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Cope dude. Cope.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 11:25 PM
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Through mutual friends, or group actuvities like school, religious activity (if applicable ) Clubs, festivals pretty much wherever ppl form connections. For sure not the gas station for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:26 PM
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Uhh there’s no “ putting “ someone in the friend or fuck zone. The “ victim” places himself/herself there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:02 PM
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Lack of education, resources . If you didn’t learn any functional skills to support yourself, maybe have some kids and then live through them. I really believe lack of opportunity is the root.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:23 PM
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I can think of many couples where one of the partners just isn’t into the other sexually. Or both of them. Staying together out of habit, for the kids or mortgage isn’t uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:19 PM
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Pure curiosity maybe. There was this guy everyone said such and such about so yeah it was alright, not something I’m going back for of that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:10 PM
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No what my friends think is irrelevant . He’s gotta be hot to me not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:04 AM
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I agree some are. I think it depends on what the person herself brings to the table. If she just wants some guy to support her and her kids without working then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:28 PM
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Most of the men that ask me out now are unfortunately married , or looking for a side piece. They can look for that but that’s not where I’m at now. Haven’t met anyone I felt sparks with in awhile!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:50 AM
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Hmm. I’m not looking right now bc my past relationships weren’t good. If I do look, someone who’s secure with themselves, wants to partner equally in the home, someone who shares my interests . Standards as far as money I don’t care about , as long as he’s not going to need me to support him -that’s happened too many times in past- someone I’m attracted to physically, but thats only for me. ( I don’t care if he’s traditionally handsome. I’d say naybe half my exes were very hot, and the other hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:43 AM
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Confidence is always good, no matter who you are. Confidence will not help sexual attraction though. Definitely don’t touch
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:01 AM
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Disagree. I am 50 this year and still have to reject guys right and left. If anything I’ve gotten pickier with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:22 AM
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No dude. The reason we are getting degrees is for us. It has nothing to do with you or any other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:19 AM
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Ha ha is this a serious post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:36 AM
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That was when women had to get a man though, not applicable today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:21 AM
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Just need to have a fit body, don’t care about “ muscles” just a v shape for me. Face is probably the most important tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:18 AM
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I have never heard of a woman begging anyone for sex. Sounds like click bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:16 AM
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Ok number one is just funny. I’m literally laughing crying at this suggestion. News flash: if we aren’t looking at you already, and aren’t interested in you, “ ignoring “ us won’t make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:12 AM
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1) not sure of what you mean ! Intimacy can include no sex. Not all sex is intimate? 2) yes and ended it bc I don’t like to feel pressured to do something whether it’s eating, fckimg or whatever. 3) not really unless it’s bad. 4) sure that would be great but it’s moot. It’s like saying I think men would be better becoming woodchucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:09 AM
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Love it. Have endometriosis and it’s not only keeping pain away, it’s good for actual pregnancy prevention. Single currently. Had an iud I hated . Also always use condoms unless I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:03 AM
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I’d say I’m More willing if it’s purely lust. Had a 3 way with a fwb. Not into experimenting if I’m in a solid tangible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:49 AM
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I’m against anyone acting as a domestic terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:16 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:12 AM
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Fair enough . I know there are people who believe they are superior to others .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:17 AM
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Honestly now that I think about it the man I met at this party was decent looking. Definitely not ugly or weirdo vibes. We got into a 90 second convo and he did this. Yes some ppl do hook up randomly and no judgement. It was just off putting to have this occur out of left field-we had been talking about his new puppy for 1 minute. Maybe if I was more intoxicated idk. Just wasn’t what I was expecting or wanting at the moment. Yet it’s the most forgivable out of the 3 situations I mentioned. To ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:53 AM
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Idk if a man approaches me I’ve never met and starts a convo, ok -depending on circumstances. A party? Sure ok. Then leans in and tries to kiss me-yuck. Doesn’t matter if he’s hot or not. I’m polite and socialize and I’m just enjoying meeting new ppl and out of left field… Creepy is a neighbor who followed me around and would watch out of his house for me to come out of mine and run into me accordingly. Daily . Oh one more. My friend who is married to another friend, yes he’s attractive physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:49 AM
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This sounds like a good idea. If you don’t want to become a dad take your pills guys. Although I believe both parties are responsible for pregnancy and sti prevention,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:31 AM
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It’s also illegal to discriminate based on race, whether employment or hike ownership, THAT NEVER happens though amiright?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:27 AM
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That’s so sad but likely why I don’t date men anymore. Seems a lot of misplaced anger and a consistent focus on their junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:26 AM
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I bought a home this year ( female) and my best friend bought hers a decade ago. We’re both single. She’s got kids I don’t. But I didn’t think throwing money to rent a tiny apt would pay off well. The house I have is not large but I’ve got property and it’s a great investment. Really wasn’t happy in my condo also my mortgage is only a few hundred more -with 2 extra bedrooms. Sure i would get into another relationship if I met someone who really added to my life, but it’s not necessary to be happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:23 AM
