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If you don’t want to date someone who’s had a lot of sexual partners in the past, that’s fine.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 01:42 AM
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On average conservative religious people are much happier than non-conservative religious people. Why? Well, they share the same values. Find a suitable partner, get married and raise kids. Religious people also have the added benefit of being in a community where they help each other out. Now I can’t speak for all religions but I can speak for my family that is catholic and my family and friends that are Mormon and are married. For the most part, they just seem really happy together. With some …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:40 PM
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You’re not going to connect with someone better because you can have good sex together. If the ONLY thing you guys can bond over is having sex, there is nothing going for that “relationship”. Sexual compatibility is important but it is by no means a way to start a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:52 PM
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Marriage is not a job. It’s a army of two. A partnership. If you’re marrying for money, that relationship will fail. If you’re marrying someone because they give you good sex, that relationship will fail. You’re not going to have a good relationship without having a connection. Sex ain’t that connection. Jobs ain’t that connection. Most of the time divorces are initiated are due to varying factors, such as men being more likely to cheat, men neglecting the family, husband and wife having huge fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:25 PM
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That’s a funny joke. I’ve been riding a bike for 17 years, and I’ve been riding the same roads for 10. You don’t think there are times I miss a pot hole or nail or sharp object in the road and get a flat tire?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:56 PM
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Tell me you don’t know anything about AI without telling me you don’t know anything about AI. Oh and also tell me you don’t know anything about women without telling me you don’t know anything about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:43 PM
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It’s one thing to not associate with someone after they rejected you. It’s another to be angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:55 AM
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Teen love is like playing peewee sports. It is not required at all to play high school sports, and in this sense, it is not even close to a requirement to find love in college and beyond. Dating as a teenager is mostly just getting a little head start for later. Most high school relationships will not last, most teenagers will not have the maturity to appreciate the relationship, and even if teens participate in sexual acts, all it’ll do is give them a slight edge in HAVING sex. It by no way wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:56 PM
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I guess in a specific context. The life of the party people generally are pretty boring one on one, at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:42 AM
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I understand that but you shouldn’t need someone to tell you to stop. I’m very anti-social but I understand that the more diverse your skill set is, the more people will like you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:34 PM
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Being funny doesn't mean that you're fun to be around. A funny person can still be horrible to be around. If all they bring to the table IN DATING TERMS is humor, that's not much to build a relationship off of. Sure, humor is important, but you need more to that. At least SOME sort of shared interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:48 PM
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Getting sex as an average guy isn't hard. You don't have to try that hard to hookup with someone. Sure, they might not be the most PHYSICALLY attractive to YOU but you don't get to complain about that if all you're doing is trying to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:44 PM
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You know literally nothing about these average guys relationships. And it’s none of your business to know what their sex life is like. Everything from your comment screams you have never talked to a girl before in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:17 PM
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Jesus Christ dude, you need serious help. Into anime girls? You live in your own bubble? Dude stop. I don’t care if you’re not interested in dating, stop. Meet people. That is not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:11 PM
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So you think all women are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:30 PM
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Jesus Christ dude you need help
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:43 PM
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Oof words of a broken person. You ok bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:53 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:15 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:46 PM
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We aren’t machines. We aren’t programmed by some higher being. We have our own free will. You can choose to do whatever you want today. Yes there’s instincts ingrained in us but these instincts aren’t “I want to fuck the richest man”. The wiring you’re talking about doesn’t exist. They make the decision to have ridiculous dating standards cause plenty choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:09 PM
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I never said you needed to be all in and I’m not saying some people are religious and others are pretending. I’m saying the type of Christian Virgins that are the “stereotype” are usually the hyper religious ones, and they’re generally not interested in non religious people. There’s obviously exceptions. Don’t get it twisted. I’m not saying someone’s a better Christian than others because they go to church every week and read the Bible before bed. I’m saying the people who do that are usually go…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:01 PM
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You ONLY want to be mormon because there’s a chance to marry a young virgin girl? Really dude? The mormon girls you’re lusting after won’t touch you because they’ll see through your crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:39 AM
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Exactly. Like I know a few older people in my neighborhood that have one who goes to church and one who doesn’t but they’re a rarity. The type of “Christian virgins” he’s mentioning aren’t looking for non-religious guys usually and if they aren’t, they’re more than likely looking to try to “convert” the guy first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:31 AM
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I mean yeah we have closed off communities but we also have some big places too with more or less a similar dynamic to our rural areas. Obviously there’s more diversity of people in the bigger places but it still seems pretty similar to smaller areas in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:29 AM
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My last comment was mostly referring to the “mega” religious people, “mega” being those who actively try to follow their faith. Obviously some religious people will marry non religious people and still go to church but generally speaking, the type of “virgin christian girls” you’re thinking of are looking for “virgin Christian Boys” who are also actively trying to live their gospel. Now I could be totally wrong on this and mormons (and my catholic family members) are some crazy exception
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:26 AM
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If by backwater you mean rural communities, yeah you probably wouldn’t know what they’re like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:05 AM
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No offense taken. But Are they not religious? I’ll admit, while I have studied other religions I don’t know many people of those religions (other than Catholics) so I am willing to concede I could be 100% wrong here but my catholic relatives have also had more or less the same thing: married another catholic early in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:04 AM
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You have never talked to a woman in your life if you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:00 AM
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What conservative religious women are you looking at? Cause if they’re deadset on their religion they’re marrying a religious guy. Source, I’m from Utah and most mormons I graduated with are engaged or married and are in their early 20s. If you want a religious girl you NEED to be apart of that religion and fully commit to it. Otherwise they’re not going to touch you with a 10 foot pole. Not that hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:59 AM
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I am being realistic. Lots of people like hookups. But you can’t go around bashing people who partook in hookup culture while also encouraging the idea of hookup culture. If you’re a guy who spends his weekends trying to fuck you don’t also get to look at women who want to get married with disgust because they partook in that life style when you yourself will end up trying to get married in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:17 PM
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By encouraging that kind of behavior you’re not making anything better you’re making things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:11 PM
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Sure but that only increases your hookup value. It does not make more people want to have a relationship with you. Plus by doing this you end up creating the type of women the red pill looks at with disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:56 PM
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What do you mean by “taking control?” Do you mean you’re the breadwinner and make 6 figures while she stays at home and cares for the kids? Because a relationship is not about control. It’s about compromise. You’re a team. You need to work together. If you’re in the scenario I mentioned above, sure that kind of relationship can work but only a few people will ever be able to have that kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:54 PM
