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I'm not sure that there is as much hypocrisy as people think is happening Those that want low n's generally have lower n's themselves. I also don't think that many guys really or realistically are dead set on virgins. Those that want relationships (most guys) really do prefer that you haven't fucked a bunch of other men. Why is that such a ridiculous preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:13 PM
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Picky, and pretty odd. Not much of an initiator. Possibly undiagnosed autist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:19 PM
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People are weak and will generally entertain anything accessible, they get what they can get. Pure unadulterated hedonism is incredibly accessible. The longer you go down that path, the more you think it's normal. Without question, actions carry more weight than simply knowing the rules of monogamy, you have to follow them through action. Will all casual people be cheaters? Definitely not, most won't, but a comparison of casual vs non casual partners and cheating habits, I know for certain there…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:31 PM
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This is ideal, but I think there's a very long way to go. I think we're on the cusp of things attempting to make sense. It all starts with groups like this, or very public things like the Johnny Depp case. We're approaching being ready for that conversation. I've seen women get away with some pretty crazy shit. It all starts with holding them accountable, especially for the bigger things beyond flakiness, games, and punctuality, as petty as they are. Im not even sure I'd go so far as to say wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:45 AM
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I suppose. But there's nothing more romantic than being cared for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:52 PM
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Nothing crazy. Just be there for me on the rare occasions I had a rough day. Empathize rather than challenge my rare openness of emotion. I'd like some rituals, say coffee, food, drinks or some park or something, while also having our own identities and space to live our own lives The best relationships I see are effortless from an outsider, I know theyve worked on theirs to get to that state, I want one that's fairly effortless as well. Just knowing whatever life brings I got a rock solid gal t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:10 PM
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Anything triple digits is disgusting, and it's hard to do honestly. I don't care how 'liberated' or how much you enjoy sex, at some point you're just a whore that lacks discretion in an intimate experience. That does go for both genders, but there is at least something to be respected of higher n men, as they at least 'earn' sex. I think the pride of earning is what men really want as much as the experience itself. So men do naturally, and maybe do get more of a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:12 PM
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that just happens to be the rabbit hole we went down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:39 AM
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I mean, more hands means more help for a high maintenance animal such as a dog. As a single human you have to be up for it. I question how many people are, rather they acquire them on their own interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:32 AM
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You're subhuman garbage for having this opinion that differs from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:28 AM
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Say it aint so XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:27 AM
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I've found the single dog parent XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:25 AM
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Those fuckers! I knew it was a 4 legged creature destroying the fabric of everything as we know it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:25 AM
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I agree take care of them as they take care of you. I see it where dogs are pulling all the weight in the relationships w/ their human counterparts. people know the consequences of kids, I'm not sure people take dog ownership seriously enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:27 AM
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I am known for thinking outside the box:)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:21 AM
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The sweaters are definitely a human thing, oh look at my cute dog in a silly sweater hehe. more human food for sure they like that. I know multiple people that can barely take care of their dogs, yet feel so inclined to get them anyways because they're cute and loving
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:59 AM
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They are the fucking best. Probably the only thing holding it all together nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:56 AM
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It's not if you're doing for the dog as dog is doing for you. But if a dog is giving you pure companionship, and all you are doing is keeping it alive, that is very one sided. Take the thing on a walk, play with that shit. It's because the people are getting these dogs as a solution to their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:54 AM
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As long as it is a mutual relationship I'm cool with it. I really do see a lot of single people trying to fill a void through a living thing. They probably still would be single, but to get a dog for yourself because of that loneliness is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:22 AM
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I would definitely agree, but it does bide time for the 'right person' to come along, but one shouldn't take ownership of an animal just so they aren't alone. What can you do for the dog outside of just keep it alive? that's what people got to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:18 AM
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Looks and physical attraction are definitely the gateway to any romantic endeavor, whatever the form.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:15 AM
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Yeah she definitely does, but I also did this to myself. Anyways it's great to get it out there, and have support. Thanks y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:17 AM
