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| 1 | Why do women find it so hard to not be fat?I don’t think I’m overthinking this one.. I think this is a sad reality and people just don’t want to accept it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:53 PM |
| – | Why do women find it so hard to not be fat?Truth sister… and this is not an effort to be a feminist or shame men, but honestly, women have been victims long enough and it’s becoming so repulsive of the lengths that are being taken to keep women in a place of mercy, to only placate the ego of men.. Men are going to be forced to show humility.. if humility is what they have to do to get laid and other men are doing it, they will jump on every bandwagon thy can to do it.. even if it means having sex with other men.. It’s a manipulative tact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?I work with autism as a profession.. Yes hold a routine because anything newly introduced without warning causes chaos in the mind.. But preplanned preparation is perfectly fine. If they have a schedule that they know Cindy is Monday and Jenny is Tuesday.. they can easily compartmentalize the 2 different women far more than someone that’s neurotypical or ADHD. They in fact don’t get as emotionally vested into overlaps .. that’s why the polyamorous community has a high autism rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?ASD men are my polarity, because I’m an ADHD woman.. The one thing I noticed is ASD men that are high functioning and intelligent tend to be into polyamory relationships.. whereas ADHD can’t compartmentalize people in separate boxes.. we combine everything into one group.. ASD seems to have a special box for everyone and they can be in box Cindy on Monday and as long as Cindy is on Monday, Jenny can be on Tuesday.. Cindy Monday as long as there’s a mantra and same time same place it’s perfect be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?Because women are afraid of that guy as much as men are afraid of a woman who seems to be perfect.. Beautiful women are rejected more than mediocre women.. beautiful women are more likely to be cheated on, abused and usually after they lowered the standards thinking it would be an advantage.. Women avoid the guy that they think they will have to compete for.. because it’s absolutely exhausting. It’s exhausting for both genders to be in competition constantly.. That being said, mediocrity usually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 09:30 PM |
| 4 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Younger men attempt to date older women all the time.. and older men are trying to date younger women.. but honestly, most women prefer their own age range. We don’t want old men.. that’s such a fallacy. Some shallow women, might want an old rich man, but just the average older man.. No Older woman are actually more likely to date a younger guy because they have sexual compatibility.. ( no other reason) All high age gap relationships have a high divorce rate.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:39 AM |
| 3 | The ugly side of pretty privilege. What are some ugly experiences you encounter as an exceptionally attractive person?Men in general hate the fact that women modernly are educated and independent..that’s why average guys are now are choosing damsels in distress or women that are not educated. The only men that aren’t threatened by intelligence and independence are wealthy men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | The ugly side of pretty privilege. What are some ugly experiences you encounter as an exceptionally attractive person?I feel that 100%.. I looked around at couples that I know and are the most well connected, well rounded and stressless, most of which are more average in appearance.. Iv been dumped for people less attractive, less intelligent and less classy than myself. For the love of God, if you dump me do it for someone better than me.. Attractiveness has been a huge detriment and I’m tired of hearing, oh boo hoo,,, I was overweight about 10 years ago and I had far more friends than when I lost weight and g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 12:33 AM |
| 6 | The ugly side of pretty privilege. What are some ugly experiences you encounter as an exceptionally attractive person?That attractiveness doesn’t buy love. In fact it invokes resentment in just about everyone including men. If you’re pretty, intelligent and throw independent into that, you become a threat and are accused of making men feel inadequate.. Woman that are maybe less attractive either embrace the friendship or find things wrong with you just because they are jealous. In relationships, partners are overly possessive and jealous because they are in fear of losing you to someone else.. so they are more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Women and Men have completely different ideas about sexHonestly, a lot of guys don’t understand intimacy. In fact a lot of women just placate them in this area, which makes them think that other women are, “ too much work “. As time goes on and from what I’m learning, men in general ( not all ) don’t want to put in the work. They want easy and casual.. commitment just causes them to become resentful.. as evidence by my personal experience and also my direct reading of these OPs on here.. They don’t understand women’s anatomy.. I’m questioning the po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Will polygyny be normalized in the future?This is a model in Islamic countries because so many women are left widowed. It’s also s rule that they provide for up to 4 wives.. Men in our society can’t even provide for one wife. Plus the men in Islam can’t really do that either.. it’s only the wealthy that can actually participate in this.. and for the women, it’s indignant and oppressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What is causing gen z men to be "pill theory" obsessed?People become so obsessed with social media that they confuse reality with fantasy. The scary thing is gen z becoming so obsessed they perform heinous acts because they think they might be entitled to it.. That’s why it’s dangerous for people to live on social media.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Menopause isn’t much of an issue for the women I know.. as long as they manage it.. some don’t have hot flashes, others do. I think that hormone therapy has helped immensely and honestly our modern age for those who take care of themselves, do rather well.. Yes- high age gap marriages don’t last.. the success rate is low.