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> And if helplessness and a lack of higher thought were grounds for justifiable murder, it would be morally defensible to slaughter women wholesale Damn dude! Who the fuck hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:10 PM
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It's deeper than that. You can't even be altruistic if your sociatal value is below a certain level. Even with women being scared of men in general and worried about sexual assault if a lvms warning to one about a rapey guy results in them being called incel, then it is over for them. They should just pursue the budha pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:08 PM
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Your husband's friend is a fucking dumbass and deserves everything that is going to happen to him. Best case she cheats on him avd physically abuses him early Worst case she remains faithful while remaining trash tier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:06 PM
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I think that men’s rates of loneliness and depression would say otherwise. We are a social species. We are designed to want to relate to others. When I said it was tenuous i didn't mean that men don't need it, i meant that society limits the sources men can draw from. You would have figure that out if you read the whole thing. Sure we are designed to want it but all that's causing me is pain. So I must amputate the parts that hurt to survive. Facultative sociopathy. You wouldn’t be participating…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:49 PM
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If you sincerely believe that women don’t offer such net positive lifestyle benefits and would not improve your life compared to singledom at all, then why even pursue women? Assuming that you yourself are trying Maybe i wanted to be loved. Maybe I was convinced by society that it's what I am suppose to do Maybe I want to love someone. But fuck it I have torched that part of me so all i feel is a dull ache. I think "women's love" is over hyped and made to seem as more beneficial that it is. Or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:38 PM
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Taking on pregnancy and birthing his kids, staying home and sacrificing her career and salary to nurture them, do most of the menial housework, manage all the menial life admin, manage his in law relationships, make the house into a home, be much more meticulously groomed and manicured looking and pretty to look at, the stronger expectation that she will look as hot and as youthful as possible as she ages (anti-aging measures are very tedious and expensive over time), acting soft and submissive …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:19 PM
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I truly believe women's value is imagined. Mens need for social relation is tenuous at best seeing as they are emotionally abused into bring ready to be society's mob enforcers. So the ones who buy into the script feel a need for love abd acceptancez thatseems to be possible only in romantic and military contexts. So what about lvm like me? Prolonged isolation probably attrophoes the parts of the brain wanting connection. I am getting by on hatting women but as I age and become buseless and weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:17 PM
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I may aswell die childless if that's the case
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:09 PM
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I fail to see how women who universally can detect "inhumanity b" in me are so easy to bamboozle. Surely you are all blessed by the devine feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:07 PM
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And the jokes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:05 PM
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According to the women on pdp, women who go for assholes are infact assholes and not people men who call themselves good should be concerned about. Are your friends assholes like their hubbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:04 PM
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Obviously not It should be set up such that the mother can make an informed choice on wether or not she wants to carry her pregnancy. The guy let's her know that he is gonna dip. She knows the law would let him. She crunches the numbers and realises she is on her own, and she can chose to have the child or abort it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:55 PM
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They can though? Isbt that what abandoning a child at a firestation is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:49 PM
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Financial abortion should only be available if the woman can abort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:44 PM
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You know how women say, that men are competing with the solitude they have without us in their lives.... It's not like our presence is some terrible thing. It's just that women are pragmatic as fuck. All those growing pains, awkwardness, compromises, little misunderstandings and the anxiety inducing need to trust each other in relationships ..... they just don't want to do for an average guy. What about a below average guy who has not had a relationship before? alone discarded and turned in on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:42 PM
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We pay for elderly aid to begin with. That's support for living after. Certain age. Both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:18 PM
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Ditto for women wrt abortion and why it should be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:16 PM
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Because our taxes support other people anyway. It's weird yo draw the line at children
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:57 PM
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That's an argument for abstinence avd the validity of an abortion ban
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:53 PM
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If women are putting restrictions on the men they date wrt virginity because they want someone on a similar mindspace to them then theoretically i could want a woman who has dealt with the same things I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:31 PM
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I’ve never experienced a tsunami so would you say that I’ve missed out on a fundamental human experience I feel like adding it in on my list of preferences out of spite, because that's what jfeel like when women talk about virgins being undesirable. Like ok? Talk to me when you have cut off someone's leg or told them that they have to. Talk to me when you live through an environmental disaster. But those restrictions seem pointless avd only hurts me further, while women can restrict whatever the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:37 AM
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There is no answer to feel good woo woo shit. There is the ideal and the ground reality. I feel like i am dealing with the ground reqality of never being enough, while she is talking about how we should behave with no influence upon the ground reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:20 PM
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They used to call themselves a movement focused on equality to get people on board. Over the last decade or so they have hard pivoted into saying that they are more concerned with women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:53 PM
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Could you link a few. Sports scholarships don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:52 PM
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The assumption should be 50:50 default with adjust ments made as needed or warranted. The child is half of each and unless she dies something to disqualify his rights, he is the father
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:27 PM
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The total number of scholarships for women outnumbered that of gender neutral scholarships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:26 PM
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Feminism is a movement that seeks to bring equality between the sexes by women's advocacy. Ir they will act when theybthink women are disadvantaged. They don't give a fuck if men are disadvantaged. They aren't actively fuckjng men up but they really don't care either. Can't back that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:21 PM
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The mindset if someone who can never grow. There is no improvement to be made. After all you are perfect as you are. Beautiful women are probably a little insane if insanity is define as kiss of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:07 PM
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I do t discover shit. I do cut legs every now and then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:06 PM
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Not experiencing war or action doesn't make me feel .... Inhuman. As far as things I have been through? Bullying, tsunami, fistfight as a result of said bullying, death on a scale that boggles the mind, death of a close friend, being stranded in a flood for a week without food, grief both first and second hand, responsibility, the near constant haz.ing I had to endure in my professional training, isolation ( self inflicted) etc it's given me a lot of perspective on life. And despite all of that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:54 PM
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Without it everything else seems shit. Because after a certain point you can't relate to other people who have had relationships had sex understand being clingy and not being clingy. I can't read romance anymore, I don't listen to Taylor Swift or Sabrina carpenter. I don't watch movies were sex is involved, I dont watch romcoms. I don't understand any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:40 PM
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There is no contradiction. It is still bigotry. If I was to cross the street when a black guy with a beany lerts at me with his hand near my belt ... That's not racist because he was giving me amole signals to judge that he is a threat. If the dude was doing nothing and I cross the road ... That's racist Same thing for guys. We get upset when the default assumption is that we are roided out gym bros on a steroid induced manis binge looking for faces to rearrange.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:10 PM
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When we stick to mammals and species where males have a strength advantage and females have the birthing and gestation ability, things get rapey or orgy pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:40 PM
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I meant loving. Auto correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:35 AM
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It kind off does though. If you think you are worth living but you are an incel that's a direct contradiction to your belief. Belief without a basis in reality is delusion It's what all of you are asking lvm to be when you say "be confident". You are asking them to become sociopathic and just lie about what they are with no evidence. But that's the kind of men that women want so good for them i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:04 AM
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Human beings are treated like shut all the time. There is no contradiction in both statements
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:49 AM
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Not really. He is doing it because people tell him it is thebrifht thing to do. Abd while he has no attachment to it he has no interest in making anyone's like more difficult. Problem is when he starts noticing the men who do exactly that get further ahead that he does, and question that gets him told " you are t owed anything" He acted thinking that we are supposed to give each other due care and consideration. If he is owed nothing despite doing that what the fuck does he owe? Me being a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:46 AM
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You need to fall down a lot if stairs before you are unattractive as a woman. Women don't se the percentage if men struggljnbneith relationships as a problem so i don't know why I should see an ugly woman feeling and that she us ugly as a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:29 AM
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You don't have the same energy for windmill flowers at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:11 AM
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With the varrying quality of men in the world, if you can't find someone as a woman, it is your fault There is no way that's not the case. And if you are even slightly rueful that you don't have someone - I want to remind you that it's self inflicted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:05 AM
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The animal kindom also shows a lot of problematic behaviour that you wouldn't want visited on women, so maybe keep evo gender essentialism out of this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:03 AM
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It wasn't supposed to be a one night stand. But sometimes life can happen. Besides there are women on here claiming that sone one night stands are not casual sex because "they really really liked the guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:21 AM
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At that point it a choice right? Do they need help?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:42 PM
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It's bigotry if it's without any context. She is creeping you out? Stalking you, screaming - yeah these are signs that the man is dangerous avd you would try to protect yourself if you were smart. No one expects you to trust men then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:37 PM
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I am not gonna explain everything out to a geriatric gym bro. I barely have any patience with my parents and technology, you think I am gonna hand hold you through the way I see the world. Figure it out see as you are trying to counter the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:24 PM
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We deserve this world. You. Think women deserve better? They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:22 PM
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When talking down to low value men the implication us always that if moral inferiority. That they are bad partners because they are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:20 PM
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Women chose the context interchangeably. When they are mocking lvm, it's always a mirL judgement. When discussing it otherwise it about "fun personality" and "bad personality doesn't mean you are a bad person" avd even this interpretation is rare They would much rather belive that we deserve our hell as if they deserve all the good things they experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:19 PM
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Abd this is why men should only live according to their desires Making women comfortable ys stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:16 PM
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A bad guy working hard to be good guy because it's the right thing to do is still a good guy. Probably better than a person to whom being good cones naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:15 PM
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Keep your geriatric opinion to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:06 PM
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Please. Get the fuck out if here. Bumble bees crods wasps to death when they find one .that's not bravery that's survival. Women congregate in number because it's their best survival strategy. And if the situation gets too big men are not gonna side with one guy against 4-5 women either. When you try to help one girl vs ine guy, no one helps you The girl, if she is in a relationship with the guy might double team you with him. Abd even if she isn't, mist other guys are not gonna jump in because …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:57 PM
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But you do live on easy mode. Op knows this avd chose not to victimise himself by sticking his neck out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:52 PM
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Yeah. Cause in this world were we are told over and over again we are owed nothing, the tahe home message is we don't owe jack shit either. This is the world we create when that's the message
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:50 PM
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Assuming no complications. With real world results i would probably get no work done except for the vision correction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:46 PM
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*any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:49 PM
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I prefer the high of a good cigarette over the emotional wasteland that is my normal life. I am so fucked up that I actually had a lot of fun in the pandemic avd when I was marroned in the wards during a flood. People were losing their minds avd breaking down and I was ok cause for the first time it felt like we are all in this together
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:48 PM
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Missing out as a teen predisposes to missing out as an adult which predisposes to forever missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:45 PM
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Some men talk like they have to endure talking to a woman to get sex. If that's the case and there's no enjoyment in flirting and getting to know the other, I'd recommend seeing a prostitute and I mean that without any malevolence. I wonder why? It could not have anything to do with being vulnerable exposing yourself to ridicule and rejection right? Nah its probably because men hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:43 PM
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It is. I am losing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:39 AM
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Of course women want men to be honest, so that they disqualify themselves. Women by and large don't intend to be honest with men about their past. I don't see why men should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:35 AM
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I call it the uncanny valley of personality. Humans related to each other based on common experiences. People who don't have experiences that most people have - love sex, relationships, being married, kids are more difficult to relate to and have trouble relating with the average populace. As evidenced here . We fail the Interpersonal turing test and that results in further isolation and difficultly empathising.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:59 AM
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Doesn't matter. The guy who used to think like that no longer exists
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:37 AM
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My mother can go fuck herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:56 PM
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yeah. atleast this way i dont have to sit and cower wondering why i was never wanted while trying to be a " good guy " giving myself complexes in the process. As fucked up as it is, being a woman hater is a personal improvemnet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:53 PM
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no no. I just expect all womne everywhere to take accountability for the womne who claim that they can sense the misogyny of lvm like me through the screen and that was why we lack any king of sexual or romantic success. As long as they keep saying that, i am gonna keep prodding at any woman who had been in a relationship with a shitty boyfriend, and ask the if the sensor broken or something, or do they simply have a congenital deficiency
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:46 PM
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hey !! gald to see the misogyny dector is working as it should. Just a quick question< seeing as you have this devine ability how did you end up in a relationship with one such asshole? asking for a friend. Thanks bye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:38 PM
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Kamal haris was the original Hawk Tuah girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:37 PM
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We were raised believing that sex is supposed to be meaningful, that first times are supposed to be meaning full and that if you see a future or want to move in that direction, we should be honest. If i was with a woman who was a virgin i would go at her pace, make sure she felt safe and loved, i would do my bet to let her know that her first time is with someone who loves her even if we never cross paths again. I would try to make it special so that at the very least she associates positivity a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:32 PM

Like I said women are probably soulless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:24 PM
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Those boys are gonna be incels i swear it. Or abuser magnets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:20 PM
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Do either if them have boys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:14 PM
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Easy mode confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:13 PM
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You are not longer just the messenger, you are the disseminator constantly choosing the worst possible interpretation of our action or actions There is no reason to give women grave for anything then. Redpill is a necessary mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:12 PM

I am 31 and a virgin and proud to say never been kissed or loved. No fucking shit I am emotionally stunted. But i do believe it. I think i have lost something fundamental avd irrecoverable by never having loved kissed or had sex in my twenties (not even talking about teens) And I refused to see passive sexual interest in me( there has been none) as genuine since i have become a surgeon now. I will never be open or honest with women because that would ensure failure and because honestly not a sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:10 PM

Cause without irony they are able to say things like Socializing & dating should be fun especially when you’re young, and a lot of these guys know how to make it miserable for themselves As if we chose to create our hell. Fuck em. They really don't deserve any good faith or understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:07 PM

Socializing & dating should be fun especially when you’re young, and a lot of these guys know how to make it miserable for themselves. Really? We did it to ourselves? Wtf? How many assloads of privilege as a woman do you need to think this way. .i thought dating was terrifying for women what with all the rapists prowling the streets? You guys actually have fun? The only reason you think it is fun is because you do infact have it easy I hope i end up marring a landwhale cause if shevsays that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:01 PM

The ladies dont want men like me . I can sconce the fuck away, save the world avd save her child. It won't matter. So offering bait that "you can be love if you are good little boys" doesn't really do anything to convince me I would much rather be my terrible smoking drinking scum bag self rather than the respectful incel who is unable to sleep due to the anxiety of not understanding why he is alone despite doing his best to be good. Much better quality of life. And if I get lung cancer so much …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:52 PM

I think women in general are souless but apparently thats wrong to think or say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:50 PM

Ask him is he ok with waiting for it to his late twenties. Tell him that he must try again and again cause teen love avd young live is unique. That love at the olderage is more mired in Practically and liable to feel less authentic and learning how to love someone is essential before getting there That he has things to fix, appearance wise or style wise, enlist the help of her friends daughters to us hus style if necessary and force him to atleast try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:39 PM
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I’ll bite Men don’t care who women are. They don’t care about her knowledge, her experience, the joy she finds in her hobbies or her work, the purse she takes in her accomplishments, nothing. Men don’t give a flying fuck about a woman’s identity or happiness, they can’t even carry on a conversation with a woman. I see no reason men should think better if women if this is even partly his they think of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:35 PM

His response to being asked, cause I knew you would pussy out He knew exactly what I meant. I was talking about the boxes a man has to tick off and requirements a man has to have to be able to be with that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:15 PM

So brassically things like Height> 6 feet College degree Certain salary Has a house Has a car .etc right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:14 PM

There is nothing men can go to control bad men. We are in a time when the number of crimes against women are the same or reducing, the number of bad men are reducing and the fear women have to men, the general atmosphere bordering on hate and disgust is not normal. At some point I can blatantly see that the reaction is not because she is afraid but because she is disgusted avd she choses to gain retribution by cosplaying fear. There is something fucked up about being asked to be understanding ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:11 PM

> Are we going to take down all the manosphere videos like fresh and fit, the men who say women expire after 30 or refer to older women as cat ladies? Yes please. Those videos should be taken down cause that shit doesn't help and only antagonises the men These topics needs to be discussed but in a very matter of fact way, not with this level of hate Are we going to acknowledge how awkward and sometimes scary it truly is for women to be approached by random men Right so advice that covers where i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:07 PM

There are more. Making lesuire activities affordable again.. Concerts used to. Be the equivalent of 20 $ back in thevday. Cheaper even. For some reason. We have allowed private big business redefine evening activities as luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:57 PM

You are so good at this faux righteous indignation thing Does being this fake come naturally to you. I have a lot to learn from you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:51 PM

No, you changed what was being talked about and hoped nobody would notice I went through your exchange with him again and all I can say is .. projection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:49 PM

An active effort to try and make women less afraid of men An active effort to take down tiktok videos of women saying shit like "lonely men are dangerous, or that men with power are a threat ... Etc" that is literal brainrot. And an acknowledgement of how hard approaching idms so that women will have the grace to deal with it well as long as it is respectful and the guy walks away when she says no Normalise shaming women for calling security for asking her out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:47 PM

He man, so solano is being a little shit and intentionally rewriting your "women who have checklists " to mean " women with checklists of things to do to get men" Basically he is being his usual self. So can you clarify what you meant by the the checklists women have? I asked him to do it when I called him out but he will pussy out. So do me a solid and just clarify that for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:42 PM

Go ahead and ask him what he meant please. You don't because it will undermine your point. Go ahead be brave and have the balls and ask him to clarify what he meant by *checklists women have for men "
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:40 PM
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Pelvic pain is a complicated problem avd will not see a resolution in my life time A lot of complicated things go through there so pain can occur in men and women. However women the stuff there changes every month, avd each time it changes something can go wrong The best we can come up with symptomatically is that pain in a woman which has periodicity related to menstrual cycles. And or changes in flow rates during menstruation As far as cause of pain is concerned it can be due to Hormone imbala…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:37 PM

You were being obtuse on purpose It could be that you misunderstood but I have no good grace to ascribe to you. You don't deserve it. When he was talking about checklists women have for men he didn't mean things they do as you interpreted it but rather the qualities a man must have for her to want. I belive that you chose to interpret it in this way to invalidate him like an edge lord debate bro when he clarifies. And no, women are not displaying care concern or intrest in the humanity if men if…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:21 PM

Every woman related or not to a late virgin will tell him that - he will get the girls later in life when he is settled avd has a good job - he is husband material not boyfriend material. - and attempt to glorify the betabuxx route through life This is not for his benefit, but fir the benefit of women so that she remains a believer in the virtue of wonankind and not become bitter. Sometimes being bitter is one hundred percent justified. It's crazy that even mother's avd sisters care for the sist…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:16 PM

Checklist for her ideal man I want a guy - in finance - 6'5" - blue eyes Yup, i can feel the genuine "looking at man as a complete human rather than a checklist" vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:13 PM

Having a script to follow can reduce anxiety. It helps to avoid awkward pauses and simulate social grace. Mentally subnormal people can be trained to do high level tasks looking like as if they are doing it through a high level if technical understanding ( they don't) The same can be done for social skills. The fact that you choose to automatically see it as evidence of malice is disheartening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:11 PM

And wet we bend over backwards to achieve social justice for women. Why in the fuck do we care. You guys think justice is ok when it comes to you and monopolized it like a mafia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:03 PM

