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The headline is great but all the rest of OP is completely off. Mistaking betas with money for alphas is a newbie mistake. My guess is that to some extent OP feels inferior to them. Regarding the premise in the title, I've seen two kinds of girls that fit in that. One is sluts, I won't waste time there since they pretty well understood. The second type is the one that intrigues me the most. They are attractive with lot's of male orbiters and very few female friends. They are bonded with their fa…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:14 PM
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Say "yeah yeah whatever" and walk away to find something that's worth a fuck
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:39 PM
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I was in the same position many years ago and I chose to keep her. Eventually we married and 8 years later divorced mostly because I was fed up and wanted to experience life free for once. I always tell every young men I meet. Never marry your first or second girlfriend. Hell some will say never marry period. Practically speaking, I'd suggest you bring up another girl to the relationship, threesome sort of things and hint that you'd be fucking the girl on the side. Never be overt about your inte…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:56 PM
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Thanks for your insight. I come from a place where fat shame is still on and women obsess about making their asses perfect. Unfortunately this is changing there too.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:39 AM
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No, that's not what I meant.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:36 AM
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I barely acknowledge the existence of fat people. I'm talking about the friends of the girls I know.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:35 AM
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Good to see an OP that actually fucking accepts TRP advice.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 07:36 PM
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Amazing list. Add colored hair.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:39 PM
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If you have constant pain see a sports physiotherapist. Don't lift without supervision of a coach; at least until you have trained for 6 months straight and learned proper form. Your coach will be able to modify the exercises to accommodate your limitations. Learn stretches and mobility work, see yoga tune up balls and mobility WOD. Take those exercises as seriously as lifting.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:35 PM
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About 6 months ago I decided to enter monk mode. I kept one plate that comes over once a week to release the steam. To be honest I'm not happy with the results specially in three aspects. I over exert myself with too much exercises, with lifting, climbing and ultimate I had only one rest day per week. Secondly I got hung up reading books specially manga and light novels. Lost many hours of sleep there. Finally, my game became much worse than when I started this phase 6 months ago. In retrospect,…
/r/becomeaman24/06/16 06:05 PM
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I recommend a recently released book called Deskbound: Standing Up to a Sitting World. The book will show all you need to do to take care of yourself in a very practical way. It's written by Kelly Starrett, in my own words I think of him as a revolutionary dedicated physiotherapist. If you research his material you will learn how to develop a solid foundation to any activity; regardless of following him or someone else, without that foundation you're likely to end up hurting yourself.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 02:29 PM
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No regrets, I was 19. I went to to a red light house with a buddy, we got a girl each and we shared the same room to save some bucks. Magically I got my first girlfriend a couple of months later but I was terrible on bed so she left me. Unfortunately I married my second girlfriend - that was my biggest mistake. Back in that time there was no PUA, no TRP, without a father or any role model I was set to failure. What you do on your first time isn't relevant. It doesn't matter if you pay a hoe with…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:29 PM
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He was tamed. Happy he's out of the streets though. https://youtu.be/suxKKn-DJeE
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 07:53 PM
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The modern man uses the proper names for things. For example, he’ll say “helicopter,” not “chopper” like some gauche simpleton. Not even Arnold was left out.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:49 PM
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Women don't know what they want.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 11:06 PM
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If women responded to barking sounds men will start barking like dogs. We do what women respond to because they're driven by nature. OP is not preaching to do what women want but instead to appeal to the irresistible subconscious instinct that drive woman's decisions. Suppose women do respond to barking sound, then: Woman would deny it Society would create a taboo around barking Betas would do what they've been told.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:21 PM
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I made the same mistake and lost 10 years of my life. Just read the bible and judge yourself if the god described there is a worthy god. Make a rational decision now and don't look back. Don't let them brainwash you and fill your head with doubts and guilt. Bonus video: 10 WTF Bible Passages
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:09 AM
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OP, review each one of your actions you described in your text. Every single one screams neediness. Avoid them.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 07:51 PM
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Guys have to start recognizing those points where there's no way back. They start on the premise of doing some alpha trick to keep the girl around, there's no such thing. The girls attitude is not an isolated event, it's a progression where she time after time test her limits.The best thing to do is to cut your losses and start fresh, working out to never give any space for her (the new girl) lose respect for you.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:48 AM
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Bulk/cut phase is not efficient anyway... Better keep your calories balanced with your spending but with a high intake of protein to promote muscle growth. I'm totally going to try this. I'm generally sleepy all morning and by 6pm when I want to train I'm still feeling full from lunch.
