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You are either incredibly ugly and you don't realize it, or you have seen the "stud of a man" and don't realize that you think even those kinds of guys are not enough to satisfy your impossible desires. or just lesbian idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:59 AM
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You can just look and tell dude. If you can count their vertebraes yeah of course that's not a healthy weight, and I never said I adore anorexics either. Staying at a healthy weight really isn't that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:04 PM
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They make up like 1% of fat people. Most fat fucks I know are using peoples genuine struggles to delude themselves into thinking that their "eating addiction" is just as serious as an hormonal imbalance or something that causes immobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:59 PM
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If they truly have a condition that makes them immobile/susceptible to weight gain of course I'm not judging them. I'm talking about perfectly healthy people still running and laughing (then huffing and puffing 5 mins later cuz they're fat)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:57 PM
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In short if you're fat you; Lack self control Lack self awareness Lack accountability Lack discipline Are impulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:10 PM
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Being fat is a personality flaw, you lack self control in such a primal way you are an absolute slave to your desires and instincts, barely different than an animal. You can't even think twice and say "maybe this isn't a good way to live" instead you blame the people around you for trying to stop an actively harmful habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:06 PM
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Man Dies Sofocated After Obese Wife Falls on Top of Him and Can't Get Up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:28 PM
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I will never not be fatphobic and I'm not a bully because of it. Body positivity is for ladies with big noses or excesive body hair or short guys with small hands or whatever, not for people that can't stop chugging liters of gravy down their throat every five seconds. Change your diet. Run. Fat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:57 PM
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"Sacha Baron Cohen's unfiltered comedy" and it's just racism lol. Fuck that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:02 PM
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Because thats your type. Just like a goth girl will hang around goth people. I get what you're saying but as I said I see it "all" around me, not just in my circles. we have the statistics to back it up. May I suggest some of them? I couldn't find any, I don't even know what to google to find such a study either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:04 PM
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23, 1.5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:58 PM
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But they are not "few" lol I'm surrounded by these kinds of relationships fuck I am in one, we study completely different fields, have completely different interests yet we are still "compatible" because I just feel tingly inside when I look at her and so does she, I still giggle at her jokes not because I find them funny but because I can't help but giggle, so none of that stuff matters to me at all unless it's a very dangerous "incompatibility" like a history of serial cheating, tendency to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:27 PM
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I have seen so many examples of this not being true in the slightest but whatever makes you think you are a higher being that is not affected by instincts whatsoever unlike the 100% of beings that live on this planet I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:07 PM
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Have at it then. In the classic definition of "compatible", yes. We have similar interests, or have been in the same places together for an amount of time. The whole having similar interests thing comes into play for me if I can't have sex with them, because otherwise there's literally nothing we can do together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:47 AM
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What am I a case study lol what's with all the questions? Sure some of them but all of them are in a relationship and so am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:28 AM
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If she isn't actively trying to kill me or something, yes. When I'm attracted to someone their "icks" or shortcomings or "incompatibilities" just don't bother me all that much unless it's the very serious, self endangering type which I've never had to deal with so far thankfully. And I notice a similar pattern with other people aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:23 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:10 AM
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Compatibility is literally just attraction, you are compatible because you tolerate them because he's eye candy and you just "can't stay mad at those eyes". That's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:08 AM
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Wooooo I'm soooo scaaareeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:38 PM
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Being stylish and dressing well would improve their attractiveness more No it doesn't, those are icings on the cake. If you coat shit with caramella whip cream and put a cherry on top it's still going to smell and taste like shit. You need to have a good body to style yourself in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:02 PM
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Switch the genders, would you say the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:59 PM
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If you think you don't get attention from Beta Billy's you are either way more unattractive than you realize or those are not Beta Billy's, rather chadlite's orbiting stacy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:23 PM
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Most feminists I know claim that they are the fairer sex and that all men are inherently evil rapists pedophiles so...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:48 PM
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Unironically yes. They blame Elon Musk, Trump, Vancewhatever, which is true yes they are among the ones to blame, but not because they are guilty but because they share the same physical characteristics as the undesirable men that they get repulsed from everyday. I've never seen a woman criticise Alex Karp, Peter Thiel, Daniel Gilbert, Robert Pera... Sure they are not the most attractive men on the planet but nowhere near as comically weird like the guys I mentioned before. Fuck, remember how ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:12 PM
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Not as much as ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:59 PM
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Women uphold the ruling class by actively rewarding their behaviour; you would never see them lashing out against an attractive billionaire like they do to an unattractive male, or any man attractive for that matter. Instead they write thousand page long smuts about them. Most women's ideologies subconsciously center around what is trendy now and what makes them, well, "wet". Because that is the best survival strategy for a woman, keep your head down, blend in the crowd, try to have sex with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:57 PM
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No she did not lol. I'm not on this shit 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:47 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:56 PM
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Didn't see anyone proving otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:56 PM
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The world in general is in a bad state right now if you're not in the top 15% of humans in terms of economic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:56 PM
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The ruling class aren't exactly "undesirable" are they? Even if they're ugly they usually get married with someone attractive (because they're rich) then their offspring, the next ruling class, usually inherit atleast some of the features of the attractive parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:53 PM
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I believe that most women are simply incapable of holding a genuine ideological stance, instead they use political incidents to merely push their agenda that undesirable men are responsible for it all somehow. Not once can you spot a women making actual criticism, they usually just attack on the physical features of the guy responsible, their height their face their weight... and if a woman is responsible, well it gets shutdown pretty quick because that would ruin the whole "body positivist" mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:05 PM
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The nonexistent kind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:00 PM
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If half the shit that was on the released files were on the news 50 years ago we'd have blood on the streets. Yet right now nobody's doing fucking anything at all. Zero protests. The americans have truly been numbed (before you say why aren't you in the streets I'm not even from the us nor am I in the us rn).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:56 PM
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I literally can not understand the story you were trying to tell but I guess what you were trying to say is that men make more fun of men than women right? I mean that may geniunely be true in some places but from my experiences is that men are more direct with it, they tell it to your face, joke about it etc. Women won't say a thing to your face but will absolutely clown on you harder than any man can with "the girls" behind your back, they even tell the most private, most embarrassing details …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:48 PM
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But you see dying your hair blue and being fat are not immutable traits that you can't change. You can always lose weight and stop dying your hair. You can't not be short however; that's the difference between when men make fun of a political figures appearance versus women. Men usually make fun of more "self inflicted" flaws like being fat, having a weak body, having poor posture... All largely fixable things. Even the image above is making fun of immutable traits like a recessed jaw, hollow ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:42 PM
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What is this supposed to imply, that I like Andrew Cuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:25 PM
