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No matter what you wear, your ass is there. Dresses/skirts offer easy access.
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:21 AM
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Open casket
/r/seduction03/06/26 11:31 PM
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Being perceived as creepy doesn't mean that you did anything wrong.
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:27 PM
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If you bought a lottery ticket every day for a year and never won anything, what would you do? Give up? Realize the futility? What if the next one is the jackpot? I would, maybe, appreciate how many times I had the privilege to play. 1 year is a very, very short amount of time to base any sort of serious decision on. Perhaps you should put that laser beam-like focus in to something that you have more control over, and just let the women play out how they may...for a while. You're burning yoursel…
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:49 AM
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Fathers, friends, and ladies that want to play with you instead of against you
/r/seduction10/05/26 08:22 AM
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Why do you assume that everyone is in the same situation? Consider the range of people you are addressing.
/r/seduction07/05/26 09:42 PM
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To me, masculinity in seduction is just subtly reminding her that you "have teeth." Don't let her treat you like a girlfriend. Emotional connection is great, allow her to express her genuine feelings and open to you. Let her shed the facade that she has to wear for everyone else. Just don't let her forget that you are also still a guy and that, when the moment is right, you're going to act like a civilized animal and take her.
/r/seduction07/05/26 03:35 AM
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Nurses are wonderful and wild if you're just looking for raw passion
/r/seduction04/05/26 04:57 AM
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I'm not tall, pretty, rich, handsome, or successful. I've only recently focused on exercise. Those things never bothered me or the ladies that I've known over the years. They are only issues for folks that are chronically online and allow internet socials to do their thinking for them. How you make a lady feel is much more impactful to her. Giver her an emotional rollercoaster. Make her blush, swoon, and quiver. Just find a lady willing to play the game of make-believe with you, and tell her how…
/r/seduction04/05/26 04:54 AM
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So you've never had a conversation, read a book, watched a movie, or played a video game where something was only implied and not explicitly stated? Seems like something that you would have seen or understood at least once in your life. See what that implies? Ladies are usually moved more by emotion and less by logic. It's exceedingly rare that a request for any sort of physical intimacy will result in that happening. In fact, I often find that asking directly can kill the mood when the chance i…
/r/seduction04/05/26 04:31 AM
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Flirting is a "discussion...about if she wants to get intimate," just dressed up to provoke the imagination to picture it in her minds eye and get the juices flowing, so-to-speak. Like the romance novels, some colorful narration will put their mind in that situation, and the human brain does not know the difference between imagination and reality. So imagining the scene will make them feel the scene, and, if that feels good, they will follow the narrative's direction.
/r/seduction04/05/26 04:09 AM
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Don't be harmless.
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:57 AM
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It's not about problem-solving or networking. Get out of your logic-brain. It's about emotional connection and shared experiences. About the feel-good chemicals that your brain releases when you enjoy each other. It's about having a memory to think about right before you die. Pretty impossible to enjoy any of that when you're trying to assign value metrics to the interaction. If you can't help but break it down logically, at least wait until you're done. Enjoy the fantasy and escapism from real …
/r/seduction19/03/26 04:13 AM
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Emotion and logic are polar opposites. Confidence is an emotion. Women live in emotion, and they react to how you make them feel. Your logical breakdown to justify to yourself how you feel makes everyone else feel a certain way about you, and that's all in your head. Change the projection. A huge flaw that anyone has is that they assume that other people are like them, but no one is like anyone else. Women's minds exist in another universe from the male mind. If they can feel smoke, they assume …
/r/seduction08/03/26 07:07 AM
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Older than words
/r/seduction25/02/26 08:59 PM
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Oh well, I'm sure it was fun while it lasted
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:28 AM
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At work you can get to know someone genuinely, because there is no need for the performative bs that happens elsewhere. Then you can find someone with complimentary wounds that is also hypersexual, do naughty things at work on the sly, but still be able to handle it like mature adults when you need your personal and professional lives separate.
