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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 22 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. | Need Support | Actual_Phase1819 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 12:25 AM |
| 12 | Living in limbo | Getting Started | Actual_Phase1819 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/26 05:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home.Thanks for the comment. My wife asked me to come over to check on him. Shes consistently reaching out and attempting to do things together. Thats what kept me living in hope for a while but thats gone now. My stepson has taken my surname. Regardless of what happens between me and her, I can’t abandon him. Naturally she wants me to maintain that relationship but he’s old enough for me to make arrangements with him directly. That said, I’ve started checking out of the marriage now, it’s like a swi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home.She hasn’t lied before but the woman in this house doesn’t appear to be the same person anymore. She has never been the promiscuous type, it was initially part of what I found attractive about her. However, I sat thinking about it last night and her reaction had a lot of red flags. First she said she didn’t know why it was sent and “is it even addressed to me”, then she said the doctors told her to take it, then she said she got worried after the smear result and booked it herself. It’s also ent… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 09:49 AM |
| 8 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home.Yup! lesson learnt | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 09:41 AM |
| 2 | How to balance accept versus hopeDid this dance recently. Honestly it’s so hard to let go but I promise you will feel better for it. You need to move on and if she changes her mind along the way, great. I understand the fear of thinking if you give up now you could be missing out on an opportunity for reconciliation, but honestly that ship has likely sailed. Hope keeps you reliant on her actions for your own peace of mind but it slowly kills you inside. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 12:31 AM |
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