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I fucked up bigly, no doubt about that, but it was not one pot, and still consider myself very financially literate. I now know more about investing more than ever, but it was sure an expensive course XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:16 AM
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correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:13 AM
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That I was getting my teeth kicked in in the stock market. Like lost a set for life amount of money, accounting for compounded returns. This was all my own money. I've always been a very stoic person, and people have had an impression that I was really good at investing, because up until this point, I was. So having that identity as a financial savant of sorts shattered and having my retirement plan pushed back probably at least a decade was a very bitter pill. I asked for help literally just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:32 AM
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It should absolutely be a deal breaker! Unless I am the one offending, then it's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:10 AM
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Porn definitely has a role in all of this. Everyone has access to everything kink they ever could have imagined just like that. The sexual gratification w/o putting in the work of ‘making’ a woman want you has made it too convenient. At the end of the nut though, I think guys know that’s not the realexperience. I think the chasing of sex and the physical aspect of actually having it will always take priority over it’s cheap copycat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:31 PM
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I think it’s really fucked, the sexual marketplace. That being said, all it takes is one. Women are taking advantage a commodity that’s always been in demand (sex), and is in even higher demand than ever, due to casual sex no longer being taboo, heck even normalized. This highest ever demand in a commodity, a group almost exclusively controls, is going to create a very favorable environment for that group. Think eggs right now. The solution is to either… Quit dating Or Accept its fucked, run thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:38 PM
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I agree and changed my view on this. Their circumstances are very unique however
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:16 AM
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I guess this falls on you as a guy to ‘screen’ these women, but you can’t tell to much without getting to know them in some capacity first. This is not an observation you can reliably make just from one interacting. I guess yeah you have to either have this awkward conversation early Or accumulate women as friends and observe carefully, peeling back layers of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:43 PM
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I’m nearly certain that you can find nanny’s quite a bit cheaper than that, but I guess it depends on where you live and quality of the nanny. I would guess that you guys having the money you do were looking at super nannys. That being said, you and some others have changed my view on the aspect of childcare not being a woman’s burden. It does seem to be. Here’s a pat on the back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:28 PM
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You’re making a lot of sense. Your hair follicles don’t seem to be intruding on you brain too much 😂 I think I’ll even give you guys that child care is your burden, even though you can opt out via nanny’s, I do understand that is not always practical. A women may actually have genuine interest in a career that gets mitigated because of that impracticality and cost of nannying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:22 PM
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It was literally a compliment. You guys are doing a lot more than expected, in my opinion. Sorry for my questionable diction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:59 PM
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I mean I could just say hire a nanny again, and be a career woman, always a choice. Then I guess you could just say don’t work, be broke and free. Guys liberating themselves from work duty and it’s just not taken as well as women liberating themselves from childcare. I still think that men are more obligated to work than women are obligated children and caring for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:51 PM
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Good point you guys didn’t invest all that time, money, to just take care of some offspring. At that level of commitment of resources you almost don’t have a choice 😂. Also, you’re likely very committed to your trade or you wouldn’t commit in such a manner in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:40 PM
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I can see how In your guys situation he would be the one with the choice to care for the kids if one of you had to give up their income. But neither of you are, I bet he wouldn’t even hate that idea. Why is he still working, just because of the net positive of his income - cost of nannying? Or is he just another guy working because that’s what guys do? This is also a very unique scenario where I’d say due to the very comfortable sum of money, both of you guys have choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:29 PM
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Thanks for your input and the effort put in. I will look into the apostrophe situation. I agree it’s a lot of points (probably too many) so it’s a very messy debate. The topics were also full of generalities, and all generalizations can be trumped by a specific exception. Every situation is different. Both genders have expectations and that’s just how it is. Do you think men or women have more societal expectations? How do you think these parties are faring in relation to these expectations? My …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:18 PM
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I'm not shutting down any conversations. what makes you think that men generally aren't as hard working as their grandparent's generation? Or crying for posting about it. You're very comment "complaining about being adults and having to do anything." is exactly saying "nut up or shut up" with different letters and words. I'm not in the coal mines, but some guy is. I'm not on the brink of ending it all, but some guy is. I'm not poor, colored, short, gay, whatever, but someone is, and that's who I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:45 PM
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I agree, women are kicking ass in terms of careers. I'm impressed with their education, and career development in such a short period of time. We've probably accumulated just as many household duties and child care duties as you guys have accumulated careers and alleviating that burden. That being said I feel like it's still our expectation, and that we still generally do provide, because we have to. It's inescapable. and 90% of men still working seem to agree. I was as free as a bird for 3 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:34 PM
