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Did it actually help/make a difference? And where/what did you learn from?
/r/seduction23/05/26 09:02 AM
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Am Ball bleiben mein Freund
/r/seduction20/05/26 09:39 PM
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Fifty shades of grey was a Twilight fanfic and had a huge female audience around the globe. Don't read a fanfic of one women what a handful of other women have read. Read a romance novel with women as their target audience
/r/seduction04/04/26 10:57 AM
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Bro, if that's you in your profile pic you are not a 3-4
/r/seduction27/03/26 04:36 PM
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What science? It boils down to "be attractive. Don't be unattractive". OP wrote it himself, he only goes for women who are extremely sexual attracted to him. That's like selling ice-cream during a hot summer day. Some will want ice. Some would rather have a cola.
/r/seduction24/03/26 08:12 PM
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Ask for help and see how she reacts. Preferably something physical. You bought a new closet and need help to set it up. You are moving into a new apartment. Your family has a grill party and there is plenty of work to do (decorating, grocery shopping, cooking). See how she reacts and if she helps, how helpful is she trying to be. Even if she is bad at it, it's the effort that counts.
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:41 PM
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One of the greenest green flags I know is: private Instagram profile and less followers than followed
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:36 PM
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True, I work in an agency and 90% of my team are women. Negative is that the fine ones are always already taken
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:27 PM
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That's your issue. You are calling it unfair but who decides that? Is it unfair that I need to work to earn money to pay my rent? It is what it is. Is it unfair that I can't harvest strawberries in my garden because it's early march? It is what it is.
/r/seduction04/03/26 11:53 AM
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These are the kind of people that end up on askwomen or askmen "why are all men like that?" posts
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:09 AM
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With all the work and change you have ahead of you, women should be you last/least concern. Get everything else in place and by the time you meet a girl who is into you, you won't even need to ask yourself this question because the old loser guy is already an image of the past. Focus on the important things.
/r/seduction22/02/26 10:07 PM
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Find better friends XD
/r/seduction21/02/26 09:33 PM
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You are right but and as you say, attractiveness is subjective. The issue is when people think that looks is everything to attractiveness. Looks are important (same with men if we are honest) but not as important as most guys make it out to be.
/r/seduction21/02/26 09:49 AM
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I think there are levels to this. Causing others discomfort doesn't mean making their life hell or causing harm.
/r/seduction21/02/26 09:30 AM
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I did once some years ago. Didn't find it much helpful but maybe I need to revisit it
/r/seduction21/02/26 09:23 AM
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How to get there?
/r/seduction20/02/26 02:46 PM
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Damn, "doesn't pursue what he wants if it's going to cause other people discomfort" pretty much sums me up. I thought it was me being considerate of others but during the last few years and especially during my last (failed) relationship I had to understand that this mindset does me more harm than good. It's difficult to deprogram yourself out of this if "being good and nice" was how you are supposed to be. I know i don't need to be a toxic asshole but I struggle even with this kind of healthy e…
/r/seduction20/02/26 02:45 PM
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I mean, baking bread is pretty easy if you follow the multi step process.
/r/seduction20/02/26 02:34 PM
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Because you write like a 6 year old wannabe gangster. No wonder you prefer voice messages and calls if your sentences don't contain fully written words for the most part.
/r/seduction16/02/26 05:38 PM
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I would say having a system or knowing what got you there. It's like having friends. Some people struggle with making friends. Some have friends but they kind of happened and they can't reproduce that outcome on their own by choice. And then you have the very social kind of people who making friends and getting to know people is like second nature. So getting laid and being the guy is a matter of knowing what got you there in the first place and being able to reproduce the same outcome again and…
/r/seduction11/02/26 11:23 PM
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You need to learn how to walk before you run
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:14 PM
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Something about milking a centaur sugar daddy. And women find men disgusting for their porn consumption?
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:38 PM
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You matched her on a dating app or how did you connect?
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:22 PM
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Just want less is the solution 😂 I did that and it's miserable. It's like admitting defeat or being satisfied with scraps. What do you get from lowering your standards? Taking anything that you can get? Resenting your partner because you wished you were with someone else? Sounds like a bad ending. Instead improve yourself to the point where attract someone you find worth being with.
/r/seduction28/11/25 02:20 PM
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Generally or since the divorce? I am a rather funny and charismatic guy when I get to know people. The girls I hooked up with in the past were always girls I either new through classes or interacted over multiple days during business events. I am rather shy at the beginning and struggle to break the ice. It's mostly a confidence issue with me. Haven't done anything since the divorce. It's been 7-8 months since. Still don't feel like ready.
