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Red Pill TheoryAdmCP/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 06:17 PM
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I never said anything like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 02:00 PM
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I don't think that's the way to go. Beeing a dick is not attractive. You took the concept but pulled it into trivial extreme. There might be woman who get pulled by that behaviour but I'm not sure if these woman are worth spending any time with.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 01:07 PM
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You are responsible for yourself and your herd. Don't be a selfish dick.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 10:34 AM
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You are the one that said she's disrespecting you by talking shit to other people. No she does not and I never said that. I said she bahaves totally normal and respectful as long as others are around. She only shows me the cold shoulder when we are alone.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 07:41 PM
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We are not in a sexual relationship. And you can't just roll out the Rp basics over every human social interaction like a bulldozer. That's autistic. I know most of the literature and Rp is a framework. I try to reference it to a specific situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 08:01 AM
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I think she has a brittle self consciousness. She seems very adult and confident from the outside. But I think it's facade. I know myself well enough and I am not talking down to ppl. She's projecting.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 12:39 AM
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You are citing Rp basic theory but it's not Applicable here. And she's not insulting me. She's more like an angry stoic kid and since shes bahving that way Ive been treating her as one. If I'd confront her shed deny anything is wrong. She'd say all is fine. So I've been giving her zero attention until she starts behaving like an adult then we can talk.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 12:35 AM
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Tbh I've been living in many mixed flats with roommates f and m and I never had issues with any female flatmates.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 12:19 AM
19

Wouldn't work. She would deny that she's behaving weird at the first place. Been there. Did that.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 10:59 PM
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Truth hits hard but you are right Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 07:28 PM
1

