Adam_Faith_No_More Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	"Game" is overrated. Looks, status, game, money. In that order.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 10:13 PM
0	I'll never understand this female instinct to give it up to someone who already has it. Wat?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 10:53 AM
5	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid No, I'm right with you. It's a terrible thing. "Bangmaid", I can't...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 04:32 PM
-5	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid It gets even worse. The other day, she was watching me shower, and I called her a "peeping Tom". And that just goes to show how rampant misogyny is in today's society, where a man can call his wife such vile, dehumanising things. Because a "peeping Tom" is basically someone who has no respect - a sad, little creature whose entire persona is defined by this one timid perversion. And I guess the only reason she didn't up and left right there and then, is because of all the internalised misogyny, w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 04:19 PM
-1	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid Yeah, it definitely sounds like OP was in a very serious online discussion when the highly academic term "bangmaid" made an appearance :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 04:07 PM
-16	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid If my fiancé told me he loves that I’m a “bangmaid,” I would leave him. We have agreed upon responsibilities that fall in line with gendered roles, but a bangmaid is not loved. She is an object whose duty is to serve him, and he does not have to consider her wants or needs, or even who she is outside of her cooking and cleaning. She’s not another person to him; her entire being is her role. Holy shit, I'm glad I'm not dealing with this. I can call my wife a bangmaid, she can call me an ATM, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 03:55 PM
0	How many would you say there are genuinely good guys The vast, vast majority of guys are good people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 11:45 AM
–	Past what age women are no longer attractive to you? It increases with my own age, but not at the same pace. When I was 20 it went up to about 32. Now that I'm early 40's, maybe mid 40's at most. I notice there's currently a huge drop-off from mid 40's, and into their 50's with some women I found hot just a few years back. Maybe I'll feel differently about it when I'm in my 50's or so. But if the general trend continues, I think by my 50's I'll be exclusively attracted to women who are at least a couple of years younger than me. Maybe 48 when I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 07:37 PM
0	Hypothetical Women uprising? Kind of proves the point that women are biologically wired to complain. There's never been an average group of people more privileged than western women in 2026. Yet you're talking about an "uprising", lmfao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 01:45 PM
1	Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective? No, I don't. I consider the should mindset to be thoroughly blue pill, and unhelpful. Red pill is praxeology, dealing with reality as is. It's not a philosophy, or a movement, and isn't dealing in shoulds. But even excluding that, forgetting blue/red pill for the sake of argument, I still think it's a really bad idea to "lower your standards", and go against what you truly are. And it's a loser's mindset expecting others to lower their standards, so that maybe they'll go for you. We already know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 09:15 AM
0	Universal compulsory heterosexuality ("comphet") is now considered a black pill subject and is not allowed on this sub. asserting that all or most women are only attracted to men because of compulsory heterosexuality is no longer allowed. Cool. So we're still allowed to say there's no such thing as lesbianism then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/26 04:18 PM
1	Is an average woman dating an average man considered "settling?" Firstly, it's across or above - not just above. Secondly, it's about perception, and not necessarily reality. Thirdly, social media and online dating artificially inflate women's egos, and artificially deflate men's egos. So what do average guys do? They date average women who aren't on Tinder, who don't post thirst traps on social media, and who therefore don't have a skewed emotional perception of what "across" means. Obviously, it's going to be a limited market though. But it's there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 01:01 PM
–	Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other. I don't necessarily agree that dating sucks. There's something to be said about having actual reality available to you, and dealing with that, rather than being caught up in fantasy, and pay the price for that once you're stuck. Personally I prefer the former. But if dating does in deed suck, there is probably no one reason for that. It's true that the female mystique is well and truly dead though. Social media, online dating and female-driven pop culture are probably the main drivers of that. E…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 06:31 AM
