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| 1 | I got 8 numbers but 0 dates ! WTF am I doing wrong ?If your close is “let’s grab a lunch sometime” (which is fair) the first follow up text is generally a good idea if it’s not to the date request.. unless she was so invested or even chasing, or for logistical issues. Better just open with your name, and/or some call back humor to the interaction. When she gives you some positives you go for the date. That’s gonna increase the possibility of seeing the girl again after the number close. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 03:23 AM |
| -1 | Girl Game A Little Push Pull & A Little Inner GameIt was not because you’re rating men. I find very fool also rating women, as it was already clear in my comment. Anycase, girls receive validation often just for their “existing” as attractive human beings. So regarding girl game, I guess you should looking for “high quality validation” (which is probably not a drink offered, which is the average man’s average “seduction” move). I don’t know you as a girl how much you need actual game. I mean, social intelligence (which is already a lot of game … | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl Game A Little Push Pull & A Little Inner GameNo one, boys or girls, should do game with the main purpose of gaining validation.. especially with people we’re actually not interested in. That’s just bad for the other people (giving someone false hope) and for our inner game as well (that’s gonna bring us to develop toxic relations and to feel dependent from other’s validation, pure insecurity). Game, all the “techniques” and so on, should represent for us a mean to better express our personality to others, improve ourselves as social beings… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Dating coachGus Olsen | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Text follow up after night outChat with her until you can see she’s quite invested in the convo or at least she gives you some positive signals (she flirt back or she just accept your flirticious frame, she makes jokes/banter or she laugh at yours, she qualifies to you etc.). At that point invite her out. Do a normal conversation but just be 10% more interesting than the average at every message. For example: Where are you from? ❌ You seem so German ✅ I’m at the gym rn. Wbu? ❌ At the gym rn, working on my shoulders for you ✅… | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 01:37 PM |
| 3 | What do I say?Drinking something at the bar, invite her home after it in the best scenario. Tell her “I was thinking about drinks and banter between attractive/cute people”.. maybe add “hope you’re into that as well ;)” | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:20 AM |
| 3 | What Do I say??“Yeah could be the case” or “well we gotta see then ;)” I mean, you’re already flirting. Hopefully he’s enough on the ball to escalate and lead for the date. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How to not be seen as a little brotherThe most practical immediate advise I can give you is: tease her, give her some hard time, don’t be afraid to disagree with her and treat her a bit superficially sometimes (don’t be a dick, do these things in a fun lighthearted way). | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How much time would you give her to thinkChange her emotions, not her mind. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Specific girl sees me in a patronizing wayThe most practical immediate advise I can give you is: tease her, give her some hard time, don’t be afraid to disagree with her and treat her a bit superficially sometimes (don’t be a dick, do these things in a fun lighthearted way). | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible or useful to qualify women in basic conversation?If she’s giving you signals of interest and you can tell the attraction is already there, qualify her is a good idea. Often tho, the earlier you create a man to woman premise and the earlier you ask her to qualify/qualify her.. the better. It’s also good to do it simultaneously: “Hey I just love your style I’m intrigued, I wanted to figure out more.. who are you?” That’s an opener which shows the premise in the first part, and in the second there is already kinda a qualifier question, an evaluat… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | What should I text? Still learningI think we just may have different definitions of “flirt”. I consider “flirt” any line (in the case of texting) which establish a man to woman frame.. not a friends frame or chit chat about the weather and so on. Flirt doesn’t necessarily have to show interest. For example if you say: “you’re trouble”, “me and you will never get along”, “you look like the girl my grandma warned me about” in a fun/lighthearted context, you’re not showing interest but you’re still flirting. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 02:43 AM |
| 3 | What should I text? Still learningSexual =/= flirty I agree, don’t be sexual. But being flirty is a general good idea (ofc depends from the context). There’s also such a thing like “too much flirt” but most of guys have the opposite problem: they’re not flirty, just always too logical and without any man to woman premise. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What should I text? Still learningHow did you meet this girl? What’s the context? Btw, since the moment you’ve already hinted for the date, you can maintain your frame with something like: “I think we both agree that drinks and banter between new attractive (/cute/charming/etc.) people (/strangers/friends/etc.) is definitely a worthier (funnier/cooler/etc.) activity” Anycase she didn’t reply positive to your (kinda boring actually) question, so probably it’s not the right time to hint for the date (I can’t tell precisely tho, I … | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 01:47 AM |
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