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| 1 | Is it normal to never get sexualised as a woman? | Debate | AdChemical190 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 10:40 PM |
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| 13 | If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important?You are absolutely right. Most people don’t really spend any time thinking why they behave how they behave. They just copy what other people do because “that’s how it’s done”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?“Don’t mind”. Exactly what I’m talking about. They may not mind small boobs but they are not as vocal and enthusiastic about them as they are about big boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 07:37 AM |
| -3 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?It only takes into account women with big boobs. Women with small boobs are ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is gonna have casual sex, what kind of guy and why?If a guy doesn’t get turned on by them, there’s nothing I can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is gonna have casual sex, what kind of guy and why?Maybe they “like” them as in “don’t mind” them but they are not sexually attracted to them. Apparently men are visual and need big boobs to be stimulated. They only notice big ones because they stand out more. Women like me are invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is gonna have casual sex, what kind of guy and why?It’s not easy with 99% of guys being into huge boobs, and the bigger the better. 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is gonna have casual sex, what kind of guy and why?I’m not obsessed. It’s the society that’s obsessed with big boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is gonna have casual sex, what kind of guy and why?A guy who actually prefers small boobs and is not afraid to say it loudly or compliment me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?The woman you mentioned pops up in every thread about small boobs to put them down. Now she’s denying scientific studies as she can’t bear that small boobs could have some advantages like being more sensitive. She brags on about how sexy large tits are and how all men prefer them. She literally questions men who say they prefer small boobs as she finds that impossible. She thinks she’s superior because of her large tits. And she might be right to think that men prefer big breasts as for a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?As a small breasted woman I totally agree with you and can relate 100% to what you’ve said. It’s easy for people to advise: “Be confident. Confidence is sexy.” It’s easy to be confident and even smug if every guy stares at your big breasts and when you are told everywhere that big breasts are sexy. But how to be confident when you are invisible to men? When men ignore you and women body shame you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:46 PM |
| -2 | Average=invisibleI have small boobs and that makes me invisible to 99% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Maybe it’s normalised in the US but is is NOT normal to put silicone bags in your body. I don’t even like big boobs. But only big boobs get worshipped by guys and called “spectacular” and “stunning”. Whenever small boobs are mentioned the “nice guys” say: I don’t care about boobs. THEY DON’T CARE. That’s all small chested women can expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Ok I’m not even going into the surgeries as I think it’s not normal that anyone should even have to consider plastic surgery. I know it’s normalised in the US but so is owning a gun, so… As to petite porn, yes there’s also granny porn, obese porn etc. Just because there’s a fetish for everything it doesn’t mean the majority of guys find it attractive. I have small boobs and I’m invisible to the opposite sex. I used to think it was normal not to be noticed by men as it’s the only experience I’ve … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Lots of women do face surgeries as well though. That’s because men only like beautiful women. Women don’t pay the same amount of attention to looks as guys do. If a guy has charisma he can get any woman. As a woman you have to have big boobs but not be fat anywhere else 🤔 and have a beautiful face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.“Get a boob job.” If it’s so easy, you get plastic surgery of your face and muscle implants. What’s the problem? 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.They get maybe 50 likes. While big boobs get tens of thousands of likes in a day. That tells you something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.“Get a boob job.” If it’s so easy, you get plastic surgery of your face and muscle implants. What’s the problem? 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.But at least it’s DOABLE. I can do nothing to grow bigger boobs. It’s not even that I want them but men find normal size breasts inadequate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Men have it easy, they can hit the gym and build muscles. For a woman, if you haven’t got big boobs you are screwed. I have B cups and I’m invisible to men. I can’t do anything about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 08:31 PM |
| -2 | Do men or women choose?Men choose. And they only choose women with big boobs. The reason some men say that “a woman can have any man” is because they think only of the busty ones. If you are average looking with small boobs you are invisible to men. They don’t even consider you as they don’t notice you. I can’t have every man I want because they don’t find me attractive enough. Women with large breasts flaunt their cleavage and they can pick and choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 09:49 AM |
