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| 4 | Hiring a Pi | Additional-Run1610 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/25 03:24 PM |
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| 3 | How the hell do people afford this?Iv spent 80 at this point. No 50/50, no decision making ,and child support. Courts are stacked aginst us as men.If your attorney hasn't told you that at this point tell him/her that and see what they say.You can be the best father ever and your still screwed. Its just facts. Never retiring. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | This Is how I deal with my EX calls and textsYes sir . Daily | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 12:28 PM |
| 2 | This Is how I deal with my EX calls and textsStarving the monster is a good angle! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 12:27 PM |
| 2 | This Is how I deal with my EX calls and textsI hearing all of this man. My ex hates using ofw now that its court ordered. I absolutely refuse to communicate otherwise and it kills her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 12:26 PM |
| 3 | This Is how I deal with my EX calls and textsOh man I know exactly where you're coming from. My ofw message chain has thousands of messages the vast majority of them is her explaining why dad is bad and how I'm hurting my children when I am not. My oldest is alienated from me and i didnt see her for 9 months. Opie's advice is spot on I absolutely starve the damn narcissist as much as I hate that word that truly is what I am dealing with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends?Yep they dont even respond when. I try to atleast set up.playdates for the kids. Wanna try something hard try explaining that to a 10yr old why her friends parents wont get back to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 07:59 PM |
| 10 | As a divorced man, what are the red flags before the marriage?Never apologize, must be her idea,cannot do things alone,always her way | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/25 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Lawyer told me in a divorce I’d be financially wrecked. Wife is emotionally gone. Any dads survive getting hit with this reality?I tell the same story in other subs when young guys ask!! Simply we have soo much to lose its not worth it | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Google Trends Shows a Massive Rise in “Divorce Lawyer” Searches. What’s Going On?Everyones tired of everybodys shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Infuriated by family court, no fault divorce, and support paymentsMark Ludwick!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 01:09 AM |
| 8 | Infuriated by family court, no fault divorce, and support paymentsT u.f The Unmarried Father on facebook is a good start. Mark Ludwick is in legislature end working hard for us men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Wife cheated and has now moved out. Mediation scheduled soon. Is it ok to start talking or seeing somebody?Not a better explanation anywhere | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 11:46 AM |
| 4 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageThis rite here!!! Excellent read. I am so happy we split. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 07:48 PM |
| 19 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageGet ready!! Get your financial situation rite, separate from her. Sell jewelry assets and anything else you think you are going to fight over.One little falsified pfa or pfh and your out of your home and you will never see the inside again. Get your ass to an attorney NOW and get a blueprint. Copy all important documents. Rent a storage unit if need be. Sell everything of value under the gus of simplified lifestyle. Man i was prepaired but not enough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 01:33 PM |
| 21 | Funny Story from Divorced Land - the woman you will meet.39 out buying drinks on child support money 20 pounds over weight and yes half a arm full of tattoos | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How much do you pay child support?236 a week for two kiddos.I have a bank issue and send a check at no charge every week I dont even think about it honestly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 02:39 AM |
| 3 | For those of you in the middle of divorcing...Looks like you are at the start.If i had one thing to do over about the process it would be to start a seperate email for the divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 10:26 AM |
| 9 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?The woman of your dreams can also become the monster of your nightmares . | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/25 10:28 AM |
| 3 | AITAOh if they are in military housing shes committed a crime they dont fuck around with fucking around | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/25 12:31 AM |
| 5 | AITAChange locks leave stuff on porch have friend video if she breaks in ...done | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/25 12:09 AM |
| 0 | How would I fareThis! The court will fix that feminist shit for ya reeal quick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 10:21 AM |
| 5 | I have never seen a woman act right in a marriage or relationship unless she believes that her man will walk awayFaster!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/24 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Do you know why divorce is expensive?Do yourself a favor set up a seperate email for tge attorneys and divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | When do you know it’s time? Are you happier now?I'm going through hell fighting for my children .Spent an ungodly amount on attorney. Would I do it over?YES | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/24 08:11 PM |
| 4 | My advice to those starting down this path...It's worst my friend.Honestly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 12:01 AM |
