it doesn’t teach them they’re not desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:43 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?No, I’m not Err… yes, yes you are?… I already made this point with income, just because one person or a whole gender thinks 80k isn’t enough money, that doesn’t mean it’s not twice the average. The number of men willing to commit to the narrow band of women I described is the largest than at any other time of our lives https://spectrumnews1.com/oh/columbus/news/2023/03/10/u-s—marriage-rate-plummets-nearly-60–over-the-past-50-years—study-reveals The marriage rate is literally the lowest it’s been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:39 AM |
| -1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Dude what? Almost all women find EIGHTY PERCENT of men unattractive physically speaking; women are just as obese as men now… extrapolate that out to women who are more attractive and you do the math… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Women love love. They can AFFORD to love love. Many men cannot afford this luxury because dating—the precursor to love—is exponentially more competitive and remorseless for men. Women love romance in large part because they receive the vast majority of benefit AND control with less investment. Look at romance novels or films: love triangles where a woman is choosing between two suitors bending over backwards to offer love, women exiting committed relationships to pursue another guy because the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:25 AM |
| -1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Something you’re missing though is A LOT of women genuinely do think they could get a male celebrity to commit if they somehow serendipitously ran into them at a bar or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Then that becomes a separate issue. Because if we stretched out your point to its fullest extent it’s something like “maybe women do just want to be passed around by Chad’s, they’re not wanting more or losing anything.” Which is fine if that’s what women wanted to do so long as they can acknowledge how much that tank their value as LTR options or being respected much in general by men. I think of a story that Lana Rhodes—a pornstar—told on a podcast about going on a date with Kevin Durant, one o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:04 AM |
| -1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Again, the entire point of my post was asking how these men are in the same “league” as these women Because you really are conflating average with undesirable. Think of income, you know how you hear—regardless how often it happens in reality—all these street interviews of women and the three 6s? One of them referring to six figure income. But this has no bearing on whether or not it’s “average” just because women want a man who makes 100k a year, it doesn’t negate the fact the average is 40k. No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:53 PM |
| 24 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?This is like saying because a spoiled rich kid doesn’t want hamburger helper because it’s not filet mignon, it’s no longer edible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:42 PM |
| -1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?This. Humans are intrinsically social creatures, we crave companionship—especially romantic companionship. They’d rather stay single not because they’re simply NOT attracted to average men, but because they’re being TAUGHT to be REPULSED by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toPpl that preface their statement with “I mean” are poor communicators🤓 Stop it. It’s literally a debate forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansDoesn’t depend on what other men are doing, it depends on what she is doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:42 AM |
| – | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.This is a very long and angry reply. Yeah, you basically painted me as a rapist so. And now you’re gaslighting me by implying I overreacted to such a horrendous accusation. It’s how you react to your sexual performance being called in to question by a stranger on the internet. Meh, it’s more the moral accusation mixed with my low tolerance for stupidity. Imagine if it was a woman you just slept with in person. Scary. Imagine dating you. Scary. Either you have only slept with a couple of people, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:48 AM |
| -2 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansCool, an exception to a rule… seems to be where women’s entire argument stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:24 AM |
| -7 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansTime away does not equal labor. Sure, if someone has a commute that makes it more difficult to do household chores it makes sense to be more lenient. But the difference in commute is almost NEVER that drastic, the vast majority of people choose not to take jobs that would require a four hour commute. So again, let’s say my commute is 45 minutes and yours is an hour and a half (for arguments sake) if you’re a receptionist but I’m a plumber I’m going to be more tired, I’ve literally worked harder … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:05 AM |
| -6 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansWhy are you assuming you know every couples job? I’m not, I’m speaking to the rule not the exceptions. I’ve only ever dated white collar guys who work in air conditioned offices like me, so what difference does that make to our relationship just because there are other guys out there working physically demanding jobs? See above. This sub is for general discussions between men and women, not couples counseling for YOUR specific situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:02 AM |
| -1 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansIt’s something more personalized for each couple, with that I can agree. The problem is most women in relationships will not agree. As long as you’re both employed, you’re both working equally as hard as far as she is concerned. The principle should be though that both people should have equal free time/leisure time. Which is not really the case in the US. Coulda woulda shoulda. The facts remain the same, even if I worked less hours as a bouncer/electrician/plumber than you as a receptionist I’m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:00 AM |
| -10 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansThe principle is simple. Women think it should be equal because men and women both work now. And that’s as far as you all seem to think. What jobs? Men are more likely to work more hours, more likely to be laborers, more likely to get ailments from their jobs, more likely to get long-term side effects from their jobs, more likely to DIE on the job. The truth is simple but hard to swallow, men still work harder. There is zero reason household chores should be 50/50 when you’re working in air cond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toI mean that was your chance to come up with something else to prove me wrong. Your response seems like proof that you were in fact holding onto that one in your back pocket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toAgain, if women are going to use the point of “see most people end up married” or whatever, how do you reconcile that with most of those marriages that end in divorce do so because the woman initiated it? (80%) That to me says it’s more likely that those women felt they were settling and were perpetually ready to monkey-branch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toIf women are gonna continue the whole “most men end up in relationships” shtick as an argument over women’s standards not being inflated, then y’all need to reconcile that fact with the fact that over 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women can end up in relationships with average men, sure. This doesn’t prove those women don’t feel like they’re settling or constantly have one foot out of the pool in case something better comes along. anticipates some tired counterpoint about not sharing h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toThe reason red pill and blackpill are getting so much traction is because studies like this exist and women’s responses are usually just angry downvotes. It’s like we can’t even have a transparent discussion on this. Why are so many men misogynistic now? Why are so many men pulling out of dating? They’re tired of having bad faith discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity tomeanwhile all the average men with great personalities you said can’t get women are getting laid left and right I… more and more I am convinced women literally just live life through a separate reality. Edit: like bro, left and right? Sliiiightly hyperbolic wouldn’t you say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toMythology? Kamala Harris exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toI mean… I’m not agreeing with him but technically speaking, I’m pretty sure in Christianity there’s like a huge pillar being men should lead their wives because when women are “unsupervised” they eat the apple. Not saying I agree or whatever but that much I know about Christianity, and am pretty sure similar ideas are echoed on other religions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:36 AM |
| – | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Bold of you to assume l’ve never slept with a straight woman. You’re a lesbian… it doesn’t matter if you have because the dynamics are different. Thought that was obvious. What you are describing, such as saying “my dirty little slut” is something that happens a lot in porn. So is penetrative sex, your point? If you think those terms only exist in porn directed at women, go read a smut novel. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/books/a36506/erotic-novels-you-must-read/ Go read some of tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 11:43 PM |
| – | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.A major part of my point that many men here are ignoring is that if you’re an average looking guy, you need to forego your old approach to dating. For starters, lower your standards INITIALLY. Go to a bar you go to often, approach a woman who you think is “below your league” BUT has hot friends. Once you sleep with the first woman that was probably pretty easy due to “not being a looksmatch” your reputation can spread, this opens doors to her friends who may be more attractive. The second is get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.No but you were posting in r/deadbedrooms two years ago about how you and your wife of more than a decade (ex now? Any update?) no longer having any intimacy or sex and now you’re trying to tell me I don’t understand how women’s sexuality works. Focus on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Hair pulling is degrading Yeah… that’s kind of the point? I mean this with no disrespect but I do think your sexuality and lack of experience in sleeping with heterosexual women could be the reason for your view on this. I know nothing about what lesbians want. You would be shocked at how many straight women think it’s hot to be called things like “my dirty little slut” under the right pretenses. Trust, comfort, and consent are always pivotal to this; but if those conditions are met most women I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I bounced at Space for the better part of a decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.That would be a good gotcha if you weren’t responding to a RP man telling men to do something because of how women would treat you afterwards. Glad you’re caught up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Could be, idk. Caitlin is pretty good, look up Stirling Cooper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Look at the comments from women and see if they disagree with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.False. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:04 AM |
| – | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.This response screams, “projection” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:04 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.K bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.No, but it can help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.It is when you fully understand the benefits that come with it. The dynamics flip. Have you ever been COURTED by a woman? Flown out? Cooked for? Taken shopping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.If you aren’t good in bed then you would never understand the level of effort most women DO put in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.The way Red Pill views women fundamentally is monolithic and objectifying. Not to break the fairy tale, but a man can give a woman her best sexual experience without giving two shits about her. Regardless, that is not really how many red pill men see women; women are only exposed to the extremes—many RP men just want the traditional gender roles back, which also includes a man saying “I AM WILLING TO DIE FOR YOU” not very objectifying if you ask me. Having practical instructions on how to be goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Honey, saying that something CAN is different from saying it IS. Doesn’t matter how good you are in bed, if you are broke and look like Gollum it’s still not going to mean much. It all matters. It varies in degree and varies depending on the person. Which is the point we’ve all been trying to make—that there are other factors that can be more important than physical attractiveness and status. Women still drastically underestimate how much those things mean to them, while men underestimate how mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:49 AM |
| – | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?I mean by BDSM I pretty much was referring to like being tied up and shit like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Dude I was definitely not expecting it to be this controversial. It’s a good indicator not to take this sub too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I’m struggling to understand your point. Every woman is NOT married to a sex god, men who are really good in bed are incredibly rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Because if you do, you will often be treated to the other things many women have to offer. She’ll start cooking for you She’ll clean for you Offer to take your car for a wash Buy you things Take you on dates Be much more submissive for you Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:31 AM |
| -2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Yes. As per the thousands of women commenting. I guarantee those women won’t forget learning that. Again, if you don’t believe me, ask women if they’d lose attraction for a man after hearing he was bad in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Not necessarily true. Like I said in earlier comments, you can (theoretically) hook up with a less attractive woman, and through reputation alone, have a chance with her hotter friends if you’d like. And women were saying how size isn’t important and I don’t think it’s that important for actually good sex but I know a guy who has 50+ bodies on the sole fact that word got around about him being hung. Look up a guy named Milton Berle, old comedian. He’s bedded some of hollywoods most beautiful wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I said somewhere else in this thread but a good pick me up is hearing women’s “hear me outs” Like, have you ever been attracted to somebody where they’re not the most conventionally attractive person but “there’s just something about them?” Women experience that feeling more strongly. Anyway, I’m just glad I can help somebody out and maybe make them a little more hopeful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.This is almost word-for-word one of the points Stirling Cooper makes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Your dad taught you your stroke game chief?… Edit: yeah sorry guys, don’t listen to former male escorts or sex coaches even if they happen to be red pill. This guys average ass dad who has slept with MAYBE 10 women (being incredibly generous) apparently has the keys to woman’s mind-numbing orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.He keeps saying this even though Stirling Cooper—who is redpill—has been on multiple podcasts hosted by women where his ideas are met with “oh my god YES, exactly that.” I never said it HAD to be red pill, but that men would be more likely to buy into it because… human nature. Women do this too, women don’t read Maxim to be more attractive they read Cosmopolitan. Regardless, that one RP man’s existence is proof alone that your entire counterpoint is bunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Idk if you mean that sarcastically or not lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.it’s to watch a woman’s reactions, give enthusiastic foreplay and sex and make a seductive atmosphere then that will probably work on most women. Yes, not the latter. so imo listening to women more would probably help those guys. This I would disagree with though, most of my sources have been men and it’s worked just fine. I don’t care who it’s coming from so long as it’s actually good advice. Speaking for myself, I don’t really understand the women who say they don’t care about orgasms/their pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I’ve explained multiple times how this isn’t something I recommend solely relying on for “leads” but I also explained multiple times how—contrary to popular belief—it CAN give you more opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:56 AM |