Everyone is lying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:59 PM
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What type of advance do you want to see? I am a surgeon, not my field but I know enough tangentially to be able to tell you what can realistically be done, what is being donr and what can't be done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:57 PM
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Personally, as a woman, I think a big one for me is how a lot of science and research was done solely on male participants, so our understanding of women's health, bodies and minds is pretty lacking. This results in real-life consequences like crash test dummies are usually based on men, so seat belts are less safe for women. I am just gonna point out the massive previledge on display here. Djoyou know why shock studies are optimised for men? Because men were the subjects if many wars. Many died…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:34 AM
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Sour grapes is a thing you know. I engage in it frequently to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:32 AM
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It doesn't last. The post injection results are variable as about 40-60 percent of injectable is reabsorbed. Yes migration is a issue If the jawline is a major problem then maxillofacial surgery might be better. I think it's good to do for severe underbites and weak chin and if you are getting work done for functional reasons may aswell ask for a chad chin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:23 AM
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Yes. Assuming no side-effects Let's see . Limb lengthening Keratoplasty to correct vision defect. Orthodontic surgery to take care of buck teeth ( it's not really noticable so I'll take it or leave it) Rhinoplasty maybe Hair transplant Phaloplasty if it was an option with good prognosis. Otherwise what I have will have to do. Liposuction maybe.. but then again I could just excercise and get fit I guess. Maybe some zplasties on my hamstrings to increase my range of motion and ability to perform s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:20 AM
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Don't do that. Why you people gotta make this so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:05 AM
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Women get to sexually explore before setling. It's seems aspirational to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:01 AM
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Easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:43 AM
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We are gaslit into believing that providing is our highest honour. Imagine that. Training a generation to belive that their highest virtue is to be used. Must be nice being a woman to be able to pretty much manifest your way into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:43 AM
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You are exactly the type of person Mike pence rule is for
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:36 AM
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Don't project your weird fetishes on me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:22 PM
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All opertunities he got for being good looking. If he was unfortunate looking she would be. Adead beat in jail running with the bloods or crips or whatever for protection. You would call him scum for that. We are as good and as bad as out options allow us to be . It may seem like I am trying to take agency away from men, but what I am saying is you and women everywhere ascribe way too much agency to men to the point of ridiculousness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:36 AM
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Jermy meeks He wasn't some non violent perp either. He was in jail for gBH - grevious bodily harm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:33 AM
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Yeah I feel that. Having improved a little my standards have increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:35 AM
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Sometimes it can be something as little as the way they smile at you. Sometimes it can be the faint sound they make when they breathe. Sometimes it can be the way the sunlight mskes her hair seem more auburn than black... But everytime you feel you knees get weak and reason leave your mind. You feel stupid but happy like a fucking labrador. It's not all about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:33 AM
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It's certainly female wish fulfilment in the manifestation of "feminine rage"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:28 AM
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Even they require rotation to hospitals where it happens to be trained in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:16 AM
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That was the case the first time trump git elected It absolutely was a incel victory .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah. Obviously. As a service provider if health they can't withold procedures. All OBGYN have training in it. Exception of those who learn in religious colleges
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:37 AM
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Come on dude, wtf is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:36 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:15 PM
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Regardless, when I call you a misandrist, there is definitely weight to that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:47 PM
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There isn't. It's how I feel about them in relation to me Abd i don't feel disgust towards anyone other than sexhavers Although that might include most women, in anycase it's not because they are women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:44 PM
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She doesn't need your simp ass to defend herself. She is a hater too man. .she has got paws, and I am fine with the smoke
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:42 PM
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Disgust is a subjective feeling I don't see how what you said related at all All those women find someone so clearly they are fine Isn't that what you tell about men "most men end up married anyway so they are doing fine!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:40 PM
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I am not trying to seduce you. If you hate me that's fine. And I was just detailing the circumstances which lend me the expertise to diagnose you as a hater. Real recognises real after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:38 PM
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I am particularly desperate as I am a 31 year old virgin. Probably will die one. So i find 80% acceptable avd 40% attractive I don't know if I love them obviously . Why are you using that word when I was careful to say attraction... Are you trying to make my point more ridiculous than it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:35 PM
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I get that. Worthless as I am why would anyone take note if me . But I am an incel, and I do notice you, remember your posts and even message you now and again on this platform . You forget me and go back to playing house with your hubby...... Me? I have nothing else to distract me from 31 years of solitude. So it's understandable that will always remember you and how much i .... Anyway you are a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:33 PM
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Sometimes we are blind to who we are Women called me a misogynist abd I never believed it. Clearly I am... You are a misandrist. Don't deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:09 PM
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You are the one married to a member of the gender you largely hate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:00 PM
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Windmill, women think men should not have a say in abortions. Why in the fuck do you think that you as a women have any say in a mans opinion on financial abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:52 PM
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Disgust is a subjective feeling. There is no truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:50 PM
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"attitude I assume men have"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:49 PM
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Only blonde 20 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:47 PM
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Hate is the opposite of love. What women have for men borders on indifference and disgust. Indifference as long as we stay out of sight abd disgust when we dare to make ourselves know. I am talking of lvm ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 PM
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I love that the trend of "worst possible assumption that I can think a man would think about must be what he is thinking about" still continues. The quote he used us a misquoted. It should be that "women are not attracted to men the way men are attracted to women " . Then again I can't blame him. There is a chance so e low resolution redpill thinker conflated love avd attraction. That's a big issue causing a lot of the "talking past each other" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:45 PM
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Oh. This bullshit again. I'll agree and conceed to all points except one. The statement made should be women are not attracted to most men. This will take some time to parse so lock in. Women dont find men sexually attractive the way men find women sexually attractive. I would estimate that most men find a fair proportion of women attractive to various degrees, ( assuming appropriate age ) I would say that a man 25-35 would find approx 40-60% of women in thesame age range sexually acceptable. 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:39 PM
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A necessary evil
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 AM
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As you said before. It makes no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:43 AM
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That's convenient. You have mentioned in another comment how most men end up married to prove that men don't have it that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:20 AM
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She has a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:44 AM
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Pretty sure a hook up is a hookup. Casual sex by definition us sex outside the bounds of a relationship Just because a woman feels more for the guy or vice versa doesn't make it not casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:43 AM
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And yet they still indulge. Most women have atleast had one hook up before they decide it's not for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:29 AM
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Betting on attraction developing overtime has been kicked and disparaged by both men and women alike when guys complaint about puting a lot of effort in and not seeing any improvement in reciprocity. "Leading with money" and "if you present as a safe option you will be treated like a safe option" is commonly heard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:27 AM
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From which women? At his level of unattractiveness there is no woman below.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:45 AM
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The genesis if misandry. I had a very similar coming of age story. It involved an epic beatdown too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:43 AM
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But women here do though. Theydo claim that beta men.should be grateful to be BB if they never got any
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:42 AM
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The amount women have to crash through to be considered unattractive to the point of being deemed unwanted is much lower than what is equivalent for men. Infact I can go ahead and argue that these women are also going for men at the top of the hierarchy just like you claim unsuccessful men do. Maybe they should lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:40 AM
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Comeon dude. Feminsm is a womens advocacy movement. People are always gonna support that which benefits them. As those kids go through scholl especially if they grow up in repressive societies they are gonna want freedom and they are gonna be feminists. Can't blame them either. We can certainly blame them for not changing enough with the times, but wanting the best for themselves is completely understandable In that respect redpill MRA and feminim are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:37 AM
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I called women spoiled because they are and you seem to be the poster child of it. I am capable of good faith. Just not with you. You put me in my assholine There are moments when I try to be neutral but the cadence of your keystrokes just causes flashbacks to being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:32 AM
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Yeah that is my point. You have been through it to know what to look for Late virgins are sitting dicks to this psyop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:30 AM
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Then society is systematically destroying men's self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:02 AM
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More often than not these are not learning experiences. I am a boring guy. I am the equivalent if a salad Most people don't like salads and only eat them to diet. I want to be with someone who loves salad as a default. Not someone who kept binging deep fried twinkies and now has to eat salad lest her heart gives out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:53 PM
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31 year old Virgin here . Clearly that's not a given for men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:46 PM
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But he is ok with 80% He ys ok with good enough if good enough is all she can manage What he isbt ok with is a worse standard for him. That's pretty easy to understand for men Maybe men are just socialized and increasingly so to just accept women no matter what while women are told to never settle. Maybe that's why you and troglodyte don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:40 PM
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Why do you twist everything to make it seem like men are doing something wrong while women these poor beautiful angles 😭 are doing the best with what they have ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:36 PM
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But by finding out these things he feels like she is not the person he chose to be with. He was ok with a relationship where he was getting 80% of his needs met because he loved her and thought 80% was all she could meet. Not everyone can run or jump as fast as each other so why is it any different for love. Only he just realised that she can give 100% just not for him. Thats fuckjng with him. He can't empathise that her libido has changed because he is just as horny for her as he was for any ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:30 PM
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Late make virgins don't get told that they are loved enough number of times to detect falsehood. They legitimately feel happy thatbthey are loved. Thankfully redpill has made me suspicious of anyone who is interested in me now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:23 PM
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Are you fucking mocking me right now? Trying to deal with a troglodyte with any sembalance of good faith is a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:20 PM
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Late virgins don't have the experience to know that people lie when they say I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:14 PM
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What fucking self respect am i suppose dto have after failing constantly until 31 years of age? What fucking self respect? Women are spoiled. That's all there is to it You don't understand sacrifice. You don't understand compromise You don't understand the abyss that you look into when you don't know why you are worthless... Goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:13 PM
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Men who make more money get married. Men who are generally healthier get married because healthy is attractive as opposed to unhealthy. ( Eg most autistic gurls find relationships mist autistic guys don't)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:06 PM
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Having kids just to feel that love especially condemning a boy with my genetics with predisposition of anxiety and shit looks despite inteligence, just so I can feel "love" seems beyond selfish maybe live, sex relationship family and kids are for better men only
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:05 PM
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Wonens privilege. You all are simply spoiled as fuck. Guys might be desperate but atleast we dont hold you to an ideal you must live upto.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:53 PM
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80% of your needs met is better than zero. It's not settling if that's the best you can get. And it's not malicious if 80% is all she has to give. The fact that you don't understand that shows the ridiculous amount of privilege women have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:51 PM
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From a past comment But by finding out these things he feels like she is not the person he chose to be with. He was ok with a relationship where he was getting 80% of his needs met because he loved her and thought 80% was all she could meet. Not everyone can run or jump as fast as each other so why is it any different for love? Only he just realised that she can give 100% just not for him. Thats fuckjng with him. He can't empathise that her libido has changed because he is just as horny for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:48 PM
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The ones without experience like me used to be fairminded. When she is not showing enough love, we assume that's all she has to show. Are we supposed to judge her on that? That seems mean. She just love us, she says as much ... Why would anyone lie about that. I can't run 100 mts in less than 10 seconds, maybe this is the extent of her ability to demonstrate love. I'm gonna copy paste another comment But by finding out these things he feels like she is not the person he chose to be with. He was …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:47 PM
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May as well pursuee enlightenment and achive union with sansara With the amount of mental work you want us to to to become worthy of women, I think finding enlightenment brainwashing people and starting a cult is more realistic. That or causing a coup... At that point of self actualization have you ever considered we may just look at the lot of you and find you more than just vapid but also wholy unworthy? Is that the goal, to force unattractive men into the never ending treadmill if self improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:33 PM
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I hope there is a push to legalise prostitution so that it busts bubble in the pussy cartel you are running. Women would have to lead with something beyond sex for the first time in mellenia and that probably terrified sone of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:28 PM
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That bullshit Words have basic inalienable meanings. Sure you can ad nuance and significance post fact but the base doens't change (eg 'birth' is never confused with 'murder'). Don't endorse this Woo woo bulshit! All that does is muddy the waters and give them cover to run plausible deniability scams
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:24 PM
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when someone claims to love you you are supposed to belive them. why say you love the man you are with if you aren't attracted to him. is that not Maleficent behaviour? why are we blaming these dumbfucked men for believing these bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:30 PM
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that's not romantic love though is it? marriage as it stands currently is supposed to be for people who are romantically involved unless specified otherwise. if she wanted a friend to make sure she doesn't die alone, she could just move in with a friend. why dangle a romantic relationship as bait? this isnt some benign thing. it is malicious in intent and execution
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:29 PM
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Simp somewhere else. Your comment us not gonna redeem men fur her. Just pray she never has a son.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:54 PM
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Much like you prefer bears yo us we prefer trees to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:49 PM
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What nothing to argue the man's points with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:47 PM
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But women do handle mens vulnerability poorly. Or is it your thesis that women do just fine and it is mentioned at fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:45 PM
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Your standards are too high when it comes to courtship stuff like finances and splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:44 PM
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Absolutely I feel that way as a nan in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:42 PM
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that's projection. everything you wrote was projection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:09 PM
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going into a relationship expecting attraction to build over time is how you get dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:04 PM
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obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:59 PM
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the right answer is to be a scumbag and use your leverage to sleep around and find yourself the way women get to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:55 PM
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when someone claims to love you you are supposed to belive them. why say you love the man you are with if you aren't attracted to him. is that not Maleficent behaviour? why are we blaming these dumbfucked men for believing these bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:54 PM
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so when I am finally loved at 53, I should be glad and not get a castration done out of spite?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:50 PM
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we are called idiots to try and do more in hopes of being loved more. by both women and men. so we have learnt as base attraction needs to be high. hoping it will increase over time is a fools bet. you can't count on it. you can't count on tingles to make her want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:47 PM
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beta m n come second to her her mom her friends and her life plan. his role is to help make it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:45 PM
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how do women realise that the man they are with only values sex or values them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:43 PM
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this is a nothing answer. it's like me asking "is if ok to hit women if they hit you or come at you eitv intent to harm" and you respond with " it's wrong for anyone vto hit anyone" no shit! abut in this question the man is already being assaulted by the women and the question was about wethere Ior not it. is acceptable to retaliate v
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:25 PM
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then atleast 30% of women are unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:22 PM
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I belive that I am seen as unattractive and double so on acount of my past. I accept that. there is no other graceful option
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:10 PM
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They already apply it to me. My negative history and my outlook disqualified me right ? My outlook and opinion is a distillation of that. If women were on the whole more forgiving of men with my characteristics I wouldn't try to argue for a replication from men to women On the whole I belive men can learn a little from women, even if it induces and race to the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:47 AM
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i dont blame beggars for begging. the world trains men to undervalue themselves. I blame inflation not on the workers getting paid more but on companies trying to price gouge to raise profits
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:09 AM
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Men are trained to want to sacrifice for themselves. Women used to be the same way but it's is less and less true now, as evidenced by "competing with my peace"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:15 AM
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Can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:04 AM
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I understand why. I simply have no respect for it. It is spi less behaviour, enabled by the guise of feminine prerogative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:55 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:46 AM
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Well yeah. By what definition would they be good people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:45 AM
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Well not all. Just ones who complain about bad exes. And the ones who have been through trauma inducing abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:45 AM
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Yeah. So? It seemed like a fun point yo argue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:44 AM
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What happened? How did the picker break in them. They can sense the misogyny right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:33 AM
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I'll go many steps further and say that women who bitch about lots of her exes being shitty is probably shitty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:32 AM
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Sorry to hear about your sister It must be hard to have someone you love not be who you wish they could be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:31 AM
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No. This is my post not their. They can come out and say they didn't say anything like that if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:29 AM
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Romantically speaking. Abd I would argue that the saying " I have to work twice as hard for half as much" which women really like cause it validates them, is applicable any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:27 AM
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He isn't. The one arguing in the victims favour are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:26 AM
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Abuse isn't something that only men perpetrate and women suffer from - there are male victims and female abusers as well. Didn't say it was. But I was talking about men dating women Some people are also dishonest and/or have a wrapped perception of reality, so their interpretation of their past experience isn't reliable. Does that sound like someone you want to be in a relationship with? Thirdly, people who have gone through abuse or any other traumatic experience are strongly advised to seek th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:24 AM
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hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:14 PM
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the men will respond with a raised middle finger. you don't even want us. I can only think you want us to approach to mock us for trying looks at that "males" again must bei nice being a woman, and. crazy mods who just posted a post not want to come and psychoanalyse you into a mental pathology like "femcel" after banning you so that you can't defend yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:36 PM
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no one deserves anything. you are right. neither I nor anyone else owes anything to me or anyone else. thats sounds like freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:08 PM
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good. exactly right. no one deserves anything. that's gonna be my new mantra
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:00 PM
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yeah. that's is true. but people love to bring out the deserves line when it's a loser like me whining about being alone and lonely. they insult. we react in less than perfect ways and we get told we deserve our hell. funny how that works So why do women call those women shitty to begin with? do they not belive tha lt the women going for crap teir men are crap too? are they just saying that so that men here stop talking about bad,crap,asshole and abusive men being give more chances that 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:59 PM
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i hink it Is related. when men here bring up women dating gangbangers and abusers the common response is that if we are good men then we shouldn't give a fuck what shitty women do I am just taking it to the logical extreme in agreement with these womens rebuttal. and you post a rage bait so I will post one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:43 PM
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Still better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:25 PM
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and the ability to attract dates informs culture too. women are able to get men despite full racing them into tighter gender roles, because the men know that their choices are mild emotional repression and a relationship or the gapping void that permeates and incels life. men who hold standards - average normal men are unlikely to able to hold onto the standards due to the emotional desolation of incel dom. infact the man who sticks to his standards and gets no one is marked as an undesireable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:19 PM
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women who are victims of abuse don't deserve to be in relationships, at least not with normal decent men. as Lilith has said there is no excuse to want them or love them. thee is no consideration or benefit of the doubt to be given to them. why? women who went for assholes assholish enough to abuse them are probably not good women. maybe 3/10 were suckered in but at that point is the demographic even worth bothering with if 7/10 are trash teir? Victims of abuse are more likely to be emotionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:10 PM
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men accept masculine traits in a woman way more than women accept feminine traits in a man. hell there are men who will pursue women with more masculine traits ( Tall women, tomboys and bodybuilders have no dearth of romantic prospects ). If women end up with a man who lives transgressive to the masculine role it will be inspite of those traits rather than for them. so the effect of men enforcing "toxic femininity" is next to nothing compared to the effect women enforcing toxic masculinity. furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:02 PM
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because they succeeded. they know it is possible and can work towards it. in my 31 years on this earth I have had no success. no once. infact I have failed in spectacular wats that makes it obvious to me that I was made to surplus. how am I supposed to belive in victory when I never have. all advice here boils down to self deluding yourself that banging your head against the wall can mine gold out of it. Women benefit form men banging their heads on the rocks even if it is mentally emotional and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:00 PM
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the world doesn't "manifest" for us the way it does for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:50 PM
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the physical risks are there too. penile fracture can happen with willing sexual intercourse, I assume it would be more likely in an unwillingnpartner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:34 AM
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Your bias is showing. It's damn near racist too. K-pop men are the masculine ideal in North korea. The culture pushes both men and women to look aesthetic in a way not replicated in any other country. Abd the men involed in kpop and k dramas exhibit their version of masculinity. Just because western women see them as suck doesn't make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:42 AM
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And the women warning less than their partners can't pay lawyers? Do you hear yourself? We aren't talking about shams here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:23 AM
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They arent victims of they chose the abuser and stay inspite of it . Doubly so if they have the bad man radar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:54 AM
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But women have "bad men" radar in their heads. They tell us as much when theybsay men like me are inceks because we are bad men How could that vaunted intuition fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:53 AM
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Let's give them credit I have met women who ignored my earnings that the guy they were with was a sexual predator. They called me a jealous incel. If men are responsible for theneomen they end up with despite the absolute paucity of choice then these women are responsible too. They chose the love they think they deserve. Short of physical harm, there is no need to pitty them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:52 AM
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keep defending hoe behaviour man. the kingdom of christ will honor you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:51 PM
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do cry when you don't agree with the answer. then again no behaviour is beneath you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:45 PM
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then they are both the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:44 PM
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Paying much less? If you end up paying a lot for anyone’s attention, man or woman, you’re just a trick. It’s you that is a sucker. you said it. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:00 PM
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The conversation was never about them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:22 PM
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They were your words. Word for word what you typed out Unintentionally you hit upon the problem redpill has with the scenario. Don't try to save face
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:22 PM
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I am just repeating your words to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:18 PM
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Yes Lilith . It means ponies are smart and men want to fuck ponies. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:45 PM
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I don't think decency and sex life are related Otherwise I would have been slaying no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:44 PM
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It's not conciliatory. It derision
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:42 PM
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No. I just wanted the pussy I love. Except I was dogshit so they didn't want me.. And with time I realise I need to have the skill to Lind up pussy one after the other to be able to get into a relationship with them if I want to. Anything else and it looks like I am begging yo be in her life for pussy. ( Women here have said that virgin men are a no go because they want a mdn who had options) That's why I want to have casual sex. Because without it I am seen as a loser. And if I am seen as a los…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:39 PM
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Never invest emotionally if she is witholding from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:35 PM
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The girl comes with their bagage Every insecurity they gave her of not bring good enough or being cheated on she will take it out on you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:33 PM
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60 for me "To the heavens baby" Oh wait. Catholics may not allow that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:32 PM
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Glad to see you got the males auto correct corrected. u/GrideXX
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:27 PM
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And the guy who is settling with her, who is being settled for us the person paying a lot more for the woman's attention - according to your own description. You are right. He is a sucker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:25 PM
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If you have to offer more that the guy before her, you are being played. If she is enthusiastic to be with you great! If she looks at you and only sees stable life partner? Fucking run
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:21 PM
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My little pony was a decent show better than. Any childrens programe was supposed to be. Avd the fact that dude btos got into it and started yo nahe sexual paraphernalia of it ( bodypillows) means that more men are sapiosexual than it was thou before
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:17 PM
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Sad for him or sad for the women who want genuine longterm relationships seeing as this guy is encouraging men to go the whore pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:20 PM
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Acceptance us the first step to druggery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:19 PM
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Why in the fuck were you people angry about "misogyny in you children" when Andrew tate was at his social media peak?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:23 PM
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Sufrahets have set off bombs before Buddhist terrorists have killed before in numbers higher than incels Ideology avd gender are no bar to murder. Avd stick to the point Considering the number of heterosexual succesful men who abuse women, incels are positively benign as a threat to women. So why don't you go take care of domestic violence before complaining that inceks are rampaging too much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:12 PM
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Can't relate. Never been with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:06 PM
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You don't want to talk about "how likely" a fear is when we don't go that to women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:58 PM
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I would just advise her to lift with her needs. She should have hired movers Or i would negotiate a meal that she either makes or pays for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:54 PM
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I absolutely would give the cpr. But the second she bitch about being groped, a slap is headed her way If someone asks, I was trying to shock her back to sanity. Clearly she was still groggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:51 PM
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Less desired after 30 I guess Before 30 personality matters less. After 30 it's acceptable as long as personality is good. Beyond 40 and it's gonna be as much of a demerit as virginity is in a 30 year old man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:48 PM
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That's what 1:1000000? You have better odds of finding a Domestic violence enthusiast among the sex haver men population Do something about that before you come after ys like some performative low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:46 PM
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Then I am not. Cause I am gonna keep asking why did it have to happen.. It might seem petty and small minded to you but it matters to me. There is not a single woman or childtbat exists or will ever exist that makes my past worth living through to me There is not a single event, thing, or experience that will make it ok. And I am never gonna let it go . Cause fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:44 PM
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How far are you obligated to go? This guy got punched in the face. I got ostracised out of friends groups, insulted a d called a incel, used and manipulated do that some other fucks could have their happily ever after. At what point dies self respect come into play as per your prescription wise one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:42 PM
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31 years dude. And counting. I won't let it go. I can't let it go. I can't pretend my past didn't happen and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:58 PM
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The constant calls from the police and the hospital are negative reinforcement to the action of helping a stranger ( as per operant conditioning this would be called punishment) Being thanked by the person you helped counts as positive reinforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:57 PM
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Cause being an incel is not in my control. I don't believe it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:55 PM
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I am an incel. I am being bad so that my life of abject emptiness makes sense. So that I don't pull the trigger at the feeling of injustice of it all On my deathbed thinking to myself "why the fuck was i alone" the answer "because you were an asshole" would be far easier to deal with than "I don't know"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:53 PM
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Lossers like me have no real world significance We don't earn much, we count as one vote, we don't have much social currency. We don't reproduce so out hate dies with us. You couldn't have an easier opponent to beat and you still struggle Your other 2points are just confirming what I said. As in us bitching about women on here has no real world significance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:41 PM
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He requires acknowledgement to know that it is ok to do the right thing. Good Samaritan laws exist for this reason. If you fuck up someones day from bringing a person into the ER and big them down with forms and legal intimations that affect personal and professional commitments for even the whole day.... No one is gonna want to bring the person to the ER leaving that duty to the ambulance and the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:37 PM
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In my case, I am less likely to help if it is a woman. Why? Because I am a bad person. I have to do something to deserve being an incel so I chose to be a bad person. I would help regardless of gender Let it close for the woman. She has had love and has been in relationships, she can deal with the disappointment of a closed lift. 3. Ignore the woman. With anyluck she gets to reach somewhere late, like an interview. 4. If it's a woman ? "These shoes are made for walking" That's on her no? Should …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:33 PM
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And we have real world significance? Were you the one talking about how tiktok reels created by women which are explicitly misandrist , are just on the internet and not that important? How is me and other losers like me, bitching about bring a incel and about women in all shapes and sizes and ncounts and no of baby dadies , in any way shape or form,more influencial than tiktok fuckery?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:23 PM
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And we have real world significance? Were you the one talking about how tiktok reels created by women which are explicitly misandrist , are just on the internet and not that important? How is me and other losers like me, bitching about bring a incel and about women in all shapes and sizes and ncounts and no of baby dadies , in any way shape or form,more influencial than tiktok fuckery?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:23 PM
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While the world is cruel to short ugly men with small dicks, I don't really see any evidence of women running around calling themselves size queens. The word sluts was reclaimed, not size queen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:10 PM
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Silently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:08 PM
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You are a dude? Why the fuck are you describing how it feels to "You" If you are arguing the morality of it in the sense of comparing the morality of removing a tumor vs ending a life, the difference should be obvious no? If you are asking about the physical sensation then neither you nor I have any leg to stand on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:06 PM
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It is more important than that. Abortion and ocps have been the biggest adjuncts to women's freedoms second only to jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:26 AM
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Untrue. Sone jurisdictions (especially USA) charges and assailant with 2 counts of murder if the victim was pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:25 AM
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In a drunken driving incident or murder of a pregnant woman they don't charge with 2 counts of murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:24 AM
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1939 germany
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:23 AM
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He should have worded it much better. There is a way to engage with it in a more abstract manner but that edges into the kind of navel gazing i abhor. But on the whole his point is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:21 AM
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I agree but people started tripping balls when I tried to say that sex without a relationship established is casual. Everyone was like "what if she really really likes him, it's not casual then is it." People redefine things in a way that is convenient to their world view all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:16 AM
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By his definition that would be true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:10 AM
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But it's not though It is a life created by your actions. Abort a 100 times if you want but recognise that you are ending a life to keep yours stable. I don't mind women being given access to abortions. But I don't like the framing of a foetus trivialised to the point that you think of it as a tumor to be cut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:08 AM
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This is a weird take. Like some crazy tinfoil hat level of crazy theory It Is not that deep. It's just comes under the ambit of the banality of .... Everything. Personally I am all for womens autonomy. I am just very turned off by the framing of the foetus as a a tymour, or the refusal to consider it "taking a life" (not amounting to murder ) It's fucking weird. You are killing a life so that things are better for you. It's your right but at the same time ignoring the bare facts and implications…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:05 AM
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I can garantee this much. The second he forgives you, you will lose respect and take him for granted again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:37 PM
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Is that what you think? That the woman us interchangable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:35 PM
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Gaming term for exterior appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:33 PM
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we own our darkness women hide theirs (in general) men have a lot to learn from women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:19 PM
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we never really claimed to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:07 PM
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It's not caring for each other. It's about self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:49 PM
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Take note guys. A man in a relationship with these women is a "misogynistic bitter man" if he no longer agrees with her or takes umbrage to the way they talk about men. A group he happens to be born as a member off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:37 PM
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The fact that all the women. You know (including you) find men barely likable is a redflag. Any man who is with you is loved because he is 'different' from the rest of us. Problem is it doesn't take much to drop the knight off his horse and make him just like all of us abd al that much more easy to hate. Advice to men : Never date a misandrist. She will make you pay for being born male with a thousand cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:20 PM
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The fact that you think that's a point to think of women as virtuous is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:06 PM
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This shit is why men here get so little empathy. How are you gonna compare that to men whining their dicks arent wet? Because the ability to get out Dick's wet as you so crudely put it, is related to the the man's ability to get a relationship. To get a relationship based more firmly in love than on practical considerations. You may find this anathema to your view that men should just eat the shit served to them but men do want to be loved, to be desired and to find happiness with a partner. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:04 PM
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Men contribute to the conversation of calling late virgins and romantically unsuccessful men defective much less than women. So yes. This is womens fault. Men contribute to this by caring about being single, but having been brought up in a world where single is synonymous with undesired and therefore incomplete this is understandable. The way men are with dating right now is similar to how desperate women are depicted in Jane austens novel eras where being a spinster for women was a moral failin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:45 PM
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Because you are a woman. Because the world tells you that there is nothing wrong with you if you are single despite that clearly not being the case. We are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:13 PM
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You are married. You don't get to say that I would believe you if you were a femcel with zero intentions if ever getting into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:28 PM
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So are you not aware that women spend ridiculous amounts of time and money to engage in almost constant performative femininity, going to therapy to solve relationship/emotional issues, people pleasing, all to ensure they meet men's expectations and are a good partner? You really think you were the only one putting in the effort? Whatever they do they do for their own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:16 AM
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Sure. But let's no pretend they are fighting the patriarchy while doing so. They are actively punching down. Something they HATE when it's them in the receiving end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:15 AM
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Asking women to walk the walk when it comes to other things mattering just as much as material resources is not hypocrisy Saying that your attraction is genuine when it's anything but would be hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:55 AM
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Good for you I guess. Thank for taking the pressure off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:33 AM
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Well I am paralysed by fomo now, so I am more than likely to cheat if I feel neglected
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:24 PM
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That's just self indulgence. I was raised to think about how my actions reflect those around me I even considered how what I would do would be seen by the woman I married. Clearly that was dumb as hell seeing as women are more concerned with themselves abd what is in the now rather than a future they want to work towards Edit : and your stance is so brave as a woman. There are women here whoes mindsets and thought patterns would make them incels if they were men. These women are in relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:11 PM
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The thesis laid forth by op suggests that it does
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:08 PM
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Ideally, you try to get the other person to see the best in the world. That's what the women here frequently claim right?.. " I was hopeless, all guys sucked and then I found my unicorn. He restored my faith in humanity. if something happened to him I would probably stay single / date women " I didn't mind being with a woman who was slightly depressed as long as she was willing to listen when I gave evidence yo the contrary. If she is unwilling to listen then sure that's beyond any partners payg…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:43 PM
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Take it up at your next hive mind meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:36 PM
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Then I wouldn't deserve the treatment I get abd the only explanation is that there sonmething so fundamentally lacking in me that I barely rate as human Besides I didn't haye women for 28 -29 years of my life. That gave me nothing other than a growing sense of despondency, desperation depression and anxiety As a "bad person" I can sleep at night. My resting heart rate is 80 as opposed to 110. Sure now I plan on kms at 60 but I can realistically see myself living that long
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:34 PM
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If looking at women through this price of generic advice make them as a whole look bad perhaps that is a woman problem?. Bring it up at the next witches vs the patriarchy meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:05 PM
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If you are legally allowed to join the army abd potentially kill others abd get killed yourself then you are old enough to fuck and have relationships. Age limit for presidency makes sense because that involves leading millions of people Age limit for rentals makes sense because you put the lives of everyone else on the road at risk. Although I would have preferred drivers lisence to have a similar age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:26 PM
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Power is relative. And everything in life is because of the presence or absence of power. Women dont look at virgin men kindly, because they lack the power to live their sexual lives honestly. In their own words a man has to look like someone who has options and still chose her. As an incel do have the right to love someone? Or more accurately do I have the right to expect reciprocation? Someone so practically worthless that he was unwanted until 31 years of age, can that person legitimately cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:11 PM
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All descriptions of Chad are bullshit. The simplest one is in relation to the woman you are dealing with. Any man who was able to have sex with her by virtue of being himself without the promise of a relationship or the exchange of material benefits is a Chad compared to you. That's it. Simple Clean Elegant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:56 PM
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I hate women too. Even when I didn't hate women the blame I was dealing with was insane. Sayo g abd accepting that I am a misogynist makes it easier to understand the hate directed my way sometimes. It's the only way to stay sane in my case. Ie. - by calling myself a bad person I am able to relax my judgement on myself and my failures are easier to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:51 PM
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Then fucking raise the age of consent and make it illegal fir them yo vote. If they can sign up for the military then they are responsible for any and all choices
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:47 PM
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They are Any woman who dates abusers are potentially abusers themselves abd therefore not worthy of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:46 PM
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I would have hated you more if you were in your twenties I guess Hope your marriage stays happy. I am trying to mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:42 PM
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In the past ( just less than 2 years ) I was a true romantic. I would have tried to look for one person to grow old and die with. I have had to kill that man Now? I would be a whore to even out the lack of experience. To prove to myself that I am desirable and to make sure I am not tempted to cheat if I ever decide to give up power enough to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:40 PM
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How old are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:37 PM
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lol. woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:32 PM
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what i am saying is that i understand myself and give myself the leeway to be a dick. I dont particularly care that you find it unpleasant. I have no interest in the judgement of someone who is succeeding in life. I have no interest in the judgment of people i resent. The only thing that matters is me myself and I
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:24 PM
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i am a 31 year old virgin. I am surprised i am able to marshal the will to continue each day. I cant be better than an energy vampire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:09 PM
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nothing. Short of abuse (and maybe not even that sometimes if i feel acrimonious enough) i no longer have any sympathy for womens problems. I used to care, a lot, a few years ago. But events have proved that they dont want my or any others uggos kindness or consideration. And i have no interest in making women comfortable at my own expense ( effort and mental load)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:04 PM
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Its an improvement guys. The implication that men are trash is still there in the post but atleast she hasnt used "males " once
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:58 PM
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You both really love the cadence of your own keystrokes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:57 PM
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You can define whatever you want as what ever you want. Women on reddit have taken to defining sex they had with emotions to not be casual sex to justify even one night stands. So yeah. Even the guys who quit haven't quit. Makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:33 AM
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Why would they? I think even they have enough sense to not deny someone their lived experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:29 AM
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You wanna grow and find hobbies with a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:04 PM
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We were brainwashed in to believing that being more feminist, being better, being a good human being and doing the right thing could improve your chances - not by infinitesimal amounts as it happens in reality but such that they were just as important as attractiveness. Most fuckers here will disagree ofcourse but this is exactly the thought process fostered in boys who become nice guys. The brain washing by mothers and female friends only worsen this as they talk about how " women will like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:27 PM
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No thats not how English work. The description doesn't imply an add in condition if "must be attractive. Women have managed to break the culture so much that we directly assume "attractive" as a part of the preconditions needed to be sexy As someone who only understood this by 25, it's fucked up to expect teenage boys to be able to see through your sexs bulshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:13 PM
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hUMAN still makes good mgyow content and makes efforts to differentiate himself from woman centeered bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:36 PM
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Welcome fellow wizard. 31 and same as you. Well not the same as you considering you seem to be taking it reasonably well I am practically all the things the bloopies think of incels to be. Surviving is tough but regressing into a scumbag has made it much easier. I haven't given up yet. I am gonna try as a scumbag for a few more years. And them Ill give up and go to a whore at 40 and kms when I retire. That's the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:35 PM
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"lies, all lies" Essentially it's a way to blame men for their naturally frigid sexuality. "I am not attracted to you because you suck as a person and a human being and don't do the things that would make me happy" Vs "I am not attracted to most men yo begin with, and my sexuality is so temperamental that a change in temperature or a breeze in the morning might change it" Women are not heterosexual, they are not demisexual either. They just like better men. Which neither I nor you ( if you are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:27 PM
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Feminism is a range of socio-political movements and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. This is what I got from wiki. This is not very different from what I thought it would be but definitions change. So I chose to ask around on reddit on feminist subs. Askfeminists seemed like a good place to start. Thing is they disagreed with it because the definition implied that people who simply believed in the equality between s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:07 PM
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So tell us the much vaunted "true" definition of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:25 PM
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What passes as pretty to women is much narrower than what passes as pretty to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:21 PM
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As if you ever have a fuck. Women don't have sympathy for loser men so please don't Gaslight us into beliving that you could ever feel sorry for us. Don't blow some up our ass and call it anal sauna
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:16 PM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:15 AM
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If we can get even get one girlfriend then we can think of having a decent relationship. If the relationship is good at first try so much the better. If not, then atleast we know we are attractive enough to be worthy of one. Without any ro sntic success the only go vlusion we come to iis that maybe we deserve bad relationships . As the blue pillers say and I say to abused women - What you get is what you deserve. It's a reflection of your level
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:10 AM
2