| 13 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menI am a woman with small boobs who is invisible to men so I can’t relate to the experience of all these women who get so much attention they are fed up with it. They take it for granted and don’t appreciate how lucky they are to be attractive and what a miserable life it is to be invisible to the opposite sex. They will never understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:36 AM |
| -1 | Dating for men is like looking or a job while dating for women is like recruiting for a position“If you're a woman, you're essentially getting hundreds of resume.” Yeah right, only if you’re a woman with big tits. Otherwise you are invisible to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Exactly. If you have big boobs you can get away with more. You don’t have to be very pretty, men stare at you anyway. If you have small boobs you are invisible to most guys if you are average looking. Having the same looks but big boobs makes all the difference, so yes breast size matters a lot to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Being fit might be attractive in an aesthetic way but if you want to actually be sexually attractive to men you have to have big boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?But guys would also rather have a girl that’s toned and not flabby with big boobs than a girl that’s overweight with small boobs. The truth is that if you have small boobs you are required to “make up for it” in other areas. 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Busty women are admired and worshipped. They are treated better in every aspect of life. Nobody cares if they have a flabby stomach. If you flaunt your cleavage all guys will lust after you. That’s the truth. They don’t have to work to be desired, they get the attention for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?At least guys can DO something to grow their muscles and enhance their appearance. With women it’s a competition of who has the biggest boobs. Unfortunately I can’t do anything about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?If you have big boobs you don’t even need a pretty face or be skinny, guys will still worship you and stare at your boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?“Big boobs may offer initial attention” Yes, I know they do! And I have never experienced this attention and never will. Just because my boobs are small. So don’t tell me breast size doesn’t matter because it DOES! It’s literally the first thing men look at and if you haven’t got it you get IGNORED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?If you have big boobs you can be pretty or ugly and guys will lust after you. If you have small boobs you have to look stunning in all other areas and have a pleasant personality as well for men to even notice you. That’s the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?According to Reddit if you don’t fancy big women with large breasts you are a pedo and a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?“Large breast may look good in clothes” Bingo. And guess what - I wear clothes for 100% of the time I am out in public and my boobs never get any attention. Busty women get attention all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?As you can see men prefer large breasts. Would you rather have 11M or 4M? It’s not about the total number of men in the world who like small boobs. If I walk into a room twice as many men will prefer big boobs and I have no chance with them from the very start. I just get ignored and overlooked. It’s only large breasts that draw mens attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?Men still lust after women with large breasts even if they’re ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?I’m a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:35 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?True. I think “cute” is just a polite way of saying “I’m not interested in you” 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?Well I’m petite and looked underage until my late twenties. I’m sick of people body shaming my body type and telling me I’m asexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:02 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?Are you saying a woman who is petite or has a “baby face” can’t be considered sexy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?I feel exactly the same as a woman with small boobs. Men “respect” me, which means they don’t see me as a sexual being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?You normally don’t see a booty on a photo as it’s behind. You don’t put your butt crack on display either whereas flaunting your cleavage is common and women who don’t do it lose out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?Men are only after women with big boobs. There was an experiment and the same woman with boobs enlarged on the photo got 30% more swipes right. When men talk about women being able to get a man anytime are really thinking about busty women. They don’t even take the small chested ones into consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most modern men shouldn't bother supporting society since society despises and hates us.I see a 5’6” body as masculine and sexy. Look around you. Lots of men your height are in happy relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Women and their hangups around sexuality are solely responsible for their low-quality sex life.Yes, that's how female orgasm works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?That comes from muscles not height. A guy who is 5’6 and has some muscles doesn’t look like a child. In fact many teenagers are tall but that doesn’t make them look manly. You need some bulk and yes a beard helps as well. ☺️ Especially a trimmed one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | The notion of "unconditional love"It’s the same for both genders. If you love someone you want the best for them. If there are conditions involved it’s not love but a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?No, I’ll say he’s hot AS A MAN. I don’t think Trump is hot even though he’s tall and was a president. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?He was hot when he was a comedian too! 😁 Now you will say you have to be a comedian to be attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Must be a US thing. Most people tell height in cm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?But why would that be strange? There are plenty of women who don’t fancy very tall men. I think an average man has better proportions than a tall man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?No, he’s hot because he looks hot. If he looked like a typical politician, nobody would comment on his looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:15 PM |