| -1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Again yes bud Henry Cavil will have way more opportunities than you based on his looks and status. Can you point to me where I’m saying otherwise? And it’s mostly status btw. Take away his fame, assume he’s mediocre in bed and say we both live in a small town. He hooks up with a pretty hot girl because of his looks. Then she goes to her friend group and says “turns out Henry is really underwhelming.” This girls lose interest, Henry walks away with a one-and-done hookup. I hook up with one of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:55 AM |
| -6 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Yes. Like I said, I’m not advocating for men to completely rely on this. With that said it CAN set you up for opportunities based on aforementioned reasons. Also it’s the change in approach that would supplement this. Like I said earlier, even if a girl gave me a “pity” kiss, most men would be like “fuck that don’t stand for it” and whatever. But I’m not bitter about a woman finding Henry Cavill more physically attractive to me enough for her to want to hook up with him faster, because I’m THAT … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.lol yeah there is a lot of that but you’d be surprised. If men ever want to know how women see looks, look up their “hear me outs” I’ve seen wildly conventionally attractive women be OBSESSED with guys like Pedro Pascal or Adam Driver, they could have chosen other successful celebrities that are more attractive “just something about him though.” Edit: point is look into what the guys are DOING and saying. You read someone like Morgan Bridges you’ll see the female character often doesn’t “get wet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.An example I would give is I dated a girl (I broke it off) who was objectively more attractive than me. Her exes were college football players, a male bathing suit model, and a rower. She kind of treated me like I was the safe option at first. Took her out on 4 dates before I got to kiss her, it started as kind of a “meh you’re cute and sweet, alright I’ll just give you a kiss I guess” kinda vibe. I am very confident I’m a good kisser. She was impressed, then I went for more. Before we actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I never said this is something you should completely rely on for getting laid, with that said it does absolutely help increase those opportunities. For starters it improves genuine confidence. Secondly if you have a broad enough definition of sex, it improves your ability to tease and flirt. Thirdly reputation alone has been the reason I’ve gotten laid on more than one occasion. Fourth and finally, arguably my biggest point: men are less willing to play the long-game. “If she likes you it’ll be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.SHOUTOUT NINA HARTLEY🗣️🗣️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.You can be a backup until you have sex, if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Meh, size queens exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Wrong. For LTRs this is a bigger deal. I’ve had too many one night stands with women I specifically DID NOT communicate with that ended up calling me for dick appointments. I’m not trying to say communication isn’t important, but it is not the crux of a man being good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.if you are doing what you want how is it good in bed? Women are more attracted to leaders. They are attracted to dominant men. If you ask women—ladies, feel free to correct me—a good description of great sex for women; is having with a man they are attracted to AND TRUST enough to submit to, to release and “surrender” in a way. That mean the man is being dominant, doing what he wants. It’s just that often what he wants overlaps with what SHE wants HIM to do. It’s hard to explain without graphic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.https://youtu.be/sen8Tn8CBA4?si=soK6K7DZzvw-pFMG | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.This is your argument? That’s it? How about that just the fact that a person is more likely to be convinced about something if it comes from someone they mostly agree with and trust? Why should it not be red-pill? If it was from somewhere else do YOU think red-pill men would listen? Do WOMEN listen to Red-pill so that THEY can learn how to be more attractive? No. You’re triggered because you would rather RP men essentially stop being red pill (big ask) because you can’t settle on RP having minds… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I wouldn’t say that. I DO believe that both are true. Some women now DO have inflated and delusional standards, sure. Looks are probably more important than EVER. BUT, more men are giving up from the jump than probably ever before. Now it’s more extreme, while yes there are women that you wouldn’t even be able to introduce yourself to because you’re not 6 feet tall, the bar for knowing how to talk to women has probably never been lower. This PLUS the fact that men don’t want to court or wait for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Mmmm nope. I said you’re stating factors that matter more than those things. Case in point. No im not. I’m not saying this is more important or more influential in sexual attractiveness and if you BOTHERED you’d know that I stated multiple times to other replies that being good in bed alone is not going to get you laid more than looking like a male model. Women discuss traits they LIKE, not ones they wanna fuck. Being funny and kind—which are things women say that you’re referring to—don’t actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I believe there are grifters and people that people CALL grifters. With something like this I think it’s more the fact that the vast majority of men never bothered to try—the only reason I did when I was younger was due to insecurities that I wanted to overcome. If red-pill did try this, and had this experience, they would be preaching it more. For example, Stirling Cooper is one of the more successful RP commentators, and this is a massive pillar of his teaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I AM NOT JUST SAYING TO LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER. Good fucking lord bro. I get it, you keep saying it, AS IF IT MEANS ANYTHING LMFAO. Smdh. First of all, NINETY-NINE percent of the time, women are not just going to hand you a guidebook on what they like in bed, furthermore MOST DONT WANT TO. Women are attracted to men that “just get it.” Some things are pretty damn universal. Women don’t need to solely listen to men to know that most men like being deepthroated, yes? You can look up JUST WOMEN if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I think that’s fair and makes sense. But imo most don’t understand how it can get you into bed in some cases, and makes the “beta backup option” playbook negated. In other words a lot of red pill men don’t want to wait for sex and feel like a backup but don’t realize they can completely switch the dynamic if they’re patient enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Yes. This. I truly believe men here are struggling with what I’m saying because they’ve never had a woman obsessed with how you are in the sack. It’s MIND-BOGGLING how differently women treat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.In no way am I saying being good in bed will get you laid more than looking like a male model. However, it can in some instances due to reputation alone. Point is it can drastically change your options and satisfaction in dating overall. Another thing is a lot of men aren’t bothering courting women anymore whatsoever because they feel “if she’s not attracted to me enough to give it up fast, she’ll never be more attracted to me than a better looking guy” which isn’t true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.No. But at this point nothing I say will click. You just for some reason desperately want to be mad today so you’re either twisting my words or genuinely not comprehending what’s being said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Jesus Christ… I’m saying most men think that due to like one study that was popularized by a fitness influencer named Kinobody keeps repeating. There is some truth to that though. ALL ELSE BEING EQUAL, sex with a hotter person is more enjoyable. If you want to debate that, spare me. My point is most men put too much stock into that one idea without learning all the other factors that predominantly determine whether a man is good in bed or not. You’re getting so triggered when you’re not even fol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.It doesn’t have to be… because it’s not there… I’m not sure what isn’t clicking. How are you getting “learn how to be good in bed from red-pill men” from a post titled more like “red pill doesn’t teach good sex enough” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:36 AM |
| -4 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Totally bro, I’m like Edward Cullen down there. Shits my go-to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.don’t make bets you wouldn’t like to lose. I don’t, I rarely bet. If I do, they’re sure things. I stand by my previous statement. You might be surprised how far knowing the basics of clitoral stimulation and cunnilingus can get you. Uh, no I wouldn’t because I’m past that… YOU would be surprised how much more you can learn on improve on though. Going in with the attitude that you know what she wants without even fucking asking her is a great way to crash and burn. But you do you. Not what I said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:33 AM |
| -1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.It helps getting in the door a little in the sense of the confidence it brings, the self-assuredness, and the ability to flirt. I know it sounds crazy but look up “the law of state transference” literally just making flirtatious eye contact with a woman while you’re thinking “heh, I could blow your mind” will express itself. Women often just refer to this as “big dick energy” Then there’s the cases of rumor getting around town and increasing your options based solely on that. But yes still take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.There ya go. At WORST I’ve gotten almost “frustrated” reactions. Like really? HES good in bed? But that’s the minority. Like you said if rock a woman’s socks off, a lot of the times she’s gonna go back to her friends and go “you’re not gonna believe how my date went” your looks almost become a secondary factor to the story in that group of women. As a woman, tell me if I’m wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Yeah, because there’s no dialogue on teaching men to be good in bed… that’s why that’s all you see… that’s literally the entire point of the post. Glad you’re caught up. I mentioned asking what a woman’s preferences were ONCE. Beyond that all of my teaching from things like the Kamasutra, sex therapists, or former male escorts. In fact there’s only been one women I listen to on occasion for it, Ashley Randall. And it worked just fine. So I’m not saying to disregard women’s opinion on this, but I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.In order for there to be cognitive dissonance you would have to cite me saying that looks and status were all that mattered to begin with. You can’t. Because I never did. I also am not saying being good in bed is MORE important but that it can be a great equalizer. The lack of reading comprehension is sooOOoOoOo LoUd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Being “good in bed” for a woman’s benefit actually has no benefit for the man. I literally just cited real-life examples of women courting me directly due to being good in bed. if we further extrapolate “being good in bed” as ONLY doing what pleases a woman Still not what I said. But ok. You thinking being good in bed is limited to like being some soft people pleaser is more revealing of what YOU think is good in bed. Ironically, doing what pleases you as a man in bed WITH CONFIDENCE is a big ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I’m referring to Stirling Cooper who is red pill, in the manosphere, and a former escort. Who… is saying all of my learning is coming from ONE guy? Who is saying all of my knowledge is coming solely from red-pill? Did you even read it orrrr… because the TITLE is SPECIFICALLY about how red-pill DOESN’T teach this enough… Reread, take your time this go around.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.It’s okay to admit you’re bad at flirting, or don’t understand psychology. There’s a reason “gonzo porn” is predominantly for men, women like buildups to sex—hence smut novels being more popular. It’s the same for sex itself, women like it more when you tease them during oral sex rather than just going for it all off the bat. Have… have you had sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.… you mean former male escorts being praised by women for what they teach men in bed? This is like saying it’s pathetic to learn how to cook (something else that’s super common and ordinary) from a Michelin chef. Your arrogance and unwillingness to learn is why you’re probably bad in bed. Enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Somebody is overestimating themselves. Like I said, I was a 6 at best having 8s taking me out on dates and wanting commitment despite me being average in every other area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:59 AM |
| -4 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Damn my b my brother in Christ. u right how pathetic of me to want to improve on things🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.I’m willing to bet a vital organ I’ve given women more orgasms than you if your entire definition of “good in bed” is as reductive as finding out where the clit is (which is helpful to middle schoolers maybe, that’s some day one ish if you ask me), rubbing clits and going down on them. Best advice I can give, you know that like hour before you take a girl home when you’re still at the bar/date? That’s foreplay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.To clarify, you’re referring to “don’t ask fish how to catch fish” which is separate from just finding out women’s preferences in bed—especially because if you’re close enough for her to divulge that, it’s less likely to be a PC answer. Secondly, still kinda true. Ask any women if constantly asking “you like that?” “Does that feel good?” is better than a man just knowing what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Is hell freezing over? Are women defending a red-pill man’s ideas over a purple pill man’s take?… Sorry I had to. You are both right, there are new studies showing the biggest difference in women’s orgasm likelihood is the man’s bf% and shoulder to waist ratio. I think this is solely more because of 1: more people exercise than read the Kamasutra. And 2: duh? Oh hotter people make sex more enjoyable? You don’t say. Problem is a lot of men ran away with this and genuinely believe spamming side de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.This. Look up .pdfs of popular smut novels. They’re like glossaries for women’s arousal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?Someone’s triggered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?Why is this about “women” when the whole comment that started this all was about what I prefer… …because it wasn’t? You stated an opinion on promiscuous men being bad partners and I gave my opinion on that in return… because we’re on a public forum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?Nah promiscuity in men means he is unsafe and irresponsible with his body and health. If that’s what you believe then I commend the continuity. My problem with this stance is MOST women don’t actually abide by this, even when they say they do. Far more women would be willing to marry a guy like Chris Evans despite knowing he’s probably been around more than 99% of the men they know. A man will break off entire marriages after hearing about his fiancés story in college. Imo, it just comes off mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?I’m not sure if it is due to red-pill or not, I could see it that way though. From a red-pill man’s perspective I started kink shaming when kinks started to be “weird” I don’t judge BDSM or RP or whatever, but things like cuckoldry and race fetishism? Absolutely. There’s not a person on earth that can make me believe that getting off to seeing your wife getting railed isn’t a sign of mental illness. And the race fetishism got out of hand the past few years with IR porn, “BNWO” is some of the wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?The promiscuous man being a bad partner could be due to other reasons though. Most women could be promiscuous if they wanted to, most men cannot. Usually, if a man has slept around it means he’s attractive; the more attractive a person is the more options they have, the more options they have the less they tend to commit. You see this often with celebrities—some of the most attractive and successful people on earth and they tend to have sloppier relationships that don’t last more than the averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:24 PM |
