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40+ up votes, what happened to this subreddit
/r/TheRedPill10/03/24 05:24 PM
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You need to be fucking her so good that she has no choice but to keep coming over. Breaking up with a girl who has moved cities for you will make it very difficult to keep the relationship together in any form. I wouldn't worry about keeping her as a plate. There are a lot of other girls who haven't cheated on every partner they've had. If you continue to use her for sex and she feels hurt, there is no telling the potential consequences of your social life/career if she decides to go unhinged an…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 12:27 PM
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Dating apps are almost exclusively based on looks so if you're getting matches there the "real world" shouldn't be a big step up. You're either matching with ugly people or you're not confident, or both. Improving smv is never a bad idea, especially if your goal is to fuck women. Finally, you don't need to limit yourself to "ok, I'm going to go pick up girls at this bar" no, you go out and you do something fun and if attractive girls are around you should talk to them if you want to. Never go ou…
/r/newTRP05/07/22 03:24 PM
6

Tread carefully, don't be a creep, do not do anything that would have a slight chance of her calling HR Be prepared to leave the job if things go south, I would highly recommend finding literally any other girl besides the one you work with
/r/newTRP03/06/22 04:01 PM
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Shouldn't have apologized to him, should have stopped conversing w this dude long before you got to that point
/r/newTRP18/03/22 01:56 PM
3

Having male friends are v important, you should consider changing your mindset
/r/newTRP05/03/22 08:25 PM
2

First of all "I'm a successful entrepreneur" and "I'm living at my parents" in the same paragraph Secondly, I'm not really sure what you're expecting for advice here, you've already established you understand the concept of frame. You're allowed to love people. Being red pilled doesn't mean being cold and distant and emotionally unavailable.
/r/newTRP17/02/22 02:18 PM
1

I think you may be overthinking things. Yea it is weird that she waits to reply when you're actively dating. That being said, I'm sure it's some insecurity of hers and most likely isn't malicious, she probably just likes you a lot and doesn't want to be known as always being on her phone. I personally wouldn't raise alarm at this specifically, if she was doing other questionable things that made you question her fidelity that's another story
/r/newTRP04/01/22 06:07 PM
1

Personally I just wouldn't really acknowledge it when she asks why it takes a long time to text back, I'd just be like "what do you mean? I respond back extremely fast" and then just stick to that story regardless of your behavior
/r/newTRP29/10/21 07:39 PM
2

I guess in my mind a far ride for the first date might be kind of a lot, but then again, it is a rock climbing gym, I'm sure she knows what she was getting into, so just forget I said anything there, haha I'd say it's relatively important to go for the kiss on the first date, this way she knows you're into her and that you're not just tryna be friends w her. Usually I do this right at the end of the date when I drop them off, that being said, if you have an obvious opportunity before that, take …
/r/newTRP13/10/21 04:29 PM
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Hey dude, I believe you're overthinking things. Understand it's your first date ever and probably pretty exciting, but slow your mind down a bit 1 - as long as she's aware of the distance this is fine, I'll admit somewhere 45 minutes away would not be my first choice but at least it's something fun. You're correct, kino will be easier here than most places, I do think it's a solid decision. Plus, the car ride gives you a chance to talk and build some repoire. 2 - this is completely your decision…
/r/newTRP13/10/21 01:43 PM
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I usually stand tall with thumbs in my pockets, fingers pointed inwards.
/r/newTRP14/09/21 07:28 PM
2

