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7

Sexism, racism and ageism all in one sentence.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 08:20 PM
19

Frankly, I doubt they were given much choice in the matter, as a king would hardly consider any woman his equal.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 07:26 AM
4

Men are bullied into not crying. Even when they are small children.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 10:30 AM
3

All this stiff upper lip stuff mainly dates back to the days of the empire and the two world wars. It is a myth, a false and cruel idea that men aren't allowed to have or show emotions. Time to ditch it.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 07:54 PM
4

Clearly, their pregnancy didn't affect their desire / willingness to commit crimes in the first place.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 07:44 PM
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He signed one of his properties over to her, possibly as some kind of tax dodge. He also lied to her by only having a 'religious 'marriage, when the understanding was that there was to be a legal marriage as well. He signed the property legally and of his own free will to her. It's hers to do with as she pleases. Open and shut case. He has other properties, including the home itself.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 07:04 PM
1

OK. Have signs up instead similar to those they had at my swimming pool. 'No pushing' ' no hoarding equipment ' ' no leaving it wet', ' no filming ', 'no photos ' 'no ogling ' etc. Have them posted around the room.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 06:57 PM
1

GSA were told repeatedly for years that they needed to buck up their ideas and provide the education and opportunities that the Boy scouts do. They refused and only pulled their heads out once they realised they were haemorrhaging members after the Boy scouts provided those opportunities instead. Too little too late. They lacked the trainers and connections to change their direction. IMHO, its good for everyone to be able to learn how to cooperate in a way that is not taught in schools or at hom…
/r/MensRights05/10/23 06:41 PM
2

Christ came to fulfil (complete) the law...ie his death & resurrection ended the law by completing it. Therefore, Christians are not under the burden of the law. Christians follow the New Testament, not the Old Testament, and of course do not circumcise.. This only seems confusing in America. People point to Matthew 5:18 "Till heaven and earth pass one jot or one tittle shall in no way pass from the law, till all be fulfilled " They use this to justify circumcision, however, in his death and res…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 09:10 PM
4

Christ came to fulfil (complete) the law...ie his death & resurrection ended the law by completing it. Therefore, Christians are not under the burden of the law. Christians follow the New Testament, not the Old Testament, and of course do not circumcise.. This only seems confusing in America. People point to Matthew 5:18 "Till heaven and earth pass one jot or one tittle shall in no way pass from the law, till all be fulfilled " They use this to justify circumcision, however, in his death and res…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 07:26 PM
5

Fingers crossed 🙂
/r/MensRights19/09/23 08:18 PM
8

That sucks. I'm sure it means a lot to him to have your support and a safe place to go. Maybe you could suggest/ organise an open jobs fair that he could attend?
/r/MensRights19/09/23 08:03 PM
20

I hope the guy you helped gets a good job he enjoys very quickly. You are a kind dude.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 06:41 PM
2

I think that the issue here is that 'masculine ' clothes worn by women are generally women's clothes, which are cut / shaped to fit women's bodies. Girlie clothes would similarly need to be fashioned to suit men's bodies. I have a male friend who cross dresses, and looks fabulous. Similarly, why can't men easily wear clothing fashioned from decadent fabrics and wonderful patterns of all kinds? Isn't it time we had more options for men than the same old dark fabrics and conservative ' masculine '…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 11:44 AM
4

I went to see it for some fun, mindless fluff, left feeling down and disappointed. Like you say, OP, it was a bad film. Hopefully, there are some humorous enjoyable films coming up soon.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 07:23 PM
3

Sorry OP. Sounds like you could benefit from checking out r/raisedbynarcissists. Wishing you all the best.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 10:48 AM
25

It's great that your boyfriend has apologised. Without knowing about his background ( or him), I think most people would have come to the same conclusion as your sister did, I'm afraid in this incident, your chap came across as immature foolish, rude, and ungrateful. He put both of you in an untenable situation. Knowing that this was a difficult situation, re his presence there, he chose to reveal his presence with his outburst, ignoring your ( repeated) attempts to remind him of the situation, …
/r/MensRights12/07/23 04:46 PM
38

I am sure people of all genders would be delighted that the dangers and horror of pregnancy and childbirth were no longer a 'thing '. Likewise, permanent sterilisation without regrets. And the vast majority of infertile people. Pretty soon, those opting for the old fashioned route would be seen as rather odd, to say he least.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 09:24 AM
1

Up to 50% of elective c-sections could be down to phobias associated with childbirth - including tokophobia. These phobias can also apply to men. I suspect there are still taboos associated with saying 'I don't want / feel able/ am afraid of having a relationship or children', when being questioned irl. I would suggest that a larger proportion of women than is acknowledged also actually avoid relationships ( including marriage) and sex due to societal, religious or cultural influences and views …
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:39 PM
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On another note, this guy is going to break. No-one can keep to that kind of work pattern, let alone at hard physical labour without developing illness or injury, or causing accidents and injuring or killing others at work or driving. They clearly have a home, and he could save for longer and have a healthier work-life balance, rather than him ending up dead. At the very least, he needs to get healthy meal replacement drinks if he doesn't feel able to eat solid food. Also, he needs to take regul…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 01:24 PM
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Libel and slander ( spreading lies with malicious intent/ intent to harm another) are relevant, in this kind of situation. America https://www.findlaw.com/litigation/filing-a-lawsuit/8-reasons-you-can-legitimately-sue-a-minor-and-win.html Uk https://www.legalchoices.org.uk/your-guide-to-defamation
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:37 AM
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Gender dysphoria is the distress and discomfort experienced by those who feel they were born in the wrong body ( ie their gender identity does not match the gender they were assigned at birth. This is not a mental illness or mental disorder in of itself. Body dysmorphia, on the other hand, is the obsession with part of the body, seeing one's own nose, for example as being grotesque, when it is not. It is a mental disorder, a type of OCD. The vast majority of men and women are heterosexual. The v…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:38 PM
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Sounds like a conservative attempt to encourage marriage.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 10:28 AM
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Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumcision. Bleeding post-circumcision usually needs exploration under anesthetic." pg 880-881 Oxford Handbook of Pediatrics 2nd ed 2013 [in infants or child…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:51 PM
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It's actually treble discrimination. Not only are they saying that a white male is worse at being a leader inherently due to his perceived gender and ethnicity, it is also saying that those who are perceived female and / or of Black And Minority Ethnic (BAME) backgrounds are inherently better than those who are perceived to be white males. In order to point the absurdity of these arguments out, think about the following... Which ( based on their words) inherently make better leaders, a BAME man,…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:33 PM
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Ideally. Perhaps making it gender neutral would be a step towards that.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 07:26 PM
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The idea that anyone would transition for this reason is ludicrous. They can simply update the conscription to call up all suitable people, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 02:00 PM
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Good bot!
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:50 PM
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Morning wood. If males had total control over their elections, they would have far less embarrassing moments and be far happier. Just like males, females also experience random sexual excitement. It's just that it's not visible to outsiders. Arousal is a physiological response, and therefore, not completely under the control of the body owner. Hence, survivors of SA are told that just because their body responded, in no way means that they consented or even wanted the SA to occur.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:15 AM
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I have had an ?Arabic man completely ignore me and answer to my OH, when I had asked a question!
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:35 AM
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Sometimes it can depend on ethnicity. Eg, it being frowned upon to speak to opposite sex.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 09:33 PM
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'Privilege' has been weaponised as a word to attack others, and deliberately inflict psychological and emotional pain on them.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:54 AM
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It's a quandry. I would have just said "excuse me, are you ok?" Whilst standing at a bit of a distance. This would have given an opening with no pressure. She probably got there OK, but it's a shame we feel we can't offer the courtesies to each other, regardless of gender, due to worry about negative outcomes.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 03:53 PM
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This is very interesting. In Ireland in the 1870s I believe, approximately 1/3 of the population remained unmarried. There were terms such as 'confirmed bachelor' for unmarried men.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 04:57 PM
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I am a human. I have human rights. Regardless of what's between my legs, or what skin tone I have. I am asking for nothing more than any other human is worthy of. I have played no part in the oppression or degradation of any woman or indeed man. If I raise an issue, it's because it's a genuine issue, an issue that affects and harms humanity. As you know, I am not a petty, cruel or vindictive person. And this is not a suffering Olympics. Acknowledging he suffering of men does not negate the suffe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/23 08:15 AM
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Agreed. I can't believe this nonsense is so widespread.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 09:45 PM
10

Spoiler, it doesn't. Almost all STIs are higher in America than any other western nation.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 09:44 PM
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This is a conflict of interest. Obviously, your friend should follow legal advice a) There should be no need for any kind of appeal, just a simple statement to the court that that is the case, and b) it could lead to the court and the psychotherapist being brought into disrepute, as it calls into question the neutrality of the court. Other ideas could be to contact the professional organisation and / or ombudsman for psychotherapists , advising them of the conflict of interest, and that it bring…
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:18 PM
1

That kind of hairstyle is typically worn by minors. Hence grossness.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 03:26 PM
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The helpline should record calls. Look on their website to see what the complaints procedure is.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 10:00 PM
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Funny how they always harp on about such people being 'mothers'. The thought of going to prison or losing their children ( or even traumatising their children) certainly didn't stop them abusing and stabbing someone else. Or going on a drunken binge. In fact, that's the case with pretty much everyone who commits a crime who is a parent. Does it never cross their minds that the kids, in the case of crimes such as this, might be a lot better off being raised by someone better and safer than these …
/r/MensRights03/04/23 07:20 PM
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Excellent synopsis. You may be heartened to hear that on other subs, whenever someone male, usually the survivors post about being forced or coerced into sex by a female, overwhelmingly, the comments call it what it is- rape, and they are also sympathetic to him, and give advice on next steps to get away from the rapist, report the attack etc etc. I would say there is widespread public acknowledgement that rape is rape, regardless of the gender of the perpetrators or survivors. This gives hope t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 10:37 AM
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All toilets should be stalls only. Stall dignity for all. Why are males still being forced to openly urinate in front of others, regardless of gender?
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:18 PM
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I've got some good news, on other subs, when males talk about being forced to have sex by females ( rape), all the comments, almost without exception, from all kinds of people, tell the OP it IS rape, and abuse, and validate the OP. I'm talking about big subs too.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 02:46 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if rates of sex have plummeted since Roe vs Wade was overturned. For obvious reasons.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 08:26 AM
1

Body counts are a weird American obsession. Never been asked ( or asked anyone) here ( UK). It's considered as rude and intrusive as asking how much someone earns. Or picking your nose in public. As for the inexperienced, some people consider it matter of importance and personal pride to give them a great introduction to such experiences.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 08:44 PM
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1 in 4 men are being abused. This is a great case to talk to your friends and check in on them. Leaving a relationship where you have been abused can be absolutely as difficult for men as women. This is because it escalates TO violence from a point of isolating and psychologically degrading and gaslighting the victim. To such a degree that they are conditioned to believe they 'deserve 'it, that it's their own 'fault ', that if only they did x or y, the abuse would stop. Spoiler...the abuse won't…
/r/MensRights13/03/23 10:03 AM
1