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Ok so you’d say if an employer offers to fire you If you don’t suck his d? That’s not manipulation at all. Never mind women who are married or partnered and taking care of children and the partner threatens to stop supporting?! These things are all cool, sure. ( sarcasm).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:14 AM
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I always find it saddening too. Maybe not icky but I hate being put in the position to have to reject a friend. It is very hard to go back to being comfortable with that person too. I hate losing friends so I basically quit being friends w straight guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:12 PM
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Classifying ppl into 1-10 pr High vs low value is the issue. If you think a person is unattractive it’s dishonest to date them . It’s all you not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:57 PM
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This i lived in SEA a few years. The women who were of that nationality who dates foreign or western guys mostly cheated and told everyone they want a green card. Cabt say I blame them but that was reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:55 AM
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I agree Also it’s not only women that can become overworked and under appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:33 AM
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They seem to start out that way which makes it more upsetting .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:23 AM
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Most of us don’t hate sex. It’s just irritating to be hit on and bothered all day is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:02 AM
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There are stores and gas stations I don’t go in bc of men who work there being inappropriate. Doesn’t matter if I’m in a trash bag or evening gown. I couldn’t count how many times a day I’m made uncomfortable. Not all men but enough .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:59 AM
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What IS that?! I rememer someone sent me one I responded with a block. The second person who sent me that I said “ stop sending me bad porn dude. I don’t want to see his gross parts” then blocked. I think it’s a power thing for the guys that do do this .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:41 AM
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I try not to make eye contact . A lot of guys think this is an invitation .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:25 AM
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I agree that you aren’t going to get laid off looks alone. Every one is different though personality might matter to me but not so to my other girlfriends. I’m either attracted to you or not. It’s usually for me not the objectively most handsome man in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:18 AM
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Hmmm I found being married just more work personally. More housework and mommying. I’ve also had pressure within regular ( non married) ltr to pity sex my partner. It’s a turnoff but that’s an issue that can come up whether you marry or not. I have no real issue with marriage itself or other ppl getting married. To each their own. I just wouldn’t do it again bc I felt like I disappeared .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:14 AM
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I hope that f. Er rots in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:11 AM
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It’s not that high when you consider you might have multiple fwbs at the same time. I had a lot of partners esp in my teens and 20s and rarely any one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:39 AM
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I cannot think of anyone I know personally , myself inc. that the above would work well on. The person doing this would just look pathetic . Although I admit it would be amusing to laugh at these antics with my friends. It would really be tempting to play into this game toxic as it is. ( for laughs)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:12 AM
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Wow I can see why the author is alone. “ just manipulate women and treat them as less than. You’ll be crawling in prssy” Dunning Krueger anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:07 AM
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There isn’t any real difference. She’s still cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:16 AM
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If I’m only attracted sexually and am eitther not looking for a relationship or he’s just not the guy, sex can still be fun. However, if I’m actually wanting to date him then we should get to know each other first, it’s always worked for me as a woman this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:58 AM
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Why would we want to have bad sex?! I pass on it myself and many women I know agree. If the sex won’t be worth my time or energy I’ll hang out with my friends or watch a movie instead. What a waste of energy that would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:25 AM
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You need help bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:57 PM
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Idk someone to drive me to doctors appointment and help keep the household running.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:32 PM
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No that’s not what I mean. I meant to imply if a woman, or man for that matter, has casual sex there are benefits. Such as knowing what you like:don’t in a partner . To each their own .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:49 PM
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I partially agree as most of my guy friends I realized weren’t really my friends bc they eventually got weird on me. Hasn’t worked other way around yet. I’m not attracted to my friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:47 PM
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Idk my dad gets scammed all the time with gimmicks . Hasn’t happened to my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:39 PM
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Bc isn’t new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:36 PM
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I’m not mad he wants casual sex with ppl there’s nothing wrong w that imo. I just lived in se Asia as a westerner and the women there don’t fck for free unless they’re unto you, like here. I knew a few women- our house help for example- that would talk about the clothes and cars their western bf bought while going home to their real, desirable man. The others I knew would marry them and leave once they got a green card. If women don’t like you here it’s the same in other countries, they just lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:34 PM
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I lived in se Asia and most of the us men who did this ended up being used. They weren’t desirable in developing countries either. This poster should just go to Vegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:29 PM
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Platonically yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:24 PM
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Good bc we won’t settle for mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:22 PM
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Every woman inc myself have been raped. It’s so utterly common I find your comment off .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:19 PM
