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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	If dread works, do I even want her anymore?		AdamantAuk	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 04:55 PM

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5	Period started today - seeking wisdom Ordering flowers for what? She's doing her job, just like you do yours, even when she doesn't feel great. Big whoop. That's called being an adult. You've got kids--you should already understand that giving rewards for stuff they're supposed to do anyway lessens the power of those motivators AND discourages self-discipline in the future.	/r/askMRP	20/01/17 07:42 PM
2	If physical attraction is so important, is my situation dire? I have a buddy who has Cerebral Palsy and walks like a freak. Average looks. Has a wife who is hot as fuck and crazy about him. He's a high earner but doesn't flaunt it. Exudes confidence without being a dick, and commands respect. He has a lot to make up for, but the way he carries himself mentally makes up for his issues physically. Definitely the one wearing the pants in his marriage. If you act like the self-conscious disabled guy, you're gonna be the self-conscious disabled guy. Be the conf…	/r/askTRP	18/01/17 03:45 AM
–	Need help over here Oneitis or not, there is no outcome independence in your post. You are very set on a certain outcome. I get why you are, but you can't be that dependent on outcome and still project the confidence you need to project for her to be attracted.	/r/askTRP	18/01/17 03:23 AM
1	Girlfriend being overly cordial with Ex? What should I do? Scared at the thought of you leaving her--because you do all the beta stuff the ex doesn't (consoling, dates, etc), and she gets her tingles from him. She's legitimately scared of you taking off because you feed her need for attention. The other guy is feeding her need for the D. You're not exclusive. Plate her or next.	/r/askTRP	17/01/17 07:32 PM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? Lol, I thought I was clear this was a hypothetical. I'm nowhere near harem level. I'm lucky if I can get a 7 to rub bits with. I'm trying to understand the philosophy of dread, because it seemed like the resulting attitude in the successfully dread-ed girl would be off putting. Just trying to get a grip on the principles here.	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 03:40 AM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? This is a good point--you're probably right!	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 11:10 PM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? Insecurity in her mind, that I'd be able to get better girls than her. If dread raises my SMV in her mind, wouldn't it lead her to do a lot of comfort testing and other insecure behaviors?	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 08:28 PM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? So dread doesn't necessarily generate insecurity?	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 07:37 PM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? If a bunch of 2s were overcompensating for low value by throwing themselves at me and letting me do whatever I want, that doesn't do it for me. Maybe I'm misunderstanding the goal of dread--it's just supposed to change her behavior, not how she feels she ranks among my options?	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 06:46 PM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? Clearly this is a hypothetical for me. I'm new at this, and any insecure girls I've been with have been demonstrably low value and unattractive. Maybe I'm just having trouble imagining what an insecure high value girl would be like.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 06:26 PM
3	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? So the difference is, I'll still want an insecure HB8, vs a similarly insecure 5? I mean, obviously her ranking makes a difference. But a high value chick worried she's low value won't make me feel like I'm hooking up with someone's unwanted leftovers?	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 06:06 PM
1	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? Ok, I see what you're saying. But from prior experience, I feel like shit if all I can pull is an insecure 5 who knows she isn't hot. If I make a girl worried she's low on my list of plates, won't she "turn into" that unfuckable low value 5 in my eyes?	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 06:02 PM
2	When a girl tells you she wants something serious and... You can't even be sure she was into the sex in the first place. How hard is it to scream or fake a mind blowing orgasm during sex? Women, especially women who are CC experienced, know how to play a role. And as for why, it's just pride. They want to be known as a good lay. They want word to get around. She may not have been into you in the first place. Might have had nothing to do with what you did or didn't do. And then when you kept pursuing, she tried to lose you with what she thinks will mak…	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 05:54 AM
1	Where to meet intellectual girls? Not worth it. Intellectual girls will shit test you until their last breath. Get some intellectual female friends if that kind of thing trips your trigger, but for plates or LTRs, choose someone who wants to please and isn't likely to give you a hard time arguing everything to death.	/r/askTRP	18/08/16 08:20 PM
2	"Sleepovers" with LTR Dude, if you're not worth the 60 seconds it takes her to wipe off her makeup, you've already lost this game. If the tradeoff was going to be hours of application and removal, maybe, but if she's seriously not willing to put effort into 10 mins of makeup and a minute or two to wash it off, find a new girl.	/r/askTRP	13/08/16 03:08 PM
1	How do i become more patient and just let things take as long as they need to take? Start doing it with passive things first. It's a lot harder to motivate yourself to get up and go for a run than it is to tell yourself, I'm thirsty, but I'm going to purposely wait ten minutes before I drink this glass of water. Or wait 3 minutes before you check on that notification you heard on your phone from your pocket. Start training yourself to do very very slightly uncomfortable things, and ramp up gradually.	/r/askTRP	09/08/16 03:46 AM
1	Is she wife material? Besides her n count or lack thereof, what are some other green flags?	/r/askTRP	06/08/16 03:08 AM
4	Mass texting girls from past — ever a good idea? Really sounds like scarcity mentality. If you want new energy and spontaneity, find it with some new chicks, not ones you already passed on.	/r/askTRP	06/08/16 02:55 AM
1	I just failed the most obvious shit-test with a girl I had on the hook - and I'm pissed as fuck at myself. It will just make you that much more prepared for the next time you find yourself in that position. Next time agree and amplify--take time now to craft some responses, and you'll be ready.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 11:42 PM
2	I just failed the most obvious shit-test with a girl I had on the hook - and I'm pissed as fuck at myself. 3,499,999,999 other chicks out there, bro. No big loss. Pick yourself up and start over with a new one.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 11:32 PM
2	She interested but how should I play this? OI. If she's going to be coming around, don't chase.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 05:04 PM
2	She has male friends If she's a plate, who cares. If you're in a LTR after one month, you have even bigger problems.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 04:57 PM
2	How long does it take gain weight in my position. 120lb gain and 2% bf.... Bruh.	/r/askTRP	31/07/16 12:08 AM
1	How do you reject your co-worker without having any awkwardness in the workplace? You can still use the "I don't do X with coworkers" excuse even if you think she might play it off as friends--"I don't go out one on one with female coworkers because it gets too many people talking" or similar. The impression you want to give is that you don't even want to appear to be dating coworkers, much less actually date them.	/r/askTRP	28/07/16 05:54 PM