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14

Wait till she finds out that the AARP member wants nothing to do with her when she hits that age Bwahahahaha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 11:15 PM
0

As a man living your life for the goal of attaining pussy is no longer the necessity it is - nor does it hold the appeal as it once did.
/r/AllPillDebate26/12/22 07:08 PM
23

Let me guess, prenups aren't "romanitic" Never quite understood why risking your assets was considered romantic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 02:33 PM
31

What a deal - 18 years of taking care of her bastard child for some used up pussy. Might as well take my money and invest in FTX.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/22 08:51 PM
25

This is like a man complaining he can't find a nice virgin in a whorehouse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/22 08:50 PM
24

Woman on tinder complains that she isn't being taken out to dinner on an app that is entirely built for hookups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/22 08:47 PM
1

When a woman insults you about your height, just yawn and move on.
/r/AllPillDebate21/12/22 03:29 AM
1

Money makes your life easier and simplifies it. Which then leaves you with time to pursue the things that bring you happiness. So money may not make you happy but it certainly allows you to dedicate time to things that make you happy.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 04:13 PM
2

They think there isn't but we are about to find out. Don't think for a minute that companies haven't sat up and taken notice of the absolute gutting Elon has done at Twitter and how they haven't missed a beat.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 04:06 PM
1

They are. When you really pause and think about it, a man needs very little to actually survive and live in comfort. Very little overhead if you are willing to live a spartan life. Save most of your income, prioritize your health and what you eat. Just think of the overhead that comes with having a family and what you need to accommodate for. Those giant homes with 6 bedrooms and 7 bathrooms aren't made for single men, they are made for women who want to nest and grow their brood.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 04:04 PM
1

McMansions aren't made for men.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 03:52 PM
14

I simply follow the Tom Leykis advice that it is cheaper to hire a maid and pay an escort than to get married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/22 05:05 AM
1

Majority of men want, fit, feminine and cooperative women. Yes there are men who will wife up a fatty. But those are exceptions not the rule.
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 04:05 PM
3

That's what the trans lobby is trying to change. Apparently it's transphobic if you as a man refuse to date a trans woman. LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/22 03:00 PM
1

Never stick your dick in crazy gents
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/22 01:55 AM
27

And people say that the used car market is inflated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/22 03:04 PM
2

And that is where men go wrong. The men who are most successful with women are the men who don't really give two rats fucking in a bowl of piss about female opinion of him.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 01:00 PM
1

There is nothing remotely radical about it. Guys getting together to talk about furthering rights of fathers? Battered men? Homelessness among men? Yea real radical agenda that.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 12:59 PM
1

As a man in his 30's I realized long ago that I should never derive my value from female acceptance. I do what I want, when I want and I don't explain it. Drives women batty. Gents, if you are a man who is happy with his life you can rest assured that women are angry at you. Fuck 'em and live your best life.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 12:58 PM
9

Oh I don't think there is anything wrong with a man working a trade. Women however will look down their noses at a guy like that while making 50k and having over $100k in student loan debt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 12:56 PM
21

She isn't even in the league of the roto rooter guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/22 01:58 PM
2

Women have a vested interest in keeping as many people on the plantation orbiting them. When men checkout it's one less orbiter, one less guy available to cater to women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/22 04:46 PM
1

Women will do and say shit until a man puts them in their place.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/22 01:11 PM
1

Nope, women decide who they fuck.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/22 01:18 PM
1

No, that would be most men.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/22 01:18 PM
1

Women make fuckbois by....FUCKING THEM
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/22 02:05 AM
1

Sensible men will gladly fuck a chick and not commit to her.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/22 02:05 AM
1

I never apologize for my past. If she can't deal with it, oh well.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 08:13 PM
1

Because women in general find men who are successful with women attractive. The same does not hold true for men because men realize that women really have to put no effort to get laid, the same isn't true for a man who is sexually successful.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 05:32 PM
1

If a person has a high n count it's a fair bet that at least a portion of them were pump and dumps or one night stands.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 05:29 PM
1

Women find sexually promiscuous men as attractive Men find sexually promiscuous women as unattractive
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 05:23 PM
2

You can enjoy whatever the fuck you want. Just as other people are entirely allowed to draw conclusions from it. A person who sleeps with that many people has impulse control issues and generally carries a fuck ton of baggage - neither men nor women want to deal with that shit.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 05:16 PM
3

The only thing a high n count proves is that you have shit judgement.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 02:24 PM
1

So from $5000 to $70 an hour
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 06:22 PM
23

"...help build on it" Build what? In terms of construction this lady is the equivalent of a sinkhole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 11:27 PM
1

yaaawwn.....I suppose I identify as MGTOW and in the immortal words of Porky Pig Fu.Fu....Fu...Fuck Off pal!
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 08:13 PM
30

How hard up do you have to be to get sexual urges around a 44 year old land whale?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/22 07:25 PM
29

At 31 in South Asia, is practically leftover territory. People in that culture still marry for family and no man in that age range that is single is looking wife up a 31 year old. I remember writing that as a reply to this post and some bimbo asking me why that was. They keep looking at this from the lens of the US when in reality the culture itself is very different and in that culture you marry the family more than you marry the individual. No family is going to advocate for a 31 year old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 08:10 AM
23

This is what brain damage looks like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/22 03:07 PM
5

The modern day western woman.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/22 07:29 AM
1

Actually women exclusively go for the top guys. They get dicked down by those men, what they don't get is the relationship they want so they then settle for the average guy and turn his life into a living hell. The modern day western woman is toxic to any mans health.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 05:07 PM
1

80% of the women only ever see the top 10% of men. So yes, all these women are fucking the same group of guys while the rest of the male population is invisible to them. Of course they complain that the guys on top don't settle for them and why should they when they have a different woman on tap for every night of the week?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 02:33 PM
1

Settling for a man is being used as a wallet and as a work horse.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 02:30 PM
1

90% of men don't have hordes of women throwing themselves at them.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 02:30 PM
41

If body count and casual sex didn't matter like the claim, they would act slutty for all men, not just for certain men. Exactly. If this is all just normal then why lie about it? Why hide it? Just broadcast i out and see how repulsive you are to the opposite sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/22 01:40 AM
224

If a woman tells you that she has a 90 day rule ask her if she is a virgin or not? If not, laugh out loud right in her face and say thanks and goodbye. Walk right out, there is no reason to deal with this shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 02:18 PM
129

Must like thick and curvy women Translation: I'm a lazy fat fuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 01:05 PM
18

The Roto Rooter guy is who is her match.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/22 06:31 PM
8

5? please that bitch isn't even 0.5
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/22 05:06 PM
59

Imagine the level of crazy you need to be in order to think that you should have any say in anyone else's dating preferences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 04:40 AM
1

No sex before marriage Sort of like closing the barn after the horses have run away.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 12:30 AM
8

I read the article and it was pretty much as I expected. Men are bad, men are toxic etc etc. Tinder has always been an app for hookups. In fact the apps entire reason for existence is to facilitate hookups with minimal effort. Of course the author conveniently forgets that and proceeds to say how she and her "amazing" friends can't find true love on that app. Why would you be looking for true love on an app that is specifically known for hookups?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/22 05:09 PM
3

This is the only answer for a shittest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/22 02:27 PM
2

True, after that sex change.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/22 02:26 PM
18

That's the Oprah definition for these failures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/22 12:53 AM
20

No one loves fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/22 12:52 AM
17

WIDE is what I was thinking
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/22 12:52 AM
2

Never Married ...... have twin 14 year old boys No sex before marriage LOL. The sheer level of entitlement in that profile is insane.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 02:41 PM
9

I'm 37 and in my entire dating life I can count of 1 hand the number of women who have not told me that their ex was abusive, a jerk or an asshole. And the women who did not tell me that were deeply religious and didn't have a very extensive dating history to begin with. But after you hear from the 15th woman about how her ex was a jerk and an asshole what is one to surmise other than These women are all dating the same guy or These women are all attracted to that type of guy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/22 02:07 PM
8

Yep, and that is how women treat male friends. They exist to buy them dinner, help them with random ass shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/22 02:03 PM
7

That is exactly what it is. She is never held responsible for the choice she made, just the man magically turned out to be a bastard even though his being a bastard is what got her wet in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/22 02:02 PM
8

The even more amazing thing is that there are men out there who will gladly get with this chick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 02:06 AM
26

Also notice that every guy she fucked was an asshole and a jerk. That's the type they are after.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 04:41 PM
5

Marriage is what you do when you have an overwhelming need to take your life stuff it into a blender and hit frappe on it.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 05:23 PM
79

Women want assholes, jerks and thugs. That's the template of their perfect guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 05:20 PM
27

It means seeing intimacy, romance, and emotional connection as worthy of your time and effort. I can do none of those things, get my dick wet and never have to see my financial wellbeing get shredded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 05:18 PM
56

Men have a key role in this transformation but only if they go all-in. That's right guys, fuck your happiness - just jump on that marriage grenade and have your life blown to smithereens. Because somehow that is better for your mental wellbeing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 05:17 PM
1

Wanting intimacy isn't wrong. But expecting that some other person is the basis of your happiness is a recipe for disaster. You either are happy with your life and you choose to be with a person who enhances that or you simply outsource your happiness to that other person - the latter is why so many people claim that their partner no longer makes them happy - because it's fucking exhausting.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 07:44 PM
29

Watch any rom-com, that's the template. Woman and man engage in witty banter back and forth. Like who the fuck lives like that in real life? Majority of a relationship contains dry as fuck conversation about how we are out of milk and need to go to the store.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/22 04:15 PM
5

Hollywood has brainwashed them into thinking that non-stop competition with men is somehow going to lead to a fulfilling life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/22 04:11 PM
2

Yea if your happiness as a person depends on another person then that really isn't healthy mate.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 03:53 PM
2

Male thirst is also what drives economies as a woman getting access to a dual income will always lead to more consumption of shit you never needed in the first place.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 01:28 PM
35

Shit that's as old time as it comes. Only thing that beats it would be if she said she was drinking a bottle of Laudanum every day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 02:19 PM
119

I'm no sure what I am doing here Trawling for cock would be my guess. I mean it is Tinder after all and that app isn't really the place you go for a nice wholesome relationship. I'm old fashioned Yea because being a single mother is such an old fashioned trait
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 01:23 PM
4

Again, who is complaining. The thread discusses the phenomenon of western women's standards increasing as they age. Did I say that they shouldn't increase it? All I did was point out that women who are older and have fading looks increase their standards like they are bargaining from a position of strength. When in reality for a woman older she gets the less leverage she has. That they do it has no bearing on me and I might not understand it but by god it's the womans choice to be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:31 PM
1

Nope, relationships are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:03 PM
1

Surrounding yourself with women is also the best way to end up broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:02 PM
6

Who is complaining? Women can have all the high standards as they want, I'm just pointing out that I no longer have to tolerate that shit in my life. Please ladies, never change - the comedy is too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:57 PM
26

The entire phenomenon can be explained with the statement "Women don't want to build something with a man anymore, they would rather wait at the finish line and fuck the winner"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:56 PM
8

I will still be living the free agent life. Life isn't going to somehow end at 40. Younger women still date older men and if all else fails there is no shortage of escorts. All of this is cheaper and a far better alternative than a wife who settles for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:51 PM
2

Yea, what do you think is happening genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:47 PM
-2

That's because women inherently pick thugs and violent men. I mean there are women who call out a desire to date guys who engage in the gang scene and street fighting in their dating profile says it all. But I get it, a normal guy is boring, where is the fun in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:45 PM
1

I used to think that it was wrong when I was wrong. But after learning how women use men for free meals I say to guys - if you need to become a doctor to get her in bed - do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:41 PM
2

Some do, most don't. Most are likely gone out of the dating pipeline and have moved on to better things. Either younger women or living a life of not going home to the battle axe behind the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:34 PM
6

Men don't want flawed people who act like their shit don't stink. Older men who have the means no longer have the need to put up with insufferable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:30 PM
9

Sure men are flawed, the problem is somewhere along the way women forgot they were flawed. Todays western woman is a queen - well your royal highness can take her aging ass to someone who wants that shit in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:19 PM
1

Sure, and 90% of those marriage contain women who absolutely loath their husbands for being normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:17 PM
2

Because I value freedom and marriage as I have observed it is where freedom goes to die. Without being married I can choose to be whatever I want, date, not date, travel, pick up and go, work when I want own what I want or don't want. I've worked for myself over the last decade and over the last 4 years I have worked 8 of the 12 months of the year. I don't know anyone outside of the multi-millionaire club who can do that with a wife and a family - ain't happening. The husband is expected to earn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:16 PM
4