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It seems like you just want to argue with me. Won’t accept an apology and you are arguing with a stranger online. Not an insult just be aware. I don’t know you and vice versa. I apologize again if I upset you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:12 AM
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I don’t care if your gay, nor did I ask. I’m not interested in discussing this anymore. Please for your own sake go do sometnig else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:08 AM
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I think you need to focus more on your life than getting bent out of shape on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:51 AM
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I’m sorry I upset you. Have a good evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:36 AM
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Ok bro calm down . I don’t even know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:36 AM
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I don’t know I plan on either marrying or cohabiting when I’m old or living with a bunch of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:32 AM
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Only guys I know that use that term werebt really on dates. It was totally one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:31 AM
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Wow. You don’t know too many rape victims do you? Most rapes are friends/coworkers/ acquaintances/family or someone familiar with the victim . ( male and female victim inc). No it’s usually not provable. Also bc has been known to fail even though it technically shouldn’t. The only evidence would be sex. It is hard almost impossible to prove non consent in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:29 AM
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You still aren’t getting pussy dude. Magical or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:25 AM
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Whatever man. Just don’t complain when you have unprotected sex and she ends up having your kid and sticks you with alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:25 AM
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No I do know that. I said that bc of your opening line . Degrading someone else doesn’t eliminate her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:22 AM
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You said ut bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:21 AM
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Not sure how sex works? You don’t want your girl to be preggers snip it. Wear a condom. Don’t rape ppl etc. Women don’t make themselves pregnant and don’t do a termination bc we’re bored. Next you’ll be whining about single mothers. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:20 AM
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Tell me you don’t get laid without telling me!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:18 AM
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I know it’s like they are upset they aren’t getting laid then take it out on others who do. Jealousy of rape victims is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:17 AM
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Hmm nope that doesn’t work. There isn’t evidence when your bf drugs and rapes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:15 AM
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Really she wasn’t into it? By golly you basically treated her like a Queen! ( sarcasm).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:13 AM
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Yes I have. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:06 AM
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None of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:07 PM
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I don’t think these ppl understand attraction. If I’m not feeling it there’s no “ wet pussy switch” to turn on. This is ridiculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:56 PM
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I’m not sure if you understand attraction. There are plenty of men who are beautiful physically and or wealthy whom I’m just not “ into.” If you’ve ever been attracted to someone you’d know it needs to go both ways. Nothing to do with who’s in what league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:54 PM
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The only problem I have is usually there’s one person of the two who doesn’t want the openness. Then it’s just cheating. If both parties agree then it’s ok and not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:35 AM
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I know a few quite successful single moms. They wanted children but weren’t willing to look for “ the one” . One had a child with a guy she was fwb with, and gave him a choice whether he wanted to be in her child’s life or not. He did. But she’s a ceo she could’ve done it alone. She does the financial part and her daughter spends weekends and holidays with the dad. Seems to be a healthy situation, kids happy. I also have a doctor who decided she wanted kids so had ivf with a donar. Her kids are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:32 AM
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I don’t see anything wrong with seeing a sex worker. If it’s consensual and safe sex I have no problem with it. I’m female. Have engaged in sex work myself so maybe I’m biased. I’ll tell you so many clients are normal men . Most appear normal It’s a myth that only certain “ loser” types visit escorts. I’d say men of all ages and marital status / relationship/ careers etc. There’s no true stereotype of a client. I probably wouldn’t tell a new potential partner you’ve seen escorts though, not unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:22 AM
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Right? If there was some ltr or marriage requirement for sex to happen we would be ever pickier. There wouldn’t ne too many beer goggle hookups .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:09 AM
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If you got rid of birth control I wouldn’t fck anyone ever. I think a lot of women would be the same mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:07 AM
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I also know plenty of fat guys in relationships. Short ones too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:03 AM
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I actually got hit on a lot more when I’m chubby. Wheh I’m slim and in shape I get compliments from women but get less male attention. I get big boobs and a butt when I’m overweight. Point it, men, like women, have different tastes. Lots of men like slim thick women, slim women, tall heavy set whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:01 AM
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Yes I did when young and still do in middle age ! I love variety and get bored in manogamy. I can’t speak for all women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:38 AM
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Right every relationship is different. I have no issue with someone having a younger partner in theory. It’s when someone targets a certain more vulnerable age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:54 PM
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That and often they don’t recognize their gf when she’s not wearing makeup “ you look .sick/old “whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah I got sterilized:)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:19 AM
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So many men will still hook up with/date-marry whatever women they aren’t attracted to. I’d think it would be harder for men, yet I know one who is actually a character actor bc of his terrible looks-think mr burns from the Simpsons) He gets a lot of women. He’s got personality though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:13 AM
