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| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Sorry I thought you could read sarcasm and dismissal. But do think it's whatever to make you feel like the little winner you are! Dude nobody cares about what you think. Shooo. People have life's to take care. Husbands to fuck. Go back to your cave and wait for visitors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:04 PM |
| -5 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?You’re not just noticing patterns. You’re deciding in advance what things mean, then watching for proof. That’s not insight. That’s anxiety with nicer wording. And the contradiction is still there. You talk as if choice and desire live in separate worlds. In real adult relationships, they grow together. Desire comes from interaction, effort, presence. Yet you say a lot about what you observe and nothing about what you do to build it. That part keeps disappearing. No mention of how you show inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Dude!? Be the fucking Lamborghini then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Take out the dream storyline ok. First because this fictional person ain't be going looking for someone else if she wants him that much. Why would she stop going after him? Dude. Nobody. And I mean nobody owns someone. Wanting to own a person like a possession? This is the bloody aura flama in the red flag ranking. You are objectifying guys here as in possessions and price? Man you need to start loving yourself a bit more you know. Give yourself some worth you know. This whole pricing, owning pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 06:55 PM |
| 3 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Isn’t it convenient for men too? Sure, let’s balance things out then. I’ll make sure women start caring loudly about male virginity and lack of experience. Fair is fair. So women should make their lives smaller and more uncomfortable because you’re sad you didn’t convince anyone to sleep with you? And of course it’s all women’s fault for being “mean” and not choosing you. Awn. I’m so sorry 🙄 There’s nothing for me to fix here. This is a you problem. Try dealing with your fear of rejection instea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Ah yes, “you’re triggered.” Classic. When the point gets uncomfortable, attack the narrator. Predictable. Triggered by what, though. By someone repeating your own words back to you. Or by realizing how they actually sound when you’re not inside your own head. You say sex out of obligation would invalidate it. But then you quietly replace obligation with a daily proof requirement. Desire, in your world, has to show up often, visibly, on demand, and ideally outperform other men. That’s not lust. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I hope he is as handsome as his name suggest. It's irrelevant. I'm old enough to know that I don't want the trouble of teaching a noobie. Experience is a good thing, because you need practice to be good. Sorry but this whole "body count" thing feels like inexperience, insecurity and fear of comparison. It's also funny because you are much more worried in what happen before you than maintaining your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?How you will no if she was more attracted to her ex? Why is she is with you if her ex was so good? This matters most to you? More than attention, care, companion, connexion, trust, safeness, security? Will your relationship end when both of you get to old for sex? Please. What is and how you measure ideal lust? She can judge you too? The thing that I take issue with this whole past thing is that: 1. Way to much worry on sex. When sex literally don't need connection. 2. Certainty there are more i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I fear that I will end up being rude if I actually answer you. Seriously a game? What's the prize? Desire just pops in the air. Talking is building interest ok? You said "predict" don't start with the denials. My point was prediction it's not necessary because there is a thing called "communication". It's not observing and choosing to react though. It's monitoring to see if you can act differently now that you were not the first one to expose feelings. If you need sex everyday go buy a sex toy d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:05 PM |
| 3 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I will translate ok? You want to feel reassured that you are "choosen" everyday using sex as a tool for managing your inability to deal with emotions and face your insecurities. You want to feel this reassurament everyday without reciprocating apparently. You fear rejection so much that you need to be desired everyday to the point of expecting it as an "obligation" Also you think that desire works like a button that you can turn on or off. You must believe that you are entitled to sex and that n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:49 PM |
| 3 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Or was it a consistent string of guys in her earlier years Who fucking cares? Nobody can unfuck her past. I'm aiming for the "I will be the last person she/he fucks" Don't give a flying fuck for people she/he literally left behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:33 PM |
| 4 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?You say you don't care but when you say it's an insult kind of tells that you do care. How do you think lust work exactly? How do you find out her lust level? The only thing that matters here is sex? You don't do nothing then? She either meets the proper lust desire rate or you are out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:53 PM |
| -1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Do you use a cristal ball to help with the predictions? 😆 Dude nobody listen our thoughts. Invest in actions to achieve her desire. I promise that this will take less effort than trying to predict whatever. The effectiveness rate is also much higher. Please tell me where you see this common things? I need the justification here. Do you have any idea of how tiring it's to pretend to like someone on a daily basis? It feels like they need a Trello agenda just to do all that. And sabotage it? What i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:43 PM |
| 0 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?List 5 signals please. Do you have a chart with the signals and their meaning? You check your reading or is intuition based? It's there a list on what you do during this period? I need more facts dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I was literally wanting to know how the investigation process on girlfriend X ex worked. Sherlock Holmes power of deduction right there! But you are probably right. In the end it's made up fantasy to justify their own fear. Sarcasm wrote this 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:30 PM |
| 0 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Really? You want to be exactly like her ex because? You want to have the exact same sex she had with the guy she broke up? Treating you like a unique person is bad? How do you find out the sex dynamics she had with the ex? Do you all for recordings or what? You ask her opinion about the sex with the ex in any moment? Or we go strait for your believing he is better than you? If you acted like someone that she would want to be around would be a lot easier in my opinion Is this role "just look at m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:25 PM |
| -2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Are you serious? If “he feels” she’s less into him, that’s a he issue. Feelings don’t work like Inception. Nobody is planting insecurity in your head. You’re the one dragging exes into the room all of a sudden. This is comparison anxiety. Insecurity. Lack of self-esteem. Period. Honestly, how does nobody see the obvious thing here: if the ex was so amazing, she’d still be with the ex! But! She’s not. She’s here. Dating you! What are you doing? Why are you measuring yourself against the past? And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:10 PM |
| 5 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Maybe we should just believe that if the person is with us it's because he/she wants instead of obsessively looking for "signs" You guys do know that "comparing" yourself with an ex for example it's your own insecurities talking. I know that everybody here wants to blame the other for this but... Accept in your little hearts that there is no way in hell to prevent cheating, break ups etc Let's wear it big boys and girls pants and face that this issue here is not about how can she/he demonstrate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:19 AM |
| 1 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.Really? I did something because I will get a reward = I did it for myself. Ex. I gave my friend that awesome gift now he needs to give me a better one on my birthday. Vs I gave my friend a gift because I felt like it. On my humble opinion this earns the title of worse action because it was built in a lie. You built a character that does the "nice thing" while hiding your true self in order to gain something back. Explain how this could ever be sincere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 11:11 AM |
| 8 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.So basically you are saying that you volunteer to be praised and be treated better because you want to feed your pride and ego? Not because you think that people being hungry is a bad thing? Or that poverty is a problem? Or that people are suffering and you want to help? What is the good action you are really doing when you think you are entitled and should earn something in return? You make a show of pretending to be a person that cares about whatever when in reality you want to be seeing as "b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:52 AM |
| 1 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.You did a false correlation there. Literally there are more options in the world ok? Thinking you don't need recognition is different from disliking it in any form. When you do whatever because the result will be a "prize" than you don't believe in what you are doing. You just do it because you want to earn the prize that comes with it. It's not a good deed, because it was not selfless, it's not really a good thing. Because you aimed the prize and not the action. We should teach the value of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:20 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?As I read in a book, men are defining masculity in things they do or have instead of their personality. I don't date someone because they know how to do whatever I date someone because I like who he is. In the end at least for me you are undesirable because you are not an interesting person. Good looks won't ever compensate boringness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:30 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesWe shouldn't care about what happens on the other "side" because it has no benefit for me? Do you even like women? You want to take rights away because what? You should just be given more? It's time to take the little war glasses and realise that there are issues deeper than the oversimplified and binary explanation that this little gender war you like to preach. Your women are burn out, working more, earning less, dying Yes there is an epidemic of loneliness, is hitting everyone. Women try suic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:55 AM |
| 3 | The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandryA man becomes a father the moment his child is born, just as a mother becomes a mother at the same time. You have a child this child has the right to have a name, a family, etc Taking out a father doesn't take him out alone, also takes out all the extended family this child has. The child loses a side of their family. She loses her heritage. Soooooooo many little rights. It's unbelievable that you think that is just about money when child support doesn't get close to paying the damage of being a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 12:26 AM |
| 6 | The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandryNice another irresponsible lunatic trying to literally run away from his responsibilities. Let's just have men running Wild making babies and have zero accountability to later on shame single mothers. Let's not mention leave all burden to the mothers, because children obviously don't need their dad's. Oh yes let's not mention literally resuming fatherhood to finances. I mean wow. It's not like he participate in the child creation am I right? /S On top of all that your solution is to make everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women were abused and unhappy before the feminist revolutionIndirect nostalgia is so tiresome, everyone who enters this trend nowadays has this sentimental attachment towards the aesthetic of "older times". The fun thing is they will see babies flock here and deliberately argue that societal values are superior ignoring reality and artificially photoshopping what is inconvenient. I mean "Omg such high society values! Such a great age! We even had that thing called segregation!" "Gay marriage? Oh never" "Mental health? What the fuck is that?" It's not lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?😂 Dude I pity because I would be so mean she would need it. it's no actual pity. Stop distorting reality for a change and get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?Did you head went bunkers? I pity the one who accused him, because this little girl would suffer at least a lawsuit against her What about reading instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?You must not be a parent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:34 PM |
| 5 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?How would you feel, internally? Would you lean towards believing him, believing his accuser, or withholding judgment? What factors would most strongly affect your judgement? Obviously would start by having the biggest chat of his life and find out what happened. If he was guilty, then I would be disappointed, to say the least. If he was falsely accused... Well, I pity the one who accused him. How would you act, externally? Would you vocally support, defend, and stand by him? Would you help pay f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is highWe will be debating possibilities to run away from actually doing something to solve the existence of the problem. Really? Rapists are everywhere, it's time to stop delusions that the bad ones are not in victims' houses, in their families, etc. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?Can't believe it come the day when I agree with a RP lol Nonetheless, you were spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?Thankfully is not such a common practice where I live. If it's not for medical reasons, like phimosis. It SHOULD be BANNED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | If women wanted marriage and commitment onlyWhat exactly are you trying here boy? Saw you are Jewish, you should go wear your kippah because you need to feel a bit of humility. Take a moment to remember the I Thou and you will probably see why you are having trouble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:57 PM |