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Yeah exactly. All these guys do not know how to have relationships and they’re out there giving advice. Yes you can give relationship advice without having been in one but there’s a difference to giving some advice to being a “relationship expert.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:50 PM
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Exactly! As a a concept and even in practice it’s the best “ideology” of the pill wars but the reason so many people go Blue Pill is because so many “leaders” of the red just us it to vent their hatred and lack of success on women, twisting the message to a very dark orange color
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:47 PM
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Truth? 99% of red pill content creators only use the Red Pill to shit on women. They don’t use it to spread “truth”, they use it to lash out at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:53 AM
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As a man I do too. I don’t need that negativity in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:54 PM
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You’re acting like you’re in some Mortal Kombat tag-team scenario where your partner is someone who’s never played before and you have to convince them to tag you in so you can carry. The fuck are you talking about dude? Unless she’s pregnant, sick, crippled or some other handicap factor, if for whatever reason you’re in a fiat fight, you and a girl against two or more hooligans 10/10 times she’s either going to fight back or run to get help. She’s not going to sit there like a lost puppy cheeri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:08 AM
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I’m almost 20 and same boat. Mom thinks there’s something wrong, dad doesn’t really care. Sister is constantly making fun of me. Extended family are worried. Essentially in high school my mom and sister kind of made fun of me for not dating. I didn’t really care, I focused on school and sports. Didn’t have to spend money on dances or shit like that. Life was good. I of course did want to date but it wasn’t a huge deal. Some stuff happened my freshman and sophomore years that kind of turned me of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:24 AM
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What kind of question is this? Who gives a shit how much someone failed before if you’re together now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:22 AM
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Got it
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:14 PM
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What do you mean by that? do you not have grocery stores where you live or just other people work at them?
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:00 PM
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True story, an old friend of mine came to the restaurant I work at. I saw they were at the counter but I didn't recognize their face. We have a stupid name we call each other so when he said it, I thought he was attacking me until I realized who it was. Very good day of work, but I felt bad not noticing my best friend at the time.
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:38 PM
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Because store employees don't care 🙄 ​ In all seriousness, it's them trying to kindly reject you.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:31 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:07 PM
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I’ve never heard of Instagram being a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:06 AM
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If you’ve had 4-7 sexual partners at age of 18, male or female, there is something very wrong. It either means you’ve been taken advantage of by older people, you have commitment issues or you’re sleeping around your high school, all of which are not good for a growing mind. Hell, even if you had that many when your 20 that kind of screams you don’t care. I’m not saying you can’t have fun but if I had sex with 7 people at age 19, that’s just excessive. If you switch between jobs seven times in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:57 PM
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Assuming I have kids, I wouldn’t be ok with it if they were underage (not statutory rape underage, I mean like 16/16 underage or something) or still in high school. I would sit them down when they’re in middle school and talk about it though, and I’d explain the consequences of not being careful. I’d also stop them if I caught them, but I wouldn’t “ban” it. I wouldn’t get mad (unless of course they get an STD or pregnant) but I would be upset. Assuming they do get an std or pregnant I would, aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:55 PM
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Porn has its own dedicated places, be that porn sites or specific porn subs. It DOES NOT need to be pouring into normal social media, and the fact it is is disgusting and worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:59 PM
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I second this. But bring something to protect yourself just in case.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:23 PM
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So I know a few girls IRL like this, sort of. They like the "bad guys" and then complain that they can't find a "good guy." However, it's always been a mix of multiple elements at play. It was never "He's a fucking asshole, I want to suck his dick." It was more so, "He acts tough, I like that." But while they are together, the girl actually plays with them a bit, leads them on, sometimes outright sleeps with them and then ghosts them, or just reveals how mean or awful the girl in question is her…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:39 AM
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I think for your last thing about men being that lonely is for the most part true. They’re willing to do anything it takes to get into a relationship, which is most likely due to them not having had any experiences in high school or college, and probably really are lonely, with friends either busy with their own relationships or just not having friends at all. There’s a difference between willingly being single, and being single unwillingly. The unfortunate truth of it is some guys especially wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:32 PM
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Oh I see. Well congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:42 AM
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Speaking from experience and if so which side are you speaking from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:46 PM
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I agree with that. There is a porn addiction problem that’s not addressed properly by people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:44 AM
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Wasn’t conveyed properly or I’m an idiot but I understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:41 AM
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Who’s watching porn for hours upon hours? Unless you’re literally watching it for the plot, I call BS on that. While I do agree there’s issues with addiction to porn, I don’t think it has to do with it being watched for hours upon hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:30 AM
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You might want to rephrase that last part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:17 AM
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Live in a house or apartment that accommodates my needs, work until I either don’t need to, don’t want to, or can’t. Might sound boring and sad but I’ve got my stuff I’ve bought over the years, can’t ask for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:25 PM
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I did. Twice. Both in high school. First time I was going into freshman year there was a girl I was texting that summer. She knew I liked her and her friends did too. She and I hung out only a few times, mostly during big events in our town like 4th of July. Anyway, about two weeks before school started she and her friends came to my house on four wheelers, and she said she really liked me and wanted to know if I did too. When I replied with I do like her, she said that she only liked me as frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:59 AM
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You sound mad you can’t get a teenager to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:53 AM
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I totally agree! Better yet, 22. So many fucking people try to justify going after 18-20 year olds. I don’t fucking care what the law says, people that do that are fucking creeps! They are literally only attracted to them because they’re still teenagers and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:54 PM
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Same. Literally graduated a few years ago. At most my friends and I joked about sleeping with so and so or giving someone praise when they finally asked out or kissed a girl they were talking to for a while. This one guy at my work, he brags about all these girls he’s made out with and whatnot and were just like “good for you.” He wonders why no one takes him super seriously and why no girl wants a committed relationship with him. Sure I knew those kids who want a lot of sex. One of my better fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:00 PM
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Technically it is, we just don't get to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:37 PM
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The hell are you talking about? I'm in America. I know plenty of Slim girls. Hell I know more slim girls then fat girls. I mean sure, maybe you're right. I don't notice the fat girls because the only time I pay attention to anyone from my classes are when I have to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:05 AM
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What exactly do you define as "slim?" I'm in college right now and there are plenty of "slim" girls in my classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:59 PM
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No. First, chadley shaped future? It was a one time beginners luck glory days Friday night lights moment. Most of it probably came from the fact it was basically my first varsity game and that I thought I was going on a date with this girl I really liked. My athletics career is over. I’ve moved on and have to do other things. Besides, if I failed when I was in great shape (I sadly let myself go after because of a foot surgery). I had no game then (no pun intended), and I don’t know how to get ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:39 PM