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Happy he takes care of his health needs on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:10 AM
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For sure most of us have more baggage when we’re older, however younger ppl of both sexes are easier to exploit. The men I dated when I was 18 who were 30 I can totally see why they dated younger women, they fell short on something .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:54 AM
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Always needed to be deserable. I’d say more so 60 years ago bc women had to pair up with one pretty much .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:51 AM
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Makes them pedophilic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:48 AM
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Gotta is disagree here as an “ older” woman, The reason it’s often power imbalance when one partner is much younger is life experience. I remember being young and the older men I dated weren’t ppl I should’ve bc of the power imbalance. Every relationship is f different but when I was 30 a 50 year old guy who only dates 30 yo women for example is bc women his own age see through his bullshit. They are often predators .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:46 AM
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See my above comment. Hardly a loser making over 200k a year and working only when age wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:02 AM
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I disagree my cousin is an escort and she made 250k last year- I helped her with her taxes. She works like 15 hours a week. She turns a lot of clients down too if they seem off or dangerous. The best part is she’s not expected to have sex with anyone bc it’s “ illegal”. So at 250$ am hour for company if she chooses to offer more she can pretty much charge whatever she feels like. ( within reason. 300-1000 extra )
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:01 AM
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Hell yes. I was married and miserable. I enjoy living alone in a nice place without someone messing up my bathroom and I can have sex with who I want as a single woman . All benefit and almost no unpleasantness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:52 AM
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Several times . It was the way he walked, spoke to me, something like that. Electrical id call it. The sex was usually better too with instant attraction! ( not always but there’s gotta be that spark) Never in photos I need to be able to see how he walks his voice his smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:23 AM
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Personally I don’t answer a body count question and am done with the person if they ask that. I also would’nt ask a partner that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:14 PM
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People simply wouldn’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:12 PM
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I have worked as a stripper and a few other things. I have never encountered more cocaine and heroin use them when I worked at a regular bar. ( non nude)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:09 PM
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That’s a good thing. Women should be picky, no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:15 AM
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Right? Oh I’m about an 8 where are the 8 men? That’s ridiculous. One has nothing to do with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:11 AM
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No, first off I wouldn’t tell someone they’re ugly. I have a type and that’s consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:10 AM
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1M.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:03 AM
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Thank you. If someone asked me this I’d ghost. I also would not ask a partner this myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:03 AM
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The issue is I get approached constantly by men I’m not “ signaling” I can’t think of once - well once actually I was in line at a place and went and talked to a guy bc I liked what I saw. I would not have approached him if he had avoided eye contact. This is the issue, read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:58 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:56 AM
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7-14 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:56 AM
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Exactly. If they’re physically attractive it’s just depressing. Like why can’t he be normal?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:55 AM
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No. I don’t want some strange person hitting on me or hitting me up online. Male or female, I’ve only had this issue with men though. It is kinda disgusting though to be asked my phone number at the gas station by a stranger. It’s easier just not to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:54 AM
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Usually , for me, as a woman it’s for safety reasons. I don’t like being approached at the gas station or grocery store, and nipping it in the bud seems to work wonders: if I’m nice it seems to encourage the unwanted attention. This is also why I took down online photos. I was getting way too many messages from these kinds of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:52 AM
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American food is very fattening. It’s good, but it’s mostly starches and grease and salt. I love Thai food. The spices are so yummy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:32 AM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:49 PM
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You seem just upset they aren’t having sex with you specifically. No empathy if you don’t get your way apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:01 AM
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I’ve never heard this actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:42 PM
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Ok what you say. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:32 PM
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I always wondered this too tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:04 PM
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Let them think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:03 PM
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For me yes. I have had work done bc I like to feel confident. I wear makeup and heels Fir the sane reason. If I attract a guy great, but don’t give yourselves too much credit. I still like to look my best and quit dating 10 years ago. Can’t speak for all women .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:02 PM
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Nope. More women die ir have permanent damage yo their bodies and finances than construction workers do. Having kids is dangerous for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:55 PM
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We also have bigger social circles and relationships outside or SO. So being alone is rare for us. We just don’t rely onky on our partners! That’s why being “ alone” isn’t frightening for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:53 PM
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Of course single guys are banned from swingers parties. It would be a sausage fest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:45 PM
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This is an ok trade off to not be miserable or with someone who detracts from my life. We can make ourselves happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:42 PM
2