| – | If women wanted marriage and commitment only🥱 So many words to confirm what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:46 PM |
| – | If women wanted marriage and commitment onlySo many words to say "they don't want me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Just adding you got something. There have been studies showing a high correlation between bad mental health and "the men that don't get what you were saying" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?I got curious here. Where would equality not be good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failTold you I would forget. Exactly I made the claim you are the one that has to prove me wrong. I have given you the pleadings it's your turn Even though it's typical. Never wanting to do the heavy work and pilling them on women. Well Res ipsa loquitur . Not arguing says that you agreed with what I said. Default it is then. Thanks for warming me up to an even more entitled little prick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:51 AM |
| 7 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10002055/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1752-0606.2005.tb01555.x https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15974059/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/predicting-infidelity-an-updated-look-at-who-is-most-likely-to-cheat-in-america https://www.ryanhart.org/who-cheats-more-statistics/ https://mazeoflove.com/infidelity/ https://techreport.com/statistics/lifestyle/cheating-s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?(On fear) I could argue the same. The people compulsively driven to pair off with substandard relationship partners are just afraid of living and dying alone... Hyperbolic and not my position. But you went ad homiem so I'm going to turn it back around at you." When I engage in discussions, I avoid creating arguments solely to refute others. It's more productive to sincerely engage with their viewpoints, listen actively, and seek mutual understanding rather than focusing solely on proving them wr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?1.'don't throw pearls to the pigs'- then why be here in the first place? Entertainment by watching drama and horror and source for other projects. 2.calling my premise false on your own merit (you being the pearl and I being the pig) is just as baseless as the empirical claim I made. So from my POV you are the pig and I am the pearl. I accept that as the case, as is the transaction in most online discussions, speaking of. It was NOT on my own merit because I literally couldn't make sense of it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?At least you tried to make sense this time. You say simp and my mind goes straight to the app. Never simp because it was never excessive or unbalanced like the definition of the word imply. All my relationships were build on mutual appreciation to say the least. I was married and was the perfect marriage. Somehow I doubt that you take in consideration what would need to address to this connection... I'm super tired but unable to stop hiperfocus here. You answered yourself, no? We don't do it bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Dude literally let's break down the paragraph and ** address the lack of logic and false premises** It's not viable to argue lack of logic (gets even worse adding false premises) because they undermine the foundation of any argument. If there if no logic, there is no connection of ideas in a clear reasonable way, while false premises are **ASSUMPTIONS OR STATEMENTS THAT AREN'T TRUE** or have no proof to it. If a argument lacks logic or begins by false premises it's false by default, it's unrelia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Dude even if I put your comment through IA, your point won't be clear. Actually will do that. "Let's break down the paragraph and address the lack of logic and false premises step by step: **"Ah, but there is where I do want to be generous."** This opening statement suggests a forthcoming generosity or benevolence in the speaker's attitude or behaviour. **"Her time with you SHOULD be considered appreciation granted my other conditions are met"** This sentence sets conditions for the woman's time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?I thought we were using economic. Overall, you lack logical coherence and relies on assumptions and generalisations about relationships that are not necessarily grounded in reality or applicable to all individuals. But what else could we expect? From people that couldn't interpret a movie correctly and fall under the marketing strategy .... How could we expect better from a whole movement based on by subjective viewpoints, constant negating to information, provocative assertions, oversimplificat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Dude knowing whats real and what is fake is the basic for living. If you couldn't know that difference you would be in a schizo crisis. I'm joking ok? I know what you meant. Seriously though the ability to question our beliefs it's essential to grow. How do you know that you are right? You heard this someone and never questioned it? Doesn't it bother you? The looming possibility of been wrong and having just faith and defensiveness to "win"? If you had to justify objectively without fallacies ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less soYou do read this sub right? A whole named group for not dating women, blaming and insulting rtc... I mean put into chatgpt and ask which is sexist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 10:30 AM |
| -1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?From an economical point of view you are starting with the wrong premise. Besides obviously overlook of different dynamics. We have more women than men implying an imbalance of supply and demand. Forget what we consider to increase value on housing prices. And ignores how time can increase a house value as well as the power to buy. That without having credit in consideration. From the beginning here. People are much more complex than market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:33 AM |
| 4 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?No dude. People that listen normally yet to fight to be heard. Are you needing help? Know some places that can help with a bunch of issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Make the same with them and wait for the "not all men" troop. They know they are wrong. They push for others to argue because it's easier to deny when you never look it up. They literally choose to remain biased and refuse basic logic. I love discussing but we are losing our time with little petty dudes that can't entertain the idea of being wrong. You know why "you have to prove it"? Because he can't. He can just mash up subjects, ignore deepness, frame it in an oversimplified, binary victimise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:52 AM |
| 3 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveOMG! Sorry! I literally miss that. If it's worthy though "The body cannot live without the mind" and my body is practically on auto pilot now. 😂 A good one for you though 'You have to let it all go, Neo. Fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind." Trilogy fan or first movie only? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveThank you for your condescending gesture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:57 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveMissed the movie completely. The spoon scene dude. THE SPOON SCENE, It was not the red pill it is what it took to BEND the matrix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.If you really want to. Sure. DM me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveSister BE PREPARED, because all they will come after you. Since you like philosophy do you know the quote? "What we don’t understand, we fear. What we fear, we judge as evil. What we judge as evil, we attempt to control. And what we cannot control…we attack." Apply here. It will fit. "We often fear what we do not understand; our best defence is knowledge." Keep learning. Look things up. It helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The problem I have is that it's dating. A thing that really depends on personal ability. It was always a GAME. The response IT'S "work on yourself". "Work on personality. Work on emotions. Communication" . WHAT else should we say? It's the most frustrating thing BECAUSE the default answer is "WOMEN LIE"... what to do then? You try logic. You get confirmation bias. Or inverting the issue. DARVO basically. Data? Ignored. Studies are not reliable. Books of experts? NOP. You name it. I'm not saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?THANK YOU! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failWhy do I even try? REALLY NEED a dose of overclock for this. Literally very busy right now to go on. I do have data on all I said... but dude google it. Art of war this shit first dude. Please. DO YOUR PART REMEMBER. You are the one holding the onus of proof here, not me. The heavy lifting on data it's yours. Your turn, go bring me your support. You didn't go into this by reading nothing right? Fact checking and all... Where is it? Explanation over why said data is required is necessary. You thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.NOt into reading right? Ok. You described how bad you are on your flirting game. Can't find the problem yourself when it's in your face. You can try calling your poor game anything else but it WILL BE POOR GAME REGARDLESS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failThe money thing is SOOO old. Change the disk. "women settle up" Geez do you even talk to women at all? Women with your age? Because it's time. At the same time where are your fucking friends that have sex (without lieing at the very least because if you lie for this it's PATHETIC. You have so little confidence in yourself that you need to CREATE a persona and use literal abusive and manipulation Technics). WHERE ARE THE WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE??? Your HERO? If you can't get a fucking date. IT's becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failYou know what bullies have in common? They are INSECURE, You act like that you are fucking insecure! When you come in my face and dismiss all the gender I belong you are INSECURE as fuck. When you as a guy come here saying you need a girl with low or no body count you are **insecure, you fear being compared, you want control, you want the other to learn what you like.** Because what we don't understand we fear, is what we try to control . NOT only is bullshit double standard ok? It SHOWS that yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failYou need an example? Will leave this part out for now. You actually have to learn that you ARE INSULTING ACTUAL PEOPLE ON DAILY BASIS FOR FREE. That's why the whole exposition was necessary to show you HOW HARD it is to keep doing this once you realise that is a person actual feeling human being hearing you. Beeing mistreat by you. COME On CAN YOU EVEN TAKE IT INSULTING LIKE YOU DO FOR ONE MINUTE? If you can't what are you even doing? More than that. WOULD YOU WANT TO DATE SOMEONE THAT TALK ABOU… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failEND OF COPING IT UP BUT RE READ THIS AGAIN "WAKE UP FROM THE MATRIX DUDE" Geez. It's a whole "ideal" of self congratulation and ego massage that needs to rely on blaming everything that is not one thing. Can you even guess? It's never men, but much more than that because we can't hide our particularities in a group. You never blame yourself. Hold the mirror up, dude. Wake from the matrix for real. STOP trying to blame the spoon stop trying to manipulate reality. IT'S NOT THE SPOON THAT BENDS IT'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail**SO AT LEAST READ THIS FOR GOD SAKE!** Will actually move the WHOLE THING UP because I will end up writing all over it again. **BUT CHOOSE THE RED PILL NOW**. How is that you are so sure of reality now? What if you just woke up at the matrix again? Hm? HOW do you know that you are out of it? For real? Would reality be so easy that you just had to find this deep secret about how evil women are? Have you actually watch the matrix? If you didn't you are an bigoted hypocritical lame dude, no better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failOk I will change the approach here. here because I prefer to be productive rather than losing my time, and I believe that specially young men need help here. Apparently you lack someone in your life to actually give you a reality check and warn and give you hints... I doubt that you will be able to read all of it because it should be done in your face, And then you will be free of me ok? Pinkie promise. Try at least to use your big mainly brain to come up with something better than coming back t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failMen also hire women! And they hire women as housekeeper. Men hire OTHER men too. Because changing flats, and doing maintenance is NO indicative of anything. You ain't be honest here even knowing that Kant definition of wealth says "We are not rich by what we possess but by what we can do without." Wealth isn't measured by the abundance of possession you can accumulate but rather by the freedom you have from dependence on material thins. The exact same applies to service. Wealth is measured by yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Not playing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.You can't go into competitions when you are not playing. I literally can't. You have to lie? Really? LoL You got yourself in a hall of fame. Not sure you don't like it though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:33 AM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Poor game is still poor game even you you try calling them by any other name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.You have to straight up lie to get sex. LOL HAS TO LIE TO GET SEX! FREELY admits this. I'm printing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:03 AM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.OHHH the horror, the pain. All this lonely men! How can women be so picky? Why can't they choose better... Dude men are not invisible, you are. It's the attitude. You can always become a trans women and find all the DELIGHT looking for diamonds in coal mines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Oh but dating is such an issue. Ok STOP BELIEVING IN OTHER SINGLE UNHAPPY MEN THAT SELL CONTEMPT IN SOCIAL MEDIA. They ain't going to teach you how to date women. For Christ sake there is no conspiracy to deceit men. Use you brain and ask why would women want to lie over this? We don't fucking want to settle down dude. All this shit is lies and lies. OLD WOMEN DATE. OLD MEN DATE. People their age. Neither your life or your dating pool decrease after