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AcuminateMind/r/askMRP29/11/22 11:08 AM
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Victim PukeAcuminateMind/r/askMRP17/06/22 10:23 AM
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AcuminateMind/r/askMRP06/12/22 01:47 PM
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Thank you for your response, in many ways, this is absolutely what I needed, I seem to have to learn lessons the hard way. This situation has forced me to take account of myself and my progress since being a part of MRP, and I’ve just been ignoring the important shit I actually need to work on. I’ve seen Day Bang recommended a lot, I’ll definitely be taking a look. I’ve also been watching a lot of Todd V, his contents pretty well structured and informative. I was actually thinking about this ear…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/22 10:38 PM
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OYS #12 Age: 28, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 84kg, 15.5% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP, NMMNG Reading: NMMNG Posting this on here for OPSec purposes as there's potential (low) my girlfriend saw a link to this post. This week has been very turbulent, and for the most part I've dealt with that internally without letting it seep out. I am still deep in my girlfriend's frame and I've got a bad case …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/22 10:31 AM
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Thanks Nik
/r/askMRP03/12/22 10:06 PM
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Lots of uncertainty and lack of confident direction, thanks for the heads up
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 03:58 PM
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Appreciate the in depth reply, cheers for pointing that out. I definitely operate way too much based on my emotion. I’m gonna shut up and sit this one out for a few days and see how it plays out, I think if I was to do anything rash right now I would be acting on emotion.
/r/askMRP29/11/22 03:57 PM
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Yeah fair point, i don’t really know where my head is at the moment. On one hand, this is my fault, nothing physical has happened (I know this for a fact) & there’s still something left to salvage. On the other I want to nuke it, but this is more so out of revenge/emotional reaction. What I can be sure of, if she’s not willing to cut it off completely then I’m done. Thank you for the flair
/r/askMRP29/11/22 03:37 PM
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Thank you for this, and to be honest I don’t know. I’m just gonna keep my mouth shut and see how this plays out in the meantime.
/r/askMRP29/11/22 03:33 PM
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OYS #11 Age: 28, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 87kg, 18% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG The reality of my current situation fully revealed itself last night - post here. In many ways this was a much needed wake up call; regardless of the outcome, action and drastic change is forced upon me. For now the plan is to STFU and passively detach from the relationship and oneitus, and assume…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 03:01 PM
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Edit: added context at the top.
/r/askMRP29/11/22 11:16 AM
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Yep, completely agree this is a big area I need to improve upon. I don’t think I can consistently have an abundance mindset until I’m comfortable chatting up other women, as it purely comes from external sources outside of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/22 05:46 PM
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Possibly, recently shaved body hair and I look much more cut, I was just basing this on one of those electromagnetic body fat readings that came out at 20% a few months back, as well as my own perception, not very accurate. Nonetheless I can still cut down a little bit more, but losing the hair is a game changer.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/22 05:45 PM
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OYS #10 Age: 28, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 87kg, 18% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG Outside of my relationship, progression has been going well in terms of my goals. I've almost finished working with my first client in my freelance business, and I have my first interclub Muay Thai fight coming up this weekend, which has been a huge goal of mine for as long as I can remember in my…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 10:59 AM
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Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 09:08 PM
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OYS #9 Age: 28, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 90kg, 18% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG Previous OYS I was kidding myself in my previous OYS, I haven't really kept up much of the work outside of posting on here. I saw a few results, and slowly sunk back into comfortability. I've been reading NMMNG for my entire OYS and I'm only just over halfway through. I've let bad behaviours creep …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 04:07 PM
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OYS #8 Age: 28, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 86kg, 15% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG I haven’t posted an OYS in a few weeks, but I have kept up with the journalling and work outside of Reddit. I’m still focused on my improvement and journey as a man, but I’m mainly doing it for myself now, which is a noticeable change. Despite good progress, I still have a lot of work to do, and th…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/22 10:08 AM
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It’s more for overall body function really, not just for lifting. Intuitively I feel like it’s what I should be doing when I’m doing it. I’ve tried keeping up with other normal stretching routines but I can’t get into them. Something about the flow of yoga keeps me interested.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/22 06:46 PM
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Yeah I’ve been actively trying to ‘get out of my head’ in my day to day life, pretty much since you mentioned it on my AskMRP. It’s definitely getting a lot better, but I understand it’s a process. Appreciate the response ragnar
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/22 06:45 PM
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In all fairness, I consider this a woman worth procreating with, so it wasn’t a situation where I felt trapped and had to stay for the child. We broke up for around a year; my jealousy upon getting back together exposed some of my beta traits, which of course led to withholding sex and me ending up here. Out of interest what makes you sense anger in my future?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/22 06:42 PM