/r/becomeaman25/08/15 08:14 PM
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Don't forget Chris Rock. very related https://youtu.be/3dGhsRsHXP8
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 01:46 AM
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Elliott Hulse - Not a podcast but Elliott is RP as fuck. Straight talk no bs. https://www.youtube.com/user/elliottsaidwhat
/r/askTRP05/08/15 05:16 PM
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Being someone who's constantly fighting against depression, I loved your piece about exercising. Fuck, all your advice is precious. I found some new points I can tackle in the next depression wave. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 03:21 PM
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By your tone I already see you take things too seriously. That and what redbluepilling said. You're probably in the "I wanna be much alpha" phase, which will only help to highlight your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 08:23 PM
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If you're serious all the time and call her out on every little thing she will leave you. You must define your boundaries and treat her like children, never taking what she says seriously.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:12 PM
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You covered it all, thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:24 PM
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I have a plate that plays ultimate. Se spent the last weekend in NJ in some sort of competition fueled by drinks and parties. I heard there's a lot of hot girls playing but I'm not a fan of contact sports, mostly trying to avoid ugly injuries. What's your take in this bro?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:02 PM
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Nothing was handled over to him, he had to study, take opportunities as they rose and work his ass off to get where he is. Unfortunately we're never mature enough to choose our career wisely when the time comes. Mid journey we realize we rather running than swimming, rather riding a motorcycle that driving a Mercedes.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 05:39 PM
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I did. I was 18 or 19 I'm not sure... what I do remember is that I went to the brothel with a buddy each of if is picked a hoe and we shared the same room. I took a mandatory shower and the hoe asked if I wanted to eat her purse, I said hell no, I didn't kissed her either. She helped me with the condom and laid back with her legs open. I found my way into her shaved pussy and came after a couple of strokes. It was fun. Some time later I saw her in the bus but I wasn't sure if was her or not so I…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 02:22 AM
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If she doesn't get it from you she will get pregnant from someone else and say it's yours.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:07 PM
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As long as OP is consistently approaching women, he will eventually reach his goals but that doesn't mean that hitting on low SMV women is an effective way to do it for a couple of reasons: As you said its a low risk low reward activity. OP will start right of the bat less engaged than he would otherwise, this can be a good or a bad thing depending the way you look at it although how he would gauge his success? Would he push all the way down to sex? If not, what's the usefulness of it? Even so, …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:03 PM
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What you have to master is making any woman perceive your smv being higher than hers. Practicing with ugly chicks won't help much because they know that you're coming after them because you're insecure and doesn't believe in yourself. Practice by being outcome independent and play on the numbers but don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 09:02 PM
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You already answered yourself. (a 7 who knows my worth I'd say) She knows your worth and it's nothing for her Does that mean my attitude is beta with fake confidence that stands out or that I'm alpha and she's betafying me? The way you construct your sentence already shows how insecure you are. Guess whats the right answer? Stop faking, stop giving a shit.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 12:11 AM
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that's easy, "Australian party boy" https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=australian+party+boy
/r/askTRP28/02/15 08:04 PM
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You can use this to start learning how to identify signs of interest. When she compliments, ask personal questions or touches you, make a mental note and hit on her immediately, see the result and keep rolling this feedback loop until you start noticing the small subtle things. ABC - always be closing
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:58 PM
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Honestly, I would remove it from the trinity, or replace it with sadism That would make a fun person to hangout with but pretty useless for TRP. No one likes Sid but we're all a little sadistic. I know because all the office was pretty entertained with my stories of how I killed a bunch of mice in my apartment, how they find that funny I don't know, maybe was the delivery. Anyway, DT and TRP together is very liberating. One that was once tamed can now change the rules of the game. You know who h…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:01 PM
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Good write up on the DT traits. I think DT theory has one important target audience: those who carry one or two of the DT traits but doesn't recognize, understand or know how to use it for sexual strategy. Emulating behaviour can be frustrating and come across fake in social settings, those who want to become DT are basically wasting their time and being laughed at. They could be improving some other aspect of their life in a more efficient way but instead they're trying to make jokes of how awe…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:23 PM
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Basic TRP knowledge: You can't change her therefore you must change yourself. Lift, get hobbies, review your wardrobe, play dread, get plates. edit: She knows I do not like what she is doing What she should know is that you don't give a fuck anymore.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:17 AM
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It's easy for people say get divorced and be freed, I know, I did that but I don't have children. If you're facing a 10 year financial wreck and you're almost 50 already it is better to plan you freedom in the long run. I'd suggest you do what many couples do, stay together for the kids until they're big enough. You have an advantage though, you can fuck around. This is a good thing. Become the new TRP man be an example to your kids and seek the sexual gratification you want outside marriage lik…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 05:58 PM
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Change beer for liquor, that might cut it for you. Don't come with silly drinks with fucking little umbrellas though... and straws are for pussies.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 11:18 PM
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Craigslist. Seriously, I met a guy who's a massotherapist and he looked pretty beta, he's kind of zen, kind of zoned out. Eventually I mentioned something about tantric massage and the guy owned it. When you know what you're talking about you have power, you have authority. I couldn't imagine any woman who wouldn't be dripping while he talks about his shit.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:42 PM