a number. Most single women are on their 40s, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.PEOPLE regardless of gender should not be abusive. See? It doesn't need to put things under gender lens. It's a issue on both sides (although occurring more in one)and the measurements to fight it are the same. And guess how they pass on equality and less victim blaming? Where ARE these people saying that women can't be vicious? We are literally spreading male victims awareness everywhere. A thing that actually started with women advocating did you know that? Hell in my country women fought to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Really? We address violence as a whole matter so much. It's not that we only advocate towards women issues, is that the women issues at hand such as domestic violence are VERY high and are deeply concerning because 1. it happens inside your house the place where you should be safer. and 2. it happens from a person you know, have deep connection with you. 3. it's much more than physical abuse and deaths. It involves a lot of issues including children. Give me ONE example of society don't giving a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failI FUCKING DOUBT that you even know what feminism IS. What feminism fight for. That's a bloody reason why the whole word advocate to equality. Feminism did more for men rights in the last century than this little pilled fantasy glasses ever did. It was women who fought to enter the military (and I will spare you on how dependable every army is on those who stay), it IS women fighting for paternity leave and balanced custody law. It's women who brought awareness to male domestic violence victims a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail"Not at all, you're attempting to straw man here. What I am doping is pointing out is that both sexes are dependent on each other. You sat in a chair made by men, used chatgpt made by men on a smartphone or computer made by men, sipped a hot drink from a cup made by men, heated in a kettle made by men, in a house made by men, drove a car or took a train/bus made by men. Claiming independence from men, is fucking lunacy, a sign of terminal brain feminism. Women that are sane and aware of their de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail"Nothing of value was said. Key word is "may". Nobody cares. This is not an ethical discussion, this is a debate. Attempting to tone police in a debate is a sign of conceding your point." Ok. When you don't use nothing else then personal assumptions than it's not an actual ethical debate. It is detrimental to people to disregard their achievements by oversimplification is lazy, wrong and prejudicial to everyone. How about that? You also just changed the subject to avoid addressing what I said. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail"Skills aren't assigned to a sex. A sex is either good at performing specific task or it isn't, and claiming that both sexes are equally good at all tasks, with all other things (education, etc) equal, is idiotic. Can a woman do dead lifts? Sure. Will she ever be as good as men at it? Nope, even juicing. At the end of the day both sexes are severely affected by the hormones." Then prove it. Prove how this tasks are not based on society norms and stereotypes and in abilities. Your are oversimplif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail"Precisely, and the studies show that women predominantly pick people-related jobs, while men pick things-related jobs. If you look at trades jobs, the demographics breakdown in ANY jobs is women are less than 20% of any given trade. It has nothing to do with gender roles, get it through your head." This also doesn't show dependency at all. Both skills either people related or things related are fundamentally necessary in society. No, it's not in any given trade. There are plenty of trades where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail"This is completely false. I know this precisely because several of my friends, who are men, have businesses. They perform men's tasks for a fee, and if a job is a rush, they charge up to twenty times the usual price. The limit is only client's ability to pay. Some Karen out there paid $5000 dollars for an overnight fix that costs $200, and was not a rush in any way, which she was informed of." Several of your friends is not a base line to assert millions of people. That is confirmation bias. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages fail"No, I was suggesting that outsourcing tasks that are traditionally associated with men to men only highlights dependence on men. Any woman claiming that she's independent, while paying men to do men's tasks in her life, is factually not independent." For starters independence is not narrowly defined as the ability to perform tasks. Independence is a reflection of the ability to make autonomous decisions and manage one's life according to personal choices and priorities. Outsourcing certain task… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Isn't it easier and more effective to stop pursuing women as men of validation and validate yourself by other healthier methods? You do know we recently lived in a society that frowned over casual sex. Where women had to stay pure and people should have sex only after marriage... You do remember how it truly was right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.And the men you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.You are parting of the premise that abusers exist and they blatantly lie and manipulate sometimes for years before unmasking themselves. People don't come with warning signs, we should advocate for both genders to take responsibility and accountability for their actions instead of telling people they should have just picked better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.This always seems to forget that men also get old. But for real here most divorced women and single mothers will think you have a serious problem if you were never married or had a serious long relationship after a certain age. Divorced women are happy to be divorced in majority and many don't want to marry again. The ones who do apparently in my experience and in some researches prefer divorced men over always single men. That's a lot of misconception about single mums to. Taking the bias aside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Feminism does fight to end gender expected roles you can debate that dating will be part of it. Although I really have to point out that maybe dating falls under more "pressing" problems. It also takes a long time to change a social behaviour, this pattern is literally shoved to us as the right and expected way. Hard to criticise something that we got from plenty previous generations and demand immediate change. It will take time That said in my experience women are not that afraid to initiate. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failI aimed to maintain simplicity and directness in my message to avoid unnecessary complexity and keep the argument balanced. While English is not my primary language, I believe that interpretation is a fundamental aspect of all languages. I wanted to understand the reasoning behind your argument because it appears to lack substance and is a superficial assessment. Thus, simplicity seemed the best approach to match your reasoning. I was not aware that I should be writing at an academic level and I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failAlways lame when someone fails arguments by using ad homine, really the worst defeat ever. But what else can we expect from .. well you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityDear Ijeawele, By Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie We Should All Be Feminists By Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie A Woman’s Life Is a Human Life: My Mother, Our Neighbor, and the Journey from Reproductive Rights to Reproductive Justice By Felicia Kornbluh The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir Feminism Is For Everybody by Bell Hooks Difficult Women by Helen Lewis The Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan Hood Feminism by Mikkie Kendall White Tears/Brown Scars, By Ruby Hamad Invisible Women, By Caroline Criado Pérez … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failCan't read subtext? Yes it can. And you are doing it again using people's basic abilities as measurements to qualify. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Why most marriages failThe same could be argued about men You didn't answer anything else though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Current day red pillers lie to men about how women are and what men should do to attract women, because red pill not longer wants to help men be successful at dating, but to make men bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete.Don't forget it also reinforces traditional stereotypes over masculinity Unhealthy behaviour in mental health Unsafe sexual behaviour Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 07:18 AM |
| 9 | Current day red pillers lie to men about how women are and what men should do to attract women, because red pill not longer wants to help men be successful at dating, but to make men bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete.It's because it was created to sell! It's a marketing strategy to sell up an ideology appealing to gullible people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Current day red pillers lie to men about how women are and what men should do to attract women, because red pill not longer wants to help men be successful at dating, but to make men bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete.That's why I always point out it's a clear Barnum statement. It honestly glorifies toxic and unhealthy behaviour actually doing more harm to their followers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Why most marriages failAnd since when it's a competition? What dumbfuckery is that? If You were the one saying that women are dependent on men dude, wtf. I wanted to see how that adds up to your statement. I sure hope it's not a competition the victimhood one is enough thanks. I really think you are listing the wrong here, men are necessary but not offer the reasons you put here. What you listed is all shallow things and assume stereotype behaviour. Men are valid due to other qualities. Your "friend" went full delusio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:22 AM |
| -4 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityThis is just delusional and nonsense. You people need to read more about gender, gender roles, gender social construct and feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?Oh ad Homine is always the last resource | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Why most marriages failHow is this within the women are too picky debacle? I need more explanation on the second part No, they need to know they ARE ALREADY dependent on men. Hm. Really? Does this establish a sense of control over others by trying to frame dependence as a gender? There is research somewhere that says men are more dependent on relationships. . How many women here can snake their toilet? Fix their appliances? Change a flat? Seriously? Like every other person that don't know to do something. "hire someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Why most marriages failshould women be antisocial? should women be dependent of a men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failusing the list on the reasons to divorce... each would be the unreasonable expectations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?Dude you are acting out of your emotions when you go straight to nullify the other instead or arguing, come on It's defensiveness 101 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9113260/ https://psychologyfanatic.com/immature-defenses/ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-defensiveness-5115075#:\~:text=Once%20again%2C%20being%20defensive%20is,reaction%20to%20shame%20or%20guilt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?And that is where I stopped reading. An emotional response is NOT a response that is fashioned when emotions are also present--and emotional response is one where emotions are the driving force, and are usually devoid of anything other than "I feel X, therefore YOU are wrong!" Clearly. Precisely. When you act by trying to nullify another person's emotional response you are engaging in an emotional response yourself. "I feel triggered, surprised, disbelief, hurt, anxious, etc therefore you are wr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?Look it up and you will see. "No. I do not turn them off. I acknowledge what I am feeling, examine if it is valid, and move on choosing the best course of actions based upon the situation presented.;" And when did you did that is this situation? When did you took the moment to choose the best course of action? No dude, that response was totally emotional. The thing is we should stop to "deal" with things with "the other shouldn't have done and that's why I acted that way" Literally if you are th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?The thing is that even though you think you are turning off your emotions, you are not. You actually feel that you keep more rational. My point is that we don't realise but we choose how we feel along with how we rationalise. Also my point is: If you are the one that can rationalise better and someone will come at you emotionally shouldn't you choose to keep acting logically and assert the situation instead of actually taking the "emotional route" and respond them matching their tone. Why don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:54 PM |
| 4 | What US women want is a fantasyCan we please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?Can't men respond to emotions? You do know that we can't turn off our emotions right? So logic would be apply and consider the emotions you are handling. Also I don't see why there would be a need to nullify someone, because of the way they addressed something, Again the logical thing would be modulate your response accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipYou should read it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipI just closed my computer.. By memory alone "healing from hidden abuse", "How He Gets into Her Head", "no visit bruises" And really every single place if you look for debunk myths over abuse. Never heard a person who actually deals with abuse think that victims are weak in any way. Every single one of them is strong, they lived trough hell. They lived trough everyday terrorism. You want what? Famous people? Halle berry, Madonna, Pamela Anderson, Mariah Carey, Tina Turner, Lovern J. Gordon, Trace… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How can women be Hypergamous and oppressed at the same time?You can blame the latest Barnum Statement for all the incoherence happening lately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 05:00 PM |