Check out r/qanoncasualties. They often ask the same question, about a different topic. There are interesting answers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 03:01 PM
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Good grief where on earth is that author finding all these 'women '?! I have never, in all my life, come across women who behave like that. I have come across very small number of unpleasant, or even evil women, but not like this. I suspect that she does not like having the competition of other women to deal with. She certainly doesn't give a toss about men, trying to bash any relationship they might have with a woman before it even starts.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 10:01 PM
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In the Western world- 1) the high population of the Western world at present was due to the post WW2 baby boom. The boomers are now very old and therefore the population is decreasing through death. The population was always going to go down from there. 2)Thanks to contraception, and improvements in medicine, people are, on the whole, choosing to have far smaller families. 3) The reasons people had big families in the past were because of lack of contraception, but also extremely high child mort…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 09:37 PM
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I think it's the right of a child to know for certain who their parents are, and for the first time in history, that is doable. Especially from a perspective of inherited illness, knowing other family members, and even financial inheritance etc etc... There would need to be legal changes to protect children ( and their innocent parents) from abusive or attacking parents, but this needs updating anyway, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:41 AM
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Can the child be adopted, given that otherwise, the child will be at risk from abuser parent?
/r/MensRights04/03/23 05:48 PM
2

Well, imagination is much better quality, I would only imho suggest not fantasising about real people because that could cause awkwardness irl.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 09:41 AM
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They are where noxious people of all types like to flaunt their noxiousness in a seething train-wreck of pointless drama. Not typical of the vast majority of people.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:57 PM
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No need to shave the head. It's a dehumanising tactic. Military in other countries don't have to, so why there?
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:46 PM
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The only way to really break this horrible pattern, is to teach boys it's OK to cry, and it's ok to lean on otjers and girls that it's OK for boys to cry, and lean on them. Little girls are still being taught by society and parents that they ( girls) are inherently emotionally weaker and emotionally more vulnerable than boys, but also that it's unacceptable for girls to show any anger, especially publicly, no matter how justified, or reasonably expressed. And little boys are still being taught t…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:55 AM
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I suspect that particular urban myth is spread by commercial enterprises which not only advertise and sell vasectomies, but also vasectomy reversal, and IVF. They make money at both ends, so to speak. Vasectomy is a valid choice, but should only ever be undertaken by customers as a permanent sterilisation procedure, just like tying tubes for women. This is what I post ( feel free to share) By leading young men, in particular, to believe that vasectomy is 'reversible', a lot of their future femal…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 10:03 PM
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That's really interesting. I think it's best to view contraception from a belt and braces approach. So often, people think it's OK, or are even told it's ok to rely on just one method. Better to have 2 methods of contraception so there is a backup, in case one fails. If this view was more widespread, funding for Male contraception would likely increase.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 11:00 AM
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The problem is biological. Sperm production is a continuous process. Men produce 130-290 million sperm cells per day, and a lot of those can be viable to fertilise an egg. Women produce about 450 eggs over the course of their lifetimes, and there are certain points in the cycle, and various ways of interrupting the cycle, to prevent fertilisation of the egg. Therefore, it is very difficult to make a contraceptive for men that is not a barrier ( condoms), or permanent sterilisation ( vasectomy).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/23 08:56 PM
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Someone with no heart should never be trusted with sharp objects around other people's hearts.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 08:49 PM
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"Like British people, I've always thought it rather crass to discuss what I earn"
/r/MensRights21/02/23 11:26 AM
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Sounds like some mh issues. Hope neither man was willing to get involved with her after that.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 05:18 PM
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Women live longer than men. Therefore, more single women owning homes.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:51 PM
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Not easily.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 08:57 PM
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In America, an NHS, and a proper social security net would mean a lot more people would have more confidence to date people in lower economic groups. As it is, any accidents or illness could condemn a family to bankruptcy or homelessness due to disgustingly high medical costs Also, go learn ballroom dancing. Hardly any men do it, and you may find a romantic partner there, or via connecting with grandmothers etc!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 05:57 PM
1

OK, so what if on one of these videos, the vlogger happens to capture someone on screen who is in witness protection, or who has escaped an abusive relationship? Showing them in their content could give away their location. My suggestion would be wear big headphones and sunglasses, and old ratty, ugly gym clothes. Each filming session, get into shot once or twice, ( facing away from her and using equipment or waiting for it)) and reduce her attempts to look like she hangs out in exclusive places…
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:56 PM
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Terrible if someone accidentally tripped over a tripod... could break equipment, end up suing the blogger and the gym. Here's another Easy way out. If you own a gym, regularly play music from Disney . They are very hot on protection of copyright. So if a blogger is recording, they won't be able to produce content with audio recorded on scene.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 01:30 PM
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Thanks! This happened with someone I know of, quite often came intoxicated to work. After she was reported, it was discovered she had been driving her child to school on the way in to work 😱😱😱. You could be saving lives! Good luck! BTW, I am sure that cameras at least cover the reception area.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:59 PM
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Ok, sorry this happened to you. Have a bit of a think about this. How did she get there? Driving while intoxicated? She ( and the business) will be insured as a teacher / fitness provider. If she teaches whilst intoxicated, then she may cause injury to the customer by incorrect instructions, not observing the class correctly or bad physical adjustment of the postures of the customer. Also potential injury to other staff members. This is a H&S risk, an insurance risk, a reputational risk to the b…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:47 PM
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Work and school should legally make allowances eg extra time, providing quiet areas etc etc for people who have genuine medical need for them.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 04:50 PM
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I hate seeing so many males being large scale slaughtered in action movies.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 09:03 AM
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You can, if resources allow, look for an online therapist in today's world. You are no longer necessarily restricted by geographical location. In response to the ghastly behaviour of those on campus, you are a human being first, before gender, race, or anything else. are they for or against human rights? -Treating people badly, bullying or shaming them, or even physically attacking them, whatever their age, on the basis of their sex or gender is not only morally wrong, it is ethically, legally a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/23 02:37 PM
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Vasectomy must always be viewed as a permanent sterilisation. By leading young men, in particular, to believe that vasectomy is 'reversible', a lot of their future female partners (potentially) will be condemned to have to undergo cycle after cycle of (often futile) IVF in order to (hopefully) have children. Even one cycle of IVF is expensive, intrusive and can cause permanent, unwanted changes to a woman's physical and mental health, let alone multiple cycles. Not to mention the emotional and f…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 02:15 PM
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This is devaluing men and women. Looks are lost wealth can be lost. What's the point of *anyone * seeking a long term relationship with someone who just sees their looks and bank balance? FYI, older women in the main have zero interest in competing for men against younger women. Life is not a gladiatorial battle between or within genders. Frankly, the dating pool found by following your advice would amount to lonely years seeking for a muddy puddle, that evaporates overnight
/r/MensRights19/01/23 07:20 PM
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There are lots of ways to help prevent boys falling into the clothes of evil people. There is a small charity called 'lads need dads' in the UK. It involves men mentoring boys who have absent fathers fir all different reasons, for example through bereavement, prison, or who have to work abroad, etc. So, the kids get to do all kinds of things, helping clear out a garden for people with disabilities, cooking a dinner ( for guests!), how to dress for interviews, how to tie a tie, as well as session…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 07:45 PM
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This woman should definitely have done jail time. Not only did she groom and ply him with alcohol, she r*ped him repeatedly, on numerous occasions, and didn't even stop her disgusting behaviour when it would have been clear to her that he was mentally and emotionally suffering due to her actions. Vile. I not only feel sorry for the boy, but for her own child. Imagine growing up to know that you own parent is so sick and deranged. I hope all the youngsters get plenty of therapy.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:26 PM
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Your mom literally " you should have stayed at that job until he killed you and you were carried out feet first!" Sounds like she enjoyed some monetary perks from you related to your job for that evil person? Because if I were your mom, that pos would have called the cops to protect him from me!
/r/MensRights15/01/23 03:06 PM
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Sorry to hear you are going through so much rubbish at the moment. Unfortunately, if you work in politics, you are basically working in a sharks nest. Likewise, some of your colleagues may have developed mh issues themselves, but instead of getting help, they chose to chow down on you ( not to excuse their behaviour). Please look at these links https://headsupguys.org/mens-depression/symptoms/ https://www.verywellmind.com/best-depression-resources-and-organizations-5114534 And remember, make the…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 08:41 AM
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Has she practiced safe sex with you? If yes, then she ( hopefully) has learned from her past. Are you both sexually healthy? Was it a fantasy you had, about being with someone experienced, or is it something that you felt you would be comfortable with? In the former case, a lot of people have fantasies that don't work out the way they thought. It's OK to be disappointed in your own head about this, but not to upset the other person. In the latter case, you found something new out about yourself.…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 03:21 PM
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It's great that you both want the same things at the moment, but obviously you are both going to grow and change through life. I would say it's important for both parties to develop and grow marketable skills, so if one person is sick or unable to work, the other can take on the breadwinner role, for example. Same goes for cooking or cleaning. Likewise, as kids get older, they won't need or want full time care,and housework only takes so long to do. Especially when the kids can help out. It coul…
/r/MensRights29/12/22 06:48 PM
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I'm wondering if she thought she could 'turn' you, and then got offended when you ignored her?
/r/MensRights15/12/22 08:34 AM
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Only if the child is put up for adoption. After all, he is not beholden to the mother. He is, however, beholden to the child. Just as, if a woman left a child with its father, the woman would be beholden to the child, but not beholden to the father. Not only legally, but also morally, we cannot leave children to grow up destitute, or even die for lack of food, or medical care, lack of the necessities of life, or unhealthy or dangerous living conditions. .
/r/MensRights14/12/22 08:54 PM
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In her books, she explores potential positives and negatives of such technology, for example, (positive) enabling a planet of males to thrive and reproduce, but on the other, bioengineering a radically different human race (positive), who are exploited (negative) and made obsolete by technology ( lack of foresight). Making pregnancy and all its risks redundant, but also with questions about what it means to be human, and how far we can go, and new risks that might come with that. I could go on, …
/r/MensRights13/12/22 05:49 PM
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Louis McMaster Bujold postulated the uterine replicator in her Vorkosigan saga. One planet, Athos, was entirely populated by males. https://www.tor.com/2017/04/28/science-straight-out-of-the-vorkosigan-saga-uterine-replicators-sort-of/
/r/MensRights13/12/22 03:57 PM
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Miles Vorkosigan from the Vorkosigan saga by Louis McMaster Bujold. Brilliant main male character, supported by a strong cast. Space Opera, humorous interludes, great friendships, action, adventure, battle, and a main character who has to navigate his own disabilities in a world that's still in many ways socially backward. He also has to negotiate the hornet nest of intergalactic diplomacy, espionage, and a sprinkle of romance. Great world building, the kind of book you can lose yourself in. I w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 08:42 AM
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I certainly have no objection to anyone having a DNA test. It may, after all, point out some potential medical issues. On the other hand, I imagine a lot of these women do not genuinely know who the biological father of the child was, (A/P, partner, or attaker), or were convinced that their own partner / husband was the biological father. Women who sleep with more than one man, willingly or not, have no mystical insight as to who the father is.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 06:03 PM
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If they exposed themselves to any of you, that's a crime. Indecent exposure. Masturbation in front of other unwilling persons is a serious case of indecent exposure. To report crime in Scotland- https://www.mygov.scot/report-crime More information https://www.stuartmillersolicitors.co.uk/guide-indecent-exposure-laws-uk/
/r/MensRights04/12/22 05:43 PM
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That's the thing to emphasise. There is no genuine evidence, there is no case. If it's a genuine case, the issues they would be able to work on would be date, approx time, who was present, and what was said. If she can't give an approximate time, eg before lunch, later in the afternoon etc, there is not enough evidence to conduct an investigation, because none of the other facts could be checked. You could have literally been anywhere else in the building, at the time this ' happened '. It's not…
/r/MensRights03/12/22 09:26 PM
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Yes, but the interaction he had with colleague was a few moments, not the length of time the reporter said. Video would also show where reporter was in relation to them ( if they were close enough to hear what was being said)
/r/MensRights03/12/22 09:07 PM
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They should have your so-called interaction on camera.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 08:55 AM
4