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I agree with this buddy, don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 04:35 PM
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I like Alan Watts, some of his zen shit is crazy but he's still my favorite.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:10 PM
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That reminds me a bunch of the Laws of Power. Time to leave this bad behaviour. Never put too Much Trust in Friends Always Say Less than Necessary So Much Depends on Reputation Keep Your Hands Clean
/r/askTRP10/02/15 10:01 PM
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Thanks! I never thought about that but looking back now I realize that my resentment for her on this was one more little thing that added up making me blow up my marriage. Had her supported my carpentry dream I would have never taken photography for hobby and would have not been exposed to young cute validation-seeking girls. She doomed herself actually. Your FWB follows the AF/BB schedule by the book. I hope she decides to swing branches and gets screwed... or not, I don't really care.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:51 PM
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I agree with you, that's a good point. Without being apologetic, I only show photos of girls that I don't have contact anymore and they would never meet them in the future.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 09:38 PM
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I'm stuck on technicalities. Being critical to myself I'm mostly reactive. I talk to girls evaluating her interest and escalate from there because 1. I rather be polarizing and move on if she's not interested and 2. I don't wanna look needy. I know I'm obviously protecting my ego though so my question is, how to be blunt without looking like an attention whore? Do you just start making fun of people, cracking jokes or what? How can you dominate the interaction if people are not buying your shit?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:09 PM
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I keep track of all my hookups, what works what doesn't some of the circumstances. Some of them I don't even remember their names. Photos I keep them on my computer. Delete the ugly ones. When you're feeling down or in a dry phase look at them and remember that you can do better, do like that guy in the Memento movie. They're also great for bragging with your pals.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:04 PM
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I graduated in one of the STEM fields. I moved with my wife to a developed country and started to look into carpentry training. I wanted to be a carpenter but my wife said "I married a STEM, not a fucking carpenter". I ditched that bitch but I'm still tied to a chair all day. I have to recover my losses. My savings were burned for her and so some of my dreams.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 04:13 PM
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What are the characteristics of these different crazy levels? Don't stick your dick in crazy. Rule number one. I rated sluts. If you find a crazy slut you next her, end of story. On my slut scale; S1 is LTR material. For me there are two kinds of women, sluts and virgins. Considering a girl can potentially start her sexual life at the age of 14, a S1 would have, by 21, no more than 2 partners. That's just a guideline but you get an idea. The easiest way to classify a slut is counting their partn…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 03:41 PM
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You're seriously saying it's ok to LTR a slut? I didn't mean to make a double negative so I gonna edit for clarity.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 11:18 PM
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I agree 100%.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 09:20 PM
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Right NOW, he is a slave to his own sexual desires. Who told you that? Leave your dogmas out of this most would consider undesirable women undesirable for what? LTR? Sluts are not LTR material. Pump and dump? Hell yeah they're made for that. TRP encourages you to free yourself from those desires. Stop distorting the word of TRP to meet your agenda. You're the guy who believes that desiring your neighbour's wife is a sin. GTFO. Edit for clarity.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 08:33 PM
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Sluts are emotionally broken as you rightly analysed, but the end result is different. They're emotionally stable in their slutness. The conclusion that they are a time bomb close to flip the shit out and make rape charges against you is exaggerated. Sluts are having fun, riding the CC and shit. They become dangerous when they approach the wall, that's true, but in the 20's something range they're okay if you know how to play and treat them with the minimum of decency and cut your losses at the …
/r/askTRP09/02/15 08:25 PM
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Don't stick your dick in crazy. Don't shit where you eat. That's all. On a scale from 1 to 5, 5 being the sluttiest, you can plate anything from 1 to 4. Those 5's you will see you can't keep them for long, because their nature makes them next you before you even think about what you're getting for dinner.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 05:50 PM
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sluts are the main ones coming out with the false rape claims This is not true. Sluts and emotionally unstable women are not the same thing. Your assumption is wrong. Kill your ego, stop being a slave to sex. It's never going to lead anywhere positive. This is not true. Applying RP concepts he can become not a slave but god of sex leading him to mind blowing experiences and carnal satisfaction.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 05:45 PM
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This is a great response. It is clear that the motivation is not only ideological but financial gain and power. Too bad the troop of SJW can't see that they're puppets in the big picture. This is sickening, especially knowing that whoever opens up this publicly will face serious backslash.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:59 PM
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We're in the same boat. From now on your own failures will teach you more that anything else. Don't fear taking risks. Fuck that shit, fuck all. That's what means this pseudo hate against woman... no one here is encouraging any hate or violence against woman.. you just stop giving a shit. What's the difference between insulting and teasing after all?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:32 PM
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Most of us discovered TRP because we were hurt, people like me product of broken homes with poor social skills. I believe the angry phase is result of the realization of the truth but inability to work around it. Swallowing the pill is not the hard part in my opinion, learning how to live and beat the house is what takes time. Do you just accept the loneliness or do you make more male friends to spend time with and just have a good time? I have done both. I'm introvert, I've been trying to chang…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:59 PM
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You might be right, and I've been considering just that but for now I'm avoiding looking for solutions on the outside. I'm taking it the hard way and creating the challenges within my own mind. My greatest challenging is finding pleasure in interacting with people.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:45 PM
