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That's cool. Sounds like a nice experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:59 PM
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I don't think this is universally true with everyone. I'm demi-sexual and don't feel much attraction to people until really feel like I know and trust them. And that knowing and trusting takes a long time to build. which means conventional dating doesn't work well for me. A friends to lovers transition is about the only thing that works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:52 PM
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Go to r/DeadBedrooms and ask there as well. This is a huge complaint there. No, it doesn't feel good to be the one who is always initiating. People like the validation of feeling desired as much as they like the actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:09 PM
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"You don't give me sex and act offended when I act like I have a right to your bodies?! Well fuck you, I'll vote for politicians who will take your rights away so you'll have no options or agency! That'll show you, bitch!" What deranged shit is this, and why is it being upvoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:10 PM
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The women who have sex with him could be in the dark and not know his body count. Sex wouldn't imply approval of his body count in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:46 PM
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If I know a guy is a man-hoe it's a MAJOR turn-off for me. I once had a "friend" at work that would brag about his conquests. He got into online dating and had a rotating carousel of 5 women he was dating/fucking the same time. One day out of the blue he told me he was planning on dropping them all so that he could focus on one woman - me. I felt so repulsed. I just wanted to scoff in his face, like who would think a woman would want to date you after hearing about your fuck-boy adventures over …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:39 PM
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I know multiple people who have met their spouses through online dating, including my brother and a good friend. That being said, I think it's an absolute jungle and feels like a human meat market. It's not for me personally and I've learned to admit that and avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:25 PM
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No, men should not drop out of society. I love men. I've had dozens of wonderful men in my life: partners, relatives, neighbors and friends. Many of them have wonderful generous souls and are kind and caring. Yes, men are responsible for the majority of violent crime. But that's still a tiny minority of men. The vast majority of men are pretty awesome IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:40 AM
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Yes, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:30 PM
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Agreed with what you said. And to follow that up, you can't hate someone into liking you. So a man ranting about how much women suck and how much he despises them will only make his prospects lower. It's a self-perpetuating mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:07 PM
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Who you date has more to do with your own psychological struggles and the dynamic you are used to from childhood than anything else. There are many women who had a horrible dynamic with their parents and many men as well. These people tend to seek out the same type of dynamic and the same drama in their partners at a subconscious level that most are not even aware of. Children or alcoholics are more likely to date alcoholics. Same goes for various types of abuse and neglect. That type of dynamic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:17 PM
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There's no "only" here. You're choosing to put the word in, but it doesn't apply. Long term partner = You're good enough to raise kids with AND you're stable enough to split living expenses with AND we share common values AND I love you AND I want us to always support each other AND I want to have sex with only you for the rest of my life AND I think you're hot AND I miss you when you're away...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:05 PM
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It's only "easier" to be a husband if you're focused solely on the looks aspect. There are many other selection criteria for husbands and many other hoops to jump through than there are for a 1-night-stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:51 PM
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It's because there are MORE selection criteria for husbands (or wives) than FWB. If you're choosing someone for a fling, first and foremost you need to want to fuck them. So looks, sexual ability, and charisma are the top metrics used to judge that. A marriage is about more than sex. It's about long-term compatibility: meaning you suddenly have tons more qualifiers than sexual compatibility alone. Such as aligning political, religious and moral values. Financial stability. Agreement on who's doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:45 PM
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Thanks for being open to understanding my point. I agree with most of what you're saying as well... I'm really not a fan of hookup culture myself. I of course support the right of consenting adults to do whatever they want to do (none of my business), but would also not be attracted to men who were into hookups. It's a turn-off for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:08 AM
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I understand your perspective, but I wasn't only speaking about hook-up culture. If young women are taught as they're growing up that their sexual urges are dirty / wrong and people (parents , leaders) react with revulsion and disapproval when it comes up, that can stick with them. And when it goes a step further into religious judgement and purity culture stuff it can stick with them even harder. Years later when they enter a marriage - possibly as a virgin - they are expected to drop years of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:34 AM
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Ah yes, the double edged sword of shaming women about their sexual desires. The intended effect - the first edge of the sword - is that it cuts down on premarital sex and number of partners. The second effect is it can make women view all sexual desires as shameful and ruin their response to sexual advances for life - even within society-approved settings like their marriage. The book "Come as you are" goes into details of the effect of sexually shaming women on their comfort with sex long term.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:33 PM
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Every woman (and man) has their shit. I don't have the same shit, but my own list - cellulite since I was 16 despite being underweight, eczema, early graying hair, etc. There's no reason to pick on her and make her feel bad about it; it's pretty normal to have problems to manage and to feel overwhelmed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:07 PM
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I am. I would say the percent each person pays should vary slightly based on income (assuming both people are working at full capacity and not being a bum / coasting off the other), but in general around 50/50 is preferable. In fact, if a man I'm dating starts covering much more than 50% I start getting nervous, because I feel like in his mind I might "owe him" and I don't like being indebted to anyone ever. Makes me very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:26 PM
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women literally fuck with stranger men on first date Some women will fuck a stranger on a first date. Some men will fuck a stranger on a first date. Many will not. There's no use in making blanketed statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:52 PM
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I can't imagine preferring a virgin man. I'd like a man to have some clue what he's doing down there and not have to teach him everything as he fumbles around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:57 PM
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