Actualbbear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Men need to learn from women how to actually fight a culture war if they want to win I'm not sure, I'm not a politics expert but, believe me, I'm interested in figuring that out because I don't want to be caught in the wrong side of a radical paradigm shift.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:48 PM
5	Men need to learn from women how to actually fight a culture war if they want to win Women that are truly interested in sustainable change maybe should reframe their fight as to not make it a gender war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:29 PM
1	Men need to learn from women how to actually fight a culture war if they want to win We live in a context where women are a discrete political group, and seems like part or their demands is institutional preference, and they often frame it as some kind of reparation. I don't think most men are interested in stripping women of rights, they just want to have the same ones. As many around here already said: Custody, conscription, same access to social campaigns, not being judged under perspective of gender. But this often comes in hand with political movements men are not really al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:23 PM
3	Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy. People, men in this context, want to get home and feel peace, have no drama. They think this is the way of getting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 04:40 PM
14	Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATION It reminds me of this protest where fathers were asking for better custody rights, where their general rethoric or motto was "I'm a father, not a criminal" or something of that vein. And there was quite a few women (and a couple "simps", I'm sure) commenting nasty stuff like "But when it comes to child support the never deliver" or "He must have done something to not have custody of their child" or "Vicarious violence is not possible against men, this is a women's fight".	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 04:31 PM
2	Women not needing men is a good thing It might feel like betrayal, because circumstances change, and you're left on your own when you need support the most. It's human hipocrisy, everyone wants to be loved unconditionally, for who they are, but they judging what the other one brings to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 04:57 PM
–	Women not needing men is a good thing Yes, but why? It would depend on the cause.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 04:50 PM
1	Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life. I'm not sure you can compare being bitter with being a scammer, so kinda a fallacy too, there. The issue would not be thinking nasty stuff about people because, let's be real, we all sometimes do, but rather letting that stuff known at non-proper times, something a person without social abilities would more likely do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 06:21 PM
19	Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life. Bullying is not only done by aggressively mocking and antagonizing people. Also, what nerds often miss, reasonably due to fear, is that, if you put up a fight, you're less likely to be harassed again because you're too much trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 06:16 PM
3	Men don't want the average women Her not being very attracted to you I think that's the point. It's just that red-pilled men believe most women won't be, they're just settling. They want a safe, economically stable, man, even though they will almost never find him attractive, and those men are offended at that prospect. Like, 30's are not even that old, what the hell?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 04:10 PM
6	Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal women Hmm. So OP is an entitled, immature nepo baby who wants a pet instead of a partner. But, still, you’re supposed to co-own whatever asset you produce during the marriage, don’t you? Family wealth isn’t really part of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 02:34 PM
1	There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders. It's not, but I understand if some people think that the best you can do for your partner in such difficult situations is carrying on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 11:01 PM
–	Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice. Inexperienced in what regard? In any case I dare say people overstate their ability to tell experienced candidates apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 06:13 AM
–	Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice. Nah, bro, she's doing fine, if anything she's too picky since she has dumped actually good prospects. That means those men She dates must be your new father They better pay me allowance, then, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 06:11 AM
–	Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice. Is it, though? and she's dating with men around her age. Also, don't women prefer older men because they have their shit figured out? So becoming older shouldn't decrease your chances of a relationship, actually it would be the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:24 AM
–	Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice. The question is, where do you find a woman with an explicit desire to date? It has become frowned upon to hit on women, at least enough as to make socially anxious men, which is an ever increasing percentage thanks to social media, the pandemic and whatever shit is going to happen next (like AI girlfriends, God forbid), to just stop trying. Feminist movments, women-exclusive spaces, the stakes are too high, or at least seem too high for these increasingly awkward men. Or not? I hope I'm wrong, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:20 AM
–	Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice. This is where you get to know OP is an idiot (or just fucking ragebaiting, I hope). It is iffy if you want to have children, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:09 AM
–	Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice. 25 it's not really past the age for dating, lol. Not even considering doing so to raise a family. It's anecdotal, but my sister had her only child at 40. Like, bro, my mother is in her 50's and she's dating with men around her age. She's still very choosy, though, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:07 AM
4	Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate. If they get left after those 5 years, then I would gather those that men have more problems than just sucking at dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 06:58 PM
1	No way most men are friends with a rapist I think I known what they mean, I can tell it with some tales. It's anecdotal so take it critically. We once we're having a few beers, and once a friend told us about an experience he had with an aunt. And the way he posed it sounded a lot like she made him have sex with him. And he was kinda laughing about it, but it really sounded very off. He even was underaged. To a lot of people, it just doesn't register men can be raped. A lot of people would argument someone underaged, like in this exampl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 08:29 AM
6	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There That's a super fallacious response. Many guys will work on themselves expecting better dating outcomes just to be frustrated at the results, but it's possible they're doing stuff in the wrong order. Like, a lot of them might lack confidence, and fear rejection, so they engage or propose very timidly, if at all. And really, a lot of people think hitting the gym or being more mindful of your clothing will give you confidence, and it's just not that simple. It's good to work on yourself, though I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 01:28 AM
1	In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for good Why you would be embarrassed for being lucky? Embarrassing should be not take the opportunities life gives you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 04:59 PM
3	Q4W: For $1 million, would you be willing to permanently forgo sex/romance? If not, how much would you need? You can live in a mansion, fly on a private jet, have your favorite celebrities perform privately for you, travel the world on a luxury yacht, etc. You cannot afford any of that with a million dollars, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:01 AM
2	Is it fair to say that women can struggle in dating as well? Anecdotal but my mom is just the same. If anything her biggest issue is that she’s still too demanding and she’s passing on good prospects. She’s just noticed she’s actually at risk of being “outcompeted” after she herself went through like a dozen men already, lol. So yeah, I’m with you on this one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 03:53 PM
6	Is it fair to say that women can struggle in dating as well? It depends on what you want from your woman. Older women cannot bear children, or at least not as safely or effectively so, if that’s what you’re seeking, they’re out of the question. I don’t think that makes older women undateable, though. Other factors, typically more sought after from men (charisma, wealth, status) take over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 03:26 AM
2	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Their true potential in what regard? Also, aren’t women in Japan lonely too? Truly nobody is getting laid over there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 02:28 AM