7	There's nothing morally wrong with the af/bb strategy. That's it. That's the whole thing Not for the guy it is. The amount of nagging is inversely proportional, and the quality/frequency of sex proportional, to her level of desire for him. I just don't see how a man in the scenario is a victim of anything. He's not a victim. He's chosen it himself. Doesn't mean it's advisable though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 12:23 PM
0	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool So women have accidentally filtered out the best men from the dating pool, and left more room for the worst men "Best" and "worst" according to whom? Other men who also can't get laid? But hey, women like "confident" men so I guess this was the desired end result anyway? You're being sarcastic, but yes, that's the whole point of societal shit testing. It's supposed to weed out the weak, the ones who go: "Yes, m'lady". And there are a lot of genuinely good subconscious reasons why feeble mindedne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 03:17 PM
2	Would you leave this woman? It's interesting how it must be about you. Can't it just be that that guy likes anal sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 06:30 AM
3	Could my wife and I work through these red flags? She often talks about how hard her life is and has a negative outlook on life despite her having a good life Big no-no. Add kids into that mix, and it's going to be a hellish experience for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/26 05:44 PM
–	Would you rather have primary custody or 50/50 and pay child support? 50/50. Because it's good for them to be with both their mom and dad (as long as they're both safe people), and it's good for both parents to do their own things as well. Besides, I don't live in the Anglosphere, so divorce/custody/support laws aren't bonkers here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:21 AM
1	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. women’s selection gets treated like it is beyond criticism because “autonomy,” “preference,” and “chemistry,” In a practical "what works, or doesn't work" sense, it's the right way to think about it. Because you can't negotiate desire. Men who argue with women online about their tastes in men are basically trying to logic and shame their way into being selected - much like those fat acceptance chicks. It's pointless. If you're at least normie tier, there are solutions out there that actually wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 06:50 AM
0	Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on? Would you immediately leave them Yes. or would you give them a chance for forgiveness Not mutually exclusive. I can forgive someone, and at the same time cut them out of my life. Gender based difference Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 12:12 PM
5	What are positive aspects of being divorced? I was on a mountain hike with a bunch of my mates a while back, where you could either go Wednesday to Sunday, or meet up with the rest on Friday to Sunday. Suffice to say, all the still married guys started on the Friday, and all the divorced guys on the Wednesday. Made some of us think, you could say. I know plenty of divorced guys who have awesome lives, doing the whole 50/50 thing. 50% to do their own things, having non live-in girlfriends and stuff. And 50% to hang with the kids, without th…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 07:35 AM
–	Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why? Within reason, yeah. I don't expect anyone to be a virgin. In fact, beyond a certain age, I find it to be plain weird. I like sex, so I wouldn't consider someone who doesn't also think sex is important to them. And guess what, if you're a somewhat attractive woman, and you like sex, you're probably not going to be a virgin beyond your late teens/early twenties. But where she got her sexual experience from matters a great deal. Was it through a bunch of one-night-stands, drunken hook-ups, and FWB…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 09:49 AM
-4	Do you think women's aversion of helping men in the dating/sexual context is biological or societal? Biological, but of course reinforced socially. Women are subconsciously hardwired to facilitate a steady supply of backup options, to ensure provisioning and emotional support for themselves and their kids, in case their main options don't work out. Hence all that stuff women throw out there into the ether, about stepdads, dadbods, and whatever convenient thing constitutes a "real man". Same for bad dating advice. It's all to ensure you're still around when all else fails. It's basically shit te…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 09:50 AM
2	What comes to your mind when you hear of a straight guy with many female friends but is still a virgin? I am one of the rarer variety of virgins in that I can easily talk to women, I see them as human and I can see value in them beyond a sexually, and I can talk to them with ease This sexual strategy of painting other males as "bad", so as to appear "good" by comparison, is fairly typical of the male perpetual virgin. It's reminiscent of that classic Chris Rock bit, about wanting credit for some shit that's just normal, and you're supposed to do (like seeing other humans as human). The reason it d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 06:45 AM
