Adept-Photograph2644 Archive

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1	Those who do not believe delayed sex is a cause of concern, how would you respond to this scenario? The answer to your question is no. OP did not state that. Why would you ask that anyway? How is it productive to the topic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:57 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. You from or been to the US? Have you been in public? Worked in baseline employment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:38 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. It’s nuts. You know how much emotional labor I performed as a GM of a pizza joint? Endless. 70 hour weeks and I can’t come home and talk through things with my partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:36 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. This. I was too social back in high school. Got burned for it. Got into a LTR after that, which only isolated me further. Almost 29 and nobody around anymore but family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:28 PM
0	Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed. Right. Perhaps I should’ve started with “in theory”. It’s a lovely thought.. especially in the US where the excessive wealth distribution gap and inflation have effectively priced the majority out of “the American dream”	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 12:01 PM
0	Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed. Could you elaborate on what you mean? In this scenario UBI means nothing without eliminating classism, and potentially nepotism in some cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 10:11 AM
2	Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed. It could be done, but greed and classism would have to be entirely eradicated. Would likely require universal income to be implemented and materialism to die. Such a drastic shift won’t happen though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 09:34 AM
0	Women tend to be more selective in partner choice than men — and it’s not a moral failing Something to add that you almost touched on is how women are encouraged and supported by modern society to live extremely hedonistic lifestyles, while men are given 1 choice by that same society. Work hard, don’t waste time, buckle down to get ahead. You were on that track when you mentioned having no role in our own destinies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 08:16 AM
0	Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women do Way to outmaneuver an avoidant. They never make it too far in a thread, but you managed to make them look disingenuous and uneducated while you shut the door for them on the way out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 07:08 AM
4	women on reddit are very much part of the problem I know this post was talking about how bad women are in Reddit and all, but since the new year, I’ve been seeing a bit more reasonable women in some of these subs. If being grounded in reality became the new “trend” that’d be nice to see. Right now it’s so backwards.. You see a lot of good women being bashed in the comments by other women just as bad as the male poster. Then you see trash talking, uneducated, and narcissistic women getting love and support from the other women. It’s some pretty …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 06:57 AM
2	Are men are more comfortable in competence hierarchies than women? No doubt. I’m not saying that it doesn’t apply to me either. I’m just adding a bit of how I operate inside of that environment. I’m unsure whether I’m an outlier if I’m being honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:42 PM
4	Are men are more comfortable in competence hierarchies than women? If someone kicks butt at what they do I’d like to learn a thing or 2 from them, but I’m only following orders up to the point that person knows what they’re doing better than I. In a workplace, I’m eventually taking your job. I try to treat people above me in the hierarchy as my rivals so long as I believe I can do as good or better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:10 PM
–	Why are women like this? This is true. Enhanced by social expectations. So many addicted to external validation nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 09:02 PM
–	Why are women like this? With how addicted to external validation people are nowadays, it seems more likely she was just looking for a quick dopamine hit from a fellow woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 08:39 PM
–	Why are women like this? Nobody does this with people they’re not attracted to. You’re right, that would be messed up. This generally happens with someone that passes the baseline level of attraction, but they have other qualities that stand out. That girl I was with that gained weight was a lot of fun in the bedroom and there was just something about her smile. Plus she’d play video games with me for hours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 08:13 PM
–	Why are women like this? There are tons of stories of men and women dating someone they didn’t see as that physically attractive and over a bit of time that person became their #1. This is how human attraction actually works. Sure, you’re going to have some “love at first sight” moments, but those relationships are often hot and heavy and burn out quickly or one sided with one partner putting the other on a pedestal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 07:52 PM
–	Why are women like this? I get that, but there’s plenty of stories from men and women both of meeting someone they didn’t initially have much attraction to and over a bit of time that person is now their #1. This is how human attraction actually works. Sure, you’ll have some love at first sight moments, but I’d argue those relationships can be just as risky as giving someone a chance you wouldn’t normally as they tend to be hot and heavy and burn out quickly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 07:41 PM
2	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone That’s pretty hilarious I’m not gonna lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 07:34 PM
–	Why are women like this? Yea that’s great, but the women that know this aren’t online complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 07:05 PM
–	Why are women like this? It was relevant, it just doesn’t follow womens narrative. Gotta get the best you can possibly imagine or nothing at all even when you yourself aren’t the best you could be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 07:02 PM
–	Why are women like this? Just going to gloss over the rest of my previous comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:57 PM
–	Why are women like this? No, but in your scenario she would still need to change her approach if the people she’s looking for aren’t showing to these events.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:56 PM
–	Why are women like this? Yes it does. She needs to change her approach not the venue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:55 PM
–	Why are women like this? Nobodies telling her she should’ve settled for someone she didn’t find attractive. She could however broaden her scope. For example; I didn’t find bigger women attractive until I was with a woman who gained a lot of weight after we got together. Most of my aversion to it came from society’s views on overweight people. Ever since I dated that woman I find many different body types attractive. Plenty of women do this as well. Some say they’re not into short guys, but often times they give that guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:52 PM
–	Why are women like this? They glossed over that part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:32 PM
–	Why are women like this? Don’t complain then. We all know picky undesirable men don’t find partners easily and we’re not afraid to tell them to lower their standards when they complain online so why is there a disconnect when an undesirable woman is picky?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:26 PM
–	Why are women like this? This^	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:22 PM
–	Why are women like this? Really? I think the question he’s asking is why don’t women introspect in those moments? Why don’t y’all answer the question instead of projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:21 PM
2	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Ma’am, you might want to read your comment and do some introspection. You seem to have a “it’s this or that” mindset. In reality, there’s going to be plenty of desirable men that will want to date women oversees too. Matter of fact, they might even steal that older man’s “younger woman” away so you won’t have to worry about his creepy ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 01:07 AM
1	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone I think you’re looking at this from a day 1 viewpoint. Over the course of some years the dynamic would shift more than you’re giving credit for. Sure there would be a period in time where women would stay single, but the ones that stay single will either eventually choose single motherhood, become a passport sister, or die alone and allow the next generation of women to decide what they want to do. Ultimately this would create more opportunities for marriage and child birth for a wider range of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 12:53 AM
0	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Thats a hell of an assumption. What makes you think the desirable men will be around for the rest of men to have to compete with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 12:38 AM
1	The tenets of masculinity™️ overlap with conservatism which is why the ideology appeals to more males than females That’s because there are 2 types of narcissists. Overt and Covert. Men generally fall into overt while women usually fall into covert. Overt narcissists wear their ego on their sleeve, while covert narcissists hide theirs behind a veneer of vulnerability, but both are fundamentally driven by the same narcissistic need for validation and superiority. It’s already a tiny margin of difference between who gets diagnosed NPD more. Now, let’s account for women being more likely to be covert. Covert na…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 08:07 PM
1	Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet. There are studies out there that go into the effects of masturbation alone over a long period of time. It can make it difficult to get aroused when intimate with someone else as you effectively program your brain to your masturbation routine. It can also cause some physical desensitization depending on the frequency and the amount of pressure used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 05:06 PM
1	Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character. No offense, but don’t you think you should ask women that question too? They look down upon many things the men they go after do, but that doesn’t seem to stop them from repeating the cycle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:43 PM
–	Women can potentially destroy good men I think when “without the responsibility to preserve it” is mentioned it refers to either “not knowing how to treat a good man” or “won’t contribute to a positive environment/outcome”. I’m not exactly sure though. Main thing to realize here is that men can destroy a good woman too. I’ve had a woman that I’d say destroyed me and it took me over a year to mostly recover and it did go somewhat similar to how this post described. I’m sure there’s a woman out there that’s gone through something simil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 01:44 PM
–	Women can potentially destroy good men There is no choose better, but you can learn from your mistakes and know how to identify these things earlier on so you don’t stay too long. Even still, there are those who are master manipulators on a psychotic scale. Men and women should both be weary of the covert narcissist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 01:29 PM
1	Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare. I’m going to agree to disagree on this because your whole stance in this topic is based in propaganda and unrealistic idolization of the past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 12:45 PM
1	Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare. Individualism has killed our communities, but what do you think happened to disabled Individuals before they were able to receive government assistance? They were either forced into institutes, homeless, or bare minimum shunned for their shortcomings. There’s nothing wrong with these people receiving enough help to have a dignified quality of life so long as there’s a valid disability. A lot of individuals on disability still work if they’re able.. some disabled individuals don’t accept governme…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 11:48 AM