Right. All of these things mentioned have a higher appeal than living with a man child .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:39 PM
2

Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:36 PM
1

Who cares we’ll be dead by that time!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:32 PM
1

Sperm banks too! I have friends who went this route that are very happy .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:25 PM
1

I don’t want kids and bought my own home. So, yeah a partner would be nice but he’s going to have to bring something besides money. I’m fine either way honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:17 PM
1

👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:00 PM
1

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:59 PM
1

When they start valuing other things besides getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:58 PM
1

The delivery men or the guys that bother me at 7/11. Social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:56 PM
1

Thus depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:52 PM
1

Omg yes. I dint consider 5’8 short. Athletes are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:52 PM
0

I bet he’d fuck her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:48 PM
1

Through friends and aquaimtences mostly!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:46 PM
1

None. You absolutely cannot tell. There’s a lot of big dick having shy guys and a lot of outgoing small ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:45 PM
1

I can’t recall but I got sober a year ago, so counting fwbs current- maybe 15? Who cares? Manogamy bores me. I understand not everyone is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:42 PM
2

There’s less men I can relate to. Sure, 25 year olds are attractive but I can’t relate. Why date a 40 year old man if I don’t need to? Nope, still have sex with men I find attractive. Just not looking for LTR bc the bar is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:38 PM
1

Pretty tone deaf so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:36 PM
1

No I think that makes him more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:35 PM
2

Agree. I know lots of polys who’ve been married decades ri the same person, and they’re both on the same page:)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:21 PM
1

Most Christian’s have sex befure marriage. Also many outside of their own marriage, can’t speak for Muslims .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:10 PM
0

