AdolsLostSword Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. The demographic most likely to describe dating as fair are women, who use a man’s lack of romantic success as ‘evidence’ of poor character, when in reality character is low on the list of probability. Men know dating is not fair and is far more arbitrary than romance novels and movies pretend it is, because men are the ones who are overwhelming more like to fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 01:20 AM
72	I'm a feminist and I still want a man to pick up the bill The pay gap comment is also a myth. The ‘same work’ is often used to describe equivalent hierarchical positions in different industries - so a manager in retail might be considered equivalent to a manager in tech. The idea that like for like roles are compared is one of the most effective myths gender pay gap agitators get away with. The gap in lifetime earnings is explained primarily by women working less hours and men being more likely to choose their careers based on salary. You’ll struggle t…	/r/MensRights	10/01/26 06:33 PM
-1	Not undrestanding the importance of mutual desire in relationships is an autism issue No one uses the word ‘subhuman’ but they stereotype autistic people in such a way as to reduce their humanity. It’s tiring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:20 AM
4	“Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men. Women opting out are an extreme minority and not representative of normal behaviour. Much like MGTOW, women who fully ‘opt out’ of dating weren’t being selected by decent candidates anyway. It’s all just cope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 08:37 AM
3	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating Thank fuck she only lived once anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 12:03 AM
5	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating More appealing ≠ be the most appealing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 05:40 PM
31	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating Had she actually been harassed by a man that she wasn’t attracted to, I doubt she would take such a charitable view of harassment. Maybe instead of blaming men she could introspect and see if there is anything she could do to be more appealing to the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 02:38 PM
2	CMV: The next generation of women will have an even harder time dating The men they want are not serious about relationships*	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/25 07:38 PM
12	Society may have overestimated risk of the ‘manosphere’, UK researchers say \| Men The hysteria around the manosphere is hugely overblown and a way for people to dismiss men’s issues by stating that they have those issues because they consume manosphere content. The reality is the causality is backwards - the men consuming this content already feel left behind, excluded, or otherwise not living up to the masculine standard reinforced by men and women in society. The manosphere content markets itself towards men who already feel disillusioned, and by speaking to (at least on a …	/r/MensRights	14/06/25 06:00 PM
16	Most men aren’t privileged, they are just suffering differently and it’s not a competition Because privilege is frequently used online as a baton to silence men and tell them that their suffering doesn’t matter, or is a skill issue and indicative of moral failing on the man’s part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 07:36 PM
5	Misogynist young adults get more sex Morality (outside of extreme acts) is largely orthogonal to our attractiveness. Where character comes into attractiveness is in social acumen, not value systems. Social Sciences are notoriously difficult to make genuine claims of causation in, but my instinct based on anecdotal experience is that it is that young men with more easy access to sex are more likely to develop misogynistic attitudes, due to not seeing the women in their sex lives as equal partners, due to how easy attracting them is.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 06:06 PM
3	High value virgin women dont wan't sexually unsuccessful men Yeah it’s a tautology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:49 PM
20	High value virgin women dont wan't sexually unsuccessful men High value virginwomen don’t want sexually unsuccessful men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:15 PM
4	Q4M: do you pay for your platonic women friends when going out? Because among friends everyone pays for themselves, except in the case of a round of drinks where paying for rounds in turn is the norm. Why wouldn’t I pay for male platonic friends, or them for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 05:46 PM
5	Q4M: do you pay for your platonic women friends when going out? Absolutely not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 05:01 PM
2	Q4Men: Have you ever fallen in love with an ugly, old, or fat woman because of how nice she is? I’ve had substantial feelings for an older woman - but not ugly or fat. Physical attraction is very important to me and I tend to only be attracted to women who take fitness seriously. But a whole host of personality and lifestyle factors have made me unattracted to otherwise attractive women. I’ve had genuine feelings for 4 women over my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 11:24 AM
3	American men are becoming disinterested Certainly preferable, but where I’m from in the world drinking wine tends to be the only hobby these women have, in a country that has a deeply problematic relationship with alcohol. When I see a dating profile and every photo is her with a full glass of wine, it’s a red flag for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 07:08 PM
2	American men are becoming disinterested I’m not American, so I don’t know why you are using my experience as an example of what Americans are, or are not, doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 07:05 PM
6	American men are becoming disinterested Because culturally drinking is done at clubs and bars where I come from. House parties are a thing, but typically as a precursor to going to the club. Playing Poker in a friends house over a few beers is not something that happens culturally here, at least not for guys under 40.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 06:34 PM
4	CMV: Western women choose to demonize masculinity due to past personal traumas with men The only people who need to take accountability for their bad behaviour are the individuals to commit that behaviour. The overwhelming majority of men are not violent rapists, and are not responsible for those who are, just as women aren’t accountable for the minority of women who abuse their partners. We should all call out bad behaviour when we see it in our families and social circles, but where this call to action misses the mark is in that people tend to associate with those of a similar di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 04:15 PM
6	American men are becoming disinterested Guys on the spectrum were outside more prior to modern streaming and the internet, certainly. But that doesn’t mean their social lives were substantially better. I grew up prior to the widespread distribution of internet access and spent most of my time outside and at youth clubs and the like - still struggled to make any genuine friends beyond passing acquaintances. My point is it’s as likely for young men on the spectrum that they fall into video game or pornography addiction due to their soci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 03:30 PM
4	American men are becoming disinterested I use dating apps as a supplement to meeting women via my social life and about 3/4s of the profiles are either boring churchgoers or ‘wine and cheeseboard’ alcoholics. I won’t pretend I’m a giga chad catch here but neither of these types appeal to me at all, regardless of their physical attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 02:59 PM
10	American men are becoming disinterested Are you certain on the cause and effect here? Plenty of shut ins are going to be men with autism and other conditions that makes having a normal adult social life difficult - people might tolerate you professionally, but cultivating genuine friendships will be more difficult. I’d suggest they are as likely to be shut ins because of prior failed attempts to connect with others. All kids go to school, and are put into the same social environment. But some kids are social butterflies and others fin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 02:55 PM
8	American men are becoming disinterested “Post-modern Marxism” is an oxymoron.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 12:29 PM
21	American men are becoming disinterested Many things in our life exist outside of our sphere of control, but we can always choose to be decent people regardless of our other circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 12:00 PM
-1	American men are becoming disinterested And takes place at the discretion of the mother, based on what she thinks personally looks best. Bit fucked up and I never understood how it remained so culturally widespread in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 10:39 AM
77	American men are becoming disinterested Not American, but yeah I was never terribly interested in drinking or partying (lol typically Redditor blah blah). Tried it for a while at University, thinking that eventually it would click and become enjoyable but it didn’t. Dingy clubs and overpriced drinks, mediocre music selection in most cases, and having to take scrutiny or ‘not tonight mate’ from one of life’s coked-up cautionary tales acting as the doorman. I do enjoy joining friends in a more traditional bar for a few rounds of pool or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 10:35 AM