My first guess would be the Friendzone but hopefully far away from her. A woman in her 30's who lost out on her first choice and is basically carrying a candle for "the one that got away" isn't someone you want to wife up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:05 PM
9

Of course, which is why you never marry 30 year old women. It's the same as going out and paying for a smashed up car that needs a visit to the mechanic every 1000 miles - basically a money pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:01 PM
2

Plenty of men marry and date across the dominance hierarchy and normie men are also more likely to marry a woman who isn't a 10/10. Can't say the same about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:00 PM
1

I especially love the cope about how men their age date younger women and filter them out because they apparently can't handle a "real woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:57 PM
4

Most women don't think this way. In fact most women today would rather be part of the HVM harem and be fucked around on until she is dropped from the roster. After which it's a life of bemoaning where all the good guys went.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:55 PM
3

Oh she can have expectations but let's face it anyone looking at a 30 year old who has such high demands knows that she was entirely fine not having any demands in her 20s. It's the concept of expecting people to pay higher than new cost on a car. Who the hell wants to sign up for that deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:50 PM
1

Oh I realize it's hard, no one said it wouldn't be hard. That being said there are alternatives that can be followed for feeding the child. Everything from hiring a wet nurse to formula. So no mothers are not an absolute necessity and even there you can pay the surrogate to wean the child for a period of time before switching to formula. Why on earth would I need to then sign a contract to have a woman use said child as leverage against me in a divorce? Why bother splitting the assets when I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:41 PM
5

Yep. Keeping a wife around in 2022 is far more expensive than the 100K surrogacy fees and any additional cost you would incur. Cheaper to just hire a nanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:38 PM
0

100K is nothing compared to what the courts are going to take out of me not to mention alimony and child support for less than part time access to my kid..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:19 AM
2

This is why as a guy when you are dating a chick you are dating other chicks. Options provided by a roster makes sure that someone is sucking your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:48 AM
-1

Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:43 AM
4

No, not really. Children are generally weaponized against men in family court. Best to avoid marriage if you are a guy. Want a kid, go the surrogate route.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:43 AM
1

The solution for me is to never get married. Casual sex, great - anything more than that is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:28 PM
1

A guy has to put in all the work, and the women is the fucking princess. This thinking is part of the problem. You never treat women like royalty. Do that and you can be guaranteed to be treated as the help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:43 PM
1

It's an asshole nature to continue to date abusive people and then demand victim status.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:37 PM
1

And perhaps you should learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:37 PM
2

Because by and large people don't want to wife up a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:52 PM
3

Ah yes it's now the fault of the parents. Amazing how women get to write off their general asshole nature onto everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:51 PM
4

Fantastic Beasts as well. End of the day you can try and minimize it but the fact still remains his career was put on ice from mere accusations with 0 proof. In all it was estimated that he lost 40 million between work and other endorsement deals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:47 PM
3

Plenty of women. you think Alec Baldwin keeps getting women to fuck him and live with him is some great mystery? Too many women believe that they possess the vagina that is going to magically transform a violent and abusive guy into Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:16 PM
8

He lost employment and endorsements on the mere word of Amber Herd. No proof was necessary and no one gave a fuck about his side of the story. That's what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:09 PM
8

Of course, but the point still stands, the world cares about girls and their plight, boys being slaughtered wholesale - who the fuck cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:37 PM
5

No shortage of boys being sold into slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:36 PM
12

Oh no, her rebuttal to boys being massacred is that girls have their genitals mutilated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:34 PM
24

Yea but men don't get the same consideration when they are abused. Hell Boko Haram murdered a bunch of school boys by locking them in a school and burning the building to the ground - not a peep from the world. They kidnap a bunch of school girls and now it's a movement to bring our girls back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:01 PM
2

Dating advice from women is entirely useless. Women will tell you to be nice and be yourself while knowing that women by and large loath nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:57 PM
21

And women willingly pursue and date the Chris Browns of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:40 PM
3

Plenty of women still side with Amber Herd. Just look at that chick who went on CNN I think and stated that she is okay with innocent guys being incarcerated if that was the price to pay for believe all women to become a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:34 PM
1

These were all horrible men. Yet here we are debating why one mass murdering dictator was worse than these other mass murdering dictators - even though the end result for the ones murdered was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:30 PM
5

Yep and the funny part is that there are studies which show that in those situation the female is more likely to instigate the fight. But again pointing that out somehow makes you a muh-soggy-kneest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:23 PM
2

I recall one Erin Pizzey getting a bomb delivered to her for pointing out that abusive relationships were mutually abusive and it was very rarely one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:22 PM
6

Exactly. You chose a guy who has known anger issues and somehow you are surprised when the thug woke up one day and decided to put your head through a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:16 PM
8

On the contrary this has everything to do with options. The average woman's options range from decent men to extremely abusive thugs. For most western women today the average guy is a boring life, the abusive thug is dangerous and mysterious. Women love that and they love abusive guys so long as the abuse is directed at other people. Hell I've seen dating profiles where women ask for guys who participate in the street fighting scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:15 PM
4

A woman who gets into one abusive relationship is a victim. A woman who keeps telling the world that every one of her boyfriends was an abusive asshole needs help picking better men and getting therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:13 PM
11

She basically broadcast to the world that women are indeed privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:12 PM
3

Oh yes, and men need to choose better too. Doesn't change the fact that women are just as shitty as men but you never hear that. All you hear at every turn is women are stunning, brave etc etc. Woman eats herself into a fat slob and somehow she is beautiful and we should all accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:10 PM
6

Most of the western female population is on some kind of psychotropic prescription drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:09 PM
9

Erin Pizzey has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:08 PM
21

Depends on her mood the next morning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:35 PM
1

I say marry a woman who makes the same amount of money or very similar to you. This means absolutely jack shit because a woman in marriage will always exercise the option to stay home once kids enter the equation and we are back to the problem of the primary breadwinner being raped for a decision they made as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:49 PM
2

Do men in those relationships not act like husbands without commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:11 PM
2

You don't look at the failure rate when looking at marriage. It's immaterial because the failure of one couple is meaningless to another couple. What you should look at is the existing laws and the systems in place. So while every western woman can claim she isn't like that the fact is that the law gives them the option to be exactly like that. With the state of the divorce and family courts I'd say marriage right now is a suckers bet, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:10 PM
1

Marriage is the #1 cause of divorce. Don't get married and you won't have these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:04 PM
13

Also didn't Lancelot fuck King Arthurs wife? How the fuck does that make him a meek man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:04 PM
6

Don't know who killed it, I'm just glad it's dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:02 PM
1

Yea and the only reason they are players is because women participate in the game. They gladly participate with these guys and then turn around and cry about muh-soggy-knees when the guy doesn't suddenly transform into her prince charming at the touch of her golden vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:02 PM
1

Women ultimately want a guy they can respect so even an attractive man who is a pushover is going to be rejected by women. Guys who can look at a woman and walk away from pussy are guys who are desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:00 PM
2

So desperate to be able to justify that women are somehow superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:57 PM
42

Because as powerful a woman is she lacks the ability to actually self reflect on her own fucked up choices. But this same woman will run out there and be the expert on her gal pals problems. Don't put up with that she screams sporting a black eye and missing tooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:25 AM
19

Women have been known to tell on themselves. She likely had a few too many wine coolers and got on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:22 AM
14

Totally. Treat a woman like she isn't an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:21 AM
1

I agree, it's just what most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:16 PM
1

Men will hook up with women based on looks or not. Men will marry women based on looks and social competence. The problem women have is the the inability to distinguish between a hookup and a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:13 PM
2

Because men experience first hand how women react and women like to believe that they would behave differently if their man ever expressed his emotions to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:38 PM
1

I attribute that to people in Europe walking more. The lifestyle is just geared to not balloon up. Plus governments there control the amount of fat you find in foods and also none of this HFCS bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:57 AM
5

Sir Save-a-ho won't tolerate any of your guff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:07 PM
2

Women start out with being okay with FWB and then few months into it start with the - well where is this going? Women always think that they can change a guy and you see this all the time with married guys. Longer the marriage the more ground down to a nub the dude is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:07 PM
2

Why? There hasn't been any talk from him about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:05 PM
1

Generally less drama due to either party not having invested much into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:48 PM
43

Remember though, she said she wasn't very good at it, which then would explain the 7 kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 08:22 PM
2

You men apart from the pain in the ass of ending a relationship? The water works the accusations the general drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:48 PM
2

You would be amazed at women chasing men who intrigue and interest them. Have the confidence to talk to them, look her in the eye and not the tits and let her know that she isn't all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:13 PM
2

Exactly, if you chase women they will want nothing to do with you. Never put a woman on a pedestal unless you want to be treated as a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:11 PM
1

Because at the end of the day he's the one who has to deal with her not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:05 PM
6

Except the key component in that entire thread is that they never talked about exclusivity or agreed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:59 PM
3

Bluepill guys don't even expect reciprocity from the woman, at the first sign of interest they dump their purse out there. Those are the guys taking her out to dinner after which she claims she has an early day and heads over to Chads place for a good fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:58 PM
7

Never understood why being vague or lying about it is. A man who lies about that isn't practicing the abundance mindset instead is doing so because he is hoping to lose the opportunity to smash that particular woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:56 PM
1

Confidence and competence - it's also why women want to know what a man does for a living. The more higher up a corporate hierarchy the better he looks in her eyes. Pretty much all women want the most accomplished guy who can provide money, power and fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:54 PM
4

All dating is transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:30 AM
4

There is no guarantee that having fucked the basketball team leads to wedded bliss either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:43 PM
2

Relationships come with expectations, from a female's perspective the expectation is that finances are pooled for greater "fun" - eventually you find out that you are just paying her bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:40 PM
3

Remember men, society won't give a fuck about you. Your life will be a lonely walk, no-one can you trust, not other men, definitely not women and above not society.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:47 PM
1

Your boundaries exist for a reason - enforce them regardless of how hot she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:16 PM
2

Easy, just because I want to fuck you doesn't mean that I want to shack up and play house with you. In fact for me that's any woman under the sun. Generally my FWB situations start with the agreement that it's an FWB but somewhere around the 4 - 6 month mark the conversation turns to - so where do you see this going. That's generally my signal to bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:54 PM
3

I view them like born again virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:47 PM
3

No, it is pointing out that the hassle exist and it isn't worth it. That women need to make it less of a hassle was never said or implied. You choose to read it that way because for you the idea of men walking away from the plantation is unfathomable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:46 PM
2

Where exactly in my statement did I make a comment about sex or the difficulty it entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:44 PM
2

No we are talking about women in general and for me personally, women in general are not worth it. They are not worth the headache, the nagging, the shit tests - none of it and oh yea, all women do this to a degree. From weaponizing sex to the endless demands for hoops jumping and for what? Pussy? Naw, you can keep it, I don't need to debase myself to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:00 PM
2

Joining MTGOW is a glorified hissy fit. They did give me an awesome Voltron ring for my membership and that secret handshake is the bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:55 PM
4

You don't say...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:48 PM
2

Bwaahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:32 PM
12

Hire an escort - you are going to pay for it regardless and married/relationship pussy is generally the most expensive pussy you will ever have - especially when wielded as a weapon to buy your compliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:30 PM
8

I'm upset at nothing. Merely acknowledging the fact that pussy isn' worth the headache. I am neither demanding women change anything or do anything they are not currently doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:28 PM
5

Naw....women just use this as an excuse to wait at the finish line to fuck the winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:31 PM
6

Most women don't have those features. But they still act like they have her options. That's because women lie to each other and tell each other that they are queens and beautiful. You ever see a group of friends tell the fat one in the lot that she's too fat? Nope, all women are somehow beautiful even when they look like a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:25 PM
7

Some do. Most women in general in the US balloon up so that they resemble a spiral ham - regardless of skin tone. Oh and fuck the motherfucker who suggested that fat women could wear tights and it was somehow a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:23 PM
3

Hold on, women in general are attracted to like the top 10% of men but they want reciprocal attraction from all men or just the top 10%? Because if it's the latter, I'm going to laugh my ass off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:20 PM
2

I don't think I have spent any time wondering about the difficulty of OnlyFans or if women and simps want to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:18 PM
3

this is something blue pillers refuse to admit. They have to, their whole life has been lived for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:02 PM
2

Not really surprising. Fortunately there is more to life than women - provided you have the imagination for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:01 PM
5

Also how good are these college women who show up to a relationship with a shit ton of student loan debt? Sorry, I'm not going to be paying someone else's student loan bill no matter how hot she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:53 PM
29

You are right, it's isn't a man vs woman thing. It's a man vs. society thing and in 2022 pussy isn't worth the headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:50 PM
5

