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The difference is, men overwhelmingly are more likely to actually make the first step rather than the other way around...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:51 PM
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It is perfectly possible to think somebody is hot while staying friends and as research has shown MOST RELATIONSHIPS START IN FRIENDSHIP. Usually at school/college or at work. How old are those studies? I would love to see if that reflects as true in this day and age in 2022...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:50 PM
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You just sound like an already disturbed individual and working out just created further insecurities for you...which it does if you get deep into it, quite frankly. Strength training and bodybuilding is supposed to be life enriching, but it sounds like it isn't doing that at all for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:45 PM
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How the hell do you meet people shopping? I'm just there to get what I need and get out. I don't have the time or energy to socialize. If anything I'd end up forgetting what I'm there for
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:34 PM
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Facebook is turning into Twitter 2.0 If you're looking for decent people there you'd be disappointed I'm afraid. There is a good reason why many people are beginning to stray away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:34 PM
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Speaking for myself, I came to the conclusion that the juice isn't worth the squeeze more often than not. I decided to quit wasting my time and energy and put it more towards things in life that I actually enjoy (shooting, weightlifting, gaming, cooking) than would be fruitful in my life rather than wasting time with people who often times have ulterior motives, are unreasonably picky or have more personality disorders than you yourself thought you were afflicted with. Either that or I just end …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:32 PM
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Because the two are completely mutually exclusive, there couldn't possibly be any overlap...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:16 PM
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most of them are unachievable for an average joe they really aren't unattainable. People are just too f*cking lazy and undedicated to even attempt to. Even if you don't have the greatest genetics you can still achieve a pretty damn good physique if you do what's necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:50 PM
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Did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 10:50 PM
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this is true as well. No arguments here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:38 PM
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fair enough, at least you're honest about it hah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:04 PM
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no, because of the nonsensical shit you say
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:49 PM
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I find that difficult to buy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:07 PM
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I don't think it really overshadows the issue as much as you think it does...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:06 PM
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why do I get the impression that you're an incel or MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:19 PM
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I take Testosterone and I'm not even horny 24/7. My depression may contribute to that, but at the same time, I've got so much other shit going on that I don't even have the time to think about railing the shit out of women every 6 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:19 PM
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Ehh, to be fair, I can actually understand why women are attracted to the 'oddball' choices you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:36 PM
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they definitely wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:08 PM
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Women, who in general hate going to the gym, would have to seriously work out. and...you think they'd actually do that? Heh, they don't even do that now and still expect to be waited on hand and foot by a 6 ft tall, 6-figure making 6-pack dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:07 PM
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There isn't one /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:02 PM
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don't need to be a surgeon to know when someone fucks up a heart operation... But ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:28 AM
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You don't sound salty at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:07 AM
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Also waiting more than 3 dates to fuck how's this a bona fide mistake? Doesn't that depend on the individuals involved in the 'relationship' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 08:11 AM
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Depends on the mental illness. But having a mental illness in of itself is not a dealbreaker, especially since I have one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 03:12 PM
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I'm in college, too... I don't think that's what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 05:07 PM
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I may try it but it seems like it'd be the equivalent of giving a starving person a small taste of bacon but not the whole breakfast. So, on the other hand, I might pass. I'm just a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:44 PM
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2 looks like a troll even if she wasn't overweight, but she's both. https://media.giphy.com/media/HwmB7t7krGnao/giphy.gif That's a 2 to you!? I don't know what you're smoking, but I want some...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:48 AM
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ex-wives https://media1.tenor.com/images/fb3f2d1e814190100a4ae401b1660d5b/tenor.gif?itemid=6081931
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:08 AM
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that's frankly indicative of nothing in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:06 AM
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I'd be fine with either one tbh at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 03:08 AM
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There seem to be equal and clear cut pros and cons to both so I'm not sure which would be better objectively...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 03:03 AM
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Why is he being downvoted? I and many other guys agree with him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:52 AM
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mutters under breath dammit...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:22 AM
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Ooh, very observant, I kinda like that (no sarcasm, actually, that's genuine). Thing is, if I slipped up as well, I couldn't really blame my absolutely hypothetical (you think any woman would marry me? lmao) wife for cheating and telling me to fuck off. Granted, I would be upset and angry, but logically, I couldn't really blame her for acting that way. Both sexes/genders/blah blah should hold up their end sufficiently But it wasn't fucking reddit subs that destroyed women for me kinda, it was ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:48 AM
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Again, you keep digging in the shitty netherworld of reddit. You're picking from places like MGTOW and TRP, what kinds of guys do you think that'll attract? I mean, I'm somewhat red pilled but I'm more in the middle somewhere That's like going to a bar and being upset because there are drunk people partying and acting a fool. Try again, because I'm sure many of the radical ideas expressed in these subs aren't necessarily the general consensus for most of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:24 AM
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And women pick apart men for every tiny thing and are mostly disingenuous about it. Don't act like your shit don't stink
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 12:50 AM
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You use MGTOW as an example? I mean you're already scraping the bottom of the barrel. What did you expect from such a sub? That's like going to the, thankfully defunct, coontown sub and being shocked that there's some serious racism. He's right, you're just fucking neurotic and misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 12:49 AM
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I do not envy the area you live in got nothing to do with that, I live in a college area. Plenty of women or your social circle nope, not that, either... but I am 27, 6'2", exercise 2-4 days a week so I am in good shape, and I am a software developer. I'm 23, 5'11 and I'm an avid lifter. Still not really many options for me out there (trust me, not from lack of trying, either) I don't have to settle for fat girls to get attention, but I have only dated one woman that I would consider model poten…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:53 PM
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I mean I have some decent standards, but I already know I can't afford to really have some written out list or be super picky, otherwise I'd never ever get laid again or find a first girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:20 PM
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My god, you are picky. Not criticizing you, but I wonder how people with such standards even find anybody at all unless they're a huge catch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:19 PM
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As long as there's chemistry (she's attractive to me, likes my personality, and vice versa) and she isn't a total fucking sociopath (cheating, manipulative, etc) then I'd be willing to overlook maybe a few things. Nobody is perfect. I don't have some drawn out list of qualities and attributes. Hell, I probably wouldn't meet some of them myself 100% Buuut idk, that could just be me, at this point my standards are so low they're next to fucking undiscovered dinosaur fossils underground
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:10 PM
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even decent looking ones get turned down by whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:14 AM
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But it isn't either of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 07:11 PM
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I don't really see what the issue is with that generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 07:08 PM
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This whole thing about women not liking guys above 6' is bullshit. ehhh, not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 09:29 AM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/3oz8xLd9DJq2l2VFtu/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 09:11 AM
