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Great. So I have no choice but to live a life where I know reality, but still act like a simp? Anything can be changed with the right conditioning. At least I hope so.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:25 PM
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What’s lovebombing exactly? And do I do about it? Ignore?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:48 PM
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Where are you meeting young women at your age?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:00 PM
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This sounds simpy as fuck, but I got tested after we first fucked, all good. Then she asked that we don’t have unprotected sex with anyone else cause wants “to keep swallowing my loads.” I agreed and we made a deal. I realize her word doesn’t mean shit but she stressed it a few times so I bought it. Not like we said no sex with anyone else, and even the most ardent whores worry about STDs too. Either way, I’m sure the deal wouldn’t have lasted long lol
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:36 PM
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I have higher standards, but I was swept up in the kinky sex and emotional heroin. You’re 100% right, I can’t forget I’m better than that. Thank you.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:32 PM
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That’s 100% accurate. She’s got a good 5-7 years though she’s hot and mad resourceful with a thick network. But it will happen. Wish the demise will come much sooner though.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:22 PM
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You guys ready for the final dagger? I can’t believe this happened to me. I feel so pathetic. She woke up and texted a few worthless I’m sorrys. Then she hit my boy up asking how to fix this. He said he doesn’t think it fixable, you got fingerbanged in a pick up truck by a random dude 10 feet away from him then left to a party. She replies with a video of herself dancing in g string and says “well fuck. I’m wreckless af”. Zero remorse. These girls are fucked in the head. If I had any ounce of tr…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:01 PM
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This might be it. As needy as I may have gotten in this relationship my ego can’t take this level of disrespect. Now that’s not saying I won’t be crushed over it for a while. That’s another story.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:37 PM
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10/10 sex mostly. And my fragile ego liking all the complements and affection. If you want the honest truth.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:34 PM
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I’ve been without purpose or direction for the past year at the pivotal age of 36. after amazing success and accomplishment in past years, I’m now lost. My mental game and scarcity mindset is at the worst point it’s been. This is the true issue why this is happening. Been trying to work on this religiously this entire year and no fruits yet. It’s affecting me a lot. I’m still pushing hard every day, but still stuck. My confidence used to be at 100 now not so much.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:23 PM
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She’s for the streets bro, 100%. Might be the hottest girl I ever fucked. For real. This is cause scarcity mindset badly. I’m 36, took this long to bang someone this hot. Definitely fucking me up, but I gotta truly believe I can do better. I know I can do better quality 100%, but looks and sexual appetite were nothing like I’ve had. You’re right, it’s a recipe for disaster.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:22 PM
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But just to be clear, we weren’t “exclusive”. I’m attached emotionally, but I’m seeing other people and didn’t care if she did because it’s a plate. We only made a deal that we won’t have unprotected sex with other people because were fucking frequently and she literally swallows every load. The reason I’m mad, is because she showed up to my friend’s house and did that shit while I was there. Very disrespectful, of course, but is it grounds for hard next? Or the hard next is because I’m so emoti…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:11 PM
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I’m almost certain she will text and apologize soon. She’s done little things before that weren’t a big deal and apologized furiously for them and said she’ll do anything to make it up and not lose me. Something like this I feel she would definitely try to apologize for. That’s why I say closure or bringing it back on my terms. She comes begging back, and I either lay into her and say my true feelings (you’re a slut, you hurt me, other gay shit) or I make her work for it then go back to fucking …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:05 PM
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Fucking crazy man. I was definitely heading that way if I kept doing this for the next 6 months. She was totally in my head. The break up then would have been much more devastating. Can’t trust any woman these days apparently
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:56 PM
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I knew better all along. But fuck man girls like that make you feel on top is the world. She was always wet, literally any time I wanted it minimum 5 times per day. And all the nice things she would say. Made me completely ignore and rationalize all the red flags that were there from the first minute I met her. None were hidden—I just turned a blind eye. Lesson learned. I hope
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:19 PM
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I think my main issue is this beta need for affection that when I get it I forget all about logic. Meanwhile my game is very tight and I do things right until I get the girl, then I just get wrapped up in it and start acting like a pussy. This is a stinging lesson for sure.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:17 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:15 PM
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That’s how it started, before getting all wrapped up in it. It wasn’t even me, she kept accelerating the situation rapidly, calling me a lot, spending time, and telling me how much she liked me. And I fell for it. I was too deep to pull back and play it cool.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:07 PM
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Damn. Its clear now it was all in my head. Felt very real while I was under the spell. Just don’t understand why she did all that. Why be so into me for nothing really to gain? That’s what made me believe it. I’m not rich, I don’t have access, she made me feel it was me she was into
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:52 PM
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I thought the same thing as I typed it out. I guess I needed to say that out loud to really put it in perspective. My ego is shot cause I can’t believe this happened to me—it never has before, so I’m having a really hard time dealing with it.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:45 PM
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That’s a good idea. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:29 AM
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It’s a bit more complex than that. I’ll give you an example. I cook really well. I love to host friends and cook for them and share my cooking skills and dishes. That makes me happy. With this same logic, I also like to cook for girls I’m seeing. The ironic and sad truth though, is that if I whip up a gourmet breakfast and bring it to her in bed, I’ve actually shot myself in the foot. How do I balance the two? How do I still continue to enjoy cooking for others while not being too nice and overl…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:01 AM
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Ordered. Listening tomorrow. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:57 AM
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Maybe I’m using the word plate wrong. We’ve had sex, but we are also good friends and hang out outside of that. It’s not an LTR because she’s long distance, but she’s definitely more than a booty call. We have plans to see each other as soon as quarantine relaxes, but I definitely wanna keep things alive till then. And for the record if it wasn’t long distance, I would definitely be ok with an LTR, I just know better at this juncture.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:04 PM
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Is the idea never to game chicks and pursue them? I don’t think I should drop a chick right away just because I didn’t get the reaction I wanted. That sounds like a problem with something I’m doing rather than with her. Especially since our interactions are always positive. Now if this continues yes of course I’d drop it, but I feel like I should try to change it before giving up right away.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:00 PM
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I think the first makes sense in this situation. Just because it’s positive every interaction, but she doesn’t initiate often, it makes me think she’s just expects me to be aggressive than she is, or always leading. And yes part of that is certainly ego. Definitely want to feel wanted, but more importantly, I don’t want to feel like I’m chasing.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:54 PM
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Loving rational male. Besides that and sidebar, any other books or resources to get into? Namely, I want to learn about being more alpha. I’m not beta by any means, but Jesus do I behave beta sometimes, unwittingly. I want to recognize these behaviors and correct them. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:57 AM
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Downloaded!
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:24 AM
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Point taken, especially since I don’t know anyone outside my circle that uses the word “bombard”. Thanks.
/r/seduction03/04/20 03:19 AM
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Let me be more clear. The problem is me. I’m not allowing her the chance to qualify because I dominate the convo, talking 80% or more of the time. I’m constantly qualifying myself and talking about how valuable I am. It’s worked so far, she gets it, I have value. But I haven’t given her the space to qualify herself. Not only cause I keep talking, but also because I praise every little value thing she offers. So clearly I now see what I’m doing wrong and will stop it. But then how do I start gett…
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:24 PM
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