| 4 | $400 an hourRead no more mr. Nice guy .You need to ask yourself what's in it for you?Do YOU need to feel secure or does she.In the end you will give her more then half of everything or she keeps it and your screwed.Woman change when divorce happins does not matter the previous years together.If you have children as bad as this sounds are the worst thing for a marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 11:18 AM |
| 1 | It has begun.Copy everything in the file cabinet.Do it tonight!! Then scorched earth the whole mess trust me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Was it better?We should be friends! I could of wrote the first six sentences . | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 01:13 AM |
| 8 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?Why does ANYONE of us get married?What a sham!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?I would all travel with them boys! Make a connection . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Well, that’s it.Starts at the gym.Get there tomorrow ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Started Discovery - How do I print 5 years worth?I might add make a separate file for banking info.You gitta become very organized.I bought scansnap for 350.00 to digitize all my statements and banking info.So worth it!Staples wanted 1.00 a sheet it was sooo expensive. Stay organized! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Thought's about the reality of being Single againSounds like you may wanna see a therapist. Having dependency issues is real and crippling. As they say" user name checks out". | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Thought's about the reality of being Single againI smile sooo much now .I really never noticed it before but i literally can and do whatevah i want, when i want.I certainly do not need ANYONE to validate my existence. Wanna go to florida, see ya, wanna go fly to support family im there.The thing i love the most is budgeting. I can spend whatever i want on anything.I have noone telling me i cant! In fact i have not heard that in so long and i better not.I have a gf thats great and very intelligent.She has her own life, business and place.I do n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Please tell me it gets betterWe have all been there.It helps that she will probably do a oneighty and you will realize how evil they can be.Shes nolonger the person you were with.Enjoy that process of filling your own space with things YOU like without criticism. You got hobbies? Each wall should be one of them.Dont go overboard keep the place extreamly clean and routine is a must.Goodwill is your friend from cheep wall art throw pillows and sams club for indoor/outdoor rugs.These are things that make a house not feel hard … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 12:53 PM |
| 10 | What I love about being divorcedMost of this applies .As the song goes " what i thought would be the death of me is my saving grace".To a great life!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 12:04 PM |
| 5 | She was having an affairToday drop kids off at family.Go to best attorney you can get with evidence. File a motion for exclusive use of family home. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/24 10:41 AM |
| -1 | In Retrospect, What Should Guys Screen for in a Partner Before Entering a Relationship?If i see 1 selfie im gone honestly.The fakeness of socilas is disgusting. IF she looks at that phone even one time unless its an emergency or her kids messaging it WILL be the 1 and only date im not fucking around. Im in good shape,nice kids,head on my shoulders and a business owner so i know what i bring to the table and would just rather be alone then have any if these things be acceptable.All of this before we even get to talkibg about sex i just dont need it .The lady im seeing now is just t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | In Retrospect, What Should Guys Screen for in a Partner Before Entering a Relationship?Honesty if u see even 1 selfie im out | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Wife confessed to affairThis rite here!!!!!! This man D's !!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I don't have the money for this!!!Bro hate to say it but yiu havent even opened the barrel yet.I was not married but have kids with the xx.Im teadering in tge 59k range and we aint been in front of a judge other then jm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 02:43 AM |
| 0 | I don't have the money for this!!!Bro hate to say it but yiu havent even opened the barrel yet.I was not married but have kids with the xx.Im teadering in tge 59k range and we aint been in front of a judge other then jm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | This just sucksThis is very familiar to me.Message if you need to chat and keep that chin up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 10:44 PM |
| 2 | going to move forward with initiating divorceAlso hold onto that house as long as you can.Im in construction and the prices.of homes are really crazy so do everything you can to keep it.I would suggest after she moves out find a guy in your similar situation and rent a room out to get that debt paid down.Pm if you need construction advise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | going to move forward with initiating divorceGet at it king.It gets sooo much better.My advise stick tobthe script and do NOT ingage in fighting . | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Divorce is done, lesson learned. Moving forward, how do I protect myself such a house, cars, assets in the future?Dont ever marry or have anyone live with u | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Record everythingMeet in public only.As far as recording you are not guaranteed privacy in public | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 01:47 PM |
| 4 | What are some signs you saw in the beginning but ignored that later contributed to the reason to your divorceNot apologies | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | What to expectThus man divorces!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/24 06:17 AM |
| 31 | Wife asked me to move out this morning…Do not leave!!!!! Call an attorney immediately | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 10:49 PM |
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