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Some big bad ICE agent gets outed as 5'5 and all the people are attacking his height, his "napoleon complex" and his "short angry man syndrome" or whatever the fuck instead of him being a literal nazi piece of shit. At this point I don't even believe women have any actual solid political views, they just use it to lash out on unattractive men every opportunity they get. Then they blame men (despite the fact that just as many women voted for trump too) for how they lost the election to that fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:47 AM
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after they turn 25+*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:56 AM
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...do you "hate" things without knowing about it? I mean, you gotta know about what you hate to hate otherwise why hate it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:08 PM
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"Monster" and it's a 6'4 dude with a perfectly human, perfect body that just happens to have an unsual skin complexion lmao. Like even the facial features are almost perfect what do you fucking mean "monster".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:09 PM
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It's only toxic when it's done by men they don't want*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:03 PM
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Bunch of illiterate mfs that can't put two words together if not for their bo-bot. You're gonna forget how to think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:44 PM
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Height is a symbol of status for both women AND men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:04 PM
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Why, exactly? What is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:15 PM
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"Emotional intelligence" is just agreeing with whatever they say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:00 PM
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This is an incredibly unhealthy way to look at relationships, and I'm saying this as a blackpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:59 PM
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You are put into more positions where it might be necessary commit some kind of crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:00 PM
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Put a man in a desperate situation he's gonna act desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:40 AM
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Women are simply not interested in most men lol, or atleast at first sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:59 AM
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But unfortunately they usually don't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:03 PM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:13 PM
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Everything leads to sex evenutally, or rather trying to increase your chances of having sex. Also we cease existing if we don't reproduce like how hard is it to understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:07 PM
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I don't think there's a single person in here actually living and writing from those countries lol. Of course you have to stick to america/west
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:54 PM
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Are these tall incels with good faces in the room with us right now? Unless they're super-duper-can't-even-look-people-in-the-eye autistic or live in a monastery they're bound to get atleast some attention from women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:30 PM
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Hush now you can't say that, don't you know that women are kind, emphatetic, virtous angelic beings that can do nor say no wrong? Also I noticed the word hypergamy somewhere in your comment so I'm gonna call you an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:50 PM
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Yeah well we all know that but it does work like that. Can you remove that Blue Pill flair it irritates me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:21 AM
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"Holy insecurity Batman" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:12 PM
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Woman are you retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:40 PM
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Well that's an entirely different topic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:33 PM
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...wife? If she aint working she should cook is that really too much to ask lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:33 PM
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I assumed she was not, otherwise things get more complicated like who works more, has a more physically demanding job etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:24 PM
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So you are fully okay with having someone in your house living basically for free? Are you drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:23 PM
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I'm sorry but if someone is working 8 hours a day bringing money to the house the least you can do is cook something for them when they get back; why are you people so anti commune? Why must everything be individiualized why aren't people allowed to help each other OR not expected to help each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:08 PM
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But it wasn't some low life villager that had harems of women all working/fucking for them was he? It's pretty much the "winners" that have been abusing women, because they had access to women in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:50 AM
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It's a metaphor you moron. "with change" what change? I didn't lose anything, as far as I know I didn't even have it. I can't remember a single instance in my life where I was favored because I was a man, other than my physical strength. If anything we'd get treated worse compared to girls especially in schools and still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:18 PM
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"now that it's changed", "for so long", "they can't handle it" Dude how old do you think we are? Privilege was long gone when most of us were born. Are we supposed to die for our (grand)fathers sins?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:10 PM
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If you actually think sex is only 1% of relatilonship I feel very sorry for your significant other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:18 AM
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You cant be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:27 PM
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Women don't want "good". Hell our lives are comparable to mediveal kings with our comfortable beds, tasty food and general security. What women want is "better". It doesn't matter how good the general situation is, if a man can't provide better, or literally be look better, then they wont be with that man. No matter how much society improves women will always want the ones at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:46 AM
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"Women like monster romance because they can see the beauty within" and the monster is a 6'7", wide framed, lean built, six-packed, and has the bone structure of a greek statue. "Beauty within" my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:37 PM
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I cranked to kamala a couple times too 's aight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:34 PM
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Is your jawline sharp and do you have one of those perpetually smiley looking faces?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:26 PM
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1) It's 63% of dating age men, plus older couples don't count because they belong in a different time where women needed men or when that idea was still entrenched into women's minds. 2)Really? So are rape statistics just "snapshots" too? Every piece of data is invalid now because it's a "snapshot". Lol 3)So why aren't they in one? Why the huge discrepancy between young men and women? Simple. Women are dating the same tall, handsome guys, or older guys for their money. I mean I'm studying in col…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:31 PM
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In a study done by pew research center 63% of men under 30 are single, compared to only 30% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:24 PM
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there’s some woman out there who’s looks threshold you’ll meet and pass. Not for 63% of men apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:28 PM
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...but if you can't get your foot through the door you don't even have the chance to be let inside? I don't know how you people keep spewing the same words over and over again yet refuse to see how even your own example suggests that yes, looks are pretty much the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:16 AM
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It's mind boggling how many people are still in denial about the importance of looks in not just dating but life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:48 AM
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If all around me was fat saggy women with no curves I'd just go masturbate no matter how sexually frustrated I got
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:06 PM
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But they're in the relationship on the premise that their boyfriend/husband will get better and then eventually start working again . It's just a matter of how long they can tolerate. Otherwise it's just hypergamy with extra steps; she's a cashier? She wants a manager. She is a manager? She wants the store owner etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:38 PM
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Because there are no feminists who'd gladly take a stay at home partner lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:44 PM
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<image> Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:19 PM
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" i am objectively very attractive" She was infact, not very objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:39 AM
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A man yells at a woman, who do you come to defend? A woman yells at a man, who do you come to defend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:23 PM
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I'm not OP, but yes I guess. So many people still seem to hold the belief that women are "virtuous angels, embodiment of innocence, capable of doing no wrong, and even if they do wrong they do for a reason". When people talk about homophobia they talk about male homophobes when people talk about bullying they always mention male bullies etc. Completely ignoring female perpetrators of hatred and violence of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:02 PM