Around the timethey feel like they should someone to marry/ have a kid/buy a home with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:03 PM
3

You are doing some kind of Antichrist training surely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:00 PM
1

Question is do they deserve to be told yo fuck off to begin with. Why are we accepting that as the baseline?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:54 PM
1

Or hear me out. These women weren't good enough to be partnered to. A relationship needs two people abd calling one person abusive it manipulative or even malicious fir not getting the result you want is incel mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:50 PM
2

It takes skill to disagree without making things awkward or contentious. Disagreeing while making your boundaries heard and not making the other person seem unreasonable for asking in a way that validates both of you is what being agreeable is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:37 PM
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I would also like a little more time to enjoy the fruits of my labour. It's nice that my family us taken care of, but what about me? I work. I retire and then I die in 2 years. That's way too bleak. I would much rather die in an accident or something or chose the date for some sick ass palindrome like 09/09/2009
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:08 AM
-10

But mlke virgins are treated as damaged goods. It doesn't help. But if you feel so badly about it you can try telling women they shouldn't prioritise themselves in this situation. Similarly if a man decides that being with a woman dealing with the squelae of sexual assault, we can't tell him to swallow his medicine like a good little boy Abd just deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:15 AM
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Nah, you have posted some pretty unhinged shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:07 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:03 AM
-8

I think they are just equating the end result. A relationship with either would require a patient partner and lots of reassurance. In terms of expectations I think society readily expects men to offer this to these women not the least because they survived a crime. While it hold no suck expectation of women. The similarity is that the person who needs to provide that care love and reassurance is not responsible for the trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:02 AM
2

Lol. Atleast you found "your power"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:58 PM
9

For a heartstopping second I thought this was a windmill post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:57 PM
1

No. In your case you were just crap at voicing what you were and we're not ok with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:56 PM
1

Fuck For 60 yr accelerated exit is the way to go I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:55 PM
2

Women are so homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:36 PM
2

Why are you blaming the guy for your inability to set boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:35 PM
1

Feel better buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:33 PM
1

If you were that scared you would take any 'trigger' seriously right? So why is telling one of you in plain English that the guy you fancy us not safe - not a trigger. Even if it comes from the mouth of a loser ? Why do I have to risk injury to my psyche to try and save her ass ? Especially if the injury to my psyche ( the one that started my doom spiral when I was 28) was caused by her mocking me for bothering to try and keep her safe? I stand by it . I don't give a fuck what happened to her la…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:31 PM

Please. Women don't give a fuck about safety if the guy is hot enough. One bitch called me and incel for warning her about a hot rapist she was flirting with. I didn't even presume to be worth her time but apparently women think you need a certain level of social clout to even be a good person. She deserves whatever happens to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:23 PM
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Why are you so smug about it? Women win The always fucking win so godamn much abd so godamn always
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:15 PM
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You don't find any man likeable The second he does something that triggers you he becomes a part of the men who disgust you. Goddess has to be a woman to make us want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:13 PM
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If I was guaranteed to find the love of my life the next day, I would let 5 6foot guys run a train on me. That's how desperate I am And I am not gay. Ps : it's a nice admission of the almost asexual nature of women that you compare what you feel for all men around you to what we as heterosexual men feel for most men around us in a sexual context - indifference to disgust. Women are not even heterosexual. You don't even like men I don't understand what kind of suck joke god played in making us wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:06 PM
1

Not transitioning. Just want to stop wanting love or sex. Artificial budhist route. Desire is the root of sin after all. No desire no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:05 PM
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Cause I am not talking about me. If I was on fire in front of you I know you wouldn't throw your piss on me to put me out. That's how I feel about women. But this is about men in general and you can't even acknowledge the inherent bulshitery in the narrative that compels the men in your life and the world around you to keep being good little workhorses for nothing in return
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:03 PM
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The idea that a man who struggles is mostly not decent is the one that makes me want to .... The me I am right now absolutely is garbage. The me from 5 years ago was not. I am who I am now because I read similar sentiments enough number if times to belive them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:59 PM
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Fine. Deflect I need to accept everything you say at face value about how wonenare disadvantaged abd you don't need to accept a damn thing from my side even something as irrefutable as retirement and mortality Woman gonna woman. I learnt to be the way I am looking at you people. Self Interested and devoid of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:51 PM
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I am 5'6" I have had to risk bodily harm any time I go out at night or disagree with the bigger guys. I did it so often it doesn't even register as risk anymore But it's still there. I have very little sympathy for womens fear
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:49 PM
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And yet men face discrimination in that they retire 5 years later while dying 5 years before women with lesser years to enjoy their golden years. Women benefit by a longer duration of social benefits ( which do help) abd by inheriting the wealth and life policies of their spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:47 PM
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I wanted to see if there was hope for me or I should consider chemical castration. We need to see representation to see a better future for ourselves after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:41 PM
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Grievous bodily harm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:34 PM
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I would happily risk gbh for love. Women do have it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:27 PM
2