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It’s one thing to get rejected. That’s normal and to be expected. It’s another thing entirely to be rejected CONSTANTLY. In my case, which I admit are probably a bit extreme, my rejections hurt so much because the girls I was talking to strung me along. First one she said she wasn’t interested but flirted with me until one day she asked me out at my house but then laughed and said it was a joke when I asked if she was serious. (I was going to be a freshman in high school when that happened over …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:13 PM
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That’s- not how humans work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:03 AM
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He's looking for a wank or something. No other reason he's asking for a pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:55 AM
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You do know anyone can get a six pack right? It’s not an impossible task. Just get a better a diet and workout like four hours a day every day and after a while you’ll be rocking a six pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:49 PM
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I mean it's most likely. I still do a lot of stuff that I won't change that could be interpreted as Church stuff. I won't work on Sundays if I can help it, I still go to church parties every now and again and I every once in a while I go to church, lately just to say goodbye to a different group of kids (not related to what we were talking about) on their missions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:59 PM
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I understand what you mean, but that simply doesn't compute with the other stuff they've been taught. If this was the case, they still wouldn't swear, they wouldn't make jokes against the church, etc. Yeah, that's not the same as having sex, but its the principle of things. I get what you're saying but I don't think it's the case. But then again I'm young.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:22 PM
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Fair enough. I and most of them really did only go to hangout, but I suppose you could argue we were still practicing. That said, I don't think it was the religious aspect that kept them from sexing, I think it was more so they didn't want to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:02 PM
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Oh we defiantly are more religious than most states. And by practicing, yeah, for the most part, they didn't really follow the Book of Mormon. They went to church but a lot of them didn't really take it seriously, so I think that counts as not practicing. That's not to say they didn't go to church activities like parties, but it the point is is in my experience it was very different than the "norm."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:36 PM
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Ok first off the cult like culture is a stereotype, not actually true. Are there religious fanatics? Yes but the vast majority of areas I've been to and lived in simply have a lot of people who go to church. Second, despite what it sounds, the majority of these kids aren't even fully practicing Mormons. Yes they're apart of the church but they aren't exactly practicing the faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:23 PM
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Would you consider Utah south?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:16 PM
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Now I’ll admit I’m still pretty young and I’m in college but most of my friends from high school or whatever didn’t actively seam out women to just have sex with. The vast majority of them actually tried to have a relationship. These were star athlete type kids, good looking guys and gals. Heck several of them are STILL dating the same person they’ve been dating since freshman year. In fact it’s almost the opposite where I live where people are kind of made fun of for having had lots of sex. Sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:58 PM
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That’s not exactly a great argument to argue in defense. If anything that sounds like the person in question has commitment issues or some other unspecified stuff going on. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with hooking up but there’s a difference between hooking up and having lots of casual sex. If you’ve been sexual active since you were 15, and you’ve had sex every fiscal quarter, that’s not exactly something that’s endearing or something to be proud of. Sure do what makes you happy by al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:47 PM
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I don’t know who you’ve been talking to but that second part is simply untrue. Sure maybe not a virgin necessarily, but I high doubt you’d want to be with someone who’s spent their entire college years having sex with girls. Also it’s never happened? Really? Never? I guess the girls that I know who chose not to go after the player or whatever didn’t do it because of how many people he’s slept with, he did it for something else. Guess the guys he knew didn’t stop hanging out with him because he s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:29 PM
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I don’t think it’s necessarily misogynistic. It depends on circumstances too. Like if you’ve had sexual relations with like 10 or even 20 (not as realistic but for arguments sake) people when you’re 20, that’s pretty excessive. Now obviously that being the soul reason to break up or leave someone if they have a specific body count is pretty petty, but it is a valid concern and it can and many times has led to a bad relationship. Not always but there are more stories of a relationship failing whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:11 PM
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I honestly just don’t understand the point of hookups at all. Like you wouldn’t invite a stranger to your house or a hotel to play Mario kart or watch a Netflix show and then never talk to them again. You wouldn’t invite someone over to makeout for several hours and then go your separate ways. I’m not saying you HAVE to be in a relationship to have sex, I totally get the idea of no strings attached sex, but at that point you two might as well be friends with benefits. That way you’d have a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:43 AM
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Didn’t you get shutdown
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:33 PM
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Change your attitude for one and second look up any NSFW sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:37 PM
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No I will not follow your only fans
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:54 PM
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First, thanks for the nice words, and thankfully, I’m over all but one, which I think I never will for sake of having that pain to grow from. Second, I am not one of those who’s thinks that all women just want sex or whatever until they hit “the wall.” Now what I say here might sound super arrogant and cocky, but I’m willing to bet most men who were in my situation, for better or worse would completely fall for that idea. Thankfully for me around when this shit happen I did have female friends I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:53 PM
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I’m not sure where you’re coming from having children and being married is a women’s main goal and not a mans and how it’s not weird if a man is single but a woman is. As a single man, I can tell you, people are saying the same things to a single woman: “you need to date. You need to marry. You need to have a family. You need to go to college to get a good job to support that family.” Men are just as socialized to be husbands and fathers as women are at the same ages. And this isn’t even a relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:17 PM
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Very good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:07 PM
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Here’s my thoughts: ODA are HEAVILY reliant on looks. And in this case, women control it. A few weeks ago my friends and I created profiles on the Mormon dating app Mutual. We weren’t really expecting to get any matches or anything, just to see what girls in other parts of the world and county were like. We posted a few pictures of ourselves, and off we went. How the app works is up for not interested down for interested, left and right to see different pictures. You can also message someone wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:48 PM
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Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:53 PM
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Quit gaming? Really? Gaming isn’t hindering anyone from dating. Excessive gaming all day is but gaming in general? No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:30 AM
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Well here’s the first problem with that mindset: marriage isn’t just picking the hottest person in the room. If you’re only going to marry someone because they’re hot, that’s not going to be a great relationship, if one at all. Marriage isn’t a game, it’s a lifetime commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:18 PM
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Some people get married early because they’re sex life was great or in the case of some religious people to get said sex life. But once reality sets in and they start having bills to feed and kids to pay, long exhausting work days and whatnot, sex becomes harder to have and enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:37 PM
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What the hell? Double standards much?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:40 PM
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My understanding of these “dead bedrooms” are either people are getting married to early or the guy won’t do anything to get the girl off, making the sex all about him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:39 PM
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This I can agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:32 PM
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That’s actually really informative. Where I live it’s basically all LDS Mormons so it’s mostly just a joke around here about starting one. This actually does bring up several good points that I’ll definitely take with me when it comes to dating in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:31 PM
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Well obviously yes we should still get tested. I’m not saying to not get tested at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:21 PM