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It's clearly an exaggeration (but still true) You're adding inputs to a conversation that weren't there before and like many of the other people here just trying to shut down the conversations. My literal post agrees the best approach to issues for men if you have them is still "nut up or shut up." But replies like yours are what's undermining the whole conversation. My personal 'specs' don't matter, but I am by any accounts kicking ass as a human, and I've had some luck too. But I still see an …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:54 PM
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That's a bold assumption, what suggests this? Is it the 75% LFP usurping the 90% LFP? Because 75% is bigger? Is it the fact that men make more and generally breadwin? or is that a myth? What suggests women are providing for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:48 PM
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This isn't exclusively about sex and relationship, that's just one aspect of it, I want to provide and I want to protect. It's a large scale problem and conversation that for some reason can't be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:45 PM
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I agree, debate is healthy. You're contribution is valid, but you, again attempted to navigate this debate by simply shutting it down. That isn't a debate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:50 PM
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Confirmation bias exists for everyone, especially in me. I've lived a pretty interesting 31 years, and think I have a pretty well rounded worldview from it. I can only go from my experiences. I don't think that's what's happening here, and most people looking at that data would agree that male employment has held surprisingly strong and that we are indeed providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:46 PM
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Interesting point. I think I'm pretty neutral but definitely think of women when I think of rape. There's just not enough addressing of certain issues, and those are real issues to someone, not me but someone. It sucks to be overlooked and I'm sure I'm overlooking tons of shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:41 PM
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Every action has a reaction, and you're simply being a knob. The data is there, and it generally suggests exactly what I'm saying, at the very least more so than what you're saying, and you're saying because of the 10% that aren't in the workforce (probably from you know more household money because there's 75% more LFP from women) that my argument isn't valid. Exceptions. Give and take. yadda yadda.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:36 PM
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There's always give and take in everything, I agree. But these child care related responsibilities can definitely be chosen to be pushed off to some other guardian, like your nanny. Sure you got to weigh pros and cons, it probably is expensive, but it's a choice you guys are still deciding to make. How would you feel about working 60 hour weeks and letting your surgeon level intelligent husband, and his income, play with blocks and feed children via spoon helicopters. It's just not expected or r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:26 PM
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And we are. That's what the men's movement is. That's why subs like this and the red pill exist. There are biases and more people are not okay with them every single day. The fight has begun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:18 PM
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The idea that we must provide hasn't changed, and you're just nitpicking at what's still a general truth just because I used an absolute word like MUST. I even prefaced this with there's exceptions. you aren't even debasing the argument itself with a real counterpoint to the discussion, just again, attempting to invalidate mine through technical garbage like that. 90% of men in working age are still working and providing. Making it happen because we have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:10 PM
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I'm interested. you replied to my post by attempting to just invalidate it (in the laziest way possible) with a couple points essentially saying, you're making a deal of nothing, AKA "just deal with it" you know, what guys are always told. You're the one unwilling to discuss. I've adapted my viewpoints on pretty big subjects, like abortion, are you willing to adapt yours? why is it so hard to admit privilege? I got plenty too, but I also don't have other ones. It shouldn't be okay you've got you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:01 PM
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We have to work man. We had to work more then, sure, you know 70 fucking years ago as the sole provider. But when now half of the other population (women) can now work some regression is to be expected. How can women, a population that exceeds that of men, enter a workforce at 75% capacity and you not see regression? It's actually pretty incredible that LFP in that group is still at 90% and only drop 8% (if youre statistic back then is true). Just shows how's bound to that providing we really ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:49 PM
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I'm not complaining! I even said multiple times that we enjoy this. But it's still an expectation, not a choice. Were literally saying the same thing, that men should do it because we are more capable. It's still a burden or responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:43 PM
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I think traditionalism was definitely more effective. Everyone had rules and played the game in accordance with those. The rules have definitely changed, but mostly for women, guys still work, protect, and now have even had to pick up some household duties and children responsibilities (though definitely not to the scale of women still) and are burdened with more now than ever before. Sometimes I think they're in a great big recess too, but if given the chance to choose everything you wanted, wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:38 PM
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I'm okay with doing these things, but in a sub that's supposed to be navigating stereotypes, it doesn't seem to be doing so effectively. I can agree that both genders seem to be okay with rolling with ones that benefit them and denying the ones that don't. Is it just convenience that drives our actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:27 PM