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it's never that simple. The fact that you think it is, especially at your age, is telling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 08:27 AM
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Technically she is, but since this is my actual first name...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:35 PM
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I mean I don't necessarily agree with that sentiment myself 100%, but I've been hearing shit like that since people in my demographic were reasonably old enough to be sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:49 PM
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starfish are boring af starfish > no sex and make you feel unwanted as opposed to having zero women want to sleep with you at all? give me a break... when I fuck them I bottom out and have to hold back and the sex is all around terrible and then I block their number sounds like a personal problem to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:13 PM
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I've never been taught or heard this. I don't know where they're getting this from, but, then again, it is from a magazine article... where are you from? you've never heard this before at all? If you're originating in the US I find that hard to buy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:12 PM
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Shut it off until I actually get a chance to put it into use
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:10 PM
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at least according to every feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:10 PM
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I wouldn't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:02 AM
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probably explains why I'm outwardly nice but internally hateful and bitter. Thing is, being nice can sometimes lead to favors and other things which always helps. If not for that I'd probably be a much bigger ass than I put out now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:00 AM
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Exactly this. If you're really that upset about your dating/sex life than put down the fork and maybe start doing some cardio. It's that simple. If you were born with a busted face/body, then that's a different story...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:07 PM
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I don't see why he got downvoted, that's understandable that you would be resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:05 PM
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They aren't wrong. Yes, they may go a bit overboard with it, but they have the general idea. All a fat chick has to really do is just lose weight and they'll be good. Of course, many won't even bother or consider it if they want to solve the lack of men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:35 PM
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She's either curious or extremely ugly. So yes for the former (so as long as she's STD free) and no to the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:20 AM
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Tbh I wouldn't expect her to be completely honest with me anyways. Over half of the women I've attempted relationships and have had friendships with have lied about their n-count. It's just to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:23 PM
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you don't think some modern feminazis would go nuts over that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:23 AM
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Yea I'm saying most of the time, it's not worth it, and people get into relationships because they feel like they have too. maybe it isn't, but either way that still doesn't really invalidate my point... true, and I am irresponsible about my reputation. But not giving a shit is pretty cool too. it's all cool up until your career/family/reputation is potentially on the line. but I was agreeing with u ;c Yeah, my bad, I edited my post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:03 AM
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A proper relationship where you have to lie about your past? Plus who needs that, you have hookers ! :P A proper relationship where you can call someone your legit bf/gf/whatever. Hell, even a FWB can be difficult to come by for many folks. You're telling me you don't know or haven't heard of people who stay single for many years because they can't find anyone compatible and aren't willing to settle (nothing wrong with that, btw)? And many who turn to escorts (not all, mind you, not claiming tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:57 AM
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and because of that, they'd be less attracted to you, so you won't tell em :P Well, guess what, I like sex. It isn't always conveniently lying around and it isn't as if I can run down to WalMart and just snatch any woman up and take her home with me. It isn't like ordering a fucking Dominos pizza. And proper relationships can be difficult to come by. What am I to do then, just become a monk? I see nothing wrong with satisfying my urges, and masturbation just doesn't cut it sometimes. I've always…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:37 AM
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Nope. Most women don't and can't understand or relate to the mindset of men who have/do visit escorts and/or prostitutes, which covers a variety, so why would I bother admitting it, let alone explaining it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:29 AM
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she would never know, because I wouldn't ever tell her. Problem solved, everybody wins
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:26 AM
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I don't see anyone feeling sad for older women who are losing their beauty, receive few compliments, and can no longer believe the compliments they receive. I don't, why would I? That's just them getting a dose of reality directly intravenously. In the man's case, he simply had to fight his way upwards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 11:38 PM
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There's some very few guys who can pull this off too that's called an extreme outlier. Most, I would even go as far as saying the overwhelming majority of guys will never come close to even having such an opportunity. That's a useless example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 11:34 PM
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I doubt anybody actually uses these terms outside of the internet. They're just words that are used to describe a certain phenomenon or whatever. They simplify things and make it easier to understand certain concepts and behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 05:37 AM
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like if you want to fuck a girl, you express that. that's a stupid fucking idea. That could easily end very badly for a lot of men. I get don't outright say it, but...you should definitely not do that, either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 12:53 PM
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I don't attract anybody at all, quite frankly. I don't think I'm anybody's type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 12:48 PM
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Oh really? What exactly does it say about me then? And of course I've seen it, it just doesnt happen very often
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:44 AM
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I don't talk to my female neighbors because they ignore tf out of me. They'll say hello to other neighbors, though. So, fuck them. And that was just one example out of many. One It isn't like it was one single isolated experience...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:39 AM
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I'm not even making unwanted sexual advances. Read what I've put elsewhere in this post... Its not as simple as you're making it and I think people who argue otherwise are either full of cowshit or truly naïve
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:33 AM
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I don't think thats true. The nice guy is often associated with incels or the foreveralone type guys. Like I said it makes sense why the career driven women would feel the way that they do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:26 AM
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I'm sorry, you seem like a nice lady...but I don't buy a word of what you're saying at all. Not even a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:25 PM
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https://whitneym49.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/wtf-is-this-shit.jpg I can tell mainly based on their reaction when attractive vs. when less attractive men talk to and/or hit on them. It's night and day. I've personally experienced this bullshit multiple times. Even if I'm just asking to borrow notes or asking about something class related, I always get this vibe and this attitude as if she's thinking "Why is this guy talking to me?" It's like...bitch, get over yourself, I'm not trying to get int…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:06 PM
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If you don't hate ugly women you're not the sort of guy I'm talking about fair enough claim that women hate men they aren't attracted to well I do genuinely believe this to be true... As I already said, this is a small group of angry men, but they seem to think they speak for all men, which is silly. alright, that's also fair. Truce then hah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:36 PM
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yes, but a lot of women seem disgusted by men they find unattractive (which is most men I believe). They just want us to stfu and remain quiet essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:35 PM
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but the men who seem to assume women hate ugly men tend to be men who hate ugly women well that's funny, because I don't hate ugly women. Why would I? They haven't done shit to me, they're just living their lives like everybody else. If anything they're probably just as miserable as I am. Why kick a person when they're down? Do you really think I have the time and effort to rag on an ugly woman just because she's unattractive? If anything I'd just ignore tf out of her like a woman would ignore a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:13 PM
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It's TRP, what exactly did you expect...? That's a shit example tbh. And, again, fatpeoplehate sub, what did you expect? That entire sub is full of loathsome people. Most reasonable men. Or hell, just most men in general, typically just don't really notice women they're not attracted to or just don't take them very seriously, which is more than I can say for women. You kinda contradicted yourself when you said 'All the time, man'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:59 PM