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OYS #7 Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 86kg, 15% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG Didn't post an OYS last week due to being busy with the house move. This OYS is over the span of 2 weeks. Sex & Relationship: Diary entries from last week: No intimacy, but after reading Horn’s comments about cucking yourself with masturbation, I’ve stopped that. I’ve gone almost a whole year witho…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 08:49 AM
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I've been investigating this issue for as long as I can remember, and the only solutions I can come up with are where my intuition takes me; fighting. I just need to follow this through and stop getting in my own way, being a pussy and taking my foot off of the gas to protect myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 10:04 PM
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I appreciate the honesty, it's all good. And you're absolutely right; a lot of my internal communication is just pushing me to fulfil my known potential and sometimes my ego doesn't want to hear it. Often this is constructive and realistic, other times not so much; this is where I need to draw the line.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 10:03 PM
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Hook grip is very effective. It will destroy your thumbs at first, but you get used to it quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 10:07 PM
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Thank you, yeah I’m meditating daily too! I’m also addressing it through combat sports; as I said above I think this is the most effective way of overcoming whatever it is mentally holding me back. My internal confidence soars and my inner critic almost completely disappears and my self respect goes through the roof.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 09:46 AM
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Notable BFA's: Breaking Free Activities BFA 2: A person may choose to hide or eliminate things about themselves as a means of survival. An integral part of survival in the modern world is connection and acceptance by peers, with popularity being a key metric of success in the west, at least socially. A highly popular person stands much more of a chance of surviving and thriving; they are more easily able to find a high quality partner, and benefit from more connections and friendships, providing…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 09:11 AM
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OYS #6 Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 86kg, 15% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG Sex & Relationship: We are moving house this week, and I've used this as a leadership exercise. I broke down all of the necessary tasks, and divided the tasks between myself and my girlfriend and took charge of the entire process. This was also the same for a 2 day trip that we took recently. I wou…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 09:10 AM
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Yeah for sure, as much as I was trying to focus my thoughts towards how I was going to fuck her etc, my mind just kept slipping back into a negative and anxious place; ‘she doesn’t want to sleep with me’, ‘this is weird’. So in essence it did work, but I was projecting the wrong thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 04:35 PM
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Yeah I went for what I wanted; I was a little hesitant at first but quickly fell into a mentality where I was solely focused on my urges, pushing through resistance (in a calibrated manner).
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 04:33 PM
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Good analogy, definitely required some context haha, but regardless of the result I’m glad I gave it a shot. I also tried your suggestion, she was taken aback, didn’t go anywhere, but again, went for what I wanted and didn’t cry about not getting it. Some positives to take away there. I think this transformation/mending process is just going to take some time and patience, and not getting in my own way by sulking about a lack of intimacy during the process.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 04:31 PM
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OYS #5 Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 86kg, 15% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG What do I want: I want to be comfortable with confrontation and confident in my ability to deal with the possibility of physical and verbal altercations. I want my validation to be based on my own internal metrics and genuinely be content on my own if necessary; a typical story of excessive validat…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 10:44 PM
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Tbh I haven’t touched MMSLP for a while, I’ve just been focusing on NMMNG, but it’s a grind with all the BFA activities! Definitely see how it’s going to be beneficial though, covert contracts are a huge source of my anger and loss of frame; in and out of intimate relationships. Dealing with the issues I highlighted are going to take a long time. I’ve been struggling with them for years and it feels like I’ve made no progress, though I definitely have. It’s a tough one because it’s not clear exa…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 12:31 PM
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Thanks for your perspective, you’re right and realistically I know that it’s most likely something that I would come to regret if I ever did decide to make that decision. No. You never, ever have a “difficult conversation” much less “fight” with a bitch. You will lose 10/10. I didn’t explain myself very well there haha; I was referring to a Muay Thai fight, and difficult conversations in public with strangers, to build my social ability & game. Nonetheless the advice you’ve provided is gold, I’l…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 02:50 PM
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Absolutely agree, I have good days and bad days but I’m aiming to improve my baseline through getting out of my comfort zone and doing the shit I don’t wanna do but I know I need to (fighting, difficult conversations etc). But beneath that, doing my best to fake it until I ‘make it’. I’m not completely opposed to marriage, but I also realise there’s no tangible gain for me, other than my woman carrying mine and my son’s name. I’m not even remotely considering it for the foreseeable future, but I…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 01:03 PM
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OYS #4 Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 86kg, 15% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP What do I want: I want to be comfortable with confrontation and confident in my ability to deal with the possibility of physical and verbal altercations. I want my validation to be based on my own internal metrics and genuinely be content on my own if necessary; a typical story of excessive …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 09:18 AM