3	Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simps This lie was told to many of us well before social media was a thing. Well before body positivity was a trend. I’ve personally experienced a “looks don’t matter” relationship and what I will say is you can absolutely fall in love and see someone that was originally average as exceptionally attractive. What you can’t do is fall for someone you have zero initial physical attraction to. The reason most women care more than most men these days is a need for social approval/validation for their mate …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 11:27 AM
–	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? They’ve surely created one hell of a mirage..	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 08:47 AM
1	Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare. Agreed, though it would be blissful to see a world where men could afford to save their hair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 03:50 AM
2	Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare. Caveman mentality right here. Self preservation at its finest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:09 AM
1	Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare. That’s never going to happen in this country. Wealth distribution alone won’t allow for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:04 AM
1	Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red Pill I don’t think you read what I said. How do we solve that issue? Holding each other accountable for poor behavior should be universal as I stated it. The thing you’re not thinking about is that dangerous men are dangerous to men too. If that person is in my environment and I find out they’re dangerous the best I can do is remove myself unless I have some proof to report a crime. If the guy is just shit talking I may be able to intervene, but it could lead to physical altercations, which I would c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 12:26 AM
1	The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of Women Key word “can be healthy”. Some people out there being gross and you gotta be careful. Also, just because there’s treatments/prevention for sti’s doesn’t mean you’re safe. Some things come with permanent complications even after treatment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 11:45 PM
1	Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red Pill What an exaggeration. There’s nothing wrong with having a conversation about what could change for the better. The “Suck it up and keep moving” mindset is a big reason why we have so many issues. How about answer the question and help solve the problem? Selective traditionalism only exists as it’s socially acceptable. Just as you say masculine women have to suck it up. It’s only the case because it’s socially acceptable in men’s spaces for them to talk or act that way. Now, how can this be solve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 11:32 PM
2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. This a can agree on. I guess I see what you mean by “if they’ve been in a long term relationship they know”. I guess my own experience was having no issues at all until a certain event occurred then having to deal with it. I also haven’t been with another woman since so I can only imagine the struggles some guys might have, especially if they’re the type to jump from one relationship to the next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 11:18 PM
2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Wow, you’re very dense. I didn’t say it was solely on that. I acknowledge there are some guys with little skill or whatever, but you should at least attempt to educate yourself on what I’m talking about. I everything thinks it’ll never happen until it’s them. Only clitoral desensitization can happen from excessive masturbation.. the other issues that cause dysfunction usually have a severe trigger such as bladder surgery, cervical issues, infection, or sometimes from overstimulating the cervix.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 10:43 PM
3	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. That’s unfortunate.. I totally agree with what you mentioned about psychological issues and mental blocks, but keep in mind that ED is either physical or psychological. You can have both, but it’s not uncommon for psychological to be the only issue. Now, what I was talking about in my previous comments was physical, which I was just mentioning that nobody talks about it in women, but it is real. I’d wager women don’t get diagnosed as often as men since they don’t lose the ability to have sex, ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 10:36 PM
1	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. I don’t think you’re understanding. Do some research on pelvic floor dysfunction and the autonomic nervous system. If you’re up for it add in how excessive masturbation can desensitize the clit. I doubt women get diagnosed as frequently as men as our anatomy is different and a woman doesn’t lose the ability to have sex like a man does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 10:29 PM
1	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. So you’re just going to act like all women are immune to sexual dysfunction? It’s actually quite common among those with ADHD as the autonomic nervous system is linked to many parts of body function. Yes, I think if anyone is willing to make a point that I’m making they’re well aware of how to stimulate a woman’s clitoris.. I’m not vouching for other men here, but it is baffling as someone that’s never had a problem getting a woman off to see the sheer amount of complaints about skill. It’s real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 10:17 PM
2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Right, all I was saying it’s at least helpful that they added that information as women seem to think themselves immune to any kind of sexual dysfunction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 10:11 PM
3	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. How would they? Do all long term relationships cause psychological ED? The reality is maybe some women know a little bit, but it’s a spectrum. For example; when I was struggling with it, I was good up until a trigger of some kind such as a song would be playing and maybe some of the lyrics would bother me and I’d lose my erection. For others they may not be able to achieve an erection at all unless on meds or after being with a partner for a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 10:08 PM
3	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. It can mean a few things. Inability to orgasm/ejaculate, no/poor erection, not able to get wet, possibly cervical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 08:02 PM
1	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Agreed. As for the first she didn’t always do it that much and I personally could tell the difference ha I g sex with her how long it took for her. Also during g that time she had trouble getting g wet enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 07:49 PM
1	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. I’m not saying 5-10 minutes is all I’m doing. Personally I like to take breaks to go down when I get winded. I’d say on average I spend 20-30 minutes on oral alone, but my point is if she’s not had at least 1 orgasm within 10 minutes something’s probably not right. 5 minutes is more of a “everything’s going right” kind of night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 07:01 PM
2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Absolutely, but when all blame gets thrown on men it’s a little ridiculous. Personally, I want all women to orgasm every time they have sex so maybe this topic won’t keep coming up. There may be skill issues involved, but coming from experience.. a woman’s clit can become desensitized to a certain degree and there can also be dysfunction linked to the autonomic nervous system leading to difficulties reaching orgasm. Lastly, there are many women that are too shy or whatever to actually talk about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 06:45 PM
-1	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Maybe because it’s not that difficult to make a woman cum and some women actually have pelvic floor/nerve damage they need to heal. If it takes more than 5-10 minutes of oral for her to orgasm there’s either something wrong or the guy actually sucks.. which isn’t impossible, but I think the reality is that guys are actually being blamed for it all when some of the time it could have nothing to do with their skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 06:26 PM
-2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Something to consider is how often an individual woman masturbates. I’ve known one that did it 3-7 times a day.. there’s such thing as physical desensitization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 06:19 PM
5	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Women will never understand this.. which is ironic as they often times will not be “in the mood” and it’s the same concept of a mental block keeping you from arousal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 06:17 PM
2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. I don’t think it invalidates it, but it does diminish it. Probably the most important part of this post is for men and women to realize that women can have sexual dysfunction as well. It’s not always the man sucking in bed.. I knew this already after being with a girl whose sexual function rapidly went downhill over a few years. Just so everyone is aware, sometimes it’s not serious or permanent dysfunction. Sometimes, like in my ex’s case she was masturbating too often with too much pressure and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 06:15 PM
4	The average woman would fail at dating as a Men I did say “almost” and it’s about 25% of women that are diagnosed with a mental health disorder. I’m not saying men aren’t depressed or diagnosed, but I am saying that women aren’t just waltzing through life care free.. especially not single women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 05:23 PM
5	The average woman would fail at dating as a Men I’m not here to argue about the men, but almost 1/3 women are prescribed antidepressants.. they’re not just out there “living their lives”. A lot of them are coping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 05:06 PM
5	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? My question is how traditional are we speaking? None of the descriptions of a woman’s gender roles in this post have been common for 50+ years.. Even my grandparents, who were from the silent generation didn’t act as people portrayed gender roles to be back then. People blow women’s oppression way out of proportion compared to how it actually was. Maybe 70-100 years ago some of what is described was true, but most people alive today haven’t experienced anything of the like to what they describe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 03:11 AM
1	For men, it isn't truly about sex. That’s fair. If only we lived in a world where poor behavior came with greater consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 01:48 AM
1	For men, it isn't truly about sex. I agree. The only thing I will say is this is part of men and women’s groups alike. It’s not uncommon for either side to let these comments fly freely without anyone in the groups challenging them on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 01:12 AM
2	For men, it isn't truly about sex. If I see it in person then sure, but I don’t associate with those kinds of men. They aren’t around me for me to call them out. The last time I saw an abusive man was in high school 10 years ago and he was an unstable drug dealer that carried a gun. Unfortunately, law enforcement was and is the only real answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:57 AM
4	For men, it isn't truly about sex. Do women police other women when they’re abusive? No, so why do women expect men to? We don’t associate with abusive men, how are we to police them? Just as it’s not your responsibility to enforce good behaviors in other women, it isn’t any man’s to enforce good behaviors in other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:51 AM
–	What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s type Actually the poverty rate for women aged 22 is 36% while it’s 28% for men of that age. https://ffcws.princeton.edu/document/2406#:~:text=As%20shown%20in%20Table%201%2C%20nearly%20one%2Dthird,than%2090%25)%20occurred%20in%202021%20and%202022.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 07:37 AM
1	If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships? About 20% of single women are impoverished. So 1/5 women would likely enjoy being provided for.. even if that means building with someone over doing it alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 06:40 AM
1	Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face? I’ve done research on it before. From what I remember lower life expectancy starts at around 6’5”. I’m 6ft and I don’t think my height is causing any health issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 02:51 PM