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seriously, though, just because I failed to give a little wave in one instance doesn't necessarily make me a contemptible person. Maybe I was in a bad mood, maybe I was in a rush, maybe my mind was on something else. Usually, I would've done that. But not 100% of the time. Nobody is perfect. If someone pulled me over and went 'scary guy' on me because of that, I'd cut them. Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:44 PM
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That's a bit ridiculous. Often times those women have a lot going for them, so it makes sense that they'd be a bit pickier than the average woman (who is already picky as shit). So they have very high standards and are extremely picky often times. Often times, these 'nice guys', have fuck all going for them, aren't very attractive (neither in looks nor personality) but yet still piss and moan that no girl would ever want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:40 PM
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you can try if you'd like to get knifed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:38 PM
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Women notice them as human beings and as being men. no they fucking don't...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:36 PM
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I've seen some men rage over ugly women simply existing when the fuck has that happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:33 PM
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basically
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 08:32 PM
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No, normally I feel it's the other way around. I think most women who I attempt to try and talk to aren't attracted to me in the slightest. Correction, all of them aren't. I just think there's nobody out there for me in the near future if even at all. It's a fucking hopeless endeavor
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:12 PM
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This is very true. I've noticed that a lot, even if I'm just trying to ask a girl for notes or when a project is due I get the fucking stinkeye.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:08 PM
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Well go ahead and get potentially shot if you want, don't say I didn't warn you, though. It isn't as simple as 'common sense'. Situations like that are a lot more nuanced and complicated than you make it seem. People like you are why people needlessly get injured by making things worse from intervening, thinking that they know what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:38 AM
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All of these are real scenarios I've experienced and intervened in safely and sanely. If you are a person who lacks common sense and/ or decency, I imagine you wouldn't know what to do and would do nothing. Just hope that people around you would have more sense if you were the one in trouble. well no fucking shit, but we're talking about a specific scenario here (the one the OP is talking about). We aren't just talking about a general 'person in trouble' situation, genius. My point is, in such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:28 AM
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how do you know if you can intervene safely? How can you be sure of the situation? You're quite confident that you have all the answers here...that's the problem with that sort of situation, you can't be sure it's actually safe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:04 AM
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If women do start approaching more, the only thing that'll happen is that Chads n-count will double. The rest of us will still get the same or less sex than we did prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 08:24 PM
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basically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 06:08 PM
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I mean I don't have a problem with someone solely due to them being fat, that would be utterly ridiculous. Fat people can be good people and they can be total fucking cunts, just like skinny people can be. However, I do think the fat acceptance movement is doing more harm than good. Theres's nothing wrong to promote loving yourself but being obese actually is harmful to oneself..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:11 PM
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And based on the CDC stats (and on some events in South Africa) can you teach women not to rape? wait what? Unless she's fairly unattractive, why would a woman even need to rape a guy? That seems very unusual for women in general, regardless of nationality and culture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:09 PM
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name checks out. Chances are you're probably just as much of a bitch as you say guys are. And no, we won't all lie about anything to get laid. Some of us actually realize you're all a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:21 PM
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Yes, generally, women don't want men like men want women and aren't attracted to the majority of them. I think 5-10 is a bit low, I'd go as far as to say maybe 15-20...MAYBE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:50 AM
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...really? can the mods delete this stupid post?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:14 AM
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but due to their diverse tastes only like 10% of men are being ignored by women. I have a feeling that's probably bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:31 PM
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yeah I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. You're probably biased as hell, anyways, you are a woman hah. You probably have the same ridiculously, sky-high standards that most have. A decent piece of steak looks like a 2 week old burger to you guys XD. Or you just complain about having no decent options, and meanwhile you're the pickiest eater in the world that only eats rare foreign dishes XD. The options aren't even necessarily bad, it your behavior that's causing the feedback loop that's ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:22 PM
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Yeah, women are expecting lobster and caviar. And not all of them are bad and harmful options, you could probably get a decent or even almost exceptional meal from Outback Steakhouse. Not top of the line, but most definitely better than McDonald's and BK. I'm sure you get where this analogy is going. But, of course, that won't do it for most women. You all want your lobster and caviar...anything short of that and you feel dissatisfied, or like you settled for less even if that wasn't necessarily…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:07 PM
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women aren't shipwrecked dying of thirst in the middle of the ocean. They're all surrounded by McDonald's and Burger King, maybe a few fancy restaurants, but they're pissed because they can't all get lobster and caviar every day for dinner. Sure, its understandable not to want McDonald's all that much because it is, admittedly, mediocre, but it's far from shipwrecked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:25 PM
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Good riddance, apparently they feel the same about you, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:20 PM
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how is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:19 PM
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I mean I wouldn't mind it, per say. I'm indifferent at this point. I've a hard enough time even getting one chick to like me enough for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 02:37 AM
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I don't particularly think that guys are significantly any more loyal than women. I don't really give as much of a shit, though, because it seems like the general perception is that guys are the only unloyal ones, and never the chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 09:39 PM
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no, no he's not. He isn't projecting his own sexuality onto others, he's simply stating the sexuality of most men. He's only stating a generality. Obviously there are outliers, maybe your husband is one of them, but they're just that...outliers. I wish we'd quit using them as examples so damn often in this sub because that isn't how outliers are supposed to be utilized
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 09:15 PM
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not completely, no. That's absurd, and goes against human nature. How naive are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:08 PM
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Attitudes to porn and the like are changing due to technology barely, in the case of women. I believe a lot of them simply tolerate it, certainly don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:07 PM
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then never ever be in a serious relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:06 PM
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If they even think a little further most women aren't having bathroom sex with Chad - if they do anything adventurous they'll do it with an LTR that they have comfort (beta) from. yeah...keep telling yourself that, buddy. Half the time, they aren't even attracted to that 'beta' in the same way she would be to Chad, so if anything she'll be more indifferent about any sort of unorthodox sexual acts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:02 PM
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but I guess samurai is pretty hurt over a girl who he loved a lot. She left him and now he's obviously struggling over trusting women again, can you blame him, though? I don't even trust my female friends as far as I can see...and I have astigmatism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:59 PM
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Having to still hide parts of yourself seems not fun welcome to life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:55 PM
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that may be the case but patterns and generalities still exist, regardless of how 'colorful' you may think the world is. People that fit certain demographics tend to be more similar than dissimilar
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:54 PM
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I am almost certain that was not established. ...did you even read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:52 PM
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it ain't projection if it's the truth for the majority of men. If anything, it's an assumption. It may be, a false assumption, but don't call it projection unless you can back up why this dude's projecting...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:51 PM
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Women don't hate all of male sexuality, they hate the parts that conflict with what they want which is basically most of what male sexuality is...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:48 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/3oz8xLd9DJq2l2VFtu/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:17 AM
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ehhh, you should check my post history heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:20 AM
1