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If you concerned with men you're in better situation than me. All men I know are just pathetic and represent no threat whatsoever. My life became quite boring. Nothing surprises me anymore. The worse of TRP is find yourself alone with no one to trust.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 03:56 PM
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RISUG Have you done it? It seems it requires a trip to India. Can you give a lead on that?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:52 PM
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Stop fishing for attention. If you have something interesting to say than say it otherwise you're just a kid in a body of a man that never kissed a girl.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:19 PM
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Do yourself a favour and read something on the side bar of the main sub for a start. Discussing your believes will help only to sink them down. I suggest starting from the RP collection. Ask direct questions instead of that convince me horse shit.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 05:56 PM
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If you lie frequently and for banal reasons it will make it harder to anyone detect when you're lying in contrast of lying once in a while for something you think is important.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:57 PM
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So a general rule, my actions should be aligned with my intentions. It's okay to be covert but beating around the bush is unattractive.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:29 PM
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The best of TRP is learning those little secrets that makes interacting with women so much fun. Thanks for taking the time to expand. Do you think it's a valid strategy fishing for her response by asking how her relationship is going to help measure her interest?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:07 PM
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This is a great analysis. That's why emotional affair is such a big thing and I never knew why. I must start paying attention to when women start complaining about their SO to me.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:34 PM
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1 - you failed; 2 - you failed. Value your fucking time, reinstalling OS, drivers and shit takes a hell lot of time and she won't value it not even close to what you think. You didn't get a fucking degree to fix computer shit. Your personal reward is just you hammstering how ridiculous you were. If you sincerely like to help people, do stuff without being asked. Do manly things that requires physical skills. No woman ever got wet for a guy fixing a computer. Go fix the fence, drill some holes in…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:33 PM
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Why do you think the sex is great? She's experienced and you're not. Fuck her harder, stop being such a pussy. Slap her ass and pull her hair. ...and yes she remembers. They remember everything, never think otherwise.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:12 PM
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Bigger question would be how to quickly and subtly identify guys who are potentially RP so you don't waste your time in company of blue pillers.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:54 PM
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The exact same thing happened in the University of Ottawa less than a year ago. Some guys talk shit about woman, someone leaked screenshots of the conversation and those boys are burned in public. It's a shame Canada is becoming a land of such white knightery. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/anne-marie-roy-uottawa-student-leader-subject-of-explicit-online-chat-1.2556948
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 01:38 PM
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You're gonna be okay. BsAs has a lot of brazilians and they quite bond together. Not to mention the nightlife is bombing, monday to saturday. Lots of beautiful young latinas, those girls are a little better than the brazilians in my opinion, less self-entitled I might say. Just take care to not lose focus on your studies because med school is really hard. Take slow, you have a long path of self improvement. By the end of your graduation you gonna be already great man. Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:27 PM
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I have the impression that you keep waiting the girl ask you to be rough. Your hesitation creates insecurity in the girl. If she reached the point she has to ask you're probably not doing your job. Start gentle and scalate, be patient but assertive. Choke, pull her hair, slap her face and ass, in little increments. Every girl I ever met liked some roughness. What differentiate them is how far we can go. Make it a discovery between you two. That creates a nice rapport with the girl and every time…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:14 PM
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Tell her she sucks and find something else to do or have fun.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 10:16 PM
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You think a 10 gives better sex than a 7 only because she's hotter and you're more invested in her. You feel validated and more attracted to her and she might respond to that. That doesn't mean she's better than the other just because she has a face and shape more pleasing to you.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 01:06 AM
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Sure, but the incompatibility here is not that she's a 9 or a 10. It's that you may have a different lifestyle then her. If she's a gym goer and takes care of her heath, she will look for guys that do the same. If she's a model, you might need to be somewhat in shape and have high(er) smv. If she's naturally beautiful without any special effort from her part and you still find her a 9 or 10, you might not find any physical appearance limitation in her eyes to approach her.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 05:51 PM
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Just stop making up excuses and go after what you really want. Stop rating women in a 1 to 10 scale. It should be 0 or 1, to bang or not to bang. Your rating are only in your head, other people would give different ratings and the woman would rate herself differently. Ratings are pretty much circle jerk meaninless.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 05:20 PM
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You sound like an unprofessional cheap chump.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 11:43 AM
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Just ask her out. Thanking her for the dinner and asking her out at the same time conveys retribution. Not good.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 11:41 AM
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So I have two questions... I've been in many Muslim countries, as far as I learned, getting a Muslim woman in your hotel room is asking for trouble... .someone can call the police and you're fucked... anyone heard of that? Disregarding the previous issue, what you'd be the strategy to approach and lay such woman? How about Muslim women in America? What's the strategy?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 05:16 PM
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I'm Marks book, vulnerability is not the emotional kind there you expose your feeling and thoughts. He's logic is that the man should face vulnerability to show strength and confidence. In his book, every time I see "being vulnerable" I replace in mi head by "taking risks".