I would just trial it and if you don't get any matches take it out, easiest way to tell
/r/newTRP21/08/21 08:54 PM
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It really doesn't take that long if you put the work in. Some changes can be overnight like a mindset change, while a physical change can take months in the gym. What matters is you're here and on the path. Just have some daily discipline and be able to look back at how far you've made it down the line.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:58 PM
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You should look into stoicism, maybe read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. You seem to care a lot about things that don't matter very much
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:18 PM
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Keep escalating physically unless you are experiencing resistance beyond base LMR. Text her after and bring up in that text that you guys had sex in some way. When she responds positively to that message you have some evidence with you if things go south.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:27 PM
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Came here to say this, I found it pre-quarantine, noticed an increase in popularity over time, was getting extremely worried, the ban saved us
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 12:29 AM
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Keep to the side of effortless within reason. An example would be, when someone asks me if I go to the gym a lot I'm not going to say "what? No I never go to the gym" but I also won't say "yes 5 days a week." Instead I'll toe the line and say "I try and keep up with it." Stay vague about how you spend your time, they'll see the results and put it together.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:57 PM
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If you enjoy the show/movie then by all means watch it. If you're watching something specifically because women watch it, and you don't enjoy it, that's not a great idea in my opinion. Watch something you enjoy instead and you can tell each other about different shows you watch.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:44 PM
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I think the only further advice here is to remain in the present and be more socially aware. It would be silly to not do something that makes sense just because someone suggested it.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:42 PM
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Appreciate you writing out a script, this seems like the best way to handle it. Thank you for the response
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:36 PM
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Thank you for posting this. This was an enlightenment I had a few months ago with my music so your message really resonated with me. So many people dream and wait for "one day" to just happen, but that day never comes. I was studying theory the other day and I measured my roommate and how he spends his time. He comes home from his day job (that isn't something he is passionate about), he goes to the gym for an hour, then he hops on fortnite/watches NBA/scrolls through twitter until it's time for…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 05:10 PM
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At this point she doesn't seem v interested. If she reaches out again you may but I'd begin focusing on other girls
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:45 AM
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Yes, unfortunately, don't be let down, be smart and talk to someone new
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:09 PM
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If she hasn't responded to your texts she's not interested, I'd say reach out day of for confirmation, but if you already texted her twice definitely do not do that. At that point you need to wait for her to reply or drop her.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:36 PM
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You shouldn't be initiating texts, texting is for logistics only. Once the date is set, done, no more texting unless necessary to meet up. If she texts you, respond but try to keep it short. In most cases, texting only hurts
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:35 AM
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I feel like we need more info, as a 24 year old I have yet to run into this issue
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:34 AM
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Sounds like you've just outgrown them, time to make new ones
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:06 AM
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Here's an idea, might be a little too radical but keep this in mind: - break up with her and find someone who actually likes you.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:28 PM
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Bro this hit home with me. I found TRP after my first breakup where I did many of the same actions you said above. You're doing a great job dealing with it by making yourself into a better person. I've seen it the other way where the guy spirals into exclusively pot smoking and gaming all day to cope. I also got a huge burst of motivation after the breakup. Eventually it just became a habit for me, which is the important part and what you need to make happen. Understand that once you hit a certa…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:22 PM
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Please, please do not tell a girl you love her after one hook-up.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:52 PM