| – | "women love sex, maybe they just don't like it with you..."It’s really in the middle. Women don’t enjoy sex GENERALLY as much as men do. But women appreciate GOOD sex more than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.I say this all the time. “And they STILL CGId HIS ABS!” Like really though, the detrimental effects aren’t even acknowledged. For starters, to achieve that look it takes nothing but spare time, the best equipment, the best trainers, the best nutritionist, the best chefs, AND a dangerous cocktail of ingredients (juice) all so they still need computer imaging because he just wasnt jacked enough. The other big issue is this generation ran away with the idea of “big strong muscles = masculinity.” I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.MARIANO RIVERA MENTIONED🗣️🗣️ I love it. Lifelong yankee fan and I LOVE that Mo analogy and am 100% stealing it. I’ve been giving this advice about dealing with rejection to men without even realizing it. Like if more people here knew who he was this would get more love. The man had one of—if not THEE most heart-wrenching blown saves in baseball history. A MONTH after 9/11 and New York’s team was in the WS. We NEEDED that chip… “Flipped… CENTERFIELD… THE DIAMONDBACKS WIN THE WORLD SERIES.” Same m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.completely ignoring that that wouldn’t even be an option for most guys. This phenomenon was one of the things that made me more red-pilled. The whole “most guys are literally invisible” thing has been SO true in so many of my experiences in hearing from women. I make this comparison all the time but things like Tinder, social media, and the entertainment industry are doing to women what mobile porn did to men in the 2000s. Skewed reality. There was a time when women’s argument over “unrealistic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.Most people are inherently not self-aware. That’s fair. I prefaced it by saying that my experience is limited to a man dating women, I can’t speak to women’s experiences with men and I didn’t want to sound misogynistic; but it’s just that again, as a straight man OBVIOUSLY all of my “gripes” will be with women. Something I will say about self-awareness though, is that I do believe that simply due to how our culture is set up it’s EASIER for men to be more self-aware. Only because of two reasons:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 11:47 PM |
| 12 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.A good rule of thumb I’ve made for myself is whenever women are describing what they want in a man, they’re describing the side dishes and cherries on top. For A LOT of women—not all—they mean, “I like it when men like Henry Cavill are kind and have good hygiene.” And maybe it’s because they might get judged for being honest, but it’s unfair for women to complain that men don’t know what they’re doing or don’t know what women want when women are omitting some of the most important factors to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 11:29 PM |
| 19 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.but it needs to come from women who are aware… That’s been the issue. My biggest gripe in dating women has been the complete and utter lack of self-awareness that so many young women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 11:25 PM |
| 0 | What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to?Relax bro it was meant to be an obvious generalization. Apparently people need to throw an obligatory “not all women/men” label on posts like they’re cigarette warnings lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 12:24 AM |
| 7 | What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to?Wouldn’t say women are “abusers” if they’re not attracted to you but, you know that whole “men don’t really respect women if they only respect the ones theyre attracted to” saying? Yeah, y’all are way worse at that lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 03:37 PM |
| 21 | Women who get the ick = porn brained menThe idea of “porn brain” being limited to “a man that enjoys porn more than sex” is a recent term. Originally, the main reason the dialogue of the effects of porn began in the first place was because it instilled very negative, dehumanizing, objectifying, and commodifiying(? i.e. turning women into commodities) of women. Which you can easily argue is similar to the effects of social media, dating apps, and film had on women’s views of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe feminism is for equality of the sexes? Or just helping women?Pretty much all of those things require an expertise. The point of the draft is that in the case we need one, it’s because we need raw manpower. Literally just bodies fit to carry out physically demanding tasks. Like infantry. Cannon fodder essentially. That last line makes no sense as an argument lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe feminism is for equality of the sexes? Or just helping women?Because your average woman is more of a liability than aid on a battlefield. Full stop. It is a fact that conservative men cannot say without being attacked but has been proven time and time again. It is rare for a woman to be able to complete all typical tasks of a soldier at the same rate of efficacy as men—and these are women who enlisted. And any tiered-operator? Forget it. If women were truly capable of being as good as soldiers, how come none of them are special operators? Edit: point bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.When it comes to marriage I would suggest for him to wait and then date younger. This might go away culturally, but it will never go away in those women’s minds. The ones who have subscribed to this fully are totally bought in, it would probably be like shell-shock to change now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.The obsession with it is. And that number is still declining. Besides, who is to say those men aren’t now more likely to be in relationships with dissatisfied women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 04:29 AM |
| 10 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.At times, it seems like telling women they collectively need to do anything differently instead of having society cater to them more is considered sexist today. That was the goal. You don’t need to defend your stance with logic if you successfully convince everyone that anyone who disagrees is x, y, or z. Can’t begin to tell you how many times me discussing women’s inflated standards has led women debating me to assume I’m an incel despite me having been in a relationship at the time. And that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers?red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? Uh, yeah? Women want men who find them sexy but aren’t shallow enough to only like that about them, yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.That’s not what most women I know are doing. They are still going on dates with those men, and banging him. Um, yeah… that’s my point? Where as, how many average men can bang a supermodel.. in her car or inside a house? Hypergamy and how much more casually men view sex are the reasons for this, your point? This is how men misinterpret their value too. You are not in the same league as a woman that can attract sexual attention from top tier men, Again, this is the issue. Women have this misconcep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Sure, the height thing is a great example. If it’s true that means EIGHTY PERCENT of women—which mathematically means some ugly ass women have such high standards that a guy like Marlon Brando or paul Newman or Tom hardy wouldn’t have a chance. The argument is usually, “yeah but if those guys like those women then the standards aren’t too high” The problem is when people say this they really mean, “because those dudes are for one: dudes, meaning they have a more casual outlook on sex to begin wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:53 AM |
| 22 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.I’m kind of shocked at how people can’t see this. Like people genuinely think things like instagram, “reality” dating shows, and tinder aren’t bad for worldviews?… seriously? I say this with zero expectation of change though. We’ve lived through multiple decades of a culture that mostly aligns with feminism but somehow feminism has modern women convinced we’re still in the era of Sean Connery slapping women for speaking their opinion. They think Hollywood and the music industry are Andrew Tate w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.This is wildly ironic considering every conversation I’ve had about women’s inflated standards led to a strawman—me somehow suggesting arranged marriage or governmental force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Because women constantly misinterpret their value. Average women being some model-looking dudes backseat throat demon does not in fact mean that’s where women stand in terms of league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:37 AM |
| 18 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.A cultural detox. Women’s views on men is nearly IDENTICAL to the negative effects mobile porn instilled in men in regard to their views on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.The forced marriage thing is insane. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve tried to have a conversation on here about whether or not women’s standards have inflated that has ended with a woman twisting my words into suggesting some weird-ass archaic arranged marriage talking point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?At worst it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. How people don’t see how the culture of dating has changed since those married men you’re referring to has, is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:04 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?Men mostly have issue with the idea of “I meet my own standards” because that’s something only women seem to stand on. This especially frustrating because men don’t “hold it against” women that don’t meet the standards the man has within himself. For example, 99% of men I know with six-pack abs have zero desire for a woman that also has abs—women don’t seem to have an issue with this, they have issue with men wanting women with lower body counts. Ultimately, most men are frustrated by the fact m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Women would become less picky if men increased their parental investmentYeah, this post has some deflection vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Women would become less picky if men increased their parental investmentI’m not sure whether providing resources such as money and housing is considered parental investment. In places like New York they’re not mutually exclusive. Like it’s nuts, I know about a dozen people in their late 20s living at home still in NY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWomen do this literally all the time? No. Yes. I don’t care, and I don’t need it explained to me or rationalized further Clearly, you do care and need it explained because you both brought it up to begin with and inserted an incorrect assumption, glad you’re caught up. It’s an attempt to justify a double standard all the same No, it’s an attempt to help you understand that double standards are both natural and expected. What would be attractive behavior in a woman mostly wouldn’t for a man and v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou’re completely missing the point. It still applies to behavior; an attractive woman twerking will be more sexually arousing to most men than a man twerking would be for most women despite them doing the exact same dance moves. A woman being submissive is more arousing for most men than a submissive man would be for most women. A man chopping down trees or lifting heavy things will be more sexually arousing for most women than a woman doing the same. And on… and on… and on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis is hilarious. Just admit you have no understanding of both history and social psychology. if you aren’t (insert adjective), and not a (insert adjective) why would anyone listen? Blah blah blah if actions don’t match accusations it should all be sunshine and rainbows. So real quick, a long time ago there were these crazy “trials” in Salem right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy… would friends… listen to friends’ opinions… on people they don’t know and owe no loyalty to… Dude, what? Edit: kinda baffled tbh. If your friend goes up to you and says someone was a piece of shit, and you don’t run into that person often; you’re gonna be like “meh, I don’t believe my friend I’m gonna assume it’s the opposite until proven otherwise” Like good on ya I guess? But that’s so utterly not realistic I don’t know how to react. Are you an alien? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaI know multiple men who have done both—I’ve only tried minoxidil—and none of us experienced side effects. High possibility is an overstatement. Also—in the US at least—there’s like hundreds of things that fuck with your hormones as we’re finding out. So that being a metric is gonna much harder than you’ve considered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaI don’t think AS MANY women have this absurd prioritization with height as social media portrays; but I know FOR A FACT it’s still more than every woman I’ve met admits. It is definitely more in the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 01:04 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI only ever see men trying to rationalize it Women do this literally all the time? The reason you see the gun argument or that it’s been thousands of years since the invention of martial arts and Smith & Wesson, is because there’s actually still women who think the length of a man’s femur bone will make him a better protector, and not just admitting “duh my monkey brain says hot”. WHICH WOULD BE FINE. But it gets worse. If anything, not only do they avoid admitting it through some absurd rationa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:58 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYeah except nobody actually calls you insecure for that preference for starters, and secondly it’s not ONE woman. You tell a girl you don’t like women with high N counts and what she SAYS to her GROUP of friends could be more along the lines of “he’s a misogynist” Do that enough times as a man and your entire reputation in small towns could be ruined over a false narrative, and ruin ANY chance of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:49 AM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis will get downvoted but it’s ridiculously true. Modern women can somehow rationalize sleeping with douchey but hot guys on the first date, but making good men wait; while also being completely befuddled at the idea of some men just saying “oh yeah I totally don’t care about N count” with women they didn’t want to commit to in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:47 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhat makes your petite feminine frame different from a man having a petite feminine frame? Uhhh, idk, maybe that men and women want different things?… just spitballing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou can’t. Women continue to not understand how double standards work.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:42 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThey only apply it to men and pretty much only N count. Imagine if men carried this same resentment for “hypocrite” women when it came to preferences regarding money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:38 AM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDo you find yourself repulsive Women constantly overestimate how much men and women overlap in desire. I’m buff with a six-pack, women are attracted to me for that; I am not attracted to buff women with six packs. I am attracted to petite women around 5’2; women are not mostly attracted to petite men who are around 5’2. Same goes with money, dominance, strength, etc. The double standards of N count continues to be the hill modern women choose to die on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaOk so then why get mad when women “body shame” men for neck beards? I mean, I don’t care. In general I don’t think men really give a shit about that, me and my guy friends use that term pretty often too. I suppose you could argue that it’s genetic to a large extent and there’s not much you can do except just be clean-shaven all the time. But I think there’s a few things a man could do: minoxidil I heard works for beards, vitamins like biotin, learning how to trim it IF you did wanna grow it out,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaJust as much? Idk about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:41 PM |
