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| 0 | Men who are sure their woman is loyal, wouldn't let their woman be hit on in a bar, by Chad, as an experiment.As someone who could be perceived as Chad or slightly under him, I already know most girls would cheat in this scenario and wouldn't let the situation happen. I am in a relationship and my girl isn't allowed to go out point blank period unless it is with me, or its to some place like a fancy bar or special circumstances, clubs and those environments are an absolute deal-breaker. Happy and healthy, because at the end of the day I know the reality and have experienced it first-hand. There is this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostYup, it is an entire cycle. Women plays a good dude while sleeping with bad dude, good dude becomes bad dude, whole time bad dude is playing the woman, which makes her create her own defensive mechanisms and not be able to open up. Thing is it takes woman multiple bodies (20+) to finally figure that they've been getting played. Now they just can't settle down all of a sudden cause they can't trust people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostYou're correct, but the issue is women should get this figured out after a few men, I've seen on multiple occasions it takes 20-30+ bodies for a woman to finally figure out they're worth more than just a dumpster and could find a good man, by that time it's likely you're too far gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostThat is because they choose not to, at the end of the day if you have sex with a woman its likely you could escalate things to a relationship. It is not a flex to let someone use their body and then be like "well he didn't marry me" because he still got the most private and connective version of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostOP knows how life works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostSomeone's naivety is their own fault. So yes, they chose to be with him. OP is right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Most of the men who have low standards have them low because they aren't desirable enough to have them high.I don't think that this is disagreed on at all, I can assure you I have never once in my life touched someone over even like 150 lbs and never will. No shame in having standards, but if a man does use this as moral high ground they obviously have their own issues with being able to get a woman in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | The main reason why women should never make the first moveLol women like to be put in that zone, thats what keeps them hopping from man to man. Don't be delusional, women approach men they actually like, thats how it should be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 12:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYou're speaking the truth, EVERY GIRL OUT THERE has had a one night stand, or had sex with someone they just met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allYou're absolutely delusional, thanks for affirming the fact that I should stay abstinent and focus on myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:56 PM |
| -1 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveI think beta male providers are a wide known thing throughout the community, which is what you're describing. I agree with other dude in the sense that you must be trying to cope somehow. If you're dating him I doubt you're some crazy 10/10 yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:39 AM |
| 2 | if you were a young woman with no dating experience, how would you navigate the market?Let things happen, get approached outside or meet co-workers or other classmates from school. As a 20 year old girl the world is at your fingertips, you can literally focus on yourself and school work until one day some attractive dude will approach you and make things easy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areSo do most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 05:11 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Well from how you word it it makes it sound awkward. But you nailed it, women like the "rape fantasy" or to get dominated. It usually depends on the guy I guess but they like getting taken control of and letting go, asking would be a turn-off because "its obvious they want it". Don't ever listen to what they say, these girls have no idea what they're spewing out of their mouth lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?It is because once you sleep with one they all start flocking, they're like vultures and I'm not lying. As soon as you charm one girl every other girl becomes easy, it is all luck and situational. Like you said at job sites this is the most common, because there is always one dude above the rest, or in other social settings such as college/high school where popularity matters. But yeah like I said, it is due to the fact that fish smell other fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:44 AM |
| 5 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?What evidence do you have for this ridiculous take? Never ever in my life has some soyboy cuck workhis way up in a relationship, and even if he DOES its the most lop-sided embarrassing junk of garbage I've ever seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:21 PM |
| 16 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?Just absolutely far from the truth in my opinion, do women love super dominant red-pillers? No. Do women love men who are naturally stronger than them, taller, and can throw them around like a ragdoll? Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:06 PM |
| 51 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?I feel as if being tall just naturally puts you in a dominant position over women, and they like that and are just now vocalizing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:14 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversDumbest statement I've ever heard in my life, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!I just put myself into the female delusion calculator, (22-27, not obese, not married, 6'3+, and make over 100k) and apparently it is a 0.018% chance to find someone like me. Interesting lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!Lol fr, was thinking the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Hookups and LTRs have different standards. If you weren’t upfront about just wanting sex, it’s your fault that you were strung along.If you're attracted to someone who you see a possible longterm future with, you don't want to have sex with them? You're going against what you just said. What is making you not want to have sex then, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Hookups and LTRs have different standards. If you weren’t upfront about just wanting sex, it’s your fault that you were strung along.But you had the biological urge for someone else in your previous hook-ups. So that argument is out the window, you have already shown that you let lust take over as any human would, but with the new guy you're playing a power move and RESTRICTING yourself and if you aren't restricting yourself then you aren't attractive enough to the person. As dude said in his main response, girls will fall over doing ANYTHING for someone they want. You yourself have probably done some over-pursuing for a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Hookups and LTRs have different standards. If you weren’t upfront about just wanting sex, it’s your fault that you were strung along.Its a power move by the woman plain and simple, she is already going against her BIOLOGICAL urges to have sex with someone to try and gain power/respect for her body in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:38 PM |