/r/askTRP26/11/14 04:37 PM
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A woman doesn't need to be super intelligent to raise your kids... it's better if she has strong family values and is emotionally stable. Intelligence plays a little role in her nature and we all agree that in general women is incapable of consistent logical thinking.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:11 AM
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II wasn't being specific on my last comment, it's more like a general thought of how to face life. If you decide to go, by all means, go, but know this is a big investment for a low value return that will trap you emotionally for too long. You're better spending that money on a prostitute or even better on yourself with clothes, nice shoes, gym membership or anything that brings real value to yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:16 AM
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Learn how to trust your gut and your gut is saying to you this is bad idea otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for advice. when to use your big brain vs. your little brain. There's no such thing. You must learn how to be in control of your life and work the means to get what you want. Experience brings confidence and with confidence you can give yourself a good time but one of the TRP truths is that as a man, you can never let go and forfeit decisions in our life to others, specially to women.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 12:13 AM
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Yes, call her out but don't get into an argument. Probably she will deny and come up with more bullshit. Don't fall in her frame, act amused about it and change subject. Keep track of that shit though and act on it according to your principles.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 09:40 PM
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"I'm dating a girl and making her believe I'm LTR material but I will just fuck her a couple of times and dump her since I have already established that she's not worth much more that that."
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:25 PM
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This, I can't reinforce it more. She's a bad women material for either plate or LTR. Not to mention that you (OP) might travel all this distance, get there and get rejected by some last minute resistance bullshit because she's a cunt and you're an inexperience Romeo.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 03:19 PM
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Agreed. Try to roll back from raw to condom and see what happens.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 02:26 PM
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Good point but I'd do slightly different: "new phone who is this" the lack of punctuation is intentional, no sorry, plausible deniability, keep short as possible. next response would have a "hey" or some !!! to balance things. Given the timeline, she's probably DTF. Don't mess up OP.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 02:59 PM
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"How's the social experimenting going?" ie. are you swiping and chatting to other girls? If you started naming it as social experiment I think you already started wrong. If a girl ask me what I'm doing on Tinder I'd say "same as you" or A&A with "Searching my princes then marry in Vegas, have 5 kids and move to Kansas" I respond with something along the lines of "great thanks - just verifying methods and concluding my experiments" (dread etc) This is not dread, this is a passive - [mildly] aggre…
/r/trpGAME12/11/14 02:24 PM
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How do you manage expectations and game against the moral paradigm of the group? I'm an expat, I'm latin doing latin dance. I consciously fulfill the stereotype people have and make up some more. This gives me a little of that extra room that comedians have to say whatever they want with barely no consequences. Nevertheless I'm really serious about dancing and have made some friends with whom I make small talk. When women see this they believe I'm not a player and get interested in me (real feed…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 03:29 PM
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It shouldn't. Pussy is the objective measure of manliness. You may be right but this just reinforce the "well it worked for me" idea you mentioned but I recognise the sub is far from being perfect but TRP principles are solid. Beyond sexism and how horrible modern women(and men ) are, having a emotionally healthy balanced woman love you, is a biological reward you can not cheat, and from feminist to AMOGs, from models to chumps they can not deny your worth after that. I was there and she stabbed…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:32 PM
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Pay attention to her actions, not her words although protesting looks too much I'd take it more like her seeking for peer validation and shit. Be amused, don't get into arguments. Don't give it credibility or any attention. If she keeps pissing you off downgrade her to plate status or next her altogether.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 07:44 PM
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Thanks for your comments man. Very interesting point of view. That is the part I don't get, why is this "social" game. If we separate game in three categories, night game, day game and social game. The latter is the most easy to develop because cold approaches are rare and there's more time to escalate. I find it more efficient getting more IOI and less flakes/rejection. the EMSK crowd has a certain flawor that doesn't sit right with me Just take in consideration that post reached the front page…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:25 PM
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The core principle is that everyone needs drive, needs focus. I agree with this. We both agree that priority number one is yourself. Since this thread is about social game, we're talking about raising and sub-communicating SMV, expanding social circles and influencing and benefiting (e.g. social proof) from people. Under this context, your approach of a self-centred lonely wolf seems inconsistent with the premise. I'm not saying this is bad or it doesn't work but this seems to be quite dark tria…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:07 PM
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I said Men have to learn they have to improve themselves for themselves only and extend.... The extension of what I called "whatever they have of good" is secondary, and even I'd say more of a consequence then a goal. Everyone needs something to care about or thrive for, this is one of the fundamentals of TRP, as people always say "get a hobby" "learn something". I find very hard for a normal person that is good in something not to influence others by his qualities. It may be hard to me to expla…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:58 PM
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People here are always saying to remove women from the pedestal but still over and over people demonstrate that their goal is to get women and raising SMV is the means for it. This is twisted. Men have to learn they have to improve themselves for themselves only and extend whatever they have of good to the community/society as a whole, in OPs terminology, to have a mission.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:18 PM
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Jack Nicholson in As good as it gets. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0g9_wfkYjfo