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That’s not exactly a healthy mindset for anyone to have. If you’re entire mindset is “I’m going to fuck as many people as I can and then get married” you’re going to have commitment issues, and you’re probably never going to be satisfied with the sex. The whole religious saying of saving yourself until marriage isn’t that bad an idea, but maybe instead of marriage turn it into something like the one you really love or something. Based off of stories I’ve heard, both men and women who have this “…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:02 PM
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If you’re paying for only fans to fill a void and are upset that she’s not going to really care than I’m sorry you’re an idiot. If you’re coming to KFC for food and you want to tell me about how hard your life has been I’m sorry you’re in that situation but it’s not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:32 PM
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Jesus Christ. Please report them to the police. On another note, yes, yes it’s really stupid. Now that’s not to say that both sides are right and wrong. If I HAD to choose, I’d probably be more red pill if I thought about it, but that’s mostly due to both sides having right and wrong. It’s hard to explain but basically both sides do have their rights and wrongs about one another and issues. For example: Red Pill talks a lot about how it’s harder for men to get a date and how women have higher st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:30 AM
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The pill ideology is really stupid. Red pill people claim they’ve taken the red pill to “see the truth” about female nature and anyone who hasn’t seen this is still taking the blue pill. As for the other colors like purple and black, I’m not sure. I saw a few of your comments, I’m so sorry you’ve been raped and groomed. That’s seriously fucked up. I hope you’re doing ok and they’re in jail or dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:16 AM
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If he really saw my posts he’d know I might be asexual so...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:18 PM
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Right. Here’s my story. Literally every “modern woman” I know is anything but lazy. My graduating class alone had five girls from my school get full ride D1 scholarships for sports, three with partial sports scholarships, four with D2 scholarships and four with D3. That’s my school alone. Neighboring schools had similar D1 numbers. And all my bosses at work are women. Between 19 and 30. You mean to tell me that they’re lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:56 PM
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For someone who’s done you’re still fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:16 PM
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You’re wasting your own time saying the same shit “iTs OnLy FoR mAlE vAlIdAtIoN.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:53 PM
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News flash: not a girls give a shit about men! Your argument on them posting only for male validation is completely invalid since only a small percentage only does that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:50 PM
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Not my problem like it’s not an only fans girls problem if one of the people who pay for her stuff is going through a hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:48 PM
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I agree you can’t argue that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:43 PM
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I work at KFC. I’ve seen sad people become happy once they get their food. I’ve seen angry people Become content once I hand them their food. Some have tried to talk to me about their personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:34 PM
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I’m not referring to coworkers. I’m talking about customer service which is basically what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:21 PM
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Boo fucking hoo you can’t make your own god damn meal. It’s 2021, it’s not likely most couples can live off single income.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:31 PM
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Cost of living has gone up. You simply can’t have a “traditional” family anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:29 PM
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That wasn’t my intentions. I worded that wrong for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah I know the retcon but what the fuck do you mean by a good wife? You mean a submissive slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:58 PM
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Double standards much? You can bitch and complain that women have double standards but it’s ok for men. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:33 PM
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You must have any women friends because that’s not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:12 PM
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God that is not at all the same. She is at the fucking beach! The beach! It is literally no different if a guy did the same thing! But I bet you wouldn’t give a shit if you’re guy friends were doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:11 PM
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Who’s teaching their children to do sex work? Outside of a few examples of bad parents very few.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:06 PM
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You can’t be saying that it’s ok for you to fuck tons of women but she can’t fuck tons of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:02 PM
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This is very accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:01 PM
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Literally visit any incel subreddit or their own fucking website
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:53 PM
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Literally everyone who has a job and deals with people pretends to care about the other persons life temporarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:50 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:48 PM
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What the hell are you basing that off?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:47 PM
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Says who? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:46 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:46 PM
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I never said anything about sex workers doing work to party. I said I’m going to a fairly difficult school and I wouldn’t have time to party around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:46 PM
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God you’re an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:44 PM
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😂😂 I definitely could but not where I’m going. Too much work won’t have time to party lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:01 AM
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I hear a lot of talk about validation. Why is that an argument? Why is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:57 AM
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Because all these issues have to do with sex. Not that people tend to be getting into relationships very early on. Nice use of heresy by the way. What are we, in some sort of movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:51 AM
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Why would you think that a girl posting a picture of herself is for male validation? Does that mean a picture of a guy is for female validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:50 AM
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Then take it from me who’s on instagram a lot. It doesn’t happen where I live. A fucking model in my town has barely any comments on her pictures outside of congratulations from close friends and mentors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:49 AM
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God you don’t know anything. Based off of my experience, no girl is posting bikini pictures for guys to comment on. None. It’s all for their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:47 AM
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Well I do and I have a lot of friends. Most posts have very little comments from people in my town. Regardless of them being male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:46 AM
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Maybe by people like you but not where I’m from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:43 AM
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Once again, how many girls are posting a picture of just them in a bikini? Outside of models I can’t think of any. They’re usually at the beach with tons of photos, or a group picture with their boyfriend or something. But I’ve never seen a girl just stand in the mirror and take a picture of herself in a bra
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:43 AM
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All I’m going to say is this: if sex keeps the Holy Spirit out of us, than god made a serious flaw in human form for something like that blocking something important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:41 AM
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Literally no guys comment on the posts girls make unless they’re best friends or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:40 AM
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How many girls outside of models post pictures of themselves only in bikinis? Outside of maybe a single picture it’s very very few. And those pictures aren’t for you because shocker, she has friends herself and they probably want to see what’s going on in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:36 AM
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No girls I know is posting pictures of themselves for guys. It’s to show off what’s happening in their lives. Not for you to jerk off too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:34 AM
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If anything for her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:29 AM
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True enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:29 AM
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How? How is it unhealthy to put someone else above everything? If my best friend asked me to do something I’d drop everything right now to help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:28 AM
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No she’s not. You clearly don’t understand this. It’s not for some sexual pleasure for men. If anything it’s for her friends to see not men. And who gives a shit if she wants to talk about herself with her friends? How is it any different than hunters posting their kill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:27 AM