That’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:09 PM
1

I either desire the person or I don’t. Having several partners before helps hone in on what I want, don’t want. How do you know you love pizza? You wouldn’t be able to judge liking /not liking pizza if you’ve only tried a few foods. I’m happy I got to date so many ppl. I can’t imagine getting married to the guys I dated in my teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:06 PM
1

They seem to always want both which obviously isn’t doable. I want her until I’m with her, then no one ekse can look 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:02 PM
1

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:59 PM
1

State financed therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:59 PM
1

Yes. Last week. Have two fwbs currently, not looking for a relationship . Don’t care for one night stands either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:58 PM
1

I feel bad for saying no. I’m not into this guy. Please don’t make the situation awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:56 PM
2

No bc I hate it when ppl try to set with up with other ppl, irs so awkward and hard to say no without feeling bad. I wouldn’t put a friend in that position unless both parties requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:55 PM
1

The last one. I find men ti meet my standards for sex and friendship but not dating wise. It’s ok. I’m happier on my own than in a bad relationship . Or one that’s old or involves unpleasantness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:54 PM
1

I wouldn’t ask someone that, Bc it has no bearing. ( either sex) .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:53 PM
1

You ca. totally get a prostitute here it’s easy. And it’s a fine onky if she’s a cop. I don’t see legalization vs not as a deterrent .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:51 PM
1

It’s usually jealousy pr insecurity on the man’s end. I don’t date or deal with ppl who check others “ body counts” yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:48 PM
1

I don’t personally, and Most ppl I know are swingers. ( who I hang with) myself imcluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:47 PM
1

No it’s not. I’m older and have lived all over the world and dated all types . I’m attracted to the same type. It’s not about a haircut or jaw shape. I’m attracted to men I’m attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:45 PM
1

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:44 PM
1

Right; I’d say wheh I wear revealing things-bc I like to look sexy for myself- I just more attention from men I wouldn’t be interested in anyway. This doesn’t mean I don’t put effort into my appearance. Not everything women do is for make validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:43 PM
1

Nope. Bragging is a turnoff and makes one appear desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:32 PM
1

So please stop trying to get us into bed then. Sheesh!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:31 PM
1

Internalized misogyny is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:30 PM
1

Huh? No one’s forcing you to watch porn or pay for anything you don’t want to ( to support others) Take some responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:24 PM
1

We got porn and sex bots. It’s totally the complainers issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:19 PM
2

They’re assigning too much to looks. Sure, a traditionally handsome man will capture my attention, might even have sex with him. If he’s not relatable or what I’m looking for -what I’m saying is I choose partners on physical attraction AND connection. Being physically attractive will only get you so far. No, being short or skinny isn’t the issue for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:18 PM
1

Does hating on women who reject you help you sleep with them? I’m guessing it does not and op is just bitter. Or is saying stuff that comes across this way. It’s sad. Why would you assume they’re playing hard to get? Maybe they just aren’t into you? For good reason apparently as you don’t respect them . ( it sounds like)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:09 PM
2

You can have sex with men and still not want them as a partner. You can want a partner but only find men that are onky good at sex and not the rest, or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:53 PM
1

This is exactly why I stopped dating. I dint need to. Sorry guys you gotta be better . Why settle for a relationship that isn’t adding to my life positively?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:39 PM
1

Selling pussy ain’t new. This has been a way for women to make money since ppl first walked the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:31 PM
1

Men need to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:30 PM
1

Yup I worked in a strip club for years. Can confirm most adult entertainers are average, they just put effort in and all the men want them. It’s not difficult as a woman. That’s also a reason women generally don’t check our random dck on OF . There’s a lot of it and we’re constantly saying mo thanks. Why would I seek out an OF to look at dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:28 PM
0

I don’t get the point . Shaming me for having standards just makes me less interested to interact with the shamer or their platforms. This never works I wonder why they still do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:21 PM
1

Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:19 PM
1

They still don’t get laid. If there was no birth control I, as a woman, wouldn’t screw anyone. Just wouldn’t be worth it. So yes, you are more likely to get laid when women are able to enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:16 PM
1