Stop being catist! 🤣
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:20 PM
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Can she be reported to CPS? Sounds like the kid is definitely at risk / in danger.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:21 PM
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A lot of people don't ever bother learning about the author of a book. Suicide is not dishonorable. We have read more than enough on this sub about how difficult people's lives can be. We cannot know what the exact struggles are that we will encounter in life, nor how we will react to them. Those who have survived often tell us they regretted their decision, but at the time, it seemed the best or only solution. Would you be happy / comfortable talking with your son though his life about his prob…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 09:10 PM
2

I have never,and could never, truly understand why anyone could think that forcibly hacking off perfectly normal healthy body parts off children is in any way a 'good' idea?!
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:49 PM
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You may be interested to know that there is an entire Romance genre with male virgin heroes...with enthusiastic readers! ( links may have some mature content) https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/comments/fcqckj/male_virgin_recs_please/ https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/41592.Virgin_hero_?page=1 https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/1661.Books_with_Virgin_Heroes#37769929
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:26 PM
4

There is also SAD ( sudden adult death syndrome).
/r/MensRights15/11/22 09:28 AM
1

Perhaps parents are both on night shifts.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 09:13 AM
1

Happy cake day!
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:08 PM
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Hope you didn't get cut. Worth pointing out to her it could have been an existing fault in the plate that could have gone at any time,even with a load of hot food on it. I was once washing a dinner plate in the sink, lifted it out, and the whole middle of it fell out, leaving a perfect ring!
/r/MensRights30/10/22 08:15 PM
1

Don'tbe scammed intothinkingthat lookingabroad is a solution . 1) only a tiny percentage of women worldwide are genuinely 'traditional '. Same with men.( regardless of geographical location, age or ethnicity). 2)The rest of 'traditional' women /men have just faced lifetimes ( generations) of being forced to hide their genuine personalities, interests, hopes and wishes from the outside world. 3)These people are almost always under tremendous financial, emotional and cultural pressure to marry ear…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:58 PM
3

Wouldn't be surprised if she is into abusing others.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 01:44 PM
2

Maybe...meet people irl to date, instead of using an app?
/r/MensRights03/10/22 07:02 AM
1

Then they (said women) should get of their arses and break away from the conditioning...surely? Unless, of course, the benefits to them of this way of thinking outweigh the ( small) effort of changing their ways?
/r/MensRights01/10/22 08:01 AM
1

That's a good book, BTW.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 04:27 PM
2

That's good. Proves (even more) that Ukrainians are wonderful people! I was thinking of that video of that poor young Russian who was shaking and terrified at being killed on the spot, when he was captured. He was probably even more terrified of being sent back to Russia.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 07:11 AM
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I bet the POWs in the prisoner exchange just didn't want to go back to Russia.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 07:02 AM
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Modern America did not seek to add these countries to their empire. Putin wants to go back in time to the pre-1917 Russian empire. https://news.ucr.edu/articles/2022/03/01/putins-dark-designs-restore-pre-1917-russian-empire Given how badly the whole idea of rolling back time has worked in the past ( Pol Pot, Hitler et al), this is not going to end well.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:23 AM
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Ukraine is a Sovereign state. An independent country. Russia has no say, or right to a say, in whether or not they join EU, NATO, or any other body. Russia is empire building, and they are not going to stop at Ukraine. The head honcho sees himself as a Czar, and wants to return to the 'good old days' of conquest and being a Czar of all the Russias. He would have found any excuse to invade, real or fictional.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 08:32 PM
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Who are all these women having sex with, unless they are having sex with men, who also have a number of sexual encounters / relationships at a similar rate? AKA, what's sauce for the goose, is sauce for the gander.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 10:12 PM
1

Compare the legal position on forced marriage in the UK...it doesn't differentiate by the gender of the victim, or the perpetrators. http://forcedmarriagecommission.co.uk/legislation/uk-law-on-marriage/
/r/MensRights26/09/22 09:50 PM
2

Good luck!
/r/MensRights18/09/22 09:58 PM
1

Then she has filed a false police report, and committed slander and libel. Make a list of times, dates and what happened, it is possible that she has made mistakes in her false report. You may be able to prove you were elsewhere. https://devrylaw.ca/what-are-the-consequences-of-filing-a-false-police-report-in-canada/ https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/c-46/section-140.html Libel is a criminal act in Canada https://www.masstsang.com/blog/post/are-libel-and-slander-crimes-under-canada-law/
/r/MensRights18/09/22 08:31 PM
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Why are the police being involved at all?! If I were you, I'd be wondering if the detective is a friend or family member of the health professional, and is trying to get the case against them dropped. This is an extremely serious allegation, which you would need to discuss with your legal advisor. I am not a legal professional, nor do I live in Canada, but in most, if not all western countries, each and every regulatory body has a complaints department. Complaints are dealt within a set number o…
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:22 PM
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Yes. Some actually get blamed and mocked by their own families for being raped.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 08:14 AM
2

It can literally be on any subject you are interested in...all you need is a thirst to discover more, then you can research that topic. It's essential to develop critical thinking skills first, otherwise you can end up reading any old bs. Study skills are useful in all walks of life 🙂
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:02 PM
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Hang out with way better quality people...don't sell yourself short by going to the usual places for company. Find new hobbies, look at free learning online, maybe even start a study group! You can't be the only person who's education has been interrupted.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 11:26 PM
1

Your parents are/were horrible people. That's the reason for their abuse. It's absolutely nothing to do with you as a person. They would abuse their child regardless. Because that's what abusers do. It's a normal reaction for a healthy person to develop mental health issues when they have been physically, psychologically and emotionally abused their whole lives, by the people who should rightly love and support them. Also, losing your job is one of the great life stressor. They say that psycholo…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 03:47 PM
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When he says it makes men last longer in bed say 'Unfortunately, cut men often have orgasm difficulties, just like cut women'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 05:30 PM
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So, basically, males should choose to live in violent, uncivilised places, where the 'weak' males will be weeded out by said violence and disease? Away to Bartertown we shall go! Seriously, though, benefits are a tiny amount of government spending. I'd far rather live in a society where vulnerable people and those in difficult circumstances have the support they need so they can fulfil their roles in society. I'd rather live in a society where people were well educated, had genuine, taxpayer fun…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:44 PM
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There is no civilisation without taxation. Taxation pays for a lot of male employees, for example, road building, engineering, water storage, treatment and transport, all of which are predominantly male fields. All people benefit from the stability and strength of taxation economies. In countries with weak taxation, we see much higher rates of poverty, sickness, crime and war.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 09:00 PM
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Your wife has time when the baby is asleep to do some relaxation, otherwise she would have gone completely nuts. She may be resentful that she no longer has the mental stimulation, challenges, social interaction etc she had at work. Which is perfectly understandable. Is there any way she could work again remotely, even part time, using her legal skills? With the extra income, you could afford some childcare whilst she is working...
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:09 PM
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You sound like a cool bloke! Being a man just takes time. In some cultures, there are big ceremonies, where you go from boy to man, but in the west, it's a long gradual process. You are smart, thoughtful, self aware, and have a fair idea what you want and don't want from life. Those are all great steps to adulthood, which some adults never achieve 🙂.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 09:17 PM
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Mandatory vasectomy = Mandatory ivf for Female partners if they ever want to have families together later on. Ivf messes with your body, your head, and your wallet. The NHS does not provide vasectomy reversal due to the high rate of failure.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 02:16 PM
2

Not only insulting to males, which is bad enough, but also to the females who are their family and friends!
/r/MensRights18/08/22 07:52 PM
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Love to go to a dinner party, where he was a guest. But I'd probably end up the murder victim 🤣🤣🤣
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 09:39 PM
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Mr Poirot. So intelligent , but with kindness, and honour. Also an eccentric and stylish gent!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 05:08 PM
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Agreed. There are a number of examples where people/ ideologies have tried deliberately remaking society en mass...all with disastrous results for those unfortunate enough to live within their power reach...Including for men. In fact, men tend to come off even worse. Some examples are: Pol Pot, Chairman Mao, Stalin, a certain H...I could go on...
/r/MensRights09/08/22 07:19 AM
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Apart from all the men in low paid, insecure employment, such as building labourers, delivery drivers, cleaners, seasonal farming workers, and many many others, whom I personally know? Apart from all the men who can't work due to illness, mental or physical? Apart from those men? Depression and other mental and physical illness can strike at any time, regardless of age, position in life, gender...suicidal ideation can come to any one of us. And what happens if there is no social security for tho…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 10:13 AM
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To be fair, that's even more reason to support society, as we will be entirely dependent upon society at various times through life. A strong society is essential to civilisation, and to a better quality of life. No man is an island entire of itself.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:18 PM
2

Happy cake day!
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:48 PM
1

That's terrible. That was child abuse ( neglect). There are laws that deal with those issues.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 04:24 PM
1