1	The best thing about modern world is that as a woman I can choose to have a job that pays me The reality is, women that stay single and work feel like they miss out on building a family. Women that build a family feel like they miss out on working and being single. Happiness is something that you internalize, not something that is given to you. My grandmother for example relied on my grandfather to work while she took care of the home and sometimes would ride along with him (he was primarily a tow truck driver). They weren’t perfect and from what my mom told me they had their ups and do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 02:30 PM
1	Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face? You only have health concerns when you reach a height above 6’5” and even then no woman gives a damn about the concerns. They just want arm candy and something to brag about to their girlfriends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 02:18 PM
2	Chasing casual sex for men is more about ego than pleasure. I’ve had more than one woman tell me when she was having casual sex she was trying to see how hot of a man she could get in the bedroom. There are men and women both that use sex as an ego boost, then there’s most people who have sex to deepen the connection with their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 01:43 PM
4	Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adapt I’ll never understand why modern women are so stuck on shitty events of the past. It’s become similar to a minority arguing about racism that happened before they were born. Obviously things were bad, but majority of people are being better after being taught by their parents and in schools that it was like that and we want to be better than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 03:55 AM
5	Women don't see men as "human beings" either. And that's normal. Women will say things to one another like “every woman deserves to find the perfect man” but in the same breath say that men not being able to find a relationship is “natural selection”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:41 AM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice Honestly, I just want companionship. Sex is a plus and I wouldn’t want to be with a woman that doesn’t want to have sex with me ever. I just want a woman that wants to share her life with me and hopefully doesn’t continue to shop around while we’re together. I don’t think you’re accounting for the fact that people fall in love with people they’re not initially attracted to all the time. Also, cheaters are more complex than just “thinking they can do better”. Usually they have some form of mental…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 08:56 PM
2	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Agreed. That is very interesting and informative. I didn’t know about that, but somehow I’ve learned through experience that I needed to take some time before entering another relationship. I hope others will read that and understand the importance of healing and introspection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 09:09 PM
0	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA My bad. I meant to circle back around and say that generally people who’ve been through trauma or are neurodivergent tend to gravitate towards one another. Sometimes you may not have trauma or neurodivergence and just get unlucky. Most of the time abusers don’t show their true colors until it’s too late.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 08:50 PM
3	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA I was blamed for my ex in a similar way by a lot of people. It was a select few that actually told me to get away from her. Most just asked me if I was actually good to her. When it was done and I’d been through hell, some of those people acted like it was my fault for not seeing the signs earlier and leaving. It was my first long term relationship and I wanted to make it work.. so yea people are going to judge you and it sucks. Best to just live your life the best you can and try to learn the h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 08:31 PM
0	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Hurt people hurt people. I won’t go into detail, but my ex was severely abused growing up to the point she might as well have been locked in a closet most of her childhood. Let’s just say I was abused by her in many ways. Another example would be my father who sexually abused my sister (he died in prison). Come to find out he was sexually abused by his father as a child. It takes a lot for these people not to perpetuate these events in their own lives. Usually they need a lot of help in their yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 08:26 PM
3	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Why is raped and abused the only other option?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 08:08 PM
3	why don't women love-bomb men? how do women make effort towards liking a man? Women absolutely do love bomb men, and it is usually BPD types who quickly attach to a Favorite Person. So if you want this, go ahead and date someone like that. Don’t do it, it will likely be your downfall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 09:30 AM
1	The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology Evolves So it’s clear we can now assume any given woman could be dangerous and proceed with caution	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 08:56 AM
5	The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology Evolves Seems you’ve spent a disproportionate amount of energy yourself. Men don’t have “innocent privilege”. It’s not any one man’s job to correct another man’s behavior. Sure there’s times when you can step in and make a difference, but it’s ridiculous to expect us to go around policing other men throughout our day. That’s simply a pipe dream.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 08:22 AM
1	”Women are freeloading and ungrateful” Except it’s not an aesthetic, it’s a reflection of one’s values. It’s fine to want some nice things here and there or to want to have some fun experiences, but when it’s the only thing you care about it gets old quick. Especially if you have to stop and photograph and post every outfit, meal, or venue to your social media. You say it’s that simple, but there’s not just an abundance of women like that. I’m pretty sure there’s a lot of guys like that too nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 01:50 PM
1	”Women are freeloading and ungrateful” You say that because this is anonymous, but if you knew me IRL you’d see that you got it backwards. I don’t feel like bragging so I’ll just leave it at that. Consumerism and materialism is boring and played out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 01:19 AM
3	The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society. Agreed.. I don’t want to participate in sex if she’s not getting off. However, I’ve had sex for 45 minutes+ where I couldn’t finish and the girl is too sensitive to keep going and I’ve never once had a woman be enthusiastic about helping me finish. Usually, there’s a point where she’s had 7-10 orgasms and she’s ready to quit and go to sleep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 07:41 PM
5	A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue. That’s BS. I see beautiful women of all shapes, sizes, facial features all day long just driving around town. If you consider a dating life domination then you have bigger problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 01:26 PM
2	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny You adding religious text to this conversation was ridiculous to say the least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 12:51 PM
3	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny Regardless of religion you’re not going to magically accumulate resources without already having resources or falling into the top % of earners that are capable of building a comfortable life in our current economy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 12:41 PM
1	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny This is very true unless you’re near the top 20% of earners for most of your life and you’re a careful spender and investor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 12:10 PM
1	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny 1 would be true if you left out the “make money” portion as just 20 years ago 1 million is worth about 2 million of today. My grandfather is a hard worker for certain and to a fault at times, but he was also very lucky for his time. In our current economy, most will not reach the same level of financial success that the silent generation or the baby boomers without significant luck and a life of constantly working heavy hours each week. The amount the average person makes on 30-40 hours today is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 11:54 AM
2	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny There are plenty of animals besides humans that are monogamous. Polygamy isn’t inherently wrong, but I’ve never met someone that tolerated it long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 11:32 AM
3	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny It’s actually how it works though.. my grandpa inherited a Walmart stock by his mother that was a couple thousand and today is worth nearly 100k. That’s not including the million dollars or so he made in his lifetime that he also invested. Dividends alone would be enough for him to survive on if myself and my mother weren’t asking for help all the time. It’s actually absurd how much money he’s managed to maintain through his retirement while supporting his family in many aspects throughout the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 03:59 AM
-1	We Need More Reserved, Scolding Women My grandma was faithfully and happily married for 50+ years to my grandfather who wasn’t perfect, but honored her in every possible way even in her death. Majority of women had standards for themselves back then and would do their fare share of the workload. Never once heard her complain about cooking, cleaning, or taking care of kids. I do remember her wanting my grandpa to be less of a workaholic, but he built a financial standing that will carry over to me, my own children, and possibly my gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 01:29 AM
1	We Need More Reserved, Scolding Women I don’t disagree, but drugs and alcohol abuse are a huge problem. Altering ones ability to rationally make decisions. I think if you have multiple sex partners at a time you should be transparent and allow them to decide if the risk is worth taking as well. There is no cure for HPV but you’re right that most strains are harmless for most people. In my case I got gonorrhea from my ex, which is treatable, but led to further complications that have been hell to deal with. Pelvic floor dysfunction, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 02:21 PM
-1	We Need More Reserved, Scolding Women Even with condoms you can still easily contract and spread HPV which can lead to cervical cancer in women. My point is mostly not to let other women/men influence you into potentially life altering situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 02:06 PM
1	We Need More Reserved, Scolding Women It is. My ex cheated on me without protection and gave me an sti after being influenced into “party girl” life by the young women she associated with. Drugs and alcohol make just about anyone do dumb things, especially if they’re not properly educated about sex growing up. We split up and she got into prostitution shortly after her roommate normalized having a pimp around. He got arrested and she did too, but for having weed on her while driving. Now she’s working 3 jobs to barely scrape by. She…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 02:00 PM
2	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn Google it. It’s not what I say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 01:51 PM
2	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn If it were I wouldn’t be getting a bunch of Travis Kelce and Taylor swift crap all over my feed. A lot of what you see is what’s trending at the time. Some of what you see is based on what you view, like, and data collected from your device.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 01:43 PM
2	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn Algorithms aren’t tailored to individuals on the level you think they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 05:49 AM
3	”Women are freeloading and ungrateful” I’m personally only upset that I can’t find a woman that’s personality doesn’t revolve around consumerism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 05:00 AM
1	Picking up many women in your youth, will make it harder for you to have a healthy long term relationship Honestly, I did care until being loyal and committed to 1 woman got me cheated on. I would’ve been better off spending my 20’s dating around and hooking up. Now I’m 28 and don’t remember how to talk to women anymore. Such a shame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 02:11 PM
1	There has never been a gender war only war on women It’s boring and played out is what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 04:57 PM