0	If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AF Your rejection is no different from a fat person turning down another fat person, or someone with a promiscuous past insisting they’ll only marry a person with zero history Or someone having a penis expecting a potential partner not to have a penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 03:11 PM
-1	Why do you think women are hypergamous? No if. Women are hypergamous, period. Doesn't mean women don't settle, doesn't mean 'value' isn't derived from a number of factors, doesn't mean women don't stay in unfulfilling relationships due to practical reasons etc. Nothing is as clear cut as you (seem to) want it to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 05:57 PM
2	Why do you think women are hypergamous? The term 'hypergamy' is borrowed from sociology. But TRP meaning encompasses everything "bigger and better" - including looks. The sociological meaning only encompasses socio-economic factors. Obviously, TRP interpretation of 'hypergamy' is more accurate, seeing as the sociological version has this massive blind spot for looks/phenotype.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 05:52 PM
3	CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than men Is this "optimization" drive the reason modern dating feels like a broken arms races or is the "grass is always greenier" mentality just an intrinsic biological process of women? It's an intrinsic biological process, also known as "hypergamy". And it's not hard to understand why, when you consider the amount of risk and sacrifice associated with pregnancy. If you're going to risk death, being out of commission for up to two years, and then having to deal with a significantly lowered sexual marke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 09:29 PM
1	The women who are the loudest about not dating a “man child” are the definition of “woman child.” Men and women have different attitudes and expectations to material provisioning, because we serve different biological functions. Our biological functions, again, influence how we organise societally, and within the family structure. This, again, influences the evolutionary pressures. And around and around it goes... We are emotionally adapted to this reality, hence the "ick" women feel, even today, when having to provide for a man - and the absence of the same "ick" in men when providing for w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 08:42 PM
–	The women who are the loudest about not dating a “man child” are the definition of “woman child.” Yeah. And it's pretty obvious why that is - from both a biological, and an anthropological point of view. The rest is simply about how men and women (respectively) "feel" about this and that, even to this day. However, you always have to take AF/BB into account, if you want something closer to the full picture. Basically, if you're hot, and got game, women will very much "ride or die" with someone who isn't exactly a financial winner. The focus on 'provisioning', and 'lifestyle' is very much on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 06:32 PM
2	Women often give horrible dating advice It's called "shit testing". And on a societal level, it serves two functions: 1) It weeds out the weak. 2) It maintains hopeful backups in their place, so that they at least can serve a useful function if all else fails.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 10:42 AM
2	The courting process never ends for men. This is a perfect example of what a double-whammy blue pill conditioning is for men; Not only are you exhausting yourself by made up romantic expectations, but what you get in return is a lack of desire, and constantly changing goal posts. No wonder you're running yourself into the ground with this nonsense. Meanwhile, over on the red pill side of things (which is how things actually work), you can focus on all the things you want to do for yourself, and the autonomous person you want to be, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 03:58 PM
1	Invest as little as possible early on Be A Skittles Man: https://heartiste.org/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/ Or, as they say: "Treat her like a celebrity, and she'll treat you like a fan."	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 01:19 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" A common trope amongst females, and male feminist types, is that when men don't want something in a romantic partner, it's because they think they're "owed" something else. Funny how respecting other people's feelings and preferences go straight out the window the minute those feelings and preferences might limit women's romantic options. And yes, it is ultimately about people's feelings. Some dynamics just feel good, other dynamics just feel bad. Feelings are very, very important when it comes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 03:11 PM
1	Women should not be asked to settle No objection from me. I find the whole "women should lower their standards" thing absolutely cringe. I don't think men who engage in that sort of stuff have even thought through what they would actually "win" (no/crap sex, and lots of nagging). The whole thing reminds me of those fat pride women, who would rather attempt to shame everyone into finding them attractive, than to see the inside of a gym. Shaming people into choosing you is (in addition to embarrassing) an impotent mating strategy. F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:47 PM