| 4 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.If that's traditional I will pass. I prefer having a partnership | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipSure thing! DM me I have a lot of books, studies and articles I can recommend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 07:45 AM |
| -1 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipI'm very sorry that you feel that way. Abuse is one of the only crimes where we blame the victim instead of the person that actually deserves it. The "victim" is in part responsible. Claiming otherwise is psychobabble written by virgins, grifters in the "therapy" industry and more virgins in the so-called Academia (social studies being full of the most useless people on Earth). I would say that claiming victims are responsible is psychobabble written by people that lack emotional growth, lack of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshiplike I said in the previous comment, that's not true. Most abusers go after the strong, the sucessful, and confidant people. They enjoy the 'challenge" of gaining control over someone. Having good boundaries is sure a good thing because they are crucial for personal safety and well-being but they do not make abusers go away immediately. Having boundaries may help to protect against manipulation, but that's why manipulation is manipulation. Abusers will try to gain power over you by using tactics… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:54 AM |
| -1 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipAbusive people tend to go after the strong. Victims of psychological abuse are most often the kind of people you wouldn't think would be vulnerable to such a thing. People who choose to abuse their partner are not abusive all of the time most of the time they change their behaviour to pretend they are nice. Most abusers don’t target people they see as vulnerable in the first place, they often go after the strong, the successful and confident people. Like they want the challenge of gaining contro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenOh Sad that many didn't accept donations from the US but were very happy that you chose mankind. They are truly helpful. Once the victim support group that I volunteer was contacted by a guy there was out of my country. We got a bit desperate since it was hard to help him and he couldn't go to the embassy or go back (nasty case). This was the first NGO that would attend men and actually took the time to respond to us. They put up an amazing scape plan. I'm glad you could help! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenSeriously? That would be amazing. If it can be international there is https://memoriasmasculinas.org/site/ It's a amazing group dedicated to help men there are victims of domestic violence but they don't have a direct donation channel. I can reach out thought Also this project helps women through domestic violence and provide reflective groups for men that were accused of domestic violence to get them back to society https://coletivofeminista.org.br/atendimentos/nucleo-masculinidades/ There is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWhy is that? I really want to get the donation though. I guess that if I have the time to study a bit about the place it could be done. maybe a bigger and more worldwide famous place. One question here are there differences between states on how dating works? What I think is the biggest issue is the cultural difference I wouldn't understand. I can guarantee that around here I'm fairly certain that it could be done easily. I will think about how we could solve this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenCan't we do it in my country? Since I won't know a single thing about this places to enchance conversation. I must say that if I pick someone with foreigner traits it will be probably biased. Can't we chat and agree on one? Have no idea each professions earn that in the USA. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenAre you been ironical? https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0250151 https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/19664-personality-more-important-looks-across-globe https://assets.ctfassets.net/juauvlea4rbf/1kmtOU2RRXrAB9Jz1JRmwe/20ee3375a5ba9f2d31fcbf9fb5a2e541/191105_Ideal_partner_survey.pdf Can we at least acknowledged the fact that there are a lot of women saying the same think over and over again that implies at the very least that a percentage of women that feel that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenI volunteer among 3 NGOs that support domestic victims abuse men and women both. On that I work as a lawyer meaning I take a case from it's beginning to it's end. In my country reports of domestic violence are almost all prosecuted so there is quite a lot. I also participate in the administrative work within the men groups support we maintain as a paralleled program. There we have safe spaces for men to undertake support groups that contemplates: domestic violence, anger management, violence beh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenYou answered the pregnancy and child birth as well as a 15 year old dismissive and diminishing without any content. Is it hard to make the effort or is just that you don't have any data on it? "don't want don't do it" when you are probably in the country whole portion of your politicians is trying to negate access to birth control? Or we are advocating to celibacy here? Because I hate to be the one to inform you but consider what happens if women just don't give birth at all. Weren't we talking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenHow many links to studies and how many books you want to set as a limit to me to put here about domestic violence. and rape. NO DUDE IT'S DEFINETELY NOT EQUAL. And this shitty attitude makes another serious problem to be overlook by a whole bunch. Instead of arguing with only books, I INVITE YOU to come and pass a month on either one of the 3 volunteer NGOs I participate that work to help and support domestic violence victims. We take BOTH MEN and women. So came and take a look yourself. Why on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenMany of the studies there also address anxiety but https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3939970/ https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/discussion/opinion-women-are-far-more-anxious-than-men-heres-the-science https://adaa.org/living-with-anxiety/women/facts https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3135672/ https://medicine.iu.edu/news/2021/07/researchers-study-anxiety-differences-between-females-and-males https://www.fda.gov/consumers/womens-health-topics/women-and-anxiety https://www.who.in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenRegarding depression and anxiety... Do you really think I would just say there are differences if I don't have a reason and a mean to support what I say? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27856392/#:~:text=Women%20are%20about%20twice%20as,possibly%20explaining%20the%20gender%20gap https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4478054/ https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/in-depth/depression/art-20047725 https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lanpsy/article/PIIS2215-0366(16)30263-2/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenDude it's like you are making an effort here to be obnoxious. It's not like there is a pity competition going on. If you want men to have all the problems (and they truly have them) we will help but you can definitely take the trophy over having more serious issue. So although I know you will just disregard everythin because of this poor attitude. For real that you put up suicide attempts as attention seeking? Are you sick? Do you need help? So by that logic when men attempt suicide and fail the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenHow do you know it was your looks for sure? Were you reading their minds? What is they lied? Are you a woman? "Riddle" me this how can you deny a woman opinion over what we think when you are not a woman and neither have access to it thought's? My men let's stop with the assumption that we are lying. We have no reason whatsoever to lie about what we like. Come on! Why on earth would we pretend to like something that we don't actually like? We would only get men mistakly doing the things we don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenI firmly believe that men should get rid of this notion that you won't succeed in relationships because you are "average" First what is average? Average like the concept of beauty varies between people. What is attractive to one may not be attractive to the other. Also like I say a lot women take personality traits much more than looks. Honestly I want to find solutions but you guys have to help too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWhat is OLD? Well I guess men should listen to us when we say that things like appearances aren't our main focus. Analyse their own profile and improve with things that focus on your personality traits. Also pictures that ALSO emphasis your personality traits over body centered ones Why do you even ask if you don't want the real answer? Dude please. Why on earth do you ask a question and then is not willing to accept the answer. Seriously THERE AREN'T physical traits that are dominant in the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWere? Why are their complaints? We are currently in the overcorrection phase So you want to have women doing the same behaviour that you don't like in an exaggerated way so they can see how wrong it is. How will that work exactly? In 200 years I predict women will still be complaining about increasingly inane grievances Hm where are you taking these opinions from? There is an estimate from the UN that defends that would take 286 years to close the gaps in legal protection and rejoice discriminat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenI don't use and probably never would use Tinder. But I fully agree on taking the op's "challenge" just for the donations. I'm not question the results here because honestly I fail to see the importance people put here. But don't you think that not even a dozen of dates are really enough to prove a general feeling towards a million populated group? Isn't the sample to short to do that? Don't get me wrong our personal experience have to be taken into account in our lives but isn't it using persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 12:39 PM |
| -2 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenI will give you the short answer here, but I can give you the long one addressing all the things you listed. I will just comment that having more affirmative action in general it's not a good thing because it implies that there are problems that are in need to be applied in order to fix the gap in that subject. So again just with the getting an easier dating life? How will you apply that in your life? What will you do about it? Not even one? Really? Are you really sure of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 12:02 PM |
| 2 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenBecause I am concern over some issues that apply more to men than women. Things that are in need to be changed and that would give us a better society in my opinion. I'm not talking over catering for anyone, I do believe that people "in need" deserve to be helped. That's why I try to do my part where I feel that I can. Why is this automatically read as to cater for women? can't we cater for men also? Why you won't ever be valued? No this generic takes but you for you why wouldn't you personally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:58 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenThat's nice. Do you also refer your girls friends too I hope. How is living like a woman? I mean women are the majority in the work force it is not like the majority is living like a princess. You don't want to work or something like that? Why do you think women have an easier life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:52 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenOk but knowing that an axs murderer either male or female ain't going to show what he really is in the first stages. How can you say for sure that all these guys are "safe" I mean there are women abusers out there but statics also show women as the majority of victims. We also are listening from a very young age that we shouldn't trust men we don't know. So I think it's fair that you did it again with that in mind. You can argue that this is biased but if it's or not it's not the point here. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:21 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenIt's really difficult to show someone something they can't see, even if it's all around them, your post will open some eyes. I could say the exact same thing over from different points. I literally will never get the appearance thing. I feel it's very demeaning for both sides to apply a concept of beauty when everyone has their personal take in what is beauty. Also I don't see how this would work with actual people. I think it's shallow as hell to think things like "I would fuck this girl becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:48 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWell to be fair leading people is not very nice in either gender. But since you were "experimenting" I guess it's ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:36 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenFor me? None. Literally don't care too much about how my men look. He has to be attractive to me and I tend to be attracted over confidence, good chats, have a personality, and align with me politically and religiously. Oh guy that makes me laugh for sure. I'm currently in a relationship but if I ever went to dating apps I would look more for men I find cute (obviously) and that have an interesting profile. The profile would surely pick my interest more than pictures. Also I would say that women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:34 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenOk, how can we do it? I live in a non English speaking country can we apply translation or do we have to set this in a specific area? Changing to say that I would prefer average looking guys. Pink the girls let's make a "challenge" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:51 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenOk can we do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:47 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenIt's an actual concern on my part and I really do one thing that I say least counts as helping men. Can you tell me what you are doing to improve men's problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:46 AM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Cause they consider me unattractive It's easier that easy isn't it? There is literally zero difference. The problem gets clearer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 09:58 PM |