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I don’t think women who read smut do it to the same degree how did you come to this conclusion? From what I just searched and read from their posts and comments is that they're reading almost every chance they get. More extreme than once a day every night porn consumption, not saying it's a good thing obv.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:21 PM
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men who are ugly or mid and were given a chance from a hot gal ok I've never seen this in my entire life except in shitty self insert romcoms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:11 PM
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Girls are infact, not very flexible and most of the "issues" they find is an excuse to not say "I don't find you hot enough" and lose their virtue points.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:10 PM
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what the fuck man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:27 PM
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Ok no one over the age of 12 believes or has ever believed this, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:49 AM
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ur mom begs to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:51 AM
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In the college cafeteria, overheard some andrew tate looking (only taller, and actually had a chin) dude joking how her 4'11 ex was "basically just a fleshlight" with a bunch of girls. They all laughed hysterically. The worst part is I've seen those girls before, they're in the womens rights club I think, saw them plastering posters on the walls for their seminars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:47 PM
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The photos are kind of weird lol, pride picture looks "happy" aswell. Bogus study imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:03 PM
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I mean smiling still increases your chances, probably because of the things you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:03 PM
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Hm, just based upon the links you gave me, showing teeth is still attractive, only for women. The whole teeth thing for men might stem from social norms rather than pure attraction like the study says.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:03 PM
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"Just smile more" is basically saying "look better" cuz when you smile; Your lower eye lids are raised Your cheekbones are enlargened Your jawline becomes more prominent Your chin becomes more prominent Your jaw appears wider bonus points if you have decent teeth. You are showcasing another attractive trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:31 PM
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Huh, what's gonna happer after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:50 AM
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"Nope, I will not engage in any conversation that makes me uncomfortable and challanges my world views, now I'm going to point out an irrelevant coincidence and call you one of the few hundred buzzwords" LISTEN TO WAHMEN, BASEMENT DWELLER!!1!1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:08 AM
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Not op, but you're autistic so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:40 PM
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<image> this is how you bluepilled mf's look sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:06 AM
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cranked up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:29 PM
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...you're still not giving any relevant answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:07 PM
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Makes you seem even more stupid, ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:16 PM
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This response has nothing to do with the comment you're responding to. You know exactly what he's talking about, yet you pretend you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:15 PM
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are you gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:44 PM
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In my country being a sex worker is totally legal however using their services is not because lawmakers are brainwashed misandrists. wait how does that even work?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:47 PM
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This is bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:56 AM
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I saw a women calling men "rape beasts" and she had dozens of upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:57 PM
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I'm as blackpilled as they come but what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:31 PM
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Good looking guys rather seen as nice until proven the opposite Bad looking guys rather seen as assholes until proven the opposite fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:25 AM
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Is... is anyone over 30 a senior to you? no, but they belong in a different generation, thus irrelevant. only men not in long term relationship or married nowhere in the study nor in your picture is there anything about what you just mentioned. It clearly states "committed relationships", not long term, nor does it specify any time frame about what is considered a committed relationship. Even your own picture says "The higher rate of single men is a specific to a younger age group". I mean 18-30…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:47 PM
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"Definition of single... ...not in a committed relationship" ???? suppose they are "dating", does it even matter if they can't get anything more out of it than just a cup of coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:37 AM
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Claims it's inaccurate and proceeds to show why it is lol. "Age matters" lmao. Of course older men are married/in relationships because they belong in a different generation. Do you think this sub is talking about the sex life of seniors?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:36 AM
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how do you know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:26 PM
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Men already admit that personality and morality has fucks do with how much you wanna fuck her. Women on the other hand tie sexual success to ethics and say it has nothing do with looks. I mean just look at this. You will not find a single post like this made by a man about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:02 PM
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Average ppd user is 300 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:57 PM
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Then he's gonna be the neglectful husband and in a divorce case he's gonna have to pay alimony. You seriously think this would work? World would implode over a movement like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:06 AM
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Do you find people generally attractive? as expected, women only find like 0.01% of guys attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:49 AM
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...but when I get my messages from actual relationships in real life you people call me a blackpilled incel misognynst whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:04 PM
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"man dies, woman most affected"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:53 PM
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It's not you I responded to it's u/Patrickstarho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:35 PM
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Middle aged radfem larping as a man. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:49 PM
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...and that's when your face comes in. Since you don't need need to be shirtless to show your personality face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:15 PM
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Had the exact same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:35 PM
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Well by that logic we should just say fuck it all, dismantle society, let robbers rob, killers kill, rapists rape and when you are eventually a victim of that tell yourself that you're not entitled to anything and accept your fate like the good "independent individual" you are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:38 PM
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Who is gonna pay for your retirement when you turn 60+? Who's gonna take care of you in the nursing homes, who's gonna be the country's next generation workforce? With your logic it's gonna be immigrants from those societies "where women have no choice". You'll get replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:37 PM
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HAHAAA. My first relationship was with a girl that approached me first back when I was 17, cuz of my looks . Then she proceeded to ignore/undermine everything about my personality, hobbies, likes and dislikes... for 2 years til I had enough. Basically a trophy boyfriend, just for showing around and fucking (sometimes). The later 2 relationships weren't any different and today most of my friends situations seems to be similar. Now is every woman like that? Nah, ofcourse not. Think my mom's pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:49 PM
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Woman scammed out of £700,000 after believing she was dating Brad Pitt. This happened literally this year. There are probably dozens more not popular/undocumented cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:41 PM
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Nah it's more like 64th most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:39 PM
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Smaller stature and softer features aren't penalized for women, men on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:51 AM
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Exactly, just 5-6 years ago most people would crucify you for even briefly mentioning looks in a dating discourse, now people pretend it's always been so "obvious". Yeah it was, to me and a lot of other people, but now that the large majority is learning about the importance of physical features, ratios, labels and terms they try to gaslight us like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:29 PM
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It's not the payment processorts themselves mind you, it's Collective Shout, a bunch of braindead middle aged old school feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:36 AM
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I geniunely think most of ya'll are retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:27 PM
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Can you say the same about black people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:12 AM
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huh, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:41 PM
