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| 5 | Reverse Engineer Success as Men | General | Adjustedwell | /r/MensRights | 02/04/21 03:18 AM |
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| 1 | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?What do you say in these approaches | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?“As a woman” discredits your opinions about what women want. Just the reality of it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?Lmao | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?Lol isn’t that guy notorious for getting cucked? I think that’s pretty fitting considering your previously stated opinions.. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?DM me I’ll help. Get ready to provide context and a pic. No I’m not weird, I’m pretty fuckin’ cool. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?And incels have no one to kiss therefore nothing to tell. You enjoy your night reading. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?Lol read my track record you idiot. People like you sit and theorize while people like me get results. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?If you knew what you were talking about you’d know that scenario has a really good close rate if you’re not retarded. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?If you honestly think what I said meant you could have fucked her in front of everyone there then no wonder you couldn’t take advantage of the situation. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?Myself and the people that upvoted me have game and are agreeing because it’s something they’ve done or have seen done before. The ones who invited you wait for gifts. I’d rather be me. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?Wrong. It’s far less situation dependant than you think. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Why can I not get girls travelingIt could also mean that you're going for women less attractive than you, and they are insecure and don't like the feeling of the imbalance and save their ego the suffering of getting fucked and chucked. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Is Learning To Pick Up Women Morally Sound?If everyone tried to would it make the world a better place. not every guy would succeed. It would kinda of end up the way dating apps work where women would become more selective just out of sheer volume. It would probably make women take more caution before going out, it would probably make them think twice about wearing things that would attract a surplus of unwanted attention, it would probably be a moral correction to western society. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:07 AM |
| 10 | I did social freedom excerciseLMAO get lost bastard is a great line. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 15 | When I'm with girls 1-on-1 at parties, what do I talk about ?Yu-gi-oh, they love a man passionate about something. You're welcome. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorPut a dog kennel with the front gate open with some rope attached. Place a note that says “child support payment 4 u” inside. Knock on the door and when she inevitably goes in to receive fake funds, pull the cage door shut. You’re welcome. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:45 AM |
| 46 | Hotter Girls at Clubs and Bars Will NOT give you signals even when they are interested"Girls want a guy who is so confident that he just goes for it without signals, not even kidding. They think if you're a confident guy who gets girls, then you won't even need signals. " nail on the head right there. I honestly thought the story was going to end dancing and making out with the older gay guy though. lol jk cheers | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Which one gets you the most results, Looks, money or status get you the most results?Ability. Looks help. Money helps. Status helps. None of these things will do the work for you. If you have all 3 you still need to speak and act properly. if you can speak and act properly you don't need any of the 3. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I can get girls to have sex with me, but not date me?They don't feel good enough for you and wont trust you to stay faithful to them or stay with them long term. I deal with the same shit. I don't even bother saying I'm interested in a relationship anymore. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever cold approach!Nice, but you don’t need social media. Unless you have an impressive profile it will probably hinder your progress, numbers are always better. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Think I messed up sending this message. Supposed to be having a 3rd date tomorrowIF the text killed it. if not then no. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Think I messed up sending this message. Supposed to be having a 3rd date tomorrowfrom what you described here, id say shes interested as long as shes calling the shots. It's nothing I'm saying that you should have known, but these are common traits i've come to identify, although subtle.. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Think I messed up sending this message. Supposed to be having a 3rd date tomorrowtbh if that text killed it, she wasnt into you that much or thought she was in full control and enjoyed that feeling. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?The question is why does that it matter? You can’t control what other people do, think, say the only thing you can do is control your reaction to it. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 9 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itask if you can suck his cock. no lie. I've been asked, it was straight to the point, i appreciated it. unless you're looking for the romance, then you could try a bunch of shit that may or may not work and you might not ever get your answer on whether or not he's interested due to shit going on in your head, his head, communication- whatever. If you ask to suck his cock everyone is on the same page. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 0 | How to hire good professional photographer for dating apps?biggest waste of money, just take pics with your fuckin iPhone and invest that money in a gym pass, buy a leather jacket and join some asian street gang, worked in rush hour.. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | For the first date, should the girl go by you?How bad do you want to date these girls? What would happen if you said it’s easier if you come here this time and next time I’ll come to you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach a single woman when you have 2 wingmen?The biggest stereotype on Indian ppl is that they do everything in groups, and it’s true. The answer to your question is you don’t, you go alone. If your two other friend don’t understand why then they aren’t wingmen. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | For the hatersCold approach is pick-up. Everything else is a a relative of pick-up. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?Paying for sex is inherently simp behaviour. Lol that’s obviously not a thorough definition of simp behaviour, horrible attempt. You can try (and fail) to twist it around definitions to feel right but at the end of the day if you have to provide the woman with financial incentive especially when she otherwise would not be willing to sleep with you, you are putting yourself in a subordinate role. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?If your friends have 50+ kills and still pay for sex they likely have a problem. That’s a negative right there. Alcohol in moderation is not harmful to the body, like sex. How didn’t you get that? Also paying for sex is simp behaviour whether you get women or not.. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?Nobody is ignoring you because there is something inherently wrong with you, it's because your mindset is defeatist. If you're ugly get jacked at the gym, and then at least you'll be fit, theres tons of ugly guys that get women because they are have a pleasant personality. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 12:38 AM |
| 0 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?functional alcoholics exist but its always better to just not be one. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text Gamewhat you've just described is just as bad as being needy, "being readily available." Guys don't want to respond to her, they want to be responded to for once.. Theres a balance between what you're saying and what the guys you're describing are doing. Respectfully, I don't think your solution works well long term, but again I'm not mad about it, i just like to debate ideas and strategies. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameYour first paragraph agrees with what I said. Secondly, it’s not to get a dose of ego, it’s to differentiate you from the other guys who are getting into a competition for best simp on her roster. But there are definitely lots of girls who only give out their number to get attention with no intention of ever meeting up with these guys. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThis post doesn’t really make sense, of course if a girl likes you then “absence makes the heart grow fonder” but if you meet a girl somewhere and get her number quickly then she can’t like you before you start texting - this is the part where they’re trying to build attraction and are having trouble with getting ghosted. Also if guys were getting triple text responses I doubt they’d be complaining, fyi. I’m not hurt about the post though, different things work for different guys I think the key… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | fellas what do you do when she talks about her crush?say, Is your crush me? if not idc.. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you keep chasing the girl whose always busy?Even if the schedule is truly busy and she's not prioritizing her gf's or other guys over you. The dynamic that you're always available or make yourself available for her will still exist and it puts you in a lesser position. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?lol i think it’s a good strategy but Obviously you’ve got to be strategic with what you say your plans are. Can’t say “I’m going on a dinner for two tonight do you want to come” | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 5 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?Sounds like you two are a match. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 8 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?You have bodies in barrels in your basement 100% | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:14 AM |
| 82 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?90% of girls will regard this as highly socially out of tune and will be weirded out by you. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Is being buff intimidating?Unfortunately you can’t choose what works and what doesn’t. It’s not about eating less, it’s about eating what you should eat and and the time you’re supposed to eat. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Is being buff intimidating?bad genes are such a shit excuse, you just need to tweak the diet properly and for the proper amount of time. Also depends what you mean by having abs, like 24/7/365? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Going out with girl, 5 years older than me (I’m 22). Any tips?Just make sure she's not trying to trap an unsuspecting guy into having kids with her before she hits 30's. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to confidence and fun.What you're describing is definitely a phenomena that exists in some aspects, but its one of an infinite amount of variables and can't be used to describe the entire concept of successful dating. There are a lot of guys who are attractive and intelligent and get women, they are very aware of what could go wrong but are competent enough to avoid/mitigate/or manage it when it arises instead of using it as a reason to never try or justify lack of confidence. I think a stronger element at play is a … | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How to Properly Employ the PUSH-PULL Method to Create AttractionToo many incorrect assumptions here. There are many ways to flirt, push/pull doesnt need to be one of them. It actually is a narcissistic abuse tactic, what you're referring to is called teasing, that is different and can be light hearted, but to intentionally and strategically provide positive validation and then withdrawal of it just for the purpose of de-stabilizing that person's confidence in your interest level in an attempt to garner more investment by them is abusive, which is why it gene… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I (16M) be asking for numbers or Instagram/Snapchat?if you were black I'd have to say ask for IG and brown I'd say tik tok..... 🤔 | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages hereSome girls are HORRIBLE conversationalists, which in person can be mitigated but over text is rough, don’t kill yourself over boring convo. Make statements over boring convo. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best answer to girls calling you out on what you are doing?If people are calling you out for it probably 5x as many are noticing it and saying nothing. Not gonna get too many numbers being known as a creep.. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Wing MenSolo day game, you’re welcome. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Whats the best answer to girls calling you out on what you are doing?Sounds like you need to change your locations pal | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Scared to escalate physically with a friend due to fear of her rejection and making it awkward.Only because of where you are in this situation rn I’d suggest very slowly turning up physical touch, you don’t need to try to make out with her but When you have the opportunity while you’re entering the doorway of a building guide her with your hand in the small of her back and watch for any reaction, take slow measures like that until you have an idea how she’ll react. Also fuck the rumours, that’s gay. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Addicted to seduction - please helpIf what you’re saying is true, you should talk to a therapist. Losing your business to talk to strangers with no real upside (referencing your claim to not be closing) then this is classic addiction, because you’re chasing the feeling of anticipation of the goal. But if I’m way off then at least look at it this way: having a life outside of pick up makes pick up stronger. Indifference in result, success, having your own things going on all aids you in getting more and higher quality women with f… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?haha i get it.. its all mental though. There are no magic lines or words you're gonna say to make her want you, if you're just yourself, are interesting and come across that way, the girls you like will like you, it all starts with a simple intro.. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?Nothing is luck. Read up on it. Example: you're looking for introverted, non basic, non mainstream girls... You're not going to find them at nightclubs.. You're more likely to find them at coffee shops reading/studying.. That's a start, go further from there. And one more thing, I mean this in a constructive way, you seem to be looking for a strategy that caters to your perceived limitations: introversion, averse to cold approach. Take this as a hint from life to become a more bold person. A wis… | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?No it's all good, read that as if you were making excuses. My bad. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?Do I need to explain what an analogy is? | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?Nothing you just said has anything to do with luck. Read about marketing segmentation and instead of trying to find reasons as to how that comparison is different use what's similar about it to your advantage. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?What sort of women are you looking fr and why do you feel that way? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?Stop referencing it as a dry spell, start referencing it as being selective. Get off the apps altogether, get exercise, dress better, go out and be social. Start socializing with the types of women you want. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | No strings attached sex with a good friend. Yay or nay ? Possible to remain normal after sex ?No, will not be the same. No, you're probably not really friends anyway. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?Authenticity. Re-establish your own personal value system. Start researching what are green flags for long term healthy relationships and work those into your communication, and remember PUA stuff mostly works on unhealthy and insecure girls - something no one really wants. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Help, my sex drive / libido is disappearing?Stop jerking off and watching porn. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What's your 100% icebreaker sentence?Hi. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Is "I have a boyfriend" always a rejection or sometimes it's a shit test?IF in the rare case this is a shit test, she's a moron.. what would it even be testing? Your willingness to ignore what she says and force yourself on her? The only times where I knew girls that were single and used that excuse, it was to reject not to shit test. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk?Wtf, no shit the same strategy will not work for every single guy, but any guy that’s a 6 or up could approach a woman on the street and get results as long as he’s not going completely out of his league. And even so the gap can be bridged with self development and fairly quickly with workout and fashion fixes. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:58 AM |
