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| – | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessNot surprised. Between rising inflation and cost of living, blue collar jobs not being done, not to mention this weird gender war between men and women, it's a wonder stats aren't much higher. The rates are probably much worse in Japan. They're starting co-op in schools. No more keeping boys and girls apart to facilitate child rearing ( same sex coupling isn't helping ) . This is why many societies and cultures keep pushing traditional social roles. The human population will literally be on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Sex, romance, intimacy, are all very vulnerable acts ( a vagina is physically an open wound ) . As much as all women like to think they're Amazons form DC Comics, they're actually still afraid or unfulfilled by men ( and believe they deserve to be compensated ) . No amount of contraceptives are going to alleviate that fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:46 PM |
| -2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Men and women may be equals, but they aren't the same. Some things don't work in reverse. His stats are 3, 0, 3. Her stats are 3, 2, 1. Both respectively add up to 6, just in different places. Social constructs aren't just about peoples bias. It involves facts, nature, and reality. It's a weird dynamic when it comes to gender role promiscuity. Best assumption, for men , Goldilocks zone. A woman can't be too hot or cold. She has to be just right. Women tend to make sex a challenge for men. Expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Am I being “sexually assaulted” when women in Latin America kiss me without consent?Technically yes, it's sexual assault. Practically, it's also a cultural norm ( not South American custom, but France and Spain ) . The point isn't to ' kiss ' , but to touch cheeks and kiss the air on the side of the face, like a handshake. If you told them before hand that you don't want to be touched, that's one thing. But it's to be expected, so you may not have as well an argument to make. ( Side note, if you do the greeting incorrectly, it's considered very rude ) . In North America on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.That's how life works. No matter the personal bias, the social construct ( unwritten rules and roles ) works on other things too. Bias is built on top of facts, reality, and the unfairness of nature. Can't just introduce another structure on a whim, because the last one didn't live up to expectations and fulfillments. If men and women were more alike, there wouldn't be binary or masculine and feminine. It's not that there is no stability, it's just not serving our equity or pursuits. His stats a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Men happen to be physically stronger than women ( by a wide margin ) . So when a man gets angry, alarms go off in everyone ( especially women ) . Messing with a womans safety and comfort is her ' safe space ' , and is reasonably her top priority ( and different from a mans ) . Problem is that's eventually how she only judges a man. Everything else is dismissed. Why? Because women never put themselves in mens shoes ( until there's an aspiration she wants to share in ) . They don't know how, any m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:50 AM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Anger isn't the problem, per say. Lack of social tools keeps options away. Patience is a skill. And connections can take on a meaning of their own. Men don't have to be emotionally available, just awareness of what's going on and what to do next. They don't have an up to date map. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | When was the last time you were vulnerable with someone?Never. Better to keep to oneself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Can't really teach your dad on how to be a father, when he's a teenager. Still hasn't learned patience, yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Wouldn't agree with all of it, but yes, men have a terrible playbook when it comes to todays dating scene. The expectations were false, and the environment wasn't quiet what men expected. The problem isn't mens ( traditional ) masculinity, but social education. The masculinity can be aimed, but it doesn't matter unless you know where you are and what to do. Wouldn't rely solely on womens advice to remedy being out of sync. Women only know about maintaining their own safe space and pursuing fulfi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer bad boys or do they unintentionally create them?Women like emotional chaos and conflict. Bad boys provide a medium for entertainment ( women don't want men other women don't want ) . Being around flawed people, means you're allowed to be flawed yourself. It's only fun until the second it stops being safe and comfortable. Good men are boring on average, but keep stability. That's not bad, but it can be unfulfilling. Women have too many aspirations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Would say the problem isn't romance, per say. The problem is achievable goals when forming connections. Not just a healthy romantic life, but a stable one. Some fulfillment and expectations don't keep in-sync with reality. We undervalue the value of the platonic. Friends don't have to become lovers. There's a difference between being alone, and lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you think there is a large trend of women cohabiting with the same men?Most women are looking for the Elane and Jerry dynamic from Seinfeld when it comes to relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?Happiness is wanting what you already have. But women always have another fulfillment or aspiration. Difference between being happy, and not being miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it rude for a girl to snub guys from her own neighbourhood that try to talk to her?There are some women that can't think beyond their own safe space. And those women can be as immature, unaware, and lack integrity, as much as any man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do men not like women "settling" for them if they are doing the same thing?Women don't want men other women don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Can a woman's attitude lower or cancel out her physical attractiveness?Not really, no. No matter how mean and rude she is, it's not going to stop a men from considering her to be sexually attractive. Men try to split sex and romance down the middle. And mean women may not develop a connection the same way, as a woman whom wasn't. Sooner or later, her behavior will matter, as he will have enough. Emotional will matter, but it's got nothing to do with how hot she is. To some women on the other hand, a mans behavior can affect physical attraction. It's a weird dynamic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Is trying to get into a relationship with a woman really worth it?Yes. But you need patience. Women like emotional chaos ( but only if it's safe ) , and they're more insecure. Facts and reason don't change feelings. You'll have to weather the storm. Men being emotionally distant was undesirable, but it kept things stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 10:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa.Sorry, disagree, sort of. A mistake men make; women are not going to be reasonable when it comes to fulfilling their desires. Especially when it comes to sex or vulnerability. She doesn't want sex to become a business transaction ( unless she's a sex worker ) . It has to be a safe, comfortable, consequence free experience. You're not supposed to guilt her into reciprocating. Gratifying her, isn't supposed to come with strings. This is the advantage lesbian women tend to have over straight men. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:47 AM |
| 3 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?A nontraditional woman wants a traditional man to romance that will have no commitments, obligations, or responsibilities to. A toy to pull out of the chest. Play with it. And put it back whenever she wants. Then demand no one else touch they toy, as it waits in the chest ( even if she's already playing with another toy or not ) . Any the problems the toy has, must stay with the toy, until she's ready to deal with it. The point is not to settle, even when she gets what she wants. There's always … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Women are either bi, les, in a poly, or ' it's complicated ' . Men are clear cut about what connections they're in. Women like emotional chaos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 01:20 AM |
| 5 | So which is it?It's a weird dynamic. Best assumption, Goldilocks zone. A woman can't be too hot or cold. She has to be just right. Women tend to make sex a challenge for men. Expected that not every men has ' passed ' the test. So when he finally does, it's a boost to his ego. Only to find out lots of other men actually ' passed ' too. So he's not special anymore. Men do appreciate the service, but it didn't actually get them anywhere. Now he's just another guy whom has to share. Women like to be chased becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | why do women want marriage more than men?Women don't want marriage, per say. They want a safe space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 03:57 AM |
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