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It's been on a very slow decline from the very low 90 % range to now high 80% range amongst the ages ranges from 25 -54, you know, when people are supposed generally be working. It's still basically 90%. I used this same range for women. The slow decline is a natural byproduct of a more saturated and competitive workforce, now involving women but it has hardly dropped in spite of most of the other half of the population now engaging in the workforce as well. Men work. It's what we do, because we…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:19 PM
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They have opportunity and are taking it. That's good for them, everyone should. Just acknowledge and respect our experience. The most common response to any man's plight on here is "deal with it" we've been dealing and always will deal with it, because we have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:14 PM
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You're right, I am just another cog and everything is fair across the board on both sides, its all figured out. shut the sub down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:10 PM
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Yeah it's sunshine and rainbows for 50 years and that's hte only way they can call it love. I've been on the wrong side of cheating and am not justifying it, it's disgusting. As I've been saying I could have simply wrote it differently and she could have been the cheater, or nobody could have been the cheater. But in the hypothetical married 50 years nobody cheated everything was hunky dory, but it was of convenience (transactional) still doesn't satisfy me. While you definitely shouldn't seek o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:31 AM
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I have very traditional values and do not like or respect cheating in any capacity. But this was a hypothetical where I simply assigned the cheating aspect to Henry (probably because it seemed more likely) but it could have easily been GG, women can and have cheated before. If your line for cheating is leaving that's fine and that's your line, but it has to be your line for both parties. would she be absolved for this if she did? It's not anyone's job to put up with too much shenanigans, whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:05 AM
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I think it's a self fulfilling prophecy, but only so if both parties believe in that idea of it. If only one or neither do, then it's simply a transactional relationship. it definitely takes more than belief, and theres no science to it. But based on all of history it has existed in some capacity, and the story has been told too often to be a farce, not that quantity of belief makes it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:25 AM
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The guy fucked up, GG definitely did not, just grew old, nothing wrong with that. I thought about making her the cheater, but I just didn't see GG as doing that. But she realizes shit doesn't go perfect, maybe he did have more bumps in the road than her, but there's got to be give and take with everything and there's none of that now. Everything doesn't have to be and often isnt 50/50, there just has to be actions in the way the recieving party would like to recieve it (love languages) and respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:21 AM
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Brb I got some faces to peel off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:24 PM
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It wouldn’t work, and nobody is asking you to have sex with someone not of interest. It’s your body, your choice, and likely your fault for making the wrong one after getting pumped and dumped again. But yeah mens fault for wanting a basic human desire
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:49 PM
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I agree with this, both sides have taken part of the other party’s ‘traditional’ expectations, yet traditional expectations are still likely dominated by that traditional party e.g. women and house/child care. This men bashing and trying to say we’re irrelevant in modern society just pisses me off, because anyone that can objectively look at relationships knows that this isn’t the case and that we still more than pull our weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:32 PM
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I can promise you for every 1 female marketing manager breadwinning, there’s 2 or 3 construction workers or plumbers breadwinning, even in those generations, as those are unsexy but still good paying jobs. But the point of my post is that men have, and will always ‘step up’ and ‘make it work’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:05 PM
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At the risk of sounding like an asshole I’m just going to say it, and kind of bouncing off this guy on the respect piece. The modern woman has little respect for the typical modern man, and it’s because of the assumption in this very post. Aside from infrastructure, men contribute a lot to relationships themselves contrary to popular belief, in my opinion even more than women yet. The modern man is cooking and cleaning more, I would even argue as much (some personal observations l, even more) th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:51 PM
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Assume dude isn’t married I guess I missed that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:21 AM
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These are 4 different, pretty decent looking dudes. All with what I felt were their 2 best photos and their description. I would say that they all rank in the mid ranges of attraction, and am just curious what women think when they see these guys. Just trying to gauge where ‘the bar’ is on a swipe. You can rank or rate them, provide some insight as to why, and lastly did you swipe?! Please be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:19 AM
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I’m not sure guys actually are aiming for that, they just to do enough to get results. Results don’t come until one’s in the top say 40% however
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:58 PM
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B. Idgaf about performance of past partners, higher number is definitely the more concerning behavior. It alludes to indecision, impulsiveness, and a general lack of respect for the most intimate thing one can do with another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:52 PM