Shit, I wish I could do that shit currently. Sounds kinda nice, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 05:48 AM
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No, of course they don't like it. It does nothing for them. They only really 'like' it because they can use it to get what they want. Just it on its own? They could take it or leave it. How many girls you know get dick thrown at them like bird get thrown breadcrumbs? A lot , if not most They're mostly indifferent or disgusted by most, if not all, of those men. Granted, a lot of those guys are also probably very pushy and gross about it, but even if they weren't the results would be exactly the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 05:44 AM
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typical woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 05:38 AM
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this, x1000
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 05:35 AM
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travel the world and do new and exciting (read: expensive and time consuming) things everyday. that sounds like every other fucking girl I see on my Tinder feed these days. It isn't even so unique or interesting anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 12:37 AM
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That may explain some of it but every instance...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 10:14 PM
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Meh, myers Briggs tends to oversimplify things IMO. Even girls who have only had long term relationships and were "good" girls can be heard talking shit just eavesdropping, chilling around the campus. Are those the type you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 10:03 PM
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A lot of women are boring, a lot of them can and do easily just cruise by on looks. I've met more boring ones than interesting ones, even just platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:53 PM
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On reddit, perhaps. I don't actually go to a super large number of subs, so I can't argue against that. Real life reflects differently. I've heard much more women speak disparagingly about men than the other way around. Not that the reverse doesn't happen but it just isn't nearly as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:51 PM
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yeah, but you only really hear 'guys suck'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:43 PM
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I'm like that with everyone, regardless of gender. Just how I'm wired. I treat chicks the same as I treat guys, and I try to be pretty frank with most people. and I don't bother 'setting girls up for shit' hahah, because I know they're more than likely not even that interested, if even at all. Hell, that's one of the reasons I don't treat them any differently. I've noticed a pattern. Certainly very jarring to some of them that I treat them as dickishly as I treat my guy friends and acquaintances…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:35 PM
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Obviously, but I think it balances out... I could easily say any normal guy wouldn't hurt a genuinely nice chick, but we all know that probably wouldn't be true in most instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:34 PM
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what kind of harpy hurts a genuinely nice male? ...wow, you're quite naive. Women treat men just as shitty as they claim guys do all the time to them. Don't even pull that crap...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:29 PM
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Well then you tell me what you expect from a "genuinely nice" guy. I can say that I'm nice to an extent but I'm definitely not "genuinely" nice. I can be hateful and angry a lot. But if I like you I make effort to not be that way as much. Doesn't seem to be any real difference maker, because even when I wasn't like that still results were the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:27 PM
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Define genuinely nice...I mean most people are "genuinely" nice on a superficial level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:21 PM
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why would they need to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:13 PM
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it isn't as if being nice has actually made that much of a difference, anyways... Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:12 PM
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username checks out...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:11 PM
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I didnt say zero but it isn't looking good for them at all. And there are degrees to settling, exactly. Nobody is perfect. But who do you think is settling because of that reason? Chad who's consistently had his pick of women for most of his dating life and picked the girl most compatible with him? Orrr the ugly dude who's busted his ass and had to eat table scraps still? He had no choice, unless he wants to die alone.. Yes nobody always gets kaviar and lobster for dinner every night, but the ug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:49 PM
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That's great for him but you can't compare him to an average/ugly dude. The only reason I used him as an example is because he's the first ugly dude I think of when it comes to mind hah. Nothing against him he's a great actor but still...he'd fall in the outlier category as well. And I doubt that they're even genuinely attracted to their mates, half the time these guys have to settle just as hard as women do for various reasons. Do you really think the balding, fat, short guy really wants to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:38 PM
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Most likely they worked their strengths and made a social circle where the numbers finally worked for them and they found someone no, they got lucky. Like I said I don't count exceptions and outliers, because they don't represent the norm. Plus a lot of ugly guys are just screwed from the getgo because a lot of folks simply won't give them the time of day. I say most only because I try to avoid making absolute statements about stuff like that because outliers do exist. But they're just not part …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:19 PM
2