How long were younan incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:20 PM
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I am not gonna sit down and justify my worth as a person and as someone worthy of love. Everytime I try I am told I am not. So, I am not I am the scum of the earth. I hate women. I am the kind of evil that despoils everything . And accepting myself as that I can do anything and be anything I don't even need to get better because what kind of scumbag tries to get better If I die alone, the world is just If some hapless woman gives me a chance then she is the idiot. Being a bad person. Deciding to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:55 PM
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I already acknowledged those risks . You aren't teaching me anything. And frankly I would brave those risks, rape bodily injury abd death of I could find love. As it stands I would have taken the exit a long time ago so your position still seems like one of previledge to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:51 PM
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I hate how easy women have it I hate it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:49 PM
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That'sa turnoff frankly. Men don't necessarily want to be with overgrown children either Like I gavebsaid many times, if women were not women many of them would be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:36 PM
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You were just talking about how you wanted to be with someone you could defer to and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:35 PM
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I don't do it because I can't afford to. And I probably eontbstop if I start. I am my parents retirement. I have to save for all 3 of us or I will be in a position of wanting one of them to die
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:14 PM
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In a Alternate universe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:11 PM
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You don't get it. I would hire male models to hit on and sleep with women I dislike. If they can't be seduced? Good for them atleast they are decent in that one aspect. If they do kiss or fuck, I would send the evidence over to their husbands to blow up their life. Considering the way my life is this might be the only bit of pleasure I can achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:10 PM
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Some findomes cone off prety personable even over messages. Most others are just there to fleece 10:90
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:05 PM
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Good forhim Iguess. In an alternate universe he would be jacking off to feet pics abd sending 1/10th of his income everymonth like tithe to his 'mistress" who doesn't even meet him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:03 PM
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You are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:51 PM
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You would rather be the child then? "Look up to abd deffer to" is a very pointed statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:50 PM
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I don't think that's true. They want influence over the mrn they like but not absolute control
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:49 PM
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Respects here mean regarded as an equal person and not allowing disdain tomark your perception of them. It implies a level of equal footing in the relationship itself even if thevpower is imbalanced in private
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:48 PM
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And you don't think women would have a problem with men doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:41 PM
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The go bag is an indictment that you don't think your partner is safe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:40 PM
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That guy is my role model now I doubt I can pull it off so I might have spend my meager paycheck on hiring desperate make models to hit on specific women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:38 PM
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I know enough about feminism to know that the average footsoldier doesn't have any nuance when acting on its behalf. Abd that's the faction that needs to be addressed not the lofty ideals esposed by the academics that sucker you into thinking they about men at all. Their concern begins and ends at women. If men are though if it's in relationship to how they harm or benefit women and if men are helped it was purely incedental rather than a goal of that particular action. Also as a loser male, I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:35 PM
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Because men are for ed to accept. It was accept or be called misoginist or backward or abusive . It was accept or be left behind as the world changes around you as more men accept independent women and non standard women.. Women don't have and will never have this pressure. Freed from the onus of having to chose a partner atleast in part for survival, they simply prefer to go for "better" men or stay single. They classify submissive men as lesser men and in general will not chose them. Most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:09 PM
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I was copy pasting the last line in my post. I didn't mean to say you specifically. Rather you in general The explanation for the disdain is not as simple as incompatibility. In wider society there is a distinct attitude that people hold towards men who transgress their masculinity. It's much higher than the general disaproval towards women doing the same thing ( transgressing their femininity ) which is reducing every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:45 PM
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Let's reffer back to the general disdain women hold for submissive, masochist men, cuckolds and findom paypigs - without a doubt all of you consider them responsible for their decision to be those things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:36 PM
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I don't think women who would accept being able to engage sexually with a submissive man would be able to maintain a relationship with them without disrespect being a bigger part of their reation over time. Even normal relationships feel prey to it Besides that, in wider society men and women dunk on submissive men all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:25 PM
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Assuming your point is that gender transgression is the reason for the difficulty... Dominant women are not viewed with the sort of disgust submissive men are regarded with. Redpill mdn are trying to make it a thing, but most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:06 PM
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Submissive women don't struggle to find a partner like submissive men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:39 PM
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It's not about being independent. On the submissives end it is about feeling - possesed, or owned, being inherently abd irrovably somones. In a trusting relationship I can't imagine a deeper bond. Just because you are submissive, doesn't mean that you are not your own person, or don't want human rights or want to be chattle. It doesn't mean that you are unsuccessful in general. It's offering yourself with your love and devotion. (In its healthiest context) A dominant person in this scenario is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:20 PM
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I want everyone to notice the temporal gaslighting that men are enduring. Up until the recent past the rhetoric was that "it's not that you were the last pic, she chose you/ is married to you now - that means she loves you". Hell this was the only framing women would give to men arguing against the AFBB fear and narrative. Now the bluepillers are out and out agreeing with it. They are doing it in two ways They are doing it by furthering the discussion of love and sexual expression as two seperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:27 PM
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I don't think it is the same. A financial dominatrix fills a niche in a market in a way that she is able to charge for her services while maintaining a greater amount of security compared to her vanilla counterparts (ie prostitutes) A submissive man is never in such a demand that a dominant woman would pay for his services.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:14 PM
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This is a great comment. It's something that I understood intrinsically but have not been able to successfully put into words. You are right. Women (in general) as they are right now don't seem able nor willing to see the totality of men's humanity and sexuality. Not to say that men don't do something similar wrt to womens fear but there is a general social consciousness that pushes to make men more mindful of it, while women simply don't have that and if they do then it is within the context of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:10 PM
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there was another girl working as his junior. He pesteredherfor sex under duress of ruining her academic career by turning the consultants against her - that would be sexual harrasment and it would have been rape if she went through with it. she confide in my friend and I, and the two of us confronted him, warning him of consequences. when he stopped the overert harassment and carried on with passiv agressive attacks, that girl went to the superintendent, with my friend and I backing her up. Fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:20 PM
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I tried warning a girl about a wouldberapist she was flirting with ( he would have been one if it wasn't for me) and she called me and incel. Does my post history justify that? Never mind don't answer that, ascribing value to your bullshit would be like asking for a economic wellness garauntee from Srilanka or Pakistan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:01 AM
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Women never gangup on someone they see as less than themselves ( loser men) That never happens? See them levitating in they air How would that happen if they were so full of goodness gass that it propels them by escaping from their colony /S
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:59 AM
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All of that doesn't seem to matter . For some people being a virgin taints everything. They may feel fundamentally .. not simply broken but inherently defective. Or rather like a golem made to exist pretending to be a human being, while being excluded by the others because of the emotional uncanny valley effect. By lacking those human experiences compared to their peers, they become functionally more inhuman as they grow older. In my specific example - I am a surgeon. The vocation - It helps. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:47 AM
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You write a book and it is panned by critics everywhere and your crates of printed copies just take up space in your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:39 AM
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You sound so pleased with your own sex. It's nauseating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:20 AM
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So pitch perfect rebel. Not gonna lie that pretty extreme. I am at 30 myself. Is there no way to get back into it without calories counting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:43 PM
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Whats your BMI. Just to get an objective idea of how obese you are since you are calling yourself fat. If you hesitate to give a number let's say between rebel Wilson pitch perfect and Taylor Swift where would you fall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:36 PM
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It's true though. Like I can belive I am a great surgeon all I want, but if all of my patients are dying, I am just delusional. Body dysmorphia is a disorder of the mind. Having negative self esteem despite evidence to the contrary in your life is possible but something that requires treatment. But blue pill asks men who are Constantly failing and being rejected with no prior history of sucess to "just be confident" is become either delusional or liars. Something many of us struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:33 PM
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Good to know. Men who get love and affection at later ages should hold the same energy. 50:50 or nothing. Men will not treat the women they are with with expensive dinner dates or true emotional investment because they are not - checks notes - Beyonce or Taylor swift Just to reiterate - men want the women who are in relationships with them to treat them as if they are actually sexually attracted to them, which in my mind doesn't seem like an insane ask. Maybe it does to women. I. Which case I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:42 PM
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Chances are zero. The posiibility of being able to satisfy a woman never entered my mind. /S Ps ; i am kidding, I get mad bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:40 PM
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I want to bring up the fact that women are infact turned on by status. As per a study I read a while back, women reported a higher sexual desire and arousal to richer men. It might not be just straight gold digging it might be that she is goldsexual. The researcher thought it had something to so with status and power Good looking men are do have that status to be able to validate women who are chosen by them, atleast as long as the interaction was understood to be a one night stand. The best exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:38 PM
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Easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:40 AM
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They are racist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:36 AM

why wouldn't you do more to keep yourself safe if safety is your primary concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:18 PM

well as man you certainly dont get to have a say here, lets hear from the ladies shall we, bluepiller?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:16 PM
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then this doesnt concern you, yet you insist on interjecting yourself, like a turd on a sidewalk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:06 PM
-1

love the pearl clutching act from you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:05 PM
-3

stop moralising
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:04 PM
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a few years at best. or else negotiate being able to go outside the relationship for satisfaction or indulge in more non penetrative acts, or use a strap on with her or use an dildo on her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:04 PM

that just sounds like loser self defeatist talk you are no different that the blackpill incel your ilk hates You ascribe no power to your self in how you may affect your outcome and you have the gall to mock the incels for how doomed they sound Hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:53 PM

releasing a starving polar bear at the womne march would be peak edgelord energy. That would be crazy to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:49 PM

Thats convenient and goes counter to AFBB, and the argument that womne mature with age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:47 PM

they would be weaker than linebackers and hence easier to fight off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:47 PM

It certainly is when it AFBB time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:46 PM

then it should affect the way you date. If i was a woman and in a constant state of fear due to being surrounded by people bigger and stronger than me, I would learn how to use guns( which i did ) I would learn how to fight. I would run everyday to build the stamina i would need to flee or fight. I would look for men who are only as strong as me or weaker to be around. The fact that bulk of womne don't do this shows me that they don't in fact think of that threat on a day to day baisis. Yet they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:46 PM

You are more likely to fight off a man at your height than a 6'2" line backer sorry. If women are so scared that they need to keep talking about how they are wary of men and to justify poor treatment of men and bad reactions and behaviors then i am within my rights to question legitimacy of said reason especially when it doesn't change how you react in a romantic an sexual context
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:40 PM
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i cant believe there are people who take pride in leech behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:36 PM
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the parasitism projection is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:35 PM
1

you would certainly deserve it. I am sure you split the check with the womne you date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:35 PM
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No fucking shit dude. Thats the entire point men are making when they complain about shit like opertumism As a guy if i have been alone and a virgin all through my 20s and only get interest now that i am a surgeon, i know that it is not love, it is straight oprtunism The simplest demonstration is Female lawyers. They end up marrying other highere earning individuals. The number or them marrying low earning men like baristas, teachers would be in a minority. "love" as women define it has no moral…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:30 PM
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its not high treason man. I have used the exact same phrase withe friends when there is a lul in conversation and it works perfectly well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:22 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:10 PM
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whats the point deny and you will call us incels try to tell that you are a good person and you will call us fundamentally evil from the beginning. Your ilk indulges in character assassination so potent it makes us wonder if we are even allowed to justify our existence the only mentally consistent way to argue with women is to accept yourself as the most evil and vile misogynistic human being imaginable and to then live it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:10 PM
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that's a lot of assumptions for a woman to make especially as a woman who is not even sexually attracted to men Why dont you go out on a date and have sex or something. Why are you here to poke at the incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:07 PM
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Give humans the sexual isomorphism of hyenas and watch a much worse world unfold before you. Then again as a woman you would just support anything that ends up as a net good for womne
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:05 PM
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I am complaining about being taught to never hit womne and to never cuss them out. Some womne actively ask for asswhoopings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:04 PM
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The way we comprehend people talking about harm afflcted by men and women leads to situations where we assume a greater threat to acts commuted by men vs womne. The language you are using is only furthering that perceptions by calling what WOMNE do shade. We think of petty selena gomez hailey beiber beef when you say shade. You are being disingenuous if you try to present that word choice as apprriate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:02 PM
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It sounds like you are dismissing his experience by calling them shaded Its like me dismissing women experiences of sexual harassment as light shoves and brushes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:59 PM
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So women can be wary, but not TOO wary? What is the exact amount of wariness that women can have before men get offended? Why are you trying to make moderation sound insane blupiller?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:57 PM
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I would much rather get raped once or twice by a gay man i couldn't fight off,than try to fight the legal system to prove that i am innocent of having committed rape
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:55 PM
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take some goddamn responsibility for yourself. Isnt that what you say to incels? Despite how we are raised, despite what we are told to believe, what ever the end result of that is is entirely our fault. Admit to your own bullshit misandry and admit that it was caused by a stupebdous lack of independent thinking. And then fucking work on it to reach the bare minimum And even doing that doesn't make you worthy of praise. It just makes you better than the rabble
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:54 PM
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In a world where military service is considered a legitimate career path I don't see any reason why prostitution should be illegal no matter what it costs the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:08 PM
-6

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:01 AM
2

I would rather they stay and get shot. The warmachine could do with more kindling. Sex doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:19 AM
1

No it doesn't. It just makes me realise how useless I am invalidating everything fucked up about my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:03 AM
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We can't get out foot in. Being a good partner? I would have been a half way feblcent partner in my past before the rage and resentment I was an incel before I am an incel now I fucking loathe women It hasn't changed anything one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:02 AM
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I used to be champion feminist. Why wasn't I fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:59 AM
2

I would just up my asking salary to make the time wasting worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:58 AM
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So by default you are setting up a situation where a man who is struggling in dating can be called a hateful person. After all if he wasnt a hateful person he would be able to date. It's just so fucking hipocroticaly moralistic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:57 AM
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Bull fucking shit. When we insult someone for being fat, we are doing it not only because being fat is something they are insecure about but also because fat us recognised as an insult, as a lesser state of being
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:51 AM
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Because you are scared of the "could be violet aspect" abd you are bothered by the "whining" aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:47 AM

2010 pintrest boards want their quote back
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:30 PM

Not true. It's a matter of recognising your niche and being consistent. You want me send you links or something - some of the scummier ones and some of the more ethical ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:54 PM

The currency exchange is not favourable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:52 PM
1

Then I do t see why prostitution is illegal while being a soldier is not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:42 PM
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Go talk yo the guys saying that. I have always held the blackpulled view that women literally don't need to change or work on themselves or anything to find a guy willing to put up with their shit. Even if they dont no one holds them responsibile for their failure. Except dumbfucks like me with nothing better to do than jerk off on the internet, and our opinions and rage abd general wish that the world should just end doesn't mattee
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:41 PM

Of course not. You could.if you wanted to, with some artistic ability and ability to recognise your niche
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:35 PM
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I am saying that prostitution is a high risk job with can be considered legit, on par if slightly below let's say meat packing and serving in the military. Both are considered legitimate professions despite the risks involved. When the sex is non consensual it is illegal, no different from slavery. There is no discussion to confone that. But exchange of sex for material goods and services is perfectly fine imo, in a society that sees no problem with military and other high rudk professions. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:44 AM
2

Does it matter?. I would have more company atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:55 AM
0

No. Tell them that they are all trash. The ones who get chosen will be happy hey got chosen at all and hopefully treat even the worst girls with uncommon goddess, grateful for "a crumb of pussy" so to speak. The rest would just accomodate to a life without meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:54 AM
1

All jobs are financial slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:52 AM
1

That's amazing. I would apply and pretend to be mentally subnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:49 AM
0

Solution: tell all boys that they are unnecessary and unwanted. Tell them that they would be lick if they have sex and that being unwanted is more likely It would create more realistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:48 AM
1

Hey man. Having a place where I can have sex to know how not to fumble and at least know wethere or not I have impotence would be a godsend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:46 AM
0

You make it sound like having sex for money is traumatising some how. Bring forced to have sex for money or otherwise is traumatising. Chosing to have sex for money is no more traumatizing than a high risk job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:45 AM
2

The losers are better off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:43 AM
4

You are like an equal oppertunity Kendrick Lamar . "I hate the way that you walk, the way that you talk..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:42 AM
0

if men can't be happy when they are alone then they are defective and deserve to be unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:32 AM

if you can get your morning Starbucks covered consistently that's a win
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:31 AM

I wasn't saying women should get into findom so much as "they can". I am saying that there is a general breakdown in standards of right and wrong and some of it is because of the popularity of OF. it took away the stigma of online sex work,made it more aspirational than it used to be. and because more women are doing it, more women justify other women doing it. this is where we are at a growing number of college aged girls are getting their lives subsidised by their simps. they are gonna get cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:26 AM
1

incels are doubly fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:04 AM
2

he is just not cool I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:56 AM
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I am.just. doing the incel thing in reverse. People already do the thing where think because I have never had sex and never been loved, I can't know. And don't know what I am talking about. I am.doing the same thing. I am.calling you a sex Haver ( not sarcastically. Dead serious) and.telling you that you don't know.what the fuck you are talking about when you are talking about guys like me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:18 AM
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It's amazing how women take this for granted. They ability to find someone. And they have the gall to tell us that dating is just as hard for them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:14 AM

Can't standin your uver masculine presencebecause it will result in me.getteing banned. Sorry. Not gonna have this discussion with a pedant like you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:13 AM
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Don't state the obvious sexhaver
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:12 AM

Unethical.is the new ethical. With women getting into it in greater numbers whole sections of society are 'yass queen"ing this transition. Any number of feminist talking points from womens inherent weakness, lack of safety, historical lack of power, and men just being stupid is used to justify this in a culture of "got mine , fuck you". As more and more women say they owe men.nothing, are you surprised that women withdraw even basic decency like " not take advantage of men"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:11 AM
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Because trash is more successful than me . Because trash is more entitled thanme. Which is why he tried to rape. And yet I am.called entitled.for being upset that I am.alone. It's like women prefer rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:07 AM
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My point is not that "get rich is" terrible advice. My point is that men are held to an unnatural standard before their complaints are dismissed. As you are so fabulously demonstrating..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:06 AM
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I am sorry. Lack of love and sex has left me emotionally stunted and crippled. I don't understand how to move on. Ever time I fell in love it feels like my last shot at being human. Or else I have to content myself with being a golem for ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:53 AM
3

There is an ocean between that and making society not view men through the lens of "Only Good guys deserve sympathy, good guys never ask for sympathy" But fuck it. Expecting anything from society is pointless. Only good guys deserve anything. Goodguys don't complain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:50 AM
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I am none.of that. Why am.i.alone? Why is the rapist I tried to intervne against able.to.have double digit bodycount even when only counting the consentual ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:48 AM
1

Id that a level you can satisfy? Are you able to do it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:46 AM
2

No. It needs to be pushed as an option so that our sexhaver brothers and sisters can continue fucking in peace without having to hear us whine about how hard it is. As long as that is achieved I don't think they will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:46 AM
0

Doesn't matter If a man is unhappy about being alone then he is simply a worse human being than someone who is in a relationship. That's the functional result of how we treat men. We have made a society where men complaining about being single.disqulifies them from manhood and consideration. "Only budhas deserve sympathy and budhas never ask for sympathy."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:44 AM
2

Thereis no magic thresholdofeffort or action where a man can complaintabout dating or being alone or being an incel He could be perfect and the fact that he is complaining about being unhappy would be proff to society that he doesn't deserve happiness. Ie men need to become enlightened like the founders of religion if the are unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:41 AM
4

I have no relationship period so big fucking whoop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:38 AM
1

Maybe we should endorse men undergoing voluntary orchidectomy I call it the eunuch pill. "You are never gonna be man enough so why bother? Remove your balls and the source of your problems "
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:36 AM
1

Well I am so sorry that I have never been a relationship or had sex to be able to know better than. As sex havers should you not be able to show grace and maturity to your stunted fellow men rather than outright disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:34 AM
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You don't know man. The fuck is this projection. Where you an incel like me? Is that why you know. Respecting womenjust turns you into incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:32 AM
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Well I am.so sorry for not having had sex or been in a relationship so I wouldn't know. I will call what I have felt love. Don't you dare take that away from me. Cause what you are saying is that I haven't been fully human like you because I have never been in a relationship.or ever fucked.. Which is such a goddamn elitist position to take. I am.just as human as you, mentally diseased though I may be. I have loved. I have lived. The only difference between you and I is that I have never been suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:31 AM
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I think the answer is further isolation. Really fuck up men . Tell them that it is all their fault. If they can't be happy with fuck all love and friends and support, it is their fault and their responsibility. They can't be happy because they are just lesser human beings because if they were good men then they wouldn't be miserable or feel bad in their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:26 AM
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Is he supposed to get over being rejected in no time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:23 AM
2

Don't gate keep love sexhaver
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:19 AM
15

The answer for men us nothing but ever increasing levels of personhood. You are poor ? Get rich. You are unattractive? You are fucked because even if you think you are attractive if you can't get a girl then you are unattractive. Loving yourself becomes and Jigsaw game in this situation but hey if you can't live yourself it is your fault. You are a sexless loser? You should be happy alone. You fell in love with someone who doesn't love you back? Thems the breaks If a man is alone and unhappy, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:12 AM

Findom is a booming market if you are an average woman. Even if it is not enough to live on having randos subsidising your life is nothing to sneeze at. You don't even need to meet them in person. Although there is more to be made that way, or by selling your used socks and shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:05 AM
1

It's not true. Emotional conection is a yoke they recognise as having power. They think back to the past in how they acted with boyfriends they truly wanted and remember it's potency. Being with a beta bux using his emotional and monetary support to inflate her standard of living will be under threat if there is a chance that he can get emotionally invested in another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:44 AM
1

That'sa no go. Unfortunately the person I am now needs reassurance that I am wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:40 AM
2