| 6 | How to Properly Employ the PUSH-PULL Method to Create AttractionI thought I'd be the only one with this opinion. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | How to Properly Employ the PUSH-PULL Method to Create AttractionThe push/pull technique is a narcissistic abuse tactic, it works on people who are damaged mostly.. That's why a lot of women who aren't damaged are repelled by this technique. This technique is not conducive to a healthy long term relationship, might get you laid but generally this technique's been exposed. What dude says in the video is true about difference and willingness to disagree being intriguing to a woman - but this works when it's genuine - when its manufactured it's super transparent… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?I've already said goodnight and other variations of "bye" multiple times, the fact that you can't let this pointless dialogue go proves me correct. You've definitely got some delusion/narcissism going on, it's cool man, hopefully you focus less on trying to find someone and more on fixing your issues. lol at the upvotes comment, that's the thinking of a 12 year old pre teen. Get well soon. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?You've missed the point several times, your assessment is worthless. it's okay though. Have a good night. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Wrong. I’ve proven you wrong already and you continue to prove yourself wrong. Kind of pointless to continue this dialogue. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Lol so you don’t get my point… I’m not trying to tell you anything - I’m correctly explaining that you have a falsely inflated ego that prevents you from accurately assessing what’s responsible for your success, which your rambling responses have confirmed. At this point tbh, you’ve painted yourself as more of a forum dweller phoney, your responses seem like you spend more time in the role playing forums than out in the real world. You just exposed yourself lol. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Dude, I agree with you. Most guys are posers but not because they can't give you a step-by-step process of what to do. Every situation is different, to give you a step-by-step process of what they said and did would be unusable for you. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?You obviously didn't get my point. I'm saying you're attributing whatever successes you had to a "magical persona" you're trying to describe. None of that would work unless the girl was already: open to casual sexual encounters, open to one-night-stands. It's not like you met a virgin, girl next door at a nightclub, and by sheer game you made her consent against her morals and better judgment because your magical persona was too strong. lmao. Look, i already said this doesnt take anything away f… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 06:08 PM |
| -1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?No. You're a bit delusional here, evident in your verbiage. You think you're "captivating her" with your persona, she, extremely likely, would have fucked a number of other guys instead of you. Just be humble, some hoes will be hoes for guys that meet the min requirements and then they will either justify it or regret it the next day depending on a number of variables. Medium term game is always best. I'm offering advice as someone who pulls in all scenarios, same say/night lays are heavily depe… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 07:53 AM |
| -5 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?I'd advise against this, the types of girls that will engage in immediate sexual encounters with near strangers has less to do with the strength of the guy's game and more to do with the sluttiness of the girl. Do yourself a favour and don't worry about the same day lays - that's pretty much dependent on location/nightlife/age/alcohol, and focus more toward getting a number, couple days text, meet up and go from there. you'll limit the chances of a baseless accusation that way. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 06:26 AM |
| 10 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butDid you think the work ended at losing weight? Gotta keep practicing game pal. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Don’t be like me. A rant/ mind opening post.You gotta walk before you can run, if you're that apprehensive about approaching just start small: Make small talk with cashiers just lighthearted conversation and maybe crack a joke if something is natural and spontaneous, don't force it. From there you can build on to something slightly more uncomfortable but not so bad that you won't do it. Also, start feeding your self image good messages about yourself, no need to beat yourself up. Life is already hard, don't make it harder for yourself. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeWithout even entering into the debate you’ve started, why bring unnecessary potential consequences in this scenario by sleeping with her then trying to argue your point. If you’re not looking out for her (which is weird) at least look out for your self.. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Melanie sounds annoying but the rest is reasonable. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol its probably only bad if you're advancing physically thinking you're flirting but she's touching your arm with her hand.... pushing you away from her.. also, slowly trying to mack means slowly friend zoning yourself | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I escalate a conversation with a girl?dm me, I have questions on the context | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate a conversation with a girl?In what situation are you planning this? Also they have to view you as a viable sexual prospect, if not then you're doomed to the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 02:53 AM |
| 6 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?If she's a known flaker this isn't going to get better. Look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | She tested me, I ignored her, & now she reached out again.I think we're agreeing.. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Major oof momentNo problem with what you said, if she wasn't going to say absolutely anything to acknowledge you talking its not like changing the line would have done much, without being way over the top. If initial interest wasn't there no harm done. At least you had the balls to speak. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | She tested me, I ignored her, & now she reached out again.Bro, say yes. You set the time frame. Be assertive it's what she wants from you. If she turns this assertiveness away and starts playing mouse then cut it off. Save your time. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | She tested me, I ignored her, & now she reached out again.The long distance thing changes the dynamic 100%. She 100% seems is covert in her interactions which would personally annoy me, but to each their own. I believe she's trying to coax you into taking an assertive position, I think being laid back and aloof only hurt you here, I'd turn things up. The ignoring thing works to a degree. Yes they want to see you're not too available but 1) she may genuinely think you don't like her, or 2) she's only into you because you're not giving her attention and … | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not trying to hurt your feelings, no need for passive aggression. A convo with someone "without a clue" doesn't seem worthy of time. Try to take it light this time. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 02:02 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Explaining how little time it took you to write the comment kinda proves me correct lol. Also didn't ask for advice, have a good one, kid. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Nope, I attract many women without red flags, I'm talking about the ones who approach. Why so emotionally invested, relax. It's just a discussion. I also said usually - not always. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 11:47 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Been approached a ton of times, take it as a compliment, definitely take it as a compliment but don't use this as an excuse not to approach, don't settle for what comes your way, go after what you want, Side note: I usually find that women that approach have considerable red flags. I know this doesn't really answer your question at all but its related. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else get anxiety after you send a girl a message or is it just me?Focus on you and your goals my man, once you do that your senses change, and if they message back its a bonus but the result of her response or lack of response will mean far less to you. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]My guy datings apps have way too many variables to attribute failures to get matches to your looks especially if you dont pay for "extra services" etc. Pic quality, pic variety, decent bio and probably height will matter the most If you're decently good looking. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Potentially, depends how smooth you are you can always screen and check for red flags. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Depending on where you're located and what area of the city/town you're in this could definitely be an issue. It's easy to write off parents' warnings as being overprotective or overbearing but this could definitely happen. There have been stories where women working with male criminals get a guy to come back to "her place" where they rob him. If its a university town and the girl is your age and her "Story" checks out then you're probably fine. But, again better safe than sorry. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Girls who seems to be happy talking about themselves but dont seem to be interested in learning anything about you.Familiarize yourself with overt and convert narcissism, also check out the book the human magnet syndrome, it could save you decades of heartache. They are red flags for sure, if it was simply an interest issue they wouldn't continue to speak to you, but they are content to speak with you if they get to talk about themselves. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | How to become a hot person?If you're confident, not arrogant and fit its massive. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 07:28 AM |
| 0 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.It just doesn't work out. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Does a cold approach have to be logistically easy or am I kidding myself?It’s a good topic. The truth is subtle details matter. The first way makes pick up look effortless and that’s kind of what women want, they want it to be relaxed and not awkward, especially if it’s somewhere like a section where you’re not really invited. The second guy you described as outgoing has a good mindset where he doesn’t let small things stop him but the effort he would have gone through to make that approach would have worked against him in that instance. This is kind of the argument … | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 02:21 PM |
| 11 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.If you “follow” her on Instagram you are literally putting yourself in a subordinate position right away. Contacting her the same way the majority of scared guy do will only equate you to them. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 03:10 AM |
| 5 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Is 23 too late? lol. What?.... No, dude. Men get more desired as they age - learn some game and you'll be good If you are decently dressed and well groomed, sit at a coffee shop for studying and strike up a conversation. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 06:22 AM |
| 2 | How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem?First question: do you watch porn? If so, stop now. it probably can't be good watching that stuff and then doing a comparison. Also they use angles, different lenses and penis pumps prior to their scenes so it's not a fair comparison either. I'd recommend making sex a full body experience for her and not just a "penis in vagina" style thing. I've heard women speak negatively about their experience with guys with big dick who sucked in bed because they were lazy, unenthused or expected the girl t… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing cold approach wrong?a small bit of thats how it goes and a big bit they maybe don't like whats on your instagram, go for a convo a build more value in you and then go for a phone number, if they arent willing to give a phone number chances are they arent willing to go for a date. Saves you time. Your self awareness is a valuable skill, you'll get good, keep at it. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 3 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isFirst of all, this is an incredibly important post - first-hand admission that being tall and good-looking isn't an auto-win. But also it shows that your mindset means the most, I say this because I also dont believe the reason those other short guys are getting girls is a result of social circle and status. This shows that confidence is key regardless if you're short, tall, alone, with people, whatever the case is. Of course if you've got money, looks, height, muscles, social circle, and are we… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Double textingyou can just disregard her silence on that "Productive day" text and operate as if that never happened. Regardless of who sent me that text I'd probably ignore it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 5 | How come even the greatest PUA's (Mystery, Owen Cook etc) still don't have the success of an average natural?Mind you these are the guys that teach that stuff. I think we are all familiar with local guys that do pickup and have much worse results (if any). Let's get a grip here on this one. It is not that case that these guys were selected to be teachers or hired to be teachers - which would be a testament to their skill or knowledge of the field. They put out content and it became popular. BIG difference. If you become well socialized (a good conversationalist), learn to read signals and seek to find … | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a girl approaching a guy?Interesting question, Girls that approach men are on my list of red flags. What's the reason you're approaching instead of waiting to get approached? Also, you're more likely to attract a guy you wont be happy with if they arent willing to approach you to begin with. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 0 | How to give physical compliments that aren't too desperate or cheesy?I would say don't give physical compliments at all.. If they are hot they'll know they have those things. starve them for it and when you finally give them something they will actually appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dude I totally get it, I feel the same way. That's why I created a the perfect script for guys just like us! It will make girls totally wet and totally want to fuck you asap! Send me private message dude! jk and I agree. I think alot of those guys are seriously insecure and act like being persistent in the face of constant rejection from the same girl means you dont care about rejection but it shows they really can't handle it so refuse to hear it. But seriously, regardless of what your "strateg… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Need tips with how to maintain and create tension on text/ real lifeProximity and touch, if you're flirting with a stranger, eye contact and smiling. Female or male most of this stuff is unsaid, it's not like there is a perfect topic or line you can say to maintain interest. It's mostly non-verbals, and then tone of voice and general demeanour around them | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:20 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Number 9, is very important, The art of conversation is dying and there are a lot of dull and boring women who think it's your job to entertain them. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 10:50 PM |
| 0 | How to stop pedestalizing women.Many guys are so directionless they can't even lead their own lives let alone be suitable partner. They think just being with someone and following orders will be enough to make them stay - by nature women want a leader, even when they believe they want to lead that is a cry for stability. The point here is, if you treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | So when a high profile Woman is canceled it’s still Misogyny. Ellen DeGeneres Says Negative Press Cycle Was ‘Orchestrated’Sorry guys, she looks like a man.. that's apparently all it takes. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Going back to the comment we're both commenting on. Redpill is not about guys trying to find out how to fuck girls. It's more like getting guys to focus their time attention and money on themselves instead of supporting a woman. So that was wrong. I don't think you can really cast a blanket on the whole sub like that. Theres ~50k people there, you can't speak to the majority of people's desires. Lastly, women 100% want rp men, they MAY not want to be in a relationship with rp men because a true … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Perfect so we agree you're wrong.. Bye now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.I can confidently say with 100% certainty you know nothing about red pill concepts if you believe that would present an issue. It's also isn't true. Redpill women sub has like 50k subs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.brings me back to my first statement. Why would RP care what blue pill thinks? See ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Why would Redpill guys care what blue pill women think? I think RP has too much truth on their side, I don't agree with all of it, but the only thing the blue pill has is support in numbers, but if my description is accurate their support in numbers won't last for long | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.I think this is mischaracterization of red pill thinking. You are partially correct that it can attract men who are looking for reasons to hate women, and it's partly because they are unsuccessful with or have had negative experiences with women, but just having an understanding of female nature is like understanding tax laws, you can ignore them and get fucked or you can understand them and have a more advantageous situation. As far as I've seen there is only 1 public figure that claims to be R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Having different opinions/views makes you a right-wing incel nowI hate the language used every time people describe the idiocy of the left, like a sarcastic acceptance of their anti-intellectual ideology. Let's not take a back step even when describing their their moronic views | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexlol. alright see ya. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexYou can laugh, wink, deny reality all you want. It won't make you right. Goodluck at your next protest lol | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexWe are talking about rape and you provided stats for rape/sexual assault. Those two are not the same thing and there is far more subjectivity with convictions of sexual assault which skews results. (I wonder how you can accurately ascertain the number of unreported rapes are if you don't investigate whether or not a sexual assault took place....) Rhetorical question, you can't. This is the same issue with claiming we live in a rape culture. People make the generalized statements about specific s… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Reverse Engineer Success as MenIt's clear you have some sort of mental issues, and are probably lonely, but following me around reddit won't solve any of that. I hope you get the help you need. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Reverse Engineer Success as MenYou need a life so badly, I actually pity you. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Reverse Engineer Success as MenYou seem retarded. Deal with it retard. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexWashington Post is not a credible source for statistics, come on you know that. Provide something ".org" please. it's a heavily biased leftist news outlet. lol. 1. That is the definition of an ill defined definition. Right now we live in a society where men are fired from their jobs if a woman reports a negatively perceived unwanted sexual interaction whether its true or provable. When this is the current environment it's not intelligent to continue to yell rape culture - that trivializes real v… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Reverse Engineer Success as MenMore pathetic is the fact that you looked up my past posts because you disagreed with something I said about Trump. Get a life loser. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sex1)Stats? Examples? Opinion and anecdotes don't cut it. We're both against rape but let's be accurate at the least.People generally don't like speaking about traumatic experiences in general, this doesn't constitute a "rape culture" nor can you attribute the fact that some women would prefer to stay silent about it to some ill-defined concept like "rape culture". 2)Many victims of child abuse (non-sexual) don't want to talk about about their trauma, but there is no Child abuse culture keeping peo… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sex1) Society keeps expanding the definition of rape while the legal definition has remained the same which will lead to a discrepancy in perceived justice. 2) I would urge women who are truly raped to report to the police immediately for the best chance the law being enforced. These things can be hard to prove 10 years later. 3) Many times people who are not guilty get convicted as well, its called human error. David Milgard spent years in prison wrongfully convicted of rape and murder and was rel… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexyep. agreed. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 0 | God, the fact that this is still a relevant thing in mainstream culture.Leftists are moronic. They think backwards, they decide what they want to believe then look for things that they believe will support it and ignore any contradictory evidence. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 08:30 AM |
| 2 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexew | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 08:23 AM |
