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| 1 | Today's going to be my third day of approaching. The first two days were flops but I feel good about this one. Wish me luck boysWell night club is a bit different. You don’t know how many of those guys have girlfriends and are just hanging out, have girls they are seeing but aren’t out with them ect. If you go to a night club there are probably way more guys than girls there, so yeah absolutely less than 50% are leaving w a girl. I’m talking more month to month. There are a lot more places to approach than just a night club. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Today's going to be my third day of approaching. The first two days were flops but I feel good about this one. Wish me luck boysDo you honestly think less than 50% of guys approach girls and have a consistent-semi consistent amount of sex? | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Today's going to be my third day of approaching. The first two days were flops but I feel good about this one. Wish me luck boysPersonal experience. I’ve done over 1000 approaches. I see guys approach all the time. More than 10% of guys have girlfriends. Let’s be honest. Not trying to take anything away from approaching and hitting on girls, but let’s be realistic. A lot more than 10% guys can get women. A lot more than 30% are having consistent sex. It’s silly to pretend otherwise. Believing that you are in the top 10% for just talking to a girl and asking for her number is delusional. Good job, but that’s step 1 | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Today's going to be my third day of approaching. The first two days were flops but I feel good about this one. Wish me luck boysThis is completely false lol. It’s one of those “if you approach you are already ahead of 90% of guys” things. It’s just not based in reality. OP’s post is spot fucking on, but only the bottom 20-30% maybe don’t approach, max. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayTalk to her next time. “Let me take you out sometime, I owe you one” Something like that | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Bad Boy Traits--Making A Woman Feel SexyThanks. I was playing out your previous example in my head a bit, and I think these are things that just need to be done creatively in the moment. If you feel like things are going well, why not make a bold move. Thanks man I appreciate it and will keep what you said in mind. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My date comes under heavy fireThese guys sound like absolute jerks tbh. You had the right mindset. It will be fun to watch them try to take my girl, and you showed your confidence and ability to protect your girl, stepping up when Jeff went in for the kiss. I think you played this close to perfect. Getting bad upset, confrontational would have shown you were too invested in this date. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What to reply to a ''maybe''?I’d just say cool. I am going to be doing xxx at my place tomorrow night. Come through. Or something to that effect | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 95 | "Don't hate me" openerThis is an underrated post. It’s easy to come on too strong or appear that way. Saying don’t hate me first kinda shows a meta understanding of social skills. Yeah I know guys don’t usually just walk up to girls and call them pretty, but Im still doing it because you really are...instead of coming off like you say that to every pretty girl you can | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to attract woman who recently god dumped by (ex-)boyfriend?I’d just reach out and ask her how it’s going, talk for a bit. Tell her you are going out and if she wants to meet up she should join...or maybe just ask her if she wants to catch up. If she is into you then she will, if not she won’t. Then move on. If you do go out with her then be direct...that will stop you from getting friendzoned. She probably thinks you like her because you just asked her out. Have a fun date, make jokes, catch up, invite her back to your place and if she can’t then set up… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 4 | How to get girls to give you more eye contact?I think guys overrate eye contact way too much. We’ve all had a few cute girls smile at us and we either regretted not capitalizing or did and had a good conversation. Because of this we are constantly looking for girls to make eye contact as an excuse to approach, but it becomes an excuse not to approach because you didn’t get good eye contact. Hopefully you are a cool guy, who is self aware, not lazy, and any girl would be lucky to spend their time with you. A confident opener could turn a gir… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Height’s role in attractionI promise you as long as you are taller than her height isn’t holding you back. If you are insecure about your height, please please grow out of it. It’s the mindset from that and not the height itself. I’ve seen so many tall guys struggle and I’m one of them. I’ve seen so many shorter guys kill it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How to react to high SMV colleague shamelessy flirting with the girl you like in front of you?Do it in a fun way. The goal is to make it seen like this guy is no threat to you. You have to show that you know this guy is inferior to you, whether it’s true or not. If you get mad, lose confidence, tell your girl he’s a dick, she is gonna wonder why...when she talks to him she’ll realize he is actually pretty cool. You need to say he’s a really nice guy, give him a compliment, start talking to him, ask him a question yourself, if he has a bad answer, bail him out. The goal here is to have fu… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Bad Boy Traits--Making A Woman Feel SexyGotcha thanks for the response. I think that’s something I definitely need to work on. Usually if I am at a bar/club scene I escalate by asking to dance, maybe go in for a kiss if we have been really hitting it off, or some playful touching, but that usually is just to gauge some interest before the other two. I sometimes struggle with the bolder moves, especially when there isn’t an excuse for touching. I like your example. Do you have any other examples that you’ve used/seen used that you can … | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Field Report - only read if your boredGood luck! | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Field Report - only read if your boredI’m not a single parent, but do you have any strategy to figure out if a mom is single or not. It would be great if she mentioned it, but you could have mentioned you were a single dad or something. If she was into you, she would have definitely made a point to say she was also a single parent and you could talk about that or go out sometime to talk about stuff because you have a similar experience. Just find a way to bring up being a single dad, without coming off creepy and you’d have easily b… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How to ask for a kiss non-verbally?If she is touching you/you guys are alone and having a good time. Look into her eyes. If your eyes meet and you feel like you should kiss, just go for it. If you are talking/feel it would be too awkward then say “wait” (to pause the conversation or to get her attention so she isn’t surprised) and then go for the kiss. Don’t do this if there is no strong eye contact/you aren’t vibing with the girl. In this case you are, so you are fine. I just don’t want someone reading this to just randomly try … | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Field ReportThanks for sharing. This honestly sounds like a lot of my nights out alone. I think you are right about going for the kiss too fast. I think that’s been my problem a few times. I’d be confused because I thought it was going great because we are kissing but really I am probably coming off as desperate/needy or just coming on too strong. This lead to me getting weak/no responses after I text them a day or two later. I’m thinking of going in for the kiss next time and make her go the last 10% of th… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Bad Boy Traits--Making A Woman Feel SexyI feel like these tips don’t have much to do with the premise of making a girl feel sexy. Does anyone have anything they can add because I agree with the overall point, I’m just not sure how to go about doing it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?From my personal experience, looks are much more important. If all things are equal then heights makes a difference. As long you are taller than the girl, your height doesn’t matter. I’ve seen plenty of attractive 5’7-5’10 guys do great with women and tons of 6’0-6’4 guys struggle with women because they aren’t that attractive. Obviously confidence, humor, social skills, and all the other stuff matters, but I’ve never seen a girl go for a guy and it’s because of height. It’s almost always someth… | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?This is false. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?I agree with you. I’m also 6’2 and being tall is more of an all else being equal thing. As long as the girl isn’t taller, height doesn’t matter. Looks are the most important, followed by social proof/fame/power followed by humor and conversation skills. All these are amplified by confidence. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Many Women Want Sex ImmediatelyIt’s because if you were truly a man they wanted you would have made the move and had sex with them. The lack of recognition of her desires is incongruent with the personality you gave off originally that attracted her to you. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 01:06 AM |
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