Because diminishing returns are a real thing...? Especially in the case of unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:14 PM
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I mean nothing, really. Tbh I've gotten much more out of my relationships with my male friends than my female friends. Even the fashion advice horseshit is false because I've gotten fashion advice from women. They're observant, they see how women react to how guys dress and see how they react to how they themselves dress and carry themselves. Female friends are really only for orbiters imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:14 PM
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Give up or lower your Standards. The two most viable and realistic options they have. Sorry, sometimes life doesn't give us what we want, especially in terms of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:08 PM
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Most girls won't fuck them anyways, because they're ugly... Look, if someone looked like a 32 year old Danny DeVito, it really hardly even matters how much he works on those other things because the pool of girls that would even give him the time of day is significantly less than an average dude. And even the average dude doesn't necessarily have a huge dating pool himself. Exceptions dont matter, because they're exceptions. They're outliers and dont represent what generally happens in the middl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:04 PM
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Just give up with this guy(or gal?), you're not going to convince the. Like trying to talk to a brick wall that somehow was autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:01 PM
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Thats a horrible fucking strategy for men...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 04:56 PM
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Attractive people have it slightlier easier than non attractive ones in general. It isn't the be all end all but it has more significance than people think or want to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 04:55 PM
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And men choose whom they pursue. Both the man and the woman make choices. They just happen at different points. no, no, no, this is bullshit. It's more complicated than that. If I, as an unemployed person, apply to 50 jobs, ultimately the choice is up to the employer. Yes, I may have chosen to apply for those jobs, but the dynamic is different. Those jobs most likely have potentially hundreds of applicants, so really the employer has the real choice and has their pick of the lot. It's like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:18 PM
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You chose her just as much as she chose you this is the dumbest fucking thing I've read all day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:15 PM
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What gyms? In the US? Not many I've heard of that do that except maybe hardcore powerlifting gyms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:13 PM
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I probably should've asked but exactly where are you located? In the US this definitely isn't the case, because we definitely would've heard about it in the media in some form or fashion. It really hasn't even been covered in passing unless it's involving sports or athletics. I doubt the casual gym goer even knows how to acquire anabolics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:12 PM
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I heard that steroids now outsell other illegal substances. I sincerely doubt that, if that was the case then you'd start hearing a lot more about it in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:50 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 09:06 AM
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The desperation of some guys outweighs their standards sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 08:38 PM
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To find out for myself, I set up a tinder account for 2 days. Sure enough I got over 100 matches and an attractive girl gave me her number upfront and seemed willing to have an immediate one night stand. I'm a pretty average looking dude, not a male model by any means. you're basically the real life version of this meme https://static.fjcdn.com/pictures/Its+so+easy_cfbacc_4389713.jpg It's both pathetic and funny how truly oblivious and solipsistic attractive guys and women in general are...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 06:12 PM
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you never know, your delivery man might be hiding a machete in that box
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 05:42 PM
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when was it not easy for women to get laid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 03:32 PM
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I mean, when it comes to certain statistics I just really don't expect it to be that accurate. Especially the CDC report on the average number of sexual partners per person for their lifetime. I doubt the validity of that one big time. Somehow it just doesn't quite add up..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:41 PM
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I don't think women consume nearly as much porn as guys do on a regular basis. I think this is why it's not a very popular research topic. I also think you'd be hesitant to find a women who's willing to divulge her porn habits, if she even watches any
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:16 PM
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Male sex symbols do exist, and their aesthetics are just as important as anything else those are like the top 10-15% of men, and their aesthetics matter a lot He can't even conceive of the fact that to most women, sexiness is something completely different, and so he reads it as desexualized even when it isn't he reads as desexualized because he is being desexualized, he isn't one of those men who falls into the 'male sex symbol' category so he just ends up falling by the wayside. He may as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:20 PM
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When I look at attractive men or women, I sometimes think about how I'd love to bend that sexy ass over http://i.imgur.com/Mv9TuqU.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:17 PM
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I don't think he understands exactly what you mean. He thinks you mean that since it's easier for men nowadays to get sex than it was before, that it means that you therefore said that it's straight up easy for men to get sex. I think it was just a misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 05:56 PM
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No, I'm denying based on the fact that your statements are leaving very little wiggle room for error, you dolt. I never disagreed with your second point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:07 PM
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Where I would draw the line is this "spice" shit you see doing the rounds among the homeless population a lot nowadays, fuck that shit man. Worse than brown straight up fuck me, that shit is the worst. One of my friends tried it my freshman year. I told him it probably wasn't a good idea to indulge in that of all things...try GHB or pot or anything else lol Oh my mate bought him food too. Basically how it was is this guy "lived" outside the local supermarket, so my mate saw him often, sat down a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:28 PM
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It has nothing to do with corrupting someone innocent lol. There's a difference between giving a homeless person money and not exactly knowing whether they're going to buy drugs/booze or food (more than likely chance they are spending some of that money on food and nourishment, otherwise...they'd die from starvation lol) and straight up giving them drugs that will really end up only making things worse. If you knew an alcoholic, there would be a difference between the guy who's enabling said per…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:19 PM
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Mate of mine actually does give drugs to homeless people sometimes, makes friends with them and they're always grateful for benzos that...just seems like it's only contributing to the problem. No offense but your mate seems like a dunce and a dickhead. I mean, at least maybe some weed and a hot meal, but benzos can/will fuck you up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:10 PM
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I worked a job for a weekend at a festival and disregarding the girls at the festival 3/5 of my female coworkers asked me blatantly if I wanted to hookup. https://media.giphy.com/media/iSKFtpF2HzneE/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:08 PM
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most women are open to casual sex ehh, that's a bit of a strong statement. To say that many women are open to casual sex seems more reasonable, but MOST? That implies that there are more that are interested than there are women that aren't particularly open to it. I think the real truth may lie somewhere in the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:06 PM
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I know a fuckton of men who aren't interested in casual hookups as well. really? that's interesting. Not saying that you're wrong and that those guys don't exist, but the overwhelming majority of guys that I've talked to and befriended weren't exactly writing home about casual hookups, but they weren't opposed to it if the opportunity presented itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:05 PM
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I always am conflicted whenever I give a homeless person some cash or spare change. Am I genuinely helping them live a bit more comfortably, or did I just give them the cash that'll lead to them buying the drugs that they'll overdose on later?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:03 PM
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when the greatest heroes of human history (in my opinion) were driven by the notion of altruism, progress and self-sacrifice one could argue that those sorts of folks are very far and few between
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:01 PM
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"There's no such thing as a good person " sounds like something an edgy seventh grader would say. Well, not necessarily. In order to define what a good person is, we have to first define what we mean by 'good'. By some people's definitions, there aren't any good people. It really depends on who you talk to and what their moral background/stances are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:59 AM
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define objectively good? I mean, granted, we could probably come up with some vague general consensus but the details would still end up getting muddied up by everyone's different opinions and moral stances.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:59 AM
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Plenty others can get laid even if they don't have a LTR citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:14 AM