| -1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Fortunately not everyone. Most people grow out of it by early twenties. It must be a miserable life living for show and to please others. I’d rather do what I want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Because being proportionate looks good in both men and women. I don’t find tall men sexy at all. I struggle to see the appeal. They just have long limbs. What’s the point of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I know plenty of women dating guys shorter than 6 feet. It’s not like all guys shorter than average are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?What do you find sexy in height? Tall guys have wrong proportions. Look at Greek statues. A man should be not too tall and not too short but just right and with the right amount of muscles. Then it’s pleasing on the eye. It’s not like the taller the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I’m not at the end of the spectrum and you just confirm it’s a US thing not a universal one. Other women would have to explain why they wang their man to be a foot taller than them. I don’t understand the appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?So it means men find taller women sexier. You answered your own question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?And I can understand that. I wouldn’t want to date a guy who is a foot or more taller than me. But the argument on this thread is “women only like tall men”. It’s not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?First of all the average male height in most countries is less than 6 foot. And that’s average meaning lots of men are shorter than that. I don’t know who these men were rejected by. I can’t see myself rejecting a guy who’s 5 foot 6 because he’s already taller than me! Maybe it’s a polite excuse to reject someone? As it’s not something you can change it is final. If you said you don’t like long hair he would have it cut, if you said you don’t like smoking he would quit. If you really don’t fancy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?And you have been rejected by one of those women for height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:34 AM |
| -2 | If a single guy is attractive and sociable, warm approaches are all he needs to get women.So women are “perverted, dirty and gross” for having sex in bathrooms, but men are not? Double standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?So maybe the root of the problem is that it’s the men who want tall women? Why do women wear high heels? If men liked short women they wouldn’t even encounter the problem. As a short woman I have never dated a 6 foot man or taller. It’s just not my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?But isn’t that the best thing when a couple is “unsuited” according to other people and everyone keeps asking the question “what does he/she see in her/him???” And the couple can just show them their middle finger and leave them wondering. 😂 It makes other people extremely jealous and uneasy. How come here I am - so hot and sexy - and he dared to choose the ugly shy librarian type! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:48 AM |
| 5 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I think people misunderstand the hight thing. Women may want a man who’s taller than them. As women are generally shorter than men this requirement is easily achievable by 99% of men. But you don’t have to be “6 feet” or any other number. That’s just BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Why would you want to date one of those women anyway? Wouldn’t you rather date a woman who’s got HER OWN mind and knows what SHE likes? Rather than someone who lives a superficial life on show for other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?On what way does she look 12? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Why would you want to date one of those women anyway? Wouldn’t you rather date a woman who’s got HER OWN mind and knows what SHE likes? Rather than someone who lives a superficial life on show for other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:52 AM |
| 13 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I’ve never dated or wanted to date a guy over six foot. A man doesn’t need to be tall to be masculine! Look at Ukraine’s president. He’s hot and not tall. I think this hight thing is purely American thing as everything is the bigger the better. That doesn’t apply in the rest of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:36 AM |
| 7 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?But this is living your life to please others. Not a healthy approach. Why would I date someone I myself don’t find attractive just to please “friends”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:31 AM |
| 5 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I can confirm I DON’T view tall men as attractive. I understand why men would like long legs on a woman but what’s the point on a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | The notion of "unconditional love"True love is unconditional by definition. People who say they love their partner but would dump them immediately if xyz don’t really love their partner. They are only in a relationship that is convenient to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 09:47 PM |
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