1	There has never been a gender war only war on women Idk about always, but if I’m being honest I’ve yet to meet a woman that materialism wasn’t her main personality trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 02:43 PM
6	There has never been a gender war only war on women I’ve had enough sex in my life to die and feel satisfied.. behaviors and attitudes of women have become less and less appealing over the years. If women were to magically become less materialistic and shallow I might think about taking them seriously.. juice isn’t worth the squeeze even just for hooking up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 01:43 PM
3	Why do women do this? Have you never had a bad sexual experience and been like “nah, I don’t think this is it”? Sometimes that’s what happens and you just don’t want to continue once you realize she’s a pillow princess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 06:00 AM
-1	Western women preferences Yes desensitized state is temporary from vibrators. I think even the amount of difference I felt in her vagina was temporary, but it would’ve required some level of cut back for her vagina to return to normal. I’ve read studies that stated stretching/dilation of the vagina can be partially permanent if there’s no breaks in between.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 02:23 AM
-1	Western women preferences I understand that, but read some of my other comments and you might get where I’m coming from. I didn’t expect to have to explain every detail of how this happened to her vagina, but the reality is at one point I was able to feel her cervix at any given time regardless of her cycle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 02:17 AM
-1	Western women preferences Just look into it. It’s not going to happen to a woman who’s having sex 1 or 2 times a week, but a sex addicted woman such as my ex that admitted to masturbation up to 7 times a day. It can be a reality when she was using a 9” dildo to pleasure herself on the regular and having sex with me and the man she cheated with. The clit can even become desensitized from vibrators as well without moderation of use. We’re talking about a woman that doesn’t have any boundaries or self control, not the avera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 02:14 AM
-3	Western women preferences My goodness. If you have constant penetration from even just a sex toy it can stretch the vagina slightly. Usually it isn’t permanent, but with enough frequency some change can be permanent. There are studies that go into this if you look into it. I’d rather not go back down that rabbit hole myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 02:02 AM
-3	Western women preferences I know this already, but at one point I was able to reach her cervix nearly all the time. It wasn’t until she started seeing the other man that I was having trouble reaching it. She was having sex with him frequently and me probably 2 times a week at that point, but say a few months before she met him we had daily sex. I could tell a noticeable difference. Still, nothing drastic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 02:00 AM
2	Western women preferences No problem. Not exactly a happy memory, but I share because it’s important to know. I can imagine with abstinence the vagina may return to normal size, but my ex was a bit of an addict to many things. Sex was one of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 01:57 AM
-7	Western women preferences To be fair, I could tell when my ex cheated on me from how her vagina felt different. It was loose compared to normal.. especially close to ovulation. He wasn’t a lot thicker than me, but at least an inch longer and it made it near impossible for me to reach her cervix anymore. Granted, this wasn’t an extreme difference, but when you’ve been with 1 woman for years you can tell. I’m 7/5.5 for reference and I would imagine the man she cheated with was about 8/5.7 or something in that ballpark. Lat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 01:45 AM
7	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. That’s ridiculous.. criminality in itself is harmful to our society whether the crimes are abusive to women or not. Nobody should entertain a career criminal in their lives..	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 01:40 PM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought Attraction is subjective. Most men are attracted to a wide variety of women and often times don’t let their friends tell them they’re “settling” based on a woman’s looks alone. I personally was with a woman that I loved deeply and while I was busy standing up for her and my perception of her, she was allowing her new friends to persuade her she could do better. It’s toxic, judgmental, and outright objectification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 01:10 PM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought The important part is that many women don’t follow through with their individual preferences to try and fit a narrative that is socially acceptable to their friends or family. Being genuine in this regard means being able to stand up for what you value in a man that maybe doesn’t fit into that ideal your bubble has for you. So basically don’t let your friends tell you you’re settling just based on a guys looks that you actually find attractive in your own view. Attraction is subjective after all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 01:04 PM
1	What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men? There’s a balance. I’ve never gone looking for other women while in a relationship and I’ve found abstaining from porn to be helpful in general whether in a relationship or not. I haven’t always been this way and sometimes you have to learn the hard way.. sometimes the man isn’t going to change. It’s part of figuring out what you do or don’t want from a partner..	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 12:48 PM
3	Women don't know themselves or what they want You’ve never heard a woman say something to a friend of hers or behind that friend’s back? “Eww you like that guy?” "She's trying too hard to impress men." "She wears too much makeup, it's so fake." "Good for you, I could never do that” “Did you see what she was wearing?” This isn’t even exclusive to women.. men do it as well and it’s sad and judgmental. Only difference is there seems to be a little more respect from man to man regardless of the choices and preferences made from each individual.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:19 AM
2	Women don't know themselves or what they want There’s what’s socially acceptable for women to like.. sometimes that varies from bubble to bubble. Then there’s what an individual woman finds attractive or wants. I see women do what they can to fit the narrative. Peer pressure might be a better term for it, but the women that stand their ground are then usually shunned out of their friend group. It’s not a healthy way to live IMO and it’s probably part of why many women look for validation from men when they aren’t getting it from their peers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 11:46 PM
-1	Women don't know themselves or what they want Historically, 60% of men don’t reproduce. In group bias is part of why women don’t know themselves or what they want. I live in a college city and it’s obvious when you see tons of women all pining for the same guys attention. Whether that be the local band playing, the sporty guys, the drug dealer, or the older rich guy.. none of this is exclusive to dating apps. What one woman wants so do the others in her bubble.. at least with the younger women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 07:03 AM
-10	Women don't know themselves or what they want About 80% of women go for the same 20% of men. If that doesn’t tell you anything about in group bias among women idk that any studies will do much for you. There are obviously outliers, but a large portion of women are trend followers and it’s plainly obvious to see IRL just step outside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 05:45 PM
4	Q4M: Do you have days in which you don’t think about attractive women, relationships or sex at all? Yea if I’m on yard duty it’s nearly a whole days work by itself. A lot of people don’t understand we expend testosterone doing hard labor.. sexuality isn’t the end all be all of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 02:38 PM
–	It is entirely on men to meet women’s expectations. Women should not have to lower their standards I just decided “fuck that nonsense” and do my own thing. I live in a college city and every single one of my buddies has had multiple bad experiences with entitled women. Some of them got taken to the cleaners.. I’m not having it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 07:07 AM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics Yes, some people can be more susceptible to addiction in general. Try not to look at your own experience and just take the message at face value. It can happen to anyone from overexposure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 03:16 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics So long as it’s in moderation I wouldn’t care, but porn is desensitizing just the same as swiping tinder all day. Once a week at most. If you can’t get off without watching porn you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. I was addicted to porn and didn’t even realize until my first long term relationship how damaging it can be to your attraction to average men/women. It’s also part of why body dysmorphia is such an issue along with social media and dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 03:09 PM
1	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? Look, it hasn’t been easy by any means to heal from what I went through. Read my other responses and you’ll see I’ve trauma dumped a bit while also trying to shed light on 2 different perspectives. Bottom line, when she moved out I cleaned up my act within a year. When I took her the rest of her belongings from my home, her living space was trashed the same as she left my home. Alcohol and drugs were in plain sight along with a general stench in the air. I’m not saying this because I need an ego…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 09:16 AM
-1	The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a whole Gotta love assumptious, off the wall comments like this with no response. Some people just lack the ability to assimilate and have to quickly make an exit when confronted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 08:20 AM
2	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? I think I was wrong in perceiving that as judgmental or as an ego boost as I now see it was a way to recognize that she wasn’t the one at fault throughout the relationship. I know I needed that for myself when I went to my ex’s apartment to drop off her things and saw the drugs and alcohol, along with her entire wardrobe strewn about the living space. Thank you and I apologize for getting triggered and becoming defensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 05:49 AM
2	Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an Advantage I’d like to say I was trying to provide a different perspective, but looking back at that comment I seem to have been trauma dumping.. Thank you for your sentiment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 05:23 AM
1	Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an Advantage My PP was introduced to gaming by me. Ended up becoming obsessed with the male attention she got and eventually took it to IRL venues where she could seek validation and attention I wasn’t able to give while working 70+ hour weeks to try and give us a better life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 08:45 PM
0	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? I see your maturity level is quite low. I was trying to bring light to both perspectives and you had already dismissed my partners mental health problems as if they were a fully functioning adult to begin with. I still have love and compassion for her regardless of what happened as I have a full understanding of what kind of abuse led to her poor life skills and reactive coping mechanisms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 08:39 PM
-3	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? What an assumptious response. I shouldn’t have to explain myself, but I did try to set an example of how to clean properly prior to striving for a career that could give me and my partner a bright future. Look into BPD and you might begin to understand what kind of woman I had tried to make a life with. Unfortunately, she had masked her true self for quite some time before getting comfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 08:36 PM
-6	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? That was purely for context of what I lost. Nice try cherry picking what you’d like in an effort to dismiss my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 08:33 PM
