Adept-Kiwi6491 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
44	It’s over!		Adept-Kiwi6491	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 12:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Ex Wife showed her true colors Good on you brother for seeing it for what it is. Similar happened to me. But like an asshole, I went back. Que the dumpster fire… I had moved out and her and I were four months into therapy to help us navigate co-parenting. Every week she would make it a point to say zero chance she wanted to stay married. At the four month mark I told her I was dating out of respect to her because girl I was dating worked in related field. She took it well when I told her. I asked to see the kids following Mon…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 10:44 PM
2	Trouble in the bedroom with other women Acting	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 12:28 AM
1	Trouble in the bedroom with other women Like 6/8 months	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 12:27 AM
8	Trouble in the bedroom with other women Brother, there is nothing wrong with you. Went through the same thing for a long time after a 20 year marriage. Eventually normalized. The trauma of divorce is as bad as a death and the nervous system is overloaded. For what it’s worth, I figured women fake it, I can fake it too. So I faked it, would go several rounds in a short time period, if asked I’d be like I’ve never been a “volume guy.” Came off like a rockstar. lol. Got my ego and manhood through a tough time until everything settled. Ev…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 10:58 PM
14	What to do and not do when you see it coming A pilot once told me that all planes crash. Most of those crashes are controlled and called landings; they are a result of planning, preparation and training. The other — catastrophic — kinds of crashes are the result of unprepared for, unplanned for, untrained for events. This isn’t about planes.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 09:37 PM
5	Let Down Hang I there brother. It’s tough, but it gets better. Promise. I’m a lawyer getting divorced from a lawyer. She’s in government. I own my own firm. Same insane aggressiveness. Same claims of under-employment. I used to get stuck in the negative loop of why women can get sympathy for claiming to be treated like a piece of ass (or a piece of meat) but I get none for being treated like an ATM or a paycheck; even when business has been really bad, no sympathy. Don’t actually make enough—they’ll thre…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/24 03:12 AM
1	Good reason to change lawyer? So as a lawyer, getting divorced from another lawyer who has had to hire lawyers for the divorce to litigate with her lawyers, here is what I would say: A lawyer’s job is to educate you, keep you informed, and help you execute on your goals once you’re educated and informed. Trust and confidence in your lawyer is literally the most important thing. I take my car to a mechanic I trust because I don’t know enough to fix it myself and because I trust he’s going to do his honest best to tell me the …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 03:28 PM
6	Boob job Truer words were never said. Lol! My old man was in the fire dept. Good guys, but really bad boys. lol	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 02:26 AM
11	Boob job It’s hurtful and it’s okay to feel the way you do. My ex had the same insecurities. I said the same things. But I was extra special stupid because I ended up encouraging her to do something for herself and paid for my ex’s boobs six months after our first separation. She convinced me to come back for the kids and give the marriage another shot. Seven months after boobs, she started bumping uglies with a firefighter and brining him to the house I was paying for. Felt like a kick in the balls. Har…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 02:20 AM