| 0 | The "Wall" does indeed exist, but only for women who have built it themselves.Maybe if I see like "I found the secret" it would works? Because seriously? If it's not a joke I just can't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Welcome to 2024, everybody is rating everybody, you never seen videos with the trend "he's a 10, but he watches anime" kind of thing? And you got dating sites like photo filler where you put your picture and people rate you. Like it or not, people judge other people by looks and how attractive they are, it's reality It's still shitty. I may be old but still shitty as fuck. No one my bubble does this. I believed that once before in my youth, I truly did. But after years of research, study, interv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 09:35 PM |
| 2 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?I'm sorry for the inaccuracies and difficulties on understanding me. I'm fighting sleep. The thing is that there is research that women are more "prone" to help others and there is another research that say that women are more abandoned by their partner in their sick bed then men. Then we have domestic service that is the profession that enables your partner to focus solely in their career grow. A profession mostly composed by women that has "caring" in the description. Alongside comes the othee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?I felt attacked because of what I do for work and the examples I have on this. From marital abandonment to violence who is doing more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 01:49 PM |
| 3 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Women could play a part in helping men to be more confident instead of just telling men to be confident. Or actively destroying men’s confidence. Unfortunately confidence is built inside of us. It's a path we have to travel ourselves. confidence bask on the recognition but it's non existent if it's linked to another. Other than that two answera Men are more confident in general than woman and this according to research. So.... What again? A curiosity for you to reflect upon. There is way more in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Ok ok My dude I'm sorry but I get can't... The starters I don't know if it is a cultural thing but with my girls? This giving numbers rates is bad. It's like really bad. Second is not appearance. Really. Truly. Sincerely. It's not appearance. There are studies. There are a whole thing in the internet about it. But mainly WE ARE NOT LYING. We can dismiss looks. It's NOT LOOKS. It's not money either You ARE flirting badly. No. Don't question it. Just look at the results. See? It doesn't work. For … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.I will always be careful of anyone that the victim blames either men or women of abusive relationships. What should we expect from someone that doesn't blame criminals for being criminals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The sex positives on this subreddit are interested in normalizing cheating behavior.All jealous come from a bad place. Just look it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 10:27 AM |
| 6 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?The one and only carrier of the one ring that was not affected A true friend Loved his wife Good dad ♥️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?Terry Crews Dwayne Johnson Trevor Noah Cris Evans LeBron James Karamo Brown (all men on the show) On characters Phill Dumphy Obi wan Kenobi Newt Scamander Hipcup Maximus Decimus Meroridius Gomez Addams | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 10:00 AM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothing🙄🥱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 04:56 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingYawning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 10:28 AM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingAgain not unchilled? The ad hominem is the most boring falacy. You strikes less and less as someone that knows basic thinking. Oh you motives are clear, they painted in your face. I mean you didn't try to hide it. You know what? Why bother. Go! Find others that want to regulate clothes. That align with your subtext. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 10:11 AM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingI'm calm? I'm just amazed at the amount of disregard to basic thinking. Google is right there. Although I haven't seen much you've just repeated what everyone said Maybe because you are the one missing the point then. If that obvious and you can't grasp it So go on you want sociology? Psychology? Anthropology? What take would be valuable? So far, no logical argument was presented, just ideologically driven dregs. Yeah so know the actual debate here you are just avoiding further conversations by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider cheating?Ok for the drink thing, because you have opened the door by accepting it... It's like a vampire they can't come in unless you invite them... Taking the drink was inviting them in... I assure you that not engaging is a possibility. accepting it can be as meaningful as to try free samples. Accepting a drink is a "scored!" Mainly situation. I think that is a "you" perspective. Have you tried inverting it for argument allure? As for the using men for drinks and bottle service... You gotta keep him i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider cheating?Nah it could happen at any moment you have a fight she texts him he says the right shit and she starts fantasizing about him... And from this moment on there would be cheating in my book. As for the orbiter thing... I really love this. The right here defined what I had to do as an export trader. Engage and interact with people was the job lol I'm not saying being around people is, but if you're in a relationship and a man offered to buy you a drink the respectful thing to do is politely refuse..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider cheating?If it's not from the kindness of your heart and is intended to be picking up women then it's clearly cheating. I really don't see how it automatically correlates. Bare with me a bit... Having people around you is not necessarily intended to pick up someone. Remember when I said it's morally questionable? You can do this just in order to gain materialistic things only. Orbiters is a nice term! Like it. Because all it takes is for him to say or do the right thing at the right time and the fantasie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters?As a fellow Brazilian you know that we don't consider cheating normal. Come on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider cheating?You are saying generosity died? I personally feel that it should always be room to the possibility of buying someone anything without ulterior motive. There are so many situations where is just generic support, praise... I can give you a personal example on this if you feel like it. Idk looking at someone and wondering how they kiss or what they may look like naked... Or what that man might be like in bed Okay! This is a whole discussion right there. Personally these are the first steps to cheat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider cheating?You are referring to emotional cheating. The key is in intamate, doesn't need to be sexual. so for example if you are a couple and you go out to a club or bar with our your SO that's cheating women dress up for bars and clubs with the intent of getting attention and free drinks... A real intention? Because we can argue on that Just be extremely careful not to fall on controlling behaviour justification. so for example if you are a couple and you go out to a club or bar with our your SO that's ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Women wearing revealing clothing2024 and we still have to address the victim blaming shit. Unbelievable. If you can't "contain" your item's behaviour or think you are entitled to act like a beast because of other people's clothes then we should take you out of society since you can't understand basic rights. Yes clothes have connotations! None take out the NEED TO CONSENT before assuming other people's intentions. You are not a mind reader. As a guy if I wear very tight speedos that accentuate my bulge I won't be surprised if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | “Women/men aren’t a monolith”The lengths you went! Wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?Of Melons, Heads, and Blood: Psychosexual Fascism in Griselda Gambaro's Bad Blood Oh because YOU know better? Okay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:55 PM |
| 0 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?In 1947 Theodor W. Adorno defined what would be later called "blaming the victim," as "one of the most sinister features of the Fascist character". Shortly after, Adorno and three other professors at the University of California, Berkeley created their influential and highly debated F-scale (F for fascist), published in The Authoritarian Personality (1950), which included among the fascist traits of the scale the "contempt for everything discriminated against or weak."A common example of victim … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?Again you don't live where abuse is a crime? You don't get the concept here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:37 PM |
| 0 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?Well since abuse can bring brain damage and seeing the general health of men and women that get out. . Well I prefer to keep blaming the criminal. Victim blaming is on the f scale. I mean liking fascism is your personal thing? Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?Really? Abuse is not a crime where you live hun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?Apparently no one ever heard of manipulation and abuse on their entire lot life "She makey excuses for being robbed" does this strike as this is coming from a very healthy person? Because if she is too that point she is probably sick no? What could possibly make her like that? Yeah let's not help her at all she is just an friends that likes to be robbed sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?You read the part where "they break her down" It's kind of hard to expect this mentality of a beaten and bullied person to stand up alone and "woman" up Try considering for a minute that it's not that the woman chose and more on the men was lying about who is was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 10:37 AM |
| – | Women usually don't care about looks as long as men are not autistic or socially awkward.Ok please Why would we lie? Really what's the benefit of lying? What are we gaining? Judy enlighten me on how you a guy can't believe on what women say all the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 10:10 AM |
| 1 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?You are beautiful without anything. We all are in need to use make up on actual events. Not caring about others does wonders I feel you at birth control, I use and recommend IUD (forgot I'm English) it's long term one of the best methods there are and even mirena that has hormonals hasb good side effects. Also menstrual cups... Amazing and last ten years Aging is a part of life wev know it won't bane us. Let's get old like poisonn I payed for so many dates and was later paid on. That's why I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:55 AM |
| 0 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?What if it does cost. I do it because of its health that's it Also I'm dying here of sleep and some conversations would help me on waiting for my clients | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?You have to stop picking up fights and assuming tones. And falavt .. It's a trusted thing. If it's science it was proven with many methods. It's just something you can trust Do you trust things that are not research, experienced. Tested and confirmed as a method. Are you trust on people that study this every single day were what? Soul? So sciency You were not good with text reading etymology The term psychiatry (Greek "ψυχιατρική", psychiatrikē) which comes from the Greek "ψυχή" (psychē: "soul o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:23 AM |
| 0 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?This again! Be he by generous! It doesn't have genders. If you are invited for the pleasure of their company then pay. It shows appreciation Just that easy If you can't pay then shared | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:56 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?I go to gyn, krav naga and kenjutsu about 420 monthly (not USA) and another 1000k on supplements (whay,, bcaa. Cromo, potation and magnesium. Telamina. Creatine.,hmc Selenium, iron and vitamins and pre workout. Oh vitamin s etc It's about almost 2000 for food. 160 on nails. 200 I'm hair, 800 on make up. Perfume, jewelry the list go on Just on giving both sides perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSorry because I'm on the third day without sleep and trying to use Reddit to help getting a abuse victim out and it's 5am Just have some patienc Really was commenting on behaviour that you seem to engage . You can have reasons for not wanting single men and if doesn't matter . The child deserves to be loved It's just on the justification that it's just goes on bad pattern. Because it's false by facts and we should make s point of being fair and use based knowledge. To the it why shouldn't you da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgainst adoption. They can definitely see you at their dad. Love a shit dad instead of who grew up with him And he has to deny his real dad? There is emotional neglect as a civil female goes up to 500k.... Shouldn't seek father yeah After you are a baby that needs to be prioritised over a child. wow. Assumption and why is the problem with I kix. You just need then to take your needs. . . That s your mum Can't she have more children? Jealous over ex and boy supporting partner. Got you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVasectomy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:34 AM |
| 1 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?I'm just coming back tomorrow. Tired as fuck I'm going actually help police to enter the home and just find her Can't deal with the no accountability respect, etc tomorrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:22 AM |