Depends on the woman. As for women joining the workforce, it freed guys of the duty of being a plough horse. Live the free lifestyle and enjoy your life instead of having the responsibility of providing for a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:36 AM
2

I would say the beta male is more likely to end up as a step father. Why do you think that women try to push this idea that guys who knock them up aren't the father of their children but the dummy who steps up and pays for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:12 PM
3

Funny that the chubby guy needs to lose weight yet the fat chick shouldn't ever be told to take the fork out of her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:43 PM
1

Blantons too...eh, the world burning around me needs a bougie bourbon...pinkies out!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:41 AM
1

Old Fashioned as well with Balantons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:57 AM
1

Do nothing. Please, I'm enjoying this shit show too much. Someone pass me the popcorn and bourbon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:25 AM
2

Get a vasectomy guys. If you want kids in the future, freeze your sperm. Never leave birth control up to a woman.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 07:03 PM
1

I don't have sympathy for women. Just as I don't have sympathy for men. We all create our own hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:43 PM
1

Where do we as a species go from here? Hopefully right down the shitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:41 PM
2

I could care less if men are getting casual sex. To the man getting casual sex, I say - right on, and make sure you wrap it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:41 PM
1

At which point the woman can choose to have an abortion. That is the point isn't it. If a guy does that he deserves jail time for fraud just as any woman lying about being on birth control to baby trap a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:14 PM
0

No he doesn't. Once the deed is done - if a condom breaks, if birth control fails, if the woman lies and claims she is on birth control - in every instance the child is born only if the mother chooses to let the child be born.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:13 AM
0

Kids are born because a woman wanted the kid to be born. The guy literally has no say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:10 AM
0

As Tom Leykis used to say - single mothers are creating the gangbangers and car jackers of tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:08 AM
2

Sergei Brin is about to discover just how useless a prenup is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:33 PM
2

Easy, hire a gigolo with the largest cock to fuck the mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:32 PM
1

Cheating is cheating and tolerating that shit only highlights the fact that you are okay with the other person abusing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:57 PM
6

Modern day marriage is scraps. It's like winning the prize but the prize is something no one else wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:55 PM
12

That is because there is no such thing as free pussy. Pussy costs money and time. Married pussy is the most expensive pussy you will ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:54 PM
9

That's because maintaining your home is part of life. I mean you can live in your own filth and I'm sure there are quite a few people who will do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:53 PM
2

I don't wish for women to act like men. Act however you like, but please, somewhere out of earshot and out of my eye line please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:21 AM
16

Men also have their lives destroyed simply because she is bored - everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:17 AM
7

Feminism has never set out to help men. Well to be fair they really didn't claim that they gave two fucks about men. And it was pretty telling based on the name of the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:05 PM
8

He has a 10 figure personality. Have money, power and fame and women will line up to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:14 PM
0

Just another day showcasing the entitlement of women. Sheesh. Can you imagine the ego one has to have to think that you simply get to demand that you and your 18 friends get paid for just showing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:47 PM
2

Being clean is easy - just make it a part of daily routine when showering and you are fine. It's bullshit that men are mutilated and they don't even bat an eye doing it.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 12:27 PM
4

Same here. Such a stupid barbaric act.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 12:25 PM
1

I personally believe that men, or at least the RP ones place way too much importance on it that does not reflect women’s view accurately. Meanwhile every dating profile out there has - swipe left if you are under 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:13 PM
3

It isn't acceptable to abort a baby because it's a girl. The same should go the other way.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 05:06 PM
6

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7339691/Woman-falsely-accused-Good-Samaritan-sexual-assault-jailed.html ​ 5 months in jail, fired from his job and a divorce to boot. Read the last sentence on what happened to this chick for literally taking a hand grenade to this guys life.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 04:57 PM
1

Oh I totally do. I have no patience for entitled females.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:11 PM
8

Yea, like that bloke in Australia whose only crime was stopping to help a lady whose car broke down and for his good deed got a false rape accusation leveled against him. After a year of jail time in which time his wife divorced him he was found to not be guilty but hey I'm sure he was indecent for being born with a penis.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 03:07 PM
2

Because men know that the women will disqualify them when they split the check. Oh I'm sure the women will claim that they should split the check but it's also an automatic disqualification as a suitor the moment he does that. Basically it's a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:03 PM
3

Men in 2022 need to embrace their invisibility. There are advantages to being ignored by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:58 PM
2

You mean women will pay lip service to this while at the same time hold the position that she will disqualify any man who splits the check.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:55 PM
6

True, generally chicks with insane hair colors, septum rings, lots of a tatts you can easily disqualify.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:54 PM
0

That's why you never leave birth control up to the woman. Freeze your sperm (if you want to have kids in the future) and go get a vasectomy. Safest thing you can do to guard yourself. Condoms have a high failure rate and the last thing you want in life is to be on the hook for 18 years of child support because you were horny and fucked the wrong chick.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:53 PM
2

I take it that you have blue hair?
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:48 PM
1

Foreign women are different and this holds true for them. Does not hold true for western women.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:44 PM
1

Fear is a good thing and it's going to help you navigate the current shit show that is dating in the west. Recognize that not all women are evil - however the laws in place are such that it can be used by any woman against you. Which means not engaging with the crazy woke women becomes very important. It used to be that the crazy ones would key your car or bash your windshield in, but today those same crazy ones will gladly level a rape charge against you with no questions asked. Remember, doesn…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:42 PM
1

Time is money so you are already in a financial investment of sorts. Question for most guys is how much time are you willing to waste - yes it is a waste for the most part because 95% of the dates you go on will lead nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:31 PM
2

Good, that would make you the minority in the sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:27 PM
1

That's your fiance, within the bounds of a relationship it makes sense. However a lot of women abuse the getting to know me phase to get free meals or try expensive restaurants on someone else's dime. Now I can't say I blame them for trying to get a free expensive meal - but to lead someone along when they know that there is no future beyond an expensive meal is why I always split the check on the first few dates. Oddly enough it's the foreign women who have no problem splitting the check since …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:16 PM
1

Depends on the meal. Before the pandemic hit I actually had a chick demand that I take her to one of the most exclusive restaurants in NYC. I asked her to find someone else and to call me after the meal was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:10 PM
1

Put it this way, sex within a relationship and marriage is about the most expensive sex you will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:09 PM
1

9 out of 10 women will disqualify a man who asks them to split the check 50-50.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:07 PM
39

I'm proud to announce that I am not special.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 01:05 PM
39

Nope. Also never found tattoos on women attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 01:04 PM
3

And entitled women should stop acting like their time is somehow more important. See everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:09 PM
1

The difference is that with the sex worker the sex is guaranteed and you pay them to leave once its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:24 AM
5

Wooing within reason. Beyond that, I have little to no interest in jumping through hoops for a woman. Pussy isn't worth that effort, especially when there are better quality women to be found outside of the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:43 AM
1

I wouldn't call it an investment. More of a liability than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:33 AM
20

Lot less pathetic than a woman demanding that she is entitled to a $4 drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:31 AM
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The woo-ing isn't the problem. The entitlement and absolute shit attitude is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:00 AM
9

That's because men understand that disrespecting other men has the potential to get your teeth knocked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:24 PM
3

Because between PMS and the flood of unwanted attention from guys isn't something I'd want to deal with as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:30 PM
1

The fact that you care what other men have to say about your success with women says it all. I see so men should have no opinion on this according to you? I also notice you gloss over the fact that women actively pursue and fuck guys who are successful with women. if it's a compliment, you will not hide it from a potential partner. I never hide it from anyone. I'm upfront that I am only looking for casual and that this won't go anywhere. Women still gladly line up. Yes, hopefully women will gain…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:27 PM
1

Like everything in life there are tradeoffs and privileges that come with being a man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:24 PM
1

Sure you can call him a man whore. The difference is that a man whore gets a high-five because men understands how challenging and rare that is. Women also want to fuck the man whore. Not so with the female who is a slut/whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:15 PM
2

That's the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:05 PM
2

They don't. At 30 you end up being more financially secure as well which means better cloths, cars, restaurants etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:37 PM
4

Women create fuck boys. Obviously a fuck boy isn't becoming a fuck boy without women actually fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:35 PM
1

women view being a slut/whore a bad thing is because of the consequences that such a lifestyle leads to. Most of them eventually want marriage and relationship. Becomes a lot harder when you are a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:34 PM
6

Yep, it's a symbol that you are successful with women than your average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:33 PM
6

Based on the fact that it's a more of a challenge for a man to bed many women - a man whore is nothing more than a guy who is successful with women A woman who gets bedded by many men literally has to put in 0 effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:33 PM
1

Men cannot be whore makers since, whores are made by female agency and their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:31 PM
2

Women want a guy who is selectively nice. Meaning he is nice to her but an absolute beast to the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:29 PM
1

Seems funny but there is actual scientific research being done on this very thing. The human body deteriorates but there is nothing saying that you cannot simply transfer your consciousness into a new body and continue living forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:56 PM
1

Because men are all dogs according to women and women are equal to men.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 10:18 AM
5

Do you even know the % of abortions in the US that happen as a result of rape? Less than 1%.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 01:00 AM
2

Except Roe didn't provide equal rights for men. All it meant was women could choose to have a kid or not. Men however were still on the hook for child support whether they wanted the kid or not.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 12:58 AM
3

My advice to any bloke in his 20's is to freeze your sperm and get a vasectomy. Never leave birth control up to the bitch.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 12:53 AM
6

Sorry what? If you want religious values don't look for it in a modern woman. It does not exist. A modern woman will play religious but will have no qualms about shedding all the moral virtue when she feels like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:52 AM
0

Never define your life around a woman - they are fickle Never stick your dick in crazy Never shit where you eat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:45 AM
7

Women lie more as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:43 AM
3

I never do. It's like asking for advice from an opposing team on how best to beat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:43 AM
1

Women are primarily the ones selling the idea that fat is somehow attractive. Hence my comment. Personally I find fat people as a whole rather repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:41 AM
1

these things into their life not as a yield from financial payment. Every man pays for sex and married pussy is the most expensive pussy you will ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:14 PM
2

Also keep your head down, never attract attention to yourself.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 09:57 PM
8

Pay an escort, fuck and move on.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 04:56 PM
57

There are men out there paying child support on kids that are not biologically theirs.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 03:16 PM
1

The last movie I watched in the theater was Dunkirk. Most of what is released for public consumption is radioactive shit
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:56 PM
2

I doubt if the conversation or lack thereof had anything to do with it. Guy was a short asian dude. Really nice guy soft spoken and pretty much minds his own business. Worked with him on quite a few projects. At the end of the day men are all creepy by default and that label will get removed selectively. Just as all men are predators and violent thugs even though it's subset of guys who do shit like that and women actively pursue those guys.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:55 PM
1

Sure. I work as a consultant and prior to the pandemic travelled a lot. Generally gone M-F and when you are in the client locations they generally throw everyone into one giant conference room. So we are all in this room in the morning, the room isn't packed yet. There are two women, myself and this one network guy who was there when I got in at 9. The man has a pair of headphones on is concentrating on work. The women walk in greet people and proceed to unpack and take their seats across the ta…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:45 PM
9

The lowest rate is between gay men. Gay couples would include lesbians
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:28 PM
4

Your only recourse is to get the hell out. That's it. If you have to literally just leave the situation with the cloths on your back do it. That is your only recourse. Write off the loss of the rest of your stuff as the cost of doing business.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:25 PM
5

It will never happen.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:24 PM
5

Woman's metric for evaluating men: by default all men are creepy and violent. Based on his attractiveness the creepy, violent label will be removed. I've actually witnessed a guy who literally said nothing to the women in a room get labeled as creepy. Of course this will be justified by claiming that women have to protect themselves since men are violent. Which is total bullshit since these same women will message randos on Tinder to come over in the dead of night for a fuck.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:23 PM
3

Sure, but as stated above, saying nothing and not engaging with women is the best way to go. Keep any and all communication professional. Do not share your personal contact information or associate with them on social media. When you communicate with them ensure that it is to talk about work and others are party to the conversation. You are not available to give rides or provide any other help outside of work to any woman you work with. That includes happy hour.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:07 PM
1

And this is why I never comment on people's looks. Flat out don't care if you are going to the gym or dieting etc etc. The resulting bullshit from such comments aren't worth the pain in the ass conversation. Hell just reading the above post gives me a headache.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 12:42 PM
1

Been living that life since I turned 27. See absolutely no reason to change. Different men have different motivations. Some guys need the constant availability of a woman around the. Guys like me don't. Personally I only enjoy women in small doses and see no point in risking things in my life to cohabitate with someone. The level of risk vs reward really isn't worth it when you factor in the loss of freedom, which most people never factor in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:40 AM
93