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.If you are willing to wait until the right person shows up, then do that.. but it’s an if the right person shows up.. Standards for you might be another guys repulsion. Some guys like dirty women, some like overweight, some like skinny, some like successful, others like desperate and needy. There’s literally variety for a reason.. not everyone has the same taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 01:12 AM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Women’s bodies break down faster than men’s.. Well considering as women we have far more interest in getting medical attention and fortunately because of our modern age of hormone therapy and calcium injections, we have pretty much covered that problem. Men do have a decrease in androgen which decreases testosterone and end up with prostate problems as a result. They can produce sperm until death, however they have a decreased quality of sperm production and the sperm count drops drastically. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?People can think they are healed or not even know how damaged they are for years and years.. My x husband didn’t show his trauma until our daughter was born.. People can suppress their trauma for lifetimes and it could come out in late life.. I absolutely knew hurt people hurt people.. I was studying to be a therapist in my 20s.. that was a huge discussion and I work with disabled people.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:05 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?No.. where did I say I didn’t know that earlier in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Sure, age doesn’t always equate to experience either.. I was also speaking in generalities when I said Younger can’t be wise.. ( It’s just not the norm ) Sure, older people that are unhealed, can be too wounded to love.. However, people that can’t love wounded people are usually wounded themselves… And wounded people can’t love until they can love themselves.. Iv done more inner work in the last 10 years, than I ever did in my earlier years.. people who are wounded, usually have childhood trauma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:19 PM |
| 0 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yes, in my age range, we get older men and younger men after us. I just prefer same age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Older than you probably, but not old by any means.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?That’s sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 03:30 PM |
| 3 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?No everything isn’t superficial and not everyone is superficial.. There’s a huge difference between used as a sex object and being made love to.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:29 PM |
| -1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I wouldn’t be lusting over anyone just because they have money. I also wouldn’t want a relationship based on money.. In reference to older men in general yes, I’m 49 and my husband is 50. We are newly weds and we have zero issues with attraction to each other. I wouldn’t be attracted to a younger man. To me, the generational gap is too much and they haven’t acquired wisdom, which is what I find attractive. Plus a man of 25 isn’t even fully mature or developed half the time. They have soft hands … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?We can make our own money.. we aren’t all shallow and you’re speaking in such an immature thought process.. Unless you’ve lived it, you have absolutely nothing to add.. You will be eating crow from those comments one day.. I can promise you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?We can make our own money.. we aren’t all shallow and you’re speaking in such an immature thought process.. Unless you’ve lived it, you have absolutely nothing to add.. You will be eating crow from those comments one day.. I can promise you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yep- been there done that!!! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Why are we more intellectual. Firstly because we have life experience. Most of the time we are back in the dating arena because we’ve been either abused emotionally and/or physically. We grew apart from our first marriage or we simply never found the right person.. there’s several reasons. That’s not implying that a younger woman can’t be intellectual. They just simply haven’t lived as long so they most likely have far less experiences to have learned from. We learn from experience above all. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:17 AM |
| 6 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Agreed 100% the only thing OP is talking about is emotionally immature behavior. As we get older we have already lived out our superficial lives. We are looking for meaning and purpose. We are looking for enrichment, service and true love if we never had it., Those young fake relationships end for a reason and most older people aren’t looking to make the same mistakes they made 20-30 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:10 AM |
| -2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Younger women that are looking for the daddy figure are usually from low socioeconomic backgrounds.. an older man that has integrity isn’t going to choose a woman who is a shallow loser to just get laid.. older men usually have sex drive issues anyway. The cheating rate for younger women married to older wealthy men is significantly higher. Older women aren’t all ugly either., otherwise we wouldn’t have 15 cubs a day on our dating profiles. Sure, the cubs just want sex and some older women that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?No, as a woman in my 40s, I only want a man in my age range.. when I was in my 20s, I only wanted men in my age range. It has nothing to do with money for me.. I can’t speak for others but money is actually a deterrent for me. Men with money think they can buy women and also they think it gives them some sort of power. They usually have an arrogance about them that I find appalling. I work in healthcare as a therapist .. Iv had wealthy older men ask me to date them, marry them, be their mistress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?As far as extra income for single parents, depending on the state, and depending on the income of the single parent, that is available. I was a single mother, so I understand that sometimes it’s necessary.. l will also go as far to say that 2 fighting parents in the household, is more toxic than a single parent household.. We live in a perpetual state of toxic projection. People spew venomous words at each other more than anything loving. People see love as a weakness. People also see conflict a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?https://ifstudies.org/blog/do-two-parents-matter-more-than-ever There are plenty of studies that back up that kids in a 2 parent household have much better outcomes in life.. It depends on what you value.. if you don’t value self esteem, security, empathy, work ethics, and anything that’s tied to being overall more well balanced, than you are then fine.. The problem is kids who grow up under those conditions, don’t even see the difference, but that’s all they know.. So sure, they can survive wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?There’s study after study to back up the fact that kids need 2 parents. Mothers and fathers are equally as important., Secondly, the fact that it’s normal that opposite genders can’t get along, is pathological to say the least.. it’s a broken society if we can’t understand what a compliment means. Even if it’s 2 men or 2 women raising a child, it’s far more functional than a single parent. The stress on a single parent that has no financial support is absolutely insane. How much can one person d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Than why are there so many families where the man has abandoned the situation? How often do you hear, “dead beat moms?” Statistically men are far more likely to cheat.. https://images.app.goo.gl/LtYZ5DNLwJ2cw5BG6 Men’s crave for quantity over quality has been the norm in society. Women can do it modernly but it’s because we have had to.. we can’t rely on a spouse to provide anymore.