| 5 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexits punishable by death or a lengthy sentence, but stats say something like only 0.03% of those accused get convicted so I guess but apparently there are 11 reported rapes daily throughout the country. edit: woah wtf, in Canada there allegedly are 59-74 reported rapes per day post #metoo movement. Does this include boring dates? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 2 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexnothing more tempting than an ominous link posted on a discussion about rape .. but I think ill pass lol | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexYeah, I agree. I was asking that sincerely though.. I'm going to look into that | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 3 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexif they do nobody seems to care.. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexpakistan? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 04:23 AM |
| 47 | There is no ‘rape culture’ in schools: Education’s ‘#MeToo moment’ is not a scandal – it’s a moral panic over teenage sexThere is no rape culture anywhere in the western world which ironically is only promoted through many genres of porn or erotic novels like 50 shades of grey, both of those things are promoted by women as sex positive/ acceptance for sex work/ breaking stereotypes and anti shaming. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Why in all these posts the girl get excused for her actions but if it was a guy he would be an "incel"?I'd personally like to see this subreddit start to encourage guys in this position, or guys asking for advice help this guy out with what he should do. I went to that post and made a response myself. We need to start warning about negative female behavior and begin rewarding female behavior that is good as well. This would be an example of a scenario where the guy should run, let's not complain about how society would treat a guy in the same position differently but use our action to turn the ti… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/21 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Men fired while women coddledThe answer to this is similar to the answer conservatives have toward fake news - legal action. Assuming we are comparing two circumstantially similar scenarios: Where a guy is just caught at an inopportune time, similar to a woman and not masturbating during a zoom call. I'm against unequal treatment but the "Acts" themselves have to be similar in nature. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Reverse Engineer Success as MenLooking to act the part? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | “Canada is the most anti- male country I have ever seen” - Erin Pizzey( founder of the first women’s shelter.No worries. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | “Canada is the most anti- male country I have ever seen” - Erin Pizzey( founder of the first women’s shelter.Anytime, man. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 3 | “Canada is the most anti- male country I have ever seen” - Erin Pizzey( founder of the first women’s shelter.Depends on the relationship I've got with the other person, if my mother is overstepping boundaries that will be far different than how I'd respond to a stranger or a work colleague. Generally the things that I take into account are: my tone of voice, the words I use. What the topic of the conversation is, What I believe their motive to be, whether their boundary-stepping is intentional or unintentional. Remember, that not everyone is going to respect that you've set a boundary so you don't nece… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | “Canada is the most anti- male country I have ever seen” - Erin Pizzey( founder of the first women’s shelter.I don't have any books in mind that are fully dedicated to this concept. It's something I know to be true as I had a good group of guys that I played sports with growing up and it was just understood no matter the situation we were executing the best strategy to win/ build or cut down a deficit and we really never strayed from that motto. Since then I've always transferred that concept into other areas of my life. The first place I read about the concept was in How Champions Think by Bob Rotella… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | It's official guys...That's good to hear if accurate. I have some relatives in EU and they are on board with social justice bs and all the popes woke nonsense.. I'd be 100% on board with doing my part to correct things as far as an individual can do that sort of thing, but I don't even know where to start | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 04:09 AM |
| 27 | “Canada is the most anti- male country I have ever seen” - Erin Pizzey( founder of the first women’s shelter.With an understanding that structures of society are created or emboldened by each individual's decisions, I decide to act unapologetically myself and don't diminish my masculinity. That's all I can really control short of lobbying for legal changes or starting a movement. I get that it's not the best answer to the question, because a lot of the greater systemic problems seem out of our hands as individuals. How I've improved myself: Become a better reader and writer, become far more articulate,… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 02:04 AM |
| 55 | “Canada is the most anti- male country I have ever seen” - Erin Pizzey( founder of the first women’s shelter.Although this may be true of society at large I can only comment on my personal experiences: The more I embrace my own masculinity and develop myself as a competent, confident man, the more everything has improved in my life - women give me more attention and respect, my relationships have generally improved and the ones that never really served a purpose have dried up and gone away. All positives. It's like bullies, the more the ideologues think they can get away with the more they'll do. Stand… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 01:30 AM |
| 28 | It's official guys...As a Roman Catholic myself it's a harsh truth to see this bullshit rhetoric enter Christian churches all over the globe. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 01:00 AM |
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