Yes I saw that. Ridiculous that they didn't apologise profusely to that chap. How about adding ' Making a false accusation of ogling will also result in a potential ban for the accuser'
/r/MensRights31/07/22 03:39 PM
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She is an abuser. She will use any means of attacking you she feels works. It's natural and normal to expand receive kindness, love and support from family, to also be able to share feelings and problems with them. Your 'mum' is unnatural and abnormal, as a mum, as a family member, as a human being. If you come across anyone who behaves like her in the future, even if it's 'just the once,even if they have a tragic backstory, walk away. As for hitting, choking or anything else anyone asks you to …
/r/MensRights31/07/22 02:53 PM
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Or just have signs up saying 'This gym is only for genuine gym users. It is an ogling-free zone. No ogling, by anyone, of anyone else, (regardless of gender) is permitted. If you feel you are at risk of ogling someone, please leave the gym and calm down. If you don't follow this advice, you may be banned. Respect! Thank you. '
/r/MensRights31/07/22 10:28 AM
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This is very much an upper middle class issue. Most men and women in India work their asses off, at work and at home. In nasty, dangerous conditions. Very few can afford all the modern conveniences. Many still do not have their own toilet. It's simple. Reduce working hours for all, increase wages, everyone can have more quality ( and housework!) time, not to mention fewer work related accidents due to tiredness etc, and of course, improve working conditions.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 07:21 AM
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He doesn't have to understand it for himself. He just needs to understand it's a problem *for you *.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 04:23 PM
2