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Straight to the point, but yeh this is it. I am whining and complaining too much; I need to ACTUALLY take responsibility and stop being angry at other people for my situation. Thank you
/r/askMRP18/06/22 06:43 PM
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I’ve read a lot of your OYS in that thread, very motivating. I’ll keep persevering; trying to focus on the long game now. Thanks again
/r/askMRP18/06/22 06:41 PM
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Yeah 100%, I still have a lot to learn and improve. Like a lot of people have said, I need to get out of my head and subsequently out of my own way. Appreciate the reply
/r/askMRP18/06/22 06:39 PM
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Yeah getting out of my own head is hands down my biggest issue, I overthink/overanalyse everything. I think my main focus needs to be getting my head screwed on, putting my ego to one side and stop letting it get the better of me. Think of the long game and put in the work, because these emotional outbursts just destroy any semblance of improvement. Also finding a greater purpose than my relationship, because at the moment it's taking up the vast majority of my focus.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:52 PM
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I haven't even been paying attention to the dread levels, I will be doing this from now as a metric/target. Thank you for your reply
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:46 PM
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I didn't even realise, but you are absolutely right. My whole journey at the moment is a covert contract, to be honest, this is all with the expectation that at the end of it, my sex life will flourish. I KNOW that this is the wrong mentality, but it doesn't stop it from being my current mental model, though I suppose the first step is to be aware of it.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:36 PM
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Appreciate the reply I'm most definitely getting in my own way, this is a common theme.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:36 PM
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Yeah, I absolutely agree. My internal frame is poor and heavily relies on external validation to pursue anything confidently. Deep down I'm hoping for a quick fix; reading a lot of OYS where people seemingly turn their life around in a month. But I think it's going to take a lot longer than that to develop a congruent frame, rewire my brain and see noticeable improvements. In the meantime, I guess I do my best to act as I would with a congruent frame while I do the work required to bring that cl…
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:35 PM
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Yea I'm not going to lie it shot me to pieces, but I guess that's good really, no point trying to hide from the truth. It's most definitely going to be a long road, and I absolutely do need to get over myself, as you quite rightly said, my ego is incredibly fragile. I guess this is just a case of being aware of it, and not letting it get the better of me, as I did earlier today. I'm going to experiment with this with regards to initiating. Back to basics and build from there.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:22 PM
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Appreciate the in-depth reply. It makes a lot more sense when you put it like that, it would be fucking annoying being woken up, especially when the sexual desire is not reciprocated. Noted. There's A LOT of internal work to do, I can't see any quick fixes here for me, unfortunately, but the work needs to be done because this mental state of constant over-analysis is exhausting and mostly serves to hold me back. For the time being, I guess it's fake it until I make it; maintain as much of what m…
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:12 PM
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Cheers, some good stuff to experiment with there. I definitely find myself going 0-100 real quick most of the time, which normally works for me, but only when there’s genuine desire on both sides. My buildup game fucking sucks lol, I best get practicing.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 10:39 AM
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Thank you, I’m working through NMMNG at the moment and plan on picking up WISNIFG afterwards. Definitely seeing a lot of benefit with the BFA’s in NMMNG, so I’m trying to take my time with them as I have a habit of continuing reading and ending up with a backlog of BFA’s
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 10:00 PM
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Thank you, this has given me a lot to think about. In reference to that thread; as much as a part of me has internalised many positive beliefs, a bigger and deeper part of my psyche holds on to those negative beliefs, which can easily overpower the positive beliefs, resulting in a highly turbulent self esteem, largely favouring the negative. As far as actionable steps, I guess it’s to keep putting in the work and continue to step outside my comfort zone, allowing those challenging experiences to…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 09:57 PM
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OYS #3 Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6'0, 86kg, 15% BF Lifts: DL: 215kg, SQ: 145kg, BP: 125kg, OHP: 80kg Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP What do I want: I want to be comfortable with confrontation and confident in my ability to deal with the possibility of physical and verbal altercations. I want my validation to be based on my own internal metrics and genuinely be content on my own if necessary; a typical story of excessive …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 09:57 AM
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Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/22 10:15 AM
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OYS #2 Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Stats: 6', 195 lbs, 17% BF Lifts: DL: 474, SQ: 320, BP: 275, OHP: 176 (converted from kg) Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP What do I want: I want to be free of the negative behavioural patterns that inhibit my ability to fulfil my potential as a man, physically, socially and mentally. More specifically, becoming comfortable with confrontation and confident in my ability to deal with a physical and…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 02:39 PM
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OYS #1 Age: 27, partner 25 Not Married: 3 years, 2 yo son. Stats: 6', 195 lbs, 17% BF Lifts: DL: 474, SQ: 320, BP: 275, OHP: 176 (converted from kg) Read: Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: NMMNG, MAP, MMSLP ​ What do I want: I want to be free of the negative behavioural patterns that inhibit my ability to fulfil my potential as a man, physically, socially and mentally. More specifically, becoming a man that’s comfortable with confrontation and confident in his ability to d…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/22 09:14 PM
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