| 7 | Hookups and LTRs have different standards. If you weren’t upfront about just wanting sex, it’s your fault that you were strung along.You're wrong, the reason why you had sex with people on the first date HAS to be attraction or charm, because what else would make you overlook everything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Hookups and LTRs have different standards. If you weren’t upfront about just wanting sex, it’s your fault that you were strung along.I would never wait for someone who had a one night stand and then wanted to string me along that's just me, the fact is you aren't willing to put risk because you don't view the man as high value enough. Plus you are already playing a game and I don't like that. I am the type to be upfront about it, I don't initiate sex the first date - but you damn sure I will by the second or third and whenever I try to initiate if my woman is not submissive enough to lower her boundaries for me but expects me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:35 PM |
| 20 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?I have experienced the "women only like top 10%" a multitude of times in multiple different settings (college, high school, workplace, clubbing). I also believe that girls being attracted to someone brings other girls attraction up to that person and have had real life examples of girls coming up to me like flies just because they're fighting over me. I've seen girls rope in guys and keep them for validation, honestly pretty much all of red pill examples except the extremes I agree in and have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Girls usually go through their hoe college phase their freshman and sophomore year but still rotate/flip later on just at a slower pace. You're talking probably like 2-3 dudes a month for a good while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | if you're single but dont want to be, why?Do you have friends? What are your hobbies? You can meet girls going out to eat with friends, through work, gym, through friends and places they work. Switch gyms too, if there is not a multitude of young people in your gym you're in the wrong one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 07:11 AM |
| 3 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.You're batching every woman into one big group. I used to think like you, that no matter what you can't trust any woman it's not worth it young blah blah. But that is not the truth, you can find a good woman young who isn't a theatric whore. Although they are extremely hard finds, it is possible. I'd much rather be dating my wife for 10 years than wait till I'm 26 and rush it. And out of shape by 26? Yeah right, you don't even hit your prime as a man until 32. So lets say I'm 22, date this loyal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingI make over 80k a year bartending btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement."Nice guys" are the same guys who want to treat women good, take them out on expensive dates, buy flowers, marry them, is that dehumanizing to the female? Its called life, get over it. Men will always view women as trophies, bad or good men will. They will still take care of their trophies, just because a nice guy wants one thing in return doesn't make him a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?No it doesn't, obesity lowers value as much as obesity. You're sitting here lying to yourself if you think a girl is going to choose an obese, overweight, lazy man compared to a productive, extremely fit, and driven bald man. Sure, they both might not be "desirable" but bald is still a level above obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?It is not equivalent, but being bald does lower you SMV tremendously. I disagree that both are unsolvable, you can keep your hair till 40 with medication, and being obese is no doubt a solvable issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?Dumb take, being bald does lower your sexual market value but having a lowered sexual market value doesn't all equal the same thing, there is still levels to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman you met at work?It depends on who the person is, some girls I would stay very far away from and others it would be possible. I have been fired because of a girl I work with, but she's also the loud-mouth, feministic, liberal type and that was my first mistake. She goes around blabbing and cries over small inconveniences. But I have also had multiple girls where it didn't impact things at all and we kept work work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is pointless/a scam for menI disagree - being ripped raises your confidence and swagger, and you will be approached by women. It is not the sole reason, but its apart of an accumulation. If you're out on the beach with a hat on and ripped to the gill, you'll get some women approaching you or at least trying to get your attention w/o a doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 03:57 PM |
| – | How man hours a week do you spend on your appearance?I spend about 15-20 minutes a day hygiene wise, 5 mins a day worrying about fashion/shopping, and around 2 hrs a day on my fitness and health (not including being picky with the food I digest and/or staying hydrated). So I'd say like forsure 15hrs+ dedicated a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attractTaking dating advice from a woman is a horrible idea, no matter who they are or what their background is. They live in a completely different world than men, its not even worth the debate and effort to try and convince them otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The only thing that will end women's control over the dating market and men's sexuality is advanced aiNothing will ever replace the real thing, the only way to get rid of women's control over the dating market is to remove social media - only way, and that will never happen. Imagine getting some "advanced AI" because you can't get the real thing - you're literally settling for a 2nd copy of the real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is pointless/a scam for menSelf improvement isn't just for women, no one goes to the gym and thinks I'm doing this for women, you're doing it for yourself. While doing so, you will have more opportunities. I'm sorry but someone who is 300lbs, lazy as shite, poor hygiene, etc will never has as much options as a productive 185lb ripped man. Your woman will respect you more, if someone "settles down" with you they will like you more because of your discipline and attitude compared to the disgust they would feel with a 300lb … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | To what extent are modern female standards inflated or just revealed preferences?There is no possible way to change the way women are put on a pedestal. Way too many guys who can't get off porn and are so obsessed with having a sliver of pussy that they will put women on a pedestal. It will only continue to get worse as the generations go along, this is brainwashing that begun as a kid watching Disney movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:19 PM |