Happy cake day!
/r/MensRights21/07/22 04:21 PM
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The women may not have known themselves they were pregnant at the time. No account is taken of their already stayed views on pregnancy, having children. And there is this https://edition.cnn.com/2019/01/11/opinions/woman-raped-in-vegetative-state-giving-birth-violation-filipovic/index.html
/r/MensRights20/07/22 07:22 AM
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Well...they have been known to keep pregnant dead women on life support until the fetus is full term...
/r/MensRights19/07/22 09:47 PM
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'Be a man' the speaker is literally trying to make the rotten situation the male they are speaking to is facing, infinitely worse. The only response ( if it doesn't get you fired) is 'Thanks for the utterly pointless and idiotic advice which I won't be taking '
/r/MensRights19/07/22 09:43 PM
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Perhaps a psychiatrist may be able to offer her help. A therapist would almost certainly be lacking in the experience, and the ability to prescribe any necessary medication, for someone with as complex mh issues as you have told us your wife has. You may wish to seek at least (solo) therapy for yourself, to deal with childhood experiences. Seeking marriage counselling whilst one of the parties is too unwell to commit to it, or to communicate their feelings is likely to be counterproductive.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 08:42 PM
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Think about your marriage vows. Did you promise to stay faithful to her until 'death do you part', or 'until your wife kills you '? Serious question. This was not a random attack. She attacked you with malice aforethought. She intended to cause injury ( potentially dangerous injury), and to cause you pain. What if she decides to stab you with a knife, instead of stamping on your chest? You can only save a marriage if both parties want to save it, and both are willing to put in the effort that ta…
/r/MensRights18/07/22 03:35 PM
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Humans are essentially animals. Sex is no more a trap for humans than it is for other animals. Less so, in fact. Humans do not go into heat, and have the means to use cognitive reasoning to a degree that other species do not, eg, (ideally) actively choosing not to have sex, choosing which people we will or won't have sex with, avoiding procreation, choosing who we procreate with, spacing births, controlling our own reproductive capability. We feel the desire, sometimes extremely strongly, inconv…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/22 03:11 PM
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Regardless of any campaigns, many women are obviously going to avoid sex due to the r v w situation, since sex may lead to unplanned pregnancy, and they have no way out. This was very clear from the start. Yes, this includes married women, and women in relationships. These women are of course, also depriving *themselves * of sex. (Because a lot of women do, in fact, enjoy sex.)
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:17 AM
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Well, they are legit edible. Pick small tender top leaves with rubber gloves on, and cook like spinach!
/r/MensRights11/07/22 09:02 AM
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With spiky bushes lining his side of the fence!
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:56 AM
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Get net curtains. In every window. Much cheaper and quicker than blinds. Don't touch her with a barge pole. This woman is what they call ' a neighbour from hell" She's like one of those weird fish, that has a dangly glowing bit that entices you closer. Until you get sucked into its gaping maw, and you get mangled by its needle sharp teeth. What happens if you get personal with her? A nightmare of epic proportions. You will have the police around every 5 minutes dealing with the fallout. Does she…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:55 AM
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Excellent response. This woman sounds terrifying! I feel sorry for her poor kids. Goodness knows what they are being exposed to. I would stay well clear of her- and I'm f!
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:38 AM
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That's awful. I hope your lives are much better now.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 05:36 PM
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Sex is not transactional. It's just sex. Unless a person visits an actual sex worker and pays them for it.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:57 PM
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But sex workers don't want to have to deal with the outcome or R v W either. I reckon quite a few will leave this type of work.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:55 PM
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I added another paragraph. Trying to understand this practice is like wrestling with smoke... Because there is no genuine 'reason '. Except for the desire / rush from inflicting pain, injury and control over another , of course. At the moment of cutting, regardless of the 'reasons' (or motives) of those carrying out the cutting, - faux-medical, cultural, tribal, and/or religious - the victim, regardless of gender, becomes an object or 'thing'. A piece of wood to be whittled away at the will or w…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 04:44 PM
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Thank you for your excellent comments. I have an interest in anthropology, archaeology, and ancient history myself. Desmond Morris, the famous anthropologist had some interesting things to say about circumcision. http://www.cirp.org/library/ethics/milos-macris/ In terms of the origin of circumcision, I have an interesting hypothesis. In ancient Egyptian society, the Baboon was held in very high regard. There were, in fact a number of God's in the form of, or who were able to take the form of, Ba…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 07:27 AM
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Why circumcision is prevelant in USA, a quick precis (and the connection to US FGM): Until Victorian times, the only people in the entire world who practised circumcision were: Muslims, Jewish people; and certain isolated tribes. No one else was circumcised unless they had a rare medical condition or injury which necessitated it. In Victorian times, when disease vectors and diseases of the nervous system were not fully understood, a theory arose called the 'Reflex Neurosis theory of disease'. Th…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:57 AM
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Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumcision. Bleeding post-circumcision usually needs exploration under anesthetic." pg 880-881 Oxford Handbook of Pediatrics 2nd ed 2013 [in infants or child…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 09:50 PM
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No there isn't. Literally no tracking whatsoever done on forced genital cutting of males. This is the only surgery where this is the case. They don't want people to know how common botches are. They've basically normalised botches.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 07:23 AM
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Poor cats.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 10:31 AM
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Obviously, males can be (and are) raped by males and females. This is a biological fact. Rape is a matter of consent, not a matter of the gender of the perpetrators / survivors. Does the law agree? No it doesn't. Does that mean we should ignore reality, in favour of legality? No it doesn't. We need to normalise the discussion of, and public awareness of, rape of males by females to such a degree that the legality is changed to match reality.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:21 PM
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Sorry to say this, but your mum's words are not just weird. They are evil.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:13 PM
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'Decent enough income '. They didn't specify what amount that was. Could just as easily mean they don't to be with someone who has to work 10 hours a day, every day to just scrape by. So they never get to see them.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 06:21 AM
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Obviously, feminists vary a lot, and sadly there are many outside people who think this way too, but: -males don't deserve protection from rape, SA, DV inflicted by females. -That males shouldn't be protected from forced genital cutting as females are. -That males are ' the enemy '.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 04:19 PM
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That's terrible! You became friends with her, she didn't become friends with you. What an evil monster. If she didn't want to know, she shouldn't have asked. If she asked, she should have been ready to listen If she was ready to listen, she should have been ready to hold off judgment If she felt ready to judge, she should have been ready to judge kindly, and offer sensitive and sensible advice. In short, if you are not ready and willing to do all those things, do not ask anyone to open up She wa…
/r/MensRights10/06/22 07:56 AM
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Google image fossy jaw...lethal condition developed by workers in match factories, which rotted the bones of the workers. Textile Mills, in linen and possibly other Mills, textiles were kept damp during weaving, to prevent breakage etc the moist atmosphere prompted high levels of pneumonia, TB, etc Mercury and arsenic were used in clothing manufacture, poisoning workers and wearers alike... These and many other awful conditions sickened and killed numerous people, male and female. Ah, the good o…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:39 PM
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That's shocking! Never knew that about snowblowers!
/r/MensRights31/05/22 07:36 AM
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Yes they do, absolutely! 🙂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/22 03:49 PM
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Well, in paganism, it's pretty open for all folks who want to to dress in fab robes etc and wear jewellery, wear makeup or have tattoos, regardless of gender!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/22 09:16 PM
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This is incorrect. Although traditionally, in terms of classical art, the genitalia were depicted in a more diminutive fashion, this was because smaller genitalia were seen as more civilised, a sign of greater intellect, than larger genitalia. Foreskin was ( and is) a normal part of the male form, and therefore was depicted as part of the perfect male form in art. A long foreskin was actually seen as highly desirable. Remember, even to the present day, there are no universally acknowledged, worl…
/r/MensRights21/05/22 12:44 PM
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Fascinating. Thanks for this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/22 08:49 PM
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An infinitesimally tiny chance that he will need to be circumcised at birth. Fewer than 1 in 16,667 males will ever have to be circumcised across the whole of their lifetimes...figures from Iceland, a modern country with practically no circumcision. Yet, one third of the male population of the world has been forced to undergo genital cutting. I say forced, because the vast majority are cut as babies or children, who are too small and helpless to fight back and defend themselves. On the looks sid…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 07:21 AM
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The menstrual leave has to be made up for by the worker working extra hours over the following 3 months. It is available also to transfer women and non- binary people. For those unaware, in Europe, we Don't get personal days'. We get annual leave, bank Holidays, sick leave ( but only when we are too sick to work). https://www.theguardian.com/world/2021/dec/30/spain-public-sector-trailblazers-seek-lead-way-menstrual-leave
/r/MensRights12/05/22 07:34 AM
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Many men will also be forced to be parents by this. Also, women will be less likely to want to have sex and risk potential pregnancy.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:33 PM
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Who wants a legal system / system of government whose rulings are based on sentiment and emotion, rather than reason and reality? This is the ultimate expression of populism - a mockery of legal process tainted with extreme religious ideology, in order to bully and harm vulnerable people in a secular society.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:29 PM
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Have a non-weird hug/ shoulder squeeze from an Internet stranger. I know it sounds odd, but you are part of many people's lives. Maybe the shop clerk, or the person at the diner, or many other people. Just because you are not close, doesn't mean you wouldn't be missed if something happened to you. It's natural and normal to be low when you are going through tough times. You have a strong survival instinct. Listen to it. If you have one, go to your local library. They may be able to give help or …
/r/MensRights01/05/22 09:05 PM
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She threatened you. With actual. Physical. violence. Over a mere quip. Given you weren't pals, don't live in England, and she wasn't taking the p*ss out of you, steer well clear.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 02:16 PM
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This is true!
/r/MensRights01/05/22 02:11 PM
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Good bot
/r/MensRights29/04/22 06:47 PM
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From what you say, sounds like she is like that with a lot of folks. It's a 'her' issue, not a 'you ' issue. Therapy might be of help to her ( and you) for growing up in an unpleasant family dynamic. But just because someone may have mh issues, it doesn't mean they are a good person underneath. Remember, you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends. You don't have to live with this nonsense forever. Good luck!
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:57 PM
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When Gen x grew old enough to start being curious about the world, coincided with iwhen critical thinking and actual truth became out of fashion in the media, and knee-jerk opinion pieces and faux-newd started soaring.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 07:30 AM
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Circumcision literally warps society. They hack off part of a defenceless male's genitals, and spend a huge amount of effort, time and money trying to convince him, and everyone else, that they did a 'good thing'. They bully parents-to- be into cutting frequent botched jobs are passed off as 'normal ', and 'he'll grow out of it' *They edit medical and school textbooks to only show the cut male many males are not even told that part of their normal genitals has been hacked off. When parents say '…
/r/MensRights26/04/22 08:45 PM
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Forced, non- therapeutic genital cutting literally treats people as objects, possessions, to be hacked apart at will. (Circumcision is) "an uncivil act, carried out by the unwitting upon the unwilling, a rickety edifice of superstition and credulity, propped up by artifice and avarice...for where one hand grips the knife, the other is inevitably held out for payment in shells, glass beads, or coin... ...such is the power of these contrived notions (ie of superstition etc) upon the mind...(that) …
/r/MensRights26/04/22 07:50 PM
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Sadly there is no wheelchair or other device in the world to aid those who have a complete lack of empathy. Presumably, should she ever land in one of life's ditches, and be unable to crawl out on her own, she just wants to be left there to rot.
/r/MensRights24/04/22 10:07 AM
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The problem is, intersectionality is presented as being like a sturdy, closely woven cloth...maybe tweed? It's actually an open net, with very large holes in it, made up of fragile filaments. A vast amount falls through the gaps. It's not a cohesive theory, more a series of bullet points to be considered as a small element of a much more complex study. It really can be effectively replaced by the use of a Venn diagram.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/22 07:32 PM
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I found this article about abusive relationships causing PTSD. May be of use, there are also some links on it. One of the main aims of abusers is to attack and undermine the survivors sense of self, self confidence, self worh etc etc so that the survivor feels they have no option but to remain in the abusive relationship, because they will be unable to find another relationship at all, or if they do,it will be even worse. **They warp the reality of the survivors world view. **. And yet YOU found…
/r/MensRights22/04/22 04:38 PM
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One problem with this is that if blockers cannot be prescribed for genuine trans minors, they face a lot more surgery later on if they choose to go down the surgical route. Eg f to m, breast removal, m to f, Adams apple shaving down. Blockers are much lower risk than having further operations.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 05:02 PM
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Edited - I think it's great that men are getting to wear makeup! pink tax is all about stuff like razors marketed as for women, made of pink plastic, which are higher prices than the same, or better, razors marketed at men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/22 02:02 PM
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She didn't want to break in with an axe when you were alone. She wanted to kill you with an axe when you were alone. She likely physically abused your kids because they are your kids, and she couldn't physically abuse you. I'm astounded She didn't get charged with attempted murder or similar. No one takes an axe to break into a house. And if she was only trying to break in, she would have waited until the house was empty. Never feel guilty about this. You are a true hero.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 01:58 PM
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Horribly, males are forcibly deprived of their g-spot by circumcision.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 07:08 AM
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'Privilege' has become a weapon word, a knee-jerk reaction used to humiliate and dehumanised whichever segment of the population is out of favour with the speaker.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/22 09:11 PM