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It’s no bother haha, truly spoken like someone that never had to ask out (or face a violent rejection) could be fun even if nothing grows out of it Except something grows out of it, and it's not fun at all. Asking out randoms? (shitty strat imo) You are labeled a creep Asking out in bars/clubs? At best everybody's looking at you funny the entire night, at worst you're getting kicked out. Asking out friends? Congrats, you dismantled the entire group, or got yourself cast out. Asking out coworkers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:35 PM
14

haha sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:31 PM
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I'm 6'1, I workout, got in a decent college (in my country). Of course I want something better than the 200 lbs insensitive book nerd that asked me out in high school and took advantage of my low self esteem for the entire 2 years of us being together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:29 PM
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Sending out CV's isn't the same as risking your social life and image.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:25 PM
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You fail a 100 times why try for a 101st?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:00 PM
2

aren't we talking about dating here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:54 PM
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it's pretty damn obvious and you go talk to somebody else well there's nobody else, that's the problem for most men. Women are simply not interested in the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:47 PM
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Most women are not looking for boring. If the girl is into him, she'll lose her shit even to the lamest jokes of his. The problem is not being "boring" it's "looking boring". Most guys just don't look good enough for girls, and it's not even a problem you can fix it's simply human nature; only the best males get to mate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:42 PM
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Can't really talk if the converstation hasn't started yet, no? The message is clear; Look amazing, or leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:39 PM
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Juice ain't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:12 PM
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the classic pedo convo "an 18 is perfectly capable of consenting! there's nothing wrong with a 30y/o and an 18 y/o women are just jealous" blablabla you said it right there ^ are you retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:35 AM
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*compared to actual work. Otherwise it is indeed time consuming and can be hard, if you are also working. Which is why I say if you're housewife with nothing else to do, if both of them are working it should be a split. As for childcare, both parents should spend time with their children, I specifically meant more "chore" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:27 PM
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there is a gendered division of labour. because most women just can't carry a fucking fridge Whereas the daily running of a household is a constant, and thankless thing. I've been cooking, cleaning, doing my own laundry, studying on top of taking care of my mother since I was 16. I'd assume looking after kid(s) as a wife is easier than taking care of a half disabled adult woman while you're trying to make your own life and get into college. And you know what? I still prefer 10 years cooking and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:03 AM
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cute dog
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:20 PM
3

damn :/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:06 PM
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Good luck finding one that isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:27 PM
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but then you find out he is bisexual and now he "wasn't clear from the start" and "manipulated you for so long".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:57 AM
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cute cat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:31 PM
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%10-15 of guys have %80 of sex. Men that pay for of is probably less than %1. I literally don't know a single man in my life that has paid in any form for any kind of porn let alone onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:29 PM
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hello? Based department?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:25 PM
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They're not physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:23 PM
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muah love you mah boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:57 PM
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You're not an asshole. You're ugly You're not boring and with no personality. You're ugly. You lack social skills, because you're ugly. Moral of the story is that you're ugly. Maybe rude too since ugly people are mistreated in almost every facet of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:25 PM
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There's none.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:02 AM
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I bet that strawman feels really defeated right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:31 PM
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Women are people too and I fucking hate people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:26 AM
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every man thinks this op say "men" in general in their post, so they think so and you support op's claims. he says "no one" is doing these things and acts like the OP is making shit up if some obscure comment that 99.99% of people would disagree with is enough to make you demonize an entire half of the population then I'm sorry you've got bigger problems than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:28 PM
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Lol, lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:21 PM
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*an obscure comment with no visible upvotes and most probably downvoted to hell* hmm yes, this must be what every gags male thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:19 PM
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smartest PPD woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:17 PM
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There is currently a subreddit about small boobs that has 1.2 MILLION members.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:25 AM
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Most don't have sex let alone with multiple women to know vaginas can differ, what did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:54 AM
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"Short" as in 5'9 probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:40 PM
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Well yeah, only few of them are. 1 man can seminate 10 women in a week so the rest of the remaining 9 are just dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:40 AM
3

...are short men bisexual? What kinda weird logic is that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:13 PM
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is it's usually straight men with a sexual fetish of other men. what the fuck that is the stupidest shit I've ever heard. Those men are bisexual they are not "straight men" with a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:11 PM
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Attractive man walks up grinning: What are you drinking? I’m not going to buy you one, I just think it looks good. Lmao no. Imagine if a 5'5 balding guy with a receeding chin said that. He would be accused of invading personal space and being too nosy or something. You people really like to think it is anything but simply some chemicals in your brain telling you how to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:21 PM
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But that's true? Look at every answer over here it's all skinny and lean lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:29 AM
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Nah he's def a troll. He's funny atleast, unlike some others which shall not be named
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:18 AM
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Why? It already happened in places like Korea and Japan, and from the looks (and statistics) of it, we're going down the exact same road.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:56 PM
2

You know talking with paranthesis a lot is vaguely indicative of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:31 PM
3

*cricket noises*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:27 PM
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How are you "light blue pill" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:10 PM
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Sure, you have to "like" the guy to stay in that relationship. However, looks can strongly influence the way we perceive personality. He could really not be that special, or maybe someone she would even like, but she would still keep dating him because "there's something about him", and that something is usually his jawline, or shoulders, or eyes whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:32 PM
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like the looks of the guy*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:22 PM
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63% of men aged between 18-30 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:51 PM
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What's a "switch"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:53 PM
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We have barely evolved in 12.000 years, let alone 12. I think it still is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:19 PM
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...you can literally just read it. As for a link: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/236670565_The_height_of_choosiness_Mutual_mate_choice_for_stature_results_in_suboptimal_pair_formation_for_both_sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:11 PM
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<image> just lemme drop this here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:39 AM
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Rare lillth W
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:21 AM
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but usually it isn’t enough to make someone change their mind about whether the person is attractive. This should be plastered all over the social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:13 PM
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men with feminine features No, what you define as feminine are literally just pouty lips, pretty noses, pretty eyes etc. Those are not "feminine". They are not indicative of high estrogen. They're just features independent from a persons gender. An actual feminine man is a man with high bf%, gynecomastia, narrow shoulders, wide hips... I mean come on, those "feminine" men mostly have all the desired masculine features like height, sharp jawline, broad shoulders, lean/muscular body type, low body…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:43 PM
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Based and house pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:08 PM
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No they don't jesus christ people have linked countless of studies that say they don't what is so hard about accepting that maybe, just maybe, women have a much higher threshold for looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:40 AM
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Why do I even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:43 PM
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Idk it's become like ptsd or someshit. The moment I see the word "windmill" I am instantly reminded of her (or him) now. You are kinda right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:40 PM
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BAN. THIS. WOMAN. She is a troll!! Jesus are mods asleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:34 PM
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I would like to hear those explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:53 PM
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Like or fuck bad boys all you like idc, the problem is when those men turn out to be just "bad" in general and hurts the women in some way, those women don't seem to grasp that it isn't all men that's bad but their choices in men. I think that behaviour is very deserving of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:02 AM
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Well 17 women reproduced for every one man also this post is a good read if you wanna dive deeper into this: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/cHEQSEPz4eipGHFy9/differential-reproduction-for-men-and-women Today’s human population is descended from twice as many women as men. I think this difference is the single most under-appreciated fact about gender. To get that kind of difference, you had to have something like, throughout the entire history of the human race, maybe 80% of women but only 40% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:06 PM
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Make it a 100 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:03 AM
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Can we just ban this woman? Like she's obviously a troll and this is not the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:09 PM
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It's not that fucking hard to hover your mouse a few centimeters jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:23 AM
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"Emotional breakdown" lmao. You are fixating on an irrelevant part of my comment, avoiding the actual point. Just like you did on your first reply, dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:14 PM
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You see, they came far enough to be blocked. Most men don't even get to show who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:27 PM
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Most intelligent twox participant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:25 PM
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Well his wife does. Also you're not supposed to find Jeff Bezos attractive dumbass, I gave him as an example because he's a billionaire, and no matter how powerful you are your wife or girlfriend or whatever will never be actually attracted to you. Do you even know how to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:19 PM
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No, this LITERALLY proves that it IS true. No, it doesnt? Most guys are just okay people with okay personalities. Reason 80% don't get dates is women aren't turned on by anything else other than one specific type of guy, tall, angular face, lean body, low bodyfat etc. It doesn't matter if you're Jeff fucking Bezos your wife will still simp over Leo Dicaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:00 PM
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huh.. fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:13 PM
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...circumcision? I mean we are mutilating babies' on masse because religion or some "medical" bullshit. Sound familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:26 PM
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They could cheat, means they had options. Means they were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:23 PM
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The sky is blue, water is wet, and bp women are delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:26 PM
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"Waste women's time" You know you can just, not answer, not read? Why the hell are you in a debating sub if the act of debating is a waste of time for you. You don't debate with people you agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:21 PM
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You can't, we're just doomed. Or rather most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:28 PM
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You see, it's not about being good. It's about being better. It wouldn't matter if the average guy was a 6'1 model faced trust fund kid no, women'll still go for the 6'4+ and even better looking, richer guys. I mean most peoples lives today, access to the amount of resoursces they have is comparable to medieval kings. Yet it's not enough for women because as I said they want the "better" not the "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:23 AM
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Hm, I think I get it, kind of. I looked at your other comments and I think you are right about balding, narrow shoulders etc. stuff that wouldn't occur or be a problem for women. But what about height and face? Those 2 things are almost guaranteed to be carried on, to a varying degree. If ugly women still keep breeding we can never get rid of ugly genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:00 PM
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...so you are saying women with bad genes is still gonna reproduce and somehow they will not carry those genes to the next gen? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:55 AM
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Exactly, if we're gonna eliminate, "shortcomings", we should work on both men AND women. I mean my dad is 6'3 (189) and my mom is like 5'3(160), I came out as 5'11"(181) but my brother aint so lucky with the 5'8 (1.72) and there is a lot of difference in treatment between him and me from other people, even tho he has a better face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:49 AM
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Well that because it's the only real answer lol. %99 of dating discourse would cease to exist if every guy was 6+ with model faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:22 AM
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I've been in these blackpill circles for a couple of years now, who in the fuck in their right minds actually demand a "government mandated gf"? It's a meme at best lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:01 PM
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I see less and less people here, guess they stopped arguing with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:38 PM
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Some maniac decapitated 2 girls in my country for some satanic stuff and there are already dozens of twitter people defending him cuz he has "innocent eyes" or some sh. The world is fucked man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:17 PM
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His son is gonna be real mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:21 AM
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May I get links for those "studies" you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:20 AM
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It's not about being attractive in itself, but relative to other men. Women don't want "attractive" men, they want the men that are more attractive than the other men. So, even if we modified genetics to fit current days standards, I'm assuming there'll still be a bit of variation with race and general features, women will still go for the top %20-15 (and usually white guys) no matter how attractive the average guy is. Average height for example, was 5'7 a few hundred years ago, so a 5'10 guy wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:13 AM
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oh wait I can't my bones are in the wrong place!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:48 PM
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Yeah gotta rack up those kill counts amirite ladies. Omw to be Richard Ramirez brb
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:47 PM
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It is about the looks bros, you can be the most degenerate asshole to ever press foot on this planet, you'll still get attention if you look good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:07 PM
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4chan slang word for males.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:05 PM
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Well 6+ with a model face is a niche since it's pretty fucking rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:41 PM
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You had me until the "out in the world" part. Not convinced bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:16 PM
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...you are saying that almost every man you know would rape if there was no consequences, yes? If you geniunely think like that you are fucked in the head girl, or just projecting your fetish idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:26 AM
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Consider how some people don't photograph well, but when you see them in person, in three dimensions, in movement, interacting with their environment and with other people, that same person could be magnetic, drawing you in. That's literally becuase that person has softer facial features. Not jawless inkwell soft, but a jaw bir on the rounder side, or not very high cheekbones etc. Those kinds of faces are also more prone to lens distortion On soft faces, especially in still images, it is not ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:23 AM
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If you are above the looks threshold that's when the personality matters. A 5'5 ogre faced dude ain't pulling no one no matter how alpha beta omega sigma whateverthefuckma he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:08 AM
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There's no FUCKING WAY that's what you made out of this. How can you tell someone is "capable of changing blah blah" when you first see them??! You don't! It takes months, maybe even years to ACTUALLY know a person. Why can't you just accept that attractive men have hell of a lot of advantage in life? Like what the fuck is so unacceptable about it?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:05 AM
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only good looking* You can literally be a good looking serial killer yet you'll have A LOT more options than a normal guy with an average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:23 PM
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Elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:12 AM
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60 40 1 -1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:44 PM
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It's not a bad thing yes, but acting like you earned it all by yourself is the annoying thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:39 PM
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Almost everything else that matters is heavily affected by looks, such as your personality, wealth and status. Which makes it pretty much the most important matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:31 PM
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Bro do you live in Cuckistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:46 AM
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This sounds like a fetish tbh. Do female cucks exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:36 AM
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Damn bruh, does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:13 PM
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How many times a day? For how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:17 PM
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How do you dickmaxx lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:50 PM
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Eh, I don't think this is really anyones fault. It's our nature, we are realizing it now because of internet and severely increased amount of options for women, meaning it is more amplified than it ever was in any part of civilized history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:31 PM
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I don't think average men were swimming in women at any time period at all, it was just more likely they would find a partner because the internet and dating apps didn't exist. Today women have increased options and even more increased standards because of it. As for me I was ugly, now I look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:22 PM
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Did I work on myself? Yes, but did I put myself out there? Absolutely not. I was literally asked out. And guys I know that put themselves out there, especially average/below average guys, aren't any more succesful than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:12 PM
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I was fat, I was a teen. I'm 22 now. Had a glowup, I'm no "Chad" of course but most people I know seems to think I look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:05 PM
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Except I am not? This is purely based on my previous experiences as an ugly teen, and my observation of friends now. The only reason I had my first relationship wasn't because I was funny or smt, I was in a book fair in my college and this girl just asked my insta. In other words "it just happened". Most of my average/below average friends don't get approached, and when they approach/ask out themselves they get rejected lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:52 PM
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Can we just accept it is over for the average guy now? I'm GenZ, and it seems like no girl wants nothing do with you unless you are above average in most physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:41 PM
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You were probably a good looking child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:57 AM
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Oh god I got jumpscared by that picture. How is anyone willing to date them??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:27 PM
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If you are good fisherman with a genetically bigger net yeah. Most men don't have big fishnets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:21 PM
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Wakey wakey little joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:29 AM
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Considering the fact that qualities that women find attractive outside of looks, such as wealth, personality and status, is heavily influenced by looks, it's safe to say people in general greatly undermine the importance of looks. Like you are doing now. Even your fricking prison sentences and the level of care you get in hospitals is affected by it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:16 PM
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The issue isn't that these matter, it's the way people deny it. Man talks about his struggles in dating, and the second he involves his looks/money/status he's declared as an ultra fascist misogynist incel and that he should die and he has a horrible personality or whatever whatever. Gaslighting drives people crazy, to observe a phenomenon almost daily, only to be told by most people that it doesn't happen that way and it's all in your head. Literally feels like someone says 2+2=5 is true except…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:57 PM
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"Your anectodal experiences don't count unless you provide me with a study, which I will deny its legitimacy and circle around the result to assume something else is going on. My anectodal experiences are fine though, because they align with my views and everybody knows my views are right."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:49 PM
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Jesus fucking christ dude, hope you're doing good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:46 PM
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That's where you're wrong. Women approach men they find attractive. Most men aren't attractive to them, so that's why men think women don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:10 AM
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Not that I really saw any examples of those said relationships, but if I were to see one what else should I assume? What else can a man do to be attractive to that woman? Elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:06 AM
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...you seriously think Christianity is being replaced by Islam? By immigrant population? Maybe. But it's not exactly replacing religion it's replacing population. I don't see how anyone in their right mind would defy one religion and preach another. Considering the fact that Christianity is basically Islam just a bit more modernized because it's more open to "changes" in its structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:15 PM
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So is homosexuality an insult now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:09 PM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:38 AM
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Preach brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:14 PM
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Give me ONE (1) example of a guy that saved someone and then became the local chad or something. I can list dozens of instances where the guy was the one assaulting and he got more positive attention after that; Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer, Richard Ramirez, Edmund Kemper... To list some less gruesome ones; Cameron Herrin, Jeremy Meeks, Jordan Barret (yes, he was scouted when he was shoplifting). Search up all of these names, hell pretty sure you'd find more examples while researching about them. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:08 PM
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It's another human being, which might be potentially just as dangerous as the person attacking them. Which I don't know if they are or not because they are a STRANGER, I don't KNOW them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:12 AM
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Lmao "as hot and courageous heroes." If I see someone risking themselves for a stranger I'll not see them as heroes I'll see them as stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:01 AM
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If you see someone getting mugged or assaulted, you'll do nothing? Why should I risk potentially getting seriously injured/dying for a stranger I don't know at all? That's not morals or ethics or whatever. That's stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:58 AM
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Yeah, exactly. He's an attractive felon, with the tattoos, nice physique. This just proves looks matters above all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:26 AM
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Oh my fucking god I get it now. Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:21 PM
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Is this, personal attack in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:21 PM
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Meeks attracted a billionaire's daughter by becoming a felon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:19 PM
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Oh boy, women do approach guys they think are hot all the time. It's just most men aren't hot to women, hence why men think they don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:00 PM
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Also true, there are endless possibilites for the shitty stuff he could do/that could be done to him if he was an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:43 AM
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The average height for CEO's is 6', physically attractive people, on average, earn 15% more than their colleagues, physical attractiveness is also significantly correlated with lower prison sentences for the same crime (documented studies show up to 304.88% increase in sentencing for the same crime if the convict is not attractive). People are more likely to trust you in just about everything the more attractive you are. Studies show time and time again that attractive people, attractive men eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:40 AM
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How old are you and your friends? I'm genz and no genz women wants to do anything with you if you're not attractive. Plus genz is taller on average (depending on the country, definetely so in mine), so the guys you see as not "that tall" might be in the percentage bracket as the 5'11"-6'+ guys are in today, the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:34 AM
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"Very slightly"? Just look up Jeremy Meeks, has a murderous dad, born in the shittiest parts of the slums, ffw to 2000's dude beats a 16 year old to a pulp, steals a car and a gun, police catch him and his mugshot is released then WHAM, he's famous because he's good looking. Hundreds of love letters everyday, gets bailed by a millionaire's daughter, starts modeling and earns more in a month than you would ever earn in your whole life. If he was just an average looking guy, he'd probably die long…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:27 AM
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There is not unless the guy is 6+ and looks like chris hemsworth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:08 AM