| 11 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaRelative to most issues, it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:39 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenYeah you could argue that alone displays where looks are now. The fact that getting tons of compliments on your personality does NOTHING for dating prospects is also a new trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 08:50 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenSomeone disagreeing that someone else is attractive doesn’t make them “delusional,” Not really. Attractiveness isn’t completely subjective, in fact it’s not even mostly subjective. Otherwise, anyone would be able to be a successful model. Notice how SOME people can, then notice how those people tend to have overlapping traits. Peoples preferences may vary on an individual level, and each culture has different beauty standards; HOWEVER, within each culture is a hierarchy on beauty, making them ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 08:46 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenYes and no. The bar for looks has been raised preposterously high, I’ve never been flat-out rejected so quickly for things like height or race than I have the past couple years. However, the bar for charisma and social skills is in hell. Its the hardest time ever to stand out physically but easier than ever to stand out personality wise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:48 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenWhile what you’re saying is true, people can be delusional when it comes to objective attractiveness. This seems to becoming more common. Not long ago women were saying Ryan Gosling is just an average looking dude and men were calling Margot Robbie mid. It’s like, usually the “system” works itself out fine, but there’s a growing number of desensitized, delusional, chronically online, people who have now skewed the mainstream view of attractiveness. That is a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:24 AM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenTwo questions, what would you rate yourself and how did you meet these women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:21 AM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenYou’re going to get this a lot. I know what you’re referring to man, 2016-2020 I was pulling 7s and 8s consistently ON TINDER no less. I got back on in like 2021 and my likes were limited to morbidly obese women. The contrast was literally startling. The argument against you will usually revolve around something like “you were overvaluing yourself to begin with” or “you’re simply not attractive” etc. but my major caveat is I had a mini glow-up by the second time around—I grew exponentially in al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThat is literally what we are talking about Einstein. Thousands of years of men’s preferences staying the same, thousands of years of women’s preferences staying the same. But you have genuinely been deluded into thinking men were just like “meh, not anymore” for absolutely no reason. YOU give me evidence men don’t want modest women. The status-quo is that they do—that has been the accepted frame for millennium. Meaning the burden of proving that things are—for some reason—different today is YOU… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:40 PM |
| – | Why is there no gay passport bro movement?How is passport bros an inherently passive aggressive movement? Lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill types ought to stop eulogising male psychopathyDon’t lose sleep over it. Had it not been for his injury Tyson would’ve taken his head off. Nobody in boxing worth his salt thinks Jake Paul legitimately won. Second, I’m pretty sure Joe thought that woman was nuts. Joe has a lot of respect for fighters and would never see it that way, he humors his guests logic in some occasions for sake of conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:50 AM |
| 3 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?The US puts on the front of being sexually puritanical No they don’t, Europe is the one calling the US puritans. but are actually a lot more sexually pervasive than people are in Europe. There’s 7 countries in Europe that think it should be legal for a grown man to fuck a 14 year old. Stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:45 PM |
| 16 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?It’s not the app that’s different it’s European culture. European culture is so lax when it comes to sex it makes the US look like puritans. To good and bad extents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Why is there no gay passport bro movement?I feel like there’s some slight passive-aggressiveness there no? Idk maybe it’s just me but you make it seem like submissiveness and servitude are bad things, and that men are mad that women expect them to do something and are justified in wanting men to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 12:28 AM |
| 10 | Why is there no gay passport bro movement?Do you think “passport bros” is in response simply to western women not putting out or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATING😂😂😂 watch this shit: Lay out your evidence of proving me wrong in bullet point form. That way my response is much more digestible for you to understand how you’re both missing the forest beyond the tree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGI assume that because how you don’t see this is indicative of how cemented your world view is imo. Again, you asked for evidence, it’s HISTORY. Promiscuous women were frowned upon for literally hundreds—if not THOUSANDS—of years. There’s examples of it going TOO far, sure; but being like “when did men ever have a problem with slutty women” is genuinely that mind-boggling to me. Make no mistake, the only reason you don’t see men en masse saying they want modest women today, is because women ATTAC… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsThere’s lots of movies (yes, now too) where the main female character is not a slut and there’s no evidence she is— you either don’t notice any woman who isn’t shaking her tits, or you think any woman not in a prairie dress or burka is the whore of Babylon. Not what I asked, I said name one movie that’s come out in the past 15 years that GLORIFIES modesty and tradwives—NOT ones that don’t explicitly condone promiscuity. Movies with women being modesty and not being slutty? There’s some massive h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGWe’ve been, no? Ironically it’s the left and feminists that try to validate it. We can’t even say porn—the thing that influenced men to be shitty toward women—is bad for you without women chiming in and defending the industry. Meanwhile, try convincing a modern women to delete her instagram, or stop watching shows that depict toxic relationships or music or whatever. Your name will pop up in forums as some kind of controlling psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsYou are watching what you wanna see. Name a movie that’s come out in the past 15 years glorifying the tradwife lifestyle or modesty in general. Name one movie that wasn’t some niche flick that even hints at slut-shaming. You pick these movies because I am not “picking” this movie, saw a clip of it on instagram thought “is this about what I think it is? (Exonerating women of hoe phases and painting it as some type of “self-discovery” journey)” and upon further inspection I saw it was in fact. you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:17 AM |
| 4 | If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit holeI think there’s a miscommunication. define the male imperative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGYo my man, are you AI? No? Sick. Me neither. That means two REAL people are using the word “Chad” and both knowing its definition. I’m intentionally trying to create an argument out of nothing? This is the third paragraph you’ve written focusing solely on a single monosyllabic word. Self-awareness of a goddamn doorknob. https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/6640473/i-use-men-for-sex-just-like-megan-and-heres-why-you-should-too/amp/ It’s mostly just used as some kinda lame comeback. But yes, femi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsThey do, while also trying to say they’re innocent frolicking princesses. That is the delusional contradiction many men are trying to bring awareness to. Take the film, “How to be Single” in this movie Dakota Johnson’s character starts out as pretty modest and reserved and in a relationship. Well, she never got her sluttiness out for her liking so she wants a break from her boyfriend. She meets her coworker who is into one night stands and hookups. Her character literally breaks up just to hoe o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGFor MOST people monogamy is what’s the most beneficial—this crosses not just cultures but other species. Most cultures establish ONE opinion or ONE way of approaching certain things; that’s what makes it a distinct culture. So if you’re picking one way, you should pick the way that benefits the majority of its people. In this case it’s monogamy. I’m confused, you seem to think re-emphasizing the nuclear family is somehow mutually exclusive to building one’s community—they’re not. If anything bui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGI prefaced with “in a way” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 10:46 PM |
| 4 | If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit holeI’m looking for females to stop attacking men trying to follow the male imperative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 10:46 PM |
| 6 | If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit holeThe responses to this prove this point SO perfectly. “Oh men should find their own circles. So long as those circles echo all of my opinions.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:27 AM |
| 6 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGNo, detox from the shit skewing their worldview. Almost the same exact thing happened with men who consumed too much porn starting ~20 years ago. Porn caused men to dehumanize women, have unrealistic expectations of sexual performance, inflated standards of beauty, and openly disregarded women’s wants. Reality dating shows, instagram, dating apps, and most pop culture industries are now catering to this aspect of women’s dopamine reward center in almost an identical way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:13 AM |
| 4 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGAccording to… men? Most religions? Most traditional cultures? Polls? It wouldn’t matter, because odds are you’re not gonna listen to any answer I provide. But simply put, if you think men have historically been cool with promiscuous women I can send over a history textbook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:10 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGSweetheart you were barely present to begin with. But yeah your snappy one-word response really set the tone and put me in my place. Contentless rhetoric. Another L. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:09 AM |
| 3 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThat’s all you got? I just spelled it out, any simpler and it would be in crayon. Cooked. Take your L and keep it pushing toots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:07 AM |
| 3 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGNo I meant how you put was inaccurate. Again, nobody chooses their options. You can choose who you want but you can’t choose what options you have, you can make an effort to improve said options. Bro we both know what I meant by Chad so it goes both ways einstein. It’s not Mariana’s trench. There are women who get passed around. I know I know feminism told women it’s exactly the same that these women are also using the men but they’re not, even by their own logic and worldview. I’m not slut-sham… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:03 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGHookup culture is working for us? The nuclear family structure had us worse off? Aren’t made to follow rules? Define rules. We follow the rules of physics. We follow natural law. Historically speaking monogamy played a major part in stabilizing western civ. We should go back to kings and their concubines? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:44 AM |
| -1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo porn addicts are why porn exists. And yes, you can in fact indirectly support something by consuming it and again, acknowledge it’s shit. Unless of course you either don’t think junk food is bad for you or have NEVER consumed junk food in which case gold star. What point did you THINK you were making here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:41 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGAgain, in a relationship. Again, oh wow big number me so dumb guess I’m wrong. You guys ever see that part in spaceballs? How many assholes we got on this ship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:39 AM |
| 0 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGYou’re either too dense to pick up on how a daytime TV host saying “we don’t need men” without consequence is an issue or proves my point, or you’re admitting to not having a genuine counterpoint and are just tryna talk shit—do less of the latter, you’re bad at it. Oh now we gotta move the goalposts because we both know you don’t have the balls to double down. Actually I give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you realized how dumb as shit of take it was and had to reiterate carefully. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:37 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGYou did ask. When you implied the only people describing it as inflated standards must be men bitter about being rejected. And if you didn’t, don’t care; because that’s not entitlement, it’s calling something inflated standards. The standard for what is considering a “tall” man as it relates to attractiveness going up, very literally does rebut your point lmfao, this isn’t an agree to disagree thing; it’s either clicking or it’s not. “No amount of men being unhappy blah blah I fuck who I want bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:29 AM |
| 6 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGFirst of all, women—especially as a whole—do not have the ability to date WHICHEVER men they find attractive. Be reasonable. Nobody can do this, not even celebrities. Secondly what you’re trying to describe isn’t what’s happening either: more accurately, it is now easier and more “socially acceptable” (by mainstream standards at least) for women to be willing to casually fuck Chads. What’s happening beyond that is an illusion. Women are getting passed around by Chads: we know this because most w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:02 AM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGDo women not see the problem with this mindset? Odds are, the reason a lot of women’s standards are as high as they are (for superficial traits) is external influences and shit they consume. There’s a litany of data on how social media (as just one example) skews people’s worldview, dehumanizes people, and makes people start comparisons that are unrealistic. This is literally porn with men but switched up so the teacher can’t tell you’re copying. Overconsumption in porn caused men’s sexual stand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:34 AM |
| 3 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGOh wow a big number of people got married last year, guess I’ll pack it in because my point just got debunked… What makes them “failing” exactly? The fact they’re not rich? The fact they’re not getting laid? Or really just the fact they disagree with you? What makes the men they’re watching failures too? They seem to be rich, seem to be having plenty of options in dating—at least the ones that want to. Better question, do you even have an iota of humility to consider WHY they’re congregating? I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:28 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGI don’t think it’s the women in this subs fault. We live in a culture where it’s taboo to criticize them. I grew up with four older sisters, whom I respect, love and were very close to; trust me when I say women have their own shit they need to own up to. I feel like men with sisters can agree on this: if men had honest and transparent conversations online about women the way we do with our sisters we’d be crucified. I can’t talk about women the way I would to my sisters, “the hell are you doing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:15 AM |
