| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | "If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round?Bruh it’s increased risk doesn’t mean it’ll happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | "If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round?Maybe because they want kids and family? Why would they pursue something that doesn’t line up with what they want? I feel that’s common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?Maybe because men are complete shit at making dating profiles. If you have 10 profiles 6 of them are garbage and the 2 are okay and 2 are good. Those 4 standout. Woman don’t swipe on everything like most men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:39 PM |
| – | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I’d say you summed up the man dating experience perfectly. Especially with the reading body language part and the not getting a kiss on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.If it’s getting me nothing then why do it and continue to do it? You could argue both ways. Last time I uninstalled dating apps, few months later I met my current girlfriend of two years. Just because I wasn’t on dating app doesn’t mean I gave up on dating it just means I gave up on apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:30 PM |
| 0 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.Nothing is guaranteed. My point was I completely redid my profile and bio and didn’t see any significant improvement in matches or engagement, so instead of turning into a mindless drone and swiping on everything with a pulse for months on end. I uninstall the app for awhile and enjoy being single. I’m not sure what you mean by “or you won’t do it” “or it’s actively hurting you when you don’t” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 04:44 PM |
| 9 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.Yes and no. I would say 70% of male dating profiles are trash, and that’s being generous. I had a woman set up my profile for me, even took updated pictures of me. It was a very good profile and I still didn’t get a lot of engagement. After a while I would just swipe on everything to have a conversation with someone and eventually I leave the app for a year then come back. I think the more adjusted men hear work on yourself and make a good profile and when they do and still don’t see results it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 03:58 PM |
| 0 | The idea that people lie about their true attraction preferences is very out of date. For ten years they’ve been as clear as day about itAnd most men are terrible fathers, what’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The idea that people lie about their true attraction preferences is very out of date. For ten years they’ve been as clear as day about itLOL both men and women are shallow as hell. I’m tired of both genders acting like their side can do no wrong. Harsh reality is not all men are good husbands and boyfriends and not all women are good girlfriends or wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 07:28 PM |
| – | Red Pill Rhetoric: A Cheap Show of Insecurity and FearSleep with 50+ beautiful women but demand a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:45 PM |
| – | Red Pill Rhetoric: A Cheap Show of Insecurity and FearRed pillers get success? I’ve seen the opposite personally, But it might depend on how far down the rabbit hole they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenPersonally don’t really care if we hit it off then we hit it off. But ideally I’d want someone who makes close to what I make. A little below or a little higher wouldn’t make a big difference to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 02:25 PM |
| 6 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysI see your point and I am someone who was in a toxic relationship, some flags are hard to spot and some don’t show themselves till later. But two things can be I’ve seen both men and women blatantly ignore red flags in person and even acknowledge them. Typically it’s some kind I can change them or I want them to grow up/man up for me. It’s not every relationship or situation but I’d say it’s pretty common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men)I think men need to enjoy being single, find hobbies, make friends, join a run group, just find something. Also it’s a two way street when it comes to adding value to a relationship, I’ve seen relationships where men bring nothing to the table and I’ve seen relationships where women bring nothing to the table. If you ask me I think a lot of men and women over value what they actually have to offer. My girlfriend makes me feel appreciated and that’s something I can’t say I’ve felt with past relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about men’s issue.Though I see where you’re going with your points, except for 9 not sure where you were but there was plenty of men and women pointing out the double standard when it came to the depp and heard trial. I think everyone should be calling out politicians, a politician is a politician right or left both are shady and basically have the same donors. Lumping all men into the maga, republicans base doesn’t do anything, because not all men are in that group. I think all issues men and women stems from no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Personally haven’t seen this issue besides online but here I go: I’d assume I fit into her preference if we match on an app, or she said yes to a date or said yes to going on another. A no is a no, I wouldn’t care to know her taste because clearly it’s not me lol I think with both men and women you can probably guess what they like pretty accurately example women, tall men. Men short women. Sure they’ll be some curve balls in there but most men and most women are kinda similar in what they like.