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how do you know there aren't more of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:32 PM
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wow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 11:00 AM
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apparently it works for him XD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 10:59 AM
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It might not necessarily be your looks, though. Or, you could be overrating your own looks, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 11:26 AM
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em...not really tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:56 AM
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are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:37 AM
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doesn't matter, he still makes an excellent point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:17 AM
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How do you know for sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:15 AM
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You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. Same applies here, your friends are virgins because they want to be virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 11:11 AM
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not everything is about sex biologically, it kind of is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 09:03 AM
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no, there aren't a lot of guys into fat girls. They exist, but they fall onto the far ends of the bull curve http://s3.amazonaws.com/magoosh-company-site/wp-content/uploads/mat/files/2016/05/18130423/Bell-Curve.png
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 08:54 AM
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No. Women. Are. Out. Of. A. Man's. League. you're delusional as fuck if you truly believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:56 AM
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leagues don't exist. keep telling yourself that, buddy there are some girls much uglier than you will never fuck you, and some girls much hotter than you who will obsess over you. generally speaking, this isn't the case. Exceptions and outliers don't really count in my mind, they're on the two opposite ends of the bell curve, mon ami.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:35 AM
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Wary and cautious. I keep my cards close to my chest and make an extra effort not to catch any feelings or develop any real attachments if it lasts beyond 3 dates. She could very easily just take off and leave for a guy she deems more worthy. This is especially true being a college-aged guy where women seemingly have numerous options if they aren't fat and have decent hygiene/personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:33 AM
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it is as simple as going to the grocery store for decently attractive chicks (6/10s and above). Whatever is/has been holding them back is solely their own fault. Granted, I'm not saying they should go fuck the first guy they hit on or are attracted to, but women have it overwhelmingly easier when it comes to getting sex and even relationships. People who deny that are blind and/or naive as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:19 PM
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I have female friends their late 20's who are still virgins and are chill with it. that's most likely by choice, though. If they wanted to they could very easily just get on Tinder or OKCupid or go to a bar and change that in a fortnight
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 03:47 PM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 03:46 PM
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Most men under 6 feet tall have partners. citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 03:41 PM
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http://cdn1.alloy.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Liam-Hemsworth-Attractive-Guy-meme-7.jpgs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 03:40 PM
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some most chicks fuck mean, bad dudes ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 09:11 AM
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Why do y'all continue to argue with these females when you can see their behavior with your own eyes. desperation, mon ami
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 09:10 AM
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If you look "normal" and approach enough women, you'll find ones who are DTF. ...was this intended to sound stupid on purpose or did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 09:17 PM
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Avg. number of partners is 7 for men and 4 for women I question that statistic. is it recent? and how reliable is it? I imagine that, if that is the actual number, a lot of those partners would have been during one's college/late high school years?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 01:20 PM
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CT Fletcher had a bypass surgery by 45 and needs a heart transplant by 55. That dude also ate like absolute dogshit for many years ontop of abusing the hell out of androgens. He doesn't represent the average juicehead gym rat by far. Tons of Bodybuilders are dropping dead well before 70 due to roid usage. It isn't solely due to roid usage, but abusing high amounts of powerful anabolics, hGH, insulin, diuretics, etc... These guys simply burn out due to not giving their bodies a break and abusing …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 01:17 PM
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This x100 WYS is not WYG, and, often times, things behind closed doors are worse than they publicly appear. People are always putting up facades and never show how bad things really get and they do get bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 12:07 PM
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which is not at all a bad means of meeting people especially these days actually it's one of the absolute worst ways to try and meet people, especially women, if you're an average joe. It's like trying to swim to shore in a body of water that's actively trying to drown you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 11:30 AM
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this is really all that needs to be said /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 11:11 AM
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he has to have a job/career he's into. Otherwise it's impossible What if he hates his job but makes good money? A lot of people are in that very position
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 10:04 AM
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Sounds about right tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 08:00 PM
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https://akphoto1.ask.fm/392/292/120/710003008-1rfcbgb-4kges6qg54dq63a/original/dudecomeonl.png alright, man. Whatever helps you sleep better at night
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:40 PM
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would probably save you a lot of time and stress tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:36 PM
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They don't just like you for your looks, its simply that men and women emphasize and place different levels of value on different characteristics and qualities. For men, we don't really quite care as much as women do for men when it comes to things like career/money/etc. Being fit does is always a huge advantage, though, for both men and women. Also, women have much higher and more stringent sandards. So it isn't as much that you wouldn't want to be judged on those characteristics as much as it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 07:08 PM
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I would actually love it if men measured my SMV by my fitness level, salary, social status and BMI You say that now, but if it actually becomes a reality then you'll be begging to go back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 02:47 PM
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I wouldn't tell her to begin with, why the hell would I? Especially since there's a more than likely chance it'll end up working against me in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 04:20 AM
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That isn't necessarily the case
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:49 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:58 AM
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Nice rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:04 PM
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So, all in all, it's not a paradise for women, single or not. compared to the average guy? yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:50 PM
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you can't compare yourself to incels. If you're not unattractive, then you can't relate to him. Maybe it's too late for the stereotypical 'Stacy' or 'Chad', but that doesn't mean it's too late to find someone attractive who you want to spend time with :) whatever helps you sleep at night...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:49 PM
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hehe, it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 08:12 AM
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That's bizarre. Usually I've heard the other way around where the chick is the one who's stingy about sex and doesn't want it most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:30 AM
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True, couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:25 AM
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Ah, OK, so its just solipsism and a lack of self awareness, then. I gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:20 AM
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Um, women actually have to put in a significant amount of energy, time, and effort (and face greater risks) if they want to get laid as well What alternative universe have you beamed here from where this is actually true?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:19 AM
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Your mistake is listening to what women say rather than what they do. They often contradict each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:12 AM
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Women totally don't empathize, though... Do you live under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:09 AM
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and please stop assuming dating is automatically easy for a woman I don't think its the case that women have it easy dating, BUT it is infinitely easier for them compared to guys, and anyone who argues otherwise is full of dookie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:07 AM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:59 AM
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I respect your honesty, at least you're self aware. If I could give you gold, I would (no, I'm not being sarcastic)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:29 AM
1