1	Women Aren't the great Communicators They Think They Are Women are, generally speaking, emotionally immature, and therefore incompetent at adult communication. I highly question the narrative that men should aspire to be more like women in this regard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 09:27 AM
1	What is Red Pill for you? I think we're getting into territory now where, if you're genuinely interested in it, you can research it yourself. It's too large of a subject that I'd want to repeat it just now. I will say this though: Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. That alone explains a lot. If you genuinely want to dive down the red pill rabbit hole, without all the ideological and resentful stuff, then I highly recommend Rian Stone's "side bar series" on YouTube. It's very level-headed stuff, without sacrificing on tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 11:26 AM
6	What is Red Pill for you? On the nuts and bolts level, I believe in the basic evolutionary psychology of mating typically peddled in TRP. I find it to make a lot of sense. "Feelings" are secondary to the biological purpose of something. We feel a certain way because we respond emotionally to certain basic biological triggers. And then we rationalize those feelings, based on a number of social rules (we don't want to see ourselves, or be seen as bad people, superficial etc). So, 1st tier = biology. 2nd tier = feelings. 3r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 10:57 AM
19	MRP teachings, help us understand what intimacy really means it is all done because she is afraid of losing this man, but in reality the sincerity, the intimacy, the true desire, had ended much earlier. False dichotomy. Sure, hysterical bonding is a thing. But competition anxiety is a genuine part of what makes a woman's juices flow. Nothing insincere about it. Women have a hundred reasons for genuinely wanting to have sex with a man. And you can go boo hoo about each and every one of them if you want to. "Boo hoo, she only wants to fuck me because of my …	/r/askMRP	16/02/26 09:54 AM
–	What do you think about some women being happy single and “not needing men”? It's ego protection and cope. Generally, when people feel the need to shout it from the rooftops that they are "single by choice", "happy to be fat", "going their own way", and such things, it's because they're desperately trying to shape a narrative about being in control, rather than being a loser. There are of course people who are genuinely happy about such things - and more power to them - but they're not the ones who can't seem to shut up about it. Generally speaking, happiness and content…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 10:17 AM
1	Those who do not believe delayed sex is a cause of concern, how would you respond to this scenario? If not, why not? Because I'm not willingly, knowingly putting myself in the beta buxx position. The fuxx need to be well established before any buxxing (if ever) is going to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 04:41 PM
1	Hybristophilia contradicts hypergamy Hypergamy is the tendency for a person to only date across or up in terms of SES or position in some given hierarchy, That is the sociological definition, from which TRP has lifted the term. But the TRP definition of hypergamy is broader (and i.m.o. more accurate) in that it includes looks as well. Also, TRP makes a distinction between alpha seed, and beta need, and considers economic status to be overrated (with regards to genuine sexual desire). I'm assuming your argument is against TRP (given…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 04:13 PM
1	Q4M: If you let a woman finger you in the ass previously, but you hated it, are you now obligated to let every subsequent woman you see finger you in the ass? Nobody is obligated to do anything sexual they don't want. And nobody is obligated to stay with someone who doesn't quite do it for them sexually, or who they feel aren't giving them their best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 03:46 PM
1	Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised. and so they wouldn’t mind settling for an average guy It's still "settling for" though, as you rightly point out yourself. And that's just not an attractive proposition for a guy. Because we know how women treat men who are objects of their desire Vs. men who aren't. As a guy, you're better off being single, than being someone safe but unsexy option. Because all you're going to get out of it is lots of nagging, lots of disrespect, lots of control, and very little sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 09:54 AM
2	30s are perhaps the hardest years to date (even if you're youthful) Probably at least somewhat valid. This is only in your head. Only leftover women, and the simps who try to impress them care about that stuff. And they're both irrelevant. There are plenty of venues, festivals, and such that draw either older crowds, or more diverse crowds. Two key red pill concept for you to consider: Frame, and being your own mental point of origin. You look over your shoulders too much, bogged down by expectations that are either imaginary, or coming from irrelevant people. C…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 06:31 PM