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?That too… but mostly the family unit being abandoned because of the sexual assessable world we live in, men would rather abandon a family for a chance at sexual diversity. It’s more important for him to have multiple partners than a family.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Did he walk out on the new wife also? It seems like when it happens once, it becomes an easy decision to do it again.. Sometimes the grass is greener.. sometimes it’s not.. it depends on who’s the problem. Sometimes it’s both and some it’s only one. Sometimes people are just too lazy to do the work and other times they’re just happy in a state of constant newness.. The newness wears off and then on to the next one.. what they don’t see is that each time a person moves on to the next one, a chip … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:10 AM |
| 9 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?That’s because it’s easier for men to not have to commit in this new age. They push the single parent narrative, so they are excused from even being a full time parent. Bad marriages obviously aren’t good for kids either, so it’s really a double edged sword. People are just focused on selfish acts and that seems to trump even the family unit. Social media has destroyed humanity.. it’s too easy to cheat and people are just too lazy to work on themselves or relationships. It’s easier to just stay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.In all due respect, because I know what it’s like to be taken advantage of.. Iv known more male leaches than female. All the women I know, work and do provide. /Women require payment to converse with me?/ No, we just don’t want a dead beat. So be single! If your happy with no love, only toxic self love and resentment, than that’s your choice. Self love as it’s being portrayed all over social media platforms, has nothing to do with keeping the guard up, having only friends with benefits, or keepi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Let’s put this a different way.. we aren’t ambiguous beings.. some might like to think so but we have genders. Why do you want to make males and females out to be undefined.. we are defined and we aren’t the same. Sexual attraction is as encapsulated into our makeup, as our fight or fight response. Females are attracted to physical strength, ability to protect, provide and survive in harsh conditions. Sure, we have some modern changes to this but it doesn’t take away what I find arousing. We can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I’m sorry but I’m an actual woman and myself and several other women can concur, that we are attracted to masculine men that are willing to fight for us.. It’s not a pedestal. It’s a show of your own masculinity. If he doesn’t treat us like a woman, then he’s what we consider a “lazy sperm”. The lazy sperm doesn’t get the egg. Since women are far pickier than men and we have more options because we are willing to go without. We will be abstinent until a real man pops up, and is ready to “man up.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Women don’t expect men to pay for those reasons. You’re trying to fight biology because you’re so feminized by society. Women want masculinity. That means assertion, boldness, bravery, and feeling protected. This is biology, period! Show me a mammal species where the female takes control of the male. If you don’t beat out the other men, then the female naturally will take the man that does. We are wired for survival. The man that wants the woman’s assertion isn’t the alpha, therefore doesn’t win… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men should NOT be performing oral sexThan they shouldn’t expect it either. It works both ways. The only reason why women have HPV, is because men give it to them. The vagina is the most sterile part of the body. It’s literally where life begins. The HPV vaccine is absolutely offered to men and teenage boys. Yes it’s covered by insurance. The gay bro subreddit welcomes you with open arms! So please don’t hesitate. The real men that actually like vagina, will have more to pick from! | /r/MensRights | 18/01/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Update on work accusationsI’m actually a woman in favor of equality. I try to look at things from different perspectives is why I commented here. In that case, just giving you the woman’s perspective. I think biggest problem men and women have is a lack of understanding the other. For so long the social construct was that women basically stayed quiet, because we knew our rights would be overturned. Modernly, there’s more equality in higher positions. That said, we are basically transitioning out of an old paradigm which … | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 09:48 AM |
| -6 | Update on work accusationsI’m not saying I disagree with it.. I’m just stating where she could have been coming from. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/24 05:32 AM |
| -13 | Update on work accusationsI think the difference is she was confiding in you with something personal and you were commenting on something with a sexual connotation. I think she’s a little ridiculous in her reaction, but considering she’s a virgin and inexperienced, she has no boundaries as to what’s acceptable and she might have been raised in a way that shamed her regarding sexual comments. Most people wouldn’t take that in a bad way but in her case and sensitivity, she took it badly. Another thing to consider is that s… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/24 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Nobody believes I was sexually harassedThere’s a monstrosity of boys that would have loved that kind of attention. I hate to say consider it a compliment, because as a woman who’s been sexualized my entire life, it isn’t enjoyable in the slightest, so I empathize. If you are truly a school boy, the school authorities will not tolerate inappropriate sexual abuse by any gender in the school systems.. If someone is inappropriately touching you, report them immediately. It sounds like you handled it maturely! Pity those who have to go to… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 09:38 AM |
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