/r/seduction18/02/26 11:56 PM
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No matter how 'modern' our upper, logical thoughts become, all of our lower thoughts, which drive attraction and mating, continue to run on the same mechanics that existed before spoken language. Seduction game mostly consists of tactics that speak to that primitive mind. A woman that likes you will spend time to get to know you, and she will want to discover your inner world, thoughts and feelings, in her own time. She will want to earn your trust, and work at getting you to open up about yours…
/r/seduction04/02/26 04:54 PM
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The less you talk about yourself, the better (as in the status of your life). Just live in the moment, that's where it happens
/r/seduction02/02/26 04:37 AM
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Pastor's/preacher's daughter, ftw
/r/seduction09/01/26 04:08 AM
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Scarcity creates value, even if artificially imposed. The biological mechanics of attraction predate any thought that you can have or word that you can say, and that is what a potential partner responds to.
/r/seduction27/12/25 05:15 PM
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Show, don't tell.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:39 PM
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Just be interesting, feminine, and approachable. If your body is appealing we can see that through your clothes anyway.
/r/seduction17/11/25 06:32 PM
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I used to be this way. Isn't it crazy that people can get naked, put parts inside of each other, share fluids, etc., and not speak to each other? If I had to guess, dude, this other dude that you wanted to blow was excited enough to worry about ejaculating in a time/place that he didn't want. It also reads as though he was a little disgusted at you lapping up his load like a porn star, but that doesn't seem to mesh with him "drained...on his hand" bit. If you're going for the female-perspective-…
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:55 PM
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Just stop talking sometimes and be comfortable with the silence.
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:23 AM
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I certainly can't speak for anyone else, but my perspective is from direct experience with a couple of nurses. They are very focused on their goals and have practically no personal time. They see the cycle of life and death on the daily. The profession seems to draw those that are very nurturing, etc. All of that tends to lead to a libido overload coupled with the need for quick gratification. Some will craft some creative situations while suppressing themselves with work. They also tend to have…
/r/seduction06/10/25 07:23 PM
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I guess so, as long as you're good with nurses. They freaky
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:57 AM
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older = 26
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:02 AM
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Direct thoughts and feelings should be rare. Yell her how you feel about your feelings. That way you tell her a story that she has to decipher a little bit. Just leave no room for misunderstanding the overarching point.
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:34 PM
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It's a pretty human failing, I do it all the time
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:27 AM
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She already told you what she wanted: space. Give it to her. Keep yourself busy and continue to meet people, consider her gone.
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:37 PM
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If you find a single lady, which I don't believe really exists, you have to compete with the entire world for her attention. Pursue better odds and you'll only have to be better than one other dude. It may not be a great neighborhood to be in, but it's a place to start and it will teach you a lot about women...
/r/seduction30/08/25 03:17 AM
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Create an emotional connection. If she feels that you hear and understand her, while you're also being flirty and vaguely masculine, you might be able to make her see you.
/r/seduction20/08/25 11:41 PM
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Nothing
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:42 AM
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This has worked with exes.
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:07 AM
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Nothing wrong with triggering preselection, I just keep her face out or unidentifiable.
/r/seduction05/08/25 12:45 PM
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Because we're hot, old, and call them out on their bs. Don't let them faze you. They know that they're large children and they don't understand why they get so much attention and power when they're just regular people. Stop making them special.
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:31 PM
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Plenty of cultures enjoy multi-generational homes without threatening their masculinity. It's only a problem if you think it's a problem. Cost of rent is astronomical everywhere right now. Most folks "on their own" either have roommates, or are barely getting by. I'm sure that some folks have huge incomes or gifts of property from family, but I don't think that that's the average experience.
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:51 AM
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What women say that they are attracted to, and the people that they actually sleep with, are often different people. You might notice that most guys aren't (insert physical trait here), but the human race persists, anyways.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:16 AM
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Should really push this for women. So many of them have no idea how to kiss, much less anything else
/r/seduction29/04/25 11:24 PM
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You'll remember
/r/seduction22/04/25 04:55 AM
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A lot of people just want the attention, and they're probably receiving it from multiple people at once. Some may cancel at the last minute to see if you'll shower them with more attention. I would just assume that they are doing you a favor.
/r/seduction07/04/25 03:34 AM
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Nah. Being poor and not especially good-looking has forced me to develop a lot of skills, including the ability to be very charismatic for short periods of time. If I had been born wealthy and didn't have to struggle, I would be a less spectacular person.
/r/seduction07/04/25 12:21 AM
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Really?
/r/seduction29/03/25 11:49 PM
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If you are the king of the world, top of the heap, and you're going places, a girl might want to join. If you're fun and non-judgmental, they may want to have fun with you. It just takes finding the right girl.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:04 AM
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