Depends on the why. If she feared my insecurity enough that she was willing to make this conscetion out of genuine fear of losing me? It would work. I wouldn't even take her up on it, but it would demonstrate to sone degree that I am wanted for more that being the sexless human emotional support doll. It wouldn't even have to go that far if she make me feel sexually desired. More likely than not the offer is likely to be a duplicitous one, where she is not bothered enough to want to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:39 AM
4

SO i am a scumbag. I accept. Now what? The women were right a decade of romantic isolation, because you were right I am the worst thing to walk the earth and as such i must full fill my misogynistic directive to just make every woman and girl in the world be repulsed by me. Fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:57 PM
6

You are right about that. The ones who care tough, care very much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:51 PM
1

nah dude. If a guy thinks sex is important for a relationship, then it is. as an incel i have no leg to stand on but i agree with him whatever that is worth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:31 PM
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I hate that you have the experiences that you do while I am 31 years old and a virgin. How nice. You can explore your kinks and stuff. I don't even know if my dick will stand up when I am in the presence of a woman How I hate my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:48 PM
4

Sounds like the kind of thing sexhavers tell lvm, betas and incels to keep them in line "All that passionate sex j has and won't have with you, it's but that important baby! I love you! I'll just never want you the way you want me to want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:46 PM
3

I don't think a lesbian should have a say in the dynamics of hererosexual relationships. Maybe women are that way. But this is the relationship between a man and a woman. It doesn't exist to solely make a woman happy but to make the man happy as well. As such if a man's opinion ( one that is shared by many of them) is that sex important to that relationship then sex is important to that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:44 PM
0

Would.A woman stay with me ifIcut my dickoff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:41 PM
4

I hope not. As a miserable fuck j want more company
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:31 PM
4

So why make divorce have financial effects. Why not seperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:29 PM
2

This is hilarious. Do women now, when they refused to settle with average men. Are they being unrealistic gold diggers? Are they anti-national causing the decline in the birthrates of their nations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:28 PM
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cause i am an incel, i am not happy and seeing you people reminds me of the absence in the center of my chest. I resent being locked out of the happiness you people take for granted You know that feeling you get when seeing millionaire kids just spend their money, how entitled they are. don't you feel disgusted but also mildly jealous? that's how i feel when i see you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:41 PM
0

Nah. I was just hoping god would care a little bit about me being miserable. I am not asking for my life to get better.i am just asking for all of our lives to end at the same time. That's not entitlement I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:02 PM
1

Do they spam the comments in relationship advice threads where the couples reveal their age? Do they act weird around women hanging out with boytoys? Do they talk about passport sisters going to the Caribbean for some brotha dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:58 PM
0

you dated as well no? what the fuck is eating yoju up as a 31 year old incel i reserve the right to be more angry about my life than you have any right to be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:26 PM
0

whatever dude. atleast they got to be loved and had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:19 PM
1

well they are not gonna condemn them for it. And if the womne thus inclined get access to tight asses, so much the better for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:18 PM
2

you can easily get the relationship you want. All the things womne say when blaming incels for their failures, they actually apply to you, you spoilt child!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:59 PM
2

Again, that isn't something a genuinely kind person would say. Genuine kindness is not conditional, nor is it contingent on getting a sort of treatment back. The fact that you call being kind being wasted effort means you were only kind so you could get something. Easy to say as someone who doesn't live that life I dont know why i am arguing with you. I already accepted that i am a terrible horrible scum of the earth person. It is my duty to just all round be terrible in all possible ways, cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:57 PM
1

It doesnt excuse it.. thats a weird thing to ask No. I am just saying that as long as it benefits womne, women might argue for it anyway regardless of optics arguing against Older male age ga relationships is good for womne because in their mind the risk of abuse is lowered Cheering on Older female age gap relationships - good for women as it increases the options they enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:53 PM
2

women who complain about dating doubly so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:49 PM
2

you are a 19 year old vocel. please shut up you privileged dumbass. With your level of optionality if you cant find a good guy to get married to by the time you are 28, you are worse than me as a 31 year old incel You dont have the right to be this petulant Goddamn! If you dont find a decent man, you are infact a moron
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:46 PM
1

Nah. I am just burned out on being kind for over a decade and still being treated like a slug on the ground. Since the treatment i get couldnt get worse, i decided to be worse too. My life is better now in terms of effort wasted. I can direct more of my efforts to self care, so thats a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:40 PM
2

God is commiting a crime by letting our planet exist unsmited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:37 PM
1

men shouldt have to have jobs to be worth love. when that is your lived reality it is difficult to see love as anything but opertunism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:32 PM
1

Exactly, i can list the genderbent incels by user name. Not malciously either They would genuinely suffer if they became men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:30 PM
4

women deserve the rudeness is fine is a weird expectation to have for women, just as its weird for women to expect us to lead or to make her feel feminine by our height and behaviour. Frankly thats just low selfesteem behaviour 50-50 5,. then show relationships, acheivable relationships where a womans income positvely benefits a man, as long as womans your money is our money and my money is my money attitude persists, men will see no benefit t dating a woman who makes 50,000 dollar more than ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:29 PM
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there is no reason to be kind to women. At least as someone who receives very little of it, i see no reason to give back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:25 PM
2

for people who claim that loser like me are low on empathy, you are pretty fucking devoid of it too The femboy thing is just surface level right? on the inside you are just as much of a scumbag as me haha very ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:23 PM
3

we are trash. Unworthy of even the sweat that drips from your bodes obviously. Good I wish this world would just end with all of us just dying I cant stand your happiness. I just wish all of us would stop existing simply out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:21 PM
0

Whatever helscpe we are going into it cant coe fast enough. Where is a godamn planet ender meteorite when you need one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:19 PM
1

oh how wonder full. after never experiencing teenage love, formative relationships i now get the pleasure of marrying the first person i think i love ( with no conceton of redflags and abuse) with and fuck Oh the lord truly blessed my life!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 PM
4

I had one try to get with me when i was 23. Should have had sex with her instead of being concerned about her like she was a human being with feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:14 PM
2

they will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:11 PM
1

Your fanfic is disturbing but it tracks with my experience of rapists and abusers still being desired enough for relationships while i stew in my impotent ( in more ways than one ) rage at being an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:09 PM
1

yes yes. your tastes are more moral than wha men think it is. You and your preference are special. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:06 PM
0

this is such a bullshit cop out. the kind of navel gazing argument that brigs you things like : Small dick energy doesnt contribute to mens insecurity with their dick size Good personality doesnt imply moral goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:05 PM
2

its not unusual there was a situation around the metoo when lots of feminist academics were sending out opeds against winestein and lambasting the womne and men of hollywood who had given him credibility enough to do his fuckshit. That same year one of the Professors of gender studies was accused of abuse of power and sexual harassment ( the guys name was Nimrod, a TA) and much of these same feminists began to write letters in support of her. like you i would love to think there is a greater mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:58 PM
1

You tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:51 PM
1

maybe they just deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:46 PM
1

you are right, i am at the verge of getting orchidectomy done out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:45 PM
1

what the fuck? do you fancy your selves our saviors? You arent taking notes, you are poking at us with sticks , wondering if we bleed the same or if we are monsters somehow. You stand to the side laughing at our nakedness and as we roll in our shit and dirt. YOu arent the wonderful people you think you are. You are a troglodyte visiting a zoo. You just happen to be loved by another troglodyte
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:43 PM
1

i hope you joy turns to ash in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:40 PM
2

Fuck that. None of you deserve a better version of us. We are fully aware that we are drinking poison to curse you as we die. Ill just reach for the next shot glass of bitterness hoping and raying our happiness gets taken from you so that you know and understand what it is like to be us. Yes. I know that makes me a scumbag. I dont give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:40 PM
1

It's not just that they see it as casual sex but they arbitrarily shift the goal posts to whatever situation suits the woman and damaged the man's ego. Here they are discounting his perception of the situation by calling it not casual. When it suits them they will call it casual if he was complaining about her sleeping with other people while they hadn't defined exclusivity. It's insidious arbritary and semantic bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:58 PM
2

Only for the ones higher up on the hierarchy. The average man feels no kinship for them.or each other. You might see it as such because women do esee each other like that, but men don't. The only place it manifests that way is in the military
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:53 PM
1

I take a few people seriously. I don't take him seriously and you even less so But again if you could link to where i reacted the way you described. No shade. It's useful for me to track my less than charitable moments to maintain control for as long as I can
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:06 AM
0

I used to think i was good. Women like you have thoroughly disabused me of my notion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:55 AM
1

Must be nice from.that ivory tower of yours. Her having sex and not having sex is not my gripe. Honestly what she did was not a terrible thing either. I can't stand the women on that sub laying into the guy because he felt a certain way about it. Call it an equal and opposite reaction if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:54 AM
2

Mostly jk... Not really... But jk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:46 AM
0

I don't think l have done that, and I am generally pretty charitable unless I am irritated ( which is admittedly a lot of the time) Could you link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:14 AM
1

What you see it as doesn't matter does, it. With feelings women anden can just argue in semantics to make any gripe seem unreasonable when it is not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:00 AM
2

All that great and all but the words should be defined well. There have been situations where girl and guy are sleeping together and are getting closer and get into a relationship. A few months into the relationship the guy realises the girl had been sleeping with others until they defined exclusivity. When co fronted the girl defended herself saying that it was casual until they spelled it out. Or the relationship advice subreddit all the women championed her distinction saying that if he wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:59 AM
2

She said That she wants to wait until engagement before having sex She has not engages in casual sex. Tell me what your interpretation after being told that would be and I will decide if you are full of shit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:08 AM
1

The answer is ofcourse she should do what she wants but she should have been transparent about it. Because by hiding it she has made the optics look bad for her self. As I mentioned in the post. I don't think she did anything too egregious and needs to be dealt with with sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:04 AM
3

Becausehe didn'thave to offer commitmentto have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:01 AM
2

Nah dude.... The fuck is that even mean? Sex without commitment is casual sex. Wikipedia entry on casual sex : Casual sex is sexual activity that takes place outside a romantic relationship and implies an absence of commitment, emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners. Examples are sexual activity while casually dating, one-night stands, prostitution or swinging and friends with benefits relationships. You don't get to change what words mean to you counter to the larger meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:57 AM
4

Inocent unti proven guilty is a legal concept. As long as no evidence exists to cat dobut withinn your mindits isstill pretty gauche to start talking about how the guy was railroaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:54 AM
3

All the more reason. The only thing it proves is that she can be moved to sexual action quickly and the fact that she has no urge to do so over the last 10months is worrisome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:52 AM
8

were they talking about it in coffee shops or in marches. where they talking about it n mainstream sub reddits? or where they talking like that on 4 chan or tro or even on here??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:51 PM
1

you are right. But liberal discorse has a very pro woman bias . You just make them uncomfortable with your existence - how could a woman having all the freedom and option chose to abstain. How does that reflect on y choice to not do that. Is she a trad mole?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:49 PM
0

not doing anything is different from actually arguing in their favor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:41 PM
1

nah dude. This wasnt that bad. so she made a pros and cons list there are some excellent examples bu this isnt one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:33 PM
5

if you loved him you wouldnt resist being able to give it to him for nothing, Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:23 PM
6

Certainly happens more often than women coming to defend men against women You are doing it right now are you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:20 PM
5

thank you for doing the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:15 PM
4

What self sabotage. You don't call blowing up the hull of a drowned submarine sabotage. As for why? the women here have convinced me that i was deluding myself into thinking that i was a good man I must have always been a scumbag seen as i am an incel at 31. How else could a man fail so pathetically until there wasnt something wrong with him and his character I just accepted that assessment and am attempting to live up to my misogynistic potential
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:14 PM
5

men often dot do this and moe often than not are set upon by other men when they do this as you are doing now. women don't do that - neither to the same degree or number
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:05 PM
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because that grace is not extended to us. I am no longer gonna carry womens emotional water for them. they need to be better, jut as they have been telling us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:00 PM
2

My brother in christ, with love i say to you, you dont know what it is like to live in a truly rude and callous one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:56 PM
2

So be it. I am not gonna allow the rest of the world to pretend reject like me don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:35 PM
6

She had to disclose it so that he can make the decison, especially since she is the one insisting on celibacy until they are engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:33 PM
3

in polite society we see those men as scum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:32 PM
6

Honestly. Not a whole lot. To me it seems like an unfortunate situation. Best i can tell she had sex early with a barman and seeing that the relationship dint work out she internalized the lesson that having the sex early makes her lose her value and will lead to more broken relationships - wrong lesson to learn but what can you do. She correctly guessed that telling him that she had casual sex in the past would have led to him leaving, so she lied, to justify her new standard of sex after engag…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:31 PM
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This sub is an anomaly compared to general society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:24 PM
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I am not gonna argue with this level of disingenuous bulshit take the win man, you pissed me off enough to just ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:23 PM
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Its insane. Sex on the first date is not casual? wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:22 PM
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I never was. I am an incel. Love is not for men like me. Menlike me need to buy company
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:21 PM
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Lol. What standards should an incel aspire to? What the fuck is the point. What i chose to do is to regurgitate my bile into the world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:20 PM
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Thats not calling out, that mentioning it as an aside Just go down the comment chain and see the number defending her it is certainly not the outlier take that you are making it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:16 PM
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I dont see men doing it to this extent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:15 PM
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I am not only defending him. I am hating on women. I saw the world and saw a little too much of womne doing this fuck shit I decided to d the same thing in the opposite direction Sue me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:15 PM
3

Thank you for the kind words. I am sure the sperm in the tissue under my bed will be happy to hear how great their maker is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:11 PM
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not one of those gents. You are talking to an incel who has issues with female solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:10 PM
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men do not really do this the rich and powerful do fuck shit and men passively let it happen but it is verymuch a " i dont want to catch any smoke " or " not my circus" line of thinking These women are bending themselves into pretzels to defend this girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:09 PM
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i had to train myself to hate women. My default was uncritically defending them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:07 PM
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As do i man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:07 PM
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Initially they were all on her side, until the tide began to turn with the mountain of whispers coming out that she was abusive the only time i have seen women deal with rage from their cohort is when they harms someone weaker than them, like children against men? the close ranks like roman soldiers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:05 PM
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they are committed. They just aren't engaged its not about her having or not having sex its about her implying a certain sexual standard she has always held herself to and wishes to hold him to as well, while not disclosing that she had failed to live upto that standard earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:03 PM
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I am an incel. Its my nature to get bothered by other peoples drama when i get bored of using my hand. Any more questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:01 PM
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I would say sex without exclusivity( at least) is casual. They were dating sure, but it doesnt imply a serious relationship of any kind, especially since it only lasted a month Not waiting at all ad waiting for 10 months is a worrying discrepancy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:57 PM
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Its been 10 months. A decision made easily at the beginning has now to be made with the 10 month relationship goggles. They are both gonna be hurt. Something easily avoided if she just put on her big girl pants in the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:56 PM
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I have not seen men do this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:53 PM
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Not lie to me about how betabux is ideal and the best kind of love to aspire for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:52 PM
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NO. Most womne do this, implicitly argue for their ilk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:51 PM
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but we see those men as scumbags in normal society. Redpill manosphere is a fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:51 PM
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Sex without commitment is casual sex. Situationship \seeing where it goes \ fwb are all variations of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:50 PM
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No. She dated a rando, she had sex early. it didn't work out Her flaw was not being transparent about the L as the reason for why she wishes to wait until marriage. Instead she lies that she has never had casual sex. He was entitled to know this as it impacts his decision on whether or not to be OK with being celibate until engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:48 PM
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for real. he needs to get out asap. being a incel is better than being married to miss born again virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:17 PM
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i dont know how can you be so depraved as to willingly setback your own flesh and blood
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:16 PM
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what you are feeling is not love, it is the happiness of getting into a potentially good situation. Its the kind of feeling a business man would get when closing a deal he knows will be profitable. Sure you call it love ( thats the Public relations part) but it is just straight opertunism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:15 PM
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frequently even mothers and sisters give advice that benefits the womne rather than their sons or brothers. I know i fell victim to that bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:11 PM
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Pegging is not seen he same way cucks are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:20 PM
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It implies a weakness 0f character to allow your woman to have so much power over you, or allow them to fool you into sleeping with someone else while retaining the benefits of a relationship with you The implication is the same as that of physical weakness and cowardice. * this person is incapable of defending himself and anyone else *
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:19 PM
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YOu speak as though women do not harm submissive men somehow As if the men being mean to us is the only reason why we hide. If women tomorrow decided that almost all of them wanted exclusively submissive men, the stigma would vanish over night. give it a year and the heteronormative men who dont really care about being dominant or submissive woul start behaving mildly submissive. Women decide hetero-normative and dating culture The scorn for anything that indicates weakness in men is mediated by…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:31 PM
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that would be unironically great. Go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:27 PM
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Bull fucking shit. You love submissive men? go and scream it from the roof tops, cause we dont see it. All we know is showing weakness is an invitation to be harmed and taken advantage of. I have a low opinion of women.? what i described is what is happening, why are you disagreeing with reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:21 PM
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Just the tendenc to assume the devil exists in the minds of men. Not very different from what I think about women so its fair i guess. Its fun to inetrpet everything womne say in the worst possible interpretation of it to feel morally superior to all of you, so i understand your need to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:19 PM
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You are rare enough to not exist. You are a rarity to the point that dominant women are sought after enough to make money of their sexuality. Its a niche so under fulfilled that even normie womne who see submissive men as nothing more than paypigs and wallets are able to profit of them. I have heard of only one Financial dom who has a personal relationship with her subs, takes 10% of the pay cheque and orders them to save and invest the rest. She does this because she cares about them and doesnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:14 PM
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No. If i suffer because of her then she suffers because of me. Or she can leave with nothing Personally i endorse a hybrid system. No fault as default with abuse and cheating if proved to determine damages to be paid while the divorce is being finalised
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:05 PM
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cuck is exclusively one directional. switching is less looked down upon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:02 PM
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as always we have a womna telling us how men think. Good for you gal gaddot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:01 PM
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can we for once deal with the world as is. Words change in meaning over time Cuck may very well have been what you say it meant. Your are probably right. BUt in the current world it refers to men who willingly or being coerced by the threat of break up allow their woman to sleep with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:00 PM
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Thye kind of woman who would be willing to engage in or even want to engage in that kink - being an individual with a lack of mental pathology, being able to love the cucked partner and being able to truly respect him as an individual as opposed to seeing him as an object she has power over .... it low enough to discount their existence entirely It reminds me of a financal dominatrix who had a live in slave and while talking she revealed that she found her subs very manly in how free they are to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:56 PM
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I am do sorry that out collective slow mental breaK down is inconvenient to you. A thousand apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:25 AM
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That's just opertunism that you are giving the veneer of good PR
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:19 AM
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Yeah. This is the premise of AFBB So do insist that they do infact love these men and that they have matured from the person they used to be in the past. That's obviously not true What the women think is love us just optimism with good pr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:17 AM
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The fuck they have. Like what one friend group in every 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:18 PM
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Cause it fun to blame you for all the worlds ills. You know how tired we get hearing about the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:18 PM
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As always, the worst possible interpretation is attributed to men. These are the same women who get upset at AWALT and AFBB
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:15 PM
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No We just look incredulously while the scumbags with redfkags for the world to see get chased avd are successful when chasing while we are told we are entitled if we want a relationship without having to go through the 36 chambers of Shaolin temple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:15 PM
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Nah dude. Gotta crush those dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:10 PM

I wasn't a peice of shit for 30 years and it made no difference. If it was that simple then I would have found someone already. If that's the case it makes no difference if I am one. Can you promise me I will find someone before i kill myself at 60 if I decide to not be a peice if shit until that time. Murmuring the rosary of wonanly support everyday until my death? Can you guarantee that? No? Then shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:40 AM
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I have seen a rapist get loved. I have seen trash human beings succeed where i have failed. I am not worse than them. If they didn't need to change themselves to make themselves worthy of love why in the fuck is it a moral imperative for me to change. I am done changing for any if you I am who I am until I die. I will be loyal to me. Fuck everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:17 AM
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Again. Alternate earth confirmed. Let's review How many boyfriends have you had How many have allowed you to live your truth with them so to speak? I am 31 and zero women are interested in me and I have had no oppertunity to reveal my preference to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:08 AM
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Submissive men are not joked about "in a fun way" . They are joked about - "why the fuck do they exist " kinda way. Also I am 31 and a virgin. How old are you and how many relationships have you had again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:03 AM
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Being dominat doesn't disqualify you from most relationships . It may not work well and you might but heads more often and hell being forced to inhabit the submissive role may be deadening but it is still better than nothing and hell you would do pretty well with a easy going 50-50 guy who isnt threatened by you, which there ate a fair number of. Submissive men are joked about and mocked to the point we really can't be honest about it for fear of scaring the hoes. So yes. Submissive men do infac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:50 AM
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My experience as a submissive man is that there are not enough of you out here for us to believe we have a reasonable chance at finding you. The most visible onws are able to charge money for occupying the position and are able to profit from their sexuality. Sure the mainstream may denigrate you, but that's like a visible minority than a real thing and they are not your target population.anyway. So whatever problems you might face as a dominant woman are not really as bad as you think they are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:39 AM
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26
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:42 AM
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All. The fact that thebguy is a virginmos the red flag Men should just lie or go.to prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:41 AM