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with ‘baby mama culture’ if the kids are happy and have a good father in their life.That’s the million dollar question. Could simply be someone trying to tare someone down. Could be someone trying to warn other people “just because it worked for this couple doesn’t mean it’ll work for you”. Everything we do will draw criticism unfortunately that’s the world we live in. Is it fair? Nope. But if someone’s is truly happy and they feel like they made the right decision or best decision in a situation then one could argue the criticism shouldn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 10:57 PM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with ‘baby mama culture’ if the kids are happy and have a good father in their life.You could make that argument with literally anything. In a perfect world/situation if both the mom and dad stepped up sure there’s nothing wrong with baby mama culture. But that’s not the world we live in and it goes for both situations married and unmarried. A ring doesn’t make a shitty man better and baby doesn’t make shitty women better either. If a woman’s proud that she gave her boyfriend a baby(accident or not) then awesome more power to her but that doesn’t make her immune to criticism or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonI prefer meeting people in my everyday life, classes, gym, concerts, restaurants, events, parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonI’ve had success on dating apps, that doesn’t mean I enjoy using them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonI’ve definitely hit the end on all three and live in very populated area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonBoth men and women are responsible for the current state of dating. These debates and post while interesting will go no where. For every man saying there’s no go women, there’s a woman complaining there are no good men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonBumble is about 70/30, tinder is 78/21. I’ve deleted both multiple times and have come back. Pretty sure that’s common for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:23 PM |
| 10 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonAlso the ratio of men and women is not even, not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonIsn’t that common sense? Of course the men and women who have success on dating apps are going like them. You can apply that to literally anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.After months or years of swiping and getting nothing out of it or very little, people tend to cut their losses. I stopped swiping after I heard that a lot of women turn off their notifications on dating apps. I prefer to meet people in person, it’s how I met my current girlfriend of over a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.To give men the benefit of the doubt(my gender) even if they had a good profile it doesn’t equal success. I think both men and women think that dating should be on their own standards unless I’ve miss understood your comment. I think a lot of people over value what they actually bring to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.Men have bad profiles and women generally have good profiles but I wouldn’t say they really stand out from one another, which isn’t bad or good just something I’ve noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.I agree there’s some truth in everyone’s story, the question is it the majority of the issue? That’s the question. Personally I haven’t had the typical man experience in dating, so I can’t relate to the struggles but I could be an outlier. But what is the average man? And what is the top 10% men, it’s so subjective that I roll my eyes at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.One thing that can’t be argued is most men on dating sites or apps have horrible dating profiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failMaybe use a different source besides Tik tok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Even if you demand answers, what’s attractive and not attractive will never be answered, it’s frustrating Objectively you can find someone attractive but they’re not your type or someone you’d go for. For me Sabrina Carpenter objectively she’s good looking but not the type I’d go for. Zendaya Objectively she’s attractive but again not my type. to skinny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:23 PM |
| – | Women need to stop lying that physically fit men are unattractive.Oh okay that makes more sense. Physically yes, if he was in shape he’d look better, but physical looks aren’t everything. A woman could be a nine physically but have horrible or boring personality and overall be a trash human. Personally that’d be a major turn off for me but everyone different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?I didn’t say they were, I was pointing out that both men and women say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:48 PM |
| – | Women need to stop lying that physically fit men are unattractive.Is this a thing? I’ve never heard or encountered this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?I would need a bigger sample size, but I wouldn’t doubt it’d be a high number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:43 PM |
| 14 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Depends: if someone is overweight they can lose weight. If someone has bad fashion, they can get new clothes If someone has a bad hair cut, they can change it If someone wants to gain muscle, he can go to the gym. There will never be a consensus on what is attractive and what is not it’s too subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?When you say reject 90% is that a dating app stat? Also you’re not wrong about the dull personality but I don’t think that’s exclusive to just women. Personally I think a lot of people over exaggerate what they bring to the table in terms of dating. I agree 100% with your last point that there’s always trade offs and there is no 10 out of 10. There’s nothing wrong with someone having standards and preferences, but they are a double edged sword and they can be a reason a lot of men and women miss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?I’m not saying it’s not true, I was just stating both sides have the same or similar complaint about each other. If a man or woman feels like no one reaches or matches there preferences and standards and don’t want to “settle” then more power to them but standards and preferences can be a double edged sword and CAN be a big reason they miss out on meeting a good man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:44 PM |
| 8 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?In general women have better social circles and friend groups. For me I think turning to religion would make things worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?The never ending cycle. men say theres no quality women. Women say theres no quality men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:53 PM |
| 16 | Why are so many men in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?The male suicide rate would say otherwise, the big difference between men and women would be that women are more likely to get help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:50 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter