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| 1 | Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities areThere's two thing going on here. First of all "smart" is frequently code for "disagreeable and up to date on their leftwing media programming" in which case it should be obvious why men avoid those types. Secondly, men rightly tread cautiously around romancing women who are smarter, or taller, or much better looking than them etc. because they know they can get absolutely whalloped socailly with zero recourse. Courting is inherently always at least a minor social violation. It gives the woman th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | In your high school, how much flirting and/or inappropriate sexual interaction was there between teachers and students?Male teacher was bonking a student and went to prison. It was consentual but she was 17. I liked the teacher too, he was really smart and dropped all sorts of red pills in class (history). He was also handsome and like 6'8". I think that kinda contributed to his depression which led to the affair though because he should have been on a yacht somewhere instead of teaching high school. The sight of him getting in his tiny car every afternoon looked almost exactly like the scene with Mr. Incredible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's doing absolutely nothing here, using tons of momentum in each rep. Working out isn't about doing a certain number of reps or lifting a certain amount of weight it's about putting your muscles under continuous tension until your heart physically cannot pump away the lactic acid, then resting until your heart rate drops steeply and doing it again. This feels like absolute torture of course so barely anyone does it and they make up all sorts of weird routines, myths and whatever else to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou just have to hit a single good frame change and you're in her social bubble. Then the real test starts because you have to get through her logistical defenses in order to stay in the bubble long enough to build up narrative. Narrative is necessary to remain in her bubble when she has to go off on her own and her phone gets blown up by a billion and one guys. I think the system is designed so that a man and a woman isolated together will inevitably breed. Survival and what not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 11:16 PM |
| 5 | More data about increases in celibacyI think the factors are like people are saying here guys not trying, video games becoming more involved, but also a major shift in the attitude of the type of girls these guys can realistically get. They aren't getting with the blonde bikini modeling sorority girl, that much was true as far back as anyone can remember, so their chances are with nerd girls. Back in the 00's and befor nerd girls were basically just slightly more fluffy normal looking girls who acted like nerdy guys. Nowadays nearl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 7 | More data about increases in celibacyMy mom and sister have apolgized to me sincerely a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Do women really date “gross” and “unkempt men?They are wiping their butt probably it's just that wiping your butt with dry toilet paper is gross. There needs to be water down there to get it clean. Bidet, shower, or wet wipes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you have to project strength you don't have it, the iron law. If 2-3% of the population armed with guns really wanted the government to be gone they would be. Govt knows that and is coping wojack over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen are turned off by female ego, like the "I have a degree" attitude. I think because a big ego makes for a bad mother. They don't care about the degree itself, but they don't want to be broke either of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)Women aren't lying they just aren't describing their full exact preference range. Basically they'll break the range towards conventionally attractive way more easily than towards conventionally unattractive. A woman says she likes average height guys. She's not lying, but what she won't say is that she will still date taller, even though she doesn't prefer it to the maximum of her preference but maybe to 80 or 90 percent the max, but she will not date shorter which may be 1 percent of the max. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman who approaches men low value?Being approached by women is actually a nightmare because in my experience they want you to have perfect game or their ego gets bruised. They build you up in their head as this perfect cassanova or romance book protagonist, then when your game has flaws they think you must be clowning them or something. Women who are just a bit more talkative or hang around you more are way better and easier to talk to than approachers since you can start off in a friendly frame then make the ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.I believe that there's a statistic that the countries with the most women in typically male jobs are developing countries and as development increases the sex differentiation in employment actually becomes more stark not less. i.e. when women have options they tend to take the jobs they want. I've talked about this before but you're experience is likely to be atypical because a debate site and a public internet forum in general will strongly select for disagreeableness which is on average higher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.I don't know about with monkeys but here's a recent neuroimaging study which should also be pretty resistant to socialization. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32690678/ The blank slate has been quitely debunked but remains a political darling. I think our society is about to find out the very hard way that men can't be replaced with women and women can't be replaced with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.Good thing we have animal models that remove the effect of socialization. Like I said there's no accounting for individuals. Some men are 5'4 and some women are 6'2. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2583786/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStuff some fiat under your mattress if you believe in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGo to a doctor and nutritionist first because you may have thyroid problems or b vitamin deficiency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:15 AM |
| 2 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.I mean kinda yes. Men are generally more suited towards dealing with objects and rational problem solving. Men tend to do jobs like being a mechanic because being a mechanic is a very stressful job but they actually find the mechanical part relaxing and enjoyable. Women can do it but many of them would find the job doubly stressful, just like most men would find being a preschool teacher doubly stressful wheras there are more women who enjoy the interpersonal aspect. Of course there's no account… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:06 AM |