| -1 | In the current year, do you think men should pay for dates? Why or why not?Always in that Be generous. It's genderless. If you want to have the pleasure of someone company then pay if you can. It will show appreciation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Don't like blaming crimes as something you were destined for. Prefer the view where you are destined to great things and abuse is just a sorry highly painful occurrence that you will get over. Because again "you are destined to be great, do great stuff, receive the best of people" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Getting one of those anti insects things. 😆 It's early morning and I'm laughing so hard. The jokes. So many. Well thank you sir. You surely is a special snow flake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I thought you were done? Shoo off. I dont need your credentials if you say that men get the same results from therapy as it is, in comparison to women. You asked for them. Wait. Denying that Who talked anything about admiration? Delusional woman Pitiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Fucking hell no wonder you are insufferable human being and no one wants you 😂 I'm not you. I'm married. I actually love to be insufferable to ones like of you. It's intentional. Thank you for the compliment Im done with your bullshit Thank the GODS! The whole intended ignorance gets tired really fast | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?😆 Classic. Ignored everything and went out of his way to ad hominem Not wanting my credentials anymore. I see. Shove your respect whatever you like. I have plenty of meaningful respect, thank you very much. Who wants insect admiration? Rather have actual adult men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Where did I say it was free from having troubles? Nice nitpicking on finding another false correlation. Fslacy all over again. As i was saying. Not that men dont need therapy. There isnt therapy for men that is suited for them, because most of therapists are women. Just going to ignore the part where there are literally places that offer men directed treatment. Or how the title is about finding men more treatment thecnics. As i was saying. Not that men dont need therapy. There isnt therapy for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?There are hundreds of thousands of scholarships for women on gender studies, but almost none for men. The increase of men on psychologists ranks means nothing? Also gender studies are their own science. Psychology is another science with the Cambridge dictionary explaining as the study of mind and behaviour. How is that genderish? You based on your own projection of your views on me and you retaliated with what YOU thought i meant, taking my words and bringing them your own meaning and at the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Don't men have feelings? Don't men need support to help with their struggles? It's really just a projection? How? Psychology IS by definition the study on mind and behaviour. How is cognitive psychology for example only validated women struggles? biopsychology? You know the psychobiology, neuroscience psychology? I would love to see actual proof of how men don't need therapy when we do have proof that it actually positively improves suicide rates among men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Who said you need to be mentally ill? If you are mentally ill you have to seek a psychiatrist since you will need a doctor to address the physical aspects of mental disorders. Again you know you are not mentally ill if you avoid psychological symptoms? Going to therapy ALSO can benefit one from finding out there their problem goes beyond normal issues. Are you just running away from actually giving answers and keep on with the word fallacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:28 AM |
| – | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I already do. Why won't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Sure that may all be true. So let's agree on that if you are having a relationship problems taking them to therapy is a good way to find out what is wrong. Does nothing to change the fact that men going to therapy gives women the ick Really? Are these scientifically proven rates? Have you seen the proportion of domestic violence? I mean having partners that don't go to therapy means having partners that don't work through anger issues. Wasn't there a survey that said 92% of adults actually prefe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?What if you are actually traumatized? To acknowledge and take accountability isn't the first step to ending trauma? You do know that men are dying by the buckets over mental health right? I mean something is clearly wrong and acting the way you are is not helping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Women complain about not being appropriately considered or diagnosed by physicians all. of. the. time. That doesn't prevent us searching for doctors. One thing its to demand to be treated better and another is to avoid treatment at all You are really just using "emotions" as a minor thing and completely disregarding the direct correlation that it has with behaviour, neurology, health, et Al Why aren't men in need to connect with emotions if they have such a direct impact over actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Therapy gives you a path to reflect on yourself. Self awareness doesn't restrict itself by a problem per se. Either way how are you going to fix problems without reflecting on them? Therapy will bring reflection with explanation on why your problems happen as a way to stop them from happening. It will also give you the right tools to improve yourself and deal with life events. Why talking about your problems wouldn't help you fix it? It's a science because it was proven as something that exists … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?These men, if by some cruel twist of fate they can find a woman that will marry them It's not a cruel twist of fate when you acknowledge that abusers lie, manipulate, and actually create a whole persona to convince the victim that he is a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:02 AM |
| 7 | Another reason why some men can't do LTR with women and either go volcel or the spinning platesThat's self sabotage. Clear as water. You start a relationship with a huge and often burdening secret . Act like there is nothing wrong. You call stoic I call it being emotionally closed. You pass MONTHS like that THEN out of the blue goes "so I have this life changing shit right here" Can't you see it? Whoever is bound to feel like they don't know you and rightfully so. You were acting there nothing then suddenly changing the narrative. Every single person will feel "cheated" and "lead upon" Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:39 PM |
| – | Do men even like women anymore?Got it! Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce?Yeah right. It's so irrelevant that we don't argue in court. Assets splitting is just splitting The need to penalize someone for leaving you is what? I don't need it, because you already answered it. You know it's irrelevant to the actual conversation hence not pointing relevance. "Oh because she left" pure pettyness I would hope so much that it was just projecting. it's always the same old thing. You want to put blame and we already know the only side you are blaming If I'm wrong just restore m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:05 AM |
| 4 | Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce?And because we can't force people to live all their lives unhappy with someone this is relevant on splitting assets you not only built together but also agreed it would be shared by signing legally binding documents.. how again? Again. Relevance. You know what. Don't answer I saw enough proof on your reasons. It's just boring and tiring. Go dig new bigotry stuff and come back with some different. The delusional normal whines are getting old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 09:07 AM |
| 2 | What societal scenario would make redpilled men happy?Girl you are talking to a wall. Have you seen his alignment? No one will convince me otherwise anymore . They do understand you. They Don't have real arguments. Know that they are being unreasonable. They just want to whine it out. You can see how every little thing that gets close to criticism gets them defensive. They even try to hide it is ALWAYS 'not all men speech (acting like you don't know that and it is obvious to figures of speech. AND ad hominem with DARVO speech. Truth is that as psyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:00 AM |
| 0 | Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce?But women are the ones causing the majority of divorces Relevance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:00 AM |
| – | Do men even like women anymore?Yes! You worldly this perfectly. That's exactly what happens and I think that using "non violent communication" is a way to make people less confrontational. We are at such an "edge' with each other that we just don't listen anymore Can I ask? "No pill" is aligned to a "side", is it middle ground or avoiding taking either side. If feminism today has way too many "fronts" I feel like there are too many pill colours 😂 Never got the whole greek letter using guys. Never heard of "no pill' curious in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Do men even like women anymore?No this is just you trying to trivialize his great comment. No. I'm not. There are GREAT ISSUES that need to be discussed. You are using not only mysogynist language. You are acting as if this is an accusation. It's not. Blaming masculinity for the consequences of hatred of men is just another example of societal misandry. It's not blaming masculinity. It's blaming mysogy that was used and perpetrated by "toxic" behaviour from men and women. Or are we ignore women again? I'm sad to inform you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Do men even like women anymore?I'm not fighting you. I'm not accusing you. I'm not denying women responsibility. I'm not being aggressive or calling you names It's not because it's named toxic masculinity it means it's "accusatory". There is toxic femininity also. I'll be waiting onb your argument on "how men cling to toxic femininity" and bla blá blá. It's not that we refuse to be called other things is THAT THE NAME is femism. YOU SHOULD be more keen on addressing problems than whining over the name we give things. Are you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Do men even like women anymore?I heard toxic masculinity from other men. If you are too deep on her confrontation. There is no chance of talking. Vent it out and get over it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Do men even like women anymore?Society pressure is not only from women. It happens to both genders I'm sorry but if you complain about people having standards.. that's pathetic. If people are not interested in you this is a problem. That's a whole index of how are increasing numbers in relationships where the women earn more and are higher educated than men. Your phrase seems anecdotal and stereotyped. Again if you can't attract people into having it wanting to be with you... It doesn't matter your gender. The problem is on y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men even like women anymore?I can't expect to change overnight but we do expect some change to start somewhere. It's up to men to create spaces that teach and focus on change. It's exactly because it's not a psychological thing for men that it must start to be one Men are dying by the buckets over lack of mental health, the question is how long will it take for wet to start having men movements or campaigns? It needs to start somewhere. Women can't do it for you. You guys need to organise yourselves and ignite behaviour ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Do men even like women anymore?No they are not. Women have safe spaces and today are 192 men "circles" to discuss masculinity Instead of assuming it won't work you should do it first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:35 PM |
| -3 | Do men even like women anymore?Again stop starting with provocative communication. Ask yourself if you want to just vent or there is really concern. Women make up over 50% of the population, they're peers/sisters/aunts/grandmothers, they're responsible for raising those boys from motherhood through school teaching, they're therapists and doctors, they're the people who men are going to find when they reach out for help. They are not the only ones responsible for raising boys. Where are the fathers? Where are men teachers? We … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:15 AM |
| 7 | Do men even like women anymore?I agree on the lack of support if male victims BUT let's face it where are the men forming such spaces? Literally I work with this and in my country that's not one single violence support group that receives male victims. The ones that exists are all created and maintained by women. Also I can affirm to you that passing through abuse is a limb severing thing with our without support. Yes it needs to be done more for male survivors BUT it's also part of men responsibilities. No one but yourselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Do men even like women anymore?Really? Examplify And do explain how this doesn't apply to men at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Do men even like women anymore?These minorities are quite concerning don't you think? It signals towards some deeper problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Do men even like women anymore?Women don't like men. T Really? We keep marrying and dating men for torture then? Just kidding ok? Women love men, as partners, as fathers, as sons the same way that men love women as partners, as mothers and daughters. The internet took gender bickering way worse then actually is They might like some men but by and large we are responsible for every bad thing in the world. Again. Really? Where are the facts that support these? All of this red pill included is a manifestation of that understandi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Do men even like women anymore?Kind of concerning viewing partners using "utility" as a measure. Is everything okay? Objectification as a way to think it's a mental health warning sign. How is therapy going? And enlighten us on why not just admit your homosexual undertones and avoid having relationships with women at all? Men love other men right? Why insisting on going after women? It's not like there is a tone of sex toys to use | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Do men even like women anymore?You mentioned an actual problem right there. The are lack of support groups and safe spaces for men. This is a fact On the other hand this is something only men can do for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Do men even like women anymore?I think that you did mention actual problems that need to be addressed but are also leaning on mysogynist language and interpretation. For instance when someone asks lets assume we don't know. Something like denying reasonable human development, can you elaborate? Other things like male loneliness, male health neglect, male health problems, violent behaviour,... Well you know toxic masculinity in general are all valid points. On the other hand you speak of women using the same bigot behaviour yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?My point was this site is full of sexist comments and threads, from women and men, and we don't need broader societal studies to recognize it's bad in all its forms. That's all. Yes we need. Because that's how we arm ourselves against it. If we keep ignoring and pretending it doesn't exist this behaviour will keep growing. I've reported so many heinous comments and most of the time nothing is done about them. So that's something that could be changed, but not through legislation, through maybe p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 03:09 AM |