/r/seduction26/11/25 12:32 PM
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Yeah you are right and I am still in my "I don't want to bother women" mindset that I find excuses to not approach. This morning on my way to work there was a cute girl reading a book. Could have approached her but my head just gave we reasons to not do it or I had no idea how. It's so fucked up.
/r/seduction25/11/25 11:57 AM
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Open for ideas but yeah. I will need to jump into the cold water at some point
/r/seduction25/11/25 11:07 AM
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Haha, thanks I guess. To be honest, I am very disheartened by all of this and sometimes (often in recent months) it feels like there is no point to it and I am destined to die alone. I know that this is a defeatist mindset and it's not all gloom but the mind can be a strong force (positive and negative). It sucks that I am how I am right now and I don't know where or how to start to change. But I knowing that I need to if I want to life the live I want is at least the first step.
/r/seduction25/11/25 10:09 AM
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It's not mean. I know how bad I am and need to change. About your question. I don't often check out this SubReddit but when I do the advice often seems very generic or too vague. Seldom something very specific and understandable one can implement immediately. Most post come from guys trying to make it look like they cracked the code. You read it, don't understand what to do but it looks like he does and now you booked the coaching or program.
/r/seduction25/11/25 07:28 AM
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What do you want to know? single for 28 years, then in a 2,5 year relationship from which 1 year was married. Now divorced. I am your classical "no relationship experience, falls in love with the first girl who likes him back and rushes into marriage" guy. Can you suck even more? 😂
/r/seduction24/11/25 09:10 PM
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Dude, I am the same. My friend called me the shy extrovert. I can't approach people I don't know and I feel out of place in a room full of strangers. Even if there is one new person in a group of people I know, I will be all quiet and people wondering what's wrong with me
/r/seduction24/11/25 09:05 PM
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I will borrow a concept of the business world - Diversification. Don't do just Apps, don't do just day approach. How about being a well rounded guy who excels in all areas of socialising? That way you have multiple income streams 😂
/r/seduction07/11/25 01:31 PM
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Best down to earth advice I have read on Reddit in a long time
/r/seduction13/10/25 09:58 AM
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Most guys suck at socialising in general why they don't even have a third party to begin with
/r/seduction05/10/25 09:50 PM
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The tune .ales the music. I saw your other reply and being all confrontational will earn you down votes. You can disagree with someone's argument in a more appropriate manner.
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:50 PM
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Haha, women who have more following than followers was always my secret green flag. Extra points if the profilen is private.
/r/seduction04/10/25 08:32 AM
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The first one was a short term thing during my semester abroad in Denmark. We both knew that I would stay only for a few months so we enjoyed the time together. The other one I actually married. We dated for a few months and it felt just right. life felt just so much better, easier, funnier together with her. So we started a commited relationship. We married 2 years later. Been married for a year but she asked to divorce due to personal reasons. It honestly shattered my heart. Especially because…
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:48 AM
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If I would be able to make female friends I wouldn't have problems meeting women.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:39 AM
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I think the biggest frustration or issue for men arise is when they think women respond to the same way they do, which is a legitimate assumption but leads to misery for both parties.
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:23 PM
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Oh yes. The moment a guy meets a women who is genuinely attracted to him changes your worldview. I know it did for me. One you experience that you just know what it means when a women is into you. Too bad that this happened only twice in my life so far and very far between.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:37 PM
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He will probably remember it until his death
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:34 PM
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Even I got that and I am the type of guy who crossed a whole nightclub because I didn't understand that the girl wanted to dance with be and I tired to move out of her way 😅
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:54 PM
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Good examples and I think this is what guys are missing when they get advice like "built a life" or "touch grass". They are as clueless about these places as the girls are.
/r/seduction21/09/25 10:27 AM
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As long as you are clear that you are interested in me and like me that's seduction enough for me. What does liking me mean? Same as it does for women (I think). You are interested in me as a person, you respect and value my opinion and decision, you try as well to make it work. Too many women I met act like men should treat her as the centre of their world. Priorities her needs, her schedule and so on. That's so often that for most men that is the norm and they are even happy if they date a gir…
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:28 AM
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Not if you are a hot women
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:24 AM
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I mean, I am not a women but running your nails across someone's back isn't something you would do to a stranger you are unattracted to, right? Honestly, even if I were attracted to that person I couldn't do something like that. Big respect for that confidence
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:23 AM
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Yeah, I was definitely the breadcrumbs kind of guy, being confused and complaining about mixed signals until I met a women who was "fuck yes". Meeting someone who is truly into you and experiencing genuine desire changes your perception.
/r/seduction11/09/25 09:17 PM
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How do I get there what you describing or how do I learn this?
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:18 PM
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