0	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? I’m sure that fed your ego. I was too hard on my ex about cleaning as she had mental health problems I didn’t understand. I was exceptional at cleaning myself, but I was working a ton while we were together and secured a position in the top 2% of earners for my state. In the end she cheated, I found out in a horrifying fashion, and now have PTSD. I lost that job, spiraled into a deep depression, and now can’t hardly keep up with my own space anymore. I’m climbing out of the hole now and I will j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 02:41 PM
3	I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sex What a cordial, empathetic, and commendable individual you are. Cheers!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 11:31 PM
1	The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality check I can understand that. It’s not any different with women objectifying black men for their supposedly larger meat, Beefcake calendars, and catcalling. The media and porn also does a good job of perpetuating body objectification in both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 07:00 PM
1	The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality check I don’t think anyone said it’s unheard of, but IRL social groups of men past their teenage years this doesn’t happen often. When it does the rest of the men are just going to respond with “yea uh huh” or if it’s over the line “do you think she would appreciate that comment?” There are some men that aren’t very mature in this regard even at older ages, but they’re not being egged on by the rest of us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 06:42 PM
3	I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sex I appreciate your honesty. I respect your efforts to inform your friends and it’s uplifting to read such an introspective take from you. We’re all only human and mistakes are just lessons after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 06:37 PM
2	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away I agree with what you’re saying, but it’s not one or the other. It’s 2 sides of the same coin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 06:16 PM
2	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away I agree. That’s part of my point I left out. When you try too hard to attract women it tends to have the opposite effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 06:14 PM
22	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away Can’t stress this enough. This is why I don’t get the whole high value man/woman trope. One’s ability to attract a partner does not equate to their value. The people that think it does come off as validation seekers and are likely underachieving in other areas of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 11:10 AM
4	I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sex The women I’ve known to sleep with a lot of different men have attention seeking behaviors out the ass. It’s not uncommon with how addicted to social media and instant gratification most of them are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 07:48 AM
2	The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselves Yes, it’s a way to drive up stock price to incentivize investors. So continues the rat race and outrageously manipulative marketing tropes, pressuring young investors into buying stocks with eroding dividend income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 03:25 AM
7	The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselves Good point. As someone that has climbed the corporate ladder a bit, they do indeed only look about a year into the future at most. So long as the politicians ride these corporations coattails they’ll follow suit in that regard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 02:55 AM
3	Is a man acting "masculine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by him? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act masculine arousing, so long as he looks hot? Honestly, any chick fixing things is 🔥 so long as she’s not spouting condescending, man hating comments while she’s doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 10:21 PM
16	The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselves Individualization benefits consumerism in the short term until birth rates drop. Now we see elites scrambling to convince people to have children so they can have a new wave of cheap laborers and consumers to help them continue recording record profits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 10:11 PM
1	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? You’re probably right, but I didn’t have much experience when I was younger. I’m 28 and have a host of health problems arising so that could definitely play a role. I’ve not needed any medications as of yet, but idk how it will go when I decide to date again. Im admittedly a little nervous about it not happening when I need it to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 10:05 PM
1	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? I get a tingle when a woman with a certain body walks by, but I’m not springing a boner. More on the level of butterflies in the chest. Both the tingle and a boner can immediately dissipate if I’m not treated properly by said woman.. feminine or not. I didn’t used to be like that until a toxic relationship made me go through psychological ED.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 09:52 PM
7	The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality check The locker room talk women have probably actually goes the way they think it does for men. They usually like to gossip and compare and contrast every little detail amongst one another. Probably part of the reason they all seem to share the same preferences for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 09:18 PM
3	The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality check IMO they can learn to share and like it if they want to live in their delusions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 09:10 PM
–	The female body is better suited for survival in harsh conditions None of this matters. I don’t even want to get into the reality of what would happen to women in your scenario. Something along the lines of handmaids tale, but likely worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 09:43 AM
5	Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twenties What looks attractive isn’t always what’s socially acceptable. Many women are extremely conscious of their social bubble and media expectations. They tend to follow the norms or trends more than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 08:29 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. I’m also not the one who thinks those things. I don’t believe that the saying refers to all women, children, and dogs around the world. I suppose you could say that’s up for interpretation, but to me it’s the people in my life mostly. I’m probably the least materialistic human I’ve ever met, so that may play a part. I can’t speak for others and what I was arguing is that it does exist in some cases. I don’t think all love is conditional. My anecdotal experience doesn’t prove this, but I stand be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 09:45 PM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. Here’s a definition for you: Unconditional love is love without conditions. This is the kind of love that no matter what someone does, the other person will always love them. Now, this isn’t always easy...especially when members of a relationship are in a disagreement. But through it all, there is always a sense of support, understanding, and compassion. Now, have I stopped understanding, supporting, or showing compassion towards my ex? Apply this to members of my family and long time friends th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 09:32 PM
–	What Men Want I agree with your last statement. Please try not to lump all men together. Perhaps I’m different as I was raised by a single mother, or because the abuse my father put her and my sister through. Sex is great, but it’s not the end all be all of life. I don’t do casual hookups and I don’t try to compete to stand out. I’ve only ever pursued a woman 1 time out of 9 sexual relationships I’ve had since my teen years. In my experience, staying away from social media and porn has made all women so much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:55 PM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. That makes no sense. There are so many people outside of romantic partners that I love from a distance. Some of them have good things going for them and others do not. I still can’t be with all of them, romantic or not. Here’s a definition for you: Unconditional love is love without conditions. This is the kind of love that no matter what someone does, the other person will always love them. Now, this isn’t always easy...especially when members of a relationship are in a disagreement. But throug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:35 PM
2	men hate things they cause Agreed. The inverse is true as well. People will blame a young man’s behavior on his father just the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:26 PM
1	If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle? The women you speak of are likely narcissistic manipulators. You could say the same for the men that “pump and dump”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:24 PM
0	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. I did try to work through things and take her back. She chose to be with other men and try to keep it a secret while we worked on things. She acknowledged she wasn’t good for me where she’s at and I chose to focus on my mental health. I don’t understand why either of us would need to be with each other in a romantic way to love each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:20 PM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. It’s not. You don’t have to be with someone romantically to love them unconditionally. I love her for what and who she is, but I do hope she turns her life around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:02 PM
0	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. You don’t need to be with someone romantically to love them unconditionally.. that’s ridiculous. She doesn’t choose to be with me. We tried to work it out and she’s chosen to be with others and try to keep it secret. I don’t understand why this would be considered a condition? Your perception is distorted ma’am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:56 AM
4	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. My ex became an addict of many things and cheated on me. She had mental health problems and came from a terrible upbringing. I still have love for her to this day.. genuinely wish her the best and hope she finds a man that can be what she needs. I have to love myself now, but I’d hate to hear something seriously bad happened to her. I won’t be jaded by such an unfortunate situation. I won’t allow resentment to build inside as I am grateful for the good times we had before the bad. I will eventua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:15 AM
5	Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist? It’s addictive and need more regulation. There are creators and consumers that off themselves. It’s a big issue that’s not being addressed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 12:29 AM
7	Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist? I don’t disagree, but they need to tax the portion sent to the man in charge of OF as well. These creators are lining his pockets while they degrade themselves to the community around them that would otherwise offer some level of support. There needs to be better regulation on how the creators market as well. The majority of these individuals, creators and consumers both, are riddled with mental health problems that need addressing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 12:27 AM
-4	“Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating. I personally see that and think of our biological drive for reproduction. Women are inclined to find the best mate possible. while men do have that same drive to an extent, our instincts are geared towards passing on our genes when possible. We as humans have some level of control over this. Some more than others. Generally speaking, it has to do with one’s own level of intelligence. Statistics aren’t reliable enough to argue against your point, but these days it’s a crapshoot on what level of c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 12:12 AM
3	“Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating. To be clear, if I were to find out a my child was from another man it would be the greatest disappointment I’ve ever faced by far. If I were to be cheated on or left to care for my own child by myself it would sting, but I could go on with a sense of purpose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 12:05 AM
2	“Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating. Reaching big time	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 11:59 PM
3	What is men role in the worldwide birthrate drop Yes, and I don’t see any signs of birthrate picking up any time soon. These businesses are going to have to adapt to the times along with the politicians riding their coattails.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 11:52 PM