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The absent parent is already the parent of both boys. He has been their father their whole lives. The poster of the original post is a great kid. To them, their brother is 100% their full brother. The older sibling who wrote the OP is the only adult in this whole sorry scenario. Why the hell is the youngest kid being punished and abused like this? ( emotional abuse is still abuse, for those who don't know). None of this is his fault. He's suddenly lost the only father he's ever known. Not only t…
/r/MensRights07/04/22 09:09 PM
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What would happen if you sued her for slander and libel? Keep all evidence, including from your wife, whether written, email, texts etc etc. Make a record of all conversations, alleged incidents, dates, times, and make sure you write down what actually happened then.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 12:27 PM
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Because forced genital cutting is predominantly inflicted on males. Removing part of the penis forcibly, and without any genuine medical need, is the deliberate infliction of a sexual injury on another. No one gets a free card on inflicting injuries on children, whatever the 'reason' circumcisions are carried out for the same 'reasons' in the cultures that practice both. The oft-repeated line about FGM having no religious basis only applies to religions with religious texts (primarily abrahamic …
/r/MensRights29/03/22 07:32 AM
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They don't remove the external part of the clitoris in the vast majority of cases of fgm.( the external part is the tip of a much larger organ). Nor do they sew anything shut. Why circumcision is prevelant in USA, a quick precis (and the connection to US FGM): Until Victorian times, the only people in the entire world who practised circumcision were: Muslims, Jewish people; and certain isolated tribes. No one else was circumcised unless they had a rare medical condition or injury which necessita…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 07:18 AM
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For 6-7 generations now, males have been taught that expressing emotions is a 'female ' thing, aside from anger and frustration, which people have been trained to see as a 'male' thing. Almost all humans have similar in- built abilities to experience and express all emotions. We have simply been trained to hide, repress and subvert emotions to fit a social mould. This training takes the form of social engineering, cultural conditioning, suppressing some emotions, encouraging others. This is done…
/r/MensRights27/03/22 05:11 PM
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Here is a site explaining the importance of free access to toilets in school, with a framework suggested suggested for school toilet policy you may like to provide it to your school, share it on social media share it with your friends... https://www.eric.org.uk/school-toilets
/r/MensRights25/03/22 06:58 PM
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This might be of use- a piece on toilet dignity and access for children in school https://eachother.org.uk/do-school-toilet-policies-breach-pupils-rights/
/r/MensRights25/03/22 06:02 PM
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This is disability discrimination, boys have IBS, crohn's disease, ( and no, they probably do not have to disclose it to the school- disability rights) get sudden need to use toilet ( all humans know that one!) Ask about human rights, toilet dignity, gender discrimination What is their written policy about how they would respond if a boy wet himself or soiled himself due to lack of accessible facilities? Insist this is posted by toilet doors, and a copy given to every parent and child, and poste…
/r/MensRights25/03/22 01:47 PM
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True.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:41 PM
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I feel sick. Luckily not had breakfast yet. Someone like that should not be having kids at all.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 08:38 AM
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Thanks for clarifying that essentially, arranged marriage is a cultural practice, rather than a religious one.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 06:51 PM
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I am in the UK. Grew up in a very Christian country. No arranged marriages. I find it extremely concerning that ANYONE would go for an arranged marriage in this day and age. It's not like there is a shortage of Christians to choose from, or waysof finding them..
/r/MensRights18/03/22 07:38 PM
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The problem with this type of teaching, and why it should not be applicable today, is that it refers to arranged marriage, which is not a part of modern Christian life. If you have to be told to love and respect your spouse, then you are marrying the wrong person! If you are told to treat your spouse as the leader of the household based on what's in their undercarriage department, again, piece of advice which is not applicable in modern life. What if they are unfortunately prone to making poor c…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 04:52 PM
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I'm shocked and horrified by the number of comments from young men especially that vasectomy is reversible, and they are thinking of getting one. I always share this. BTW, I'm also horrified by the appalling so-called healthcare ' available in America. You could probably fly abroad go to a reputable private clinic there, get it done and have a holiday beforehand for that kind of money. I'll spell it out- IVF. By leading young men, in particular, to believe that vasectomy is 'reversible', a lot o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/22 08:22 AM
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1 Rape is rape, not because of violence or threat of violence, but simply because it is sex without consent. 2 consent must be freely given, or it is not real consent. It is coercion. Coercion, or coercive control, is a form of abuse. 3 If someone was threatening to kick another person out of their home for not having sex on demand, that would be coercive control and financial abuse. 4 If the person had sex after being coerced into it, that would be rape, as they did not freely consent, but only…
/r/MensRights17/03/22 11:10 AM
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Would they have preferred dealing with all the paperwork from your murder? Because that's what would have happened if you hadn't been able to defend yourself. You clearly had a defensive wound. They should have bloody arrested her. They arrest violent drunks all the time.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:16 AM
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I agree with you completely.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 05:29 PM
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Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumcision. Bleeding post-circumcision usually needs exploration under anesthetic." pg 880-881 Oxford Handbook of Pediatrics 2nd ed 2013 [in infants or child…
/r/MensRights13/03/22 05:27 PM
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I would assume that a lot of actual incels ( m and f) are incels for medical reasons, and this is never mentioned. Eg things like incontinence, which means they are too embarrassed or ashamed to have a physical relationship.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:34 AM
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The friendzone is a bizarre American idea that doesn't really exist elsewhere. The people I know wouldn't want to date someone they weren't friends with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/22 09:38 PM
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I wonder is this based on the viewpoint that in order to suffer, you have to actually be alive? 🤔
/r/MensRights27/02/22 12:01 PM
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I'm hoping a lot of women will also be willing to stay and fight. The Russian forces are actively bombing civilian targets. Someone has to be able and willing to drive / lead the children, elderly and infirm to safely. That in itself is dangerous and full of risks. It's a full-on war and survival scenario. They could bomb and shoot the refugees at any time. Is it better for everyone to stay and fight, and potentially lose everything, or is it better to make sure.loved ones ( and as many possessi…
/r/MensRights27/02/22 11:51 AM
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Then, IMHO, they are idiots.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 08:37 PM
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Putin wishes to empire build, to effectively turn back time to the good ol' days of the Soviet Union and the Warsaw Pact. He wishes to satisfy his false image of being a latter-day Napoleon, or Alexander the Great, and revive his flagging popularity. This will never work. You cannot turn back time. Chairman Mao tried it. Pol Pot tried it. Hitler tried it. All they accomplished was to slaughter a great many people, inflict massive damage on their own countries, and ultimately fail in every way. I…
/r/MensRights25/02/22 08:22 AM
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There seem to be remarkably few tall men the UK. I suppose women who dismiss shorter men must be happy with polygamy or being a mistress.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 03:09 PM
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Sorry to hear this. It doesn't happen in my circles, but I am a nerd! I don't think it's worthwhile picking people up in bars, pubs, online anymore. Too many nasty shallow people. Better to use network of friends, family, or social interests/ hobbies to meet up. Also don't think one night stands are worth it. On the bright side, always take your shorter pals with you, they sound like great fake people detectors!
/r/MensRights24/02/22 02:55 PM
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I agree. There is ZERO justification for this invasion. 1) If Ukraine is part of Russia, then Ukranians are Russians. Why is Putin bombing and killing Russian civilians? 2) if Ukraine is not part of Russia, and Ukrainians are not Russians, then he is attacking a peaceful non- threatening country for NO REASON, with the full force of the Russian military machine. 3) this could result in numerous uprisings in many other areas of Russia, particularly at borders, as they now have nothing to lose, ( …
/r/MensRights24/02/22 02:37 PM
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Because they like to pretend that women are inherantly worse at fighting, despite the fact that armed forces in other countries have female fighters, and have done for decades. Although there is still a need for people who can heft a lot of equipment around, and go on long exercises, modern warfare tends to mean operating over shorter time periods with relatively short distances to base. This means that there is no real disadvantage to female fighters ( or more slightly built males). Likewise ot…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 02:04 PM
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IDK why height is such a thing in USA, it's not really a thing in the UK? Height has never been a consideration for me ( f) it's about chemistry, and if the person is a good hearted person. I've never dated someone over an inch or 2 taller than me. I certainly wouldn't have ruled out someone shorter than me. . I'm 5ft 5.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 10:43 AM
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Can you actually email them once you have narrowed down the list? I don't know if this helps ...it gives some information on types of therapy that might be useful. It's great that you arr taking these steps, personally I would say that gender, race, age etc are things that I wouldn't even take into account, as older people ( for example) may have more experience, and have a more diverse range of therapy to offer. But, obviously, it's all up to you. Good luck! https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/e…
/r/MensRights20/02/22 12:06 PM
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Tell them they owe you interest, compensation for any effects of their actions on your credit rating, plus for emotional distress ( threat of homelessness. ) oh, and your licence back.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 11:12 PM
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I am disappointed that anyone cares how many people the other person slept with previously. A male / female is not a bottle of champagne. Humans don't lose their sparkle and go flat, stale and sour just because the cork has been popped. Far more important considerations are: 1) are all persons involved clear re sti status ( and being responsible re precautions)? 2) are all persons concerned good hearted folks, who are as enthusiastic about giving pleasure as they are about receiving it? 3) are a…
/r/MensRights19/02/22 10:26 PM
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Can't you sue for wrongful arrest? All it would have taken to prove it was an innocuous substance would be a simple chemical test, a drug sniffer dog, or a cop sticking his finger in it and licking it. 5 mins or less. Is there a police or family court ombudsman you can appeal too? If you pointed out the money error, aren't they obliged by law to rectify that error ASAP? How will being homeless and jobless enable you to pay child support? The state / government may be fiscally obliged to support …
/r/MensRights19/02/22 06:03 PM
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The vast majority of people on that sub are in bad relationships. They are looking for confirmation of their decision to leave. Some are in very dangerous relationships, and are told to leave right now. People in healthy or salvageable relationships don't post on that sub.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 08:23 AM
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I bought flowers for my OH, before I knew he had hay-fever!
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:58 AM
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Could you actually be depressed too? I would contact your college student helpline if there is one, see the doctor, speak to your faculty. There is nothing shameful or wrong about loneliness, or mental health issues. . But I would say that a whole week of basically feeling too rubbish to leave your room ( without flu etc) means you may need more support than you have atm. It's actually not uncommon to feel lonely at college. You may be away from home and friends, having to do self motivated stud…
/r/MensRights13/02/22 02:55 PM
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Sorry you have had such a rough time of it. Great that you are going to get therapy. Having relationships with multiple people comes with a whole ton of other issues. There are few people who want to share you with others, and if you aren't open with them, it's even worse. It's really just a way to have multiple clusters of heartbreak rather than individual cases of heartbreak. Because feelings are involved, on either or both sides, sooner or later. You have still got a big heart, it's just buri…
/r/MensRights13/02/22 11:09 AM
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No co payments. The only things you pay for in NHS are prescriptions if you are working, about £9 per item. you can buy a card for about £100 per year if you have a lot of prescriptions.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 08:24 AM
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National Health Service. Taxpayer funded healthcare. American healthcare is double the cost of healthcare in other wealthy countries. Healthcare costs per head of population in America are the highest in the world.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 07:18 PM
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America needs an NHS. Sorry.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 10:44 PM
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Fewer than 1 in 16,687 males will ever need to be circumcised for medical reasons. Figures from Iceland, a country with close to 0% circumcised males. Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumci…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/22 06:59 PM
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You are a good man 🙂
/r/MensRights07/02/22 08:33 PM
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Have you ever considered volunteering for something? I am sure by now you will have picked up many useful skills, that you can use to help others. If not, you can always learn / develop these. Great way to interact with people in a positive way, raising confidence and looks good on your resume 🙂
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:27 PM
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History does not happen in isolation. I am not that much younger than OP. When I was at school, we were taught about ' jobs for life '. As a young adult, went through various national / global economic downturns. Jobs were shipped off to China, and other low wage countries by extremist capitalists. Fashions were universal, hideous cream / white princess Di puffy sleeved blouses, boring dull coloured clothing. There were few Viable career paths for women, ( although jobs were plentiful) and being…
/r/MensRights05/02/22 08:53 PM
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Neither were men.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 09:40 AM
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Edited for clarity Talk to the father about his child what an effect wife's abuse is having on them. Will they grow up to think it is normal behaviour? Or that it's OK for them to be treated like that in their own future relationships? Sometimes abusers turn on the kids. It must be very upsetting for the kid to experience all that. He really needs to get out of the relationship, and take the kid with him. Dangerous to leave them with her. Your evidence, recordings etc, could be useful in proving…
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:18 PM
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In very simple terms, Standards for males and females are set by society. Society consists of males and females Suggesting otherwise indicates a lack of agency in females.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 08:18 AM
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If he is obsessive / possessive about her, he could have coerced her into telling him about the ( completely consensual) activity, been so bothered by it that he convinced himself, and possibly her, that it was something different etc etc. Plus, aren't weddings quite costly 🤔
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:14 PM
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Don't be mean to cats 🙂
/r/MensRights01/02/22 08:33 PM
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The f knew he didn't want to do it. The only reason they were asking him if he consented was to badger him into agreeing once they decided he was wasted enough to be vulnerable to their suggestions. At no point did the f say B isn't interested in that. Stop badgering him'. She never said ' hey man, you've had too much to drink. This isn't a good idea why don't you go home and sleep it off?' She didn't even say on the phone ' sorry, busy tonight, see you some other time'. The laws and rules of co…