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I am thinking about it. And she’s damn sure not posting that picture for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:25 AM
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Ok first off, why the fuck should a god care what we do sexually? Why the fuck is it his choice that we have sex in a certain way or sell ourselves sexually? Why is that such an issue to an all mighty god? This is coming from a Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:25 AM
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It ain’t jealousy bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:23 AM
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If people are willing to pay to see her naked and she’s ok with it why not? They may see her naked but I’m the one who gets to do the fun stuff with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:22 AM
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That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:21 AM
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What I mean is help her get used to not being a sexual slave. It’s not really dating per se but more a form of protection and stability. Helping her cope in a world she previously never knew of because she was forced to pleasure men for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:21 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:18 AM
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And why is that? Why can’t I put my SO above others? Why is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:18 AM
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Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:17 AM
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This is a pretty fair argument
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:16 AM
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How is only fans making MEN less motivated to work? That says more about the man than the woman. Try again later because that was really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:15 AM
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Hell it irritates me because I would love to just post pictures of myself and make tons of money. But instead I have to go to college 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:14 AM
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Every good comment. I 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:14 AM
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Yeah because apparently bikini pictures are only posted for people to jack off to. Not for, you know, the girl who’s posting it because she’s at an environment where a bikini is acceptable and she either took a selfie or someone took it of her. Pictures like that are not for men. 9/10 times it’s for her friends herself. Not for you to bust a nut to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:11 AM
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Jesus Christ you are really dumb. Woman aren’t posting bikini pictures for YOU. She’s posting them for herself! How the fuck are bikini pictures and different from a picture of a giant fish you catch? Or a deer you shot? Or he’ll a fucking score on a video game? THEYRE NOT POSTING THESE PICTURES FOR YOU. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:08 AM
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Jesus Christ you’ve never talked to a girl before. I know plenty of girls who post pictures of them at places like the beach or swimming pool, ski trips, hunting trips, etc. and one or two of the pictures are of them. And guess what? Wow, none of the comments on the Instagram are about how hot or sexy she looks, almost all are of people talking about her kill or where she’s skiing or whatever. Sure her best friends are saying stuff about her looks. Jesus Christ man god forbid a woman has a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:05 AM
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This was not an argument at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:01 AM
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That is not at all what you said earlier but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:59 AM
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I’m a guy. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:59 AM
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Then this means you have to be a super honest person on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:58 AM
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Well one of the differences between seeing the asshole on porn hub and on only fans is one isn’t being used and one isn’t. You can imagine it however you want. However if you’re just dating someone to see them naked or have sex with them, you do you but I know not a lot of women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:56 AM
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This I pretty much agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:51 AM
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I never said not wanting to date equals hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:50 AM
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So these lonely porn addicts who’ve willingly give up their money for it are the good guys while the girls, several of which have been harassed for nudes offer them at a price are the bad guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:49 AM
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Send me the link to your source
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:47 AM
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So you’re saying that the reason of male sexlessness is due to only fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:46 AM
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Yes and you tried to change the subject by comparing it to a drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:44 AM
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My history has nothing to do with this post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:40 AM
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Now I don’t know about your first part. Sure some women are narrcasist but I’m damn sure that most acknowledge unattractive men. Source: me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:06 AM
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Not sure what that’s referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:05 AM
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If your boundary is a bikini picture that’s really sad. Nudity? Sure whatever. Bikini? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:04 AM
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I’ll look into it. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:03 AM
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Hey someone who actually had experience! I thanks for the insight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:02 AM
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How the fuck are bikinis whorish?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:01 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? If a girl is wearing a bikini at the beach it’s 9/10 times for her, not so some guy can get hard. If she’s posting it online it’s for her friends and followers to see, not some lonely guy to jerk off to. You have some serious issues if you think a girl wearing a bikini is immodest when they’re at the fucking beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:00 AM
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In some they are. Some they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:58 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:57 AM
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I have not heard of this personally but I will take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:45 PM
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I disagree but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:44 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:12 PM
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I know some taken men who have only fans but I can see the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:11 PM
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Some only fans women do but not all but I can see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:10 PM
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All MGTOW I’ve heard claim to be red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:08 PM
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Fair enough I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:21 PM
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Well that’s not true either. There’s tons of men on only fans that make tons of money. They’re just not as talked about. But again; trading a sexual act is not the same thing as trading a sexual picture
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:20 PM
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Lmao I never said sex scenes in movie are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:18 PM
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What do you mean by “chat?” Like “oh thank you for the compliments!” Or “ooh you guys seem like you deserve something special! Wink wink!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:17 PM
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Let me see if I understand. She should give them actual sex because they’re paying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:15 PM
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I highly disagree. There are plenty of people, men and women that should be on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:14 PM
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Yes obviously but the way you phrased it means that I can’t put my wife or girlfriend on a pedestal because that’ll make me a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:14 PM
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So wait a minute, Instagram is bad because women post what they do on there. And the only thing that’s allowed is her family, food and other stuff but not her. She can’t be on instagram because that’ll tempt men. Are you kidding me? That’s really pathetic. If you’re that upset about that you should not be dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:13 PM
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So wait, you and your girlfriend go to the beach. She wears a bikini. You guys do all sorts of fun stuff and she photographs it. On the way home she posts it’s on instagram. But because she was wearing a bikini and you can see her stomach and cleavage, that’s the same as you guys being in a poly relationship but you’re mono? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:10 PM
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So what if the girl likes to be degraded?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:08 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:07 PM