| 9 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGI’m in a relationship. Anyway, there’s like a pretty good amount of data on how much height has become a bigger issue, body fat percentage—what’s considered “lean” is much leaner than say 30 years ago despite much higher levels of obesity. Macken Murphy covers this well and is considered pretty objective if anything a lot of people consider him biased in favor of women. I mean like, wasn’t that the point of feminism? Women proudly claim they’ve raised their standards so that seems pretty indispu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:07 AM |
| 0 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThe nuclear family didn’t “fail” we are failing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:01 AM |
| – | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGDon’t bother. What’s wild to me as a man is I have no problem looking at any given dark period in history and being like “yeah, guess men as a majority were fucking up.” You’re not gonna get that with modern women. It’s going to be (insert get out of jail free card, CHOOSE YOUR FIGHTER:) “we’ve been oppressed for a long time,” “we’re still oppressed but simultaneously empowered,” “it’s our turn,” etc. Like this may very well be the ONLY time in history where some sort of macro scale issue is act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:40 AM |
| -5 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGMost sane take here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGInflated standards in women is what he’s referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:36 AM |
| 11 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThat’s not what this is about. Dating as a whole is failing, something is wrong. Assuming every person struggling is so solely because of the individual is naive and reductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:35 AM |
| 3 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGIn a way, a lot of women are forced to date people “they don’t want”. The percentage of divorces being initiated by women isn’t going down it’s going up, regardless of whether or not divorces total are going down; women’s satisfaction in marriage isn’t improving. It’s becoming more and more prevalent for women to be getting into relationships with their equal and considering it settling, this very much is a detriment to overall satisfaction in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsI apologize I could have been clearer: IN MEDIA* that’s all they see. Now sure, we can say “touch grass” and I would agree to an extent but let’s flip it to another issue. If all movies showed white people as being terribly racist towards black people would you blame black people for having more trepidation towards white people? If from their view, Hollywood and the culture they live in geographically allows these depictions as if the black characters DESERVE that treatment, I could not blame th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:42 AM |
| 7 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsNot really, nobody flips on stance more than modern women now. Men are dumb and simple until they’re manipulative players or coercive debaters. We’ve been saying the same shit for literal decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:26 AM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThey’re not supporting, they’re CONSUMING—massive difference. You’re allowed to have McDonald’s on occasion and still be able to acknowledge it’s junk food. That doesn’t make you a hypocrite it makes you average intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:54 AM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt’s not really a misconception, it’s one of those in the moment “oh yeah well blah blah blah” You’ll see far more attractive women with options “groupie” for rockstars knowing those men have slept with hundreds if not thousands of women. There is no equivalent of this for men, shit, hot female content creators actually LOSE a shit ton of male followers if they reveal a boyfriend. It’s not a misconception, it’s women deflecting. Because their biggest argument is it’s a “double standard” ….and? M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:52 AM |
| – | General Dating standards Reflect How Desirable People Are TreatedPretty much all, when it comes to wife-material, yes. The closest exception you’re getting is men who are ALREADY married and don’t realize how that influences their answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:44 AM |
| – | General Dating standards Reflect How Desirable People Are TreatedThe left-wing parts checking out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsBecause all men see are women looking for casual sex or saying they want an LTR but having casual sex. Young women with a dozen bodies who want a pride and prejudice level of chivalry. Like, we cannot debate that at least in terms of DEPICTION in media, women of all kinds are sexualizing themselves for the world to see all the time. And the bar for what’s “too much” just keeps going further and further. Too much sexual promiscuity is bad for society as a whole. Even if it’s divided (seems like i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsDon’t bother. I use this app for entertainment at best because it’s still Reddit at the end of the day. There’s absolutely people in this sub that are the kind that rocked back and forth sobbing when Trump won. It’s an illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:31 AM |
| 4 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsI’ve never met a man who wasn’t already incredibly good-looking have super blue-pill ideologies be swimming in poon. Women tell you all the time, those assholes that keep playing them? Tend to have red-pill opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:28 AM |
| 12 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsWomen confuse the standard thing, here’s how that actually went down. Women: dates obvious assholes then makes generalizations of all men Men: “choose better.” Women: “ok.” dates TALLER RICHER obvious assholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:26 AM |
| 1 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsReprioritize good lord. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:24 AM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menFr. The difference here is Trump gets caught with these hot-mic clip moments that imply he doesn’t have a plan. But the democrats entire platform lacked specificity—exit polls from Gallup asked voters “which of these five issues mattered most in determining how you voted” and “the state of democracy” was one of the hottest issues for democrat voters. What the fuck does that even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?Electrician here, No, no they’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?Be disappointed in your party. The United States has been and is currently flirting with a MAJOR conflict on TWO separate fronts; with the US involvement in both Ukrainian and Israeli aid amping up. It was not hyperbolic to say there could be a third world war just a couple years ago. The economy is a disaster. The middle class is suffering more than it has in decades. The immigration process is an absolute mess. The list goes on. And regardless of your party, you have to acknowledge these areas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?The self-delusion women perform on themselves is astonishing. “This person disagrees with my philosophy of life? Must be a psycho weirdo who isn’t normal.” This is a coping mechanism playing itself out in real-time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeIt wasn’t his belief. It was his insanity coupled with the DIFFERING belief. Don’t marry someone who differs ideologically from you this much. Will this cause issues? IT ALREADY IS. It’s a global problem, men and women are dividing politically at a frightening rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:58 AM |
| 3 | The issues with online dating could be solved with a better appWhile I completely agree that people tend to over exaggerate this massive difference in how people see dating online vs. real life, it’s more about how much time any given individual spends on their phones and computers. That’s what I’ve noticed the past year or so, the quality of life difference in chronically online people and ones who aren’t is STARK to me, even in my own life—the more effort I put into detaching from my phone and forcing myself to almost pretend like all my phone can do is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:28 AM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorThis feels kinda outta left field. You made an assumption and I just disagreed and explained why I want what I want and that most men who also want the same things as me, want them for the same reasons. This was never about who men want to date it was about why they do and how it differs from how you proposed, that’s all. But hey I’m glad you’re happy and in a loving relationship, that’s awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorThis is hilarious, thank you for this Freud. Now I’m “stating the obvious” when this started with me disagreeing with you. How did we go from “you: these are the reasons men like modest women. Me: no these are the reasons. You: yeah that’s obvious but why?” I told you what’s behind it, either NOTHING—as in lack of desire—or disgust. At this point you’re just posturing. You’re trying to psychoanalyze men wanting modest women solely because it CLEARLY bothers you but I know you don’t do this in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorYour entire stance is you just pretending to be omniscient enough to know men’s intentions behind their desires better then men. I disagreed, you asked why, I gave a perfectly and clear coherent response and added with the true meaning behind men’s desires. How is that a nothing of a rebuttal? You’re ACTUALLY saying the same shit and just my existence and my desires alone proves your generalization wrong. Seems like a you problem Kemosabi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 09:07 AM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorFirstly, it comes off as implying the tired argument that men want less experienced women as an insecurity—you purposefully say “never had a good dicking before him” as if THAT’S the specific concern from men who want women with low body counts; fear of comparison. Most men are literally just turned off at the idea of dating a girl that has slept with that many men. It’s not like these men WANT to date those women but are too afraid, we just don’t want to date them to begin with. It also implies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorPretty much everything you said also applies to money but in the reverse. We simply want different things from each other. Edit: actually sorry, I should reiterate. I agree with the double standards because they make sense to me. Men can also get away with a high body count much more than women can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:44 AM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorIt’s as casual as you’ve experienced. To most people on a McDonald’s diet, food is grub. To people like Anthony Bourdain, food is life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 11:47 PM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorNo you just have a wildly casual and naive view of connection. But sure, go “connect” with your neighbors some more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behavior“Porn makes men value visual performance… and care less about the emotional aspects of sex.” Yes. The science is out, the scientific 180 on porn is akin to cigarettes: started by being RECOMMENDED by doctors only for more and more studies to come out to prove the harm in overconsumption. There’s plenty of side effects porn has on men, saying that isn’t puritan. No, those women can’t give them that. That’s not arrogance. It’s so funny to me how women will filter out a man for being under 6ft and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 11:28 PM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorThis REEKS of bitterness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 11:17 PM |
| 7 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorHundreds… Tribes… Yeah uh, you’re not “connecting” with these people. Clearly we have different definitions of “connection” but I don’t even “connect” with most of my “tribesman” (neighbors) platonically… let alone enough to fuck them… You letting the whole tribe smash? Damn girl. The point is individuality. Sex is one of if not thee most intimate form of “connection” I can barely connect with people who resonate with my love of old-timey commercials, which is just a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 11:15 PM |
| 5 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorOh really? So just any sex? What about scat? What about pedophilia? Those are also forms of “sex.” You’re telling me that a fully functioning adult should see no disgust in those kinds of sex? Oh they should? Oh so there’s a DEGREE of acceptable things you mean?… Why do we separate we these things? Because we need to. The less you “elevate” these things the more you act like an animal. Eating is just as natural, but we treat it with some sanctimony and dignity no? We follow a structure of accept… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorLike I said I don’t really know if it’s less total for a fact, but the high end is much, much higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:58 PM |
| 5 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorNo, no he’s not. Never understood the whole “bad in bed” theory. Like, people improve on things you know? It’s like she’s gonna stay inexperienced, we’re going to be practicing… And besides that I’m a man, as men you’re much more likely to reach orgasm from sex than a woman. I can understand WOMEN caring more if a man is bad in bed. So this seems like projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:55 PM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorWomen have been sold a bad bag of goods… They’ve been told to disregard what traits men consider wifey-material and then to hold themselves at an even higher regard. And now so many are left confused as to why men won’t marry. I don’t mean this facetiously but it’s sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:53 PM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behavior…with multiple people?… like… how many? Saying sex is a physical expression of “connection” and saying you can have that with multiple people is virtually impossible—you’re not SUPPOSED to be able to connect with that many people that intimately by definition. Edit: it’s kind of like being married three times and each go round’ telling people that THIS one is your soul-mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorThat is not an aversion to sex, he’s just saying he prioritizes other traits higher than how good her head is. People imply modest people have some deranged puritan view of sex or abnormal mental health issue related to sex in order to think the way they do, it’s incredibly pretentious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorYeah but enthusiasm and more experience are mutually exclusive—if anything you can argue it’s an inverse relationship with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:43 PM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorHave younger relatives… I assure you kids today are more open to sex and sexual in general. They may or may not be having MORE but the overall relationship with sex is much more open. What’s acceptable to wear is beyond my comprehension in a lot of cases, most of my nephews know girls in 9th grade who post thing bikini pics. All of them go to different schools and all their schools have a half a dozen girls like that now. That alone boggles my mind. The DANCES? Forget it, we think we look back a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you think it's understandable if a guy is celibate simply because he doesn't like his gender role in dating?If we’re being honest; most likely if women started approaching then it would just cement the 80/20 thing. If an average woman is going to approach, it’s very likely she’s not approaching an average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:41 AM |
| 3 | "Preselection" is one of the dumbest things i've ever heard.First of all you’re assuming the woman is high value or has any value outside her looks. It depends on a few things: the rarity of the traits in the man and woman, the degree of which a man/woman excels in certain areas, and the degree of which certain traits are valued by the men and women. For example, you can easily argue a hung dude who is ALSO good in bed is much rarer than just a pretty girl. So in that case, the attractive girl who isn’t notably smart or funny or kind is still dating up d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 07:03 PM |
