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Thank you so so much for pointing out the postpartum phase. After reading your comment I did realize that I've changed so much in just 3 months too. Hopefully things in my head stabilize better as my hormones do too!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 08:29 PM
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These are really helpful! I did reminisce a lot on old times and that's something he liked about me too. Guess it's time to bring that charmer back in me! 😎 thank you
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 08:28 PM
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Thanks a lot!! Will look her up ♥️
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 07:30 PM
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I couldn't find it either!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 07:29 PM
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You are right, like everyone else who's told me that this is the go-to method for narcissistic people. Its like i keep waiting to feel "absolutely done" with her and then only will i automatically become a grey rock, but i see that i gotta practice and cultivate that into my being. Thank you for your words! <3
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 02:24 AM
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She knows I'm pregnant and yet she said "I'll torture you a little like MILs usually do, just a little torture" and she laughed that off. Last time I met her she told me to take everything bad that she ever says to me, I shouldn't tell that to anyone but just take it in. It shocked her wits when I told her that I'd tell her son and my mom anyway. I have definitely thought about bringing my unborn child into the picture and emotionally blackmailing her if it comes to that. My husband has interven…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 08:14 PM
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Thank you so much. I'm being told the same thing by my family and I guess it's just harder to train your own brain than to expect changes in others. Thank you♥️
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 07:07 PM
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Totally agree with this. Being overly thankful and grateful for whatever your spouse does for you goes a long way. He thanks me for even doing the dishes (even though in our dynamic it’s totally my job), but the next day I thank him for making the bed. No harm, no foul. (It’s not an everyday thing, but it surely makes us happy whenever it happens) Remember what LD says, husbands always want to see their wives happy. Be genuinely happy when he does the littlest of things for you, let it gleam in …
/r/RedPillWives25/12/22 10:12 PM
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I think I read this in The Empowered Wife, that to be able to maintain harmony at home, women have gotta leave their competitive streak or masculinity or whatever that raging side is, outside home. We tend to lean towards a dominant demeanor when at workplace so that people don't think we're pushover; but at home that dynamic changes. You've gotta be milder and more polite, liven yourself up to liven up the entire house. A grumpy wife and mother do no good. I felt the same a year ago, and wasn't…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 10:03 PM
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You can start by delineating the stuff he should pay for (like groceries, major home improvement stuff like furniture, bills, insurance, car repairs etc) and what comes under your hobbies, fun stuff (makeup, home decor, spa days, etc). Once you have a mental note, make an estimate yourself on how much you need for the month. Then ask him how much he'd like to give you, just so you know a ballpark amount he's willing to give. and then you can negotiate from thereon. I'm a stay at home wife too, I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 04:02 PM
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I love cooking and that's how i express my love and gratitude for him. He's very outdoorsy, so he's busy with games on a sunday, while i'm home cooking. He comes back to the smell of fresh home cooked meals, and sometimes if i have the time, i make really healthy protein based cookies/cakes for him which just win him all over again <3 I also like drawing, painting - so sometimes i make little notes/cards for him and slide it in his laptop for him to see it first thing he opens it in the morning!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 06:24 AM
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♥️♥️♥️ Cheers to you and your blooming relationship!!! May you always get what you want from each other and more! Best wishes, warmest regards 💞🙌
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 02:25 AM
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I got mine a silky soft fleece for when he's WFH. And I love cooking, so I'm always baking protein cookies or cakes according to his liking!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 12:11 AM
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Are you in the US? I find Ross pretty affordable and good, but you obviously have to look through a lot before you find the right ones. Also, check out the factory outlets, I've found some really good formal wear at Banana Republic outlet
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 05:34 PM
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One of the most heartwarming posts I've read in a long time. SO happy for you both!! Much love and good luck 💞🍀
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 02:26 PM
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Your story seems like you're in desperate need of surrendering. And the good news is that you already feel that you need to pull back and that's a great start. I'm new to surrendering too (7 months 💑), and it hasn't been easy. So please read/listen to Laura Doyle's The Surrendered Wife and slowly incorporate her principles in your life. I remember the first few days of reading that book, I felt so light hearted and we were laughing the whole time, because MY mood was suddenly so much better. I l…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/22 05:00 AM
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I broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years, and a lot of friction in the relationship was due to my immaturity and his childhood traumas. Anyhow, after we broke up I couldn't get over it and still wanted to be "just friends". It did not go down well and I was treated and felt like trash. Fast forward 3 years, I'm in a loving marriage with my husband whom I waited AND prayed for, and boy he is all I could've asked for and more. If you're asking for advice, please don't go back to any of your exes. No…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 03:29 AM
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Totally, that's a great idea!! Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWives26/07/22 01:21 PM
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as good as it may sound as a long term solution, neither of us want that!
/r/RedPillWives25/07/22 09:50 PM
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I hope so too, thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWives25/07/22 08:46 PM
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Thank you so much everyone for your kind words. We did have a talk and he ordered a mouth guard, although we both are skeptical but also optimistic that it might help us out. He did feel that I was being impatient and could just get used to it, but I panicked because my family is visiting next month and I will not have enough space in the house to move to the next room, and more so that I don't want it to be known to them that this causes me trouble. He is aware that it is a physical issue, and …
/r/RedPillWives25/07/22 07:39 PM
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