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Not in the slightest. Humans are one of the few animals that mate for life. Natural selection is typically just fuck something that moves to pass the genes on. What you’re saying is women are useful for you to fuck only.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:07 PM
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I wasn’t trying to play mindgames. I was trying to understand. You’ve given me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:05 PM
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Well I think it might have to do with similar experiences. For example, another story of mine, there was a girl I was talking to this year actually, and she blocked me after only three conversations, on New Year’s Day. The day after she posted a tiktok saying she has very specific taste and she’s a bit too picky. And then a month later she and a friend did a colab tiktok where they compared I guess milestones they had that year. One was how many boys they kissed. However during this time she was…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:04 PM
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I’ll send you some stuff in a minute👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:53 PM
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Naked pictures are one thing but doing the act it another. Hell I posted here a few weeks ago that sex seems to be super overrated as is. I might be asexual and I can understand that getting off to nudes is nowhere near as good as actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:53 PM
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And what does that mean? She can’t have dated before? You had to be her first everything? There can’t be any records of her anywhere? Government doesn’t know she exists? She can’t have done anything fun in school like sports? She couldn’t have organized charities for homeless people? Can’t have had a job before? No friends at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:51 PM
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I’m not sure how trading a sexual act is the same as trading naked pictures. I can see where you’re coming from but that’s not exactly an argument. But yes. Depending on what it is I would trade my morals for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:49 PM
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So a man is addicted to pornhub and watches like 20 videos a day. How are women profiting off him? It’s free. That’s his fault. Not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:47 PM
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I’m not upset about that. I’m upset about the people who attack people for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:46 PM
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Maybe not the majority but enough are that it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:46 PM
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If they’re doing this for the sake of faking relationships and friendship, yeah I am totally against that. If they are deliberately doing something like that to make money yes I am totally against that. But what I’m implying here is simply a women who’s making only fans content for men. That’s it. Sexy naked pictures on the internet that men can pay for. No strings attached. Just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:45 PM
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I don’t see how naked pictures of whoring around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:42 PM
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You didn’t say women putting their social media on dating apps. In that regard yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:42 PM
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I think it says more for the men who’re paying for it than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:41 PM
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So I put my football coach on a pedestal because he’s that great a guy. I spent several year playing for him and have nothing but respect for him and his family and he’s on a pedestal in my head. The man who runs Operation Underground Railroad is also on a pedestal for the work he does. How does that make me spineless? Or is it because they’re not women it’s ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:41 PM
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I’ve seen my share of MGTOW posts and they claim to be men going their own way but they’ll bitch and complain about women having sex and not being with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:37 PM
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That’s should have been your first argument. Because that’s a valid argument to my post. I can understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:36 PM
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Any women who does anything will have mentally ill people beg for nudes on twitch. Unless your solution to this is women can’t be on twitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:35 PM
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Not true at all but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:34 PM
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Who’s she? Who are you talking to? Me? Are you implying I’m doing for a girl? Really! That’s funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:34 PM
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So let me get this straight: a women who’s in a relationship with a man where they both agreed she can sell pictures of herself to other people, their relationship is the same as a person who’s being mauled by a tiger? Who’s going to fall off a cliff? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:33 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:31 PM
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I don’t want to point out any subreddits, I don’t think I can per the rules, but trust me on this. Now I’ll admit I don’t know much about the after math of this. But I don’t see how sell pictures of yourself will limit job opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:31 PM
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I’m not deflecting. Your comment proves my point. Bad when women do it but ok if men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:28 PM
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Here’s mine. In some ways I can see where they’re coming from. For example, there was i girl I talked to for forever forever ago (😂) and I asked her out. She said yes but we never went out because she kept making up excuses and stuff like that, and eventually just blocked me because god forbid she just say no. So naturally I was pretty upset and I’ll admit, I thought for a while that the least she could have done was sent me a sexy picture or go on the date or something. (I was a junior in high …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:28 PM
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Yeah that’s my point. There’s plenty of women I wouldn’t want to date. But I’d never attack them unless it was some sort of neo nazi group or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:21 PM
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Well for your first point who cares? I could care less what feminists call me. They can call em whatever they want but at the end of the day in this scenario my wife is making money from horny guys. That’s not a problem to me. Maybe I misunderstood. The second I’m confused on. Are you saying that because many prostitutes are being trafficked and only fans is consensual there’s morality issues with that? Or is it the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:20 PM
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No of course I’m not saying the women has to let him do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:17 PM
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I can understand this somewhat but at the end of the day it’s a choice for the consumer. If it’s someone who’s addicted, sure there’s some morality issues there. But if it’s just horny dudes paying what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:13 PM
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It is. I want to know why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:09 PM
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So that means that any actor who stared in a high budget porn movie like 50 shades of grey lacks self respect? Any movie that has a sex scene the actors have no self respect? So let me get the second part straight: the drug addict is the porn watcher, and the supplier is porn Creators? So you’re saying that people who watch porn deserve sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:09 PM
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Never said their wasn’t. But you can still have a preference and still be petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:05 PM
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In that regard I can understand that. Porn is free and people trying to monetize their naked pictures or porn clips is actually a valid reason to be upset about them. It’s a weird one but it surprisingly works. Who’d of thought that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:05 PM
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I never said they weren’t. And that’s another topic that can and has been asked. Personally for me if I was a girl, I don’t see a problem with a guy watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:03 PM
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I never said you can’t dump. But dumping for that reason is pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:02 PM
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You’re right it is illegal but that’s kind of the logic you’re telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:02 PM
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Isn’t just having sex with them part of the problem red pill men complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:01 PM
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Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:00 PM
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Yes there is. What does that have to do with my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:00 PM
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I never said it doesn’t and that men can’t still be simps. But just because someone’s on a pedestal doesn’t make the other person a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:59 PM
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That’s, somewhat arguable. But at the end of the day, it’s the dudes choice. They are choosing to do this. Its just like older men having sex with barely legal adults. The teenage girl is running off hormones and the 60 year old man goes through with it. He is choosing to do that. I have my issues with the scenario I just said but in this case these are similar. The guys are choosing to pay the twitch thot or only fans girl. The girl is choosing to make a mistake with a 60 year old. It’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:58 PM
1