As alwAy we get new evidence to prove that miss January is from.an alternate earth and somehow able to connect with our internet at random. It's like a scifi novel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:36 AM
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We like what we like. No reason to be a little shit to him.over it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:34 AM
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Half the people in support of abortion bans are women. Deal with your own ilk before coming at men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:29 AM
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It's notthe right one sweety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:25 AM
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Men have no pretense of who they are. We accept the negatives thrown out way. That was a mistake. We should have screamed "not all of us from the very begining" Women took our silence and lack of engagement to meant that they were right in their assumptions. Men never claim.to be better except in reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:25 AM
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Rage is not accurate. Exasperation? The knowledge that you could be the best man in the world and you will still be seen as inherently unsafe... We really shouldnt have to carry emotional water for any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:21 AM
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You can't. The only way is to spend time long enough together such that your assumptions are proven wrong. Sometimes they may never be proven wrong. Ab abused woman holds the next man yo much higher standards so that she doesn't get caught up in bullshit again. She may never fully see you as a safe man, may never fully trust you. Surely most women don't see a problem with that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:16 AM
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I am sure they are afraid sometimes . But for the most part the bear vs man thing was just vitue signalling their victimhood and how helpless they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:11 AM
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Too ugly and masculine because of my face. Too unmanly Because of my height. The gays would class me as mini bear i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:07 AM
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how much less likely to hit. Is there a chart organising DV offenders by height? you just said the correlation is not strong. Even if it was, crime and jail effectively filyers them out. So the short men outside prison without any history? less likely to abuse at all. Yet women want tem less compared to the taller men it would be werd if the man kept laking about how his big blossomed and wide hipped children are more likely to reproduce than other wise. Calm the fuck down, you ar scaring the Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:32 PM
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you are juts out here blackpilling everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:27 PM
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so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:59 PM
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THe general you. As in women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:53 PM
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Your lack of empathy is disturbing, Thank you. I tried very hard. It was difficult and i felt terible saying it but the world doesn't deserve a kinder version of me. I must get used to being a scumbag. Therefore physical appearance plays no role in if a man can cause physical harm it changes the question to how much damage can he do? my point exactly. So why are womens stateed preference in dating for men who are much bigger and stronger than them Plenty of short heterosexual twinks to enjoy in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:52 PM

If it gets to the point where she emotionally abuses me life is already fucked. And i am no longer Gandhis grandson to trun the other cheek. When all is said and done the fights i regretted the most where ones where i just rolled over like a bitch. Even if the guy is an athlete and i got my bone broken as retribution, bloodying his nose was very satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:49 PM
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It was a gotch thread and you know it. In any case i used to validate womne all the time. Its only now that chose to actively bitch you out and cast doubt on your perceived victim-hood status
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:46 PM
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Sure we can. I have a foot fetish. There is girl i meet who runs a findom thing who is pen to having her feet licked and be in a relationship with me. This is possibly my only solid chance to be in a relationship where an deep seated kink gets sated, however she talks about the guys who send her money for feet pics and used socks like as if they are the scum of the earth. Guys no different than me. What will happen in the future when she sees looks at me and doesnt see the things she fell in lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:42 PM
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Your entire argument is tanked by DV stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:37 PM
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Presumably stronger bigger men hit harder I would argue that shorter men are more likely to be socialised into developing diplomacy as a mode of conflict resolution and there for less likely to escalate to throwing hands. Guess we are stuck 3.This son fetish thing of yours is weird. Should men look for ward to producing wide hipped big bossomed girls? if a guy said that, it would be weird. You are engaging in creepy levels of weird. Stop subliminally sexualising unborn boys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:36 PM
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ah yes. The big strong sons fetish. Isnt that just a tiny bit Oedipal. What happens when we develop interstellar space travel.?.. will women produce economy sized men optimized for space travel so that dont take as much space and consume less food and oxygen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:32 PM
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I dont use that to bitch out driving as the worst way to locomote. Nor do i look down on people driving beaters and suck off people who drive Paganis, even if i walk closer to the street as they pass by t have a closer look even though the risk of being sideswiped or overrun is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:25 PM

The hybrid system would allow me to leave or to pursue revenge via criminal trial. It would be my choice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 PM

No. Personally i would love it f the womne did infact love the man they end up with. I just haven't seen it happen tat way, hence a compelled to be vigilant and to also warn other gormless fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:21 PM

then why get married at all? why enforce financial repercussions on its dissolution? You can have it bth ways. It either has meaning or none at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:15 PM

Fuck accusations. None of you gave a rats ass about false accusations When it was believe all women time! the fuck is this! Let the same standards apply now! "An accusation means nothing"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:14 PM

They would be less likely to marry men they dont really fancy if they knew there are penalties to leaving the union or being unfaithful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:11 PM

I think a hybrid system is best. A no fault divorce should be the norm, but if adultery is proved then it should be counted against the offender with certain consequences. I tink thats something womne can get behind. They do tend to have a mean streak when the man cheats, I am just saying let that be equally enforceable on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:10 PM
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wasn't asking for your personal experience was I? there is a daily thread i am sure for this comment. My question was more to do with why doesn't this fear manifest in your dating choices if it matters so much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:07 PM
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date shorter weaker pasty men", women will date people they find attractive, bit of a weird ask to suggest they date people they aren't attracted to because they're afraid men will beat them up. Women are ones who claim that they are afraid of men who talk to them and approach them. They have succeeded in creating an atmosphere where dating apps are the only way to do it and there is a huge stigma in approaching a woman in an increasing number of setting. I am just proving that it's not because …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:53 PM
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Go ahead of that makes you feel the slightest bit better about your self I can't really take it but when has that stopped anyone. Go right the fuck ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:35 PM
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It'salso thewomen blaming us forthe crimes if the rich men and the bad men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:34 PM
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Didn't realise that we had a pTriarchal temporal hive mind that extends in to the past to be held responsible for that shit to this day. We may let go or orginal sin but men will have to answer if the sins of their father until the end of time i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:33 PM
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So leave me to my death spiral then woman. Go get what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:08 PM
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I am suprised the sunshines into the nether world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:28 PM
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So the market doesn't decide it for women... Because they can get better But it decides for men, we don't know if they can get better but you are sure that it is decided for men. If i suddenly go on a Chad spree. Sleeping with and ghosting many women would that mean that my level is now higher? Wtf are you pedling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:27 PM
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Anyone agreeing with you however has to be a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:24 PM
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Abused women deserve to be with their abusers. The market decided their level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:22 PM
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Abused women deserve their abuse. Clearly the market decided their value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:20 PM
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We already are locked out. That's the point. I would love for women to be unable to attain their happiness too Why? Cause I am a little bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:19 PM
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Die Edit - take a like insurance and nominate a charity of their choice and then after the wAiting period die
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:16 PM
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That'snice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:14 PM
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I really don't understand. Women claim that men assault them, that they feel unsafe and until recently on here and everywhere else this was accepted with no criticism.. We didn't invalidate your life experience. Yet you feel completely comfortable doing so enmass to nen despite a near prevalent perception among men that women infact can't handle it when their man gets emotional. Somehow it ends up becoming the mans fault. Damned if you do damned if you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:13 PM
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Ask the idiots yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:08 PM
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Women are victimized by the men they know more than strangers. Seems they need more protection from the men they know than randos on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:03 PM
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So you say. Send a memo to the amazing sisterhood of travelling pants
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:01 PM
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Big words from someone without counter arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:00 PM
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Functionally they are the same. No point in making the distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:59 AM
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Nothing. Spend the next 30 years oscillating between rage and hope like a dickensonian orphan going "please maam, a crumb of pussy and affection..." Evenings spent with cigarettes and whisky and porn to void the pain. Possibly abuse antidepressants to number the sex drive. Possible orchidectomy to stop it if that doesn't work (eunuch pull so to speak) ... Self harm on self harm on self harm. At some point i will visit prostitutes hopping not to get an sti, although with my luck that's the most l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:56 AM
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It's the hipocrisy of it all that bothers me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:50 AM
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Big words coming from someone who decided to string together a few letters and was unable to place it anywhere relevant . You could have tried to defend women kind you know. Posted an invective about how men should know their place Would have respected you a little more for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:49 AM
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As if online is not valid somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:48 AM
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Which is to say the fear you describe when strange men talk to you is just bullshit. Sk ething you say to muddy the air so that less men would disturb you with their unworthy presence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:47 AM
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So what? If your existential worry can't be solved no matter what suggestion are give what the fuck so you want to change? If you are that fucking scared move out into communes with women where you can all age out abd due in peace. I don't fucking understand what the fuck is the point of your victimhood if you do nothing to alleviate it. Or is that the point? is perpetual victimhood the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:46 AM
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You can think can't you. A man with an ar 15 is quite willing to harm people. What happens when he clases you as the enemy? Find a guy who will treat even the people he loathes with decency
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:44 AM
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They can go for hetrosexual twinks if they want. It would atleast be more consistent with their stated concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:40 AM
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Hoping that more men see this abd I get more compan in the eunuch pill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:36 AM
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Ghosting for one. Instances where they behave rudely whe rejecting a guy so that "he doesn't get the wrong idea" Not admit to cheating. Not disclose sexual past when being well aware that it could have been a deal breaker. When justifying poor reactions to being approached by men When justifying the need for women only spaces while actively campaigning against male only spaces Creating a social climate where it's never ok for men to approach because they feel unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:34 AM
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Reported for contentless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:31 AM
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Sure. I get that. But when women use the phrase "I am scared" to justify poor behaviour. 9/10 it's disingenuous. That's all I am saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:29 AM
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It's on them dude. Or they could just admit that "fear" is an excuse they love to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:28 AM
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Because I wanna strip away the veneer of hapless victim from all women whole sale. Because I want society to doubt everything that comes from their mouth. I want people to snigger everytime someone unironically says "beleive all women"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:26 AM
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I am asking if a n who is 5'2 poses the same threat to her as 5'6" as the man who is 6'0 Obviously there are gradations to threat. Obviously the police force mobilises differently for petty theft vs murder. Why in the fuck are you being obtuse to my line of questioning. By your logic since the woman is likely to be raped Anywhere she may as well walk in a bikini in the redlight district... Holy fuck dude. I am a godamn incel and I am telling you - Get your fucking head on straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:23 AM
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Same could be saud for womenin emotionally abusive marriages when they come to get divorced I am sure your word would be of great comfort to them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:13 AM
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What am I more likely to survive. Being beaten on by someone my height? Or being beaten on by the Rock. You are the goofy one dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:11 AM
6

Social isolation. Loss of negotiating rights to alimony and maintainance. The cheating be considered when considering their moral worth to be allowed custody of the children
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:08 AM
9

If there was a business contract where the person coming in with less than 50% can leave at anytime with a minimum of 50% of the things you managed to make .. you would call that unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:07 AM
1

Nah. Fuck that. They go after men in the world as is. Kowtowing to your ever increasing demands to do what amounts to singing kumbaya to make bad men stop is stupid and pointless. Women will go after men they want. The won't go after others because they don't want them. Not because they are afraid or whatever the fuck. The best thing men can do is sacrifice their genitals and sexuality. Take antidepressants, take GNrH analogues or just take a way out. Embrace the Eunuch pill so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:04 AM
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I am sorry that women are unable to hold themselves yo the standard they hold incels too. But then again they are just "afraid" So sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:58 AM
0

Maybe so. But womens mate choices do change. It was well exhibited in the manifestation.of AFBB later on un red pill conciousness. Surely they can strategically go for the less threatening guy on purpose. It's not like they are slaves to their libido like men are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:54 AM
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That just sounds like "beaten dog" syndrome. Aren't you the type of person who gets really angry and dismissive about incels and low value men talking as if they are completely blckpilled? That there is nothing they can do to improve their situation? Why should I give women that grace?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:51 AM
4

Lol Lol Haahahaha Jesus Christ. Who is the president of USA on your alternate earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:49 AM
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In today's day and age they are more at risk from their partners than anyone else. Best course of action is for women to engage in BJJ and date a guy her height or shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:47 AM
0

I love how biological essentialism is atonce stupid as balls and perfectly reasonable for bluepilled shills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:46 AM
11

Yeah. WHat gave it away?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:44 AM
4

BigZaddy in the house!! So your assertion is that the choice to go for bigger men is a utilitarian one. One that seeks protection from other men. Women by and large are most at risk of harm from men she knows and the man she is romantically involved with... The chances of her being attacked by a rando is lower than that. In such a scenario where chances of being attacked and needing protection is low and the chances of needing protection from the person you are with is higher, logic dictates tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:44 AM
3

And yet the stated woman Preference is height 6feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:38 AM
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I don't disagree. But if that was a prevalent part of your mental experience one would expect you to chose a person less able to harm you. The preference of height and musculature (even if we are talking about fat strong) is counter to womens stated goal of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:37 AM
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More likely to fight off and survive them. We are not talking of a strength difference comparable to the difference between a human and an ape. If the fear is that powerful you may as well never have sex or be in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:33 AM
3

But you do though. Compromise for attractiveness over safety. Is No 1 line of thought the guiding principle?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:18 AM
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So by this logic, weaker shorter men should have the advantage in dating. Looking at it through pure survival metrics. By this logic no gun licence holding man should ever be able to date considering the risk.of getting shot and killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:16 AM
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Not attracted is fine. We have established many times on the sub that women have the right to chose who they want. Not controversial. Weasel behaviour is not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:13 AM
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Let us not circle jerk too hard here. Although I don't disagree with what You are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:12 AM
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If I could get into a relationship or a Fwb situation bringing nothing but myself and my own thoughts into that relationship, it would resoundingly prove the redpill wrong to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:52 AM
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Are those guys like the guys on the post yesterday? The tinder picks ? Cause they were mostly average and above. The single dad was plain but most were high average. Is that what passes for plain in your universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:47 AM

Wtf did I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:40 AM

Why the fuck wouldn't we blame them? We would blame men and do blame men for such behaviour!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:39 AM

Why would you say it if you weren't homophobic. Don't tell me the woman is trying to establish consent cause as the gender pushing for it extensively to the point of caricature surely they can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:37 AM
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I do belive in the existence of patriarchy. But much of it has been dismantled. If anything feminism survives because the patriarchy has decided that it's better to have goud or than bad pr.. give a few girl bosses the bag so that they can tell you that there is always more ways you are opressed and that the enemy were, are avd always will be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:33 AM
1

In a life or death situation that Ukraine faces, everyone counts. Female boddies burn just as well when incinerated. They would make adequate kindling for the war machine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:29 AM
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We just want to no be excluded from what is supposed to be a normal human experience. Go ahead tell me I am wrong. Tell me that tennage love, college relationships and sex (not casual sex) are not 'normal human experiences'. Our lesson is atonce self love abd you are not good enough. You know how batshit insane that worldview necessarily needs to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:28 AM
1

Absolutely. Gnrh antagonist abd posible orchidectomy. Embrace the ennuchpill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:24 AM
3

Hey man. You want to ignore the larger point I am making gontight on ahead. Just don't ask me to engage in your 'everything is hunkydory even for someone like you' gaslight-speil you are pulling. It's extremely invalidating and thenkind of thing that led me to my position currently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:17 AM
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You can't actually like chocolate icecream.if you have never had chocolate icecream. Loads of people like strawberry flavour and assume that they would like strawberries. When given a strawberry most find it very different to the flavour. That's the difference between conception and experience. You have your experiences so you take them abd the effect of has on your choices for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:32 AM
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I don't I don't know if a generally boisterous woman will aggravate me overtime or a quite one would make me feel as if there is an ocean between us I don't know if a religious women would be a comfort to be with or would be too preachy, I don't know if an atheist would be better or just generally a reminder of the lack of hope in this world. I do t knowif dominant women are what I want or if they would generally lose respect for me due to my submissive inclinations. I don't know if generally su…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:22 AM
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Bullshit. I M a virgin at 31. I have no experience. I cant decide shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:28 PM
-1

Legalise euthanasia. It would solve multiple problems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:27 PM
-2

Bu tthere is nothing wrong with those women or their choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:55 PM
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Dating women us bad financial behaviour. Save 1/3 of your salary for 10 years abd you have a good amount for 3 months in Amsterdam for booze drugs and sex. Love, if achieved by spending for it or achieved after 30 is nothing more than Oppertunism with a good pr spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:54 PM
2

There are literally women on here (not the fds type) who insist they don't like cheAp dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:44 PM
1

Just crying reading Nietzsches life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:52 PM
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Do you think "what's better for society" is an argument women would accept to be forced into anything? If not, then do men a favour and not ask us to swallow shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:53 AM

Different Abby
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:27 AM

Hey! It's alwayswrong12 everybody? Back to fuck around with nothing to show for it.;
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:42 AM

Why would I want tegage with you? I am glad op did the experiment. I no longer have to sit and nod along sagely when any random on here makes the claim "dating is hard for women" or "dating is harder for women"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:00 AM

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:57 AM

And that is quite enough. Clearly women won't be satisfied until both your brain scans come back compatible with each other. Take the fucking L which is a W. Women have an easier time on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:47 AM

Getting dates is the point no? Do you expect to be in a relationship before dating? The dates are the interview. You figure out if you likebthrm or not. It's that easy for you lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:30 AM

You really want to pretend that dating us harder for women don't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:27 AM
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Thats is a childish understanding of weakness. The guy who spams money to a findom, the guy who pays for her sex swing just to make her happy, the guy who works 80hr weeks just to give up 60 percent of her salary to him are all weak . I doubt you will harbour any degree of sympathy for him. an ill treated female submissive will be seen as a victim, Someone a male dominant is undoubtedly taking advantage of . Male subs are seeing as responsible for their own exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:10 AM
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We also value fairness. We also understand the need to let the little guy win. That tilt towards fairness is what over time led to the emancipation of women .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:05 PM
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Womenwill forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. Even in dominant women it takes some maturity (which may never come) before they treat submissive men with basic respect and not take them for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:04 PM
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I didn't choose it. It chose me . I want to be purple pill. I abhor blue pill but don't see many people who hold similar views to me in redpill. Then again I lean black
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:58 PM
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Well put. Sure it changes nothing with regard to sexlessness but it takes off the pressure to be a normal man, if it is not longer wrong to be abnormal. It would help if dating advice for men no longer contained the verbage of fault and blame
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:00 AM

I am Certainly not gonna acknowledge suggestions from people who are gung ho about shitting on LVM It registers as nothing but scorn. So just go ahead and insult me. It makes no difference honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:53 AM
1

That seems like a personal anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:30 AM
0

There are no mitigating circumstances. There is only success and failure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:00 PM
22

Oh look. The consequences of your own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:57 PM
2

Women really don't deserve a better version of me. All that works all that effort ... For what? Love? Fuck that shit. It's not even real. Certainly not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:43 PM
1

Studies conducted showed that men recive more online hate and criticism Since society trains us to be sociopathic it supposed to affect us less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:39 PM

UsA is a country which nickels and dimes their veterans. I expect nothing from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:53 PM
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Lady. It's hilarious that you think it is a flex. Try a decade. Try being rejected everytime you try Try going through minor break down to the point that you disawov everything you hold sacred and find good about yourself. Because what the fuck dies any of that matter if you are a genetic dead end. . I wish I could force you to endure that, just to see how healthy you come out the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:27 AM
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So give them maternity leaves or whatever. Why do they need to be compensated at 60-65? What about childless women are they made to retire at the same age as mentioned? The fuck?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:01 AM
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Nah. Let's be clear. With your bulshit. If a man being resentful of women is going to result in him being unsuccessful in dating....( Which is a consequence I can accept.) Then surely the men who rape and sexual assault women should have little avenue for casual.sex? The women would flee from their obvious misogyny and entitlement. The twist of mind needed to be able to do what those men do, should be throwing up alarm signals all over the place. Yet ... I see those men being successful Explain …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:22 AM
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Women being able to retire at the same age as men or younger while men die earlier without being able to draw social security from the state, social security that they paid into while working is an unearned privilege. You want equity? Garauntee retirement 3years earlier with pension for men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:17 AM
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I asked you a question... Do you want women to get raped? Is that why you peddle your misinformation? Cause guess what ... You were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:14 AM
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Read the comment again and try to respond without being a blithe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:12 AM
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Not the same women. Your assertion is that men feeling jealous and resentfull of women can bleed into interactions and hence ruin their chances at getting dates. Assuming that as the gospel truth, why oh why are the rapists and sexual assaulters that I know about in my personal life able to have consistent sex with women of different types? Surely the perception required to see women as objects with no ability to consent or whoes conset is immaterial to what he wants (a nut inside a vagina, in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:06 AM
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I have seen men who literally tried to rape women get lots of dates. Are you saying despite being dangerous they love women so much that women only sense good vibes from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:56 AM
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No. They do have hobbies and personality. But much of their lives seen to revolve around themselves. They never once seem to consider thenother person in the interaction arguing only for what is best for them selves with no thought to go for a solution that benefits both sides. What benefits them is right and what doesn't benefit them is wrong. I got burnt out by the selfishness. I consider single motherhood to be karmic retribution to that stateof mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:47 AM
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My expectations from men have dropped to that level because they have demonstrated no ability or.inclination to offer much else. There are a few exceptions I have made for friends and have had to make for family. But by and large... That's the sad truth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:04 AM
2