1	What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"? There are lots of signs, such as sex before commitment, breaking rules vs. making rules, complimenting his physique, sex acts that are only mentally stimulating for her if she's into the guy etc. But the signs are all indistinguishable from early phase bait & switch, or just generally being a hoe. You really only can take your time, and be ready to bail once/if the picture changes. The change can occur once you go exclusive, call yourself "boyfriend and girlfriend", move in together, get married…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 08:54 AM
2	Project AVA Is A Sign That Things Are Getting Worse In Dating I don't think the technology is quite there yet to satisfy more than a fringe market. If you can't actually fuck, people will prefer the real thing. But once you have A.I. sex robots that look and sound hot, most people are probably going to prefer that. It's only a matter of time. And it's not necessarily a bad thing. People have always freaked out about technology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 05:29 PM
3	Are men are more comfortable in competence hierarchies than women? Yes. Because we think more in terms of personal accountability, and don't see everything as oppression from some external force. So we have an easier time accepting that somebody else might be more competent, therefore deserving of a higher position in the hierarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 05:03 PM
2	It is not necessary to use intellectualism to reject people you find repulsive. hate Off-topic comments are to be posted as replies to the auto moderator announcement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 12:49 PM
–	Anyone in a relationship that believes love doesn't exist? That depends on how you would define "love". If you apply magical thinking to it, or think it's something unconditional, then the answer is no, I don't believe in that. And yes, I'm happily married - precisely because I don't harbor any illusions of what love is. Love (in the romantic sense) is simply a response to having certain needs met. And as such, it will always be rife with conditions. I neither expect, nor offer anything but.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 11:02 AM
7	Found the affair yesterday Start the divorce process, and don't tell her anything yet. Stealth is an advantage. Your lawyer will know everything you need to gather, and how. Staying with a cheating wife is a terrible example to set for your kids. So don't use your kids to justify the cowardly way.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 08:52 AM
24	Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore? I thought the red pill was about changing your circumstances and adapting to your environment. Instead, all I ever see y'all do is whine and complain about women. One of the wiser red pill gurus once said: "You need to learn this shit, so that you can forget it". And that's really what it boils down to. You take the red pill, you adapt, you internalise it until it becomes second nature, and then you mostly fuck off again. Red pill spaces will always, at any time, mostly be populated by newbies, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 06:29 PM
1	The Manosphere Preys on Immaturity, Not Misogyny or Entitlement TRP has never shied away from the fact that looks matter a great deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 11:18 AM
1	Its not biphobic to not date bi men I'm not saying they don't exist. But the online space - particularly with regards to topics such as this - is disproportionately populated by people who are unhappy about their lives, particularly their success with the opposite sex Therefore, you'll see a lot more online of people trying to shame eachother, virtue signal, point, and sputter - all in an attempt to level a playing field where one doesn't measure up. The thought process is largely: "If only I can argue and shame people into being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 08:18 PM
2	Its not biphobic to not date bi men but a straight man saying this about bi women gets raged at. Only online, by white knights, and perpetually fuckzoned women. In real life, amongst actually functioning individuals, nobody really gives a shit what you find attractive and not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 06:43 PM
1	Do you think attraction is a choice? This is really a question for black pill, or blue pill (which are basically just two sides of the same coin). Red pill is about radical acceptance of reality, and personal adaptation to said reality. Anyone who thinks attraction is a choice, or that you can rationally convince people to be into that which they aren't, has more in common with the fat acceptance movement than anything red pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 05:54 PM
4	Do i tell her the truth or sugarcoat it? I don't know exactly how, but I think there's potential here to spin her affair in your favour. For one, you probably shouldn't tell her you'll "never forgive her". Although true, it comes of as kind of aggressive, and could trigger her into a combative mode. Better to lay it out like it hurt you, and you're still struggling to trust her. Put it forth like you need to see some evidence of loyalty and commitment. Then dangle the carrot of possible reconciliation in front of her to get her to sign…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/25 11:23 AM