Additional_Mail_8887 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	In middle of silver bullet, could use support or advice Document the events. Excel spreadsheet. Make columns with date, event, type of evidence, type of thing she did (lie to police, financial abuse, whatever) and evidence number. Create a file to drop evidence in and start at 1 and keep going. Things happen fast and this will allow you to visit the past in an organized fashion while allowing your brain to focus on the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 01:09 PM
3	Letting go of past friend groups It’s weird that people just side with who they knew longest and leave it at that. They don’t want the story and are willing to turn a blind eye to really shitty acts. They won’t even listen. This is what I am going through where my STBXW hold no accountability. I believe it’s because nobody else holds her too her actions that she is so used to getting away from accountability. I’m sorry this is happening. Might not b me the accountability bit, but it’s a higher quality person who holds their lov…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/25 05:20 AM
2	Financial prep before divorce Just be liquid. Whatever that means. Get a heloc, have your 401k loan ready, refinance stuff to get lower payments, just get ready to payout. And not just that, pay for the divorce whether it’s contested or not.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/25 01:06 AM
1	Men who are still processing their divorce and are dating again, do you ever go back to an ex you really liked but were just not ready to commit to at the time? I’m divorcing her right now…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 12:00 AM
9	Getting the house after the divorce when she doesn't make a ton of $$$ Child support is usually statutory where as spousal support isn’t. Her telling you she’s going for the later and not gonna ask for the former is a bold face lie where she knows damn well she’s going to get both.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 07:57 PM
2	Dealing with loss of time with kids Why not spend overnights with them? I have a 1 yr old and I do.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 07:54 PM
1	How did the conversation start? In therapy, post-birth…she wouldn’t apologize for driving across the country with my unborn baby and threatening to raise her there with her extended family.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/25 03:48 PM
1	5 years later and the ex is finally get a taste of real life What state?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/25 11:35 PM
1	Any dad's get majority of parenting time? In court, you gotta prove everything man.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/25 05:48 PM
4	Any dad's get majority of parenting time? “wanting to buck traditional roles while claiming traditional benefits.” Sounds like my SBXW.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/25 05:47 PM
2	Seriously? An email? There is no pulse. Just a clipboard bro	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/25 11:56 PM
10	Ex-wife engaged less than 7 months. If she is going from any city to live on a bison farm, there is a good chance that neither of them have any idea what they are in for.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 09:21 PM
5	Not clinging to the kids, after separation Just google autism tests. They are free online.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/24 10:03 PM