| 2 | "Preselection" is one of the dumbest things i've ever heard.I’m saying if the woman he was seen with first starts the rumor he’s good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | "Preselection" is one of the dumbest things i've ever heard.Whether or not it takes up 5% of impact in the dating world has no impact on its value if practiced correctly. It could only happen 5% of the time total but at the same time, be 45% of the reason Joe Schmo improved his dating life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:39 PM |
| 7 | "Preselection" is one of the dumbest things i've ever heard.They’re one and the same, or more specifically pre-selection is a tool used by women to optimize hypergamy. Saying it’s not pre selection if it only applies to high-value guys is kind of contradictory, their pre-selection plays a role in what makes them high-value to begin with. For example, a guy might not be conventionally attractive or successful or super charismatic; but if he’s able to be seen dating very good looking women—especially if said women don’t have any complaints afterwards (this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 0 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Lmfao how does one correlate to the other? Men attempting suicide for attention? Good lord, nothing shows how disconnected women are from the male experience than this comment. What attention is a man going to get? There is no male equivalent of a “damsel in distress” nobody is coming to save the man. Even by most women’s OWN logic, don’t men bash other men for being “soft” right? Don’t we live in a toxic patriarchy that makes men suppress their emotions out of fear for being judged? Under that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 07:13 AM |
| 6 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?How exactly am I minimizing men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 07:09 AM |
| 4 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?I know two women that tried overdosing on aspirin. One is a confirmed narcissist and the other was older and people realized she had a lot of narcissistic tendencies after she died. The sympathy thing is real, women know people will likely flock to her corner to help. A man who has attempted suicide is often just seen as a basket case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 07:08 AM |
| 1 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Attempt means nothing. This entire stance on suicide is women’s mental gymnastics to fight for victimhood. Suicide isn’t hard, it’s actually one of the easiest life-changing decisions one can make. There’s literally countless ways to 1000% end your life without a shadow of a chance of surviving it. It’s not rocket science to figure it out either, meaning if someone REALLY wanted to leave this earth, they would not give an iota of a fuck about what their body looked like afterward, how people fel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 06:59 AM |
| -4 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Nah men just actually want to die more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueAn example of the reverse is Pedro Pascal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueWhat does this even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueIt’s honestly not even schizo, it’s just a result of a culture that can be summed up in “women all good, men all bad” for the past like decade and a half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?Oh wow other people do it? Well that definitely sells me on validity of it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Post-modern feminism is vastly different and objectively cannot be lumped into the same category. I (along with more men red-pill men than most think) also do not want women to be treated as less than. Feminism itself as in what? Suffrage? Be specific. Because I think what you really want to know is do red-pill men respect women as a whole? Yes. Do MOST red-pill men think of women as inferior? No. The caveat is a man who “self-identifies” as red-pill may be more likely to do so, but more men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:39 PM |
| 0 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?Typing out “my FWB is married with a family, and both he and his partner have their own FWBs and open communication.” would have been enough for me to reconsider my life choices, different strokes I guess. Shit like this genuinely makes me reconsider my stance on kink-shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 06:40 PM |
| 4 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?Just wanna add that my favorite part of this is her implying we’ve “grown” as a culture because men are more allowing of her fucking dudes on the side the same way we encounter less people with herpes. Just absolute Wild West out there 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueWhat is your definition of “prude” exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueAnd women are more likely to rate their friends more liberally, so in some cases you can not only bump him up one but deduct one from her… Meaning my theory is women overplay how much women “date down” in terms of looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueIf you live in America then you haven’t seen an actual “prude” more than maybe once in your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueThe problem I’ve noticed with this debate stems from women saying “this doesn’t happen because I see hot women sleeping with average dudes all the time” and it comes down to perception. There’s “girl pretty” and “guy pretty” meaning what women consider an attractive woman isn’t usually the same as what a man would. Reverse happens too, classic case of male gaze vs. female gaze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 02:33 PM |
| 25 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueYeah, “incel” has lost its meaning. It used to have sociological weight, describing a massive ongoing social problem but society has proven that despite living in a time of “inclusion” and “safe spaces” nobody gives a fuck about that one demographic lol. Then it became a pretty decent jab to use at neckbeards, and now it’s pretty much one of the most overused buzzwords for “you disagree therefore you bad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Ok so if your goal is to broaden your scope of places you can meet women then forget just listing venues because much of that is too dependent on your specific area; you have to start looking at it from a woman’s perspective. Set aside certain contextual locations: work, in line at a store during your errands, place of worship, social circles, etc. anything where striking up a flirtatious conversation is in it of itself “alarming” for lack of a better word. I DO think you CAN approach at these p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItJust like you have no proof that those marriages make the woman feel fulfilled, right? Oh wait no, because I at least cited divorce rates… Many of them are dating the men they don’t find attractive. They’re dating the “safe” pick. Not every case. How tf is a trend irrelevant lmfao. Like I don’t even know how to respond to that lol Omg MOST STILL DO? I had no idea. Not like this is the third time you’ve said this and I’ve responded why THAT is irrelevant or anything. If you’re gonna posture this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 4 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItKnowing a Chad in real life because he got bored and saw some ass in your latest vacay photo dump and not seeing how you’re being a cum receptacle or thinking you can get him to commit is delusional. Stop saying average men who follow IG models think they can get with them, they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 01:58 AM |
| 4 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItCan you cite a link that says only the minority of women dating to marry care about income? Please. Yes, that 80% is kind of my point lol. Whatever regress men have seen when it comes to their attractiveness in the past few years, also applies to women. Both have become more obese, men are making less money while women are making more (girl boss can be a turn off depending on her attitude) women have been arguing about body counts for years, even women now are arguing that every bikini is a thon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 01:55 AM |
| 0 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItWell for starters having delusional standards is usually an indicator of narcissism or arrogance or an overstimulation and desensitization due to consumption of media of some sort. If nobody but Chad turned you on, but you are not the type of woman Chad would ever date then that’s delusional standards. Problem is what makes it delusional is those women tend to think they are the type Chad would date. Well, not really. What women are doing is RELUCTANTLY settling down with their looksmatch, think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 01:43 AM |
| 5 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItOk, so let’s set aside the looksmatch and pickiness thing, I debunked this already multiple times and am genuinely tired of this myth that it’s men that are also and equally shooting out of their league as much as women and in fact, I’m pretty sure it was you that I actually responded to. Let’s look at it from another angle since you brought up income. Most women STILL want a man who makes more money than them. Most still want to be courted and taken on dates, trips, experiences, etc. most still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:28 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItSays who? There’s a PLETHORA of studies now that show the stark disparity in pickiness in physical attractiveness—not long ago women would “flex” that they have higher standards than men and that men would screw anything that walks… feels like it’s “oh well men have too high of standards too” now that it’s convenient. I honestly don’t even know how to answer that last part lmfao… I mean let’s just start with men and women are… different? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItOnly when it’s not Chad with that ego I guess lol. Idk lady that sounded pretty damn blackpill to me. And do they actually? Says who? Idk, why don’t women have a meeting and be like “maybe being Chad’s cum dumpster ISN’T good?” Y’all say yes to the dates, meetups, hookups, etc. yes? I thought women were all empowered and independent and shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:17 PM |
| 4 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItMacken Murphy—studies evolutionary psychology, great at his job. I recommend looking into him fully but he has a study covering the “acceptable range” of what is considered an attractive height and weight between men and women. Men’s were much bigger, as in less picky. There’s the common one of women on dating apps finding 80% of men unattractive, sure maybe this has some to do with men. But it is virtually mathematically impossible to say all of that is due to men. It would HAVE to mean there a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:14 PM |
| 3 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItOk Einstein now prove that those women feel perfectly content in those marriages and don’t feel saddened that they’re “settling”. If you followed along at all, you’d know I already answered this point. Reread, this time slower. You already said most still do, at this point I’m thinking I’m talking to 10 Second Tom. I’m saying the trend is going down—fast—and if the trend continues it will no longer be most. I never said that it would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:05 PM |
| 8 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItThis basically just mental gymnastics around the fact that average ass looking women are finding more and more men unattractive lol. No, no it would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:02 PM |
| 7 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItWhy do people not care? Suicide is the highest it’s ever been, relationships—be it romantic or platonic—are spiraling, both of which are very important for one’s mental health. Both men AND women are self-reporting a drop in happiness in both areas. The women sharing the top 20% more often than not don’t feel fulfilled from it, neither do most of the men in the top 20% either believe it or not. And everyone else… yeah lmfao, just SOL. This negatively affects everyone in a myriad of ways, why is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItAnd? Online dating is becoming more of the norm. You’re right they don’t, now prove that they somehow and for whatever reason lower their physical standards in person. Less and less women eventually marry, and more and more women eventually divorce. So no, again, clearly their standards are not that obtainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:38 PM |
| 3 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItThe whole, “doesn’t affect me, not my problem” mindset is what got us here. I feel BAD for those women. They get used and end up thinking they have time and that they can get Chad to commit, then reality hits and they lower their standards. Whether it’s subconscious or otherwise they’ll likely end up with a guy they would have been super happy with in any other generation but this time period’s illusion of choice makes her feel like she’s settling. Then I feel bad for the guy because he doesn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:36 PM |
| 5 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItI’ll take “shit that doesn’t happen” for 500, Alex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:31 PM |
| 8 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItNot only are there men with anecdotal evidence that says otherwise but there’s literal data on dating apps that display women’s standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:26 PM |
| 7 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItIt means 80% of women filtering out men under 6ft tall on dating apps—in other words it means women in the 30th percentile of physical attractiveness filtering out men in the 70th percentile. And obtain how? Y’all love using that word but I don’t think you know what it means. Just because a dude on tinder more attractive than you hit in the backseat after a value menu dinner date, that doesn’t mean you’re “obtaining” him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:25 PM |
| 11 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItIt’s actually exhausting how any time a man even hints at criticizing women, it always comes back to some ad hominem. I’m fine, people are also allowed to have whatever standards they like. That doesn’t mean plain Jane wanting Chris hemsworth and thinking he’d be lucky to have her isn’t still objectively, undeniably, and indisputably… delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:23 PM |
| 5 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItNot being able to control what you’re attracted to and having delusional standards are mutually exclusive. Nobody is saying external influences aren’t causing women’s standards to inflate. Half of women get married… is that it? Is that your entire point?… like I genuinely don’t even know how to respond to this—can you please elaborate how you think the percentage of women getting married is somehow correlated to their standards. Women also initiate 80% of divorce, so by your own logic they clear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:21 PM |
| 7 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItMen just women to not have delusional standards. You say it like it’s “meh attraction is attraction, we like what we like and dislike what we don’t.” Which is cool until you meet someone so disconnected from reality that it’s like someone thinking it’s normal and within their budget to only find tomahawk steak delicious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Riiiight… now look and how many relationships the average person has in their lifetime… is it less than 7?… it is… which means the average person has had sex outside of a relationship i.e. casual sex in their lifetime, making it quite literally… the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?It is, otherwise abstinence would be more common and the average number of lifetime sexual partners and average number of lifetime relationships wouldn’t misalign the way they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:40 PM |
| 7 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Lowering your standards is technically the best advice. As people in general, our bar has become insane. I think that having a delusional sense of “average” is inevitable for a society that is so exposed to the cream of the crop in every category. Going back 200 hundred years (not really that long ago) and showing someone instagram—forget everything else, JUST having a box that shows you the hottest people on planet earth would cause seizures. With all that said, it’s unrealistic—nobody is ever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:45 AM |