In this context what does that mean? People say Cuck all the time. It’s lost it’s meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:55 PM
2

Not really. Ones selling sex and ones selling pictures. One can get something life threatening, the other can get a messy phone screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:54 PM
-2

Look I’m a super unattractive guy hat can’t even get a match on dating apps. But I don’t acknowledge being called an incel because I don’t put my hate to women or myself. I just accept it and move on. But you’re right. There are technically two different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:52 PM
2

Yeah a lot of incel/red pill men feel that way. Not ALL but a lot fee entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:51 PM
2

So what do you get out of a normal job that you can’t get out of selling nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:50 PM
0

I suppose that applies to men who sell their bodies out too than
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:50 PM
2

Never said it is or isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:49 PM
1

If that’s the case fine. Than what’s the problem if she’s no longer selling nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:48 PM
11

That’s actually a really good argument and great counter point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:48 PM
1

Sure it’s a reasonable want but it’s not something you can demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:47 PM
1

Money is money. It’s not like she’s hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:43 PM
4

Sure but they take it out on women. That’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:42 PM
0

That is really shallow. What’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:42 PM
5

That’s actually a good point that I did not consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:40 PM
1

I can see where you’re coming from but that can be twisted. Plenty of things people do are looked down on, like watching porn, yet plenty of men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:40 PM
1

Sure plenty of girls might but not all. I’m willing to argue most are doing so with a boyfriend. Also nudity isn’t intimacy. You could literally photoshop a girl naked and pose as her on the internet and send that picture out and by that logic she’s sharing intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:38 PM
1

So someone big on social media is unattractive to you because they seek attention? That doesn’t make much sense. I have a friend who posts on instagram and TikTok everyday. He’s not an attention seeker, he posts funny stuff on both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:36 PM
1

Ok my mistake and in a sense I do agree. But to what extent? I know many of men who put their wives above everything. That doesn’t make them a simp. It means she’s the most important thing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:33 PM
1

Fair enough but what I’m referring to on here for someone dating them isn’t necessarily someone who paid for them, maybe just someone she’s attracted to. In your case I agree with you 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:32 PM
1

So to me, I don’t want to date or marry a porn Star/prostitute I don’t want to run the risk of an std. I don’t want the sex to feel boring for her. I don’t want her to be unimpressed by me trying to get her off. On the opposite side however if she was forced into that work like by human trafficking I would love to care for her and help nurse her back into society. I’m not saying the girl has to be a virgin or whatever but I don’t really care if she had partners in the past. Pornstar level is a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:31 PM
3

That’s good I like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:27 PM
1

Touché I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:27 PM
1

I mean that’s fine but why do you despise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:27 PM
-1

How is lack it lack of self respect? How is that any different than watching a porn or reading an erotic story?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:26 PM
1

Ok fair enough. I can see where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:25 PM
1

Fair enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:25 PM
0

What does telling her not to be a slut mean? How is a bikini pic slutty?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:24 PM
0

I don’t see how you’re going to get cucked. I don’t even know what that’s means. But fair enough on disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:10 PM
0

Yeah fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:09 PM
0

I mean fine I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:09 PM
1

I don’t think they necessarily have to resort to that when the market is high. If I could hell yes I would. I could work a normal job or I could get paid thousands to be naked. Which would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:08 PM
-1

Fair enough. If it’s just difference in values I can’t argue against that. But that’s not what was said above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:06 PM
1

If it’s for OLD reasons, that’s fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:06 PM
0

So someone who wants to be noticed and have people talk about them is a bad person? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:04 PM
0

I agree. If you’re paying for it that’s a problem. But I would be 100% ok with being married to someone who’s making money off that. I don’t see why that’s an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:01 PM
2

In that regard I can kind of see that and that actually makes a bit of sense but it’s not a valid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:00 PM
1

Never said it wasn’t. But who cares if she’s among money from that? Who’s paying for it? Men are. Who cares if she likes to be degraded? I’m certain most men that complain about this want to give a girl a massive cum facial or anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:00 PM
3

Seeing as the majority of incels are hateful against women that’s a poor argument
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:58 PM
-1

You’re not a wimp for respecting women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:57 PM
1

Ok but what’s disgusting about this? It’s not like cums dripping from her body. She’s just naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:55 PM
4

Yeah god forbid a women makes money because that’s evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:54 PM
2

Now to be fair I can see why profiting off of sex is a problem, as I’m fighting against human trafficking. In that regard, it would probably be a bit hypocritical for me to shout about how sex work is bad but then have a wife or something doing onlyfans. Granted I’m fight human trafficking which is illegal but I can see that as a valid hypocritical argument
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:53 PM
4

Fair enough. Like I said I wouldn’t date a pornstar. But this was directed to red pill subreddits that attack them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:51 PM
2

Selling nudes is not cheating. Men can be territorial all they want, but she is a human being. You don’t own her. You don’t control her. If it’s an issue talk about it. Don’t be bitchy that she sold nudes in the past or something. Upset she was a pornstar, fine. Upset over nudes? You’re really petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:50 PM
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Why should you care? That’s a massive controlling behavior. She is a human being. She has the right to post whatever she wants on her social media. If she wants to post a picture of herself in a bikini on instagram it’s not your place to say she can’t. Your underage teenage daughter? Sure. Your wife? No. That is not something you can or can’t decide. You can talk to her about it if it’s an issue but you can’t say what she can or can’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:48 PM
0

See that’s a fair reason. You don’t want to. That’s fine. But what I’m asking is why the hate on red pill subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:45 PM
-2

This makes no sense at all. She’s not “filling her holes with cum.” She’s not being done by 60 men. She’s selling naked pictures of herself. How is that any different than a girl in a bikini? What because nudity isn’t culturally accepted? That automatically makes her like a rotten tomato? If you would argue that about pornstars that can be an argument. But selling nudes is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:44 PM
5

So what’s the problem? She’s not hiring anyone. She’s giving them what they want. If they want sex they can pay for it with prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:41 PM
8

Incles blame all their sexual problems on women and not themselves and actively promote hate against women. Im surprised women aren’t lining up to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:40 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:37 PM
7

How is she a whore if you’re only buying nudes from her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:37 PM
1

Have whatever dream you want just don’t try to defend them if they’re absolutely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:18 AM
0

Not even trying to defend yourself proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:17 AM
0

Congratulations. You just admitted you want to rape underage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:35 AM
2

1: that isn’t something to brag about. 2: fair enough 3: most women aren’t fucking college professors or teachers for that matter at 16, they’re fucking boys from school. Not an excuse or reason. 4: you can know what something is without knowing what it is. Sex isn’t just penis in vagina or penis in ass or penis in mouth or vagina in mouth or whatever. If it was rape wouldn’t be a thing. Sex is an incredibly emotional experience, something 16 year olds are not mentally prepared to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:36 PM
1

Now to be fair I’m no longer in shape (my senior year I suffered a major foot injury and only now got the surgery because American health care) and I’m kind of fat now but the rest is true. It’s not like they were the stereotype athletes that bullied everyone who didn’t do sports ball, almost all of them were incredibly nice people, some were even serving Mormon missions before playing sports ball, others after (I live in Utah lol). Now to be fair there were a lot of athletes dating girls, I’m n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:17 PM
1