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That we aren't practicing lawless, ruleless mate selection, and that this isn't the way "nature intended".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:18 PM
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The rules are against MOST men, not all. In the animal world the only thing seperating strong from the weak is physical strength which makes you right about even less males reproducing, but as humans we are too smart for our own good. There is no strong correlation between attractiveness, height, or general body proportions with intelligence (symmetry is correlated though). Which means the average guy is more of a danger than lets say the average chimp; the "Chad" chimp can mate all he wants and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:26 PM
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No market is truly "free". Free market by definiton is "an unregulated system of economic exchange, in which taxes, quality controls, quotas, tariffs, and other forms of centralized economic interventions by government either do not exist or are minimal.", but we made rules and regulations so people in power don't get to abuse it (easily). If we were to define today's dating as a free market it would mean people should be allowed to do ANYthing to get what they want. Which isn't true, and it sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:37 AM
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Well there is no way to reduce that libido unless you reduce testosterone, the very thing that makes women attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:55 AM
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Then it isn't a "free" market now is it? It's a controlled market with rules. The rules are mostly against men. If we were to truly go for a "free market" we'd either collapse in 10 years or have a cyberpunk dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:52 AM
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<image> this chart would clean things up I guess. As for evidence, a couple of OLD statistics and my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:18 PM
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women are all in fact dating the same guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:13 PM
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Yeah actually. It's more like serial monogamy + "side bitches". Best looking of my friends usually have 2-3 women on the side, "The Chad" I saw in college actually had like 15! While the average and below basically have none, not even normal relationships. Atleast that's the situation with genz.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:51 PM
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Yeah I guess, it might go a bit higher than 20% as the numbers go down but it won't change a whole lot. From my experiences it doesnt matter how many guys there are or how good the average guy is, what matters is there are above average men and they are the only ones worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:45 PM
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Idk man, getting hundreds of love letters everyday doesn't sound very minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:33 PM
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They do however, want to date taller than average. It's just the option of 6' seems catchy to women. Sure 5'11 is also tall but it's all about the labels. Just like it is 180 cm in Europe, it's the "minimum" like in US except 180 cm is 5'11". All about labels
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:58 PM
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Looks are filter. A good photo covered in shit is still covered in shit. And people go by this rule, even you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:55 PM
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...which are all mostly induced by women. It's not like men want to bottle up their feelings, when we don't sometimes even our own mothers gets disgusted. My mom, which I took care of for 14 years for an ilness that I won't go into details , told me that I should "just man up and stop whining" when I said her condition (and me spending my time and effort) was affecting my education and my future. Oh also she would complain about my dad 24/7, how he was talking about his struggles at work (he wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:46 PM
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Well it's the 18-29 age range. A pretty big range if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:02 PM
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It is really rare for a person to not interact with others and be bullied. Have you ever been to school? You seriously can't say this unless you're homeschooled or something. Ugly boys get hate for simply existing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:58 PM
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Nobody likes "bad" men. A man is only bad if he's unattractive. Attractive men can be serial killers all they want, they'll still get 100 times the attention that the average guy gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:56 PM
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Thing is, these posts as you can see get thousands, hundred thousands hell sometimes millions of likes, which means that many people agreeing with it. You're seriously telling me that I should not be alarmed when there are millions of women internally thinking about "striking down" on me, cheating on me with my taller friends and many more fucked up stuff. "Some" people aren't shitty. All people are shitty, just in varying degrees, of admitting they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:53 PM
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If 99% of women are incompatible with 80% of men what the hell are we supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:44 PM
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There is all kind of men having relationships with all kind of women everywhere.... Oh jesus this argument over and over again yet no proof of it. 63% of men are SINGLE, compared to only 34% of women. Nobody dates "all" kind of men they just date the traditionally masculine, tall, attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:42 PM
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They're just reciting verses at this point. They're all saying the same thing over and over again and not a single answer when they're proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:35 PM
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Never believe what people say, believe what they do. If almost every guy I know and I've read on the internet had anectodal experiences that seems to confirm the comment above, there's probably a truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:34 PM
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It won't matter because women will still go for the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:09 PM
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This is the most juvenile question. My good looking and someone else’s good looking are totally different. Why TF do men not get this? Can you share me an example of a man you find good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:49 AM
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What is it with claiming victimship for previous generations? Yes women were definetely oppressed, and yes it sucked to be one back then. But are you oppressed now? I assume you are a living in a western country, who forces you to get married, to submit to a man, to stay in the kitchen? Who excludes you from education? If anything there are more education programs now for girls then there ever was for boys. Who discriminates you in academics, while 74.3% of teachers are WOMEN. Who ignores your r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:02 PM
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"Short" as in the average height or maybe slightly lower in the US lol. 5'9 aint short.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:17 AM
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Well that's called facing the reality. As I said before no amount of improvement is gonna fix the life of a 5'5 dude that looks like an ogre. Unless he becomes stupid rich but even then women will just want her money, not to forget the fact that becoming stupid rich is even harder than getting jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:34 PM
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It's either bait like other people say or the girl is extremely unaware. Nothing else to discuss lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:54 PM
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No matter how much you "hustle" it's not gonna matter because getting jacked doesn't do jackshit to your face and height. Maybe if you are fat you can see some improvement in your face, but other than that you can't "make change", unless you somehow manage to modify your dna.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:53 PM
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Oh come on now, are we really discussing this? No one genuniely believes this and if they do they're just trying to cope with their life decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:41 PM
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Being horny doesn't guarantee sex and relationships at all. You have to be attractive, you know, have a decent bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:26 AM
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Fair enough, but some men will still have better v tapers than average via genetics so nothing really changes about the 80/20 rule. It's not about being "good enough" for women, it's about being above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:20 AM
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Holy hell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:08 AM
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I mean if you actually become one you might get some real attention, albeit from crazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:00 AM
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Well you still need wide shoulders for that. Sure you can workout to improve it but some people are genuinely doomed to not have v tapers. It's still genetic, so even if say, height wasn't important, this still indicates you need genetics more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:59 AM
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I only had 2 serious relationship, so this may not be the basis for all relationships ofc. Not going into the details, she liked to eat out a lot. It would cost me around 200-250$/m for her meals alone, adding the fact I had to eat out with her aswell, increasing my own cost of food . When she moved in the it was even worse, from the shampoos to creams to moisturizers to make up stuff to tampons to pads... I could go on and on. Sure I didn't have a money problem but it didn't feel good looking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:41 PM
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"The problem" is nature. This is the way we are wired. Women can only carry one "seed" at a time, while a man can get hundreds of women pregnant in like a month if he tries hard enough. What this means is the optimal way to keep the population up AND to ensure the best genes gets passed onto the next generation is, for women to go only for the best males to mate. Hence this is why women are attracted to only %10-20 of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:10 PM