Youhave no idea how much that feels true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:47 AM
2

Our lives experience bears it out. You might think it is sad we haven't seen more women contradict these maxims but that's our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:47 AM
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She says with bearpilled in her flair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:43 AM
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Then toxic women must make up like 40-60% of women, at which point it may as well be all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:45 AM
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Personality is the biggest lie society sold men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:40 AM
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Women are more selfish than men.” “Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.” “Men believe that love matters for the sake of it. Women love opportunistically.” “Remember, women are children: mentally, behaviourally, evolutionarily. They are not like us. They don't think like us, or have the same deep sense of personal responsibility.” Misogyny saves lives man. Granted these Statements are extreme but no different than what women think about men. And j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:39 AM
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Dating advice is a finicky thing. It's like you should ask the person who successfully got married and are in a good relationship. But if they have been in the relationship too long ... Well they lose touch. So the happy medium is to take dating advice from people who date and are able to get what they want while taking marriage advice from people who have been married long enough to know what is what. In that sense she might be a good coach. She just out here trying to make sure women get more …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:30 AM
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So you want to find someway to make.things more fair? I am not opposed to it. Sure women should be more worried about their pittiful rights and the fragile state of their lives. But you don't get to blame men for that. Those politicians and govts are supported by conservative women too. I don't see why men should shoulder the responsibility for that. And since you want equity everywhere i don't see any one supporting legislation to make retirement age less for men, seeing as mentioned die earlie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:12 AM
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Is that because the women take better care of them or is it because they know that if they faik the family suffers so they treat themselves like racecars with pits stops to make sure they can function like the racecar is supposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:07 AM
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This is the kind of navel gazing i abhor With that logic the woman us the most dangerous among the 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:05 AM
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Says more as a joke without any expectation that you will follow through. Happy wife happy life is advice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:58 PM
0

And Christianity gas a significant sway in our current life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:37 PM
3

If we do that you would call it misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:37 PM
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A woman has a better chance of surviving and attack from him vs an attack from a 6 ft guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:36 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that it is the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:06 PM
0

I keep asking cause i am confused now, arent you a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:40 PM
2

"people with power"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:38 PM
2

I know. IT disappoints me a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:37 PM
1

have you ever been told that you need to be more understanding of your husband or boyfriend because he is just more emotional? Have you been fed bullshit like happy wife happy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:36 PM
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Doest matter man. Women by and large dont know how to treat men. There is no cultural advice given to them to try and be better for our sakes. If there was, all of it has been dismantled with no social power behind it. Men still have to deal with that bullshit. Why in the fuck do we need to treat women better than we treat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:35 PM
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Thats like the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:32 PM
2

men wont help strange men like that. Only friends, or men in power. YOu see all this shit and get but hurt, do you even see the shit you guys pull, the way you talk about us? we have reason to be wary and distrustful of all of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:30 PM
2

Rad fem Women coined the term gender traitors. We should use it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:23 PM
5

YOu clearly live on a different planet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:22 PM
2

there is very little of such a thing. Your sitty experiences with men lead you to think we are in some massive club itching to exploit your ass. We are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:21 PM
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Which means you epect a man to do more, to qualify for your friendship. No i dont mean do nothing . I mean do more. You see him as a potential problem, he has to repeatedly prove himself above and beyond wrt you before you consider him worth the risk of being a friend The same sickening hypocrisy is blatantly manifest in Bisexual women. They don't require anything of the womne they date except that they are pretty pleasant and pay their own way. The men are judged like other men based on height,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:14 PM
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You understood the implications, you just dont know how to respond. But sure as a commenter on PPD, this comment was too low brow for you. I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:58 PM
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You raise us to be sociopathic monsters who harm each other for what? For religion? For your leaders? Your freedoms? For your love and acceptance? You treat the useless ones among us like trash and the useful ones like tolerable fools leaving only a select few who pull ahead your full allegiance not because you love them but because you want to possess them and the power they weild. If this isn't how it all turns out how the fuck else should it? This was the inevitable result. Men are praying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:48 PM
3

Society encourages men to be sociopathic and put on the surprised pikachu face when men behave sociopathically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:04 PM
2

Q: Who is stronger? A 6 foot line backer or a 5'2" MMA nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:18 PM
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5'2 dtde wouldn't be able to kill you until he uses a knife or a gun in which case the height and strength become less relevant. Go after the midgets if you wanna feel safe as a priority. If you are afraid of men because we are stronger than you, you have no business dating anyone over 6 feet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:00 AM
2

I keep having to remind you that you are a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:07 AM
3

Ambitious and successful is not the issue. The issue is an almost abrasive personality that may be hellbent on finding a problem where there isn't any. Grifters tend to confuse the two because there is significant overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:41 PM
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That'sthe pointi making. Women have zero attraction tomen. That is the take away from that example
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:33 PM
1

Women feel like hetrosexual men who get asked out by a man, because she feels no sexual attraction to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:28 PM
2

My life is busy . I save lives ( prolong it at least ) I operate. I smell the smell of blood and pus and burning fat and i love it. I pass out from the exhaustion of 24-32 hr shifts. I love my job although I get paid like shit . But it doesn't stop the crushing realisation and pain of my solutide My chest is loaded with this admixture of shame and self loathing I feel for on one had letting life pass me by never having had sex at 31 and on the other a deep conviction that I must be so worthless …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:21 PM
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There is a societal context that views single loser low value men as undesirable. The use of virgin in this context is a perjorative just like small dick and short It's not just about them wanting to hurt the guy. It's also because they know that the guy knows why you think it is worth mocking. The fact that you pretend it's a nothing burger is fucking weird man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:18 PM
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All you want us to do is shut the fuck up so that you arent bothered by us talking about how miserable we are. Let me be clear. It is a very privileged position to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:10 PM
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This is like saying racism is bad only because it strikes a nerve in black people ... When the problem is that the person foung it fully belives gat you are lesser for being a different race
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:08 PM
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Spoken like a woman. I don't think you understand the harm that being unwanted and unloved leaves on your psyche as you hit 30 and 32 realising that some how you are functionally inhuman to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:04 PM
1

That can all be true. And it can still leave a bad taste in my mouth to know that a literal rapist I know has had more consentual sex than me... The fact that he was that pushy to try and have sex with a woman who was his junior at his job shows that he feel entitled to sex in a way that I never will be. And yet I get called entitled for wanting a girlfriend, wanting to be desired, wanting genuine lust for me and wanting to have sex. Clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:02 PM
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No it is the same. What men feel of other menis what women feel for most guys. That's what she is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:57 PM
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If danger was that much of a concern women would date shorter weaker pastu men who have never seen the inside of a gym. Even if he did get violent you are more likely to fight him iff than a 6ft line backer. Why do you even fucking bother to lie about feeling fear and safety, when that shot didn't matter for your ONS. Average and sub average men are dangerous and the attractive ones are not? Or is you thinking " well he is hot enough to hit me in the head" Or is it " it would be so embarassing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:52 PM
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No. It was to assuage your hurt feelings that men could dare to think that they have a harder time in dating.... Which they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:47 PM
16

Statistically you nare wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:46 PM
-2

Difficult to describe if you never experience it. Women here are unable to talk about male positivity or men acting as protectors either and frequently dismiss the legitimacy of it. Doesn't mean the male protector archetype isn't pushed on men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:42 PM
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I love how, the question should have been answered by men but you tend to agree with the responses were women project what men think. As if the women here are ever in good faith able to understand what a reasonable man would think about that topic. It's would be hilarious of it fifnt have real world consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:40 PM
-4

And the women in blue pill labd are better?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:37 PM
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It does. Just reserve it for women built like brick shithouses, who have been possibly made fun off in school and didn't really ever glow up. Even if they do, calling them masculine will trigger them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:37 PM
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low resolution thinkers gonna low resolution think. But sure i will help you out. I dultjng a man or a woman along gendered lines is an act of conveying to them that they are failing the gendered standard somehow Before the sexual revolution barren women were low keep looked down upon in society, and even had a lot of self inflicted insecurity over it for "not being a real woman". As the definition of woman hood moves away from mother hood, this i sult no longer carries weight. Similarly when we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:35 PM
0

Sure. But it also implies that most of the times sonen just don't like men. Is love even a thing for women? Or is it a logic based if then else statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:29 PM
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Is your point that women by default see male sexuality and attraction to them like men would see male attraction directed at himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:35 PM
2

Millionaires are t the people who will complain about inflation are they
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:30 PM
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It'sthe samebulshit over avd over again A hundred time you will here that you height hd not enough and your dick is below average And in my specific case you must be a bad person since no one wanted you for more than a decade. But I shouldn't let any if that bother me as if my mind is cyberneticaly enhanced and incapable of receiving psychic damage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:26 PM
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Says the gender who can actually date and have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:24 PM

A dog licking water out of a toilet bowl can be happy. Hell i envy the dog his happiness. It's not something we should emulate. Idk how you live your life. But just mimicking you will not make me happier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:39 PM

You are a dom aren't you? Get in touch with a sub with decent Twitter reach and photography skills. For reference check out a profile on twitter called u_pay_hail. Plenty of others exist but she does it best. One month and you will make tripple digits. A year and you will make a thousand at least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:58 AM

Our lives are hard. If women get to define harrasment as something they feel, men should be allowed to define how difficult their life is. Mist people are allowed to do just that. It's only on make and misogynistic circles that women get any push back to claiming hard lives
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:56 AM

Let's go with disingenuous then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:52 AM
4

Dark triad Betabuxing Being in you masculine ie frame Male role.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:44 AM
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Men would be secondary and superfluous. There is only one species that I know off where one gender holds both reproductive power and physical+social power - hyenas. Hayenas live in packs which are predominantly female with a few males. The females are bigger by about 25-35%. And are much more agressive. The engage in sex frequently but it's seems violent on the males. How would you classify raoes here I am not sure but they do happen. The males in the pack are in a secondary and tertiary status.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:31 AM
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This is you helping is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:27 AM

And they tell s about right a d wrong and fairness and fairplay. Teaching and impressionable mind to try and act justly is a kind of abuse of power you say? Then we both agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:33 PM

It just seemed funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:16 PM

I might be a salad, but i would rather be with someone who loves salads as opposed to someone who is on a diet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:16 PM

It's not about mistake. It about wether the woman wants me for me or she wants me because I make sense. I dont want to be the sensible choice. I don't want to only be a sensible choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:14 PM

She alright, I was just venting my frustration IDk what everyone elses problem is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:21 PM

I wasnt addressing her specifically, i was talking to the general womankind, who might get this question with a higher variability of bodycounts. edited the response and at this stage, I dont think anything is gonna quell my rancour. I would potentially do something crazy like ask her howmany times she had sex on average with these guys, multiply that with the average number of thrusts iduring each sex, multiply that with the average dick length( dont have the gut to clarify that), multiply that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:16 PM

Not "you" specifically. You generally Edit : and at this stage, I dont think anything is gonna quell my rancour. I would potentially do something crazy like ask her howmany times she had sex on average with these guys, multiply that with the average number of thrusts iduring each sex, multiply that with the average dick length( dont have the gut to clarify that), multiply that with the years they were together and then convert that into miles and drive that distance to see if I am OK with that (…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:09 PM

Blue pill is responsible for making us believe fairness was even a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:05 PM

I like fried chicken. I cant eat it 3 times a day because I will die of heart disease. I don't like salad. I eat it to stay healthy I don't want to be your salad, unless you love salad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:00 PM
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Constantly thinking of others results in situations where 2 people are thinking of the other person and no one thinks of you. Its OK to be selfish. Women do not date selflessly. There are no rules. We all get baggage through life I havent even been in a relationship or had sex and I Have it. No one cares. Even you dont care. You are just trying to Gotcha the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:56 PM
0

sure. They could do that In Ya-WHEY we trust
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:50 PM

Great. SO you went out and had your exploration, eat prayed and loved your way through life... God for fucking you. Have you got the fun out of your system? Can i exepect to explore anything with you or is it always gonna be exactly what you want how much you want it? Is there anything in your heart left to have fun with me? Or am i stuck being your emotional janitor, consigned to paying bills and taxes with you while I hold the hair out of your face while you barf due to the hangover of your ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:49 PM
0

Then make things better for them, Show them irrefutable fact that their lives are not hopeless. You are not equipped to do that. Since you have chosen to not do that or are incapable of doing that let them stew in their nihilism and impotent rage, let them grow up to remain the dregs of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:38 PM
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Are you saying we should treat younger womne better an reserve baggage inducing behaviour to the older than 28 crowd? I agree. Its the closest men can get to "treating chad better". I endorse the adoption of this strategy all over the world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:15 PM

Well fuck, if thats how you want to play it, i guess the men have to just class you as unworthy of any real truth or honesty. You want relationships with emtional depth and commitment? are you a top 30% woman to deserve any of it? Fair is fair right? ____________________________________________ All you need to do is be honest "Look, i was young and i gav my self fully to guys who were better looking and just more sexy than you. They didnt need a job and commitment for me to go for them, like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:03 PM

There is absolutely no reason to feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:28 PM
0

tay tay i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:22 PM
1

sure, ill take your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:21 PM
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Fuck that. A good action is a good action and has value even if made with ulterior or perverse motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:11 PM
1

demonstrably less so than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:07 PM
1

Why do you argue they are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:48 PM
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they make everything a moral deficiency. The poor are poor because they are lazy, the incels are single because they are bad people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:47 PM
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Youn cannot expect us to go through that and not be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:15 AM
2

That'spretty much what everyone wants. Why are you describing human behaviour like an invective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:33 AM
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger is an ideal. Frequently that experience traumatised and cripples you. In my case it has made me an alround worse individual. I am still in the process of building my artifice, but the insides remain a paradoxial mishmash of concrete foundations and rotten floorboards. A big part of my journey has been loyalty to self above all else, and just growing past my pain, pretendingit never happened and going into a relationship with idealism and loving like peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:22 AM
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There is a redittor noveltip. Just go through her post history and comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:33 PM
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Its not about the cheating. You could break up for any reason. She could break up iwth you because you farted in bed. She will go through a breakup suffering the loss of one person YOou will be battling the loss of 2 minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:39 PM
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Its not a complain so much as a fact of life. At that point you can never really know if she is with you because she loves yuo or because her kids and her life are improved by your presence As a man who has never been in a relationship, i don t think i am asking for to much to be atleast for a while the most important person to my partner, as she will be for me. Nothing seems sadder than realising that she is my first priority while I am the 3rd or 4th. I know,is a beta bux fear, but it is a val…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:37 PM

I would agree to that. But that describes a blue piller more than an incel. A blue piller happens into a relationship and just assumes that it just happened. Nothing to see here, no thoughts given. And incel is far more likely to agonize over why they are alone like a mother fucker. They may end up in erroneous conclusions, but there is effort involved You dont hate he blue pill idiots who come to the conclusion of just world. You just dislike the incels who come to the conclusion of unjust worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:11 PM
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It was easier to achieve what was expected of us. College was a few hundred to one thousand dollars, salary was 40k at best buy home prices were 4*5 times that. Coverable by a reasonable loan plan Today it is very much different and saying that men have less to.live up to is both misleading and victim blamey. Dude. You are kinda disingenuous when it comes to talking about men in any kind of good light. But this pretty clearly demonstrates your bias like nothing else You are leftist right? Income…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:49 AM

Take take take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:25 AM

Lying to them about how what counts is on the inside is worse imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:23 AM

As a late bloomer if I ever bloom, why the fuck would I settle? Why wouldn't I try to get mine the wAy you have gotten your fun years out of the system? Why am I supposed to be consigned to doing laundry abd taxes with you and hold your hair out of your face while you deal with your baggage induced hangover . Kids? Fuck em Why would I want to potentially give birth to another incel who will be unloved into his thirties. The world has enough suffering in it without me adding onits number.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:09 AM