| -1 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?I promise you I'm not trying to make you prove a point or whatever. If you pay attention I said many times that it does happen exactly as personal bigoted behaviour. I just want to make sure I understand, are you asking for evidence of the harms of women's sexism against men? Yes, but on a large scale. I'm assuming that you are referring to a thing that is wide spread and "organised" (share the same pattern). In large scale... Can you please give me an example and a consequence. Any kind of indi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:10 AM |
| -1 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Not like as a term. I mean it's not recognised as something "that actually happens" (maybe?) It's like it exists as a concept but not on actual behaviour or facts. The sexism against men is also labelled as misogyny rhetoric. But that's besides the point. What I mean is that it's not recognised as a structural and systematic behaviour. That's why people use racial discrimination as a comparable example. Racism is a structural and systematic behaviour that is intertwined with society's beliefs. R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Yeah mysandry it's not recognised as a "term". Like academically or scientifically. Sexism against men is labelled as part of misogynistic behaviour linked to how it's harmful for men and women alike. Basically it's viewed as a falacy. Also it's argued that allegedly misandry lacks structural or systemic prejudice and is just personal bias. Meaning that sexism exist as a personal bias but not in a way to be "endemic" (? Struggling to find a proper word here) It's compared with "reverse racism" i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 07:51 PM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?You were so much more levelled in this last one But you have no idea how personally infuriating it is to read you saying that women don't like you I'm literally telling you I will only make an argument if there is some benefit on the discussion. I don't see why entering on empty discussions I know you are wrong. I trust all the study I did. I trust the legislation. Pshicology, sociology, philosophical scientific bullshit that I read. I know that I sure as hell do more for men rights than you. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 08:22 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?I just glanced at the "dismissed men right to retire' And dude? ?????? I wish there will come the day where we don't need to have different ages to retire. Wtf Like I said before you are too deep on your own bias and not on support argument that really I can't argue with you because it would be dishonest on my part. You are not willing to be open to mature discussion. You are not open to being proven wrong and accepting in. You are not open to the very possibility that you may be wrong. And you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 06:25 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Denigrating men is also misogyny that's what people with PhDs say at least Can you give me an example of this happening? Just indulge me. When I ask women I'm given a whole lot of behaviour that is statistical right. But when I ask men I get mostly rhetoric and no trustworthy data. Its weird because if it happens where is the data proving it? From an argumentative point of view I can only defend something if I have enough proof. How we will change behaviour without science supporting our views? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 06:02 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?How is her hatred of men as a gender? Elaborate please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:20 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?I think there is some bias on your and other comments. I advise avoiding generalisation on doubting victims narratives... But what? Where can I find the case you mentioned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:13 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?I wish I was smoking something, but I advocate for victims and god.... You need to study so hard. All the time. Really if you get on the scientific part of internet you will see it there are years of studies on every area getting on the same conclusions. I'm not picking up a fight but are you giving the benefit of doubt to the person talking about abuse? Are there really so many people lying? We should not blame victims and the first thing is believing they are telling the truth There are so man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:07 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?I will look at it. You know for me personally feminism is about equality and equity. That means we cannot tolerate this type of behaviour period. Especially from other women Do you know why we say that mysandry doesn't exist? Because it has a lot to do on how misogyny negative affects men and how it sabotages or clinical and rational thinking. Like it's literally a concept that affects our perception of reality and it's not structural. Try looking at this one day. It enlightens us on how sexism … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 04:43 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Where are these subs? Really. The subs I read are not like that. Cheaters are scumbags no matter the gender. There is no emotional neglect, there are people abusing another person's trust. Nobody in these subs seems to get when I say but... Misogyny is the problem. It affects men and women equally. Treating women as unable to be violent is from patriarchy notions. Demand concepts of "masculity" there are toxic is also from patriarchy. There is a trilogy on how masculinity was built and is all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:45 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Dude you are so wrong that I struggle here. Have to get over the lack of words. Because it's so deeply wrong that honestly... I really hope you are either just young or that you have other reasons besides plain prejudice. I love etymology and I just can't let it go. Equity at least in my mother language comes from Latin "aequitas" and it's by origin defined as "just" or "what is just. Plato used to say that is "the disposition to acknowledge the other rights" I can change it and use symmetry if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:02 AM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Is it? How is your take on mostly women double shifts? Unpaid service? I think anyone should complain when you work double shifts and one of them is unpaid that you should at least retire early. Also maternity takes more than time over bodily strength. It's not all equality without equity and not considering this example is just an empty argument. Equity is about giving the same conditions, like building ramps for people that can use stairs. Women live longer because they take better care of hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Say the privileges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?This is so petty. Like s Bunch of kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:27 AM |
| -2 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Is about equity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?They don't have it. That's why I return to ask you instead. There is a whole thing about accusing their behaviour Having a law because you can die not at your house with the men that might you is no privilege. A woman diying in her house by the person who loves her if awful . Why not blame abusers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:24 AM |
| -16 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Pro woman is funny. Such delulu thing So men don't love women and support it fights. They just want to get laid. Ok. Will death warn the others Women get pain dismissed on hospitals. We are definitely not making ourselves victims. Killing us is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:16 AM |
| -2 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Because it's often a lot of lack of accountability from men. Divorce is great for both genders. Psychotic men are idolised as the success guy. He is the rich child business men that taught thrive at the model of society There are male victims who stop pretending that only women pass through this Now have you ever seen a movie with a psychopath? They literally live their lives deceiving and using others. Wtf. Yes women were manipulated and yes men were manipulated too. Psychopaths don't have empa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do women pick the worst partners?Really? Where? Male victims exist to. "Women like abuse' Women die every 8 minutes. At least 200 men per month AND BLAMING THE VICTIM is a double standard The sheer lengths you go. Again the criminals don't do nothing. It's the victim who likes to be in a position of abuse getting brain damage and shit Men are statistically more perpetrators DEAL WITH IT. don't fucking run away with bullshit. If you can't hold a criminal accountable you agree with them. So many men are doing it. So many. The maj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women pick the worst partners?Sure dude! People CHOOSE a manipulative full of shit person that if lying to you. Obviously Choosing a person that can literally give you brain damaged, PTSD, depression, anxiety, fibromyalgia and even disorders for the rest of your life to say the least. Of bloody course you will choose someone that willingly is destroying you, torturing you, because they OBVIOUSLY COME WITH A SIGN IN THEIR HEADS RIGHT? So you literally believe that this guy is just one bad person, and you know it's not HIS FAU… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?She is being abusive and he should leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do women pick the worst partners?Basic for you it doesn't matter that "he gets picked up" because he is committing a crime, gets your trust manipulation, coerces you and all ONLY/ WIT THE SOLE objective of destroying you. They can give you permanent brain damage, pshicology conditions, and financially drained you... AND THE VICTIM CHOOSE THAT. Not his fault for being criminal then. The victim should be a mind reader and JUST KNOW. OH and instead of going to these people who criminally pick someone in order to again (for the dee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:40 AM |
| -2 | Why do women pick the worst partners?Why aren't men better partners? Why aren't men debating how to enforce better behaviour on their peers? I'm sick of this victim blaming shit. If you don't know that abuse literally is about MANIPULATION it's fucking hard to discuss it. Why do people (men and women alike) choose wrong? Give a fucking break. They didn't otherwise choose! the abuser LIED ABOUT HIMSELF/HERSELF. Pretending to be a good person.DECEIVE you purposely. Manipulate you to think they are "perfect" little human beings. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do women need to improve?It's a vetting problem because, because as our little thought experiment showed, there's little you can do for a victim once they fall for the manipulation. They have to come to the conclusion to end the relationship on their own. It's an abuser committing a crime problem alongside with a "we will pretend we are not talking about a crime here because my ego needs it" Little to be done is nothing to be done. We do what we can. And when one opens her eyes we welcome him or her with open arms. We w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do women need to improve?fell for manipulation early Amazingly enough you can see this, but continue to blindly forget how it turns to criminal behaviour. You victim blame everyone you think that this is a vetting thing. Go vet the perpetrator behaviour. You said it yourself "the victim is being manipulated' well yes that's why it's part of a crime, that's why the abuser knows what he/she is doing. It's called emotional, psychological abuse because of that. You blame your mum for being a victim? Then you have child trau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:34 PM |
| – | Women, what do women need to improve?When did I blame women for anything??? Funny how I said victims and you heard women. The rest is more victim blaming and no accountability for criminal behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do women need to improve?Still it's the perpetrator fault. Missed the whole part about going on different forms of abuse right? Makes so much sense now why you victim blame.you should go to therapy. For real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do women need to improve?Would keep telling her to keep her eye open be careful and ask for help if anything happens. You are trying to say she could have gone away. The thing is you keep ignoring that Manipulation and abuse don't start out of nowhere. Is a calculated action where the abuser starts the abuse after a long time. For example after marriage or after having a baby The point is to cross boundaries slowly with lots of gaslighting to make the victim doubt herself or himself. Domestic violence has a scale. So no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do women need to improve?Would tell her to run away. Obviously. People who defend violence tend to be violent themselves. 'Blaming the victim' for domestic abuse is something that abusers often do to make excuses for their own behaviour. This is part of the pattern of abuse. Sometimes abusers convince their victims that they are to blame for the abuser's behaviour – it's part of controlling the victim.' - said every study ever. 'Furthermore, victim blaming is at the heart of the pattern of coercive control, making it on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Women, what do women need to improve?No dude. I always said that men and women suffer abuse. I even asked if you are also male victims to be mind readers too. You are ignoring the fact because you can't get out of your little victim's blame narrative . No sir. Thank god not all men are blind and lack basic empathy. I'm luckily married to one. It's not all men at all. You are. You align yourself with crime and put the blame on the victim to maintain your ego. Obviously you are trying to say I blame all men. It's all you can do after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 11:12 AM |
| -2 | Women, what do women need to improve?I'm not expecting anyone to be magically better. Although this should be a world wide goal. I'm not talking about going on a bad date. I'm talking about you saying it's a vetting issue when the other part CHOOSE to perpetrate something that is CRIME. How the actual fuck is the person who was manipulated, coarse and abused be more responsible than the one who deliberately chose to be abusive? We should just pretend it's not a crime? Why is a fucking "vetting thing" and not a "what the fuck. You a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:45 AM |