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Obivously nobody pays their wife "per sex" but to keep them as your wife/gf you need to pay a lot more than you would to a prostitute. Unless you're attractive to women which most men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:50 PM
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Not easier, just less frequent. Also they generally carry more risk for injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:48 PM
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Huh, weird to see a blue pill woman kind of agreeing to the 80/20 stuff. The truth is spreading i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:21 PM
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Not op but nothing would change. Women already approach guys they think are attractive enough, and most men aren't that. This is also why op thinks women don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:15 PM
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Women approach, just not to the bottom %80. Hence why most men think they don't approach because they usually never witnessed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:13 PM
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As you said, not peaceful and secure but still better than getting your brains blown out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:12 AM
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Was there any difference in appearance when she was pregnant? I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:19 PM
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Tbh the reason they say this is the same reason why women say "the bar is on the floor". The unattractive ones are just invisible, so these men think they find everything "fuckable", the thing is they don't even see or remember the women they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:10 AM
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Same! I generally support the, "forbidden" pill arguments but I could never wrap my head around this one. Sure we don't exclusively look for the top %20-10 of women but contrary to popular belief we find a lot of women unattractive too. Just go to a walmart lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:07 AM
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You see the key word is immigrating, you still need money for that. To be become a billionaire you need to have millionaire parents and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:45 AM
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%63 of men are single, compared to %34 of women. <image> ​ in terms of Tinder app success rate, a guy has a 2.8% chance of landing a match, while a girl has a 35% chance of landing a match. I could list more researchs but these are the only ones I had and I'm lazy. Statistics roughly confrim the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:46 PM
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What a mature way of talking you got there. Also, not "attractive" maybe, but acceptable. Men usually judge women on what they have, so a bonus like lets say decent breasts can overwrite rest of the negatives, sure it would be nice if she had a better hip-waist ratio but who cares. She's got nice breasts! While women on the other hand, from my observations, judge men on what they don't have, it doesnt matter if he has a six pack or a good jawline if he's balding or short. Most women are acceptab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:49 PM
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"Honey", just because chad knows he can do better than you doesn't mean you are unattractive to the rest of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:36 PM
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People do like attractive people. It's just men find %80 of women attractive, while for women it's only %20 of men. Hell it's even lower for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:54 PM
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we become "worthless" due to body changes Does anyone actually think that tho? I mean there are entire, categories, based on that type of body and it is by no means unpopular or niche. I mean I don't specifically have a thing for it but I'm not sure if it would render my SO "worthless" in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:58 PM
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I don't think I've ever met a true "Chad", but from what I'm seeing attractive people in general are either the most evil, manipulative pos you've ever seen or basically an "angel" that oozes naivete. Some of them realise their "power" and use it to the fullest, some of them think most people are good so they try to be good as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:34 PM
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This is the the dumbest argument I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:00 AM
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That still leaves out the general facial structure (jaws, cheekbones, mouth shape, proportions), but it's kind of weird to see a woman say height doesnt matter AND be married to someone that isn't 6+. However you are the exception in that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:55 PM
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May I ask an example of "kinda cute"? A photo or a general explanation of the features you'd find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:32 PM
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Those are personality traits, they don't make a person attractive or unattractive. More appealing to certain women (like you) if they already find them physically attractive yes, but would you marry your husband if you thought he was unattractive (same personality, different face/body)? Probably, rightfully, not. Personality doesnt matter if most women think you are unattractive anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:00 PM
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Well then you agree that your arguments are weak and untrue, which makes him right. Yet you still pretend it's about understanding "le humanite" or someshit. Truth is, no one is able to sniff out misogyny or narcissism or whatever. If you think someone is attractive, you are attracted to them. Nothing else matters. This puts the majority of men in the "misogynst" category because the simple thing is women are not attracted to average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:45 PM
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If he keeps finding holes in your arguments than it is not a very good argument now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:37 PM
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Nobody would date someone they find unattractive, thing is 80% of men are unattractive to women. So this only leaves the 20% who in their entire lives have been held above every other person in their life by other people just because they exist in a certain way. As a result, they've either become too entitled and self centered (this happens 90% of the time) or too naive. While men think most women are attractive so there's a bit more room for personality to actually matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:33 PM
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It allowed men with faulty genetics to reproduce So there's no women with faulty genetics? Also may I ask your gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:06 AM
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I did, and you're not answering mine. I couldn't find any mention of these said "happy" single mothers that are getting married "up and well". If anything it seems to be the opposite, they keep getting "relationships" with the kind of men that they had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:21 PM
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Now I couldn't really find a statistic for it, but most single moms that I know of (mothers of my friends, friends of my mother etc.) haven't been married for about 10-20 years now. I don't see these single mothers that are getting married and in happy marriages. Link me an article if you can tho. Otherwise, still not jealous lol. As I said, I haven't seen a lot of single mothers that are doing well if not for child support or alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:33 AM
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If you're single for long enough (probably because you are undesirable, usually physically. This means you'll probably never get to be not single) friends and family act "weird" towards you. Especially towards men. They either think you're gay or something's wrong with you. Which makes it pointless for them to "fix" that isolation. Because at every turn you're reminded that you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:25 AM
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Oh boy I really am jealous of someone that was just used for sex and now has to deal with raising a child, alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:10 AM
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You know there's more to a relationship than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:08 AM
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Can you give me ONE example that isn't a comedy or a sitcom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:22 AM
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Huh, I'd get crucified if I said the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:22 PM
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I know the conclusion I was "supposed" to reach. That there are billions of users and that most videos are gonna get so many views anyways. But this means, as I said before, millions of people that agree with the video. Edit: Also went through a few of your comments and is your idea of a debate just babbling elementary school insults at people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:23 PM
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This only proves my point lol. The more users it has the more likely it is that you are going to meet those people irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:41 PM
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If the said tiktok has millions of likes and hundred thousands of comments agreeing with it yeah lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:39 PM
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No, I notice more the real actions of the real women in real life. Most of the modern world uses internet and social media, young people even more so. This isn't a valid point because the women in real life are the ones you see on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:38 PM
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Of course it does lol. People generally believe taller people are stronger so they are less likely to mess with them. However if you geniunely think it's scarier for women you are some strong looking ass dude if you're below average height. In my experience men are usually treated like shit, or like "they can take it", while as much as raising an eyebrow to a women is a valid excuse to lynch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:22 PM
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"Attempts" is the keyword. A woman's attempt is usually a call, a "help me". While a man's attempt is geniune because most men that commit suicide see it as the literally the most sensible choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:54 PM
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May I ask your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:43 PM
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