8	What is men role in the worldwide birthrate drop Agreed. Individualization benefits consumerism only until the birthrate drops significantly. You notice only now the elite are worried about this? Not to be on a conspiracy rant, but they’re worried the masses aren’t going to be pumping out replacement workers. Wealth distribution is going to need to shift into a place where the majority of people aren’t struggling just to be housed and do 1 thing they enjoy per year. We also need to get away from materialism. People are going into debt to look …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:58 PM
9	What is men role in the worldwide birthrate drop Honestly, with how things are in the US I don’t think a kids going to do too well unless they come from a wealthier family. On top of that, families get broken up so often and this generally messes up the kids mental health. It’s too much of a crapshoot IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 02:33 PM
3	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? Yes, the “do it again later” attitude also applies to men struggling with mild ED.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 03:26 PM
2	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? I don’t think this is unhelpful as there’s a lot of truth to this in my experience. I’ve also been told men that aren’t circumcised don’t usually last as long. Something to do with the sensitivity levels. Masturbation a day in advance or sometimes even a couple hours before depending on one’s sex drive definitely makes a worlds difference. Only downside IMO is sex is less desirable and pleasurable to me if I’ve masturbated prior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 03:25 PM
3	"I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping??? Keep in mind social media and dating apps are built in a way to keep users engaged through instant gratification. It’s very easy and not uncommon to have a social media addiction, especially among young women. People forget that everything we consume brings someone profits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 02:58 PM
1	"I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping??? I’m happy someone else is saying this. Marketing strategies are getting out of hand. Also, Individualization of the people benefits consumerism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 09:33 AM
7	"I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping??? This is a cute take, but I agree with Akitten. Overexposure also leads to a general disinterest or even desensitization at a certain point in some cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 09:18 AM
5	What do RP think of attractive men with less attractive women? Well there’s a reason I said “for me”. I’m not going into the reasons behind that as you didn’t ask. Since abstaining from social media like FB, Insta, and Snapchat along with porn my general attraction to all women has increased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 07:15 AM
6	Women, by and large, are not "settling" with guys they aren't attracted to Materialism is rampant due to competition on social media. Window shopping on dating apps, over consumption of porn, and to a lesser extent marketed adds has a ton of people desensitized to the appeal of an average humans body. Don’t believe me? Abstain from all 3 things for a couple months and you’ll see a lot of people become more attractive physically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 07:07 AM
10	What do RP think of attractive men with less attractive women? For me, the way I’m treated plays a much bigger role than my physical attraction to a woman. You’d be surprised how physically attractive an objectively unattractive woman can become when you’re not desensitized by social media and porn. The window shopping nature of dating apps also plays a role in the desensitization of appeal to the average humans body. Instant gratification can and will wreck the pleasure centers of the brain without proper moderation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 06:42 AM
5	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem That’s not important. Sex and dating aren’t the end all be all of life. Acceptance is the bare minimum men are looking for when seeking empathy from men and women alike.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:26 PM
6	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem I understand your perspective on it, but it’s become more and more common to shame the average or below average man for traits of attraction that are more or less out of their control. There should be acceptance for all, regardless of your physical attraction to them. This goes for fat shaming and slut shaming of women as well. It’s not a good look in our society. A lot of it seems to be reactivity rather than proactivity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:24 PM
3	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem I think it’s important that we all try to empathize with one another in general. Regardless of dating or sex. When it comes to sympathy that is one’s own choice, but having empathy is directly related to an individual’s emotional intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:20 PM
3	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem The problem is it’s often viewed as seeking sympathy when it’s empathy that these men are seeking. Fundamental misunderstanding. Not many men want someone to feel sorry for them, but they sure as hell appreciate when someone can relate or has a shared experience. It’s a subtle reminder that we’re not alone. Even a lot of outstanding men have shared experiences with dating in modern culture. It’s become modern day eugenics disguised as individual preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:11 PM
2	Dating apps show men want women more than women want men 90% is a number you just threw out there. 10-15% report never having one. 50% report unsatisfactory frequency of orgasm. 75% don’t reach orgasm from penetration alone. I never said that it’s a lot of men being used for sex, but that it’s not exclusively a woman’s experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:06 PM
4	Dating apps show men want women more than women want men You clearly are lacking in life experience and are just trolling. When a man takes the time to learn the woman’s body he’s having sex with and adds some verbal stimulation then she will often enjoy the sex and can reach multiple orgasms. I doubt this happens much with hookups, as statistics would suggest. I don’t mean to be rude, but you seem to have a distorted perception on men’s motives towards women. If you find a man that cares about you and you are open to verbally communicate your desires…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:31 AM
7	Dating apps show men want women more than women want men This is the second post I’ve seen you make this same argument. It’s obvious projection and it’s not a good look. I’m sorry you’ve had those experiences, but being used for sex is not a woman exclusive experience. I’ve personally been used for sex myself as a man by a woman that I would presume doesn’t have trouble reaching orgasm. I would like to say I was just skilled, but not her ideal dating prospect. Either way, to me the sex was fairly par for the course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:59 AM
5	Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoying Who said anything about hating women? I can acknowledge that some men display crappy behaviors that I don’t align with and still not hate men. Why would it be viewed different for women? This isn’t an emotional topic either. Having different interests isn’t an argument against materialism. It actually reinforces my point. Why do you suggest these interests are so prevalent in modern women? Possessions, wealth, and status are what women are after in modern culture due to multiple factors. Mostly,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:39 AM
3	Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoying Materialism and consumerism is all I see women doing or talking about. It’s boring and played out IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 07:49 PM
6	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. As a man who grew up without a father, I can indeed say I was fucked in that regard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 09:40 AM
3	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" I agree that mental health disorders are looked at as more of an “abnormality that needs correction” rather than a disease that needs treatment. It’s definitely true that societal views and stigma has a large influence on this. The only real “science” behind any of this is an understanding that most mental health disorders are linked to certain DNA in your genetics that is often times dormant until a traumatic event occurs (usually at a young age) that creates a neural link.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 09:19 AM
1	Women would not make the decisions they want men to make if they were us Well that does explain a lot. In the US you have 3 options to go to college. Stand out enough to get a scholarship go into debt through tuition assistance *parents pay your way There are some exceptions, but this is generally how it goes. If you make too many mistakes, have mental health struggles, or a tragedy happens in your family/personal life you’ll be left behind to work fast food or retail jobs unless you get into trades. Edit to add: This also creates a terrible work/life balance as yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 01:25 AM
–	American men are becoming disinterested That last part got me. Idk about other men, but I hate to feed into consumerism. Even watching sports or scrolling the media feels like I’m just adding another $ to their profits. I lost interest in a lot of things.. seems these industries are desperate to keep recording profits. I’ll have no part in it.. that includes popular venues that women frequent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 06:59 PM
1	Women would not make the decisions they want men to make if they were us I don’t mean to be rude. Perhaps my life experience has been on the tougher side since being out of school. Honestly, being able to go to college is a privilege in its own.. To me growing up in a 2 parent household is a privilege. I’m happy for you to be able to live so free willed. I haven’t had that luxury myself since my high school years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 02:53 PM
2	The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF. Fair enough. I know for me it would lead me back down the same rabbit hole, so in my case it’s best I stay clear of it. I think you’re probably right that every now and then doesn’t hurt, but it’s easy to become desensitized. At one point I couldn’t even get aroused by a normal woman’s naked body. You could’ve called me the male equivalent of a size queen I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 02:46 PM
1	The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF. Never paid a cent for porn. If we had better education and treatment for mental illness and addiction I doubt OF would be as big as it is. Ever notice the people that get out have nothing good to say about it? Look into the psychological impact the profession has, as well as what some of the men addicted to the content have gone through. OF as a whole does more harm than good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 04:33 PM
2	The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF. As a man that has escaped a porn addiction I don’t think porn is of necessity or should be accepted as such in a monogamous relationship at any time. If you’re separate for a time then masturbation is fine, but do so without watching porn. I’ve seen a drastic difference in a lot of areas since completely getting away from porn.. I never spent any $ before, but I can only imagine if it was hard for me to quit using normal porn that OF content could be just as difficult, if not more. It takes some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 04:16 PM
6	Dating men are NOT better people than Virgins Yes, this is true for women as well. It seems difficult for either side to fathom the severity or prevalence of abuse from these people. A lot of times it seems to boil down to a lack of education on mental illness and poor behaviors associated with it. It’s hard to differentiate when you don’t know the signs to look out for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 05:18 AM
1	Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtship I’m very aware of the risks to women. Unfortunately, you’re wrong about my experience with women. I will say that most of the women that I’ve known to engage in casual sex irl have not been taught the risks or they have mental health issues that influence them into risky behaviors in general. Women choosing the “best mate” has to do with biology and has nothing to do with manosphere or red pill ideology. Historically, about 40% of men don’t reproduce. We have different mating strategies, and whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 03:09 AM
