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| 6 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?🤣 | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:54 PM |
| 16 | I'm using my dog to hook up with girlsIt's not "how dumb did he think I was". Its that he was making it easy for you to say yes if you were interested, without you having to feel like it was a decision you made and that it "just happened". In my experience this is what most girls that are down to fuck require. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult.Our brains have a defence mechanism that kicks in when we fail at something that serves to protect the ego. Do not let this stand in your way. As soon as you say it's futile you have already sabotaged yourself. That is why you believe it's extremely complicated and difficult. It's not. You just need to admit that you're approach is wrong and learn a new one. Have you read "Models" by Mark Manson? Read that and you'll get it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Is the "texting is for logistics only"-Mindset really still applicable these days?Applies more than ever. A lot of tinder matches are seeking only validation. That may mean 90% rejection rate but it also means you didn't have a chance of a daye with those girls anyways and you just saved yourself a lot of time. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | I pretty much only get a chance at fat women online. How do I upgrade?Maybe daytime events, street parties, skate jams etc ? | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Every time I message or DM a girl I never met in person she eventually loses interest and starts leaving me on read/being dryTexting is for gauging initial interest and logistics only (setting plans, time, location, flirting to keep high interest) You should have other shit to be doing. You're putting 3 months in to a girl and you are frustrated because you are friend zoning yourself. Here's how it works Slide into dm's Chat for a bit and see if she's receptive, suggest definite plans and be direct. Youre intriguing/cute/funny and id love to get to know you more/your story/see if theres a vibe. Are you free for drinks… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 09:54 AM |
| 30 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsPurp fam 🤙 | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsWhat you're looking to learn specifically is escalation. You are right, it is a series of doors that you open for her. If you understand this you can actually open with an escalation that saves you a lot of time because you don't have as much of the ladder to climb if you start part of the way up. But the key is understanding that if you don't do it at a steady rate or start off the interaction at some level of escalation then you haven't already broken some barriers down by the time your in the… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsFor me the shift was realising that when being engaged by them in this way, it's ultimately what women want. The masculine is the frame and the feminine is the picture. As the man it's your job to set up a frame in which the woman can be the feminine. Without you doing this, you'll find that a lot of women are frustrated and turned off and see you as less of a man. Even if they cant put it into words. When you understand this it becomes your duty to make the move. It's never her job it's always … | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsI can tell you are in the right place. The unwillingness to accept your own mediocrity and the relenting ability to reflect on and learn from failure are the magic ingredients. The rest is just taking action and most importantly, working on the areas unrelated to women that give you the feeling of self worth that allow you to BELIEVE "I am giving her the gift of my attention and it is her loss if she is not interested". That shit you get from self love and self worth. Abundance mindset as appose… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Balancing going out and working on yourselfSummer has been tough for me too but for the oppposite reason. Too much front end not enough back end. Winter is coming. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:24 AM |
| 0 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsWow dude... I feel the level you're at with this post doesn't even belong in this sub. I don't mean to be harsh but... she was on top of you, there was alcohol and you didn't kiss her? Learn to ground yourself and next time use that technique, get out of your head and then do it. Cold showers really help as well for these kind of situations as they train your mind to become comfortable with doing unpleasant things and taking action at the point at which your mind says "I don't wanna, its uncomfo… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Stop this pity party and use these negative emotions to drive positive personal growth in the direction that will get you more experiences like this. Work on self and self love and all the rest comes after that without trying. Oh and the dating app thing is like climbing in an online game. You literally have to grind your ELO to get it up and that will get you matches with more attractive women. This takes working on your profile and being consistent with the app even when you feel like it's nev… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 10:29 AM |
| 23 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Did you just construct a scenario to be mad at out of thin air ? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:32 PM |
| -1 | How often should I text a girl?You never did algebra huh? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:30 AM |
| 10 | To what degree do looks actually matter?🧏 burrrrrn | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 23 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Being present in the moment rather than caught up in your head with a fear/scarcity/self-pity based mindset. The opposite of thinking "oh shit what should I say next, what if she doesn't like me, all my exes left in the past, blah blah blah". Which is unattractive as you are showing that you give care too much what others think, are weak and that you're not comfortable in your own skin. This is the kind of person who cares more about being liked by others than going after what they want out of l… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?"Science experiments, a bit of chemistry. And we definitely WONT be making out all night" cheeky smile, and then just sit with the tension. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Things I can't tell my fwbIf you want to pull this off it MUST be her idea. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Nice try devil! And only 2 days into no nut November. Ruthless ! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Men who have had lots and lots casual sex. How much do looks matter for getting laid?If your ugly you gotta be more like John McAfee. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:07 PM |
| 65 | Men who have had lots and lots casual sex. How much do looks matter for getting laid?Hard mode is ugly and living with parents 🤣 | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsI found one but she ghosted me after date number 3 😬 | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 09:42 PM |
| 11 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsSeduction: Hard mode | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?Yeah this one is the best advice here | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Actually great advice. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Whenever a guy is too eager to buy me a drink it comes across as desperate and like he wants to buy my friendship. Imo your social value goes down significantly when you start buying people drinks unless your already seen as the alpha or it's someone you already know well and would do the same for you. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?What is the logic behind being on your phone 70% of the time ? | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning.This is some great advice OP. KISS...Keep It Simple Stupid! | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 10 | How to end a date with a kiss?This is the way. You also need to realise there are no easy ways around it. If the girl is not obviously signaling yet you're still not sure, it literally means you have to do something risky and potentially uncomfortable. You look at them and you lean in and kiss them. It's that simple. Fear is your obstacle. That goes away by working on yourself and becoming a man you admire. One piece of advice I can give is break the touch barrier and then escalate your touch steadily throughout the date. It… | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 5 | What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them.Fantastic post OP | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 11:38 AM |
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