Same here. In my late 30's and see absolutely no reason to put up with it. Women can keep their guard up, I'm going fishing.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 11:30 AM
1

Single mother Divorced Revolving door of relationships Every ex is somehow a jerk or abusive Thinks that sarcasm is a resume enhancer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:49 AM
2

I don't doubt it. Stores that sell piles of junk don't exist because of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:21 AM
3

The missing ingredient. But hey with all the problems you got, a bitch ain't one of them. Rest assured that one will empty that top shelf of your safe quite effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:09 AM
1

Once they figure out a means to transfer conscience and break out of our bodies so that you can just shed your skin like a snake sheds its skin people will have little to no reason to create next generations when they can simply live forever. There are corporations already working on this very thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:01 AM
1

You don't say and somehow knowing actual guys IRL and leaving your home makes you an authority on men and their struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:45 PM
1

I'd say around 30 - 40 over a period of 15 years. I don't date for marriage or cohabitation. Strictly casual. When it stops being fun or they want to have the talk about "where is this going" - it's time to go. Women are best enjoyed in small doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:24 PM
1

I'm sure you know this with your years of experience from being a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:21 PM
4

Because the one thing a woman cannot abide is a man who is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:15 PM
2

Plastic surgeons pull a lot of pussy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:13 PM
1

Good question. Just raising the next generation of gangbangers and car thieves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:35 PM
0

Women should work. Women can work all they want. But for me personally a woman whether she works or not is only good for sex - pump and dump. Outside of that there is nothing else she can add to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:26 PM
0

...remind us that plus sized women are now seen as "voluptuous" and "curvy" They can try and sell this shit to guys doesn't mean you need to buy it. Fat women are still slobs. No matter how much makeup you want to put on or how much you claim that you are beautiful. Sorry a blob of fat isn't beautiful or attractive or whatever euphemism you care to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:24 PM
1

In 2022 marriage and cohabitation is a gamble and that is a good thing. Men and women are free of each other - female liberation liberated women from a life of married drudgery. Men will adapt in time and marriage will become an antiquated notion that will be talked about in history books. The longer people live the less attractive marriage will become.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:37 PM
3

Starving musician gets them wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:32 PM
1

Yea the prime hours when you are awake an energetic - dedicate that to some nameless faceless corporation and your kids get the worn out left over husk as consolation prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:28 PM
4

So have a kid and send it off to be raised by someone else. Why bother having a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:04 PM
2

More men are opting for single fatherhood via surrogacy. I'd imagine that the cost is a barrier that keeps certain men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:25 PM
1

No I wouldn't choose to be bi-sexual. The thought of having something shoved up my behind frankly makes me nauseous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:23 PM
7

You never date at your workplace. Never shit where you eat. Seriously, women are abundant, what appeal is there to date one you work with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:57 PM
12

^ THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:55 PM
3

No thanks. I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:06 PM
0

Blue pill is a plantation dweller. Someone who is so plugged into the system that they refuse to wake up and generally they don't wake up until something drastic happens. For some of us red and black pillers it's experiencing first hand and for others it's watching what happened to loved ones. As a man who understands that society wouldn't give two fucks about me, I walk away from the plantation because I want no part in maintaining a structure that treats me no better than toilet paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:18 AM
2

This is pretty much the norm in most Churches in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:58 PM
6

naw, don't really see a lot of single mothers in mosques. Muslims still keep a pretty tight lid on that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:58 PM
8

Ah yes, church - home of the born again virgin single mother trawling for a good Christian boy to step up to and be a father for her bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:34 PM
2

Hey not like we didn't give it the old college try.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:11 PM
2

Women put in effort before the marriage and after the marriage she balloons up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:03 PM
3

Most women want a man who makes more than her. That's the general type of guy they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:01 PM
5

She's in her early 20s, what she knows wouldn't even be enough to fill a shot glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:51 AM
1

Vasectomies are far less invasive and destructive. Freezing sperm is a lot cheaper than freezing eggs. Taking control of your own birth control instead of leaving it up to women is a rational approach to dealing with - ooops, I forgot to take the birth control pill or the condom broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:49 AM
0

That 100K isn't going far after the divorce and the alimony and child support payments kick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:44 AM
0

And this is why ltrs and marriage don't make sense anymore. Pump and dump guys, there are millions of women no need to shackle yourself to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:42 AM
1

Nope, just smart to never end up on an 18 year payment plan with the state as the enforcer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:38 AM
2

Partners are complementary to each other not rivals trying to beat each other. This is what modern relationships have become and endless rat race of competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:30 AM
1

translation, "I'm a petty person who hates it when people pay more attention to my partner than me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:28 AM
1

every woman wants to live on easy street
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:23 AM
2

The average woman's idea of being happy in a relationship is to see that her partner is miserable as possible. The more miserable he is the more she feels that he cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:15 AM
1

These apps have no reason to have you meet anyone that will cause you to stop using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:07 AM
1

Men in their 20's should freeze their sperm and get a vasectomy prior to engaging in sexual activity. When it comes to birth control never leave it up to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:02 AM
12

No, discussing it in a committee because you had to fold the laundry this week is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:09 PM
8

Jesus, what a fucking shit show the modern relationship scene has become. Hell why not forgo this mess and hire a maid with the money you save from not having a wife or live in gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:06 AM
2

Right because men are some amorphous collective and are not individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:18 PM
9

You ghosted a guy who did nothing wrong and staying true to the stereotype of your gender you proceed to blame men on this sub for your behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:37 PM
9

No you and your friends are just good at hiding your depravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:35 PM
2

To each his/her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:12 PM
2

Just as any woman who decides she would rather be alone is a personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:19 PM
2

Every man pays for sex and married or relationship pussy is the most expensive pussy you will ever have. Paying an escort means you get the benefits of the sex without the bullshit that comes attached to it in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:25 PM
5

Women have egos too and rest assured that guys they are fucking on the casual are guys they wouldn't mind getting into a relationship with if it happens. The issue is that when it doesn't happen one needs to rationalize that as something she never wanted in the first place in order to salvage her ego. Sort of a I'm taking my you don't dump me, I dump you move.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:02 PM
2

In 2022 pussy is readily available and with a couple of hundred bucks you can get what you need and move on - relationships are left for either the uber rich or the socially awkward folks who have trouble being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:49 PM
1

Human beings are visual shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:27 PM
2

Sure and if you don't meet your idea of value then it is the market that has determined that you are not worth the value you are demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:10 PM
1

the dating market determines your value. it's true for men and it's true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:01 PM
1

You don't have to care. Just as I or any other man shouldn't give a flying fuck what the latest grievance the whamen have today. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:49 AM
20

The love hack she is looking for is to build a time machine and go back to her 20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/22 03:31 AM
168

Women aren't clueless, they just don't care. Once you realize this and stop giving a fuck about women and their demands life gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:45 AM
2

Because older women are essentially invisible to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:43 PM
5

The modern day woman demands that men change their standards and try to make a whore into a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:51 PM
4

The healthy balance for men is to be a fucking vault. If you want to share go share with a male friend. You don't dump your purse in front of the woman you are fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:04 PM
2

A woman is free to maintain any standard she wants. Just don't complain when the market does not produce what you want. Women will demand these standards and when the guys who meet those standards go after the better options. By all means have the standards, but also have the stones to admit that the standards compared to what you are providing isn't a good deal and that is why you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:02 PM
5

Single Mother of 4, avoid like the plague.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/22 10:36 AM
2

Most women won't even approach even if they find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:29 AM
1

That's because as a woman you derive a lot of your validation from attention that men give you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:25 AM
1

I am being honest by not engaging. The modern western woman in 2022 is best defined as a luxury that is entirely optional. Enjoyed for small amounts of time and then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:14 PM
1

Females don't reciprocate usefulness in those terms. They think that sitting around drinking wine and talking shit is "doing something for someone" - Sorry if I don't have to be part of that I'm not going to. Rather have a root canal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:19 PM
1

I don't waste people's time as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:14 PM
1

For me it's anything from grabbing a drink with a friend to a fishing trip or even working on a hobby together. It isn't a session of listening to someone whine about how awful the person they chose to be with is and it certainly isn't spending my time playing IT support for you. Is that specific enough? Fact of the matter is that women expect special treatment and treat their friends this way because they treat their own girlfriends this way. And sure a gaggle of hens sitting around clucking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:49 AM
1

A lot of it has to do with women needing to vent and not solve anything and men needing to solve the problem instead of drinking wine and throwing a bitch fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:43 AM
1

One is time spent achieving an end or goal. The latter is time wasted that cannot be recovered. As a mortal human being we have a finite amount of time and spending it being an emotional tampon isn't really a useful use of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:39 AM
6

You must be a misogynist! Oh quit with the compliments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/22 11:35 AM
1

There is spending time and there is wasting time, this is the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:34 AM
0

In every instance I have encountered personally it has never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:48 AM
5

Ride and money is one thing, time is something that is invaluable and cannot be recovered. I avoid friendship with women precisely because of the waste of time - everything from being an emotional tampon to IT support and any other menial task she uses her "friends" for. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:32 AM
5

Female friends are also some of the biggest fucking time leeches around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:04 PM
1

The point is that lawyers and family courts have an incentive to keep the cases contentious and drag things out. Longer it drags out the more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:58 PM
11

She claims to be the best version of herself but is single? Jeez lady by now you should have figured out that you don't get to decide if you are the best version of yourself. The market decides if you are the best version of yourself and the fact that you are single proves that you really are not the best version of anything that a man wants or finds desirable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 03:54 PM
5

Like one of those sturdy farm house style tables that look like it could hold an elephant joint on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 03:43 PM
23

Can you imagine how exhausting it will be to come home to that waiting for you behind the door?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 03:42 PM
6

... unable to find men who treat me like a queen? Well for one the fact that you think you are royalty and demand to be treated as such shows a degree of delusion that no man who has the means wants to deal with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 03:40 PM
1

That's because the family courts and lawyers destroy any wealth there was in the fight. Watch Divorce Inc. They spell it out quite clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:52 PM
1

This is why I love Texas, once the divorce is done you split the assets and move on. She is allowed support for less than a year and then you are on your own. Never get divorce in CA if you have been married over 10 years. It's lifetime alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:51 PM
1

Most women also refuse to use mediators without understanding that you keep more if you use a mediator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:47 PM
1

A woman is financially better off coming out of a marriage but as time goes on her financial life ends up lower. Which is why I tell guys who have just gotten divorced to not give up. The first 5 years are the shitty years after a divorce for a guy after that things get better and the greatest revenge is a life well lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:46 PM
6

Women throw sex at the guys she finds attractive in hopes that it will be enough to lock him down for a relationship. Every woman wants Mr. Big not a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:17 PM
1

Women have to be picky because of the sheer volume. It's understandable why they are picky. And yes it is likely that your average woman will never get approached by a top tier guy because that top tier guy has his selection of top tier women. The average woman these days wants that guy. Which is fine, you can want whatever you want. Personally I think this divide is a good thing, men and women were making each other insane for the longest time with set roles. Let the women run out and chain the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:06 PM
3

Height, weight and income all matter to women because women care about social standing and status more than men do. However, understand that these are all adjustable - for instance a woman will date a fat guy provided he is tall and wealthy, woman will date a short guy provided his bank account has a 7 or 8 figure personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:41 PM
3

Oh I realize it. Hence the motivation to not participate in ensuring those men become even more rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:30 PM
1

Whatever you need to tell yourself to get through the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:43 AM
1

And yet women today are more miserable than their stay at home counterparts in the 60's/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:05 PM
2

The chance of seeing you butthurt would be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:02 PM
1

I level up in my career not to provide for a woman or be in a relationship - there is no selfless reason I do it, just that I enjoy the work that I do and I like to pay for my hobbies. Women are really disposable to my life since women are entirely a liability to ones life. Better enjoyed in small doses for a limited amount of time since the more time you spend with one the less you get out of it and the more time you have wasted being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:00 PM
3

No one working any job is doing it out of charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:56 PM
1

No I don't think either women or men are representative of the majority of the population. Most men in the population are blue pilled and most women are entirely comfortable demanding that she wants a nice guy while dating a thug.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:54 PM
-1

That's why when you are on the date you tell the waiter right off the bat that it will be two separate checks. If she has a problem the date will be short and you won't waste time or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:48 PM
2

37m, black pilled. I see no redeeming quality in human beings male or female - we all exist to do what benefits us and if that means running over others to get what we want then that is what we will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:58 PM
10

This is why as a man it is beneficial to walk away from the plantation and do your best to never support society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:54 PM
5

I believe it was Cato who wrote "All mankind rules its women, and we rule all mankind, but our women rule us."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:53 PM
1

Eh, even that most of the time is just starfish variety that you find. The beauty as you get older is that you no longer value quantity over quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:50 PM
1

a relationship isn't the be all and end all of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:03 PM
1

I got a vasectomy at 30 because I wanted a say in whether I became a father or not instead of leaving it up to fate, chance and trusting if the woman I was sleeping with remembered to take a pill. I never wanted kids so it was an easy choice. However I do know guys who also got the snip but also have their sperm frozen for a later date. One of the few things in life that men can control and why shouldn't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:44 AM
1

Most have not and what is worse, most won't ever sit down and talk to someone who is prolife. Instead their greatest argument is one which requires the dehumanization of a human being in order to make killing it palatable. It's a common tactic that has been used throughout human history to justify genocide. Also try telling them that there are a lot of women who are prolife and watch their heads explode. In fact most of the prominent voices in the prolife movement are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:33 AM
2

Broke guys generally don't get any. The only exceptions being guys who won the genetic lottery in looks but those are guys generally servicing old hags.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:46 PM
5

Plenty of fat fucks with massive wallets get pussy. Women will tell you it's the confidence, some of it is, most of it is just the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:18 AM
10

My bet is less than 40k a year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/22 03:07 AM
4

Learn to not give a fuck about society. It really throws people off, like their social programming just cannot fathom what they are hearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:23 PM
1

None of the above. He should simply continue getting sex from Amanda and when it starts petering out or when she raises the question about "where this is going" - break up and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:39 AM
19

Yea I don't buy the PR bullshit. A single mother is a single mother, with or without Jesus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/22 11:34 AM
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Most of what passes for a Christian gal are single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/22 03:12 AM
1

Asking women for tips on dating women is like asking a homeless guy for financial advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:56 PM
1

I do not believe you have any idea what the term "i don't have access..." means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:55 PM
1

You hey have access to more lethal means, we don’t. That simple. Also you Women typically are not interested in owning a gun So in other words, it isn't access it's that women have no interest. Ladies, learn how to operate a weapon, this way you won't be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:49 PM
1

Some people have problems being alone, others don't. The ones who have a problem being alone are the ones who use their relationships to define them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:27 PM
1

Gun stores don't care if you are woman. They care if you have the money to pay for your purchase of gun and ammo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:48 PM
2

And she is setting up that guy with her friend who she does not respect either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:29 PM
1

Again we aren't talking about you. Yes there are women like you who have this experience. By and large the majority of women don't fall in this category in fact most of them will refuse to date a guy who is a virgin especially if he is a virgin past a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:43 PM
1

You are right that having lots of sexual partners doesn't guarantee anything. However it is a safe bet that a guy who has been with a fair amount of women likely has some basic skills in the sack and doesn't need a magnifying glass, compass and a map to find her clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:17 PM
2

Rationalize it anyway you want but in general men propose a fuck buddy situation to a women not the other way around (the only exception I have seen of this are women who are older or part of the swinger lifestyle). Women generally go along with it because they delude themselves into thinking that if they throw enough pussy at this guy he's going to get addicted and stick around. If Dylan were more attractive to her she would have: Broken it off with the first guy right away Not made the simp wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:15 PM
15

Women are rarely if ever that generous to their friends. If she is introducing one of her orbiters to a friend she is likely picking the least attractive one from the roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:11 PM
0

I'd say women who would tolerate inexperience are a minority. The majority don't have the patience to walk a guy through the finer points of eating pussy or finding her clit or whatever else revs her engine. My advice to the younger guys is simply seek out a professional and practice with them. Escorts are generally difficult to please and to get off - pay extra and treat it like night class you are attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:08 PM
4

What is left off in this scenario is if Jenny was actually trying to get an exclusive relationship with Mark and simply failed. Women will throw sex as a guy they are trying to nail down and these guys are generally the top tier guys who have options and she knows it. Dylan in this case while the same height likely isn't deemed by her as someone other women want hence the waiting game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:06 PM
1

You are a woman and the tolerance of inexperienced men varies from women to women and the older women get the less tolerance they have for inexperienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:03 PM
3

Oh we do. Women like to dissemble but if Mark came back into the picture and was willing to commit to Jenny she would drop kick Dylan in a hot second.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:40 PM
2

In your scenario Jenny really like Mark but is unable to secure commitment from him. Her fall back plan Dylan proposes commitment and she makes him wait a further 2 months. Mark was her #1 choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:40 PM
2

I will also put money on Jenny being open to fucking Mark the minute Dylan does something to tick her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:37 PM
1

No, sex does not equal attraction. Both men and women will fuck people who they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:36 PM
2

Scenario 1: How exactly is answering with a head nod creepy? Do we expect women to engage in elaborate greetings? Scenario 2: So shyness or simple indifference in a group setting is now creepy? Women who are shy or indifferent are not deemed as creepy Scenario 3: I've been to quite a few meetings where C-suite folks don't say anything because the discussion takes a technical turn. Again not sure how this is creepy. As for the rest of what you just wrote, I'm going to assume that someone who is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:35 PM
1

The conservative areas also have women who are armed and can hold their liquor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:12 AM
4

If you are attractive and confidence then it's not creepy Everything else is creepy Hell I've seen a guy simply sitting in a conference room doing his work get called creepy by women in the room. Guy didn't say a word, literally was just minding his business, leaves the room and gets called a creep. The point is that a man doesn't need to do anything to be called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:11 AM
5

Sociopaths tend to be more productive about things they deem matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:51 PM
3

Oh I did that a long time ago. I was fortunate enough to have Tom Leykis inform me about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:38 PM
2

You know what isn't listed in this entire study? The sheer investment in time to end up with nothing. That is probably the single biggest thing that the guy lost in this - time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:37 PM
1

There is no such thing as unconditional love among human beings. Maybe a mothers love but that might be the closest thing that I can think of. Between husband and wife - entirely transactional. Man is the mule and the woman needs to keep him alive long enough to get a pay out for herself and any kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:54 PM
4

I don't want women to do anything for me. They are entirely optional in my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:49 PM
2

But I thought women were all about inner beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:45 PM
2

There is a lot of power in invisibility - starting with not having a monetary vacuum latch on to you sucking off capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:44 PM
6

IRS agents are nothing more than bag men for the sociopaths who are in the political class that represent sociopaths in the oligarch class. I always find it amusing that people still think that government is there to represent the little guy. No government is there to act as HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:42 PM
3

In the long run? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:41 PM
2

Men carry the burden of responsibility without whining to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:34 PM
10

Sparta
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:33 PM
39

Not necessarily. The best fifth of men would also include those men who are high earners - CEO's who are generally sociopathic and ruthless. Thereby creating a world of even more sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:32 PM
1

shhh....keep that on shit quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:53 AM
3

No, it's because as you get older the pool of guys shrinks down to desperate younger guys who will more than likely use you for sex and nothing more. Those guys also don't have the resources to take you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:50 AM
1

Arguing for increased access to an avenue that subjects you to a debt ridden life is at it's very core incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:46 AM
1

Well graduating from college with a fuck-ton of debt and then struggling through life whining about how your debt needs to be forgiven isn't really screaming competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:38 PM
2

success in fucking doesn't make you competent and women have long proven that they are incompetent when it comes to picking partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:34 PM
1

Breaking news, only men can teach boys how to be men. Jeez, what a radical thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:34 PM
0

Women complain. If you start digging around exactly what they are complaining about it likely is nothing or largely complaining about men who have different interests that she isn't interested in and somehow now it's time to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:32 PM
1

Absolutely true. Never do shit for pussy, do it because you want to do it for yourself. Too many guys have no concept of self love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:29 PM
1

Competence is never taught in a classroom Hollywood portrayal of shit is just that shit Most men are leaving social platforms because unlike it's name there really is nothing social about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:28 PM
1

So a book is going to teach men to be better lovers? LOL - hey babe let me try this on you I read it in a book. That's going to really rev her engine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:25 PM
6

I got snipped at 30 and I still wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:20 PM
2

Most single women in their and 40's think it's creepy even though they had no problem dating older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:19 PM
3

No, would never take an ex back. They are an ex for a very good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:20 AM
11

Why would I need to talk to a woman? Excellent question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/22 04:36 PM
2

There isn't. A woman is a lot like a faulty hand grenade, you have no idea when it's going to go off and destroy your life. Best to avoid or FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:56 PM
2

Dating is a low reward activity for men. Jump through a bunch of hoops for what? Most of the time it leads nowhere so it's time to rinse and repeat. I still date but very very rarely and even then the woman in question needs to show me that there is something about her that is worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:34 PM
3

Women love abusive men provided those men are abusive towards others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:11 PM
4

There are no guarantees and you never operate with the idea that just because you are out with a chick who is looking for casual sex that you are going to get your dick wet. Hell even once you start hooking up with her there is no guarantee that every time you meet that you are going to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:07 PM
4

Let me break it down for you in man terms Don't leer at her Be cool, just enjoy her company Don't appear like you can't wait to take her cloths off instead listen to what she has to say Oh and when you do get to sexy time, make sure you have cleaned the pipes before hand and be sure to go down on her before she sucks you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:09 PM
1

Breaking News: Men who have options refuse to settle for a post-wall 40 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:21 AM
2

fat is fat, thats the norm in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:45 AM
2

Regardless of the reason how is cheating ever acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:33 AM
18

Oh damn sorry girl, I would totally step up except I broke both my ankles and the doctor has advised me against stepping up until it's fully healed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/22 05:43 PM
3

Not to worry, you will do it on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:23 PM
1

Again, not asking you to submit to anything. But we first need to educate men on how things stand. Until then the brainwashing is deep. It's why they call it the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:23 PM
2

What? You didn't do tinder with smoke signals?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:02 PM
3

1840.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:01 PM
4

Fucking around isn't "doing more" and yes it totally devalues people. All you have done is say that you wasted the best part of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:00 PM
1

You need to realize that the person you are replying to is likely over 30 and is still trying to find "the one" - so of course in his/her eyes the choices they made wasn't the problem, it's everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:58 PM
5

Society isn't equal or civilized. Rather we have a veneer of both which is enough to serve as a placebo to most people who don't want to think about it or look too closely at it. I'm not settling for the idea. I'm merely outlining what the idea is because when men realize what they are facing life becomes easier to hack. The ones who don't realize this are the ones who become bitter and violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:45 PM
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If a woman does not disclose to her sexual partner that she conceived then the sexual partner in question cannot be held liable for her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:41 PM
2

I do agree. A woman who has sex is not agreeing to pregnancy, I would assume that a man who has sex isn't agreeing to pregnancy either. So if a woman who doesn't want a child can abort then a man who had sex and doesn't want the child should have the right of refusal to have anything to do with said child. Of course this will never pass since society has no incentive to let men off the hook. The next best thing men can do is freeze sperm and get a vasectomy as early as possible. This way you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:39 PM
9

Men are born into social isolation. It is incumbent upon them to build themselves up to be socially accepted. A lot like prides of lions where the younger males are driven out of the pride to move one and take over prides of their own. So are men born with no value and have to work to create their value and the more value they create the greater social acceptance as well as social access to women. There is a reason why most girls in a high school want to fuck the QB over the nerd and that doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:31 PM
1

Masculinity is the ability to make the hard bastard choices of life, to walk alone and be alone because rest assured no one in the world is going to give a fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:27 PM
3

LOL, no you can't. What you can do is act your way through it and pretend like everything is great but it's never going to work. Women who get used to the fast paced lifestyle of hopping from bed to bed will never be satisfied with the stability and monotony of being a wife and stability of a family. Instead she will play act until she can't take it anymore and it's on to divorce and destruction of the family. Rise and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:26 PM
5

Yep. Just operate in the realm that a 100% of a bio on a dating site is embellished and has outright omissions and lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:59 AM
4

A woman who is interested in you as plan A won't wait. A woman who is sizing up a beta as a fall back plan will make you wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:56 AM
3

Just operate in the paradigm that a western woman is okay for short term bang buddy arrangements but nothing that requires financial entanglements - given how long people live and the utter nonsense a marriage contract is there is no sense in entering into an agreement with women who belong to a culture that celebrates divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:53 AM
2

A woman can't just flip a switch and change from a slut to a wife. Anymore than a man who is living the bachelor life can flip a switch on a become a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:30 PM
4

Incel is the shaming tactic women use in 2022 and it's no different than the label of gay they used to use in 2021. Just that in 2022 they don't want to be accused of being a homophobe. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:39 PM
3

I don't think I have ever met a woman a woman who worked in HR that wasn't obese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 05:59 PM
17

I thought you said that we shouldn't generalize?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:56 PM
13

No no....work her way up to fries, then in another 7 - 8 years she makes assistant manager and that's when the big bucks start rolling in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 05:05 PM
7

Because a woman's point of view of a mans struggle just never registers. It's always going to be an argument about who is the bigger victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:50 PM
17

The irony that these women fail to understand is that being alone they are still working and coming home and working that so called "second shift"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/22 04:27 PM
2

The solution for this is to ignore the women. Remember, women have a problem with the way men sit - when that's the mentality you are dealing with it does not help a man to take anything a woman has to say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:19 PM
1

Based on my life I'd say my life has gotten infinitely better after I stopped prioritizing the need to have a woman in my life. Freedom especially once you have the financial means is the way to better life satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:16 PM
1

The real question is if the modern day woman is worth jumping through the hoops you need to jump through to attain those high standards? For me it's a resounding no. Mainly because what a woman considered to be a high standard might not be what I want for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:39 AM
1

Most women are plain. Very rarely do you see a woman who is drop dead gorgeous without any makeup. In fact it's rare to see one who is drop dead gorgeous even with makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:45 AM
1

No the gym will not help his dating life. Why? Because his problem isn't that he is going to the gym. His problem is that he is going to the gym to get dates. Do the things that interest you add meaning to your life, if you are nothing without her you sure as fuck are going to be nothing with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:13 PM
2

Nothing wrong with it. Women don't owe you sex or relationship and men don't owe women their time or friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:11 PM
5

Hispanic women understand that building a family isn't about the height of the guy. Especially since ladders are easily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:49 AM
3

Having a good memory isn't worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:45 AM
1

Marriage is the #1 cause of divorce. Avoid it like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:28 AM
1

All marriages are worst. Like putting on prison shackles voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:33 PM
9

Average men on down are invisible. But there are benefits to being invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:19 PM
1

https://fightthenewdrug.org/men-and-boys-who-are-sex-trafficked/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:18 PM
5

Boy you can just feel the crazy radiate through the screen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/22 02:02 AM
13

15 minutes? You will be lucky to get 6 minutes of actual work from her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 09:23 PM
5

I would tell your friend to have side chicks he bangs and if his gf complains just tell her these women mean nothing to him - it's just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:09 AM
1

what part of a relationship can't you get from other aspects of your life? $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:05 PM
1

yep....which is crazy because pussy isn't exactly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:03 PM
12

Now can someone tell me what a woman brings to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:05 PM
2

Honestly, would you really want that option? I consider the caliber of women that are available on any online dating app and shudder to think what reddit would produce. Fuck that, the bachelor life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:03 PM
1

Take care of how you dress, smell nice, clean hands, fingernails and a decent haircut. But like I said, that's the bare minimum which will get you an average chick and likely that average chick isn't someone worth committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:58 PM
0

Naw, getting a woman isn't hard. Finding one worth committing to is hard. Women are easy to find, just operate under the basis that she is not a necessity in your life and you will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:44 PM
3

Women are also outpacing men in student loan debt. Sorry, why the fuck would anyone want to get married to a debt donkey?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:17 PM
18

Having sex on the first date is pretty much the most common situation. Any woman who claims that she has never done that or that she is not "like that" is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:13 PM
3

I will take a Cappucino but please hold the Chaucer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:31 PM
1

Go into any starbucks and you will likely have a Journalism or English major making your coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:36 AM
1

Get an education for opportunities and knowledge. Don't waste it on getting pussy which isn't rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:35 AM
5

You get the sexual best before the ring goes on. Once the ring is on all the best goes out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:03 PM
1

Think the unhappiness comes when a woman who is a high n-count and was handing it out like party favors suddenly demands a waiting period. Sure it's her right to do this anytime, but it's his right to move on from the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:58 PM
1

Because life isn't always better when you are paired up. In fact some of the worst things in life happen when you are coupled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:56 PM
22

My favorite are the women who reject a guy and then ask why he didn't try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:55 PM
3

Younger men yes. Older you get the more your realize that a woman's interest is largely based on a man's competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:54 PM
10

PSA - Never stick your dick in crazy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 01:21 PM
16

Congratulations Black Guys, y'all have enough problems without this mess hunting your ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 02:19 AM
13

There is a pound of dog hair on me at all times $100 says this chick fucks dogs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 02:16 AM
5

Sorry, I will pass on pussy that is attached to what can only be described as a blob. That and single mothers and chicks I work with - younger me probably would have been okay with the single mother but older I have gotten the less inclined I am to put up with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:08 PM
36

And yet most men still find single mothers repulsive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 04:13 PM
2

You forgot be good looking and also don't be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:33 PM
1

Early on was a challenge. That changed the day I stopped giving a fuck about pussy. Since then it's been easier to date and get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:32 PM
5

r/thisshitneverhappened
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:26 PM
1

The same responsibility that women have for dating abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:25 PM
2

It's fun as long as you know what it is and isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:24 PM
2

My condolences to my aussie brothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/22 12:07 PM
1

Sure and fuckboys are exclusively applied to men even though women create fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:07 AM
1

Everyone is to a degree opportunistic - your real problem is that people realize this about women. Everyone looks for the better opportunity and is opportunistic - even women. The job is showing men that women are entirely capable of making the cold hard son-of-a-bitch choices when it comes down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:52 PM
1

If I had to guess about 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:29 PM
1

To the level of someone who has had more experience in life? Not really a contest in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:29 PM
1

Very few people are happily married. Most people who are married are miserable and stay miserable until they divorce. Personally, sure I have been in love. But being in love and marriage are two different things. For instance I can be in love with someone without ever inviting the state to participate in my life with some bullshit contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:58 PM
1

Promiscuity is just a portion of it. Emotional baggage is going to be a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:57 PM
1

Of course, I can agree that there are plenty of simp men who will take the mistreatment and keep at it. Hell I have an older brother who is like that. Probably the biggest reason why I never got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:41 PM
1

Well agree to disagree. I doubt any self respecting guy is going to be a-ok with this. Hell I doubt any woman would be okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:31 PM
1

Many are fine with the arrangement provided they have no idea. As the saying goes - ignorance is indeed bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:28 PM
1

Right so if he views her as a suitable mate she views him as a means to an end. So in reality she isn't a suitable mate but because of her "the ends justify the means" approach it effectively makes this a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:26 PM
1

Age and experience carries a lot of baggage and the general wear of life kind of gets rid of the "good" woman. You are at best an average woman by that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:25 PM
1

Right - in this case the woman may be suitable for them but the inverse isn't true. And because the inverse isn't true the relationship is already fucked from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:19 PM
1

Depends on the guy. Some guys are okay being a slave because they have no spine. Those are the same guys complaining why their wife won't fuck them or worse why their wife fucks other guys. The average beta buxx who still has some shred of self respect won't be happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:18 PM
2

unmarried couples who conceive a baby "owe" each other The US Family Courts have entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:15 PM
1

Who said anything about 20 somethings? All I'm saying is that looking for a good woman in the 30's bracket is a lost cause and it's better to go into this with eyes wide open and understand that the person you are dating is opportunistic and has a goal she is trying to meet. Barely legal only enters into the equation if the man in question has the means to date women who are in their 20's. That's wealth level that most of the average guys who fall into the "beta buxx" bucket cannot reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:03 PM
1

I don't think it demonizes women more than shows women to be opportunistic. Which is totally understandable since we all are opportunistic. It effectively rips off the veil of women being sugar and spice and everything nice bullshit that men and boys are fed all their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:00 PM
1

Sure, some happen because of those issues. I will bet a large portion of it happens because of engineered compatibility. In fact you can tell this when you see posts about the sex being so-so even before marriage and during the marriage which was then titrated down to basically nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:59 PM
2

The key word in your statement is "suitable" - a beta buxx isn't a suitable mate, he is rather serving a function.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:58 PM
1

I know plenty of women. I just choose to not live my life as a thirsty bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:56 PM
3

The concept of a good woman after you hit 30 is like trying to find class at a Kardashian reunion - doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:51 PM
0

Because in a world where everything was equal the woman wouldn't give the beta buxx-er the time of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:50 PM
0

Women are incentivized to hide AF/BB dichotomy. It makes sense for them to do this. No surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:49 PM
1

And plenty of women will engineer compatibility to achieve a certain goal. Nothing new in that. Ever hear of the term - Marriage of convenience? Most of the dead bedroom crowd ended up there because of a marriage of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:48 PM
3

Women are perpetually offended so this we can overlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:47 PM
2

Marriages that happen because of love are extremely rare. Most even these days occur due to convenience. See the broads are sold this idea that they can be whatever they want to be and to chain themselves to a desk and being a wage slave is somehow something to be proud of and to strive for. That is until 30 and she starts to realize what a fucking ponzi scheme she's been sold and it's time to now lock up some sucker who can provide enough for her to never work. Enter Mr. Beta Buxx - her ticket …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:45 PM
0

In the case of the beta buxx, the good times will forever be tarnished as a mere illusion. Not actually a good time but the illusion of a good time - like a finely laid bear trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:41 PM
1

Women are in no obligation to let a child live. A level playing field is all the men are asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:40 PM
1

Most beta buxx who find out they are beta buxx are never happy to just continue being a wage slave. It is optimal for a woman to never let her beta buxx find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:39 PM
1

In reality your past basically slut shames you. People not wanting to date or make a life with a slut isn't to blame for your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:00 AM
75

Those are the majority of people having kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 03:34 PM
0

Men by and large are not interested in dating or wifing up manly women and women are not interested in dating or marrying feminine guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:32 PM
1

I don't hate single mothers. I just think they are a bad bet when it comes to dating or relationships. The benefits she would bring to a relationship are smaller compared to what she brings in terms of liability - and make no mistake no matter how cute the kid is he/she is a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:29 PM
5

Says who? Johnny Depp deserves the shit he is going through, he after all chose the bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:28 PM
3

Pathetic person who took those 80's rom-coms a little too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:00 PM
3

This is one of the reasons why dating older women is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:05 PM
2

A generation of men raised by women asking for answers from a woman about something she has no fucking idea about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:50 AM
1

No, having a woman who has other obligations in life that leave her very little time for anything else and then trying to jump through the hoops for said woman gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:42 AM
1

Or the kids hate the stepdad who they see as the reason their mom and dad will never be together. It's a thankless job, why sign up for a lifetime of misery and being treated like a second class citizen in your own house?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:38 AM
1

Those people are generally outnumbered by people who hate their stepdads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:20 AM
3

Being a stepfather is a thankless job dude, no matter how much you try those kids will forever hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:14 AM
1

If I was a single dad I'd forego dating until kids are out of the house. As a single childless man, it makes 0 sense for me to date a single mother regardless of whether or not her kids are adults etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:16 PM
2

Nope. Just as I would never date women I work with - even if it is casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:23 AM
1

Plenty of people in relationships or married who are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:58 AM
33

There is no situation where dating a single mother makes any sense. The level of aggravation that is associated with it is never going to be offset by whatever she is throwing at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:54 AM
2

How exactly does spending less make someone else richer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:52 AM
0

Outcomes in dating are literally dependent on confidence. So yea, if you are a man who shows up with this mindset that you are looking for a job hat in hand you are going to fail every time. Instead approach it like you don't give a fuck about this and if she bails there are another thousand or so chicks behind her. Women are by no mean rare or hard to find. Refuse to put up with shit and you will go far.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:41 AM
4

Depends on your point of view. I travel for work, and I'm usually putting in 60 hours a week. This is one less thing for me to worry about. House gets cleaned, and I just pay someone to do it. I mean it was either this or get married and last I looked the maid doesn't leave with half your shit when the job is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:37 AM
2

Twice a week so I don't have to clean the place, just maintain it. Works out for me and leaves me more time to concentrate on things that interest me instead of mopping and vacuuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:34 AM
3

Black guys dodged a bullet on this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 02:32 AM
7

Or you could use some of that disposable income to hire a maid? I live alone and don't cohabitate. I have a maid show up twice a week, clean the place and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:07 AM
5

40 year old empty egg carton. Coming this fall to a theater near you, the stunning and brave sequel to the 40 year old virgin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 02:03 AM
1

For a man with no options? Companionship. For a man who has options? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:50 PM
4

Women want to give the impression of caution. It's different than being cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:35 PM
1

The real question is all this hoop jumping worth it in the end? I mean networking to improve your financial wellbeing is a reward but networking for pussy? Sorry not really worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:36 PM
1

Not really. In fact marriage is one never ending audition where the prize is just surviving another day where you don't get destroyed by divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:34 PM
1

Can of gasoline, flame thrower and a cigar. Burn the fucking thing to the ground, light the cigar and enjoy the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:28 PM
2

Think a large part of it is the fear of knowing you failed at something. Personally I'd just walk away rather than be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:46 PM
9

Western culture has essentially turned sex into another commodity. There is nothing special about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:19 PM
5

Any man who has at any length of time experienced female nature has an inkling of Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:17 PM
8

Until said man realizes that a vagina isn't worth the hassle of dealing with who it is attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:16 PM
3

But they found out that that wasn't true and they're annoyed but it's all fine as long as we give them something else to work and grind on Actually this isn't the case at all. RP men learn that they have been fed a load of shit all their life, initially are frustrated by it but then realize that the only way forward is to go do what they want to do. See the problem for you isn't the RP guy still screaming in rage, that guy still cares. Your problem is the RP guy who walks away, apathy not rage i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:14 PM
1

Network consultant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:39 AM
12

I doubt it. Women by and large are just as shitty as the men they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:11 PM
15

He isn't obligated to be nice to women. Just as women are not obligated to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:16 PM
3

LOL, thanks for the laugh. Really you need to warn people before spreading material like this around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:11 PM
4

Men as a rule will date a wider variety of women. Women date a narrow group of men. Standards of men haven't really changed all that much. The women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:50 PM
8

"fiscally liberal" The new politically correct speech for "broke"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:45 PM
1

Naw....they do it to get one over on their female competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:46 PM
1

Oh they understand it. I just don't think they do this for men. They do this to wholly compete with other women for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:19 PM
1

It almost is entirely about women. The average man would be attracted to a woman who showed up wearing a burlap sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:11 PM
2

What man is out there shaming women for wearing makeup? There is virtually none. Women wear makeup to compete with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:56 PM
26

Women who say shit like that always have exceptions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 02:49 PM
1

I can focus on anything I want. That's the point of going your own way. For instance, I don't focus on the shitty outcomes relationships can have on a man in exclusion. Who does that? I have plenty of things I involve myself in and as part of my journey I inform younger men why it's important to never pedestalize pussy and why women aren't a prize or any of the other bullshit society has fed them. Find happiness in yourself and learn to maintain your own life. Bringing a chick into your life whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:44 PM
1

Yes, and where does it say that going your own way means you are now banned from discussing certain topics?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:24 PM
1

Sorry, you don't get to define what this means. The same way you would never accept a man to stand there and define what feminism means. The risks are as prevalent and society does a bang up job in ensuring that it keeps men brainwashed. It would not help society is men were not controlled. It's a free country and I will speak out and encourage as many men to eschew traditional roles and cohabitation. It is no longer in the best interest of men to sacrifice for women there is no building anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:24 PM
1

Focusing on the issues related to cohabitation and relationships isn't. A lot like an alcoholic will attend meetings where people talk about their addiction, MGTOW men inform and educate men about the risks related to modern relationships and the laws that are skewed against them when it comes to divorce and family courts. It is also informing men that the bullshit they were fed their whole life that women are sugar and spice and everything nice is just that - bullshit. Women would prefer that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:18 PM
1

Never ever do shit for the sole reason of attracting pussy. Eat well and lift because you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:54 AM
1

So in your opinion people can't walk and chew gum at the same time? Fact is that there is nothing in the term MGTOW that would suggest that they should stop talking about anything they damn well please. Also they are in no way obligated to oblige your stupidity in thinking so. Just as feminists spend copious amounts of time telling the world how horrible men are, MGTOW men will inform other men what a shitty hand they are signing up for when you cohabitate with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:51 AM
2

Is there a reason you think that MGTOW should not complain about women? Why shouldn't we educate other men about the shitty nature of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:26 AM
9

Evidently us walking away and living our lives on our terms creates "problems" for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:22 AM
5

No-fault divorce and the family courts ensured that we create less stable families.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:21 AM
6

Also most male feminists are the worst sorts of abusers and rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:19 AM
3

Wasn't there a famous feminist who postulated the idea that any sex between a man and a woman was rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:18 AM
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That would make you a cafe feminist. A dumbass who follows something you have no fucking idea about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:17 AM
2

For me it became easier the less I made women a priority in my life. Like literally just not giving a fuck has made it easier. In any relationship dynamic women's interest in you will be the inverse of your interest in her. The more you are interested the less she wants you. The less you care, the more she wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:50 PM
1

There are a few rules I live by Never date single mothers Never date coworkers Never stick your dick in crazy #3 is probably best left by never dating women who tell you that they have mental issues - don't really care if you are being treated for them. The second you find out that they are being treated - especially taking medication for mental problems - bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:44 PM
2

I actually will take this a step further. Do not expect traditonality from a woman and also ensure that even with dating that you never cohabitate. Always maintain your independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:35 PM
7

Stick to casual and spend more time stacking paper than worrying about emotional bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:34 PM
1

I don't. With High Value Male lifestyle come High Value Male problems. Me, I want the laid back and easy male lifestyle - the one where a nagging bitch is never around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:48 AM
1

Only thing worse than a fat chick is a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:45 AM
1

Anyone have this chicks phone number, I want to call her and laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 02:32 AM
5

Sensitive isn't the word I would use. Retarded is a more accurate term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 10:19 PM
24

The lament of the Alpha Widow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 10:27 AM
24

Western women have been outsourcing their responsibilities for over half a century now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 03:27 AM
1

4% rule of investing. Means when you are ready to start drawing from your retirement it is ideal to live on just 4% a year. Which means if your return is 8% or 10% you really have not touched your principle and it continues to grow - basically the idea is to ensure that your money lasts beyond your lifetime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 11:10 AM
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What this chick fails to understand is that there is a difference between women you fuck and women you wife up. Those are two different things. The free spirit woman is one who is good for a short time - fuck and release. Beyond that she is a bad bet to be a decent partner, wife, mother etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 11:07 AM
2

Men are disposable to women. Nothing new about that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 10:24 AM
2

Not suggesting you do it, just indicating that this is literally what women are hunting for - every single one of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:22 AM
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The Tinder Swindler dude was only as successful at conning women because of the wealth he showcased on his profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 10:05 PM
15

Women can smell success on a guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 06:31 PM
33

I have it on good authority that you school will revoke your degree if you touch her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 05:58 PM
6

Yep, almost as bad as leading people on for free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:52 PM
0

How much of this bullshit is to keep men and women at each others throats playing I'm the bigger victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:50 PM
2

The only way a bottom 20% man will ever have a dating prospect is if he wins the lottery. Then women will suddenly know his name. Hell the girls he went to HS will be crawling out the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:31 AM
2

Lady who wipes ass for a living wants a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:33 PM
1

What the fuck goes through their minds I don't think anything goes through their mind. No rational thought, no ideas, definitely no capacity for self reflection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:32 PM
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Why am I still here? Well you are a single mother and outside of being used as a fleshlight you have nothing more to offer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:29 PM
3

It is amazing to me that women think that their SMV is static and if one had high SMV at 20 then the SMV stays the same at 40 or 50 or 60.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:26 PM
2

Nurses make for shitty wives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:24 PM
2

She looks like any other product that has low fat soy based stamped on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:23 PM
0

A relationship should never add more work into your life than you already do in order to maintain it. If it does then it's going to be one exhausting endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:19 PM
3

16year olds can and do have kids and guess what, she will eventually teach her daughter this very same shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 07:11 PM
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Funny how all these women have "amazing kids" and yet the lions share of the prison population in the US was raised by single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 05:34 PM
7

Feminists all act like men in the West have women chained to radiators.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 05:33 PM
6

Happens more often than not. Hell I have heard of women fishing used condoms out of the trash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 05:32 PM
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It's just a disaster for men. People still keep doing it thinking it's the way to get consistent sex but really it isn't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 05:25 PM
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Obesity is celebrated today. Most insane thing I have ever see. That's right ladies and gents - be proud of that heart condition you are working on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 05:24 PM
2

Well I know before we even go on a date that I'm not going to commit. In fact I make sure to let her know that living together and walking down the aisle, having kids and playing house isn't in my plan - ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:29 AM
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Couldn't the same thing be said about how hard it is for women to find commitment and if you are in a commitment and you cheat it says more about how much commitment actually means to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:26 AM
8

This thread is a master class on why women consider men to be disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:21 AM
1

You want unconditional love get a dog. Between men and women it is entirely transactional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:41 PM
2

Looks do matter most otherwise women wouldn't be slathering and injecting themselves with shit to attract men. There is however a difference between attracting a man for sex and attracting a man for a relationship. If sex is all you have to offer then yea, expect to be used for sex and tossed aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:40 PM
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Yea but do women want a life of poor sex or do they prefer good regular sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:43 PM
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Dude, some feminist somewhere is claiming you are a disgusting old man since at one point in time when you were 21 your wife was 8. But this is generally the older ladies who start complaining that men their own age don't date them or date younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:37 PM
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Age is no guarantee of maturity or wisdom. Plenty of people who are old as fuck and can't get the basics of life down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:34 PM
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Well if a woman only has pussy to offer which I'd say is about 80% of the female population then yea pussy is all guys are going to care about. Not like there is anything else of value to on offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:32 PM
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....claim women have high standards, but according to them should be happy with absolute wrecks Yes, because my two choices in life are men who are top of the heap or absolute wrecks. There is nothing in between right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:30 PM
1

Just men or do women who are healthy also say this very same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:28 PM
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We don't SET targets or dial up or down who we find attractive. So women don't set targets that govern their own fucking preferences? Jesus, imagine the hamster wheel it requires to come up with this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:27 PM
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so many girls don’t like casual stuff This doesn't stop these same girls from actually engaging in casual stuff healthy weight is not hard to meet too In the US where most women are overweight? Why do I see conservative women around me all the time? Depends on your definition of a conservative woman. Like are we talking about an actual conservative or a reformed ho?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:30 PM
1

Not anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:22 PM
1

Do I try to earn more money? Depends on what the threshold is. I'm satisfied with what I make and some years I make more than others. One thing I have done consistently over the last 3 years is to ensure that I take a few months off every year to simply concentrate on the things I want to do in life - that is do anything that isn't related to my profession. In general I don't live my life to get pussy and that seems to have worked out well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:14 PM
0

The ideal world for women is to marry the beta and continue fucking alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:05 PM
0

Just look at the number of women in the west that are on some form of psychotropic drug. That pretty much is the best indicator of why you always proceed with caution with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:24 PM
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You should know by now that everyone is an expert on a life that isn't theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:54 PM
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A-list celeb isn't going to help him with his mental problems. In fact it will make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:52 PM
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Exactly. In fact the most successful open marriages I have seen are where both parties agree that immediate friends, family, neighbors, kids teachers etc are all out of bounds. Have your affair but not with people who will embarrass your spouse. Sort of an extension of not shitting where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:51 PM
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Will needs to wake up and stop pedestalizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:47 PM
1

Plenty of people have kids without entering into a contract with the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:01 PM
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Even sex isn't really a guarantee in marriage. In fact some of the most miserable people you see walking around are married. In the current day and age getting hitched is really pointless. Everything you listed here as something marriage provides can be had without entering into a financial contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:00 PM
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The #1 reason for divorce in the US is financial problems not men beating up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:57 AM
1

This is exactly why I never date women who I work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:28 AM
6

Neither is 99.9% of "career women"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:43 PM
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Regardless of what segment - the question still stands. Why should men forego the things that make them happy for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:40 PM
1

I didn't say hypergamy isn't real. Just that most men don't structure their lives for pussy. Sure they may do a few things some of the time or temporarily but to live ones life doing things to merely attract women? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:39 PM
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No I don't hate what you have to say. However it seems pretty stupid to look at someones routine and extrapolate what their life is without having any other idea about their goals, motivations etc. Here is something that might surprise you - men don't do mold their life to attract women anymore than we should expect you to mold every facet of your life to attract a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:37 PM
1

That is bullshit and you know it. Really all you got is a hookup app?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:26 PM
2

Money, Power and/or Fame if you are a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:16 PM
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There won't be any backlash. Men by and large will shrug and move on. The idiots who pedestalize women will get to hear it from the horses mouth and stop doing what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:15 PM
1