/r/MensRights28/01/22 04:53 PM
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Edited for clarity. interesting. I knew about quite a bit of it but not all the background and detail. I didn't know about all the terrorist incidents. The attacks seemed pretty random. Strange. Great synopsis!
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:26 AM
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I think the problem here is that gift ideas marketed as being for Male recipients are fun/ cheap/ boring ( beard baubles, socks, sport / drink related mugs). Also in my personal experience, males don't give me any ideas of what they actually want. Which is very frustrating! (f) I know no males who would appreciate tools, lols!
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:15 PM
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Also, please check out this website https://hopefulpanda.com/how-to-escape-abusive-parents-for-adults/
/r/MensRights24/01/22 08:27 PM
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https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh and https://casfv.org/what-is-abuse/what-is-family-violence please consider calling helpline number...stay as safe as you can. Here is how to get copies of your documents https://www.usa.gov/replace-vital-documents None of what has happened is your fault. None of it. If a child is troubled, a parent gets help for him, not beating him. Once you get away from this monster' clutches, suggest cutting her off enti…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 11:17 AM
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He wouldn't have agreed to it if he had been sober. The f knew that. She set up the scenario to take advantage of him when he was under the influence, susceptible, and vulnerable. What are the chances that she had a bunch of random people at her house when he arrived ( not necessarily the same people who were there when he phoned) who just happened to be into that scenario? Not very likely
/r/MensRights24/01/22 08:03 AM
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Copied part of my comment from another post Or only have relationships with f who have gone through the menopause, and whose children are already adults. Btw, It is estimated that the success rate of a vasectomy reversal is: 75% if you have your vasectomy reversed within three years up to 55% after three to eight years approximately 30-40% after nine to 19 years These figures are actually based on a successful pregnancy, NOT on the presence of sperm after reversal. US medical sources just use th…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 06:00 PM
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Congratulations on all the improvements you are making in your health. It's great that you are getting down the gym. Basically, the people who are treating you badly are a-holes, regardless of gender. Doesn't matter what they look like on the outside, they are ugly, shallow people, unworthy of your attention. And a few of them will have a very personal, very nasty wake up call themselves one day. They may discriminate, cancer Doesn't.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 05:53 PM
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That's horrible. Poor man.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 05:47 PM
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( suggest strongly reading some age appropriate romances aimed at f as prior research!) The benefits of dating friends (Eg Viewing males as friends and humans, with real thoughts and feelings, instead of just as potential boyfriends ) Dealing with rejection healthily How are romantic lead males/ males in relationships depicted in books and films, versus females? -as a wide variety of body types, looks, etc, or stereotypes ( eg Square jawed alpha male, sensitive billionaire who is also a vampire,…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 05:38 PM
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Idk if this information is useful to you. https://livingwell.org.au/managing-difficulties/sexual-assault-and-arousal/ Your body reacted to stimulus, **regardless of whether or not you were agreeing fully and freely ** to it. Imagine the same scenario, but with a f instead of a m posting about it. Persuading someone who is already under the influence to drink more, and while their guard is down badger them into doing what they want. That's coercion. Is it likely that the others present knew all t…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 05:25 PM
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It is estimated that the success rate of a vasectomy reversal is: 75% if you have your vasectomy reversed within three years up to 55% after three to eight years approximately 30-40% after nine to 19 years These figures are actually based on a successful pregnancy, NOT on the presence of sperm after reversal. US medical sources just use the presence of sperm as a success, which is not a true picture. Your female partner will almost certainly have to go through ivf to conceive. Cycles can be deep…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 03:28 PM
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I know how to change a tyre, but am physically incapable of doing so. I don't want to end up taking months off work by trying to. They practically weld the nuts on these days. I've seen full grown men trying to undo them without success. I definitely agree that each case be triaged by need ( they have to find some way of prioritising people due to no of employees) eg people on dangerous / isolated roads / disabled / elderly ect first, then others second, then people at home, for example. No comp…
/r/MensRights22/01/22 07:51 PM
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When you said too many hats I pictured A guy wearing a big stack of hats 🤣
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:39 PM
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I can't wrap my head around it. It's a word trap.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 07:00 PM
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Very nasty and unhealthy to basically force people to 'hold on' for so long.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 06:52 PM
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Sorry, but. It means that if you change your mind, the unfortunate oh will have to go through the highly unpleasant and very expensive ( and sometimes numerous failed cycles of IVF to conceive with that frozen sperm. This can have very nasty and sometimes lifelong effects on her health regardless of whether or not it's successful.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 04:13 PM
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Confused...what's wrong with calling females females?! (f)
/r/MensRights21/01/22 04:02 PM
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It's saying pleasure is better for all involved if the male is not cut ( not circumcised)
/r/MensRights21/01/22 09:07 AM
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The reason for this being aimed towards women is actually very simple. Women are actively hounded, before, during, and after birth to get their sons circumcised. Even when the mother is in labour, even when they are still out of it from meds. This badgering is done by hospital staff. Sometimes they actually wheel the baby out of the room, only when queried by the mother are they told its for 'his' circumcision! By aiming this towards women, it is pushing the point home that keeping the normal ma…
/r/MensRights21/01/22 08:24 AM
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https://1in6.org/ this site may be of interest As may this one http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/pedophiles-female.html Personally, I consider that protecting the children's safety is of great importance I suspect that if you tell, she may deny it, get angry and / or cry. If you do decide to tell, I Wonder if having some trusted and good friends present as your back up might be something to consider, as well as informing the family? if she knows you have spoken outside the family about it, …
/r/MensRights20/01/22 11:05 PM
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The breakdown of the extended family, and the resulting concentration of pressure on the shrunken nuclear family, has arguably led to the breakdown of marriage. The breakdown of the extended family comes from the need and desire to move away from family for economic and other reasons, and the far reduced birth rate. These are not replaced by other strong support networks, as parents are too tired and stressed from constant work to fully connect with their surrounding communities, and there are u…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 06:06 PM
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That's awful. To these monsters, kids are just fodder for their sick perversion. Not real human beings deserving of kindness and care.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:05 PM
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Edited for clarity Therapy. She can't blame her Christian religion, given it's been such a damaging experience for her, yet she is still a Christian. She therefore blames men instead of religious extreme views held by those around her when growing up. Someone tell her Chrianity is not the same thing as extreme Christianity.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 08:09 AM
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Also remember, in South Africa alone, over 604 boys died and over half a million were hospitalised after attending the winter initiation schools between 2008 and 2021. A total of 1,139 deaths have been recorded since 1995. Accurate statistics are not available for the number of [Penis] amputations, but their number is roughly twice the number of deaths. So approximately 2,278 boys and men have lost their penises in South Africa since 1995 alone due to circumcision. And don't think it only happen…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 08:13 AM
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Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumcision. Bleeding post-circumcision usually needs exploration under anesthetic." pg 880-881 Oxford Handbook of Pediatrics 2nd ed 2013 [in infants or child…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 08:12 AM
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Very kind! What a great origin! I am from Northern Ireland 🙂
/r/MensRights18/01/22 07:59 PM
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That's appalling. To be betrayed by your own mother and handed over to a sick pedo . I absolutely agree with what you say, nothing can justify the sick acts of these monsters in human form. No matter how much they and society try to make a male survivor feel responsible.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:37 AM
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That's awful. The drugging alone was a crime in itself.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:33 AM
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That is terrifying and horrible to read. So sorry to hear this happened to you.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:31 AM
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People who say that males can't be raped by females understand literally NOTHING about human anatomy. I have no idea why so many are so keen on enabling female rapists and pedos by actively preventing gender-equal laws against rape, and sex abuse.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:30 AM
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Maybe r/relationships? Good luck!
/r/MensRights17/01/22 09:18 PM
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Edited to add more information. Firstly, get help now. This is an emergency mental health situation. If you believe you are in immediate danger of harming yourself, call 911. This is a very useful page of helpline nos: ihttps://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/resources/mental-health-hotline-numbers-and-referral-resources You should also be able to get help at your college or university, there should be helplines, or other student support. Ask for help on the best way forward, there may be many o…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 09:15 PM
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Thanks for all your hard work and compassion
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:23 PM
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In South Africa alone, over 604 boys died and over half a million were hospitalised after attending the winter initiation schools between 2008 and 2021. A total of 1,139 deaths have been recorded since 1995. Accurate statistics are not available for the number of [Penis] amputations, but their number is roughly twice the number of deaths. So approximately 2,278 boys and men have lost their penises in South Africa since 1995 alone due to circumcision. And don't think it only happens in the bush -…
/r/MensRights15/01/22 06:15 PM
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That's very sad 😔. Sorry this was done to you.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 06:02 PM
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Women look at guys all the time. But they tend to do it subtlety, out the corner of the eye, when the guy is not looking at them etc. And it's usually a quick glance not ogling. They don't call out to the guy, or talk loudly about his assets. So they don't get called out on it.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 10:17 AM
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That's awful.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 10:11 AM
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That's disgusting. Hope they disowned your relative.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 09:49 AM
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I agree with with a lot of what you said, but cats are excellent pets too...they just want more respect and understanding than dogs. Few things in life are more soothing than a purring cat 🙂
/r/MensRights14/01/22 09:32 AM
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Not confined to humans https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/140328-sloth-bear-zoo-infanticide-chimps-bonobos-animals
/r/MensRights13/01/22 04:41 PM
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Me and OH are by no means rich, nor are any of the people I know. . The following applies to me, and pretty much every f I know. A thoughtful gift is far better than an expensive gift. Quality is way more important to me than brands or cost. Eg, a lot of expensive fragrance smells horrible, and you end up smelling nasty! I'd rather have a cheaper good quality fragrance that smells nice to me. I once examined a pair of very expensive high end shoes, out of curiosity, and was shocked to see they w…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 02:50 PM
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Be wary. A lot of forced genital cutting there...( circumcision).
/r/MensRights13/01/22 10:22 AM
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That's actually bullying. You are a human being, and worthy of kindness and respect. BTW am from Ireland, and just wanted to say our people have a long and proud history of building canals, railways, roads all over the world ( navvies), without which modern civilisation would not be half so advanced. Also other accomplishments too numerous to go into...engineering, soldiering, advances in the sciences, etc. Remember, in spite of all the big names in the history books, it is all the blue collar w…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 10:16 AM
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Well, valentines day, mothers day are vastly commercialised, and have been for decades by hallmark F are just as susceptible to advertising as m, and we have a ton more aimed at us / about us. I ( f) advertise International Men's Day, and work for human rights ( against forced genital cutting, regardless of gender, age or geographical location, regardless of the time of year). 1) women have been specifically targeted by advertising for decades re ( sometimes expensive) flowers jewellery, perfume…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 08:30 AM
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Best of luck! Some sites https://ukmensday.org.uk/ And ( for men experiencing abuse) https://www.mankind.org.uk/help-for-victims/is-a-man-you-know-a-victim-spotting-the-signs/ Depression / mental-health https://www.mensmindsmatter.org/depression-in-men.html And https://headsupguys.org/mens-depression/symptoms/ And https://www.mentell.org.uk/ https://www.manhealth.org.uk/ Lots of useful information here https://brothersinarmsscotland.co.uk/ Male health information https://prostatecanceruk.org/ ht…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 05:22 PM
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She really Hurled the poor baby in there. Thank goodness baby's father's family sound a much better bunch of people, and mother being charged with attempted murder. With that video, I don't think she will evade justice.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 01:39 PM
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The only sex crime where the gender of the perpetrators affects the justice (or lack thereof) for the survivors.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 12:02 PM
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If the Old Testament is so important to being a Christian, then why is the New Testament widely available as a single volume, but it's very difficult to find the old Testament as an individual volume? This explains in simple terms https://www.gotquestions.org/law-of-Christ.html
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:52 AM
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His heresy was to claim that the deity of the Old testament was NOT the same deity as the deity of the new testament.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 08:39 AM
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Perhaps this top one is the best one, from the Netherlands: https://sense.info/en/your-body/male-body/taking-care-your-penis There are also the following ones: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/286927402_Proper_Care_of_the_Intact_Penis And http://www.thewholenetwork.org/twn-news/proper-care-of-the-intact-penis-from-baby-to-teenager
/r/MensRights09/01/22 05:11 PM
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http://www.drmomma.org/2008/04/natural-foreskin-retraction-in-intact.html?m=1 this is more informative, but more technical.
/r/MensRights09/01/22 03:54 PM
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😢Then they are certainly people to drop quickly. The only thing people like that should have a relationship with is powered by batteries!
/r/MensRights09/01/22 03:48 PM
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Remember, laws about slander and libel apply online, as well as in real life. May be a better route to justice. Keep records and screenshot slanderous and libellous accusations made against you in cases of false accusations. They are often easier to prove, and bring to court. Has this f gone to the police? The reason most genuine rape victims don't go to the police is that it is stressful and distressing process to go through to get justice. Also, to keep anonymity. I wonder if there has been an…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 02:08 PM