| 11 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPIt’s hard explaining to people we live in a culture that constantly blindly takes women’s side in mainstream media. Truth is The View is just Andrew Tate for older women. But people still take that show seriously somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:01 PM |
| 6 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPA heterosexual man lol. The opposite sex is who deems you attractive (if you’re straight), not you. In order to raise how attractive the opposite sex finds you, you have to DO things lol. This is separate from standards, so if a person raises their standards without raising their attractiveness they’re gonna have a tough time. Women choose who has sex, men choose who gets married. Women are proudly disregarding men’s standards for wife material and becoming less attractive in that sense while ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:52 PM |
| 5 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPAnybody having an insufferable and delusional sense of self is bad for anyone around them, including themselves lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPFor both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:21 PM |
| 6 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPWell that’s not good lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:16 PM |
| 15 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPYou know hat’s funny is I’ve noticed that period where ran through women try to be “born again” and suddenly become more traditional and conservative is getting younger. Like it used to be in their 30’s and recently I’ve noticed girls in their early twenties admit having hoe phases and I wouldn’t have guessed because they’ve changed. Getting scary out there huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:11 PM |
| 47 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPI remember asking this sub if women’s standards have gone up because I’m much less successful on dating apps now than I was in 2016-2020 despite me having a glow up. I got attacked by a chick lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Sexual compatibility is an excuse and manipulation tacticCan’t knock you for that, having a qualm with manipulative people in general—be it men or women—is just called being a normal and sane adult as far as I’m concerned lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 10:15 PM |
| 10 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesI interpreted it more as incels that put women and sex on unhealthy pedestals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesNo really, there’s men paying women hundreds of dollars on OF for the women to humiliate and ridicule them on chat. There’s men who just simply put, live pathetic lives when it comes to putting women on pedestals. Setting aside the psychological and sociological effects that’s had on women, at the very least there’s hundreds of better ways for those men to spend their time and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Sexual compatibility is an excuse and manipulation tacticIn my personal experience, most men don’t want sex early to test compatibility, but for two other reasons. Men want women who submit to them, for the pleasurable aspect of it sure but also for “stability” in the sense that—typically—women “break rules” for men they’re most attracted to. While women say they only do this with men they see no future with, on the contrary they absolutely do this with men they deem “perfect husband material” not necessarily the “safe” option, but the balance between… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Women: What do you bring to the table?Running into them and them wanting to date her are separate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 05:41 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriageMaybe women should reflect as to why men aren’t considering it the same way ANY time women do something it MUST be due to men’s actions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketCaligula’s orgies are puritan relative to parts of Europe—not the best metric to go by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketDude what? The US hasn’t been a puritan culture for close to half a century lol. I’m saying this trend wasn’t here 15 years ago—you think we went through some massive sexual revolution in that time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketI get your logic, all of it makes sense in theory. But it’s one of those things where if you’ve never seen it personally, you wouldn’t get it. I have PERSONALLY seen those kinds of men sleep with average women for no other reason than them being in front of them and down—it’s like rich people can afford surf & turf 10x over, that doesn’t mean they never have McDonald’s again. Especially considering it sounds like the vast majority of your experience in college was tinder. That super top percent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketIt’s rare for men to CHOOSE to sleep with less attractive women yes. That doesn’t mean that the top percentage isn’t doing enough work to outweigh it. Wilt Chamberlain slept with literally thousands of women, I guarantee not all of them were stunners. Wouldn’t say those drunken encounters are equally common between both genders at all lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketSure, taboo always existed too. Neither fact takes away that you can go on any porn site now and see some of the most trendy categories are cuck and step mom or step whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to preferences and standards, men should handle them the way women do—by being subtle, selective, and unbothered by societal judgment.(Part. 2) Now you’re attacking my reading comprehension because you say you asked for data when I mentioned women are in fact making these videos, no you didn’t. You said, “How many women are going around and out of their way to call men “manlets?” Is this a societal problem? Like a female version of the knockout game, only instead of punching strangers in the back of the head we shout “MANLET!” and scurry off?” Not a word of data. Forget the fact that you’re moving the goalposts from “women are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to preferences and standards, men should handle them the way women do—by being subtle, selective, and unbothered by societal judgment.(Part 1.) This is going to be my last response. Because honestly I can’t tell if you’re trying to troll or genuinely this dense. Ok, I’m gonna try to explain this hypocrite point one more time, beyond that you’re on your own. Firstly, we are having a discussion on the GENERAL differences between men and women and their approach to preferences. When you use language like “we” “us” “our” you are saying you represent a certain group or a certain groups ideas. You’re not saying “WOMEN are…” “THEY li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 07:00 PM |
| 3 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketYeah simp economy really took away men’s leverage I hate to say it. I knew a girl that did OF, super average if not mediocre in looks. She explained to me what “paypigs” are; men who pay sometimes hundreds of dollars to have these mediocre women ridicule them online. It was then I knew we were doomed. Matter of fact porn in general right now is very revealing, I used to bounce and made a few friends in that industry and they’re all saying how weird this wave of cuckoldry and humiliation is comin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:27 AM |
| 2 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketYeah I’m not sure how the whole “happy wife, happy life” thing caught on honestly. Like, have you ever seen a married man say that and look happy? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:24 AM |
| 2 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketThis. Every single time I see average looking women claim to be as lonely as average men I can’t help but rage a little inside. I had a glow up, I know both sides. An average woman can post a mediocre selfie from three years ago and literally ride that for years with random men hopping in and out of DMs. It’s ridiculously common for an average man to go literal years through his life and not be acknowledged at all. Of course women feel like they’re more content “single” they’re not really single… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketIt doesn’t matter if most attractive guys only sleep with attractive women or not. All it takes is one. One top 5% guy alone can sleep with say 50 less attractive women—that’s now 50 women who have been affected. As for the changing gears part I’d say it still happens just earlier. “Both” phases if you catch my drift. Sounds horrible but I thought the sex stories of my high school were wild as did my older brother but the ones I hear from my nieces and nephews are even more insane. Seems like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:13 AM |
| 2 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketThere’s less families to fight for. If the trend continues the closer we get to half of men having families to defend and half of men having nothing to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:07 AM |
| 0 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketIt’s probably more average men removing themselves from society completely and civilization collapsing. But no yeah don’t bow or whatever and such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to preferences and standards, men should handle them the way women do—by being subtle, selective, and unbothered by societal judgment.What isn’t clicking? You keep asking for hypocrisy in this “I dare you tone” as if I haven’t pointed it out multiple times. Blah blah blah single woman this that who gives a shit, you kept saying “WE like what WE like” “you keep throwing in OUR faces like you think WE keep doing to you” you’re saying “WE” aren’t making videos of women throwing preferences in men’s faces and shitting on men who don’t fit said criteria unprovoked. I JUST showed you a video of a woman doing exactly that. Yeah, sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to preferences and standards, men should handle them the way women do—by being subtle, selective, and unbothered by societal judgment.You’ve written multiple paragraphs speaking on behalf of women. Everything has been in the lens of “us” and “we” ranting about about how men should stop being so bothered by women’s preferences… on a post about men expressing their preferences… and then go on to say men shouldn’t expect honesty when they’ve shown they can’t handle it. I say again, hypocrisy. Or “hipocresía” in Spanish or “Heuchelei” in German, if those help. Yeah, by “dehumanize” I meant not have sex—Jesus now who is stretching … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to preferences and standards, men should handle them the way women do—by being subtle, selective, and unbothered by societal judgment.Let me elaborate since I got flagged for content less rhetoric, which is fair. This entire rant is full of hypocrisy and proving his point. Men are constantly “throwing our preferences in your faces” because it works every time, it exposes the hypocrisy every time JUST like you’re doing right now. First of all, I don’t even agree with the premise that all women virtue-signal their preferences, or sugar coat them—on the contrary, women more than men are enabled to flat out dehumanize men that don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 01:11 AM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Before we continue, why do I get the sense you have a tumblr but not a license? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 06:43 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.I know that archetype. Your friends are less special and super duper unique than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 06:41 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Doesn’t have to be a player. Could be an eligible bachelor with a slightly more than average amount of partners. Also more players are pro-life than people realize, pregnancy scares are actually super rare if you know what you’re doing, problem is way too many people now smash raw, let alone combine contraceptive methods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 06:40 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Culture mostly. Any songs about relationships in the Top 40 on billboard is a toxic relationship. Last Night by Morgan Wallen, hell half of Taylor swift and Sabrina carpenters discography is about toxic relationships or Taylor’s revolving door of failed relationships. Dating shows are inherently toxic; most are scripted more than most think, and the fundamental principle of writing is conflict, those two don’t mix. Euphoria’s entire plot is pretty much degeneracy and toxicity. Been going on for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 06:39 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Hope you feel better. I mean affect doesn’t imply any degree, I’ll concede it’s slight because I never said it had to be significant. Besides, I went with that because it was on the nose, but you don’t see how a gender war can affect your life? A gender war affects many things, ONE is the economy—that definitely affects you. Where did I say I was trying to date women in Hollywood? lol. The comparison was how accepted by pop culture one ideology is to the other. I don’t care about women IN Hollyw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:25 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.There ya go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Ok ok lmfao. Really? For every one? Weird. Because every single “manosphere” guy gets cancelled within a week. Her ideology is in Hollywood. How women try to equate a social movement that has been propped up by the biggest cultural mediums on planet earth—being the American film and music industries—to one dude with a microphone and a podcast is pitiful. Yeah just an absolute 1:1 equivalency there huh? Secondly, you’re on purple pill debate, the gender war is literally already affecting your lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:09 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.The types of women the comment above me is referring to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:06 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Seems to be a gendered trait my man. If you think men fall for toxicity equally as much as women, I kinda don’t know what to say. Even pop culture reflects otherwise. Secondly, you’re missing the point. When the percentage is this big, being dismissive is not only not solving the problem, but making it worse. First of all, telling an average man to dismiss a considerable percentage of the dating pool is going to be a tough sell with how many average men feel option-less. Second of all, it comple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:05 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Well it definitely has been my experience. Moreover, I can speak to those guys you describe too… they’re not liberal lol. Good looking college athletes don’t pay much attention to politics, on average at least—not to the extent nerds do. They know enough politics to know which opinions make it harder to get laid. If women knew how many of their male “allies” were just following along because they knew being loudly pro-life or anti-slut would make social life SO much harder, they’d have trust iss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:45 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.The problem here is that because of women’s uninhibited delusional requirements, they’ll FEEL like they’re settling when their partner is perfectly equal to them. So yes, these women tend to not date these men but THEN they end up dating their equal reluctantly and always feel like they can get more which makes them more likely to feel dissatisfied and therefore more likely to cheat/break up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:41 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Orrr we can discuss the problem that is the growing number of “those types” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:40 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.I don’t think men voice their opinions on this because of one isolated incident. No man here watching this is going “wow this ONE chick is crazy” it’s “oh look, another video of an average woman demanding nothing short of Bruce Wayne.” Like yeah sure, after the first few it’s like “well whatever I wouldn’t want her anyway” by like the 100th vid it becomes a general concern for the entire state of the dating pool. Edit: to add on: I also get frustrated when I say things like “when I was toxic to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Women who oppose men watching porn, do you also oppose men using their imagination to masturbate?None of what you just said proves me wrong. If people had no idea of perfect porn boob then you wouldn’t be underwhelmed—sure, 100% and? We’re in 2024, everyone is overstimulated because of the internet. Guarantee more women now are underwhelmed with a guy who’s 5’10 than 30 years ago too, because women are constantly exposed to extremes… coincidentally women are now pickier… notice a trend? Ironically, everything you’re saying also applies to women. If men are considered porn-addicted because o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Women who oppose men watching porn, do you also oppose men using their imagination to masturbate?That is not “literally” the definition of porn addiction. Society is changing, whether it’s accurate or not A LOT of data is saying hypergamy is strongest it’s been in years. Men read “women on dating apps think 80% of men are unattractive” and then do quick math and realize that means there are tons of below average-average women who think they’re better looking than that. (Amongst other data points saying similar things) So now, the conundrum of many men isn’t “boob vs imaginary boob” it’s “ug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenI’m not necessarily concerned over the total numbers or total percentages as much as I am the disparity between men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 03:02 AM |