–	You don’t love the hoes and you don’t feel sexy Keep in mind, for some individuals it can be unsustainable to even date. I struggle with mental illness to the degree I have a hard time even keeping my hygiene proper at times. I know it’s probably only about 10-15% of men that deal with some kind of mental illness, but it’s something to think about. I have a hard time maintaining friendships, let alone building new ones or seeking out romantic opportunities. Treatment can only do so much.. I’ve had to give up on a lot of things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 06:40 PM
2	Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man? Yes this is true to their ingrained nature to pick the “best mate”. To some degree they vet to look out for red flags, but they also want their choice to be socially acceptable to their bubble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 04:56 PM
1	Women would not make the decisions they want men to make if they were us This was kinda funny to read. I think we want to do some of this, but many factors influence us into an unhealthy balance. Usually, we end up having to sacrifice some of these things to prioritize our work or families. What you described seems like a very laid back sheltered/privileged lifestyle to me. I personally haven’t experienced anything of the like since I was in high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 04:38 PM
1	Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtship I also agree that women aren’t hard wired to be as promiscuous as men. This comes down to a stronger instinct to pick the “best mate” vs ours being mostly to pass on our genes. I think sex drives are more or less the same, but there has been a decline in testosterone in the average man going since the 70’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 03:47 PM
4	Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtship They do it when the guy is good enough looking or high enough in social status they won’t date her, but he will entertain her for the night. That seems to be the majority of the casual sex women have. Sometimes, if the guy is kind enough or skilled they might continue to go back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 03:28 PM
18	Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtship Yea I really had no idea all the things I should’ve been working on growing up. Seriously, it feels like those memes saying “I shoulda been buying a house when I was 8”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 03:12 PM
6	How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"? How much effort do you think the most attractive women put into a relationship with an average looking guy? We want to give our all to a woman that will at least appreciate us. As men, we know how much we’re going to have to compete based on a woman’s looks and attitudes. Of course, there are some hyper competitive dudes with high salary or great looks that will do what it takes to keep a trophy wife, but most men just want a woman who appreciates him and isn’t looking where the grass may be gre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 02:26 PM
1	Six figures isn’t really that unreasonable I think money is more of a case by case basis for the majority of women. Looks, lifestyle, and personality seem to have less wiggle room from what I can tell. There are a ton of different influences that create these shared preferences in women, but IMO a big part of it is a biological mechanism/instinct that women have to choose the “best mate”. I think Men have this to a lesser degree, while our instinct is more geared towards passing on our genes to whoever is willing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 03:49 PM
4	Six figures isn’t really that unreasonable It’s mostly due to there being only a small portion of men displaying the traits that women are saying they’re attracted to the most. Combine that with a “never settle” mindset and you’re looking at the top 10 - 20%	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 03:33 PM
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments The one I heard the most was “are you sure you’re being good to her?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:52 PM
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments That’s total bs. We don’t want to deal with Certain women outside of sex.. even those women stop getting sex from us after a while if they don’t straighten up. I’ve had ED occur solely from trying to have casual sex with a woman who just hated the world and she’d only be fun when she was smoking weed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:50 PM
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments That’s an assumption.. I’d love to go on a date with a girl with enough self esteem to show up with no make up and some casual clothes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:43 PM
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments Yea neither are men, so we ask you out to see what all you have to offer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:41 PM
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments Expert manipulators know how to mirror and mask to pull you in before they begin their abuse cycle. Many men and women fall for these fake people without knowing they’re like that until it’s too late and the damage is done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:36 PM
4	Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance. I think everyone is influenced by social media to an extent unless you’re not using it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 08:13 AM
4	Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance. No, they believe most of what they see and if they don’t it’s drilled into their minds from targeted ads and the “algorithm”	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 09:08 PM
–	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? You’re already a day late to the conversation I was having. Latter already shared a satisfactory answer to the question I reiterated from the post. There’s no need to reach for further understanding in another post. If you read our conversation fully you’d see I wasn’t trolling and this was constructive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 07:27 PM
–	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? I think I had already acknowledged this wasn’t the sub to gain a profound understanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 06:29 PM
–	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Did you even read the post? The question in my comment is literally copy and paste from OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 04:28 PM
3	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? You’re right, I don’t follow politics as closely as I should sometimes. Thank you for making that point so I don’t come off ignorant in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 04:48 AM
1	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? I don’t take it personally, but it does spring a nerve. I watched my grandpa take extremely good care of not just his wife, but his entire family. Just like today, there were bad men in the past, but there were good ones too. Not every woman in a long marriage was stuck.. they had both been divorced before they got married. It must’ve been a completely different experience for a WHOLE LOT of women’s grandparents. My grandpa honored her in life, in illness (dementia/alzheimer’s) and he still hono…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:13 AM
2	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Some will keep a man around for whatever he can offer. I don’t think these behaviors are exclusive to women, but I think you’d be wrong to say that men do it more. Not many men have the pull on the dating market to be leading women on, let alone the ego to pursue multiple women at a time. I think it’s funny you say this with how women keeping rosters is becoming normalized as a way to asses your options before committing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:01 AM
-5	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Historically, about 40% of all men don’t reproduce. I dunno what makes you think that women of the past couldn’t say no.. they just couldn’t leave very easily after saying yes. You have to also realize these women didn’t have the same level of options as women of today and Joe that works as a mechanic down the road sounded a lot better back then when you only have 5 choices. Women have always been selective, but in the past they selected men within close proximity that seemed like the best optio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:46 AM
4	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? You probably don’t realize this, but you’re projecting. Do you have to have bad behaviors just because some man came into your life with bad behaviors? If it’s not something personal to you then I ask; why go through life jaded because men of the past weren’t always the best to women? Again, I have no problem with preference and standards. It’s when there’s a lack of communication and transparency that you’re hurting people for your own gain. That I do have a problem with as there is enough ment…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:39 AM
–	I dont understand why people get upset about other people's unrealistic standards You’re making a lot of assumptions about what I do and don’t know about the women I’ve been with or around. This is just part of the hypergamous nature of women and the fact that men will sleep with women below their dating standards. I’ve talked through this with 2 women that have had FWB they wanted to turn into a relationship. Both times the guy was a chad out of her league in looks and showing obvious signs of no emotional availability. While I commend them for being able to pull a guy of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:32 AM
3	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? I don’t personally care what women are actually doing, but it does bother me when there’s a lack of transparency. Basically, stop sugar coating who y’all are to save feelings.. Also enough leading men on you don’t want to be with for the benefits. Growing up I looked at feminism and empowering women as a way to make the world a better place for everyone.. as a progressive society I thought we were moving in a direction for everyone to be equals and accepted for who they were. It seems to be even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:17 AM
4	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Well I’m not a broke or short guy so I don’t relate to that part, but I suppose you’re right. This thread probably isn’t the place to gain a profound understanding. I think the reality is a ton of guys are either late to the “don’t settle” train that women have put on the tracks, or they have a low enough level of self awareness/immaturity that they cant see or improve on their flaws. With all that said, some men that are innately less desirable may be left behind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:00 AM
4	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? If that’s your perception I guess I’m wasting my time. But at what point will women be satisfied and is such a thing possible when human wants are infinite? This is the question that caught me as it seems over the years the goal posts keep moving for men to have value in society or in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:18 AM
0	Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels? No, it’s not my argument. I had to google it before I commented originally to make sure I didn’t comment something false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:09 AM
–	I dont understand why people get upset about other people's unrealistic standards It’s actually pretty common IRL if you pay attention to younger women and watch how they operate. Its not that they’re desperate as much as they want to be picked by the “cool guy” or have that sexual experience with the “hot guy” and they either don’t care if he’s using her because he’s hot and she’s making the most of it while it lasts, or they’re in some delusion where they think they can win him over. I’ve watched this play out with a few young women and they can’t seem to come to terms that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:06 AM
9	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? You just completely ignored the question. Nobody asked whether a man or woman can or can’t do things in 2025.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:51 PM
1	Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels? Just google it. It’s all over the internet “this is why feminists tend to blame men for their problems” The feminists you’re speaking of are aware that the problems they face are with society and not individual men. That I can get behind, but it’s widely and well documented that there’s a trend in feminist groups to blame men and that will continue to be the case. It has to do with mental health, in-group bias, and trauma projection mostly. Basically some women were hurt by men enough to become …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:41 PM
1	Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels? If I were you I would’ve said “some feminists”. Maybe you meant the feminists you’re familiar with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:13 PM