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I agree, being forced to penetrate IS rape, read a horrible first hand account recently of a man who was repeatedly raped by his mother and other women as a boy. ( pedo ring of women). Tragically, he can't trust any woman, as he keeps wondering if each and every f is the same as those who raped & sexually abused him. I hope he can get therapy and help to help him deal with it. There definitely needs to be equal support and help for Male survivors as there are female. Our humanity isn't restricte…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 11:45 AM
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consider these questions 1) where an equal no of m& f deaths / suffering are occuring, are f Given a priority? 2 Is emotive gender differentiation practiced, in terms of language used? ( eg, pity being evoked for f victims of sex abuse, but not for m?, or (forcibly abducted) m child soldiers being viewed as a ' problem ', f child soldiers solely as victims? 3)Where more m than f are affected by an issue, is the f priotatised, or listed first? Some examples: About an equal number of men ( Prostat…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 11:15 AM
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Points 1 and 2 do not agree with each other. If vaccination does not 100% prevent covid, it is especially important for anyone who can have the vaccine to take the vaccine. Kids can and do spread covid, just like other age groups. Point 3. Even those who catch, but have few or no symptoms from covid, may suffer heart / lung damage from the disease.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 01:17 PM
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Good time to ditch such people. You don't want to be depending on their support if you ever hit a major crisis. What do they want? A real relationship with a real human, or not?
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:19 PM
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That's terrible. Hope you are able to get away from this horrible situation ASAP. Hop this helps. https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-men-who-are-being-abused.htm And if you are still in school etc, Suggest speaking to guidance counsellor or other trusted people for help. Good luck!
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:16 PM
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https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-men-who-are-being-abused.htm hope this helps. You have made a great decision to leave. Stay out, get your mates to help you shift your stuff out and store it somewhere. You do not want to have to ever deal with her one to one. Make sure you do not share any financial arrangements bank accounts etc with her. Also, strongly suggest checking out therapy options for yourself, buildingself esteem ect.. Also , how to deal with toxic people. By dealing …
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:00 PM
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Here is a bit more on the origin of surnames. . Formal surnames didn't really become a thing until after 1066. I believe it was mainly for tax identification reasons that they really came about. As a F, I can understand being hacked off re changing surnames, as obviously your surname is part of your identity. The worst example was still in use when I was younger. Say Ann Jones married John Smith. She would be addressed as Mrs John Smith in letters!!! An eradication of her identity. I can imagine…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 10:13 AM
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Sorry to hear this. This website may be of use https://www.stompoutbullying.org/about-bullying-and-cyberbullying
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:52 PM
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She may be baiting you...pushing ( bullying) you more and more, until you crack, and 'prove' her theories right. If you are still in formal education, speak to a trusted teacher, or guidance counsellor, or friends parents about the bullying, and about your mom's role. She is contributing to bullying, by not objecting to your sisters bullying of you. Please, please never take the mick out of menstruation. It's horrible enough without having to deal with mockery. (I'm F, so I know this! ) Sorry yo…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:51 PM
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Don't date anyone you are not already friends with. Good manners matter as much in the bedroom as in the boardroom.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 08:18 AM
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They had boys from cutting cultures coming into A&E with awful botches and infections from cutting, as far as I know. It's very unusual for them to offer this service. They should ban forced non therapeutic cutting altogether worldwide. ..no different to fgm.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:09 PM
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Christianity does not follow the old Testament (just background reading), but the new testament...this only seems to be confusing in America and some parts of Africa.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 08:48 PM
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As it's very easy to do, there are not really any books on it. Here is a link to the information on the official NHS website on how to was the area: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/how-to-keep-a-penis-clean/
/r/MensRights02/01/22 08:13 PM
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Great comment. Well done. Hope the bloke gets it sorted out.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 07:55 PM
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It's unfair for people to expect to get all their emotional support from their partner. Much better and healthier to get a fair segment of it from friends and family...otherwise far too much pressure on the partner and the relationship, It becomes co dependency and emotional suffocation and resentment. Getting emotional support from friends is nothing to do with sex or romance, regardless of the genders involved. Nothing to do with cheating. I would be only too happy for my oh to get emotional s…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 07:52 PM
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Some Australian aboriginal peoples practice that. It's called subincision. Circumcision is almost unheard of in South America.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 07:36 PM
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This friend zone thing is an American thing. If I was single, I would never date someone I wasn't friends with first! (UK). And if USA had an NHS and genuine supportive benefits system, American people would be less likely to have that intense desire for wealthy men to provide for them to survive life and have a safety net. Because they would already feel more secure, and wouldn't have to worry about ending up homeless under a bridge if they got sick. Seriously skews the whole of life and dating…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 11:13 AM
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Everyday selfishness. If you were my son, I would have made much of making sure that you got your outfit sorted first, being the graduate to be. Can go on a shopping spree anytime, but your son only graduates once! As for petrol / carrying shopping, unless they are ill, elderly, or have a disability ( or are pregnant) frankly people should carry their own shopping. ( If you have to carry your own shopping, you are likely to buy less- present it as an economic measure! ) If they complain about it…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 08:36 PM
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http://britishorthodox.org/glastonburyreview/issue-122-circumcision-and-the-copts/ "the collective problems of castration, penile amputation and circumcision... grouped together because they were all considered to be undesirable mutilation of the body, God’s perfect creation. This thinking of the perfection of human body as the handmade of God had been the foundation of traditional Christian teaching on matters related to mutilation of the body – God’s creation should not be tampered with. The t…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 05:03 PM
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Excellent post. Some modern changes in language are interesting, and can help avert further tragedy and stigma of this subject. The terms 'committed ' ( and 'killing' oneself) arose when suicide was illegal. It was seen as murder of the self, and survivors were imprisoned for attempted murder. 'Died by suicide' or 'took their own life' tends to be the modern alternative. Likewise, those who attempt suicide have not 'failed ', but have survived suicide. Using words such as successful/ unsuccessfu…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 04:50 PM
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The 'hygiene ' arguments are absurd. All mammals throughout history in all climates have foreskin, aside from the duck billed platypus and the echidna. Strangely, they all manage to live their whole lives without 'needing ' to be circumcised. And they don't even have hands! In circumcised cultures only humans are targeted for cutting, not other mammals. Goats, for example, I've in jungles, deserts, mountains and moors. They don't suffer from the mysterious foreskin maladies of the American male …
/r/MensRights31/12/21 11:35 AM
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Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumcision. Bleeding post-circumcision usually needs exploration under anesthetic." pg 880-881 Oxford Handbook of Pediatrics 2nd ed 2013 [in infants or child…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 11:04 AM
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Mgm is the engine that powers fgm. Only a small proportion of females who are affected by fgm undergo the severest forms of fgm. The vast majority undergo procedures such as a ritual billable 'nick', or removal of the clitoral hood. Even stretching of the labia is included in the definition. There are 4 major types of female genital mutilation (with subtypes) ranging from the least severe - a clitoral 'nick' for a drop of blood to the most severe - removal of labia, partial or total clitoral rem…
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:38 PM
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In South Africa alone, over 604 boys died and over half a million were hospitalised after attending the winter initiation schools between 2008 and 2021. A total of 1,139 deaths have been recorded since 1995. Accurate statistics are not available for the number of [Penis] amputations, but their number is roughly twice the number of deaths. So approximately 2,278 boys and men have lost their penises in South Africa since 1995 alone due to circumcision. And don't think it only happens in the bush -…
/r/MensRights30/12/21 10:45 AM
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All cultures that practice FGM also practice circumcision of males, under the same conditions, using the same tools, for the same 'reasons'. Circumcision puts girls at increased risk of FGM. One of the biggest predictors in the movement of FGM into an area is the previous practice of, and cultural acceptance of, male genital cutting (circumcision) in that same area. Therefore it could be said that the practice of circumcision in western countries gives tacit permission for parents to carry out F…
/r/MensRights30/12/21 10:43 AM
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I've updated the numbers to include this year's tragic and pointless deaths. I update them every year, not if, but when the death tolls are announced after each initiation season. In South Africa alone, over 604 boys died and over half a million were hospitalised after attending the winter initiation schools between 2008 and 2021. A total of 1,139 deaths have been recorded since 1995. Accurate statistics are not available for the number of [Penis] amputations, but their number is roughly twice t…
/r/MensRights21/12/21 10:20 PM
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Huge advantages to dating short guys. You don't spend your dates staring up their nostrils. You get to share clothes (with permission). Which can be economical and fun, you get to gaze lovingly into each others eyes while slow dancing. You don't get a crick in your neck whilst kissing. You don't have to adjust the car seat. If you're pregnant, you don't have to worry so much about the baby bursting out of your body like in Aliens...
/r/MensRights21/12/21 01:18 PM
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I was absolutely horrified by this event. And by the very high rate of workplace deaths and injuries worldwide, most faced by males. Unions fight to protect all workers from abuse, injury and death. So many employers in USA want to break or ban unions. In a mining town in Russia, males have a life expectancy of 47,due to alcohol and working conditions. Most males there won't live long enough to see their grandchildren. And they know their sons will face the same fate. ( sorry, don't remember the…
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:51 PM
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You had a lucky escape there! I would expect to buy my own meal at first in the relationship Later, if things develop, take turns paying. You're going out to enjoy each others company, after all
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:37 PM
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Plus this will just encourage more smuggling of mobile phones into prisons, which means bribery and corruption, greater chance of increase of drug and alcohol smuggling too, risk of involvement in other crime both in prison and once released, bullying/abuse by fellow prisoners, etc etc...
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:29 PM
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Disgusting. Male prisoners are at an especially high risk for suicide. And prisoners generally are often vulnerable people, with a high rate of mental illness and many abuse survivors. . . Lack of liberty is the punishment for crime, not threats to cut off all contact with friends/ family.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 11:09 AM
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Best to go Dutch...each person pays for themselves. No ripoff, no feelings of obligation/ resentment either way.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 10:08 PM
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Very devastating if the person realises they made a big mistake, and can't do anything to fix it.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:24 AM
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End forced, non therapeutic genital cutting of all people, regardless of gender, age or geographical location. MGM (Circumcision,) FGM, IGM. Respect people's bodies. Having their most sensitive parts cut with a knife must not be their first lesson in consent. The abuse of power over a more vulnerable person must end. A boy is not a stick to be whittled away. Forced cutting warps society. For the rest of their lives, survivors are told ' it's cleaner, healthier, prettier. No one would want you if…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:22 AM
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So basically, they believe that women ARE children.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 09:44 PM
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They should always really be viewed as permanent. It's very expensive to try and get it reversed, and often fails. How devastating would it be to find yourself in a wonderful relationship, and be unable to father a child because of your own decision made years before?
/r/MensRights16/12/21 11:25 AM
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Unfortunately, young men, in particular, who believe that vasectomy is 'reversible', could be setting themselves up for heartache in the future. Not only could they miss out on being dads if their beliefs and situation changes, a lot of their future female partners (potentially) will be condemned to have to undergo cycle after cycle of (often futile) IVF in order to (hopefully) have children. Even one cycle of IVF is expensive, intrusive and can cause permanent, unwanted changes to a woman's phy…
/r/MensRights14/12/21 08:58 PM
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No worries! I'm F. Wish my dad had been as hands on as you, but he was wartime generation...very different times.
/r/MensRights14/12/21 06:11 PM
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Leonardo Da Vinci, arguably the greatest artist ever to have lived, and a true genius, stated "Human subtlety will never devise an invention more beautiful, more simple or more direct than does nature because in her [nature's] inventions nothing is lacking, and nothing is superfluous." (no such thing as " extra skin") His acclaimed picture "Vitruvian Man" [Universal Man] comes complete with foreskin. There are no universally acknowledged, world renowned pieces of art depicting a circumcised male…
/r/MensRights14/12/21 05:51 PM
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Remember - "The most common cause of penile injuries is... from complications of circumcision" Joyce C. Arpilleda MD FAAP pg 163 Strange & Schafermeyer's Pediatric Emergency Medicine 4th ed 2015 "The majority of... circumcisions...are unnecessary (ie normal non-retractile foreskins..." "...Most cases of penile trauma are... as a result of circumcision. Bleeding post-circumcision usually needs exploration under anesthetic." pg 880-881 Oxford Handbook of Pediatrics 2nd ed 2013 [in infants or child…
/r/MensRights14/12/21 10:04 AM
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You would think certain organisations would be in favour of more people learning to shooting! On a serious note, not only would it be fairer to men, it would do women a great deal of good, giving the opportunity to try different trades, meet new people, broaden their horizons. one of the most noticeable things America has is isolationism. Not experiencing things irl outside of their own locations. If one has such service at all it must include all, regardless of gender. It's only fair. Another p…
/r/MensRights14/12/21 08:14 AM
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👌 fantastic job you are doing as a dad!
/r/MensRights13/12/21 09:51 PM
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That socks. Glad your kids are sensible 👍
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:43 AM
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I am already a member 🙂
/r/MensRights12/12/21 11:40 AM
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That's awful.😪. I am horrified to hear of all the things you and your colleagues endured. You are definitely not expendable. Men are not things.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 10:09 PM
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15square and Men Do Complain are both excellent UK based charities who work tirelessly towards a ban on forced genital cutting of males ( circumcision). They also publicise/ give advice on genuine medical alternatives, where possible, to Circumcision.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 09:47 PM
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