In terms of sheer numbers more muslims live in India than in any single Muslim nation in the middle East.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:06 AM
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And it's only a scant few who are willing to fight culture. Being on the same side as culture is an advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:08 AM
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when people use it here its always as a cudgel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:09 PM
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but thats not blame. Thats not a moral judgement. Its just selfcare advise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:02 PM
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you are disgusted by us. its like looking at something malformed and strictly speaking not human. The psychological equivalent of uncanny valley. Human enough, but not quite there. You are wrong ofcourse. We are human too. You just dont see us that way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:00 PM
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its in the nature of somone who lacks things to hate someone blessed with it You think a starving man is gonna be happy watching people eat food? Nothing bizzare about it. It is the most natural thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:56 PM
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i just hope all of it stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:36 PM
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and i hate you for it besides i thought we were talking about hypothetical realities where men are 10% OF the population?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:23 PM
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They dont. They like us in relations to what we do for them. If we were useless, not harmful, just useless, they would just ignore us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:38 PM
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She is imagining an alternate reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:37 PM
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You adapt to the world around your. Without the happy couples around you to remind you you wouldnt even miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:34 PM
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Lobotomizing yourself is not a skill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:29 PM
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Use a pc and look at the sidebar settings for your charecter in the PPD group
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:49 AM
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Your parents didnt think they had to do anything for you so your needs atrophied to the baseline sensing that you wouldn't get it even if you asked. I didnt invite my parents to any of my debate competitions because they demonstrated that they only cared about my academics and not my extracuriculars
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:46 AM
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can you stop deciding for men what men should want. We dont get love or sex so that is what we want. It is human to want that. What you are doing is similar to jeff bezos saying money cant buy happiness. That may very well be true, but i am not gonna listen to someone who has so much more of it that i do ( Zero). Hell it makes me see it as a manipulation tactic to convince me to be OK with my shitty life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:44 AM
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So what evidence would be enough to make you shut the fuck up. If the guy is too old, he doesnt know the dating market as it is right now, if the guy is too young, he is too young to have enough experience. I am an incel with 10 years of rejection, so anything i say is bullshit because i have never even been i a relationship although 10 years of rejections should count for something. The men in relationships arent gonna say jack shit assuming they are happy. and if the ones who are unhappy chime…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:31 AM
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When you keep saying that a building must have 4 walls and a roof and be weather proof to be a house but turn your nose up at 100,000 dollar single bedroom properties while happily shelling out 250,000 for a field with a tent and a outhouse, it makes claims of " bare minimum" laughable and dis-ingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:27 AM
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the fuck lilith. Is someone paying you to be a leftist troll? Is it the Koch brothers? Is it to make people who argue for men look even more insane by infuriating them? You ask for evidence that the other person provides and instead of conceeding the point you just obfuscate the point entirely. bad faith on this sub should be called "lilithing" or "whoreofbabyloning" in your honor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:05 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:11 AM
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Cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:05 AM
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With your level of optionality it is not excuse. If inceks are told that there are 4 billion women out there abd it's your fault that you can't find anyone , what makes you think I would relax that standard for women who have those men approaching her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:17 AM
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No. Give chances to who ever you want. Just know that it is a special kind of L for you as women to be unable to find a partner. Just as bad if not worse than being an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:25 AM
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Guess I should have just let the rape hapien since I am incel right? Who am I to get in between an attractive ( abliet slightly rapist ) man and a mid woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:23 AM
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It'snot like women would be able to empathiseanyway. Will I need a hospice nurse at 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:22 AM
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Never denied it. 'I' love posting my Ls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:22 AM
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then hold onto your cards and reserve the right and the gumption to leave when the past comes out, even if it is 1 year, 5 years oor 10 years in the future. consider it the tax to be paid to who you were
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:26 PM
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look at her past. If she was hooking up with college ball players, or men of a race different than me exclusively, or just basically tall jacked men... she wouldn't have looked at me. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:18 PM
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What? its what the women here claim right? That if we are getting no one, then maybe that is our level, we are getting what is fair. That applies to women complaining about the trash quality of men in the dating arena. Doubly so for her. If you read her comments she is essentially an antisocial woman who has cut of all social contacts she had. If she was a man the womne on here would be clowning on her for being an incel. She is the archetypical case of getting what you put into it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:10 PM
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I care. At the end of the day, thats all that matters no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:06 PM
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This is all the backbone I have *cries in Backbone*
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:37 PM
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nah, its just that you see your friends as human beings and respect them that way. You see men as wind up monkeys banging cymbals after you wound it up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:30 PM
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we get what we deserve when dating apparently, we all get our level. I get nothing. you get abuse. we both deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:28 PM
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dont blame the men to be honest. but then again i am very biased
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:27 PM
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that because you see the people around you as entertainment for yourself. A distinctly dehumanising and entitled mindset to have by the way, so check your privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:24 PM
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the projection is unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:22 PM
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coming from the gy whose culture questions whether women should have bodily autonomy, is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:21 PM
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buddy you casually suggested that subpar men should die out I am not gonna listen to someone more similar to the nazi youth than me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:13 PM
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think about what you posted earlier and what you posted now. Is the the sign of health mind? to contradict itself in the space of 4 hrs, in the same comment thread? maybe go see a specialist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:11 PM
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think about what you posted earlier and what you posted now. Is the the sign of health mind? to contradict itself in the space of 4 hrs, in the same comment thread? maybe go see a specialist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:11 PM
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think about what you posted earlier and what you posted now. Is the the sign of health mind? to contradict itself in the space of 4 hrs, in the same comment thread? maybe go see a specialist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:11 PM
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Its true though. Reddit is choc a block full of womne talking about stupid situations a 3 year old could have predicted ending the post with " I now have a man who loves me and respects me" You think as an incel I don't resent their ability to just 'manifest' their way into a loving relationship Truly living on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:52 PM
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No. I want things to end for my self but i dont want to give the rest of the world the satisfaction of having beaten me.... i am prideful like that. All of youo get to live love fuck and just exist like vapid plant and i get to die without having had even a sliver of that? FUCK THAT SHIT! But if the world were to end nothing i can do about that.... it would be almost peaceful to surrender my hatred.... but the only way I can is if the world ends up in the same place as me All the sexhavers, all …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:49 PM
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they aren't monsters. They just wont get my full self. Not that its a big loss to them. Since when do women truly care about the internal lives of even their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:44 PM
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normal people dont become scientologists Even if we are sub par men we are mostly average mentally, and it is impossible to delude yourself into victory
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:43 PM
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No. We will keep complaining ,thanks. Women are not gonna stop going where are the good men, we wont stop either. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:30 PM
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What happened to you make you so unpleasant I am an incel. So me being a miserable piece of shit is on brand Whats your excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:29 PM
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Women dont deserve that level of vulnerability from me. Thats a standard i apply from now on until I die I encourage other men to do the same, incel or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:28 PM
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what is the next positive step to take? We have nothing positive to hold onto and hope for more. Asking us to be positive is like asking us to indulge in a Scientology level delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:27 PM
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Sour grapes I want the world to end in a seas of flames, because i cant stand the rest of you just living life. Doesnt mean i dont want what you have. I do want it, more than you know. I am just acutely aware of how unlikely it is for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:26 PM
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I can understand the line of thinking but at some point the buck has to stop. Not being blessed is not an excuse to fail at being a functional human being. Even if you want to create a great incel uprising in the future, you cant do it with the BMI of 30 and cheeto dust on your fingers. You need economic leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:23 PM
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Women do love posting their Ls. And sadly even then you will succeed and find a loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:20 PM
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Well, if you are saying it it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:19 PM
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That'sa dumb take. Just because you are a capitalist doesn't mean you can't see the merits of socialism. Just because you are personally prolife doesn't mean that you don't want other women to have that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:17 AM
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Lol at women already chosing better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:14 AM
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The projection is great. You consider your sex so important that you don't want to be confronted that you gave it to me .who simply weren't worth it. You at once pretend that sex is no big deal and act as if it is a big deal when it suits you. As a goddamn collective make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:12 AM
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Comparison need not be one to one. That's why it's comparison. And better thanyiu lot, maliciously pretending it's all about woo woo feels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:10 AM
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Great. So you had your fun. What about us? Are we consigned to a life of paying taxes with you and holding the hair out of your face while you throw up from the hangover of baggage, or do you intent to have fun with us too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:59 AM
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why bother. As you said maybe men like me are better off accepting our level : sub par
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:35 PM
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I guess the rest of us are subpar troglodytes then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:31 PM
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And the honor is the mans to interact with such stunning and brave womnen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 PM
0

there is a toddler here and it isn't who you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:53 PM
0

why do you type like a emo phase teenager if you are a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:51 PM
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Men just get old and wrinkly. Women are stunning and brave to begin with and get even moreso
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:47 PM
3

calm the fuck down. Things are bad, but not that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:44 PM
1

It seems even more retarded to assume that this is something boys should understand without any guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:43 PM
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If the blue pill way of looking at things was exactly like this then the redpil wouldnt exist. The redpill exists to fill a void. A void blue pill chose to leave empty. Fucking deal with the consequence of your shortsightedness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:42 PM
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For the hundreth time, If personality matter that much then a rapist wouldnt be having so much more sex than me, Abusers wouldn't have anyone to abuse and all the conservative politicians would be bachelors
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:39 PM
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you are a lesbian though, do you even get to talk while you know people with skin in the game are talking, like go to some lesbian sub and laugh at incels there lol. Imagine being able to be in relationships and coming here gawk at losers. You Ok Bro? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:37 PM
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It generally just isn't helpful. Especially if you are not first or second pick. Guys that aren't attractive aren't going to be the guys women overlook misogyny or general toxicity to hookup with or date. You're only shooting yourself in the foot. Just accept where you are. If you don't want to, women aren't exactly starved for options and are much more comfortable forgoing any relationship or sex than men are. If it doesn't change anything why not carve away the parts of you that make you a dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:35 PM
1

it should make you feel icky if kids are being allowed to do that. Kids cannot consent to permanent changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:31 PM
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no. Fair is fair. If the nice guys intentions are selfish then so is a nicegirls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:29 PM
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Exactly, and for going through this totally normal ad inevitable part of life as a woman, you are stunning and brave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:27 PM
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I dont think any man has to excuse a woman for being into him only after she matures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:24 PM
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its kinda a red flag if you know this about the guys from he jump and still go with it. At that point you deserve the cake and the all you can eat buffet, and all the cellulite that comes after
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:23 PM
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Its what accounts for men who had little to no success in dating from their teens to mid 20s t getting to a relationship at 30. At earlier times in history the suckers would just get married because they think someone finally loves them It must have been a relief to think that you are wanted when you believed that no one wanted you. And that makes their life all the more tragic. Then again, compared to a permavirgin, i guess the betabux has a better life, even if his kid thinks he is not worth r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:14 PM
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Stunning and brave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:10 PM
1

Thats a very smug and self satisfied tower to be on top of
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:09 PM
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I still don't think i was wrong to fight back though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:08 PM
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Solid point. I can only make after the fact guesses on the behaviour. In their case, the women were beguiled by the charm, they were popular guys and using physical force to humiiate weaker boys was their way of proving status. they wouldmostly get away with it by saying and behaving as if we were the problem if we got upset - "we are friends arent we?" and " why are you ruining the mood bro". It was all fun and games to them. The girls who were with them indulged in the same thing guess, the ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:17 PM
1

Yeah. But its not like i bear her any specific animosity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:02 PM
1

Make your move player
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:47 AM
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It's your opinion that my who argument falls apart. Perhaps forgive was too strong a word for you. I meant to indicate 'tolerate' which is what most people took it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:47 AM
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Did I do that? On you I mean. I did hope the world would get destroyed numerous times. But I don't remember saying that hoping for your death specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:59 AM
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I got called an incel when trying to warn a girl that the guy she was flirting with is a potential rapist. That's just the most recent one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:53 AM
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Peterson when he came onto the scene was a good figure for men. He wasn't too crazy yet But leftist back lash the BZD addiction and the constant liberal agression helped him move towards a more... Let's say conspiracy theorist position.. You couldnt leave him well enough alone. If nothing else he would have taken some men away from tates brand of neoconservatism and redpill by staying relevant in that time rather than completely overshadowed by him. The general redpilling of men is the lefts fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:48 AM
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It began to change when the defining undercurrent became rage. Earlier pua was about understanding women ( for a very brief moment) before it became about gamifying dating and casual sex.. Then somehow somewhere MGTOW came in and made it Al about "women are bitches, awalt etc" From that point on there was no way to stop the sliding morass of redpill rage encompassing more and more of the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:38 AM
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I don't really care about femininity You can be a boss bitch if you want abd most of all behaviours will slide of my back. But if you resent me for not being in your feminine, or for me not allowing you to be more feminine.... Well that's just retarded. That being said it better if they manifest that rage earlier so that I don't have to waste time on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:32 AM
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As a late virgins, I don't even know if my dick works. If prostitutes were more visible, I would happily avail their services to lose my virginity in an environment where I won't feel judged. Even if my dick isn't robocop. I don't see the possibility that any woman my age would be understanding about it at all.. And I don't want to go through a trial by fire during what would be some woman's pity fuck to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:29 AM
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blessed people, everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:27 PM
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no you dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:19 PM
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maybe they are wht you deserve. As the womne say, what you get is your level
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:18 PM
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military service in the frontlines. 30% mortality each year, 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:14 PM
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would be fun to see the shitshow that results from using women as canon fodder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:12 PM
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I am sure you have your beliefs. I dont know why womne behave the way they do. The topic of the post is a conclusion i came to while seeing the world around men and interacting with the women in them. And in my experience, abusers get chances on chances to be better. Your reasons may apply but they do get man chances to be better wether or not they use them Meanwhile if a man does something that makes her lose respect for him, he is done. ANd the things that make her lose respect for him range f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:01 PM
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all womne are you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:54 PM
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alternate earth confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:44 PM
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lady as best i can tell you specifically seem to live in a parallel world where the gender relations are flipped. I am sure it is true for your earth but it isnt for ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:43 PM
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I am not trying to resurrect painful memories for you. I am just giving voice to what i have seen. The women stay with men who are emotionally and physical abusive rationalising every thing away until the situation becomes untenable. They dont give weakness half that much chance, weakness not in a way that makes you feel affirmed and validated rather wakness that makes you see him as less than. Arguably the woman should leave an abuser just as quickly as she would leave a weak man. BUts thats no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:40 PM
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I think it goes to socialization and gendered expectations. Most truly dominant womne believe that they need a guy to out alpha them. Handle them. And when it happens, its great for a little while because they get to experience being in the feminine role. The social scripts of wanting a guy taller than them and wanting a man more successful than them to "be intheir feminine", its difficult to resist. But over time the role chafes at them because they live inauthentically. AT which point if the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:36 PM
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Aren'tthey? I don't want to bring up race but there is a entire subculture of women who look down at men for being in their words "corny" and "sassy" Yet they also tend to have negative sentiments overide due to being involved with abusers abd deadbeats... So you know.. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:02 AM
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It should be that way. But seeing as abusive men have more than decent dating success it seems that they can get away with being abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:51 AM
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It's a shame really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:31 AM
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Younarent helping your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:27 AM
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Another comment told me, I wasn't talking about you specifically. 'The narcism. Lord!'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:27 AM
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All post hoc rationalisations to stay. If he started if being a no name mook she wouldn't even be with him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:25 AM
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I would argue that the perception of weaKness is subjective. When there were topics of men talking about how they were punished for being vulnerable many women run interference discrediting the claim ( which is a bullshit reaction that reflect poorly in the women here by the way) and one of the common responses were - those women were immature. I submit that one of the features of immaturity is the inability to distinguish Weakness from vulnerability and narcism from confidence. In such a case i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:22 AM
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That matters when I am talking about women? Unless your point is women are the ultimate sheeple or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:16 AM
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I don't understand the thought process. I can only hazard guesses. And I am reporting on what I have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:15 AM
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Dude. It's reddit. Why are you getting mad over internet points?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:14 AM
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Nothing aBout my life is precious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:13 AM
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At what age do the women become adult women cause I have seen many 20 year olds behave like this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:11 AM
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Womencare more about the masculine traits of a man than him being a good guy ( and ugly) . If the masculine presenting person turns out to be abusive it's not an immediate deal-breaker they way an ick or an effeminate man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:11 AM
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Abuse doesn't disqualify strength or masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:10 AM
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Don'tquestion my authority peasant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:09 AM
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You would think so. But the predictors of attractiveness in men corelate for strength. In the current day and age a tech engineer is the more reliable pick ... But nerds are still considered bottom of the barrel to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:57 AM
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Would you be open to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:53 AM
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Violence abd the capacity for it doesn't disqualify a man from masculinity nthe way weakness does. I can only go off what I observe. Perhaps abuse was modelled for them growing up as a part of life? . If I had to make a guess I think the perception is that the guy who is abusive could still potentially protect her as long as she is important to him, while a weak man can't protect anyone I am not saying it is right. I am saying it just is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:52 AM
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I don't really know why women would want to behave this way. I can only go off what I observe. Perhaps abuse was modelled for them growing up as a part of life? Perhaps violence doesn't disqualify a man from machismo they way weakness does. If I had to make a guess I think the perception is that the guy who is abusive could still potentially protect her as long as she is important to him, while a weak man can't protect anyone I am not saying it is right. I am saying it just is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:51 AM
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You find most women around you especially young women have good self-esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:47 AM
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Iphones are the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:46 AM
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Vulnerability is not the same as weakness. There are a significant number of women who confuse it with it though abd hence why I can say that women will forgive abuse before weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:44 AM
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So basically if you are sad and emotional at woman defined times and in women defined ways? Life is not convenient like that. His insecurity could very well be something that turns you of. He could be needy and clingy. He could be insecure about your past and his place in your life relative to it. He could cry over chewbaka being blown up or the vending machine running out of his favourite snack The greatest predictor for a divorce in a man's lifeumis when a wife begins to out earn him and when …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:39 AM
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Idk. If I had to make a guess I think the perception is that the guy who is abusive could still potentially protect her as long as she is important to him, while a weak man can't protect anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:32 AM
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That'sa healthy response
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:30 AM
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Not something to brag about bruh Should have used your minds voice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:29 AM
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Do you like to tie them.up.or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:18 AM
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The fact that they stay is evidence enough to imply that abuse is its first instance and every other instance is borne with until the situation becomes untenable. Have you ever heard of a woman staying with a man that displays weakness over a long period of time without making things miserable for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:16 AM
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Herpes simplex virus type 2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:13 AM
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You would think so, and I agree that it should be so. But that's not what happens. Interms of results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:09 AM
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Let me put it this way.... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:41 PM
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Well I am able to sleep now. I do r feel guilty about wanting sex. I don't feel guilty about having the gall to be angry about being an incel If nothing else just the change in mindset improved my stress abd my life by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:37 PM
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I was an honourable man. Didn't help jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:34 PM
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I'lldo you one better Women will forgive abuse before weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:32 PM
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Smv of the bottom of the barrel, same as a flea I fested rat because women rn seen to sense the plague in me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:18 PM
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Losers can't afford morality. Losers gonna loser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:04 AM
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Clearly you belive the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:03 AM
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Nah man. People cheat all the time. They are not commiting sexual assault if the mistress or tgebparamour aren't aware of their marital status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:00 AM
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I don't understand the parallel. I did the same for a foot ball team who didn't have enough members. You had the good fortune of being born a woman, finding your husband in highschool and enjoying a full life with him.. And you are saying we need to learn to go through adversity? It's like listening to trump talk about the poor needing to Boostrap their way through life. Which I agree with. It is what I am arguing for with the caveat the having extreme morals in you goal to pull yourself out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:46 AM
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I guess a part of that process is that you have to accept you are always gonna be sub par physically, sexually... . At that point how does a moral good person who wants a woman to be happy with him engage in the process of finding a mate or love. You have to be immoral. You have to belive that you are a scumbag to mute the feeling that you are attempting to cheat a someone into sex with you. .cause you are... Nothing is changing that. .all you can change us your emotional response to being a fra…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:30 AM
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Oh come on. You get to be. Kenough. Some men sare simply kenot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:26 AM
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Response "and you are a smLldicked bitch who will never please a woman" Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:25 AM
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illegal to sleep with someone under a false identity. It’s recognised by law. Not true. Only in certain jurisdictions like Israel. Sure if you pretend to be the womans SO in a situation like lack of ambient light - eg you slide into bed and she assumes you are the husband and has sex with you.... That's rape by deception. But a one night stand where you know nothing about the other person both men and women can pretend to be someone else, be a different professional, lie about marital status and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:22 AM
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I just really love it when who heap responsibility on to men while just letting the rules not exist for women. Plus watching men who simply break the rules you set win consistently ... Well it's easy to understand why we think women's expectations are bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:07 AM
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It's. Kind of pathetic that would have to lie about a career to get laid to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:54 AM
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A woman lies that she is ok so that the man asking the question doesn't come closer to her... Thats Ok? She lies that she has a boyfriend when a stranger asks her out because she is 'scared'. That's ok? She choses to avoid mentioning that she had a promiscuous past knowing that the guy she is with would want to know before committing to her, that's OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:53 AM
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Serious potential implies high likely hood The guy she can see herself snagging relatively easily - I e someone she belives is on her level she will treat like that. There level of rich and celebrity where the thinking shifts to how she thinks about very attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:51 AM
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The rape and coercion seems to the exception than the rule Most women wanted to sleep with them Maybe they got entitled abd couldn't handle being told no is they ever were, leading to the case where they committed assault
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:44 AM
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Once they cross that line consensual sex should go out the window. If you warn a woman that a guy could potentially be dangerous, considering that they dmsay they are afraid of us the woman should walk away , nut call the messenger an incel because she wants that rPist dick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:42 AM
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Uk. It's not a hard and fast law, it's a interpretation based law the bar bring the woman feeling uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:51 PM
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Whythe fuck did you go.from trolling to advising me. This shit is giving me whiplash
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:54 PM
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Good. Memorise it. Learn the dread men have to live with everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:49 PM
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Exactly. That's how love bombing works right? Without the abusive second shoe dropping it's just a guy who is very affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:41 PM
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Love the projection. No. I just lol at women claiming that commitment and good treatment us the bare minimum when your sisters make it evident that it isn't. I had no intention of mistreating the women who would have given me a chance but I will resent being compared negatively to men who gave her so little compared to me But that's gone now, so it's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah. I know right? How much of a bitch must I be that a rapist abd a abuser gets more chances for relationships and sex than me . Me with all of my erstwile good intentions was a worse pick that a handsome rapist and a tall fair abuser. Do you understand the depth of my dispair now? Fuck it man. I will live and Kill myself at retirement after blowing my savings on cocaine and whores. Edit: the women in question where doctors too by the way.... So its not like as if these men are modeled for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:37 PM
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Yeah. 48 laws of power explores that concept. People are more likely to be excited to see you when you are excited to see them A guy in reddit ( autistic) talked about how he didn't know how to make his girlfriend happy and resorted to treating her like he treated his dog. Lighting up when she came within eyesight, greetings her enthusiastically. Lots of cuddles and affection . Cringe shit like "so you know who is the prettiest girl in the world? You." And bassicaly more enthusiastic and upbeat …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:32 PM
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It triggers me because words have meaning. When you say bare minimum it means that anything below that should not be successful. Yet we have hood fuckers and druglords and rapists and abusers hitting body counts like nba scores. I gave up when I realised the women I knew would rather get with a rapist I tried to warn them about and a know abuser over even entertaing the thought that I might be interested in them ( I wasn't, they saw me telling them to be careful as an incel tactic to get in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:27 PM
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Asking a friend if they want to have a beer? Ok Asking a friend if they want to have a beer knowing that you don't have cash on you without letting them know up front? Manipulative. Crying because something upset you? Fine. But being the kind of person who cries everytime she gets uncomfortable especially if her job demands it such that you and your co workers have to step in each time ? Manipulative (unconsciously?). Doung it frequently to get out of situations, or to garner support ? Manipulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:13 PM
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Everytime a woman uses bare minimum , it triggers the fuck out of me. To me bare minimum is a joke. It's like a guy saying a home needs to have 4wall, be weather proof, have a roof and a kitchen and a bathroom while scoffing at a listing of a modest building for 200k, while enthusiastically paying 500k for a plot of land with a tent and an out house. If women claim a bare minimum abd stick to it no one would be happier than me. But looking at the men who are successful - clearly the "bare minimu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:06 PM
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Which isthe entire point. Manipulation is not a hammer swung at the head, it is a gentle nudge to watds the behaviour you want. We do it a lot. Women do it unconsciously when they cry. It becomes problematic when you are doing it solely for your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:01 PM
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Nah dude. I mean sure it could be totally normal to say those things. But the way they say it and context matters, and the way I have seen them deployed they are always made to elicit a desired behaviour. It's not very different from telling your gf " oh yeah my ex had an outfit like that she used to wear it often fir our dates - to get her to stop wearing it"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:56 PM
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