| -2 | Women, what do women need to improve?I mean they should be, but she isn't in control of "the men" she is in control of her self and should learn to stay away for bad men... Again you are victim blaming. Abusers don't come with a sign on their heads! They choose to fool you. They pretend to be good people. They only show their colours after you are deep in the relationship. There are studies showing how abusers wait to be married to start being abusive. Again how do you learn to be a way of bad people? They are acting. They choose t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 08:33 AM |
| -1 | Women, what do women need to improve?Why don't men have to be better? You know the demand for abusive behaviour be unacceptable. Help to diminish bad people in general. Why does woman be the only responsible? And how? How you will you choose if an abusive person doesn't start being abusive? They show their colours later. Also why aren't the abusers being blamed here? Why their behaviour is not being held accountable while pretending that the victim "choose" wrongly. I thought abuse was a crime and we should hold the abuser accounta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderDo you read Portuguese? Because I have so much data that contradict everything you said. Also maybe you really need to go after what unpaid, unrecognised work means. We are not impersonating anything when you do something everyday that would be paid to be done for anyone else. Justice recognises as work you know that right? Do you need compliance data as to why your argument doesn't apply? Or can we talk about how house work should be paid? The only persons who are doing labor that are not being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderMen DO NOT oppress women by absorbing their student debts, paying mortgages for their houses, providing for them financially when they are most vulnerable, and by allowing 23% of those of them that are married to live modern Western lifestyle without having any wage income. Men do exploit women when you forget that be a stay home wife as being a mother IS a full time job. "The man that bring wages"? Can only fully dedicate himself to his career because every other necessity is being done for him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderYou have no clue on how actual cases of divorces and child support works Literally no clue. I'm sorry but you are so far off that it is hard to explain. I'm tired right now but if I have the inspiration I will come back to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderThe point here being that women used "being stuck on comparation" as a tool to prove their oppression by men. Now, when women used this tool to get concessions for themselves at men's expense... you demand we abandon it. JUST IN TIME, innit. But there is oppression. Each concessions really? Really shouldn't all oppression be abandoned? Why maintain something that hurts others? Women don't do "the same job" as men. You take 10 women and 10 men and tell them to unload trucks full of bricks or grav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderGeez I gave you examples where there is loneliness in women. Basically Asked how can you dismiss the existence so fast not being a woman and lacking data (I do have data. A lot in Portuguese) Then Asked you where did you information come from. Because again I know for a fact that support groups aimed for men are mostly being created by women. AND said this was a problem. AND ASK WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO SOLVE IT Pointed out you were sexist. Asked why and each ground do you have to just toss aside w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 10:46 AM |
| 3 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderWomen Women Women: "Wage gap! Glass ceiling! Percentage of female CEOs! But women ATTEMPT suicide more! Only N women in parliament!" So these are not issues that should also serve attention? Or you just try to pull an "important comparison" Are you please on being the group with the highest rate of concluded suicides? Because I would not. If women try more than we need then to try less. If men are due more then we should help them to stop doing this. Equity is the right (if I can be bold) to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderAre you generous or waiting for a little star because you were a good boy/girl? Again generosity, empathy, sympathy don't expect something in return. You do because someone need and it feels right. You do it because the other person needs. Not because you will receive anything. It's too out yourself on another shoe and think outside you belly button what you can do. If you were on the other side what would you feel. You do feel empathy right? I'm done with narcisists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 10:20 AM |
| -2 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderOk so where are you numbers? Because Im at least searching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderEmpathy is about stepping out of your comfort zone and helping another because they need it. Stepping aside if it is needed for a moment and seeing the other point of view. The purpose is to help bring up a better person without wanting a reward. If you can't feel it for other people surely other people's rummy feels sympathetic towards you. Why should you? Because that person needs a reality chock maybe? If it's your smallest problem then it should be easier to help.. Genoristy starts on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:52 AM |
| -1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderAhhh You should look more before saying something's Are you ab woman? A researcher? Scientist? How and what proof do you have to say it doesn't exist? Let's try to not use self opinions to evaluate people. If you look up on child birth depression you will be enlightened in an actual factual case of lonely women just for example. So let's solve it! Why are we neglecting mens? What the fuck if this happening? Why are other man not raising awareness? So I have to be the bearer of hard truths but at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderWhat is the benefit in being a victim? A sorry Roman bring that deserves pity and probably fucked get life? Where is the good thing about having pity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderQuestions Does one gender having issues annulate the other? Why can't both exists for different reasons? . Is there a competition? Because having it worse should cause more discussion on fixing it Why can't we just fight for giving men not support? Some problems are not just the person problem. Have you seen suicide rates? Especially with men? Where is the pricelege? Because mans? Are not taken seriously reporting abuse, have trouble to find support and are often judge as less manly by society i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderWhy on earth you want to punish who leaves a marriage when you know about the oh so large margin on abuse? You will be benefiting abusers (like it happened trough our whole history) Divorce is not a reward as you lose assets, incoming, work and a lot of other things. Literally marriage are good for government's for a reason. Do you want me to show you cases? Child support it's not getting money believe me. Children are very very VERY expensive little things. Also any pensions for an ex are time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderave never heard anyone say “heck, now I have to stay”. For at fa If you ever in your life deal with domestic violence victims you WILL hear all The "I have to stay because I can't support my kids" The "I have to stay because they're is no where to go" The "I have to stay because that's our duty" And many (so fucking many others) Believe me the whole "I have to stay" line can be very true Just for me really understand what is a fault divorce? It's when someone just wants to leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:29 AM |
| 0 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderSo I live in a country where a union is not marriage but kind of works like one is recognised... And it's not divorce. There is the fact that we have a lot of unions that are temporary but really most of the obligation one gets after a divorce is about responsibility specially with children rights than any other thing The fact is that (and I'm talking history here) marriages were more about having a possession than a relationship. Like women in my country didn't have the right to own bank accoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:20 AM |
| 0 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderWell the problem exists in someway for every group. We shouldn't compare who have it worse. We should focus on making it better for anyone that feels this way. Literally, yes elderly people are one of the most lonely groups but that doesn't matter on the fact the other groups also have the same issue It's normal to focus on the group who is having the"worse"in numbers but the issue is still the same for others and should also be taken care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:34 AM |
| 11 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderAll my life I have railed against the idiocy of people confusing the general with the specific: "In general group A suffers more than group B from that issue, so I will dismiss the specific claim of this person in group B who says they have that issue." This hits me to the core. Because that's it. It's not a bloody competition on suffering all suffering should stop and bad things happens to anyone no matter gender. I work on ongs that deal with domestic violence and what you said is the truth: t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Women Love to Invalidate Men's Experiences1_ if women are the only one to decide if abortion occurs or not cause they are the one getting pregnant, than women should be the one responsible on taking the pill since men aren't the one that gonna suffer from pregnancy yet a lot of people push men to take the reproduction responsibly You do know that isn't about what any part choose or not right? It's about the child that needs to be taken care. An abortion doesn't deny a right to anybody but taken out child support just enables one part to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Women Love to Invalidate Men's ExperiencesWhat discrimination in education? About discrimination and normalised shaking parents there is no need to put gender on this we should put people who discriminate at there place as criminals. All should be prosecuted. Same as in parents who neglect their children. Now if you say that we need to bring this issues to light mote often? Sure. The notion that woman are unable to do harm also comes from patriarchy. Women can be criminals, can be abusive etc. It just feels like other issues would be le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Women Love to Invalidate Men's ExperiencesEach privilege honestly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeBlablabla | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeGo into MWD, try tackling 0.5-1.5 ton steel pipe sections for 8 hours straight, then come back and repeat this really really idiotic claim. I swear to god y'all lost all shame. 17 hours of your body literally moving up your bones for the baby passing. One of the biggest pains a human body can take and we are forgetting all the pain during pregnancy So really slowly: Pregnancy is one of the hardest and more taxing things a body can experience Also is this a competition? I was not aware it was som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 09:41 AM |
| 7 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeSome examples Blaming single mothers for being single mothers. Basically saying that the reason why she is single is her fault for choosing wrong. Saying single mothers are only interested on the guy money. Saying that single mothers despised the "good guys"and then want to make them "take care of another man sperm" Saying that single mothers are for play does not fit relationships. That they are "loose" after the baby or "destroy their body already' That they are "hoes" that don't care about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…Dude this is such a stereotypical discussion. The way the society works says that. If you lived in a relationship you know that things like caring for your own house only if there is a discussion about house duties there is a problem. And it's an appreciation/ lack of someone part problem. Also basic logic here. If he was asked to do that is because he wasn't doing it before. He is clearly not proactive because he had to ask her what to do. Not only that but she feels like he simply doesn't care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…Dude no. If a relationship is transactional then you go back to the problem I stated. It's obvious that this guy is not pulling his weight with his duties. Chances are that house chores are only one thing. It's already bad to get this answer and if he only started to do something after she told him so. He is not doing it because he cares about her and is trying to "trade" one "good deed" for sex. And he is trying to imply that she owes him that. And Doing your part at your house is not something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…No it couldn't. It's exactly to keep someone in a shitty situation that someone would do that The guy in your example is trying to pass on as a victim while he is not pulling any effort on his relationship at all. Then he tries to say that "he did something" and poor him didn't get anything on return. Geez is not that hard to see who is being shitty Let's see here if a woman says she will only have sex with her husband if he gives her gifts. It's the same thing except that you know that this rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…Good joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…No it's not. If you don't get this you are just going a long way to prove something that just isn't like that. Or you have problems with empathy and relationships with others. The guy in your example is acting like it's a quid pro quo kind of thing while everyone knows it's not like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…Let's find this study then https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-11134563/amp/Men-improve-sex-life-doing-household-chores-study-suggests.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 09:12 AM |
| 11 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…Obviously if the core is done because he wants to increase intimacy won't work. Because it will feel like the person is only doing their part for a prize. When the actual problem is that the person asking for help wants someone willing to help her, not because they will have sex but because the person recognises that the other is overwhelmed with chores for example. Doing chores hopping to get something back doesn't feel like love. Doing chores because you know your partner needs help (and that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 08:54 AM |
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