Tinder is a hookup app. Men don't go to the whorehouse for a wife. Perhaps women shouldn't look to a hookup app for quality men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:12 PM
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Those are people I avoid like the plague because it screams that you are someone who is going to start regurgitating something you saw on the television instead of having any real original thoughts on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:10 PM
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In my experience, women way overestimate how interesting they are. So very true. Most of them can't even hold up their end of a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:09 PM
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I'm not angry about it. I understand it, accept it and use it to my advantage. It has also made me realize how really disposable I am to a woman and because of that I see no point in long term relationships with women that have the potential to wreck my financial life. Just like you shouldn't cosign a loan with a friend one should never enter into financial entanglements with people who view you as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:06 PM
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Also how the fuck do you know if anyone has a long term goal simply by looking at their day to day routine. How many hours of his life are you not observing? E-Sports by and large is one of the largest grown areas or entertainment to the point where we now have arenas and leagues. The #1 Starcraft player in the world made over a million dollars in prize money playing a video game. Perhaps learn to see beyond your own interests and realize that there is more to life than being chained to a bloody…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:01 PM
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What kind of life is that? For me, I find that extremely unattractive. Yes all men everywhere need to live their life based on what you find attractive. ​ Why should I settle for someone who does nothing for their life but waste it away? You don't have to do anything. I don't see the guy playing video games and minding his own business demanding you blow him. ​ You will wake up as a 50 year old man and look in the mirror with regret for not turning your life around. You have no fucking idea or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:58 PM
1

Yep. It's toxic masculinity if you open the door for a woman and it's toxic masculinity if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:51 PM
4

The irony is that they thought that social media would make people socialize more and remove geographical boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:50 PM
1

I'm sure it will depend on if there was a pre-nup which I'm sure she would fight tooth and nail against.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:48 PM
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Dee Snyder and Gene Simmons are ugly as fuck but hey no shortage of women who wanted to fuck those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:48 PM
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Ultimately though, it's on men, for giving in to this nonsense. I agree to a point. In the West most men today grow up with no role model. Their views on their existence from TV is that as a man they are automatically wrong, bad, toxic and any of the hundreds of negative connotations society throws up to associate with masculinity. Maher is right on one thing, women want nothing to do with the men they themselves have created.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:45 PM
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Dealbreaker for me would be any woman looking for a long term relationship or marriage. That pretty much takes care of cheating, lying and the not meeting expectations bs. Oh and no single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:14 PM
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I agree. You decide what are dealbreakers and enforce them in your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:13 PM
4

Same shit regardless of how you look at it. Bothering people isn't really my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:08 AM
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Truly voluntary? Yes. I quit the dating scene at 27 and stopped pursuing anything long term or cohabitation around the same time. Got a vasectomy at 30. My story was more about observing what was happening around me to guys in my family after getting put through the ringer and tossed aside. Between that and the loss of freedom that comes in a relationship I didn't see a point in one. Nope, I have nieces and nephews and that's good enough. I don't see a point in having kids of my own. I still dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:36 AM
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Good chance that they don't want to be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:15 PM
8

A girl who is saving herself for marriage typically is religious You are literally talk about a 1% girl. Most girls are not saving themselves for marriage. Most women want the guy who has the experience and higher partner count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:14 PM
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This idea that genuinely unattractive, overweight socially awkward men are out here demanding trophy wives I mean there could be such men, I just don't think they exist in the quantity women claim they do. Female ego is very fragile and a lot of it is related to the fact that women will tell other women that they are queens and beautiful etc etc. They expect guys to also say the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:12 PM
1

Outside of casual dating I don't do relationships. Regardless of how attractive the woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:52 PM
45

The same reason I don't approach women in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:03 PM
0

So you would be okay supporting a guy who you were attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:19 PM
3

What men who complain about this shit need to understand is that if a woman is making you wait for it, it doesn't mean that you can't go out and get it with someone else. While you are in this period she should never be your only option for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:29 PM
6

Right, a woman who is fit starts off with 10 points simply because she is fit and has a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:10 PM
3

Depends, the pool of men who are chubby chasers is small when compared to guys who find fit women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:36 PM
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There are also men who will simply take what they have available and if a fat chick is all you can get then that's all you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:34 PM
2

Boundaries man, not enforcing them will fuck you up everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:13 PM
1

For most women "making the move" is usually being extra giggly and touching. At 37 I've only ever had 2 women approach me and ask me out. Both times was a firm no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:09 PM
1

A general rule of thumb to follow is to not shit where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:54 AM
1

Marriage is a dead institution in an age were people's life expectancy isn't 40. More to life than being a wage slave and trying to constantly live up to someone else's expectations and demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:48 AM
9

In reality people leave LTRs for all kinds of reasons. Even ones where the guy isn't an absolute monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:45 AM
2

You as an individual might want to think that. That isn't how the world or society in general would view it. For instance, check out the Chibok Schoolgirl kidnappings. That was a high profile incidence where school girls were kidnapped by Boko Haram and it galvanized a movement worldwide demanding that the girls be returned. However, consider that shortly before this incident Boko Haram carried out an attack on another school - a boarding school for boys. 29 of them were outright slaughtered. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:25 PM
2

I am. In general outside of maybe the occasional guy who is born rich the vast number of men start their adult life with near 0 value. Some of them by virtue of their looks might be able to get a woman but it's entirely his responsibility to increase his value with career, money, status, fame etc. Those are his choices. I certainly had no value when I was in my teens. I grew up in a third world country with little to no resources. That isn't my case today as I've worked to get out of poverty and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:59 PM
1

Well as a baby your entire value is what your parents assign you and maybe the average pedophile. But no one with any brains or any sense of morality is going to care what a pedophile values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:53 PM
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Largely because of the monetary hit. In general those guys go two ways, they recover in a few years or they kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:51 PM
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If humanities existence requires that people debase themselves and damage their psyche then is it really worth keeping alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:50 PM
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Babies not so much. I'd say women from their teens to about 35 start out with value and it diminishes over time. Most men start with no value and have the ability to gain infinite value simply because our value is more determined by status and wealth rather than just age and youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:49 PM
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We live in a disposable society. Spouse is having a problem - toss him/her aside and get a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:07 PM
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The difference is that women's value diminishes over time and with age. Men however do have the potential to increase their value depending on how they approach and attack the problem because their value isn't necessarily tied to age. That's why women who divorce in their 40's are suddenly bewildered that there aren't a bevy of great guys just waiting to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:00 PM
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The single greatest thing that women and men can do is to do life in order. When people try to make their life a fucking potpourri you end up stressed and with a shit show. Oh and get some financial education - biggest reason for divorce is money related fights and troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:58 PM
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Women are encouraged to jettison relationships and that any relationship that isn't pure perfection is one that she is being abused and taken advantage of. Better to just avoid the shit show in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:55 PM
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The only way to win is to not play the game. Secondly, I would like to see society stop calling it a game since this "game" basically has the ability to wreck your life and anyone else that's caught in the blast radius from the fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:52 PM
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Basically anywhere Feminists have a strong hold is a shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:50 PM
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You really want to see racist go to China and try dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:50 PM
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Men are shamed for not committing. Women are shamed for sleeping around. Largely because Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:21 PM
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I'm a guy and I agree with this. There are way too many men who pedestalize and worship women. I suspect most of this is how society has portrayed this notion that women are to be cherished and need to be protected and are all princesses rather than it be an individual thing. On top of this the number of men raised by single mothers don't really help the situation either since most of these guys never really get a mans perspective on it or if they do it's well after they have been put through th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:45 PM
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Neither women nor men should be shamed for their preferences. A woman can fuck whomever she wants and a man should be able to be selective about whom he wants a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:39 PM
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Women are desperate to have you believe that they are more complex than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:30 PM
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I never said they were not. I said that the terms are used as shaming language and the overuse of it has led to men laughing and asking. - So?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:25 PM
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Well some men are looking for that. Just as some women want a daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:24 PM
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Give up on dating and the mating ritual. Don't give up on yourself and improving yourself. There is more to life than getting your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:04 PM
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Improving yourself to attract someone else is a waste of time Especially since whatever you become won't ever be anything authentic. Instead improve for yourself, maximize your happiness because you want it not for pussy if you are a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:03 PM
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But that is the goal right? For a woman the goal isn't to "get the date" - it is to lock down commitment of the highest status male she can get. The problem the women have is the issue of being able to lock down commitment from the guys 3 - 4 leagues above their SMV. It's why they trot out terms like fuck boi and man child and any other of the terms to shame guys. Problem is that the shaming has been so overplayed that at this point most guys who have any experience in dating will never respond …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:41 PM
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Or they are resigned to simply take what they can get because the alternative is to never go out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:35 PM
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This is true. Guys view sex like taking a piss or a dump. Sure you'd like to take a piss at a Ritz with the nice toilets and where the washroom attendant hands you a mint and a towel. But sometimes you just have to pull off the highway and use the bombed out gas station restrooms - simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:24 PM
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After marriage to just be cut off from having sex is probably not very common. To have sex slowly reduced down to nothingness of a period of time is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:18 PM
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Yea they can. collectively fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:11 PM
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I disagree. Most women are that delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:19 PM
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Depending on the status you are shooting for you can hire nannies and maids. Plenty of people who will gladly outsource all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:17 PM
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Not unless you are sharing partners. For ever one that finds a partner at 50 there are probably 10 who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:05 PM
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These movies cater to women. They are not advice on how to get a woman for men. If a woman isn't interested, walk away and leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:58 PM
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Men don't care what a woman is doing for work because we realize that on a whim she will quit working to fulfill herself and you better support her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:46 PM
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Like happiness they prefer to outsource it to their partner and then bitch and moan about how he isn't meeting her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:45 PM
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Also what the fuck does that mean? Who decided that growing up equates to being chained to a desk for 8 hours a day doing shit you don't enjoy for a paycheck?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:40 PM
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A woman's ideal world is one where she is happy and entertained a 100% of the time and the man is a miserable work mule who somehow finds the time to keep her entertained and laughing 24/7 while simultaneously earning money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:39 PM
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Women are a net drain on the economy since they consume more tax dollars than they actually contribute. So much for them paying their own bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:37 PM
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Hell I've seen women who actively chase guys who are in gangs or involved in street fighting. They love the violent asshole as long as the violent asshole is directing the violence at someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:35 PM
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I would fall under this category. I never wanted to climb the corporate ladder, no interest in the rat race.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:33 PM
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According to women your hobbies only matter before you get married. After marriage anything you want to do is never an option. It's a miserable fucking existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:31 PM
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Exactly. One of the best things men can do for themselves is to always prioritize their happiness and needs and never compromise those values for the sake of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:29 PM
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Women are never satisfied. Trying to satisfy one is like trying to fill a pool with a leak.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:27 PM
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No one says dating is fair. Which is why when you shoot out of your league you more times than not end up frustrated with the end result. An average looking chick who dates a guy with status or looks is never going to be a real option for said man since the man in this equation has options that are better looking than her. Why do you think women who hit 40 complain how men their own age don't want to date them? The reality is that the men who have status and options don't want to date them. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:22 PM
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Doesn't matter if the stats are old. It isn't like females have had some mass epiphany over the last decade to suddenly change behavior as a group. In fact if anything I'd say it's probably gotten worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:18 PM
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Everyone thinks they are the exception to the rule. Tell a woman who is in her 40's that her prospects on the dating market are bleak and she will argue about how her best friends third cousin twice removed found love at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:16 PM
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They want men who are of a higher status than them so that their future has the option of staying home or working. That's the golden ticket. You get to rub elbows with a better class of society because of your husbands status and you have the option to stay home or work as you see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:14 PM
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You are right there is nothing inherently wrong with a woman going for men who is not their equal. Just don't complain when the man refuses to wife you up or commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:12 PM
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So what? Doesn't mean you have enough time to concentrate on work and housework. When I'm working I'm generally locked in at 70 - 80 hour weeks. So I hire a maid even though I work from home 80% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:44 PM
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You don't. Generally hetrosexual males in their 20's are young dumb and will fuck anything that moves. If you don't need it more power to you. Just stack paper and do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:43 PM
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At 20, a relationship should be the last thing you prioritize. stack paper and have sex. You are not missing out by not being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:34 AM
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Yep. Every one of my peers is a guy who runs his own business. Their wives all worked before they got married and every single one quit and became a stay at home wife after the marriage. Women who are smart realize that being chained to an office desk at a thankless job is a lot less appealing than just giving your husband a blow job, cooking and cleaning. Hell in the case of my peers most of the housework is outsourced to a maid service leaving the wives more time to shop and enjoy their lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:29 AM
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I agree. I don't want to work for the rest of my life and since I didn't bother with marriage and relationships it allowed me to be more free with my career choices. I know for certain that I wouldn't be picking and choosing how much I work every year if I was married with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:25 AM
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Also good luck getting a western woman to be honest about it. It's a safe bet to assume that they are all sluts and carry on. No sense in wrecking your life by wifing up the town bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:19 AM
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