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If you think there is a chance you can lose your living space, then definitely do not. I tend to think of these on a case-by-case basis depending on how I know the person to be. Yes you shouldn't strive to go after your roommate or co-worker out of convenience, I think that's the general message of the principle. But if she is throwing herself at you, it might not be the worst idea. It depends entirely on the person though and how well you know them. I've seen it go both ways.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:42 PM
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I can understand you being hesitant to have sex with your roommate if she wasn't giving any IOI's, but you're saying this girl has literally tried to have sex with you a few times. You have two options here: 1: Have sex with her, something you seem to both want. 2: Wait around until someone else has sex with her and you can listen through the wall.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:33 PM
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oh lord ok first of all this girl has tried to fuck you and you didn't and now you're going to be jealous that she's talking to other people? Bro have the sex with this girl, lose ur v-card, and go from there. Unless you can explain an actual issue you're having this entire post is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:21 PM
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Her speaking condescendingly isn't a loss of frame on your part. Getting pissed off about it is where you lost your frame. If you handled it with amused mastery, you can google it if you don't know what that means, then you would have been fine. Don't worry about coming back from it, it's your job, you go there to do your work and get paid. Do not give a fuck about what people think about you there. In today's society it's not a good idea to get into any type of workplace relationship anyway.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:49 PM
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I'll tend to pick out things before I go, so I'm essentially just going there to buy it. I'll say like "ok I need a white sweatshirt, a black sweatshirt, and a dress shirt" so I already kind of have my style in mind when I head there. You don't need to be a pop fan to have a basic wardrobe
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:35 AM
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As was already stated, it's a confidence issue which was outlined very well in an earlier comment. Figured I'd just chime in with some things that helped me build my confidence up. Fashion - I got into r / streetwear and r / malefashionadvice and completely changed my wardrobe. I started caring about how things fit, color palettes, etc. You can get a very basic versatile wardrobe from H&M and expand out from there, which is what I did. Cologne - Look up some good ones, literally every single gir…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:02 PM
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As obnoxious as that reply was, the dude had 3 extremely good bullet points I would recommend trying to internalize. A lot of guys on TRP throw in random insults to try and make a point as you probably know, so just try and shrug it off and use the good advice because there is very good advice there.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:33 PM
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Another comment here mentioned that I'd be falling into her frame, since she is trying to change plans that I initiated. What do you think about that?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:07 AM
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How does this comment get upvotes? She's going to get bored as hell with this guy if he keeps acting like this, that doesn't mean the only other option is mysogony. You sound like someone from a different sub trying to give us a bad name and clearly have no idea what we're about.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:58 PM
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Yea I mean, fashion, like any individual factor, isn't THE thing that will get you girls. The idea is any steps you can take to raise your SMV will help and fashion is definitely one of them. Read up on shit tests and how to respond to them, as well as the guide on "how to tease bitches." There is always more to read but those two were huge for me personally. I don't remember if that guide teaches kino, but if it doesn't, look up videos and posts about kino.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:49 PM
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You shouldn't be paying for sex at a college where there are girls crawling out of the woodwork. Bottom line is you need to raise your SMV, whether it be your cologne, fashion, muscles, or game, just read the sidebar material. You have a victim complex saying that you can't get consistent sex because these girls are "preppy." The premature thing is very much mental, and your insecurity thinking about it is probably part of what is causing it.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:02 PM
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It's just growing pains. You lose the respect of betas and girls below you, but gain the respect of hot girls and other alpha mindset men, who would you rather be respected by?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:47 PM
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Ok she says hi to these guys, and then she leaves to go ride your dick. There is nothing to be jealous of here
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:42 PM
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I can't cross reference it apparently but on the red pill sidebar there is a link under "references" to a guide called "one key step to not giving a fuck" it's a great read and I think it will help guide you on this issue Edit: The Red Pill sidebar not the AskTRP one
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:29 PM
1

I disagee that this answers his question. Like yes, if you're an attractive guy you'll get IOI's, it's not necessarily the action that he is doing at the moment that gets the IOI. A good response to an IOI would be to approach, not to just keep standing there all handsome.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:19 PM
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They hated Jesus because he spoke the truth.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:50 PM
1

You have to keep in mind she might leave the part about not getting hard out and skip right to the bad sex part. I don't think she'll straight up tell people for no reason, but if her group is talking about OP she might mention it
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:44 PM
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Dude just be the better guy. If guys are better than you that means they worked harder and wanted it more. Just be more confident and lift until you're bigger than they are. You have a brain just use it
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:35 AM
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I mean, just go for it dude. If she says she has a boyfriend just be like "I've known you for two seconds and you're already telling me your problems"
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:32 AM
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Make sure to escalate early and decently often. Give her a hug when you greet her so she gets used to touching you.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:47 PM
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Awesome dude, now keep working on yourself, don't get comfortable
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:39 PM
2

Damn it really is that simple isn't it? Thanks mans
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:17 PM
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Dude don't feel bad, she misled you because she's ugly, she deserves less than a "nice to meet you" if she's going to pull that
/r/askTRP02/07/19 01:19 AM
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I have no idea but I wanted to say that's awful I'm sorry you have a dad that does this.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:30 AM
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This sounds like a "how to win friends and influence people" kind of thing. I think the most important move is to be genuinely interested in the lives of the people you meet. People let down their guard when you remember their name and treat them like an individual.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:29 AM
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If it's something she should be doing tell her to do it. If it's something you should be doing, it depends. I don't know the tone she's using, but you could agree and amplify "ok just please don't send me to sleep in the stables again" or you could make it sexual just to piss her off "stop projecting your kinks."
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:53 PM
2

It sounds like you're hitting everything except for kino. It's important not to come on too strong but you might be coming on too weak. If she kisses you she might like you but maybe she feels like she's leading the interaction and gets bored.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 03:03 AM
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If she has an easy time walking away when you're dominant you're not high value enough. You need to keep her in your own frame and not let her lead the interaction. I feel like there is a decent chance she is a brat and wants to be overpowered, but obviously tread lightly with that.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 02:48 PM
3

Hey man, i was in a similar situation to this recently. You never need to give a reason to break up with someone, however, if you wanted to in this case, a simple "I'm not happy" should be fine. I told my ex I just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore and I just wanted to focus on myself. It's always tough in the moment, but over the next few weeks you'll feel better than if you stayed together. Don't put her happiness over your own.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 11:30 AM
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It's only quarantined so you should still be able to view the sidebar, the examples might be from club scenes but the principles remain the same. I can give some examples of you'd like I'm not sure about books for that to be honest, but don't dismiss RSD because they deal with clubs. I learned a lot from them about push/pull, teasing, and kino that apply to all situations. Also, what you're mentioning is Social Proof. Yes that's important but you shouldn't be relying on other people for this.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 02:29 AM
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The Rational Male is supposed to get you into the mindset of what Red Pill is, what the manosphere is, and what you should work on, it's not meant to be a pickup guide. I would read the sidebar about shit tests, day game, etc If you have any specific questions let me know either here or PM and I'll try and give my best answer. Even if you want examples of things to say etc
/r/askTRP08/06/19 02:10 AM
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The more attractive you are the less your hobbies really matter. An attractive introvert is mysterious, an obese introvert is a creep. Keep lifting, work on your fashion, buy a cologne, and im sure you can pick up girls at a coffee shop since you don't do clubs. Gaming is more than just picking up girls at a club it's about picking them up anywhere. I talk to girls about the hours I put into Old School Runescape, literally no hobby is too introverted if you're attractive and confident enough to …
/r/askTRP08/06/19 02:02 AM
1

Wow, I made my comment based off Rollo Tomassi and what I heard from him, but you're absolutely right, two seconds of research and I found plenty of articles about prenups getting thrown away. Thank you for the info
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 06:00 PM
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Careful about saying "never marry," my opinion is worth what it costs, but carrying red pill principles into a marriage with a heavily vetted LTR should be fine. With a prenup of course.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 02:09 PM
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Lift heavy and eat right. This is by far the most visible SMV trait you can have. There are tons of good videos on youtube for gaining mass. Get started here: https://www.youtube.com/user/bodybuildingcomvideo For laughs: https://www.youtube.com/user/BroScienceLife You're making plenty of money don't sweat it This book is $10, changed my life, this will help you keep frame and stop being perceived as weak: https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+ra…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:41 PM
1

This age is all about high SMV and social proof. SMV: Lift // Fashion // Cologne // Haircut // Vocal Projection Social Proof: Maybe join clubs, try and make friends at these competitions you go to, what helped me in terms of flirting was the real social dynamic (RSD) videos on youtube.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:17 PM
1