Sane with driving a car pr riding in one. As a after of fact, you’re more likely to have unpleasant consequences on the road. So the solution is to stay home?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:14 PM
1

I know. Life changing? Cool I wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:13 PM
1

Right I could see this if they’re talking about receiving anal by strangers sans condoms. I don’t get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:12 PM
1

For who? What do you mean? Not for me. Life changing? Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:11 PM
1

Yes :D This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:04 PM
1

👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:04 PM
1

Probably not tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:59 PM
1

She’ll find him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:58 PM
1

What a disgusting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:56 PM
1

I think it’s silly to Worry about other peoples standards so much. You got standards, cool bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:50 PM
1

Everyone’s entitled to their own preferences and standards. Its good to see all that’s out there and make decisions on what you’re into accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:48 PM
2

We’re really afraid of bad relationships. Not rejection, ( speaking for myself) I’m happy alone, a guy has to wow me and add to my life. Rejection never factored in. Unless we saying it’s rejection to be abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:44 PM
1

The anger is so inappropriate to. If I say good morning to someone and they don’t respond o just assume they didn’t hear pr don’t want to, that’s ok. I don’t really feel any happy/sad/angry about it, I just don’t put that much stock into what random people think or what I think they’re thinking. Who cares?! Stop worrying about random women who are busy is my advice for these ppl:)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:07 PM
1

Right like the two strangers walking the sane breed of dog mentioned above. That’s a reason for an acknowledgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:01 PM
1

Quit focusing so much on it. Appreciate your friends as friends for example. It’s ok if they stay just your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:54 PM
1

Yes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:20 PM
1

The gas station at night is never the right time for me personally. Or when I’m working out I’m wearing headphones specifically to avoid this!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:17 PM
1

Rught. Saying morning isn’t inappropriate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:16 PM
1

Yes I can’t even remember what the latest gas station man looked like who tried to bother me .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:14 PM
1

I’m not antisocial if I want to go to the gym or gas station without being bothered. I am extremely extroverted and have a large group of friends. They deserve a response bc they’re my friends. The rando on the street doesn’t. Unless it’s an emergency or something then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:12 PM
1

Yeah fuck that. My response is always “ no thanks” or “ no English” it’s distressing how often I need to use them too. At the gym I had some guy hit me on the shoulder to try ti get me to take my “ headphones” which weren’t on out. I obliged, he had no reason to do this besides annoy me so I simply walked away. I can’t stand ppl who think they’re entitled to my time .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:10 PM
1

Got it. You don’t owe a stranger anything. They really shouldn’t be making us this unconfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:07 PM
1

I’m only “ ignoring” you if we already have a relationship or frame of reference. I can ignore my bf, dad, neighbor , friend. That’s rude. Some guy trying to hit on me at tve gas station I have every right to ignore, as I owe them nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:06 PM
1

I pretend not to speak English. It’s just too exhausting otherwise .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:00 PM
1

Yup I don’t see how this will work either. It’s a huge run for the hills moment for me. It means you made the right call by ignoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:51 PM
1

Omg this is hilarious. I’ve never heard the term starfished before but can relate. Oh yes hace experienced wouldn’t recommend. Throw that fish back into the ocean!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:46 PM
1

Just being attractive to other women is hot I agree. I know a few “ ugly” hot men that date all kinds of women. Bc they’re attractive. A man is seen as more attractive if other women like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:19 PM
1

Nope. It’s definitely not fluid on my end. I don’t find a man more attractive bc he’s the only nan in the room. Very few ppl I want to sleep with. When it’s there it’s definitely there tho;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:01 PM
1

Yeah that’s coercive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:35 PM
1

No it’s a show of men constantly being interested. That man hitting on a 30 yo at 60 likely was annoying when he was 30 himself. He’ll still fuck someone his age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:33 PM
1

I’m fine with being attractive to various ages of men or women. I don’t pay attention to guys I don’t want to date- like that. Sure we can be friends but idgaf if they find me attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:31 PM
1