–	Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so. I actually think women get so much more support and council to the point they can’t empathize with a “strong man” being unable to cope at times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 10:42 PM
1	Men don't take enough responsibility for male loneliness Yea I definitely need friends after being isolated for years by my ex narc gf. Sex is one of the last things I need, but if I met a woman that was intimate towards me in other ways it’d sure lift my spirits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 07:42 PM
1	Digital dating is the cause of loneliness. Agreed. So it does hit me the wrong way when men or women say “it’s not my problem” as we should really strive to accept men for where they’re at and support the collective growth in men that we’re looking for. Sure some will be left behind in the process, but I’d feel better knowing as a society we didn’t just tell men to “figure it out”. I think we all know positive reinforcement is the way to go here, but we’re all too prideful and busy to lend a hand where it’s needed. Maybe it does no good,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 06:51 PM
0	Digital dating is the cause of loneliness. Fair. Also, I’m not the “sexless” man you’re speaking of so perhaps my input Is of low value here. I also don’t participate in online dating either so that’s probably why I’ve kept myself from becoming jaded by the shallow nature of window shopping. The way I see it, these are real people and lonely or sexless, whatever the case we shouldn’t gaslight by saying there is “no male loneliness”. I have seen it in the eyes of many of men I’ve worked with.. some have wives or girlfriends.. some have pl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 06:25 PM
3	Digital dating is the cause of loneliness. This is just not true. 2/3 of my ride or dies I had in high school died from overdoses, while the other moved states away. I went through legal trouble and ignorantly dated a narcissist for some years before she used me up and monkey branched. I lost my career and some respect from my family.. the one not so close friend from high school that’s still around is a registered sex offender.. I’m stuck doing DoorDash because my health got so bad during that relationship I went from being able to work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 06:08 PM
1	Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women? That’s not always true. I was introduced to porn at such a young age I’d never even been in or thought of relationships yet. It definitely caused some major issues in my first long term relationship. At this point, I don’t think porn has any positives other than to learn a few things if/when you’re inexperienced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 09:20 AM
5	From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn" Thanks, I agree as a dude who was cheated on and had a hard time coping and choosing to leave. It’s made it much simpler to have looked back and realized it was only my turn and I can’t help if that’s all the other person wanted. Sucks to find that out from them after a lie, but overall it’s been a mind opener. I feel content with dating when my time comes and I’m in a better place, knowing I won’t be beaten down by something like infidelity again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 12:36 PM
-1	Women have sexual needs just as much as men do if not more so “But even with a huge sex drive women are not hooking up with random dudes in a bathhouse or trolling for strange on an app” Believe me, there are women out there with this low of discipline to their sex drive. I’ve seen the insides of a 25 year old post break ups phone. Let me tell you.. more attention seeking thirsty behavior than I’ve ever seen from a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 11:18 PM
3	Women have sexual needs just as much as men do if not more so It’s discipline. I mean some people have more severe urges I’m sure, but I know with my ex she was just raised poorly and couldn’t say no to herself, the phone, or anyone around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 06:00 PM
1	How true is the notion that you all are lonely as well because of a lack of good options for boyfriends, not because of a lack of options in general. I’m non religious. It’s just risky to indulge yourself too much in a world where you can’t always trust the other person. I’m not saying don’t enjoy some casual sex here and there. I’m saying practice safe sex, don’t let your desires lead you into a path of instant gratification and self fulfillment. It can be a slippery slope for some.. Addiction and mental health issues can arise from trying to fill the void of self worth by getting sexual validation from strangers.. I’ve watched this process …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 02:08 PM
3	Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better He’s actually more accepting that things are a bit worse these days. However, I don’t think he can fully empathize with what it’s like now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 04:45 AM
4	A word about "single mothers" It’s not that it’s their fault, but that it’s still a mistake. It was the wrong man and that sucks.. idk why you can’t grasp that sometimes life isn’t fair. What do you propose we do to the men that abandoned the woman past making him pay child support? In my eyes there’s no respect for a man like that, but I know I can’t change that man. If he goes 50/50 custody I respect that he left bc it was a mistake to be with that woman. If he wants to be in the child’s life that’s great, but you can’t fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 04:18 AM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture It’s mostly an issue for men to tackle* What’s a young man without a father or male role model to do when there’s no man to teach this? Fail by trial and error ofc	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:48 AM
3	How true is the notion that you all are lonely as well because of a lack of good options for boyfriends, not because of a lack of options in general. So in other words, the women that sleep around with a ton of different men don’t have self worth to set boundaries and say no to potentially risky or unsatisfying experiences. Got it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:43 AM
2	What is more traumatic, finding out about your partners past, or finding out they cheated on you? I agree, but some of us didn’t get taught this and had to learn it through trial and error.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:22 AM
18	Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better We see other people’s lives on the internet every day. He’s 84 and he had to learn it all through trial and error.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:21 AM
16	Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better No, my grandpa taught me pretty young that what we deal with today is no different from what he had to deal with in his time with women. The difference is the level of exposure is higher for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:17 AM
5	A word about "single mothers" Explain? This is my own life experience good sir. The world isn’t some magical wonderland of perfectly equal opportunity. Some that grew up disadvantaged really just don’t know any better than to use a condom or say no because they weren’t taught anything.. I’ve met this girl and it’s almost as sad as if she were locked in a closet her whole life. It sucks, but the best you can do is offer any person like that some guidance and keep your distance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:00 AM
0	A word about "single mothers" You’d have to watch it unfold in front of you to understand what I mean. I really don’t think lesser advantaged young women are being taught well enough in their homes to grow up with discipline and discernment. If it’s not mental health or abuse, they were peer pressured into that lifestyle. Again, all of them had addiction issues. The thing is, I can’t change those women. They have to grow up and heal whether they became a single mother or not. The same is true for those men that grew up and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 12:46 AM
5	A word about "single mothers" The thing is.. It isn’t anyone but her responsibility if the man leaves. Should he be there? Yes. Is he? No. Is it her fault? No. With all due respect, In my own life experience, the ones that become single mothers because the man wouldn’t stay weren’t very intelligent women to begin with. They grew up with no boundaries or self respect to say no to pretty much anything. Ofc all of them had addiction problems straight out of highschool. Different demographic too, but I’ll say the trailer park gi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 12:28 AM
5	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men This is a bit ignorant. Men don’t have the time or energy to be anywhere near this concerned with single mothers. I was raised by a single mother that failed in many ways.. it’s lead me to a lot of mistakes and poor choices that could’ve been mitigated or avoided if she’d stepped up instead of looking for a replacement man and stacking on more trauma. It’s hard, the women in these scenarios do not have it easy by any means. It’s a tad narcissistic to think men are being hurt by women having chil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 04:30 PM
3	If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.” I’m in a similar situation. Actually, I’m not unattractive either.. pretty happy with the body I was born with. I haven’t been around a whole lot, but I can only think of 1 woman I’ve been with that I approached. I even have a fairly promising financial future ahead of me without having to work too much to get there. The problem is, I wasn’t the cool, fun guy they wanted me to be. They thought I ought to go participate in unhinged consumerism with them while somehow building a future. Basically,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 02:42 PM
2	It's unnatural for men to chase women. Yea, I’ve personally never really approached a woman I dated or got with. I just been living my life and they somehow just show up and start something.. granted, most of them did have single parents or trauma. One was way out of my league though. Super wealthy and way prettier than I could’ve expected. Haven’t really ventured out since pre covid. I’m sure it’s much harder now to be approached	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 10:52 AM
1	Arent women scared when they are in a traditional relationship? I appreciate this.. I know this isn’t relevant to the conversation, but I’d like to add that men are also in a similar position of having to find that woman that shares the right mindset before we get married. This is part of why we tend to take a little more time to decide on marriage than we used to in the past..	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 11:04 PM
2	Both genders would be happier if women did the approaching This is why we don’t commit to marriage anymore.. we know how undisciplined, yet picky modern women are. It’s to the point some of us don’t even trust that an average girl would choose us. If she does we know she’s window shopping for the next best thing. We also know that many of you keep rosters and only give sex to the most desirable guys, while you have the other guys pay your way or give emotional support. Let’s be real. This generation of women are mostly just a bunch of narcissists fillin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 05:24 PM
5	Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men? Idk about you, but I’m not trying to get in a fight with another man over a woman when there’s more woman than men out there.. She could be special too, but that experience is for bro to have and I’ll find my own. Why would I want what he has when I could procure something of my own that’s authentic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:16 PM
2	Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men? If he thinks she thinks he’s not good enough for her* Even then, if it’s a guy I know with her I’m leaving that be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:09 PM
1	Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's human The reality is, most women want sex as much as men. Additionally, most women on average have many more options and ease of access than men. They’re doing what they want and they’re only being honest about it to the guys that know and accept this reality.. They keep it in the dark as not to be judged by the ones that don’t understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:05 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I can confirm at 7” by 5.5” that my ex just saw me as average. She managed to get with a guy larger than me after we split and stated that he “wasn’t that big”. I seen the damn thing in her Snapchat and id wager he was a good inch longer and half inch thicker. You’re right about one thing.. she watched a whole lot of porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 01:29 PM