| 9 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?No doubt any mentally strong man won't care in the long run, but finding our your partners sexual past can most definitely impact your relationship with the current partner. Men are dominant and prideful creatures, any man with balls between their legs won't treat a girl good if she was treating other men better sexually - not talking extreme situations like girl didn't like anal, but more like girl giving head to one partner and not the next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Men lack of masculinity is due porn/masturbationPorn and masturbation does have a part in the lack of masculinity in the world, but its not the only cause and more-so apart of the accumulation of other factors. Such as, being unhealthy, social media, participation trophy generation, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:14 PM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?In my personal opinion, its bound for a woman to have some crazy unforgettable sex partner the more bodies that they get. If a woman has 20 partners, shes bound to have been begging to get smashed by a good 3 of those partners minimum. I know women will say "Just get better at sex" well theres only so much compatibility you can have with another person, and thats because women look for "good husband qualities" and not "who I wanna fuck qualities". Its really the guys fault, he should have left a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 11:41 PM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?Well the man never asked it was forcefully brought upon him while she blabs his business to her friend. I have never once talked about the sex-life of me and my partner that "I love" - its our business. All my friends know is that we have sex, no specific details. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Will this upcoming generation of women and men be the most useless yet?Without a doubt in my mind that the current 14-24 year olds will be the weakest generation in human history. Honestly, I do believe women will be very influential but they will be lost in a fantasy world far away from reality, and only make our future generations weaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 04:05 AM |
| 9 | Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren'tMen want love and the ability to protect and cater to a woman, but men are also extremely prideful creatures especially in today's society. No man wants a woman that everyone has had or to be embarrassed by a woman mentally and financially. Women believe they're more valuable than they are because modern men are in desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | RedPill Men, Do You Believe that People Can Uhhhh Love Each Other?Yes it is very much possible, although extremely rare. I'd say about 5-10% of people will ever truly be in a relationship where they truly love each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How do we explain all the happy couples in their 20s and 30s on social media and in real life?Hey, ignorance is bliss. I know a lot of happy couples where the woman/man are cheating on them. But to social media and the average eye, they're happy and unaware. If you want a happy relationship, don't ask questions basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?I would say I'm above average (a solid 8/8.5), and I don't think the dating game is worth it for most men. Unless you're a straight stud or 9.5+. All my friends who are really good with girls were just born studs honestly, and they all have no cosmetic defects and great genetics. My friends who aren't good with girls are more average and its not even worth the mental failures. You may get sex like 10x a year and thats it. Its better to just find someone longterm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | this is an "average" man or a 6?I give this guy like a 4.5/5. Not really well dressed, not groomed well as seen through shirt, should get a tan, no chains/jewelry, tattoo would probably add to appearance, hes bald, and not in tip top shape. With some fine tune adjustment he can get himself to a solid 6.5/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Another suffering being? Its funny because your bloodline has went through countless troubles just in the name of producing the next and keeping the bloodline going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenBs. Any woman can hit the gym and automatically have hundreds of options. A guy who has an ugly face might have 5 options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe women's body count number?For an attractive woman, easily 10+ after age of 22-23. Maybe you have some anomalies, and you definitely have girls who are way higher so I'd say 10 is a good average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women's body count number?Not many women I know have under 7 bodies, and I'm 21. I believe for women under age of 24 average bodies is easily 10+ for attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Online dating really is for a small pool of menAs a guy I do agree with this, but at the same time it still stands that the ego of the bottom 60% of women are still super inflated to the point where they're only swiping on more top tier men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?No one said its not possible to be loyal, we're just saying its harder to be loyal. I'm sorry but there is no way you can convince me from a pre-relationship standpoint that someone who has an n-count of 20 compared to 1 that the 20 n-count would be more loyal. Sex to the person with a n-count of 1 would be the more reliable choice, because it shows that sex is important to them and they do not take it lightly. Not saying the person with 20 can't be loyal, but it also has to be with the right pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 05:43 AM |
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