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 03:20 PM
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I'll tell you, I used to think the same. Keep working on yourself. Keeping working out like a clock, never stop that, eventually it will be a part of you. Nevertheless, specially for older men it gets 2 or 3 years of hard work and commitment to get ripped. You can get there, be patient, don't mess around changing training programs and be fucking consistent. Find something else, a hobby or whatever you call it that you're passionate about. It's a freaking social power when you're good at somethin…
/r/askTRP02/11/14 01:40 AM
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You definitely have some room for improvement because (1) if she gave you a handjob on the 3rd date she could have give much more and (2) if she's your only plate then she's not a plate. Go get more girls and refine your skills. You're even getting oneitis. Take care. Nevertheless, good job.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 01:22 AM
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The children is not capable to understand it. They might believe it for the same reason they believe in Santa Claus and fairy tales. Children and people for that matter are instructed to accept it as a truth and use faith to cover the holes and feed their hamster.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 03:10 PM
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That's pre-selection. It's all about your frame. Also I strongly believe that you shouldn't do anything with the intention to get laid. You dance because you like it, getting your dick wet is a by product.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 05:29 PM
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Plate theory generally advises against joining her social group. You will be out numbered and in a position of very low value, specially in this case. If you're asking, I will assume you're not experienced. If you go, be aware of the risks you're taking. This dread game won't work for you. Be prepared to extract her and go somewhere else in the moment you recognize you're losing ground. Cut your losses and hold your frame.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:12 PM
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Salsa doesn't get me laid It can be done, see my comment down below Go to a club and start dancing bachata If not in your radar, check kizomba.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:56 PM
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That was a shit test and you failed. Girls are always trying to weed out the players. If you're new to the community they will have the bitch shield high up.In that case, identify and target other non regulars. As usual, your goal must me have fun and enjoy yourself. On the other hand, if you're regular, you can widen your options to regulars and non-regulars. It always depends on your frame. Make friends with other guys and girls you don't wanna fuck. Keep a group of friends to shield you socia…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:53 PM
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It depends a little if you're look for a large dance community or something more niche. You'll have to look around and check how frequently events happen, the venues and the social groups that go there. Depending where you live it can be anything like salsa, bachata, brazilian zouk, west coast swing, NY hustle, kizomba, etc. Try to focus in one style for at least a year and get private lessons. This way you can learn faster and with the fundamentals of one dance you can port to another. You will…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:40 PM
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Finding someone to practice with one on one is actually pretty difficult, unless the girl wants to fuck you, in which case, then you'll either be fucking her, and not getting better at dancing, or you'll be fending off her advancing, causing her to get butthurt This is so true, I experienced that first hand. Dancing has become more important that fucking though. The way I found a reliable partner, if anyone is interested, was joining a dance group and training choreo for shows. Nevertheless, my …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:24 PM
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I have a female friend I'm not attracted to. She's a 6/10, divorced with 2 kids. I don't want anything with her. I tease and I bully her and she keeps coming back. She says she likes me way more than I like her but she keeps giving me attention. She tried to set me up with her friend. She asked me if I was gay. I just laugh at her attempts. I kino her often just for the fun of it then she reminds me we're friends. She likes to pretend she's playing the game, they're too proud to give up. She ask…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:57 PM
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Plate: But why does it have to be one-sided like that? You get to have all the fun of your side? What do I get? Woman are gatekeepers of sex while men are gatekeepers of commitment. Without knowing plate is spilling TRP truth. She's upset because she gave sex to OP but he refuses to be manipulated to give her emotional commitment/ attachment. If she wasn't a bloody cunt from the beginning, OP could have left some crumbs for her hamster but being redpill long enough one start wondering if the sex…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 01:48 PM
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All they've said. You need routine and commitment. Motivation comes and goes but looking at yourself in the mirror after 3 months might do the trick. What helped me a lot is sticking with one program. Don't mess around and be patient. You have to believe that sticking to your plan will reward you in the long run. Personally, this app called MultiYear Weight Training have been helping me a lot to track my improvement and give structure to my training. I highly recommend it. http://www.weightlifti…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 07:59 PM
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If the model is too skinny, her butt doesn't have enough cushion. When your hips hit her behind, it hurts.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 03:25 PM
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Never looked it at that angle before. You're right!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:31 PM
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Solid. I have to work in a different frame because I live in the suburbs. My strategy has been getting the girl in my car for a more private make out session. Escalation goes up to fingering; once there I just drive us to my place and seal the deal. Works every time.
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 09:43 PM
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While I don't follow any rule, in my personal experience, if I didn't get laid by the 2nd date nothing is going to happen on the 3rd. Although hopping venues seems like a nice idea, specially to create this natural flow that ends in my apartment. I'll try that to increase my chances on 2nds and so. Thanks.
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 08:51 PM
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That's actually funny.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:21 PM
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So if i get right, do you keep first dates for a quick chat without many expectations? Do you use the same venue or go to somewhere else?