1) that is not what you said at all 2) what’s your point? You were bragging about it earlier. 3) I doubt he’s a handsome old man, and what’s even the point of university if you’re not going to learn? 4) just because it’s legal doesn’t make it right! I can legally smoke in public around children where I live! That doesn’t make it right! 16 year olds cannot mentally understand what sex is! Your dad is a rapist! He legally be allowed to do that but they are still children! I don’t give what the law…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:39 PM
1

Good for you. Your dad did the thing men now bitch about: settling. And from what it sounds she’s autistic too. And the whole “men aren’t responsible” thing in Russia is a bullshit excuse. So it’s women’s fault that your dad raped them. Good job. He is very clearly taking advantage of the female students based off of how he, according to you, just fucked them until he was in his 60s. And your age gap argument is a great way to invite pedos to rape children but considering your father, makes sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:10 PM
-1

First off you’re dad is fucking disgusting. I don’t care if they’re adults, they’re still children in a sense. They literally just got out of high school and living with their parents. They’re barely adults. A 35 year old dating an 18 year old is still grooming. The 18 year old is still trying to figure out what to do, and some guy who’s immensely older is trying to control them. I’m not saying all age gap relationships are bad but there’s a massive difference between a 30 year old dating a 45 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:50 PM
1

There are plenty of studies that show porn is bad for you. Sure maybe watching porn once in a while isn’t but once a week? Yeah that’s bad. There are tons of studies that show it’ll warp your brain and mentality around sex and seeing people (mostly women) as objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:35 PM
2

No. Age gaps are a huge mistake. 35 year olds trying to date 18 year olds is creepy as fuck. Even if they’re 35 and 20 that’s still a huge age gap and makes its more difficult for each other to understand one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:32 PM
0

That statement is false at least when I went. There were tons of varsity athletes that were starters for football, baseball, basketball, etc. that were completely avoided by women, athletes that were getting full ride D1 college scholarships to great schools like Nebraska that were single. It wasn’t the case where they were single because they wanted to focus on the team and sport (my mentality when I played sports) it was there were better looking guys at the school. Some super nerdy computer g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:28 PM
3

It is. A few weeks ago me an a few of my friends created dating profiles on the LDS (Mormon) dating app Mutual. It’s basically Mormon Tinder with no bots. We did this mostly as a joke and to talk with new people. Well after a few days they all started getting matches. Me? Nope. Nothing after a week. And nothing now almost two weeks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:17 PM
1

In concept feminism isn’t bad but in practice that’s when issues can come, hence the phrase feminazi. At the very least a man (and depending on where you live a girl if you’re lesbian) can offer a marriage where there’s a shared income and legal protections and stuff. The problem is, is many feminists are taught that they can say and do things, simply because they are a women, and they can (and in many cases do) get away with it. I know this is brought up a lot and this might not exactly be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:46 PM
1

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:46 PM
1

I’ll take your word for it. But that sounds nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:56 PM
2

People still do to an extent even in LGTBQ which just seems ironic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:24 PM
1

What do you mean they haven’t been raised that way? That sounds awfully like human trafficking or a women’s sole purpose is to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:06 PM
1

Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:26 AM
1

I suppose that makes sense but why is casual sex a thing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:23 AM
1

Thanks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:20 AM
1

I’ll take your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:18 AM
1

Ooooo kay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:41 PM
1

I don’t see how crack has ANYTHING to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:16 PM
1

Thanks. Maybe you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:14 PM
1

Oh than I’m sorry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:52 PM
1

Maybe I’ll understand one day. But thanks I’m glad your sex life is great
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:34 PM
1

Ah ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:27 PM
1

I’m 18 but thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:55 PM
1

Oh. I mean it’s not too hard to do something like that but I wasn’t looking for that just an example of what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:47 PM
1

How is the act alone something to keep men functioning? I’ve never had it and I’m operating just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:45 PM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:44 PM
1

Well you made a shitty financial decision and now you’re blaming everyone else for having something you don’t have. You can’t force love and I honestly hope that girl gets all the money from you and runs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:43 PM
2

Ugh. That made me feel gross
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:34 PM
1

What are you talking about? A women won’t just trade a man for an upgrade like that. These people have been together for years. They’re not just going to divorce because one isn’t giving sex or bringing in money. If you’re in a situation like that than I’m sorry but you’re either a really stupid person to not see yourself being used or you just decided to ignore that flaw in the person when you were dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:02 PM
1

So I didn’t mention this in the post but I do get aroused by some sexual stuff. And I’m still attracted to girls, heck I’ve been aroused by some sexy pictures they’ve sent before. I won’t lie and say I haven’t had sexual fantasy dreams either, like oral and stuff. But I have always felt gross I guess after masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:47 PM
1

That’s you’re argument? Really? That’s the worst argument I’ve ever heard in my life. Especially since both my parents and all my aunts and uncles work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:40 PM
1

I mean when you put it that way it does sound fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:32 PM
2

Do you mind me asking how sex can connect you with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:22 PM
1

That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:21 PM
2

It has never been like that. If you’re in a situation like that than you’re going after the wrong woman. My dad doesn’t pay my mom to love him, my grandfather doesn’t pay my grandmother to love him, my uncles don’t pay my aunts to love them. Hell my cousin doesn’t pay his fiancé to love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:20 PM
2

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:17 PM
1

That is a terrible analogy. At most you’ll pay for a tennis racket and balls once or twice not weekly to keep enjoying it. And I’m sorry but if you’re in a relationship where you have to constantly pay for a women to show you affection that’s not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:15 PM
5

You did not read what I said at all. I asked if sex is overrated or not. Not “wah I can’t get a girl to fuck me. All women just want chad. How do I fix this?” This has nothing to do with what I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:09 PM
1

Ok so then what’s “good” sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:04 PM
2

I’m not talking about prostitution or paying for a women’s affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:02 PM
2

Ok thanks for clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:47 PM
2

What do you mean take care of themselves better than a partner? Do you sexually or in general people are better off alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:44 PM
1

Aren’t looks subjective? Like if you’re attracted to someone doesn’t that mean they’re a 10/10 drop dead stunning person? Unless by “average” you mean people who aren’t models rolled off an assembly line. In that case, than for me yes, I’d rather date someone “average.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:44 PM
1

I’m a dude and I certainly wouldn’t. I don’t like the idea of casual sex with someone who I’m not intimate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:37 PM
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