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| 1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysThe best thing to do is to just get out there and talk to them, but I'd say get out there and do what you want to in terms of hobbies. People are very attracted to people in their element. If you love to dance, go clubbing and so on. Oh, and if you think you're too insecure to date, (social life, weight, etc) try to work on them, but dont be afraid to date while you do it. While I'm a guy, it's been explained to me that dating for men is like looking for water in a desert. It can be hard to find… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:53 AM |
| 8 | Is there a really good Tinder\dating apps mentor?Lamoooo, never pay a "professional" for any tinder advice. You could easily just go to r/tinder and just post a profile review. It's going to boil down to "Work out, take good pictures, be funny through text, keep interest, ask them out after a little while." Anyways, that'll be 700 dollars. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | What's a sure way to know if a woman really is genuinely interested in you or just likes to receive your attention and validation?God, what a terrible way to see people. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with being an effeminate man?Yeah for sure! | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Price of being a chadWelcome to mono, gigachad. Lol, jk. Yeah, there's a high chance of upper resp going around. We just came out of a pandemic! Go to your Dr. and he'll throw a z-pack at you, then wait a week or two, and get on out there. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:29 AM |
| 4 | What books should I read about seduction?Definitely just get out there more, and stop negging all together. These dudes are selling you a product, and it's in their interests to keep you coming back. They have no reason to make you into a pickup god, because then you wouldn't buy the course. You're 16, homie. When I was 16, I was afraid to talk to waitresses. You're gonna make it without "Dr. Feelgood Hetzbuhlah's Psychology of Sexual Gratification." on sale for 13.99$. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to meet girls on reddit for dating or hookup?Only if you guild me, Commander Riker.~ | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach: How to turn negative into positiveObviously you understand shes trying to get an easy out, so she doesn't have to talk to you anymore. "What are you to?" can be seen as, "Look, I know you've got a thing going on, but here I am to derail your day, and interject myself into your life." Talk about something she's doing, or something you're both looking at, or any number of other things. Make an observation, be genuine, then try to work naturally as person, rather than a pickup artist. If she's giving you indications that you've got… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to meet girls on reddit for dating or hookup?I'd say no. It's not a dedicated dating site, and theres no guarntee that who you're meeting is who they say they are. I could be a 9 ft tall, jacked werewolf with a monster cock and Versace DNA. Or I could be Delilah Frakes, who enjoys cuddling and Monster Hunter, who I just made up on the spot, but give me enough time and some burner emails, and I could easily scam a lot of lonely ass men out of a lot dollars. Stick to Tinder, or maybe go outside. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | How do I deal with girls via text, who are mad because I take time to reply?I'll never get the "let em wait" game. Men hate it when women do it, why wouldn't women also hate it? "Is he dead? Shit, now I'm worried about him." "Is he still interested?" or "Did I get ghosted?" Nobody wants to feel those emotions, man. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:30 AM |
| 6 | Is there something wrong with being an effeminate man?Hard to say, and hard to say how to say it, OP. I guess this might be a long, rambling post from a guy who's bi, which may disqualify me in the eyes of a lot of macho dudes around here. Take me with a grain of salt, this is all going to be high minded and pretentious as fuck, but it's the way I see it. It's very easy to see a masculine, and feminine side of nearly everything in the world. Languages deriving from Latin separate nearly every noun in their dictionary by masculine and feminine, and … | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:16 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys “Set your intentions” ?Context, context. There's not a good answer for all things at all times. Have we just met? Why state the intentions at all? I haven't got any proof this person will stick around at all. Are they even into me? If I'm getting a good signal, I'll flirt, act coy, and be playful. Be slightly overt, just to not get them confused, but don't give away the game fully. "Hi my name is Adbice Advice, and I'm here at Big Marty's Crust Punk Club to meet my next wife. I enjoy wine, sushi, and high impact bonda… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:59 AM |
| 4 | How to go clubing alone?Open the door, and step in? No seriously, there's little good answer. I have a friend who swears by it, and routinely hooked up at bars before he settled with his current girlfriend. His trick was to simply "talk to everyone." He was also in sales. In doing that, he said that the best way to get out of the fear is to simply be told no every day for 100 days, AKA "100 Days of Rejection." The way he explained it is, he'd go out and ask for the most inane of things. Anything that came to his mind t… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:43 AM |
| 7 | Talking to girls everyday (update)July 4thYou gotta stop being so hard on yourself, forreal. I've come to live for these updates, and find what you're doing pretty inspiring. You've hit on more women in a month than a lot of guys here have their entire lives. Also, since these rules of yours are self imposed, there's no reason to feel bad for not living up to your (kind of high) self expectations. You're being your own judge and executioner. Also, I'm sorry about your dog, homie. I remember when my dog died, it just about ripped me apar… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:24 AM |
| 2 | What's a good question to ask somebody you dont like while it sounds genuine?If you have the power to leave, and it's not going to be a big social deal, then why stay? Get out when it seems appropriate. Swing and a miss, welcome to the ballgame. If you genuinely don't care about what the whole room thinks, then why even pretend to stay? Just straight up leave. On the other hand, try to have some humanism and think about what pissed you off about this person. Is it a delusion of yours? Do you have anything to back up this feeling with? Can you see where the other is comin… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach on a dancefloor?The best thing to do is to have fun dancing by yourself, at first. People want to party with people who are having a good time. I'd learn a few more choreographed moves, stuff people know, if you don't know them already. Get the wobble down, lol, but don't be afraid to get into some of the slightly harder stuff. People go nuts for cutting shapes and melbourne shuffle. Youtube is great for learning dances, as long as you can figure out what they're called. Get a few moves for faster BPMS, and a f… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 8 | why is it bad to be an emotional sponge?Be real, yes it's totally fine to treat people with respect. Its totally fine to treat people's problems seriously, and to help them get through it. And it is totally fine to care about people's feelings. It is not fine to have people constantly use you for a shoulder to cry on. It is not fine to have to pretend to be people's therapist. And it is not fine to be someone's wet blanket. How much are you willing to put up with? How many tears can you take before you're ready to just tell them, "Hey… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:41 AM |
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