| 4 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.I mean he contributed whether he desinged the car or not. There probably does exist a more skilled female mechanic somewhere but I severly doubt the total skill of men and women in auto repair will ever be close to equal. Women as an aggregate will likely accept their car repairs being quite a bit more expensive before they take those jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 09:49 PM |
| 9 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.He literally rebuilt people's cars... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] How often do you think Men talk their way out of getting laid?Yes but if she's attracted then only temporarily. The line of attraction is like a trampoline. If you're attractive and you start saying some bs then it's storing up energy for when you reconcile. If you just say sorry then she's back and even higher than before. If she's not attracted then you're basically digging yourself down and have to work yourself up even harder, and if you do spit some mad game the next day it doesn't matter because the line bounced you back down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 09:17 PM |
| 3 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateI think eating more than a snack is an unfavorable date structure in general but the truth is that if what the first date is matters you've already lost. Doing the big expensive dinner is great if she actually likes you but if not then nothing will make you feel like shaving your inner arms really well in the tub more than realizing you were just a neuter validation bot to her, and you gave her everything she wanted to be discarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 12 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.The simping is just the validation part of the validation fantasy. It's like saying porn proves guys like girls that have a lot of sex. The sex is just validation. Subtract the validation and you get what porn proves guys like, i.e. young, thin, shapely, feminine, submissive, naive etc. Do the same for romance novels and you get tall, handsome, chiseled jaw, dangerous, mysterious, powerful etc. Of course that's not the full story on what men or women want or what really makes them happy it's jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.I hate to break it to you but if a woman was actually sitting there thinking in her brain "that guy is attractive" then you don't have to flirt. You just go up to her have a short conversation to show you aren't a serial killer then ask her out. And the point is still not, "so what do I do" it's what you are. If dominating a local league is what you'd be doing without any possibility of getting women then you do that. And if you're passionate about getting a house then that's great, talk about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.You're not getting it, you can be country you just can't be in a holding pattern in life. You can't be doing stuff because if you didn't do it women wouldn't like you, you have to have legitimate ambition. Like you should have actual ambition and drive in athletic acheivement, not just do the same gym routine week over week because if you didn't women wouldn't like you. That's why women love athletes but express distaste in gym rats, not because they don't like muscle but because they want guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.Another sad victim of the height and money alpha memes. Women just want you to have main character face and main character energy. They want a guy who is ambitious and hungry in every aspect of life, dudes then get it confused that if they are some midwest plumber or real estate broker that makes six figures that will attract women, or that if they have huge arnie muscles that will attract women. These things are the halfway compromise that dudes are comfortable with, and male comfort repulses w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?There's no accounting for taste of course, but some disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?I agree you likely can afford it. I'm not saying to necessarily divide where one person doesn't do any chores, just that that division can still be fair. People seem to act like any division where both partners don't do some chores is inherently unfair when that's just demonstrably not true. If we're talking about the optimal divison I think that one partner working and doing a little bit of chores while the other does chores and a little bit of work is probably the best due to diminishing retur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?Or everyone just does chores and you live in a spotless home with no food. Neither sounds good so we should probably come up with a way to balance the relative contribution from work and chores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?If you feel going to work is the better end of the deal then finding a partner to stay home seems like a good option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?I'm not against whatever scenario people want to have. I'm just against the notion that staying at home doing chores is some sort of infinite contribution that can't be compared to going to work when they can be directly compared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?If you can afford it that sounds good. I'm not saying to not contribute, just that there are different ways to contribute. If you're working a job you aren't dumping the entire load any more than they're dumping the entire load on you by not coming to work with you and helping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 01:31 AM |
| 9 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?I agree, this is actually a good reason why the working dad should do even less chores. He needs time with the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?I think 1.5x a nanny is correct, since that's about how much you'd need if the mom got a job and you hired a full time nanny plus fill in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 10 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?The brain needs rest after focused mental labor like what's common at a high paying job. It's a physical need and your life will start to fall apart if you don't get it, so not all labor hours are equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 13 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?You literally can replace effort with money, If he's making more than 1.5 times an au pair salary then he's putting more effort and investment into the relationship than a SAHM. I am a believer of the fact that both parents should interact with the kids but that's more about what's proper for the children, not an equal share of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 7 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?This sub selects very strongly for disagreeableness. Since women are more agreeable than average the women here are going to have very different experiences from the average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:30 PM |
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