this is hot damn, that dudes looks like he needs a cheeseburger or eight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:27 AM
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you should introduce me to this guy, it sounds like we'd be good friends EDIT: I'd also probably learn a thing or two from him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:19 AM
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shitty, disappointing sex =/= no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:15 PM
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You seriously underestimate how difficult it is for an average joe to get decent/above average looking women...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:05 PM
1

exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:23 PM
1

exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 06:45 AM
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couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 10:00 PM
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Well most women can get that eventually, just not necessarily with the guy they most desire. A lot of them settle just because the Chads don't really have any good reason to settle with them. In the case of guys, it's basically all a numbers game. We're pretty much forced to settle simply due to scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 07:07 AM
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maybe there's a good reason for that...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 07:05 AM
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Aside from the fear of being pumped'n'dumped what exactly do women have to worry about when it comes to dating? Basically all they have to do is sit on their ass and wait for the guy to make the first move. In what ways is this not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 07:04 AM
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Pretty much, couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 01:57 PM
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Your last sentence is a fair and valid point, but if you cloned that same man and gave him another 3-4 in, the taller one would probably be much more successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:26 AM
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Could you elaborate on why this is a bit? I'm not fully getting this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:02 AM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:01 AM
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You think you could type in full sentences for once so I dont have to fucking scroll every 2.5 milliseconds just to read a couple of words?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:00 AM
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It's mostly due to extreme ignorance, though. (Most) Women truly dont understand having fuck all options when it comes to sex. They could easily go to a club/bar or use Tinder/OKCupid/etc and get a load shot in them within 12 hours, and thats being generous. It's female solipsism at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:57 AM
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I'm assuming you're an above average looking dude. If you were average or below average you'd probably be singing a different tune methinks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:51 AM
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What planet are you from that this is actually true?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:46 AM
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Most guys want a relationship What are you basing this assertion on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:41 AM
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I don't think they genuinely hate women (mostly), they simply realize that the "women are wonderful" myth is bullshit and actively fight against it. A lot of women seriously lack self awareness and are unaware of the flaws of their own gender when it relates to dating/sex/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:29 AM
5

This x100 I think this also somewhat demonstrates the staggering lack of self awareness that many women have
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:27 AM
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What female sexual strategy is really needed other than looking pretty (not being fat, decent face) and existing? Usually its women that are sought after, not the seekers. The exception being when men with a high SMV are thrown into the mix
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:26 AM
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I'm 5'11 and roughly 197 lbs, and sitting at around 14-15% bodyfat, my face is rather average looking. Still have tremendous trouble with women. I'm not particularly awkward, either. I know how to talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:23 AM
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No Looks...that alone gets your foot in the door. If you dont reach or surpass a certain looks threshold with women then they won't even give you the time of day. That's not the be all end all but it's pretty much the very first thing people notice about you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:22 AM
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Ugly men still seem to get options way above their SMV Um...what? What've you been smoking, ol chap?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:16 AM
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This basically. Trying to please women is a futile effort due to their standards and expectations. Probably best to focus on oneself and your own worth in whatever relationship you enter while not entirely losing sight of the other person as well since, well, they are human beings and deserve respect and what not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:14 AM
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Hmm...are you me? What earth are you from, Mon Ami?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:11 AM
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http://sci-ence.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/DSMad-300x218.png
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:01 AM
1

how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:38 AM
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it isn't really something most women can relate to at all, so the idea seems mindblowing to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:59 AM
2

Probably one of the easiest things to do for a decently attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 09:47 AM
2

I almost never hear any sort of AMALT statements really now? that's...interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 11:16 AM
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I know the feel, man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 06:00 AM
1

no, definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:59 AM
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that chick is average? she has some pretty good hourglass going on for an overweight chick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:16 AM
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those women are fairly few in number, though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:43 PM
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we're not quite animals. I mean, we are in a sense, but I'm not wasting time chasing after chicks when we can both clearly express whether or not we're into each other. If she's going to make me chase after her than I'm out, I've got better shit to waste my time with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:42 PM
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wrong type of women wrong type of women I never fail to hear this one. Where are these mythical 'right' types of women at? https://img.memesuper.com/62e095bf21a87fd77f516b4b255d5e83_serious-question-where-they-at-doe-memes_489-500.png
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:36 PM
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and I imagine from some very desperate, down on their luck and below average looking guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:13 AM
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Excellent rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:24 AM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/3oz8xLd9DJq2l2VFtu/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:30 AM
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Http://media.giphy.com/media/Q16p1pmfu5aZW/giphy.gif Dude, I don't know what you've been smoking but I want some
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:19 AM
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I've only met two so far in my entire lifetime outside of family members, so I can see where he's coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:17 AM
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You know, just once I'd like to see a divorced woman own her shit about her divorce. I'd just once like to see a divorced woman write down, and mean it, that her marriage failed in large part because of HER fuckups. then hell would freeze over
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:15 AM
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you disagreeing doesn't make it any less true haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:05 AM
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young women go through a lot of rejection/being ignored, yeah, but I'm guessing only by Chads. Average looking guys probably aren't rejecting them by the numbers like you make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:04 AM
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no, no they aren't, the fact that you think that just proves your female solipsism really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:53 AM
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no need to assume, my friend, they absolutely do do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:52 AM
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he's not wrong...also, to your original point, women are just as shallow as men if not moreso. You think unattractive guys are even given a chance with women? They may be told so, but that's just because chicks are being patronizing and don't want to hurt his feelings. The reality is, they wouldn't give the dude in this scenario a second look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:51 AM
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And women aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:48 AM
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to a much lesser extent, and at least we're somewhat honest about it. Most of the time you can't even get a chick to admit that women do this at all, let alone to the same extent men do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:47 AM
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welcome to biology, it's just how men and women are wired differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 01:59 PM
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well, I'll give a more specific example. Myself and a close friend were texting one day about relationships and what not. She complains that she's feeling rather unsatisfied being single but that she doesn't really have the time to find a real relationship. I suggested she just find a fwb and then she'd be able to make the compromise. She says she'd tried that already, and I was immediately confused. As far as she'd told me, the only guy she'd been with was her ex-bf, who she'd been with for fiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:40 PM
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Not necessarily gory details but more the dynamics and people they sweep under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:04 PM
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maybe they lie to men, then? I have female friends, and they all act this way. I can't call them out on it, though, lest I be called out for slut-shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:55 PM
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fair enough, but chicks most definitely do this quite a bit. They tend to act disingenuous or oblivious as well about n-count. It's rather hilarious to listen to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:28 AM
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I don't think most people outside the internet really knows what that is or refers to it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:24 AM
1