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 08:18 PM
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Go find actual stuff to do for yourself. Hobbies, workout, work, study. From working 9-5 and other activities, I'm so busy I actually have problems to find time to meet girls. #trpproblems
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 08:15 PM
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Thanks, that's what I'm inclined to do. Like I said in another comment, I'm not trying to imitate him but I want to see what works and what not. Getting a live feed from him is not worse than reading field reports on the web. Also he has a much larger social circle than me and I have no shame on trying to benefit from it.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:46 PM
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If you're getting out-gamed by a 50y/o fat bald guy who isn't rich or famous, you got issues. I know. He comes into your set? Keep talking. He starts talking while you talk or interrupts you? He's the guy who knows everyone. Generally he comes, talk to me, say hi or whatever and stays. Then for me it becomes a stand off to see who leaves first but recently I started to stay and hold my ground until he finds someone else to greet. That being said, being rude or confrontational wont help me and it…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 02:21 AM
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What makes you believe that "most girls like an older man" It's well know that male SMV is at peak around 35 and he doesn't look old. If women doesn't know he's broke but look at his car and stuff, they might believe he has his shit together. Nevertheless, women are not repulsed by him. We're part of a small community of dancers and the ladies love him. He's not an asshole, he's might be (because he's a narcissist) just oblivious to what he's doing and I'm to proud to ask him to back off.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 02:13 AM
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I haven't leaned his tricks because I have been avoid him, despite the fact that he seems to like me. /r/Meditation I see meditation might help me become a better person, but could you tell if you have an experience with it and if I should prioritize it over other things? /r/seduction I get it, my goal right now is not in the seduction specifically but rather be a better and more interesting person and learn how to demonstrate it.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 02:03 AM
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Nope, from experience I can tell you that it's not useful to stay in an Alpha's company... I understand that and I agree with you but I come from a life with no role models what so ever. I'm mid 30's recently divorced, tired of lurking and lurking and trying in real life the things I learned but the progress has been very slow. It's fucking hard to do everything by yourself when you don't have any friends so I'm considering stick with him for a little while and see how it goes. Thanks for the vi…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 01:58 AM
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I agree with you and in my opinion, above all, men should (learn how to) trust his primal instincts.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:04 PM
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I believe this method, as a whole, corroborates to convince us, men, what women want. After that it is a matter of progressive escalation. How fast it goes depends a lot on evaluating her openness and adjusting your actions accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:43 PM
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Sorry to hear that bro. I get compared to Johnny Depp so much that I started using that in my advantage, asking for his haircut and taking some inspiration from the way he dresses.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:34 PM
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Very good point... Common sense still applies. I think of a bar or nightclub where you use this to standout and cause a strong first impression while being prepared to de-escalate quickly to avoid bad consequences.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:08 PM
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I fight against this all the time. This morning with some hesitation I texted my girl that I was going to tie her up, fuck her mouth and cum on her face. She replied with a erotic-novel-like text expressing how much she was looking forward to it. Do I like that? No, I like to finish in a missionary and cuddle until fall asleep. Fuck that. Fuck that bitch and make her your slut. You wont regret.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:45 PM
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I don't care what you say, I'll try the first part with girls I don't even know. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:39 PM
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Yea it's really easy to not give a shit for tinder girls and learn in the process what works and what not. As a side note I started using tinder two year ago with a good success rate, stopped for a while because I was too busy with other stuff. A couple of months ago I started using again and I sucked. No matches, wtf!. I turned the table after I put an awesome shirtless photo showing off my last gainz. Those bitches proving trp once more.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:30 PM
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That was perfect, I've never thought about it and can't find anything better than yours. That being said, I'd throw this before giving up my height. She got the message, but unless she gives you her measurements she got what she wanted.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 04:56 PM
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Get over the idea that you need to be "not obvious" about approaching a girl. I go to social dancing and just realize I have this same problem. Thanks for helping me realize that.
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 01:44 PM
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"Hey, I just noticed you flicking your hair at me and I took that as an invitation to come say hello. I'm Ron Jeremy. What's your name?" I think that line is to long for Ron. Goog post. Don't forget to add a side smile on that face.
/r/trpGAME20/08/14 10:56 PM
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Unless you work at Starbucks.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:18 PM
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So you came back to school after the divorce? How was that? I'm recently divorced and sometimes I think I should do an MBA just to spend more time around fun people and young horny girls.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:01 PM
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Thanks for adding a timeframe. Shit doesnt happens in a couple of months but confidence is something we build up and might take some time.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 03:31 PM
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Excuses to get a girl in your room are lame. In the group keep eye contact and kino, when things are warm enough pull her by her hand, you may tell her something like "come with me", "let's have a talk" but don't say anything to anyone else. You may pull her from the group to dance and after you do whatever your want. If the tinder girl go to your place first, fuck her there. Receive her holding your own drink, make her one too, escalate and bang. Go to your party and forget her. By the end you …
/r/askTRP19/08/14 07:34 PM
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her: I don't see that ending well haha Me neither, but this time I won't lose my shoes Yeah but I'll bring a fire extinguisher
/r/trpGAME19/08/14 07:23 PM
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What symptoms would be safe to tell but wouldn't put me in trouble?
