Adiesel25 Archive

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3	It’s been a month since my wife cheated on me and asked for a divorce Those feelings will fade, they always do. It’ll just take some time. Try to keep yourself busy so your mind doesn’t wander. Think about possibly giving the dogs to her. Don’t give her a reason to keep coming back into your life and mind fucking you. She was a cost; (Alcoholic, argumentative, unemployed, cheater, liar) definitely not a benefit. Your life is going to be exponentially better now that she’s gone. That guy she cheated with did you a favor, she’s his problem now. Spoiler alert: Her ne…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/24 07:06 AM
5	Meeting my ex wife affair partner for the first time... and... You might want to talk to a lawyer about possibly putting yourself on court ordered child support. She could come back years later and put you on child support if she’s having a difficult time financially, or for any reason. Even if you already paid X amount each month for years, the court won’t care since it wasn’t ordered through the court. You could then be liable for years of back child support, even though you were giving her money the entire time.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 03:52 AM
1	How do I tell my wife I’m leaving? I swear to god, I’m going to start a singing telegram breakup service. The pleasure I would get from verbally trashing while singing to people like your wife would be so gratifying. Sorry she treats you like garbage. This will be better for you in the long run though.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/22 04:59 AM
2	I caught my wife cheating two months ago after we just got back together last year. I filed for divorce now she’s saying she doesn’t want a divorce. It’s really messing with me. “She doesn’t want a divorce.” Tough shit. You didn’t want her to cheat, that didn’t stop her. You wanting to divorce someone that cheated on you twice is more than rational.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/22 07:09 AM
9	Shame and death Please know that grief and sadness come in waves. You’re going through a big wave right now, it’s going to get better soon. Just keep your head above water. Please read the below link, it can help you. https://thelossfoundation.org/grief-comes-in-waves/	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 02:06 PM
1	How do I stop thinking about my former life? That’s exactly why I post that for people going through a rough time. It kinda helps put things in perspective when one is going through a rough time. I’ve posted it a few times now on separate Reddit posts. Hopefully it helps others like it helps me. Glad it helped you, that’s exactly why I continue to post it for people.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/21 04:14 PM
2	How do I stop thinking about my former life? You’re grieving your past life. The pain will fade with time, it just might take awhile. You’ll be ok man, I believe in you. The below might help also. https://mygoodtimestories.com/2016/07/10/coping-with-grief-and-the-shipwrecks-of-life/	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/21 02:52 AM
2	Officially single again today The below might help. https://mygoodtimestories.com/2016/07/10/coping-with-grief-and-the-shipwrecks-of-life/	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/21 04:54 AM
2	Am I overreacting? Yup, she’s definitely blaming you. I bet she couldn’t get an answer from the school either and probably asked another mother/friend. Your kids were sick and missed the hearing test, not the end of the world. Could probably get that done privately if you think it’s an issue. Tell her to calm the f down.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/21 06:50 PM
1	Odd visitation situation, not sure if it's sustainable “The hardest part is having to remind myself everyday that the woman I once loved and respected is gone.” Reminded me of the ‘Grief comes in waves’ explanation. Link listed below. https://thelossfoundation.org/grief-comes-in-waves/	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/21 04:23 AM
12	The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods) Rise of the SHEconomy. https://www.forbes.com/sites/andriacheng/2019/08/22/dont-just-look-at-gen-z-or-millennials-single-women-promise-to-be-formidable-consumers/	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/09/21 02:08 AM
3	My wife left with the kids Glad you’re ok. Definitely don’t do something drastic like that. You’ll get through this man. Sounds like she did you a favor. You’re going to be better off, trust me.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/21 02:28 AM
10	So stupid… She’s the AP’s problem now. That’s how I would view it. That guy did you a favor, he took a problem out of your life. It’s as if you just fast forwarded through years of more problems with her and you went right to the end, like fast forwarding through a movie. Don’t give her the time in your head, be busy with other things. If you could stand to lose some weight and put on muscle, learn about counting macros, weightlifting routines and cardio routines. If you could use more money, try starting …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/21 03:33 AM