still not alone...seriously there's a huge difference in being single and getting laid and being single and in a dry spell for god knows how long
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:18 AM
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you must not know very many women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:17 AM
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cold approaching fun you lost me there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:40 AM
1

big difference, there ain't nearly as big of a discrepancy between what guys say they want and what they end up going for... and I frankly don't really care to lead anyone anywhere, I couldn't really care less whether a chick wants/ends up with a douchebag. But she then shouldn't complain that there aren't any decent guys left or that she's constantly unsatisfied when it's entirely her fault why she's in that predicament. If I say I hate oatmeal raisin cookies and then turn around and constantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 10:18 AM
1

regardless of whether or not these guys have a superiority complex over women, the end result is still the same, said chick still ends up in a bad relationship and isn't treated right. All I'm stating is that it's bizarre that these are the guys that seem to get the most women, often times girls who are very nice and pleasant to be around. My old roommate and his group of friends are perfect examples of that. Even my friends who are in relationships have mentioned a discrepancy between what chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 10:11 AM
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I can get that point, but some of the time (if not a lot of the time), it was glaringly obvious that the dude was a complete tool. You didn't even have to really dig that far beneath the surface to figure that one out. Red flags start popping up even more when the person gets more comfortable within the relationship, doesn't take ages... AWALT is becoming more obvious to me for sure, though. I don't believe women enjoy being treated like shit, nobody would, but for some odd reason they always en…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:58 AM
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It isn't a confirmation bias at all, it isn't as if I sought out evidence to support what I already believed to be the truth. I simply formed my views from observations, personal experience and hearing views from friends/peers. And I'm aware there are differences and outliers and such. Also what I meant was these women found good guys because those guys realized that they were actually reasonable women and swept them up as soon as they could, Because otherwise they'd be stuck looking for a diamo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:39 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:27 AM
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Could be my age shining through but a lot of chicks get with the same douchebag 'alpha' type of guy, have awful sex, get treated like deep fried bull testicles, then subsequently bitch about being unsatisfied and how there aren't any decent guys left. Happens time after time after time after time and et cetera... Also most of the time I don't even get a shot at being told no because chicks tend to lose interest faster than the Flash could take a shit. One or two dates and they're uninterested an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:21 AM
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yah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:59 AM
0

actions speak louder than words
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:46 AM
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I think, if anything, you're an outlier/exception
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:22 AM
1

Do bears shit in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 04:39 AM
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he wasn't even asking about that. They were simply asking about what your preferences are LOOKS wise...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:59 AM
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would consider a Hillary Clinton clone with halitosis to be just good enough for sex, for example. https://media.tenor.co/images/37d9fd3ecda4aaf9e45267f828a7d33e/raw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:55 AM
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what planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:17 AM
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It could also be due to the fact that it really isn't something you actively have to worry about since you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:16 AM
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In what sense? I'm sure if I put some effort into it I may be able to get it (currently on a 7 month dry spell) but other than that I hardly think that because I don't get laid on the reg that there's something fundamentally wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:15 AM
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anyone can get it whenever they want. you've been smoking some pretty strong shit, my man. Do share, please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:14 AM
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Tits and ass. I'm more than willing to overlook face so long as she doesn't look like she came straight from Chernobyl 22, mixed, southeast USA, no particular pill alignment, I'm doing alright for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:36 PM
1

you sound like a blast to have a conversation with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:23 PM
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One day it might but it definitely won't be in our lifetimes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:47 AM
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You, I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:46 AM
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No, RP guys aren't necessarily any more desperate for sex than any normal male. Some of them are like that, but I'm sure that doesn't represent the majority of them. Yes, women and sexuality and female mentality makes up quite a bit of their ideology, but that doesn't really mean that they are all sex-crazed, angry, 'Chad' wannabees. And yes, our 'caveman' (as you like to call it) instincts still somewhat have control over us, they're our baser drives, so to say that they don't really have a str…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 08:46 AM
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What the hell does any of that even mean? Explain yourself instead of making baseless assertions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 09:52 PM
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Well that isn't just the case with you, it's the case with most women I'd argue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:40 PM
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Perhaps he's wrong in his conclusion that it isn't important, but he is definitely right in that y'all have it way easier finding someone and probably won't really have to actively worry about how long the next potential dry spell will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:28 AM
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Men have it so much easier it's not even funny. Wrong, but nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:25 AM
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When people can't reach the vines, often times they pretend not to like grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 05:53 PM
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really? I've always seen the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 05:47 PM
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I wouldn't date said person without having sex with them, at least not in a serious, committed relationship kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 08:50 PM
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Honestly, there's probably a reason why these women are lonely in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 01:12 PM
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If the personality is there, the compatibility is there and I already find her attractive, then what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 11:31 PM
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Probably around 65-75% would be fuckable. I'm in college anyways so I tend to see a lot of folks in my age group who are in relatively decent shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 10:15 PM
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I just looked at your post history, you ain't ugly. I know plenty of guys who would like you. I think the fact that you admit you get a lot of male attention sort of disproves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 10:02 PM
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Well my standards aren't really that high in general when it comes to looks, I've even been told this by friends before. As long as I find her attractive then when it comes to LTR/marriage it all comes down to her personality and how compatible we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:59 PM
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oh, well in that case I'm not sure of the % but I know it's rather low I don't normally walk around trying to determine who I would and wouldn't like to marry...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:24 PM
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That's a very bizarre question...if we're basing this on looks alone, how can one find someone marriage-material based on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:18 PM
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