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There’s far more to being content than just a healthy self concept. I agree that’s important, but so is pushing yourself to be your best, no matter the objective. It’s not toxic masculinity even it’s just trying to do the most with this one life. It’s always a balancing act, being grateful for what you have and pushing for what you want. If one wants sex, and they are unable to obtain it, it’s only natural to try to self improve to be able to obtain it. I can almost assure you if you do nothing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:24 PM
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I agree in some respects, women are more independent and I do see a lot of them pursuing careers and getting education often times to a post grad level. that’s great and there’s no questioning they are taking advantage of their relatively new found liberties. I however see a lot of these “strong” “independent” women whose entire identity of success is tied to their careers. They’re riding that train and often don’t feel the need to self improve or anything because they think they’re already ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:35 PM
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So gals are born desiring 6 feet dudes with big muscles? No. They’ve been force fed an idea of an attractive guy for 20+ years through rom coms, chick flicks, Disney, and High School cliques Vise versa too, guys don’t come out looking for the hourglass, they seen it for 20 years and generally like it. I think fetishes are developed. A hard thing like ones height simply just is. Hard to compare those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:25 AM
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What you’re describing isn’t putting pussy on a pedestal, that’s more like simping. You’re alluding to the idea that men think women have it easier in the dating marketplace. The sheer number of posts about this you have to at least think that it may have merit. OLD in particular is clearly geared towards women. You guys can never fully understand your privilege in the modern dating scene, as you’re not experiencing the other end. Guys could probably match and fuck a fatty, but we want more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:13 AM
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There is no doubt in my mind that women and their ‘cat like tendencies’ are the root of this body insecurity. Men operate on respect, and those insults you stated men as saying, usually only happens on the internet or guys night out and talking with the guys. I don’t go out much, but I’m not sure I’ve ever seen that blatant disrespect from a man’s mouth in my 31 years. I couldn’t imagine doing that and can’t imagine any of my friends doing so either. Yet I see a cat fight every other week. I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:32 PM
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What about the Mexican guy working 3 jobs to feed his family of 8, barely getting by. He’s grinding as hard as one can, but will never get ahead. Or the black woman raising 3 kids all by herself. She’s a boss bitch, but will never get ahead. But 30 year old white woman got a bachelors degree in psychology and sucked a stable cock. Now thinks she bootstrapped her own success. Reeks of entitlement. I know this because anyone that’s ever fought hard for anything to improve themselves would never po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:36 PM
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I think that charm is 20% of the equation of attraction. People have a person in mind already, if you are too far off that base, physically, ideologically, emotionally, whatever, you probably get weeded out. This isn’t even gender specific. People want as close to their idea as possible, and with limitless options, they think that they can have it. Actually finding it is another story for many. That being said, if you’re on the fringe yeah you can definitely charm your way in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:37 PM
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It’s not a woman’s problem, it’s man’s burden. That’s just how it is. I was literally only saying “this is my experience.” Not that women have to do anything about it (except hopefully at least understand?)I like to think that the point of this sub is to open up peoples minds to alternate points of view. What your doing is just stonewalling. If my and your interaction were in real life, it would look something like this. Me: hey here’s a problem I have. you: too bad, not mine. And if we were any…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:16 AM
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Yeah I’m just trying to not sound like an asshole and see things from both sides. XD But I agree to be lonely and have no outlet or source of validation can be tough, and one doesn’t know how tough it is until it’s just you and your only escape is a bottle of jack.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:05 AM
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The man approaches woman nearly ever time yes. The woman chooses to accept or deny their advances. They are the choosers in modern dating But this was neither the topic of this post or what I was even talking about. OP is simply mitigating male feelings and I’m trying to logically display that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:12 AM
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This is true, but only because of how much society has built up the idea of body autonomy. At the end of the day, the idea is women can act on their FEELING of love/interest/lust. That’s great and just how it should be. The man however, can’t act on their FEELINGS of the very same love/interest/lust at the same level of freedom. Feelings = Feelings one is not more important than the other. Woman have more liberty and freedom to exercise their feelings, and that same liberty to deny a man’s advan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:44 PM
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The unfortunate reality for most guys, no matter your demographic is that very few people actually care about you. And this number gets smaller and smaller the more you age, as auntheicity becomes more important than anything, and you look around and realize you maybe have a few family members (hopefully) and a couple good dudes that got your back when you need it. This is probably true for women too, but they have far more distraction from that reality. Social media circle jerking and bathroom …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:21 PM
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Dating scene is much more complicated and there are way more variables in play for men than simply looks. They definitely matter quite a bit to men, but I think a man is willing to settle down when they realize that a woman add something to their life. For example I don’t mind handling 80% of the shit in the relationship, I even take pride in it. Just be supportive on the rare occurrence that that 80% is too much. (maybe like 10/365 days) looks 6+ and can take care of you on the rare occurrence …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:40 PM
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