| 6 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenThis is… like really bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Women need to learn to be happy being used for sexdeep sigh If a man’s 5’7 but says he’s 5’9 he’d get crucified as being insecure. That would be the societal reaction, not discussing how shallow it is for women to value height. Men have learned what women want is what women want, period end of story. Short men can’t ARGUE their way into negating height. Men and women are d i f f e r e n t. We want DIFFERENT things… a man having a high body count isn’t as big of a negative as it is for women the same way a woman being broke isn’t the same as a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Women need to learn to be happy being used for sexGaslighting. Do you have the same logic for women making barely minimum wage but desire a man with a stable income? Women are allowed to have absurd batshit and totally arbitrary standards—chalk full of double standards, mind you—and nobody bats an eye Men ask for what is literally the easiest double standard to accomplish for ONE thing. And our integrity and principles are in question? Spare me. I don’t get what it is, but modern women truly cannot grasp the notion that men and women are differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Women need to learn to be happy being used for sexCasual sex and income are pretty much the only two things that women need to be “the same” Women have zero problem with the plethora of other actions and scenarios that we do not hold the same view between genders on—no problem with how society would see a man refusing to let women and children out of a burning building first. Or a man refusing to hold open doors or buy flowers or act chivalrous in general. But tell women men would like if they did their version of chivalry for casual sex and wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Women need to learn to be happy being used for sexFew reasons. First off it’s human nature to want to be someone’s first pick, men have noticed women tend to “break their rules” when they’re attracted to a guy enough. So for starters it’s just rough to find out where you stand. And secondly we don’t want to feel like you’ve lowered your standards to be with us. Secondly, these things are mutually exclusive—a woman can have a low body count and still sleep with a man on the first date. The ideal—although borderline imaginary—is a sexually modest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?The jokes write themselves. This continues to be the hill women choose to die on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 03:13 AM |
| 3 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Because men don’t like it?… that’s enough. I don’t need a justification to like big boobs—no man is going around trying to defend it like “oh well it’s a sign of fertility and health blah blah” like nah monkey brain wants to play with them. Same reason women get monkey brain when a dudes tall., and they don’t need a defense for it either. You know, there’s a quote about men’s overestimation of themselves and it’s something along the lines of every man thinks they fight and fuck way better than t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:49 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADlol womp womp, no counterpoint but nobody likes pointing out double standards that men want from women huh?… And women today wonder why men don’t commit, cheat, and play games lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:57 PM |
| 10 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?I’ve seen in my social circle that it can be due to insecurity sure, but mostly not it. It’s a genuine feeling of disgust. Men and women are allowed preferences based on values and priorities, telling men EVERY single case of being bothered by a woman’s past is insecurity is gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?I’m sorry it’s long but idk how to condense. Because of two reasons: how men and women perceive sex differently and both the abstract dynamics and literal physical mechanics if you will of sex. First off, the abstract dynamics of sex—especially casual sex—present an inherent masculine/feminine dominant/submissive dynamic. Think of the “brat” dynamic or the dd/lg dynamic (hell you can spend an entire hour discussing the sexual use of “daddy” and its implied differences in men and women), a girl “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?Women can’t use men for sex the way men use women for sex. That has nothing to do with Andrew Tate. The sex itself is intrinsically more degrading for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCool. Do you also say this about the vast majority of women throughout human history—and STILL do—that made minimum wage then turning around and judging a man by his income? Or the amount of women that can barely open a jar but need their man to be 6ft tall? Men and women are… d i f f e r e n t… and we want different things from one another… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy is everyone else so focused on our focus? Women have just as much if not more of an obsession with a man’s height—which is exponentially more arbitrary and meaningless. Unfettered and unsolicited opinions on men’s height, dick size, income, fashion sense, hobbies, beliefs, the list goes on and on and on… Men are like “don’t be sluts?” And the entire damned worlds reaction ranges from “wHy iS tHiS sUCh a BiG dEAl?” “then you should have a low N count too” to straight outright shaming, insulti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Formula of successfully attracting females at a high %😂😂😂 dude When is the last time you’ve felt a woman’s touch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Formula of successfully attracting females at a high %Max holloway Kenny Florian is dating a hot woman taller than him. Ross Pearson Joseph Benavidez’s girl constantly interviews taller, richer, and better looking fighters. Nina Drama’s bf is a short skinny content creator while she’s had her chance again with multiple other fighters. Travis Browne got Ronda Rousey Not sure how much Demetrius Johnson made but his wife is also hot. He’s also like 5’3. Miesha Tate had tons of chances but chose some unknown fighter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 06:16 PM |
| – | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?I’m not usually like this but that is a lot of literature and I do plan on reading further but for the sake of time; can you elaborate? Because throughout all that I’ve read thus far, it just keeps saying “masculinity and attractiveness” both are very vague. While there’s a good chance the “attractiveness” is implying physical attractiveness why mention “masculinity” ? I would imagine it’s because that covers the non-visual aspect. Otherwise this isn’t controversial at all nor prove your point—w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?To be fair I am doing a terrible job articulating this. Like I wouldn’t say hot people make sex “better” I would say they’re better at making you want to have sex. When people—especially men (I’ll circle back)—are attracted to someone they’re not thinking about the quality of sex, they’re just thinking about sex; their arousal comes from the physical features they’re seeing. I’ve slept with attractive women and thought it was trash, now yeah I guess you COULD say that had that attractive women b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?What I’m saying is yes looks/attraction affects sex because it plays a huge role in determining whether you get it or not. But from there on the order reverses. A woman can sleep with a good looking man and discover he’s pathetic—I use that word specifically—and that will change her attraction towards him which will in turn affect how she starts to notice more flaws and look past his conventionally attractive physical features. Likewise she can have sex with an average man, discover he’s the bes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?Attraction does affect sex but sex also affects attraction. Being good in bed will definitely add to a man’s attractiveness and I have personally experienced that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Women should not be shamed for having lots of options and living accordingly. It's their live and they have the right to date around and choose the best guy for them.But they don’t… if the men who were ok with this were attractive enough you wouldn’t be seeing women on the internet ranting about how it shouldn’t matter. These videos exist because more attractive men are allowed to have higher standards, and no attractive man with his shit together that I know of would seriously commit to a woman with a ridiculous body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women should not be shamed for having lots of options and living accordingly. It's their live and they have the right to date around and choose the best guy for them.I’m confused, imagine my daughter saying women aren’t interested in those men and me accepting that or? Please elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:01 AM |
| 14 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceI just googled and there’s no shot that dudes a chad lol. I definitely lean more towards red pill and believe women today overestimate their league but with that said that dudes only physical trait is that he’s tall, she’s an Asian smoke show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Women should not be shamed for having lots of options and living accordingly. It's their live and they have the right to date around and choose the best guy for them.I’m not agreeing or disagreeing on this topic but I feel like people have this very naive and warm and fuzzy view on this. Thinking that women don’t have to worry about this because women have never been interested in those men is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are hard for womenIs that what you tell yourself “hot bot” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps are hard for womenThere is quite literally no better use of “that’s enough internet for today (a week” Like I genuinely need to take a break from online after that and find some way to reconcile. Maybe those women are in fact deranged but then we clearly need to have a dialogue over how many deranged women there are. That’s actually fucking insane to read, every bit of it. My first reaction was “how is this not news? Like this should be a fucking nationally known phenomenon” but now I just it would literally rock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Dating apps are hard for womenFor the love of god someone tell me this is fake. This is life-changing for me man. I’m getting less matches and effort than a serial pedophile… Reading shit like this gives me the knee jerk reaction of like “you know what… yeah, I can see why women shouldn’t be allowed to vote.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are hard for womenDifference is women find 80% of men unattractive, which by definition means they’re looking at men who are equally as attractive as they are and thinking they’re below them. That’s an issue of inflated self-worth and is literally quantifiable. False equivalence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 3 | No hymen no diamond was a meme, but isn’t completely unreasonable if the woman expects her husband to be traditionalYou lost it at the second part—most women do because of an idea introduced by feminism. Saying men who want virgins should expect or be virgins themselves is like saying women who expects a man to provide should expect to also have provider money of her own. We’re opposites, we want different things from each other. Women SAY men should expect this (honestly I wholeheartedly believe it’s just an argument tactic to shift expectations because they know most men don’t want to be virgins). Besides t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 08:04 AM |
| – | Staying in a one-sided situationship for women appears to be less stigmatizing in our culture than staying in the friendzone for men, despite the former being a more clear and present danger to the modern relationship landscape.What am I supposed to do? Go around slapping wrists saying “bad fuckboy” to every douche I see in a nightclub? Yeah, pass lmfao. I brought up the notion of men being expected to “call out other man” on the pretense that it’s delusional. The only men that that wouldn’t immediately start a fist fight with would be close friends. I’m not planning on being friends with those kinds of guys, nor do I plan on getting into bar fights with random dudes because I can recognize he’s being a fuckboy. Do peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Staying in a one-sided situationship for women appears to be less stigmatizing in our culture than staying in the friendzone for men, despite the former being a more clear and present danger to the modern relationship landscape.I find this ironic because it’s in utter contrast to how men are treated. Men are constantly told to “keep other men in check” or call out Fboy or player behavior by feminism all the time. In fact just making the distinction is a ticket to online crucifixion: “not all men” are famous last words lol. But really we should all care. Men should care about other men being players and women should care about other women doing stuff as described, otherwise that indifference is why we’re having this con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalThis seems contradictory. If men only care about looks, then a woman’s looks match IS her equal when it comes to the metrics men look for no? Like by your own logic. That to me is a part of the problem too, women have been taught to rebel against men’s desires in a long-term partner and along the way have lost sight of what men value. So now so many women just walk through life based off THEIR definitions of value—men can’t do this. As a man trying to shame women’s prerequisites for a husband wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:34 AM |
| 10 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)The difference is virtually no man ever actually wanted the BBL look on a women, women objectively and quantifiably make a much bigger deal over height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:55 PM |
| – | Cold approach is a 0 sum game especially for average & below menNo no, guys just genuinely underestimate how god awful their social skills are. Don’t care how much your friend in college or that one dude you knew “did cold approach” I will absolutely wager my house that it wasn’t because going up to girls and talking to them doesn’t work, it was that his game was bad. That’s literally it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:30 AM |
| – | Big problem: women’s delusional standards are now a flex.The validity of the metrics isn’t as relevant to my point as women’s flaunting of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:45 PM |
| – | Big problem: women’s delusional standards are now a flex.Again, I’m not referencing random TikTok profiles. I’m mentioning girls I know in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:44 PM |
| – | Big problem: women’s delusional standards are now a flex.I’m not referencing TikTok models or people trying go viral—I’m referencing girls I personally know with less than 300 followers lol. I assure you they’re not posting it for an elaborate scheme to grow the engagement on a profile they use as spam and shitposts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:43 PM |
| -3 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?They’re not mutually exclusive, never understood this response. We are becoming more hypergamous, proven in virtually every survey and especially OLD data, this by itself means the total amount of sex will decrease because the men that fit women’s requirements has gotten smaller. Yes, total amount of casual sex is decreasing. But it’s still more common for ONS to be happening. Essentially, while there’s more people not engaging in casual sex, it’s still more likely now to go to a college campus … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:28 PM |
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