Lift // Good outfits // Nice haircut // High quality photos
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:55 PM
1

Honestly she just sounds extremely immature, i dont know if there is any "winning" here. I dont really understand why you're even giving her the time of day to respond to some of her comments.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:49 PM
1

Only use texting for logistics and setting up the next hangout. Try to text her less than she texts you, a good rule is 2 messages from you for every 3 you receive. I would set something up within the next couple of days
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:39 PM
5

u/gregoire_ might have his own answer to this, but usually you wouldn't just stop and do nothing, if we're alone i might just pull out my phone for a second, and if we're at a bar I'll just have a sip of my drink or start dancing or something. If she asks why i usually just say "hold on a second" and continue doing whatever action I was doing.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:20 PM
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Same thing happened to me. You need to make habits. Eventually I went to work chest, not to spite my ex, but because it was a Monday.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 09:02 PM
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Honestly I prefer Snapchat, that's what I usually ask for. Especially with tinder. People post stories and this makes initiating a conversation easier since you're showing an interest in the person's life. However, if you don't use snapchat and she's not giving you her number she's not interested
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:45 PM
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This was the book I read that got me involved with TRP. It laid down the basic principles of hypergamy, what it means to be alpha, and other basic red pill sidebar concepts. I would definitely recommend it as a starting point if nothing else.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:26 PM
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I could be wrong but I believe that was for a waitress or some type of service environment, he only did that because it wasn't a good situation to be more directly vocal in. And I guess technically the line is qualifying yourself, but it's to a v minimal degree, I just use it because it usually gets a quick smile. Remember you've only known this person for about three seconds, telling them to text you and leaving will probably have a much lower conversion rate than this line. If you meet up afte…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:10 PM
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I was going off your "just getting the contact, then fucking off" statement. But I admit I'm pretty trash at day game, I only use it to try and set something up for nighttime
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:41 PM
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If she doesn't reply, I'll use "hey come out to x on Friday or I'm telling your mom you tried to ghost me" that's worked If she still doesn't reply, next
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:38 PM
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Oh word, in that case I'd say an overarching hello I'm bondbandito to both of them, but then immediately focus to the girl you're interested in "hey, I have to run but I thought we were both pretty cute so we should hang out hand phone with new contact screen open"
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:32 PM
1

Hmmm, someone may have a better answer as I'm not really sure to be honest. I feel like some girls simply will never leave their ugly friend alone no matter what. In this situation I'd probably go for a k-close, see what her response is to going home with you. If she wants to, cool, if she doesn't want to leave her friend, get the number and set something up another time.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:20 PM
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I usually ask who the leader is, that starts laughter and some bickering between them
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:07 PM
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I do think that guy was going a bit overboard, but he is right that tinder is 99.9% about pics to get the initial match https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ntlth/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_not_just_another Here is a similar guide, better quality than the post you mentioned, similar discussion
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:47 AM
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If you made your intentions clear and she's on board, you can invite her over to play Roblox and that will be enough plausible deniability
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:39 AM
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I feel like if you weren't into her at all you wouldn't be this into her Regardless though, I'd send a low effort attempt to meet up again outside of school, if she ignores it or doesn't want to, next
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:33 AM
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Lifting is easily the most visible SMV trait you can have. It should be the focus, complimented by good fashion, cologne, confidence, and game.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:22 AM
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If it works it works, I usually hit her with the Attitude Adjustment
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:44 PM
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Usually I go for something stupid "my dad, he left when I was young" Or a pressure flip "you maybe, hbu?"
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:41 PM
1

Agree with others but think for yourself
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:25 PM
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"Yea they're around here somewhere"
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:11 PM
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After she didn't hang up immediately I had a feeling it was staged
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:02 AM
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Definitely wear something that may spark a conversation. Last Friday I wore my Raiders jersey to the mall and a few different people started a conversation with me throughout the couple hours I spent there.
/r/seduction28/11/16 06:41 PM
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