Basic stuff. If they can suggest a bar or club usually and then after some time what their plans are.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 08:54 AM
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Jop. It still so weird. He's not special, doesn't have a big social circle, no interesting life or hobbies and an average stable job. I wouldn't even say he's cool in any way. . He's just himself and he is never ashamed or bothered by anyone or anything. It's not like he has a blatant no fucks given attitude. But he plows his way slow and steady, no fireworks or action just straight pulling through in a chill and steady manner. Seems to work pretty good for him
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 04:56 PM
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I have this one friend who does a similar thing and just casually approaches any good looking woman asking for a location or so. He's not flirting in any way, he's just showing mild interest. Like asking for the time or a lighter. However what fascinated me was his rock hard attitude. Often when he talked to a group of girls they show blatant signs of go away no interest, not my type etc. Giving just short answers etc. (he's not the best looking guy). And id be like OK obviously they don't want …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 04:18 PM
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What the fuck
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:59 AM
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Definitely!
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:21 AM
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Don't. Be nice. Don't be a dick. Don't tease about stuff that puts em off.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:39 AM
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This. Trp is a framework, not a fucking science branch. Listen to your feelings and gut. It's not like your instincts are useless.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:14 PM
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Don't think too much. Make sure you know if you wanna see her again. Otherwise you are wasting both of your time. 1) don't let her cool down. Tell her that you enjoyed your date, liked xy, be true don't overdo it. Just be straightforward. Short, bold and honest. Don't try to be special. 2) Know what you want. Tell her you'd like to see her again and make a suggestion for time and place. You can ask directly or chitchat a few days then follow up. But don't be shy. You hear them say they want a ma…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:36 PM
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This. op is over thinking. Make short convo, small talk chat one or two questions related to her vacation pics, then ask her out. Anything else than a clear and plain yes let's go on a date is a waste of time. Even if you can turn her after countless of well written messages she will turn up cause she's bored and will expect you to keep up the effort and keep her entertained. Don't be that guy. Either she likes your pic or not. Forget all this high value stuff on tinder. It's all in your head. T…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:42 AM
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No idea why you are making a science out of it. She either wants a date or not. Pictures are everything. She knows this the moment you are matching. If she wants, then all you gotta do is write any bullshit question chittychat, then ask her out. If she doesn't want to, does not respond like a normal person or is unsure or hard to get, forget it. It's not worth the effort and even if you manage to convince her on a date, the sex will be shit. She will put the same effort in sex as she is in chatt…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 07:43 AM
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Mark Mason - Models. Read it Different approach. Easy to understand. Same goal. It's important to not try to understand trp as some ideal behaviour to apply. That's bullshit. It's about becoming the best yourself. So you are unique and there is no perfect approach for every situation.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:39 AM
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You can't apply your definition of a good life to woman. Other problems, different goals, different ways to live a full filling life. I don't think that it's easier for a woman to be happy than it is for a man.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:02 PM
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Vaping for me as well.i simply controlled my daily nicotine amount and reduced it over the course of a year to zero. Then stopped Vaping completely. Was pretty easy to be honest.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:03 PM
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Stupidity most likely.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:08 AM
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Ever thought about that anyone with decent IT skills will never ever let their data get scraped that way? But yeah lets take some random article off the internet which some random idiot wrote and lets determine attractiveness beeing equal to the amount of tinder swipes.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:39 PM
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What a pile of bullshit. Incredible. Next you come up with you wanna be an astronaut or a train driver or a pilot when you are older?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:13 PM
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Here we go again. There is a whole sidebar with further links you are supposed to read to understand the basics. You would learn how important it is to shape yourself and become a person that relies on his own instincts and impressions and how important it is to NOT make decisions based on if other people would like it or not but make these decisions because you as a man stand behind em. And you ask which jobs woman find attractive you fucking dipshit. It does not matter. They will find any dece…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:29 AM
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So trp is incel now? What a pityful post and best examle of not understanding the concept.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 04:59 AM
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Beeing a genuinly nice guy is not beta. Showing genuine affection is neither. As long as its not based on needyness. Ask yourself: why did you do that? Was is because you are a needy flake who needs appreciation or was it because you genuinly think she's a great girl and your time is worth? Most men do stuff for woman because they are needy and they expect sex in exchange. But when you feel like you like a person so that you want to do them good and expect absolutely nothing in return. That's th…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:42 AM
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Yeah I know. And thats exactly what is wrong with this community here. Rp is a concept. One of the core concepts is to teach ppl self sufficiency and independence. And now ppl stop using their own brain and want to have a specific Rp answer for specific bullshit questions totally unrelated to Rp. Also there is no Rp way of doing anything a specific way. Rp way is do it how the fuck You want. Don't give a crap about other ppl and learn methods to self reflect on your mistakes.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:31 AM
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This. But depends on the degree. Bullshit studies is worth a lot less on the market.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:27 AM
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What the fuck has this to do with red pill? Just use Google or the reddit search like a normal person u flathead. This question was asked and answered a million times. Surely there also are Youtube tutorials if you are more into that.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:21 AM
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Throw away any scale you are measuring yourself against. That's the hardest part. Then never stop improving yourself. That will usually make you happy on the long run.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 12:17 AM
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Wtf. Are u stupid?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:38 AM
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Eat. Eat. Eat.. Don't worry about calories counting. I suggest at the beginning to eat more than less if your goal is to gain muscle. Imo you can never eat too much. Especially if your body is rather skinny by default. Carbs, protein and fat. Balanced diet. You need all three. More carbs before workout, less after. Then add shakes every morning and every evening. Curd, oatmeal, milk, honey, peanut butter. Jugg it. (500-1000 calories at an instant) Track your weight. See how your Body reacts. Get…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:56 AM
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Why do people think opening a question with a false statement is a good idea? Nobody cares what's your natural form. Your current form is all that matters. It tells a lot about your self discipline and values.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:45 AM
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What the hell are you talking about. This has nothing to do with frame. If you are worried about her beeing upset you already have big cracks in your frame that's all. But that has nothing to do with her or this specific situation. Are you asking which foot you should put your shoes on first as well? Seriously... Its not even that bad of a thing as its a bit of abundance right of. You need to work on your confidence. The way you make your mistakes look like will form your frame. If you don't car…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:55 AM
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No. That's just whining. You never ever open up with a weakness or vulnerability anyway. It does not "show you are human and limited" it just shows you are a whiny bitch. And this: "the vibe doesn't feel as fun and playful when you're sober." Is totally your own fault btw. You basically tell her you are not fun when sober right away. You go to the party to have fun or you don't go there. Point. Going there and complaining why its unfun because you cannot drink is exactly the issue many girls hav…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:30 PM
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Don't mix vulnerability and weakness. You show vulnerability because you can afford it, not to brag with your weakness.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:25 AM
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I mean rambling about things out of your control had always been the path to success right... /s
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:44 AM
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Can second this.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:19 AM
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Dude you are not playing in theatre. Stop trying to play someone else and work on yourself as you are. You sound insecure about yourself. Your personality is not something you can switch around in a different mode. People will recognise your non existing frame. And don't try to please other people.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:10 AM
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I think you have to learn to eat shit and enjoy it, simply because its your shit. Try, fail, accept your mistake, be proud of failure and continue. Be it a date, sex life, business or whatever. You'll earn the most respect for persistency and for staying proud in failure.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:12 PM
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If you need some feedback that this is a thing. I had all scenarios. A girl which I had the best sex ever because it was absolutely effortless, intense and we were just at the same pace. And another one which was just horrible, stressed, way too fast and unpersonal for me. Felt forced and no fire at all.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 08:42 AM
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Start focusing on things to improve which are in your control. Ignore the rest. I bet there a dozens of other things other people don't like. You can either worry about it or improve stuff in your control.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:48 PM
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Why would anyone ever tell you that? I mean I would do that in some occasions if people really look shit. But it's a favor in that case. So if they would react butthurt I'd consider it weak character. I would be thankful for the feedback if its honest or just say I like it anyway. Otherwise its the lamest dis I ever heard.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:20 AM
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Realize that fun and happyness are not the same. Strife for happyness not for fun. Happyness will last and is often achieved by pain, suffering and hard work. Fun is easily achieved but will not fulfil you on the long run. Fun is necessary here and there but will not make you happy.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:17 AM
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You still behave like a beta faggot as long as you worry about such unnecessary stuff of the past. You did what u did. U were who you were. Focus on becoming better.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:17 AM
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It's nothing you can determine without the context. Also, there is no correct universal answer. "i want you right now" wouldn't that be validating or" To me this sounds super cringy. But that does not mean anything. It does not matter what you say but if you mean it. Don't try to say sth because you think the other people want to hear that. Be yourself. Say what you would say. And have your own back when things go bad. Its easy to say but super hard to learn. So if you are the type of guy that w…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:55 AM
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Say what you want. Don't ringle tingle around. That's what girls do. You are not a girl
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:38 AM
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Stop improving yourself to please others. Then learn how to improve yourself to please yourself.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:05 AM
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Stay true to yourself. Don't try to be someone else. Many ppl have this retarded standard alpha stereotype in their head and try to play that role.which leads to a brittle fake frame. (aka I'm alpha now so I hit the guy in the bar in the face because he made fun of me instead of laughing it off as usual) Being a confident attractive guy is totally indepandent of you being a clown or a macho coolio. My guess would be that you never can express your own true opinion of a topic without hiding it be…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:58 PM
1

See a therapist. You will get through it anyway but the more care you take now to clean your mind, the less boomerang you have to face in ten years. You will have to face your thoughts and believe me it's better to do it now and within the next year than lock it away and let it come back later in life. It's a hit everybody has to take at some point and you will learn a lot about yourself and life. Some face this earlier, others later.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:49 PM
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You don't have trouble attracting them but you cannot attract them on the street.. Weird. Seems to be easiest to blame the theory than to admit your shitty game and search for improvements. It's normal that woman show resistance. I hope you know that. Most pretty ones go into bitch mode. Keep calm, keep it nice, stay on course. Easy as that. After 5 mins the bitch face cracks open and you get the real lady. Then you can start working. They learned to do that because its the best way to shush awa…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:38 AM
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Whenever you receive a personal opinion you are taking it as an objective fact. Try to handle it like it is. A single expression of a single opinion from a single person among dozens in your proximity. Don't shit on it, don't overvalued it. There are most likely a dozen more different opinions about you out there. Many you don't even know about. Keep it relative.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:23 PM
3

Bought an ecigarette. Matched nicotine levels to my cigarette level. 3-5 a day. Reduced weekly over a couple of months until I smoked 0% nicotine. Stopped completely. Was a good e cigarette though. ~100 bucks altogether. Rolled my own coils. It made lots of tasty fume. Had a cheap thin one before but that one was no fun. Dunno what's good nowadays. Just don't get some thin stick. The big boomers look weird but they are much much more fun to smoke and easier in maintenance. I had fun for the time…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:35 PM
2

In a social setting there is always some testing out at first contact. Just hold frame. Example: I have a friend who talks to every pretty woman he sees. He's average looking and quite small but very trained. They often give him the bitch face, stare on their phones etc. Initially . I would be instantly demotivated. However he just laughs it off and stays on course. Not macho just friendly, straight up unshakeable and honest. He keeps talking. If they wanna leave he just asks them to stay nicely…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:02 PM
1

This. Stop searching for another reason to not ask her out.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:44 AM
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That's not a shit test. Just her opinion. Why would you even care. U gave way too many fucks. Don't explain urself. U can drink whatever you want.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:10 AM
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I'd suggest not to try to force it. Theres no magic recipe. Be confident, skilled, honest, genuine, strong, smart and hold your opinion high while beeing able to admit mistakes. Care for yourself first without beeing selfish. Always give everyone the feeling you got the situation in check. Always. You are the bus driver. Your group are the pessengers. It doesn't matter how fast you drive as long as you now where you are going and get the ppl to the goal. If you get nervous because ppl tell you t…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 08:28 PM
4

You don't take leadership. You get chosen if you have leadership qualities.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 08:07 PM
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Gym session. You fuck yourself up so hard in the evening that you fall right into bed.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:59 PM
2

Also: 'the subtle art of not giving a fuck' and 'Models' by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:08 PM
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This. Keep it up 12 months. You hardly have had any real ups and downs so far. Consistency is key. You will never notice a sudden Boom that's it moment. But you will notice small differences to how others react to you. Then after 12-24 months if you look back to your current self that's the moment you will realize how much you have changed. But you gotta keep it up.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:44 PM
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Much truth here. Its not about talking girls into anything. First you make yourself a worthy man, polished, skilled, fit and shiny. Then you be yourself. Try to give more fucks about your own opinion cause for you it should always be the most important one. Attraction is often based on friction and edges. So live your edges out. People will disagree with you, they will mislike your opinion and edges but at the end of the day if you stay true to them you will create respect and attraction. (Don't…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:51 AM
1

Good that you approached her! But he's kinda right. Know what you want and go for it directly.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:06 AM
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Don't underestimate the power of genuity. Appearing as someone who naturally does not need to make power plays and appearing as a strong, direct and honest personality is also dsiplaying confidence. And confidence is attractive as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:16 PM
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Yes. Its not about egoism but about the fact that a good leader can watch for their own needs and holds on to them before anyone elses. Thats better for everyone in the group/pack this way. Woman might get pissed but at the same time it's very attractive to them. Also, why bother with woman that don't like it your way. Just filter through them quickly until you find someone who shares your way.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:05 PM
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1) Noone can tell you. That fact is a gift and a burden. Some ppl can't take the burden, that's why there exist religions. 2) It's on you to decide. And it's the most important and most difficult decision. Everyone can have their own answer and every single one is correct. Whenever you feel stuck and think you understood it all and shit, you know nothing. Get out of your comfort zone, start exploring, do crazy stuff and you will find a dozen new experiences, driving you forward into new perspect…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:37 PM
1

I can suggest travelling alone for a couple of weeks. Make a road trip, tramp, train, motorbike all by urself. It just clicked for me and it is way easier to approach people and be interesting this way.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:16 PM
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Or cucumber
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:21 PM
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Don't look forward to the date beeing sth as if you need to prove anything. Handle it like going out with a friend. Have fun and enjoy urself. If she doesn't get along with you, she obviously is noone you want to spend time with anyway. No effort required from you. Except abit of grooming and dressing upfront.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:12 PM
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What is a comfort test?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:50 PM
1

What about beeing yourself? Better give her the chance to neglect you for your real self. You will otherwise waste lots of time with woman that will sooner or later drop you when they fins out who you really are. Your time is too precious to waste for those.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:29 PM
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Imho there is no easy way out. The guy pays. Any decent woman which was interested in me started paying our bills too or at least offered to pay at the second or third date. Kind of a thing of manners and respect in my experience. But i also dont have a ton of dates on the other hand because im not failing often enough. Id suggest to take her somewhere cheap for first date. Never diner. Just drinks, coffee or cooking at home.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:25 PM
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Don't expect to be happy and motivated automatically per default. Thats not how it works. First comes the suffering, the work, the progress, the courage to start sth. Motivation, happiness, energy and attractivity come after automatically. You have to earn it.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:29 PM
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Make sure you see urself in the right way. Reality check with colleagues. Polarise your opinion. Speak open to management. Be open to feedback. Evaluate their opinion against yours. If yours is better try to convince. If they dont want to reflect and you dont wanna follow, leave.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:54 PM
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Be honest. Be bold. Tell her you think shes cute and you wanna meet her. You just fucked up at the party not asking her out. Its only weird if you make it feel weird.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 03:54 PM
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Nani?!
/r/askTRP19/05/18 03:51 PM
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Have seen good results by integrating him like a buddy for a while. Show that you can socialise instantly and smooth with dude and woman. After a couple of minutes tell him twas nice to meet him but you got to take care of the lady now. (Good opener for you to start sth too. Switch places, take her dancing/home etc) If she's attracted she will backup your lead, confirm your plan and youll have a good base for further escalation.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:27 AM
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Might be stress induced.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:34 AM
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Good points here. It is okay to be nervous. You need to be okay with yourself beein g nervous, accept the fact, don't feel bad about it and focus on measures to be less nervous in the feature. A good way is getting routine. (But maybe not necessarily in the situation you mentioned...)
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:03 PM
2

...and maybe rethink the china pills and consult a doctor if possible.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:21 AM
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This. Also can suggest Models by Mark Manson. Your situation is mentioned in the book and he suggests how to behave. Afair His advice is to stop lying to yourself. Dont tell yourself you are not hitting on them when actually you are etc. Be bold. Tell them what you want. Be genuine. Polarise. If there is no differential in your behaviour when you are hitting on a girl and when you have just usual business with her, thats an issue. One more thing... A girl i went to high school with- she posted o…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:56 AM
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