Omg I got hit on the most- at age 11. Like grown ass men trying to give me rides home. ( I looked like a kid too. No boobs yet or anything) It was gross. That was unwanted too. I still don’t go to half the places I used to bc of creepy guys. I’m almost 50 and no it doesn’t stop, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:30 PM
1

Yeah but that’s the same as when we were younger, attractive men don’t catcall or get inappropriate usually, they don’t give attention that’s not wanted, regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:27 PM
1

I know so many more hot 40/50 year old women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:27 PM
1

We’re just not desperate usually. Whether 18,48,80 . A man is competing with me and my life on my own, which is pretty good. You need to ADD to our lives in a positive way for us to be interested. Irs really not about men anyway as most women are happy on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:17 PM
1

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:15 PM
1

Right they are giving themselves way to much importance. I like to look nice for me. Sometimes I wear recealimg stuff. It’s got nothing to do with your penis :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:15 PM
1

She doesn’t owe you sex. Even if she talked about it or started it. She has every right to leave .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:11 PM
1

He probably pushed her away by acting possessive and being a drunk to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:07 PM
1

No there’s such as thing as doctors. You don’t need to stay pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:05 PM
1

👏👏👏this right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:03 PM
1

Whether we’d be open to it or not isn’t the point. The point is it’s good to be honest and not trick people. Rejection is better than lying to get into her pants. That’s sexual coercion. I have no problem with casual sex or fwb or relationships. I just do not enjoy being lied to or coerced. This is part of the reason I think so many of us women just aren’t into dating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:57 PM
1

No . It’s bc we’re not desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:55 PM
2

Yes I would likely believe you if you said you never screwed any of them. I wouldn’t believe a bunch of dudes. I wouldn’t care either way if you did or didn’t, I just know men lie about sex often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:53 PM
1

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:49 PM
3

Ha ha have you been to India? They’re mostly heavier than Americans . Or at least the upper classes are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:44 PM
1

This is why I don’t date anymore. Wish I had an award to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:40 PM
1

Eew this is why you’re alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:12 PM
1

My dude, brothels aren’t for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:08 PM
2

10 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:07 PM
1

I lost count after I hit 30 years old. I could try to make a list - and I did try to make a list of worst to best sex partners- then kept forgetting ppl , so my top person would move down a notch, bottom same , or up. It was too confusing 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:03 PM
0

That’s gross to ask someone that. It makes the asker appear judge mental and insecure. Not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:58 PM
1

Bro that’s when we call the cops.
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:55 AM
1

Yup. :D
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:26 AM
2

Shit I would have onky estimated 10-25%. This is F up.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 07:17 PM
3

I can agree with this
/r/MensRights29/06/22 01:28 AM
2

What rights are you guys seeking? You want to be pregnant or have an abortion? You want male birth control I don’t understand .
/r/MensRights28/06/22 11:30 PM
0

Yes
/r/MensRights18/06/22 10:54 PM
2

You’re right I was being mean. Sorry. Of course we’d rather have you guys happy and mentally well and in touch with your feelings.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 08:13 AM
-2

Wow you need more to do.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 04:43 AM
-11

Waaaahhh! Me cry me don’t get me way. Here’s a little violen guys it’s playing just for you and your penis.
/r/MensRights17/06/22 08:46 PM
-38

Waaaa! Me big man baby no like when I rape and sue reports me. Here’s your bottle sir and I’ll get your blankie and a pacifier for you .
/r/MensRights17/06/22 05:29 PM
0

Y ok just ruin your body then. I have a friend sno literally had to have her vag fixed as it was hanging outside of her. She’s also on permanent diapers. I’d rather go to prison for not supporting a kid than have anything remotely like that happen to me. My cousin also was a model. She had a kid and had her metabolism -gestational diabetes ruin her looks. It seems permanent as well. Modeling career over. My mother had a stroke and has brain damage after giving birth. Any questions? The onky savi…
/r/MensRights02/06/22 03:00 AM
1

Ya ok bro I’ll just be into you! What the actual..
/r/MensRights02/06/22 02:55 AM
1

Which is valid enough on its own. If I don’t want something in my body it’s out.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 02:53 AM
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