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:26 AM
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By the end she can't stop looking at him and bites her lip at the very last frame.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:09 PM
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I prefer rather not judge her excuse unless she shows no interest at all. Right when or after I get her number, I text something short and funny just to make here easy remember later who I am later. Than when convenient for me I ask her out.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 05:23 AM
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Make plans for yourself, inform her where you will be and tell her to come. Avoid the pua text game thing which is very tempting. If she bails wait a couple of days or a week. If she bails again you move on.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:01 PM
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How to know you're good on bed? The girl comes back, at least twice. If she's a cock rider, she'll move on, if she's plate material, she'll stick around. You're not having problem finding girls, be open minded and if this keeps happening don't fool yourself.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:55 PM
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Bail, fall back and adopt a concealed tactic to gather any information you want. First step, revert this sitting down to a truth or dare game. BAM! One problem solved.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:35 PM
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She was the one reaching back. OP did right waiting one week before asking her out. Caring about her is not a problem, he wanted to fuck her after all. Caring about a women more than yourself (or more than she's worth) would be the real problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:16 PM
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Oh that's the women, I thought it was the other way around. thanks!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:57 AM
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If the kitten didn't want me, I don't want the cat. I fail to understand the analogy. Could you explain?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:13 AM
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Thanks bro, I love Louis CK and Chris Rock but I haven't watched enough or paid enough attention. Cheers!
/r/askTRP14/08/14 06:08 PM
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That's a very good point. I do have a lot of stories and places I have been. I'm undermining myself for not showing enough excitement and trying to look too cool without putting any effort in it. I just need to learn how to be a better story teller, I guess. Do you know any resource I could learn from?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:12 PM
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You're right. I just realized I'm in that trp phase where I see woman as a army of Smith's and they kind of disgust me but they have something I want. Like I read somewhere else, it is not hate, it's contempt. I shall get over it.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:06 PM
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I agree, but I'm on the other side of spectrum. I spend all day in front of a computer, with occasional trips, which definitely help to spice things a bit. I'm really tired of downplaying it but somewhat afraid to look like bragging. I'm an expat in Canada so what I do and why I'm here always comes in the first minute of any conversation.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:39 PM
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Thanks, I know I'm lazy and I'm working on it but please read it as a struggle between showing too much investment and being casual. Fashion and accessories are in check, again I'm moderate, good clothes, good shoes but no big brands or jewelry.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:33 PM
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Putinha sebosa, feia pra caralho. Valeu pelo link bro.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:30 AM
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I guess you were too quick on the "fuck this, I'm going to sleep" specially because it was her suggestion to have sex in the first place. Maybe that day she needed more time to warm up or more intimacy to start with. You went nuclear too fast for an LTR. My gf one time tried to blackmail me with "if you don't do that we won't have sex". I said okay, laid on my side and slept fairly quickly. I was then awaken in the middle of the night with a bj following some good sex. I couldn't reject that :)
/r/askTRP12/08/14 08:05 PM
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I'm over 30 and it's not easy, especially if you're new to the game. I couldn't find any men successful with girls in my social circle so I can't tell for others either. Must guys I know are 30's betas and a few 20's wannabe puas. Being a expat in a small city also sucks.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 07:54 PM
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...and a sandwich.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 07:45 PM
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"Bang" and The book of Pook. Don't tell the girl you're virgin. prepare a agree and amplify answer for that. You have watched enough training material to know what to do. Don't ask questions.
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 04:48 PM
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My gf has been like this. She's older than yours but definitely a low BF count (I only believe because she's asian with muslim parents). I can recognize the same traits your girl have. My girl gives me wonderful bj's but when I want to please her she rejects. She used to say she didn't want to feel pleasure alone. Reason and logic would never work with her. She must feel like giving pleasure at the same time as receiving. Solution, the good old 69. She wouldn't talk about sex. Any try from my pa…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 06:39 PM
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"get to your knees and be vulnerable" No thanks. I can't waste more than 40 seconds with this guy.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 10:01 PM
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I love your analogy. Reminds me that you can increase the value of a good by controlling its availability. Lock your dick inside your pants and soon enough someone will try to steal it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:50 PM
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I agree with you. I think his mistake was his half hearted decision. To give her a wedding ceremony but not sign the papers. He should just ignore her for as long as he could until she cheats on him or break up, In the meanwhile get some plates and try to kick her out first. edit: grammar
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:10 PM
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Do any sport or activities that requires interaction between people. Soccer, volleyball, rock climbing, salsa dancing, whatever suits you. Go out of your comfort zone, one step at a time. Try couchsurf.org they have good meetups too.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:04 PM
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We used to have dads and gradmas to tell us that shit, than feminism came. Feminism took the internet but now that's our chance and here we are.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:12 PM
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That guy is dumb. In many places, living together for an extended period of time, having a wedding ceremony and having kids (which he doesn't yet) is enough to hang him badly. While the feminist reaction is always laughable, I agree with one thing, he exposed that he is not committed to her and he has the desire to cut off with minimal hassle. Very bad move, he should be on TRP instead of mensrights to learn better. Conceal your intentions folks.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:44 PM
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